Take it from a seasoned man in his 50s. If you don't have any children, you have nothing to worry about. It's fine if you spend the next 2 years living under a bridge. When you get ready to make your big move, you will, and all of your experiences in life will prove themselves valuable.
You aren't a failure due to not having a car, house, or business. Those are hollow status symbols. You're a failure because you've given up on yourself.
This is something I need to remind myself of. Very true. It depends on what your values are, how healthy physically ,and going from there. I've also wasted my life and fretted years more worrying about it. It's no way to live, and neither is chasing empty symbols of other people's norms or approval.
Daniel I am pretty sure anybody who just worked and was “productive” their whole 20s will also think they wasted it and would have preferred spending more time travelling and being free like you did. People always want what they don’t have or didn’t do.
A great way to feel better about yourself is to donate your money, time, or labour to charities! You should feel much happier and better about yourself than the most “successful” and richest miser.
You're not alone, at least you learnt Japanese, I spent my whole 20s severely obese and locked up in my room. Naturally I am 38 now and still severely behind others and no one wants a bar of me
Its never too late to learn a new skill and many courses are online so you never need to go to a college or uni. 30s is still young, you just need commitment.
Have you wasted your 20s though? You did exactly what you wanted and not what was expected of you. Perhaps you’re feeling negative now as you’re comparing yourself to others who are deemed “successful” by socitey. One of the admirable qualities of yours is leaving jobs, relationships and anything that didn’t serve you. You always chose yourself and you should be proud of yourself for that
I am 24, and I turn 25 in seven months. I feel like I've wasted lots of time in college studying topics I didn't really care about. I had zero relationships so far. I didn't leave my country. I am jealous of Daniel's 20s, honestly.
Like you said in your video, Youre going to Japan AGAIN and not gonna do noting. So my question is: Why are you going to Japan then? Just a waste of money and more time in your life, right? with this video you got to the conclusion that you wasted your 20s with this BS and youre going there again another mistake.... THIS IS INSANE
I've never been to japan, or anywhere in asia, in my life. So to me, traveling to Japan sounds interesting and not like a waste of time. ESPECIALLY if you speak japanese. (which I don't, but Daniel does, so he can get a lot more out of Japan than I can)
At least you got to be with a lot of women in your 20s. I’m 25 and I’ve always only lived for the future, which has served me well since I was able to buy a property. But I’ve only ever had one relationship in my life, which ended over 4 years ago. And I have zero idea how I’ll ever manage to attain another relationship. I work from home and rarely leave my house. Going on ten days straight without leaving the house now. Just because I am financially savvy and have adequately set myself up for the future does not make me any more fulfilled than you are right now. I work so that one day I may have enough saved and invested to do what you are already doing now, going to japan every year and never having to work a real job. I am taking a 15 day trip to Japan this year but someday I want to be able to stay for months like you. It’s easy to complain about what we don’t have in life, and I think you should be grateful for what you do have. You have experiences traveling that most people could only dream of, and you have a supportive family who has always been there for you despite everything you have done. Besides it doesn’t matter that you don’t own any assets since you’ll inherit your mum’s million dollar house someday. And you’ve lived a lot more exciting life than I ever will.
Hi, Daniel. You're my age and you reeeally don't look it. The first thing you should realize is that most guys don't really get their stuff together until their 30s. There are so many people on youtube that have fallen into the trap of feeling like they've wasted their youth by their 30s because of how the internet has groomed us to feel like how we should be by a certain age. Just relax and go at your own pace. I just got my driver's license at 35, found my first real job, got my first car, and went on a date for the first time in my life. There are soooo many people our age going through this, so just know that you're not alone. The reflecting that you're doing is a good thing, as it tends to be a good motivator. Just use that as a tool to work your way towards something more tangible, and don't try to force or rush anything. You still have plenty of time to get your life in order, dude. This is coming from a guy who had a total mental breakdown at 34 and felt the same way you were feeling.
As a person who was kind of in your situation. Don't compare yourself to others. Don't dwell too much on the past. Be grateful every day Never compromise your Is core values. And start journaling your thoughts. Peace.
@@TB-us7el You can still be grateful and pursue bigger goals than yourself. If you're not grateful for what you have, you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Because nothing will be good enough. It will be like chasing ghosts in a baron field.
I have just turned 40 and i can tell you that your 30's are the last decade you have to be and feel young (in my experience) Once you hit 40, it's over, you are now officially old and out of the youth era. So my advise to you is to really enjoy these last few years of being young, rather than look back regretting and being negative. Accept where you are at and go have fun, sleep around, party, explore and enjoy being young, because after 40 you have to start making more responsible life decisions. Also, you're extremely young looking for your age, so that is a nice advantage to have over most people.
