Funny thing is I have never gave a man a chance to “ignore” me. If he pulls away I let him go. I may be in my feelings for a while but I will never let them know. I hide my feelings very well but I don’t chase. I allow them to do whatever they choose and I make the decision to let them come back or not. I’ve learned to enjoy people in the moment especially if we’re not in a committed relationship. He may be interested in someone else or may have other options. Either way it doesn’t have anything to do with me. What’s for me will always be for me.
Audrey Villalobos Why are you even on this channel..? With all due respect; us women of caliber would simply get another dude on the side and most likely replace him by someone better. There is no love when your partner ignores you like that. Stop being a pick-me. It’s the wrong channel... Either he should be called out, guilt tripped into you having something in return and date other men on the side. Why y’all keep being faithful to someone who’s not even your husband..? I don’t get it. Single until married y’all!
totally! my mom hates gold diggers and my dad is trying to make me a 50/50, could you believe that-? shera is another level, we are here to get the bag ladies, yes of course
@Edoms Lot on my own. Yes I doubt China and India would agree with you, because of they fanatic males are more worth than women and let's get an abortion if it's a girl obsession they have far more male beings 👌. But yes, dream on. It's your right
@Edoms Lot and still nothing will change. 💁🏻♀️And honestly you can surely date a girl who is after guys and will do everything for you because they are pick me girls . I know a lot of them. You can do whatever you want and she will chase you to death. But here you are on the wrong channel my brother. I recommend Matthew hussey. There are the pick me girls
Steve Harvey said exactly the same thing ,quote, Don't tell a man what you're looking for ,because he will become everything that you want for a few months, till he gets what he wants....lol... absolutely true.
MsFlame2000 yes he did say that and is very true.. my ex brand the stuff back to me all the time.. like if you want a house and family you need to do this and that.. that was nasty he knew I was divorce and wanted family so badly
I never answer men when they ask me that question because I had one bad experience with that and learned from it..I was confused as to why he became the total opposite of what I told him I wanted and then it finally hit me..he was acting
My mom always told me be in love with a man that loves u more then u love him..but dont be desperate men dont like desperate women i must keep them wondering dont always be available
Ladies, keep your legs closed. I have talked to a few guys who are affluent and have noticed the ladies they keep around, and continue doing for, are ladies they haven't slept with. One (in particular) is from a very wealthy family and is such a condescending a-hole. He speaks so crappy about this one girl but still takes her to expensive places. Finally tonight he nonchalantly mentioned it's because she is the one girl who hasn't slept with him. Sometimes it works out but more than not you will get the most keeping your legs closed.
Good she must not hv much front nor back. Bc me big boobs n some ass they try to sleep w n work hard at that. I notice small busts n ass women dont do go through that. Just saying.
I have some rich friends who like pickmeisha beacuse they don't spend any money on them (they are very calculated about them ). I couldn't agree more with you, keeping your legs closed is very important, otherwise you become just a free meal.
th-cam.com/video/h_9EYaOy7WA/w-d-xo.html "Close your legs!" by Tony Gaskins. Ladies! If you don't do anything else, watch this video! Here is a man telling your how a man thinks. Listen and learn!
When you look good they will come correct. I was freestyling and a few men approached me one offered to take care of all food and drinks and told me no one else will approach me tonight because they are intimidated. I was concerned. I thought Was I acting too masculine? He said you command a certain caliber of a man. You walked in here as though you own the place and I stepped up because I know I can exceed your expectations- I can tell you not easy but you are definetely worth the wait. I want to spoil you and treat you well- I'll wait on you for as long as it takes.🚨🚨🚨 Winner winner!!!🚨🚨🚨 Except im married and I dont have time to figure out if hes really about that life. However, he took care of everything while I was there food/drinks tip and I left it at that.
Girl listen you are telling the truth. Because you are married you didn't need another man. You didn't walk in the room with your heart on your sleeve, looking for your night and shinning armor. Men Can feel when you are desperate and in your feelings. When you went in there you had complete Control. You simply went in there to have fun. Men respect you when you respect yourself. Men respect your time and attention when you dont give it to them easley. Good job.
