FIBROMYALGIA | A HUSBAND'S PERSPECTIVE

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  • Here is the video you have been waiting for! My interview with Mark. I think you will be interested in what his view is on Fibro and all aspects of living with someone with Fibro. His opinions are his own and obviously, everyone doesn't feel this way, but it's just interesting to see it from their perspective. Enjoy and see you next time.
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  • @jeremykeenan2024
    @jeremykeenan2024 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mark is wonderful, so supportive. It’s not easy supporting someone with a chronic illness but he is so kind and understanding, we all need a Mark !

  • @melissad8824
    @melissad8824 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I started crying when you two talked about the inability for her to work and then her feeling guilty when she does have a good day while he's off working. I feel the exact same way with my situation and my husband who works full time outside our home. I think it's that constant guilt and desire to work and inability to be a reliable employee for anyone that has driven me to push myself too hard in my decades long attempts to work from home. Thank you to you both for sharing such honest perspectives on your situation. It really is a huge help for others like myself struggling through the same issues.

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The guilt is so bad I understand. But, I am so lucky to have Mark who is so understanding. I still try to think daily of a job I can do, other than You Tube which literally pays a very minute amount every few months! Like you say, what employer will employ someone who never knows how they will feel! ❤️

  • @wendycowling4169
    @wendycowling4169 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so lucky to have a supportive husband. I have Fibro wish my husband was like Mark, mine is not so understanding 😢

  • @janetsandham7058
    @janetsandham7058 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband has fibro ,I have lung disease and arthritis
    We just found out hubby has diabetes 2
    We look after each other ,,it is hard on the one with the disease, but allso hard on the one cares ,u two take care of each other

  • @alisonwilson1303
    @alisonwilson1303 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Mark is so supportive. I’ve had fybro for years now, I think my hubby as switched off now. Wish he was like Mark you are so lucky Nic. It’s a lonely life with this illness. I get no support, working full time and spend my life in bed, while hubby plays his golf 😥😥😥😥

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry to hear that Alison. 😔 I realise not everyone is as lucky as me.

  • @irenes6627
    @irenes6627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mark you are a gem. My hubby is just like you, he fell in love with a person and now I live like Nicola I'm still a person. How lucky are we to have such supportive husbands and family. Your a lovely couple. Xxxxx

  • @carolineibbetson5395
    @carolineibbetson5395 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful couple you are xxx Marks grace and care is written all over his face x Thankyou for sharing x I hope you are having a better week Nicola x you are both so brave and honest xxx

  • @julieford6204
    @julieford6204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lovely blog very interesting and he is lovely person Mark you are doing job taking care of nick .your the best

  • @junehulbert2885
    @junehulbert2885 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was excellent. Your looking beautiful!

  • @carolescharacters
    @carolescharacters ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How lovely is Mark, you are so lucky to have each other 😊xx

  • @clairewatson5845
    @clairewatson5845 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Welcome back, welcome back!!
    Morning lovelies!
    Mark is 100% a keeper! 😊
    Genuine answers to some quite tricky questions there show just how in love you guys are xx ❤
    Thank you both for a very honest, open and genuine video.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Living_with_fafa
    @Living_with_fafa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you both great q&a and thanks for answering my question 💜💜💜

  • @littlevampire3834
    @littlevampire3834 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marc’s a diamond .was so nice to hear he’s side on fibromyalgia and how it affect you. I’m glad I’ve got support like you Nicola I’m going to ask these questions to my partner.. Thank you❤

  • @kimemerson5486
    @kimemerson5486 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done to both u 💋❤️ give a nice hug mark ❤️

  • @vivianpennington5330
    @vivianpennington5330 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really good question s and answers . The best to you both!

  • @ianturner695
    @ianturner695 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    enjoyed listening to this weeks

  • @janetsandham7058
    @janetsandham7058 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mark is amazing
    So caring and supportive,
    Your allso a beautiful couple

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you and yes I am very lucky!

  • @diane6929
    @diane6929 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a lovely man you are married to.I love watching your vlogs and this one was really lovely. Love to you all xx

  • @traceyvinnicombe3232
    @traceyvinnicombe3232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Nicola. You have a very loving and supportive husband in Mark. I too am lucky in having a very supportive husband, and I often think he must get fed up with me, but like Mark says, it is more frustrating than anything, as there's nothing he can do to take away the pain. Xx

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly, we think they must be fed up with us but they feel more frustrated. Xx

  • @rainbowvisionart8025
    @rainbowvisionart8025 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m in a flare and as a single parent have to do things that I really don’t want to do. I wish I could just rest and relax but I can’t. Have very little money. My life is hell, but I have to push through it because of my daughter.

  • @DisabledandPrepping
    @DisabledandPrepping ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's definitely a keeper. I've lost a lot of friends do to my fibro and dystonia. But. Mostly because of my dystonia.

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You certainly find out who your true friends are!

    • @Truerealism747
      @Truerealism747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does dystonia.lock your muscles up

  • @darkangeldeb
    @darkangeldeb ปีที่แล้ว

    Marks an absolute star.gret vidNicola. I often wonder what my other half thinks about Fibro. He is so good and understanding also.but at the moment I'm in bed with trapped spinal nerves,have been since the New Year so hardly seen him.(we don't live together) Don't want to tbh. But he understands that. Keep up the good work, but more importantly Keep well❤😘😘

    • @Truerealism747
      @Truerealism747 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is the pain diffarant than the fybromyalgia with spinal.nerves

  • @sarahjanemelville5
    @sarahjanemelville5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell Mark he passed with flying colours 😅 that was so good to watch , thank you 😊

  • @bevmagee2141
    @bevmagee2141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi niki hi Mark.
    Me and my hubby watched your vlog on fibromialgia .
    Was very inspiring and honest.
    Hubby said everything Mark said and hi 👋 to you Mark. We're so so lucky niki to have amazing hubbies.
    Welldone for doing this guys i think this will reach a lot of fibro suffers . When Mark made the point about work and how hard its been and still is to want to work but can't and the guilt trip so bad.my hubby said yep that's you all right
    And can't tell you enough if your ill your ill in sickness and in health and all that (jazz!!) As nik would say😊
    Very good vlog guys.
    Thank you xx😊

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome Bev! Yes, work is still a major thing for me. I constantly think of jobs and wonder if I could do them but know the answer! 😔 xx

  • @vivianpennington5330
    @vivianpennington5330 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Concerning meetings etc I wish there was one not so far away from me. Not even the doctors are very caring to us patients here in Clearwater Fl.

  • @amandataylor1573
    @amandataylor1573 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i completely understand i went to the rheumatologist because i thought my arthritis had spread and i was in there 5 mins he said its in your hands as well now but you have fibromialga i mite have a leaflet on it if not look it up on line and goodbye the nurse said i found one because of how i was treated i questioned it so we paid private to make sure i was pushed out of work by guilt im luck to have a supportive husband who i keep awake a lot with my pain but he does not mind cooking his dinner when he gets home if i over do it he moans at me but like you say its hard to no sometimes till the next day when you are suffering thank you both so much it was like listening to me and my husband bless ya both this video helps a lot

    • @LordandLordettes
      @LordandLordettes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad you liked it. 😊❤️

  • @lynnewoodby8227
    @lynnewoodby8227 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it’s great he is so supportive for you. He is one in a million!! I hope there are many more men out there like him. I’m single so I take care of myself. It would be nice to have a hubby! I enjoyed listening!

  • @Truerealism747
    @Truerealism747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is your fybromyalgia.in.all.muscles or selected ones over the body and do you have myofacial pain hypomobility?