@@OraOraOra I can only speak from my own experience, but when i turned 40 i felt my brain change, almost like a mental puberty, i suddenly felt more mature, wiser. Things that i once cared about when i was younger i suddenly didn't care about or value as much anymore, like i just gave less of a fuck about certain things, so it's not bad or scary, i actually kind of liked the change, im more evolved, more me. I also started to grow hair on my shoulders.... i think 40 is when you start to slowly turn into your Dad. haha
Ambition doesn't get you anywhere in life. Most people who pretend to have achieved something because of ambition are actually trustfund babies who bought their success with daddy's money. Everyone ages, and everyone is unhappy about it. If you had a good time when you were young, be glad about it. Many people don't even get that. "One day you will die, just as confused as you are now." - Masood Boomgaard
I am 59 and a complete waste of space. I'm also useless and a failure and everything I've ever tried to do has gone wrong. I've also got no friends - but then that's how I like it.
Hey there fellow Daniel, don't be too hard on yourself mate. I just turned 35 last September so I completely understand how you are feeling. I too had "Peter Pan syndrome" and pretended as though I would never grow older but here I am now. At least you look great for 34! :)
As for me, I stopped caring about societal expectations when I was 25 … and I never really wanted to be part of society as it’s sick, materialistic and immoral. I’m better off being a hermit. Sometimes, I feel it would be nice if I just lived in a cabin on a snow mountain.
You are more likely to succeed in your 30’s. Don’t give up on yourself. I «wasted» half my 20’s drinking, partying and traveling. I do not regret it. The other half I spent saving money, working, had a child and started my bachelors degree that I’m done with next year. I’m turning 30 this year. Work on your work ethics, work on your self, get your education. you will be fine.
i "wasted" my 20's. but really i was just having loads of fun as often as possible as an attempt to undo all the horrible years i had growing up and hating every day of my life. It actually worked to a degree, but also around 30 i had built nothing
I don’t have a house, car or children and I’m 34. It’s really not that uncommon. I live a really basic life just living in my tiny studio apartment and I’m saving up for a condo or house. At least you are living on your own right now away from your mom’s house.
Youve built up a TH-cam channel business . Thats not a failure. You are a content creator. I remember your early content about mastibating at your workplace. You had some of the most hilarious stories.
Honestly I think people will always feel like they've wasted their twenties (or whatever). If you focused on fun, you'll feel like you didn't accomplish anything and didn't do anything for your future, if you did _that_ instead, you'll feel like you missed out on life and are now just getting old with no possibility to ever experience what you have missed out on. Aside from that I'm pretty sure that whatever happens was meant to happen, so you couldn't have done anything about it anyway.
I am ten years older than Daniel and even I am at odds with my age. About two years ago I woke up with horrid lines under my eyes ,lines I have earned, but really did not ask for or want -_-
@@TB-us7el Comparing yourselves to others is a good way to set goalposts for yourself and where you should be. Look at yourself too to figure out where you are and to prevent setbacks. In the end, yes, be better than you were yesterday, but if all that is is you didn't lay in bed all day then you're still going to be isolated from your friends who hold good jobs, have a family, house, etc.
@@KOSJ153 Daniel's parents took little interest in him, should he compare himself to people who had lots of parental support? How can anyone say where they *should* be unless someone else has lived their exact life and that can't even be said of identical twins.
Even though you're nearly 35, Its good you've not only accepted the mistakes made but also working to slowly fix them. Some people go their entire lives in denial blinded by their own flaws, they blame the world and not themselves. Happy birthday in advance.
Daniel, my sister and I have been seriously thinking about this, for we do care. First off, one thing to make clear is that you haven´t got to conform to anyone else´s molds, you don´t have to be 35 with the house and child and wife and dog and yada yada. Do what makes you happy, focus on that, doesn´t matter what it is. You have only one life, so use it to make yourself feel fullfilled-- nothing else, nothing more. Forget about expectations and stop comparing yourself to others, then you´ll be able to, at least, feel at peace with yourself. Thinking about future prospects for you, taking into consideration your abilities (mainly, speaking japanese, your multimedia skills and having great experience at doing "cereal" and flirting) these three following career choices could suit you: 1- Host in japan, 2- s3xual worker in japan and 3- Corn industry in japan. With these three options you would have a- money, b- a career (therefore, a visa) and c- your s3xual needs covered. The upside to all of these is no attachments, easy money and no real responsibility over other people´s feelings. We know a downside could be social anxiety, however, considering all these options are mainly taking advantage of a pre-existing situation, and the people you would work for probably wouldn´t even care about anything as long as you show up, there are no hard feelings about it on any side, and no pressure at all. We hope it helps, take care. Regards from long time viewers xx
You should look at the things you accomplished You got to live in Japan multiple times / you got married there You got to live in Thailand You created a you tube channel with 100k plus subscribers So who cares you wasted your twenties ..you still did and are doing very cool shit
Luckily mate, its never too late to turn things around. I think this self-reflection is important. We exist to learn, I just hope you take the lesson and evolve.