@@percyastronautstatus.8780 well never thought I'd be responding to such things but oh well 😂 Yes I am, doing my final year and graduating haha, I'm 21 Tuition payed tho, other offers lol?
ON POINT!!!!!! Ladies get busy, find another hustle, when your busy, you feel relevant and you dont have the time to be worrying about what he's doing, where he's at, or even when or if hes going to call you..
"They are not ignoring you. They are living life....You know that thing called life? They are sleeping, eating, watching Netflix..... Time to get a liiiiiiiife" LOL
I had a guy say " what would you do without me" I said "true hustlers don't worry about all that" I walked outside looked around and and kept walking. Straight into another HUSTLE. One hustle don't work just pick up another one. My mama always say "money is just laying on the ground you just need to go outside and pick it up" I love that!💖
True Brother I’ve had guys actually try to use reverse psychology on me before and then, like the level headed person I am, I walked away from being treated like garbage. And those dudes were truly puzzled and later admitted they had been told their whole lives women responded favorably to it.
I was his Real Girlfriend for 7 months, i know he didnt cheat, but he didnt like messages or anything (even though he presented me to his family, invited me for xmas, paid maybe 80/20) but sometimes after 7 months i had no news for 3 entire days..... that is not acceptable to me , i have a life too, friends and passions, but a boyfriend should message at least every other day (we didnt live together). I stopped the relationship yesterday because i didnt like the energy and the ignorance for 3 days. I will not cry one tear Over him and find a BETTER target
@Chuuma I wasnt asking for so much, just a little text every 2 days doesnt seem the world to me. Im not speaking to men all day every day, i dont evrn text for days either, i just think 3 days it too much. He will only find women who ask for more than me, i was really not asking a lot. If a man is in love he doesnt wait 3 days after 7 months, point blank
@Chuuma he even said to me once that i was the less annoying GF he ever had coz i was never jealous or texting all day or anything, and i have a life of my own.
@@pepettehousemusic999 This channel is for gold diggers. If he was giving you money, it shouldn't matter that he doesn't contact you for 3 days. If he wasn't giving you money, then you should have dumped him anyway.
I am so glad I discovered your channel, I started acting and thinking from LOGIC and my life has changed tremendously. I am so much happier. I was with a cheating DUSTY BUCKET ASSHOLE, he came to me other day to start an argument so he could break up with me. dusty ass did me a HUGE favor, he told me that I was too much, I told his stupid ass, NO, YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH BOY BYE. now I can level up and LIVE MY BEST LIFE. No more dusties for me everrrrrrrrrrrr. Thank you Queen I so love you and your channel.
I met a man on social media. Faced time and after that I haven’t heard and I didn’t call him either. He text recently to say he’s going through something I hoped for the best and I still didnt call him. I think it’s because he’s seeing someone and wants to keep me on the back burning. I’m not interested now.
Amen girl , I’m so busy I’m in receptionist school (wink wink) , getting my startup started and living my life. I’m not having any children but I will definitely get me a puppy eventually. If it don’t make money, it don’t make sense!
I clicked on the video out of curiosity like wat does it look like when a man ignore you bc I don’t know. I don’t care. 99.99% of guys I dated have complained abt me not being all up under them, being quick to respond to the txt etc., bc I don’t care. When I was a lil younger, yes maybe but right now $$ is all on my mind
I’m dying at the response about the man hitting her up & going Mia after. That happened to me when I went on trip to visit a friend. He randomly hit me up. Then ghosted me after. Deep down I felt exactly what you said. He was hitting me up to see if he can still hit it. Lmaooo boy. If it’s anything this channel has taught me is to trust my intuition & mind my damn business.
If you are just in this for money , I agree. If you aren’t and want love and a life partner . After a couple of dates if He doesn’t follow up after a week or so he isn’t very interested . A guy who thinks you are a catch will not let you slip Away . Don’t text or call him . Get on with your life . Don’t give it up either ! Wait and watch his actions and keep dating . Xx
I honest to God couldn’t care less if I’m ‘ignored’. I’m busy lol! Plus, if a guy isn’t making the effort to see me and impress me, I don’t want him anyway 🤷🏾♀️. Should I be seeking him out and impressing him?? Make it make sense 😂😩👎🏾
Do not impress him let him pursue and Impress u! U are the prize remember that dont be booboo the fool if he wants u he will do everything in his power
Shera7 you are too good. This is how I feel with my boyfriend. The first year of our relationship I was sooooooo disinterested in him. Lol we met and hooked up one night and he was stuck to me like crazy clue. Now the tables have turned 1.5 years later. I feel so stupid.