Stay young at heart no matter who and how old u are. The heart will never grow old if u not let it. Like u like playing games.🎮 Play games.😊😉 In life just try to enjoy yourself.
'Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. ' You know what you want but you don't want to put in the work to make it happen. Also, you should never compare yourself to others. In many aspects, you have had done a lot, such as building a 100K TH-cam channel, living overseas, speaking a foreign language, dating cute Asian girls. Many guys would love to be in your situation. I just turned 40 and I feel like I'm just entering my prime career wise, even though my body definitely doesn't feel 20 anymore.
I am too, but I still do my thing. In my case it’s because I’m conscious and I rap in Greek, but whatever …. my music still connects with people and to me that means more than being famous and successful. I’d rather be unsuccessful and conscious than be successful and mainstream. Screw commercialism and screw being a sell-out. Quality over quantity.
The most important thing in life is freedom. And enough money to enjoy that freedom. Nothing else matters. I wasted my 20s NOT doing what you're doing. I focused my life on stockpiling resources (studying, working, investing) so I can achieve freedom... not working so well since life is too expensive. Time to end it all, I guess...
Daniel!! It's been quite awhile. I'm a long time Faniel but I stopped watching your channel(I was focusing more on my relationship and job). But saying that this is nothing particularly new but you still seem to be enjoying life. I'm glad--Hopefully one day you'll cultivate the life you want.
Hey bud I'm dealing with this too.. so take this with a grain of salt. But it's all a mindset followed by a relentless determination to get out of this slump. For example, your mindset could be getting in the way of your "big" thing, maybe you could take your skill of knowing Japanese and putting a program together and making content around how to improve, then sell your program, 1on1 training, course, etc..
You don't look 35 at all. You look like you're in your 20's. 😊I think you do add something to the table with your TH-cam channel. The very first video I saw of yours was "How being unemployed affected my mental health". I really appreciated that video, and it helped me during a challenging time in my life. I really enjoy your sit-down videos where you talk with us about many different things. I've also enjoyed seeing your adventures in Thailand, as I also spent a year living in Thailand in my mid 20's. I hope to visit Japan someday (it's on my bucket list). Learning Japanese is definitely not a waste of time. Best wishes to you, Daniel.
You don't look like you're in your 30s. But that's kind-of what I like about asian men (or asians in general): They tend to look younger than their own age
A great way to feel better about yourself is to donate your money, time, or labour to charities! You should feel much happier and better about yourself than how the most “successful” and richest miser feels about himself.
I’m 26 and just finished university. Still looking for my first proper role in law and co firm that life feels a bit different now. You are no longer in an environment where you are surrounded by people who have the same life circumstances as you. In every odd job I have worked I work with people much older than me. I feel sad for people who didn’t experience the university situation with making a good friendship group. It seems quite difficult to have lots in common with co workers. It must be quite difficult with dating also if you didn’t make university, you must compete and have to satisfy so many different requirements and expectations
" It must be quite difficult with dating also if you didn’t make university " ????? What ? ARE YOU SERIOUS ??? You know NOTHING, mate. Daniel is quite competent at procuring women even in an age where most men have simply given up. University guarantees very little in life, you are very naive.
Daniel 2024 predictions: new older Asian gf, at least 5 thousand in new electronics, gets dumped at least twice, channel gets popular again but only for a few weeks, new OF content, someone gets sick or dies in the family.
Finally Daniel is growing up. First time I have seen you I said this is what psychologists say "manchild'' but i never heard them call it syndrome. but it is. part of the problem from the parents when they take care of their children to the point that made them useless, they will do anything for them. they dont give them the chance to experince the real world. then when they grew up they become useless or naïve. Also, you cant keep blaming the parent when you grew up. you should face the world and learn from your mistakes. I remember that you were blaming your father for the slicest mistke. that you should take care of. you finally realized that you are wasting your time.. from time to time you can say some good stuff. maybe due to your experiences while traveling. but you still carrying that child mentality. you dont want to take responsibility.
I like you Daniel. Do not give up, you still can turn your life around, even at 35. If you do the right choices now, in 2 years your life will improve.
Suppose if all fails and you need to work again...I suggest becoming a plumber or electrician. Any sort of trade based job as it doesn't require a college degree. That, or you will have to network and connect with people to find a well paying job....we know how that will pan out for you. It's your life but your mother won't always be there for you. She needs to go back to God one day just like your dad. Then you're on your own.
You traveled, learned Japanese, did some really good art, grew a TH-cam channel, married, divorced, dated several women, lived in different countries and are learning about trading stocks. As volatile as the stock market is, at least you are learning about finance and part of an industry that is relevant everywhere in the world. Keep at it my friend. You are pretty smart apart from some of your decisions. Hoping you and your gf make it together. She seems pretty sharp and you have become closer to her. I noticed in your recent video you appear to be falling in love with her.
Take it from a seasoned man in his 50s. If you don't have any children, you have nothing to worry about. It's fine if you spend the next 2 years living under a bridge. When you get ready to make your big move, you will, and all of your experiences in life will prove themselves valuable.
Bro I am 38, the issue is though bro by the time your 50. You cant attract a fertile women, so when you're ready they won't be
You aren't a failure due to not having a car, house, or business. Those are hollow status symbols. You're a failure because you've given up on yourself.
He’s a failure because he looks like a boy and dates older women
great band
This is something I need to remind myself of. Very true. It depends on what your values are, how healthy physically ,and going from there. I've also wasted my life and fretted years more worrying about it. It's no way to live, and neither is chasing empty symbols of other people's norms or approval.
That was deep 😢
A house and business are not "status symbols". That is a terrible and delusional thing to say.
Daniel I am pretty sure anybody who just worked and was “productive” their whole 20s will also think they wasted it and would have preferred spending more time travelling and being free like you did. People always want what they don’t have or didn’t do.
A great way to feel better about yourself is to donate your money, time, or labour to charities! You should feel much happier and better about yourself than the most “successful” and richest miser.
100%. I spent my 20s just working building my career. I have a great career now but not much else going on lol
I did both and I feel great. Did everything I felt I needed and wanted and now I’m ready for 30
You're not alone, at least you learnt Japanese, I spent my whole 20s severely obese and locked up in my room. Naturally I am 38 now and still severely behind others and no one wants a bar of me
Being skinny youthful looking and healthy is better than millions
He fattened up a bit mate, you can see comparing to his past videos.
He’s thinner and more youthful looking than most 30-something year olds
@@Kurt-t9h i know but you can’t deny he is aging as with everyone else. Our bodies change when we grow old.
@@幸せ777 that’s true
30 is the new 20 Daniel. Don't let your peers drag you down.
Disagree-
30’s are better. 20’s are just for learning. Now you know more
Its never too late to learn a new skill and many courses are online so you never need to go to a college or uni. 30s is still young, you just need commitment.
i started learning programming at age 35.
Have you wasted your 20s though? You did exactly what you wanted and not what was expected of you. Perhaps you’re feeling negative now as you’re comparing yourself to others who are deemed “successful” by socitey. One of the admirable qualities of yours is leaving jobs, relationships and anything that didn’t serve you. You always chose yourself and you should be proud of yourself for that
He did do a lot of traveling and met a lot of girls. I wish I did more of that in my 20s
I am 24, and I turn 25 in seven months. I feel like I've wasted lots of time in college studying topics I didn't really care about. I had zero relationships so far. I didn't leave my country. I am jealous of Daniel's 20s, honestly.
I’m only 25 but similar to how you described. I don’t feel I’ve wasted 20s but I feel preassure to conform which is really getting to me now
@@biggiesmalls3096 conforming is no guarantee that you’ll be happy though
Whenever I feel bad, I look at this guy's channel and feel instantly better.
How can this guy be so be full of pity for himself?
Because your a loser
Yeah, it's weird. I think he just sees things differently than most people. If I had travelled as much as him you wouldn't see me moping.
I thought I would never age too but when you get close to 40 reality hits you
reality like what ?
@@quanathan the reality that everyone ages and gets old unless they die
Perfect timeline: 18-22 get a degree, 22-28 work and make money, 28-35 invest the money you made with your job and look for financial freedom.
Like you said in your video, Youre going to Japan AGAIN and not gonna do noting. So my question is: Why are you going to Japan then?