When men get comfortable and settled in a relationship they stop courting,...now you change up do less, dress up, meet people. Join a club,,, in other word get busy and look nice at all times
@@umsiee yeah ... Well I think every situation is different we have been living together form basically when he met and he payed bills and everything I just felt suffocated the first year it was too much to have someone be that into me but now I think I love him it long though lol
I sooooo needed to hear this dated a man for three weeks bought me stuff and gave me money had plans for the future together, moving and all lol.....went to a wedding of a colleague of ours he was jealous that men gave me attention told me was out of order and cut all contact with me didn't answer calls or texts... Was an emotional wreck didn't wanna eat or go to work coz wasn't strong enough to see him again..... Finally got over him and honestly it feels good although was a mission ended up neglecting myself had no joy(still can't believe was like that lol) problem now is he don't wanna return my stuff from his place just blue ticks my request on whatsaap to bring them back,told him to chuck them..... Can't believe was dealing with a psycho Shera thank you sooo much💕
@@GeorginaJett thank you very much I really apprecuate this! I agree it is a huge disadvantage in relationship and i feel i need to fix it, all my experience point to the fack i need to resolve my issues... ! I will check him out.. Thanks ❤️
hi shera all your ideas come on time for me when I need them, its like the saying when the student is ready the teacher will appear.please allow the subtitles as English is not my mother tongue.much love from France
If he’s ignoring the majority of the time, he’s cheating on you! Again, if he’s ignoring the majority of the time. And this is if he’s your man or husband!
I automatically told my guy this yesterday( prior to seeing this video ). He asked me if I wanted to go to Starbucks and I told him No and that I already had Starbucks coffee prior to church( actually it was coffee provided by the church..lol). Then later on, we decided to go to a dining restaurant☺.
1DNETTA manipulative matriarchy is effeminating men into simps with no backbone. Your situation is exactly what my dad was telling me about yesterday, women saying one thing when their man has already spoken, when the men gives in, he becomes her bitch that she knows she can leverage at her own will. That’s exactly what you did. I feel bad for the poor guy
@@larkford4460 , Omg, No. It's not that Serious- the way you put it. He is Not "my bitch" or anything like that-that's a stretch and a stupid way to describe this situation😅. My guy just asked me a simple question if I wanted to get Starbucks coffee...at about 5pm in the afternoon! Why would I want coffee that late in the afternoon in place of dinner?? Some people like coffee late in the afternoon and many people Do NOt. So I didn't say or do anything wrong to him, I told the truth...only thing is it just wasn't "Starbucks" coffee, but nevertheless it was coffee and I had coffee already and mentioned to him that I preferred dinner instead at that time of the day.
Yasmine M.P.R um im 23 years young and read the newspaper quite often. It’s actually news and not fear monger that they show on televised news. But carry on, because you know it all right
Thanks Shera for exposing dusty men ! I always felt something was wrong with some men nowadays but didn't know what it was. You depict them clearly in your videos and you say that it's not a normal behavior. I thing maybe women know that their attitude is wrong but they don't know any different.
I always get hit with what I bring to the table question. After they tell me they want bedroom time, I say what I need (dates, time, energy, trips, house maintenance, etc) Then the question happens. Is there anyway to deal with this or just throw the fish immediately back in the pond?
You bring your beauty and feminine energy to the table. That is what attracted him to you. Anything after that is pure B.S. What he looking for a roommate? A friend? Don"t come out of your pockets. He won't see any value in you. Tell him to kick rocks!