Just a waste of money and more time in your life, right? with this video you got to the conclusion that you wasted your 20s with this BS and youre going there again another mistake.... THIS IS INSANE
I've never been to japan, or anywhere in asia, in my life. So to me, traveling to Japan sounds interesting and not like a waste of time. ESPECIALLY if you speak japanese. (which I don't, but Daniel does, so he can get a lot more out of Japan than I can)
At least you got to be with a lot of women in your 20s. I’m 25 and I’ve always only lived for the future, which has served me well since I was able to buy a property. But I’ve only ever had one relationship in my life, which ended over 4 years ago. And I have zero idea how I’ll ever manage to attain another relationship. I work from home and rarely leave my house. Going on ten days straight without leaving the house now. Just because I am financially savvy and have adequately set myself up for the future does not make me any more fulfilled than you are right now. I work so that one day I may have enough saved and invested to do what you are already doing now, going to japan every year and never having to work a real job. I am taking a 15 day trip to Japan this year but someday I want to be able to stay for months like you. It’s easy to complain about what we don’t have in life, and I think you should be grateful for what you do have. You have experiences traveling that most people could only dream of, and you have a supportive family who has always been there for you despite everything you have done. Besides it doesn’t matter that you don’t own any assets since you’ll inherit your mum’s million dollar house someday. And you’ve lived a lot more exciting life than I ever will.
I love this comment. Did you get out of your house, man?
Hi, Daniel. You're my age and you reeeally don't look it. The first thing you should realize is that most guys don't really get their stuff together until their 30s. There are so many people on youtube that have fallen into the trap of feeling like they've wasted their youth by their 30s because of how the internet has groomed us to feel like how we should be by a certain age. Just relax and go at your own pace. I just got my driver's license at 35, found my first real job, got my first car, and went on a date for the first time in my life. There are soooo many people our age going through this, so just know that you're not alone. The reflecting that you're doing is a good thing, as it tends to be a good motivator. Just use that as a tool to work your way towards something more tangible, and don't try to force or rush anything. You still have plenty of time to get your life in order, dude. This is coming from a guy who had a total mental breakdown at 34 and felt the same way you were feeling.
As a person who was kind of in your situation.
Don't compare yourself to others.
Don't dwell too much on the past.
Be grateful every day
Never compromise your Is core values.
And start journaling your thoughts.
Peace.
I question the grateful part, maybe be hungry for something better instead?
@jajaja7 I can dream, can't I?
@@TB-us7el You can still be grateful and pursue bigger goals than yourself. If you're not grateful for what you have, you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Because nothing will be good enough. It will be like chasing ghosts in a baron field.
"He is just a gutless nothing that sucks at life 😮"
-Negan
Didn’t expect you to be 35
Same, i stopped following him for a while
He looks 35 to me Asians age faster than most people should know that.
@@blacklyfe6881 true
I have just turned 40 and i can tell you that your 30's are the last decade you have to be and feel young (in my experience) Once you hit 40, it's over, you are now officially old and out of the youth era. So my advise to you is to really enjoy these last few years of being young, rather than look back regretting and being negative. Accept where you are at and go have fun, sleep around, party, explore and enjoy being young, because after 40 you have to start making more responsible life decisions. Also, you're extremely young looking for your age, so that is a nice advantage to have over most people.
This is scary ... I don't want to get older.
Why is 40 such a breakpoint?
@@OraOraOra because people have 18 years old kids at 40 years old usually, and only 20 more years to be old old, close to graveyard.
@@OraOraOra I can only speak from my own experience, but when i turned 40 i felt my brain change, almost like a mental puberty, i suddenly felt more mature, wiser. Things that i once cared about when i was younger i suddenly didn't care about or value as much anymore, like i just gave less of a fuck about certain things, so it's not bad or scary, i actually kind of liked the change, im more evolved, more me. I also started to grow hair on my shoulders.... i think 40 is when you start to slowly turn into your Dad. haha
@@OraOraOra I just turned 40 too and this is the age you look old all of a sudden
@@astronaut5009 Yep, when I think of 60, thats old for me...
It’s okay Daniel I am also wasting my 20s as we speak and just enjoy life the way you want to do.
yea we’re here watching this crap wasting time as we speak
Imagine if you left your japan chapter to when you turned 40 definitely wouldn't have been as fun.
Ambition doesn't get you anywhere in life. Most people who pretend to have achieved something because of ambition are actually trustfund babies who bought their success with daddy's money.
Everyone ages, and everyone is unhappy about it. If you had a good time when you were young, be glad about it. Many people don't even get that.
"One day you will die, just as confused as you are now." - Masood Boomgaard
Everyone wastes their twenties. That is unless you started your family in your twenties.
That’s still a waste because starting a family that early pretty much closes you from a lot of experiences you could have had
bad take, big cope
Jimi Hendrix didn't!
worst take i've ever heard. Please stop confining yourself to elon musk
Starting a family is not the only productive thing you can do. You could work for your community, work in a soup kitchen, start your own business.
I am 59 and a complete waste of space. I'm also useless and a failure and everything I've ever tried to do has gone wrong. I've also got no friends - but then that's how I like it.
tell us more
Aging sucks. Period.
Totally agree
start telling people you're 20, you look the part haha
Mommy feeds him comfy milk.
😂
he looks a lot younger than me and I am 24...
Hey there fellow Daniel, don't be too hard on yourself mate. I just turned 35 last September so I completely understand how you are feeling.
I too had "Peter Pan syndrome" and pretended as though I would never grow older but here I am now.
At least you look great for 34! :)
As for me, I stopped caring about societal expectations when I was 25 … and I never really wanted to be part of society as it’s sick, materialistic and immoral. I’m better off being a hermit. Sometimes, I feel it would be nice if I just lived in a cabin on a snow mountain.
You are more likely to succeed in your 30’s. Don’t give up on yourself.
I «wasted» half my 20’s drinking, partying and traveling. I do not regret it.
The other half I spent saving money, working, had a child and started my bachelors degree that I’m done with next year. I’m turning 30 this year.
Work on your work ethics, work on your self, get your education. you will be fine.
Oh a white women spent her time being a sloot and drinking, who woulda thought
Your life and circumstances don't compare to his though
Not too late.
i "wasted" my 20's. but really i was just having loads of fun as often as possible as an attempt to undo all the horrible years i had growing up and hating every day of my life. It actually worked to a degree, but also around 30 i had built nothing
I don’t have a house, car or children and I’m 34. It’s really not that uncommon. I live a really basic life just living in my tiny studio apartment and I’m saving up for a condo or house. At least you are living on your own right now away from your mom’s house.
I know that stage of regret. It feels like crap.
Youve built up a TH-cam channel business . Thats not a failure. You are a content creator. I remember your early content about mastibating at your workplace. You had some of the most hilarious stories.
He’s a real savage!!!!
Honestly I think people will always feel like they've wasted their twenties (or whatever). If you focused on fun, you'll feel like you didn't accomplish anything and didn't do anything for your future, if you did _that_ instead, you'll feel like you missed out on life and are now just getting old with no possibility to ever experience what you have missed out on. Aside from that I'm pretty sure that whatever happens was meant to happen, so you couldn't have done anything about it anyway.
I am ten years older than Daniel and even I am at odds with my age. About two years ago I woke up with horrid lines under my eyes ,lines I have earned, but really did not ask for or want -_-
Happy birthday to come, Daniel. Don't compare yourself to others, they didn't live your life - compare yourself to where you were yesterday
cope
@@KOSJ153 maybe, but also true, if you compare yourself to others how will that help, it will only demoralize you!
nice advice, but he is exactly where he was yesterday. i genuinely hope he gets better
@@TB-us7el Comparing yourselves to others is a good way to set goalposts for yourself and where you should be. Look at yourself too to figure out where you are and to prevent setbacks.
In the end, yes, be better than you were yesterday, but if all that is is you didn't lay in bed all day then you're still going to be isolated from your friends who hold good jobs, have a family, house, etc.
@@KOSJ153 Daniel's parents took little interest in him, should he compare himself to people who had lots of parental support? How can anyone say where they *should* be unless someone else has lived their exact life and that can't even be said of identical twins.
Even though you're nearly 35, Its good you've not only accepted the mistakes made but also working to slowly fix them. Some people go their entire lives in denial blinded by their own flaws, they blame the world and not themselves. Happy birthday in advance.
Daniel, my sister and I have been seriously thinking about this, for we do care. First off, one thing to make clear is that you haven´t got to conform to anyone else´s molds, you don´t have to be 35 with the house and child and wife and dog and yada yada. Do what makes you happy, focus on that, doesn´t matter what it is. You have only one life, so use it to make yourself feel fullfilled-- nothing else, nothing more. Forget about expectations and stop comparing yourself to others, then you´ll be able to, at least, feel at peace with yourself.
Thinking about future prospects for you, taking into consideration your abilities (mainly, speaking japanese, your multimedia skills and having great experience at doing "cereal" and flirting) these three following career choices could suit you: 1- Host in japan, 2- s3xual worker in japan and 3- Corn industry in japan. With these three options you would have a- money, b- a career (therefore, a visa) and c- your s3xual needs covered. The upside to all of these is no attachments, easy money and no real responsibility over other people´s feelings. We know a downside could be social anxiety, however, considering all these options are mainly taking advantage of a pre-existing situation, and the people you would work for probably wouldn´t even care about anything as long as you show up, there are no hard feelings about it on any side, and no pressure at all. We hope it helps, take care. Regards from long time viewers xx
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You should look at the things you accomplished
You got to live in Japan multiple times / you got married there
You got to live in Thailand
You created a you tube channel with 100k plus subscribers
So who cares you wasted your twenties ..you still did and are doing very cool shit
Luckily mate, its never too late to turn things around. I think this self-reflection is important. We exist to learn, I just hope you take the lesson and evolve.