No the Bible says that a man's prayers could be hindered if he's not kind to his wife or if he's hurting his wife's feelings not just if she's mad because if a husband made his wife mad by telling her the truth and correcting her with love that is not what God is talking about in Jesus name my Lord and Savior amen
What kind of personality does a man have that drives classic cars? Don’t answe too soon now, men from 18 up to 80 drive classic cars daily so what are you going to “assume” about all these men??? You should also know none of them are the same, they are different races, different names and different principles and beliefs. So what is your judgement
Shera bb you have no idea wt you have done to us you really changed our stupid mindsets no more stupid dusties no more stupid ppl I leveled up my closet im acting more feminine and ohhh god im attracting very quality men thxx for everything sexy beautiful elegant smart lady.
Good glad somebody said it...that boring to be up under yo man all day..a lil air keep things exciting to me..even in marriage that's how the marriage last.. long..space
You’re hilarious 🤣🧡my daily lunch partner in crime. gotta take notes 📝 (even though men don’t ignore me 🥴) except for one young guy but I’m not into them anyways 🤣😂
Men are so shocked by women that aren’t all up on them all day. Being unemotional is the BAG 😭😌🙌🏿🥂💄👜
referral madness Money > man’s lust that’s never be love
Not shocked, I prefer it that way so I don’t have to hear nagging. Mf I got a life too, leave me alone
@referral madness If YOURE a good Man this does not apply to you. We are talking about the 70 percent of men who play games, lie n try to be players.
@referral madness I actually was giving you the benefit of the doubt. It seems you are indeed an idiot.
@referral madness you can care about money and not let him know it's called acting
Funny thing is I have never gave a man a chance to “ignore” me. If he pulls away I let him go. I may be in my feelings for a while but I will never let them know. I hide my feelings very well but I don’t chase. I allow them to do whatever they choose and I make the decision to let them come back or not. I’ve learned to enjoy people in the moment especially if we’re not in a committed relationship. He may be interested in someone else or may have other options. Either way it doesn’t have anything to do with me. What’s for me will always be for me.
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Exactly! We're dealing in reality!
I love this!
That hit differently especially when I have always been the opposite of what you have done .
This is so fr 💜
If a provider man was ignoring me I'd be so happy. Lol paying all my Bills and leaving me alone? Perfect! I can live my life, and continuously grow.
Ijs!🤷😭😂
The dream husband honestly 🤣
Oh how i wish😊😂
Que Sera Sarah 😉 correct.
Girl yes !
If he ignores you just don't act desperately, get something else to make you busy and glow up
I started ignoring the guy, that was my bf. And I started ignoring him too, we just gone be alone together 🤣🤣🤣 But I'm a very independent Aquarius...
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Audrey Villalobos Why are you even on this channel..? With all due respect; us women of caliber would simply get another dude on the side and most likely replace him by someone better.
There is no love when your partner ignores you like that. Stop being a pick-me. It’s the wrong channel...
Either he should be called out, guilt tripped into you having something in return and date other men on the side.
Why y’all keep being faithful to someone who’s not even your husband..? I don’t get it. Single until married y’all!
teddy bruckshot No one asked you especially not me, hypocrite.
Ignore and be gone, replaced by better
Facts. That's what I did.
“They’re not ignoring you, they’re living life” Wheeww 💯
So SO true
A word! 💯
Energy doesn't lie. You know when you're being ignored purposely to hurt you.
If a man ignores you, you ignore him, until he begs you to contact him, and then some
Damn guys usually dont beg unless there simps
@@larkford4460 False.
@@treejay818 exactly they don't beg!!!! Idk whatvkind of men these woman are meeting but some of these men don't play like that. Bahaha
@@larkford4460 exactly!!! On to the next, on on to the next..lol
@@prettypractical3372 exactly
MY PARENTS AIN'T TEACH ME SHIIT COMPARED TO WHAT YOU TEACHING. COULD'VE SAVED ME ALOT OF HEARTACHE AND MONEY
Kayla Dunn same 😂😂
totally! my mom hates gold diggers and my dad is trying to make me a 50/50, could you believe that-? shera is another level, we are here to get the bag ladies, yes of course
Forreal..my daughter showed me sheras page..we learning together and she's in high school
Likewise
Mhhhm i know thats right
Attachment kills it all...you are the only person on the pedestal. Not him....keep your options open if you are dating.