30s is still young Danny
Ice and Kim called me an old man...
@@HidingInMyRoom1989 They were pricks tho
@@HidingInMyRoom1989 I mean when you met Ice, you were the nicest/most likeable person in the room
Kimberly was like "you're in your 30s, you're an old man, you should've known not to cheat"
Shes so dumb
why would you care what degenerate social rejects like them think @@HidingInMyRoom1989
Stay young at heart no matter who and how old u are.
The heart will never grow old if u not let it.
Like u like playing games.🎮
Play games.😊😉
In life just try to enjoy yourself.
Don't compare your experiences to others.
'Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. ' You know what you want but you don't want to put in the work to make it happen.
Also, you should never compare yourself to others. In many aspects, you have had done a lot, such as building a 100K TH-cam channel, living overseas, speaking a foreign language, dating cute Asian girls. Many guys would love to be in your situation.
I just turned 40 and I feel like I'm just entering my prime career wise, even though my body definitely doesn't feel 20 anymore.
Start making a 5 year plan now. Write down some things you want to accomplish by the time you turn 40.
Ill be 33 next month. Man and i feel like such a loser. Iam a failed rapper.
I am too, but I still do my thing. In my case it’s because I’m conscious and I rap in Greek, but whatever …. my music still connects with people and to me that means more than being famous and successful. I’d rather be unsuccessful and conscious than be successful and mainstream. Screw commercialism and screw being a sell-out. Quality over quantity.
He looks 18
The most important thing in life is freedom. And enough money to enjoy that freedom. Nothing else matters. I wasted my 20s NOT doing what you're doing. I focused my life on stockpiling resources (studying, working, investing) so I can achieve freedom... not working so well since life is too expensive. Time to end it all, I guess...
Just keep doing you, and compound interest works not just on investments but life itself
You will waste your whole life if you lack confidence, zest and and the ability to try.
I am 38 and ? You need to be thankful , some people die in their 20's
Daniel!! It's been quite awhile. I'm a long time Faniel but I stopped watching your channel(I was focusing more on my relationship and job). But saying that this is nothing particularly new but you still seem to be enjoying life. I'm glad--Hopefully one day you'll cultivate the life you want.
Hey bud I'm dealing with this too.. so take this with a grain of salt. But it's all a mindset followed by a relentless determination to get out of this slump. For example, your mindset could be getting in the way of your "big" thing, maybe you could take your skill of knowing Japanese and putting a program together and making content around how to improve, then sell your program, 1on1 training, course, etc..
I'm so glad to grow older, to move away from those darker years...Morrissey
30's are the new 20's dude!!
Plane crashes don’t happen often. They make the news. Statistically they are the anomaly not the norm
You don't look 35 at all. You look like you're in your 20's. 😊I think you do add something to the table with your TH-cam channel. The very first video I saw of yours was "How being unemployed affected my mental health". I really appreciated that video, and it helped me during a challenging time in my life. I really enjoy your sit-down videos where you talk with us about many different things. I've also enjoyed seeing your adventures in Thailand, as I also spent a year living in Thailand in my mid 20's. I hope to visit Japan someday (it's on my bucket list). Learning Japanese is definitely not a waste of time. Best wishes to you, Daniel.
Turning 33 soon, similar feels
Except I started getting unhealthy in my early 20s so had even less youth xD
😔if it makes you feel any better, i wasted my 10s
I am 24 now what to do so that I will not regret
Any suggestions?
Save your money. Be kind to people. Don't just quit something because of your emotions. Eh...
Make a boat load of money
You don't look like you're in your 30s. But that's kind-of what I like about asian men (or asians in general): They tend to look younger than their own age
Non-existence is the ultimate level of success. 😂😂😂😢😢😢
30 seconds in and all I can say is comparison is the thief of joy.
Daniel you’re my hero
A great way to feel better about yourself is to donate your money, time, or labour to charities! You should feel much happier and better about yourself than how the most “successful” and richest miser feels about himself.
I also traveled the world I get so bored easily so I rather travel between two or three cities
I relate to this except i didnt have fun in most of my 20s just was a carer so i needed more in the present adventure. Because i missed out on it
but you have us daniel
indeed, what greater gift is there than that? I knew someone who also had us, but decided to run away instead...bad move!
I’m 26 and just finished university. Still looking for my first proper role in law and co firm that life feels a bit different now. You are no longer in an environment where you are surrounded by people who have the same life circumstances as you. In every odd job I have worked I work with people much older than me. I feel sad for people who didn’t experience the university situation with making a good friendship group. It seems quite difficult to have lots in common with co workers. It must be quite difficult with dating also if you didn’t make university, you must compete and have to satisfy so many different requirements and expectations
" It must be quite difficult with dating also if you didn’t make university " ????? What ? ARE YOU SERIOUS ??? You know NOTHING, mate. Daniel is quite competent at procuring women even in an age where most men have simply given up. University guarantees very little in life, you are very naive.
@@eddenoy321 oh I know Daniel is the king. It’s just a theory I have from watching people from my old school life
I wish u had stuck to these kind of videos rather than ruin your marriage
I'm so sorry that u wasted your 20s, no offense but half of your 30s is also gone now. What do you plan to do with the other half of your 30s?
Go to japan
@@HidingInMyRoom1989and do what? Get a job or get married or both??
Neither. Just enjoy being in japan
@@HidingInMyRoom1989 please go outside rather than just staying indoors. hopefully find some cereal that wants to be on camera.
I go outside all the time
I dont think its possible to waste your 20s, you did what you wanted to do at that time
You don’t look a day over 21
I understand what Daniel is going through right now. Its called midlife crisis 😢
Man just live as a digital nomad nothing really matters
Can’t afford it anymore. I need to work in a physical location now
Daniel 2024 predictions: new older Asian gf, at least 5 thousand in new electronics, gets dumped at least twice, channel gets popular again but only for a few weeks, new OF content, someone gets sick or dies in the family.
He has OF content? ._.
Accumulate small assets, tripods, bags, etc. flip things, do flea markets or smth else.
If the Millennials that Boomers imagine existed, they would be this dude.
Having serial with girls around the world is better than owning a house and a car.
That’s true
better than being 80
You also got your drivers licence Daniel. Start hitting the road so you don’t waste that.
Finally
Daniel is growing up.
First time I have seen you I said this is what psychologists say "manchild'' but i never heard them call it syndrome. but it is.
part of the problem from the parents when they take care of their children to the point that made them useless, they will do anything for them. they dont give them the chance to experince the real world. then when they grew up they become useless or naïve.
Also, you cant keep blaming the parent when you grew up. you should face the world and learn from your mistakes. I remember that you were blaming your father for the slicest mistke. that you should take care of.
you finally realized that you are wasting your time.. from time to time you can say some good stuff. maybe due to your experiences while traveling. but you still carrying that child mentality. you dont want to take responsibility.
I like you Daniel.
Do not give up, you still can turn your life around, even at 35.
If you do the right choices now, in 2 years your life will improve.
Atleast you learned Japanese and experienced married life
Heck you don’t even need discipline to do that, you just need to continue the momentum
You accomplished a lot.
Suppose if all fails and you need to work again...I suggest becoming a plumber or electrician. Any sort of trade based job as it doesn't require a college degree. That, or you will have to network and connect with people to find a well paying job....we know how that will pan out for you. It's your life but your mother won't always be there for you. She needs to go back to God one day just like your dad. Then you're on your own.
I wasted my 20s chasing girls too. I should've spent that energy on my career and personal goals THEN look for a gf
I want to go to Japan to be around people who watch anime.
'I wasted my 30s...' - in progress 🙄
Yep i wasted my 20s to, sucks i know.
"... and I realize yeah I'm actually aging, I'm changing... my teeth are getting more and more yellow". bro, just brush your teeth... 😅
you've built a small community. if you could do something positive with it you'll be very successful
You traveled, learned Japanese, did some really good art, grew a TH-cam channel, married, divorced, dated several women, lived in different countries and are learning about trading stocks. As volatile as the stock market is, at least you are learning about finance and part of an industry that is relevant everywhere in the world. Keep at it my friend. You are pretty smart apart from some of your decisions. Hoping you and your gf make it together. She seems pretty sharp and you have become closer to her. I noticed in your recent video you appear to be falling in love with her.
Sounds like he should be a Japan travel consultant.
@@jason8ification that would make great content. He should try that lol
You can volunteer to help earthquake survivors?
Or he can use his influence to encourage others
The more you own, the more problems you have!
I can prescribe you the track from baz luhrmann, sunscreen. Listen and soak it in.
seems like you're doing okay
At least you aren't paying child support for kids you never get to see bro
Dude how about the level of Japanese that you learned and successfully living there? Many of us disagree with your take on this issue.
i feel like ive read this comment before