@Edoms Lot on my own. Yes I doubt China and India would agree with you, because of they fanatic males are more worth than women and let's get an abortion if it's a girl obsession they have far more male beings 👌. But yes, dream on. It's your right
@Edoms Lot and still nothing will change. 💁🏻♀️And honestly you can surely date a girl who is after guys and will do everything for you because they are pick me girls . I know a lot of them. You can do whatever you want and she will chase you to death. But here you are on the wrong channel my brother. I recommend Matthew hussey. There are the pick me girls
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Steve Harvey said exactly the same thing ,quote, Don't tell a man what you're looking for ,because he will become everything that you want for a few months, till he gets what he wants....lol... absolutely true.
MsFlame2000 yes he did say that and is very true.. my ex brand the stuff back to me all the time.. like if you want a house and family you need to do this and that.. that was nasty he knew I was divorce and wanted family so badly
I never answer men when they ask me that question because I had one bad experience with that and learned from it..I was confused as to why he became the total opposite of what I told him I wanted and then it finally hit me..he was acting
Hell a few days they will try to mirror you. Bye fool
My mom always told me be in love with a man that loves u more then u love him..but dont be desperate men dont like desperate women i must keep them wondering dont always be available
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Your mum is 100% correct.
I have learned this from previous mistakes..
“If make up is not enough get a wig , combine the two and you will unlock level 2... I screaming ❗️❗️❗️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I added lashes and unlocked level 3 😘😂😂😂
Omg 😱
@@aliinwonderland656 what's level 4 dear?
@@french_daily_cupcake17 having game unlocks level 4, read 48 laws of power
@@gabrielar9611 thanks dear❤️
Ladies, keep your legs closed. I have talked to a few guys who are affluent and have noticed the ladies they keep around, and continue doing for, are ladies they haven't slept with. One (in particular) is from a very wealthy family and is such a condescending a-hole. He speaks so crappy about this one girl but still takes her to expensive places. Finally tonight he nonchalantly mentioned it's because she is the one girl who hasn't slept with him. Sometimes it works out but more than not you will get the most keeping your legs closed.
Wow Iam surprised. I thought they would be begging to sleep with women because they are giving money ect.
I can testify to this.keep yo legs closed ladies
Good she must not hv much front nor back. Bc me big boobs n some ass they try to sleep w n work hard at that. I notice small busts n ass women dont do go through that. Just saying.
I have some rich friends who like pickmeisha beacuse they don't spend any money on them (they are very calculated about them ). I couldn't agree more with you, keeping your legs closed is very important, otherwise you become just a free meal.
th-cam.com/video/h_9EYaOy7WA/w-d-xo.html "Close your legs!" by Tony Gaskins. Ladies! If you don't do anything else, watch this video! Here is a man telling your how a man thinks. Listen and learn!
Sasha: “Even if you’re 190 years old, it’s not too old to Level Up” 😂😂😂😂😂
Julie Johnson 😭😂😂
When you look good they will come correct. I was freestyling and a few men approached me one offered to take care of all food and drinks and told me no one else will approach me tonight because they are intimidated. I was concerned. I thought Was I acting too masculine? He said you command a certain caliber of a man. You walked in here as though you own the place and I stepped up because I know I can exceed your expectations- I can tell you not easy but you are definetely worth the wait. I want to spoil you and treat you well- I'll wait on you for as long as it takes.🚨🚨🚨 Winner winner!!!🚨🚨🚨 Except im married and I dont have time to figure out if hes really about that life. However, he took care of everything while I was there food/drinks tip and I left it at that.
Girl listen you are telling the truth. Because you are married you didn't need another man. You didn't walk in the room with your heart on your sleeve, looking for your night and shinning armor. Men Can feel when you are desperate and in your feelings. When you went in there you had complete Control. You simply went in there to have fun. Men respect you when you respect yourself. Men respect your time and attention when you dont give it to them easley. Good job.
I was that man......
@@percyastronautstatus.8780 well I wanna follow this series. 🍿
@@lolthatstough1301 ur in Med School?? Ok ...follow me to the mall....I can pay off your tuition girl....how much is it??
@@percyastronautstatus.8780 well never thought I'd be responding to such things but oh well 😂
Yes I am, doing my final year and graduating haha, I'm 21
Tuition payed tho, other offers lol?
“Why does he ignore you?”
Me: Why should I care?
ON POINT!!!!!! Ladies get busy, find another hustle, when your busy, you feel relevant and you dont have the time to be worrying about what he's doing, where he's at, or even when or if hes going to call you..
YES!
I still get sad sometimes tho
@@boahancock7158 me too 😓
SHERA IS A PROFESSOR!
One Debbie Mmereki she really is though
I swear chile!
"They are not ignoring you. They are living life....You know that thing called life? They are sleeping, eating, watching Netflix..... Time to get a liiiiiiiife" LOL
I had a guy say " what would you do without me" I said "true hustlers don't worry about all that" I walked outside looked around and and kept walking. Straight into another HUSTLE. One hustle don't work just pick up another one. My mama always say "money is just laying on the ground you just need to go outside and pick it up" I love that!💖
I have been watching every day . Women let men get away with too much stuff.
ignoring beautiful women is a PUA technique. Supposed to make her feel insecure so she pursues the man instead of him chasing her. BLOCK him!
Then she must pursue another man 😂
You are so right !
Men do like when you treat them bad and ignore them. That sounds like a funny thing to say but it’s 💯
True Brother I’m glad to see a guy with some self respect. Thank you ❤️
True Brother Why does it seem like men act better when treated like garbage most of the time? I’d honestly prefer not having to do that.
True Brother I’ve had guys actually try to use reverse psychology on me before and then, like the level headed person I am, I walked away from being treated like garbage. And those dudes were truly puzzled and later admitted they had been told their whole lives women responded favorably to it.
True Brother That’s my kind of man 👌🏻
You do not want to be come homeless when you get very old by pick the wrong man.
I was his Real Girlfriend for 7 months, i know he didnt cheat, but he didnt like messages or anything (even though he presented me to his family, invited me for xmas, paid maybe 80/20) but sometimes after 7 months i had no news for 3 entire days..... that is not acceptable to me , i have a life too, friends and passions, but a boyfriend should message at least every other day (we didnt live together). I stopped the relationship yesterday because i didnt like the energy and the ignorance for 3 days. I will not cry one tear Over him and find a BETTER target
@Chuuma I wasnt asking for so much, just a little text every 2 days doesnt seem the world to me. Im not speaking to men all day every day, i dont evrn text for days either, i just think 3 days it too much. He will only find women who ask for more than me, i was really not asking a lot. If a man is in love he doesnt wait 3 days after 7 months, point blank
@Chuuma he even said to me once that i was the less annoying GF he ever had coz i was never jealous or texting all day or anything, and i have a life of my own.
@Mortal Silence yes i know now that men dont care and i wont care either, im goong to meet new men as soon as tonight, and not a half dusty :))))
You need a husband Hun, not a boyfriend.
@@pepettehousemusic999
This channel is for gold diggers. If he was giving you money, it shouldn't matter that he doesn't contact you for 3 days. If he wasn't giving you money, then you should have dumped him anyway.
I am so glad I discovered your channel, I started acting and thinking from LOGIC and my life has changed tremendously. I am so much happier. I was with a cheating DUSTY BUCKET ASSHOLE, he came to me other day to start an argument so he could break up with me. dusty ass did me a HUGE favor, he told me that I was too much, I told his stupid ass, NO, YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH BOY BYE. now I can level up and LIVE MY BEST LIFE. No more dusties for me everrrrrrrrrrrr. Thank you Queen I so love you and your channel.
same. be logical and intuitive with men. play dumb but be smart.
Unless a man is giving you money, it does not matter if he ignores you. 😂😇
Honestly this video is gold!!! It's important to understand that men are different than we are.
They are not ignoring you .they are living life.you are seating there waiting .they are doing things "shera 2019
I met a man on social media. Faced time and after that I haven’t heard and I didn’t call him either. He text recently to say he’s going through something I hoped for the best and I still didnt call him. I think it’s because he’s seeing someone and wants to keep me on the back burning. I’m not interested now.
Forgot to say long distance
I ignored him first and now he is doing the same thing to me 😂
You ain't playing with them today lol
Lola fromtheNola ok a 💯
Stg she wasn’t 😩😂😂😂
Amen girl , I’m so busy I’m in receptionist school (wink wink) , getting my startup started and living my life. I’m not having any children but I will definitely get me a puppy eventually. If it don’t make money, it don’t make sense!
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I dig that! What kind of business are you starting
Renni Rucci song quote “If it don’t make money, it don’t make no sense” #facts
@@drops4x133 You listen to Renni Rucci lol girl you ain’t gonna level up🤣
I clicked on the video out of curiosity like wat does it look like when a man ignore you bc I don’t know. I don’t care. 99.99% of guys I dated have complained abt me not being all up under them, being quick to respond to the txt etc., bc I don’t care. When I was a lil younger, yes maybe but right now $$ is all on my mind
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It’s so beautiful listening to your daughter add to this message. 🙌🏽 All moms should be teaching their daughters how to be the prize 🙏🏽
Dropping major wisdom in every sentence !! I wanna hit the like button every 2mn if I could
Baby, you are LIFE !!! I watch you every morning, starting my day.
I’m dying at the response about the man hitting her up & going Mia after. That happened to me when I went on trip to visit a friend. He randomly hit me up. Then ghosted me after. Deep down I felt exactly what you said. He was hitting me up to see if he can still hit it. Lmaooo boy. If it’s anything this channel has taught me is to trust my intuition & mind my damn business.
If you are just in this for money , I agree. If you aren’t and want love and a life partner . After a couple of dates if He doesn’t follow up after a week or so he isn’t very interested . A guy who thinks you are a catch will not let you slip
Away . Don’t text or call him . Get on with your life . Don’t give it up either ! Wait and watch his actions and keep dating . Xx
Think you mean simp man
Gonna listen to this everyday while doing my self care .. until it sticks . 2020 I’m leveling up
Hitting us with that tough love! Too true though, too true. I recognize this behavior in myself and I need to work on it.
I honest to God couldn’t care less if I’m ‘ignored’. I’m busy lol! Plus, if a guy isn’t making the effort to see me and impress me, I don’t want him anyway 🤷🏾♀️. Should I be seeking him out and impressing him?? Make it make sense 😂😩👎🏾
Never seek dudes out...they will.peg you as the...THIRSTY!
Chick!😳....So....
NO.✌
Do not impress him let him pursue and Impress u! U are the prize remember that dont be booboo the fool if he wants u he will do everything in his power
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“It was all a dream” 😂 I love you.
I love this woman omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the first few minutes killed me
Shera7 you are too good. This is how I feel with my boyfriend. The first year of our relationship I was sooooooo disinterested in him. Lol we met and hooked up one night and he was stuck to me like crazy clue. Now the tables have turned 1.5 years later. I feel so stupid.
Christina V start ignoring him
When men get comfortable and settled in a relationship they stop courting,...now you change up do less, dress up, meet people. Join a club,,, in other word get busy and look nice at all times
I thought when u act like that they leave lol
@@umsiee yeah ... Well I think every situation is different we have been living together form basically when he met and he payed bills and everything I just felt suffocated the first year it was too much to have someone be that into me but now I think I love him it long though lol
@@TruePathLiving key word "BOYFRIEND" CUT IT LOOSE trust me
I want love. I'm sick of playing games but hey I have to play games. Because men play them so I have to beat them to stay ahead. It is what it is...
Glam Thomas They won’t love you, Love you .. Have fun 🤷♀️
thanks for the help Sheera...leveling up daily...love from Uganda Africa
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Absolutely adore when you go into details regarding levelling up. You're really an icon.
Sheraaaa you teaching me more in few months than my family in my whole life, thank youuuuu
I sooooo needed to hear this dated a man for three weeks bought me stuff and gave me money had plans for the future together, moving and all lol.....went to a wedding of a colleague of ours he was jealous that men gave me attention told me was out of order and cut all contact with me didn't answer calls or texts... Was an emotional wreck didn't wanna eat or go to work coz wasn't strong enough to see him again..... Finally got over him and honestly it feels good although was a mission ended up neglecting myself had no joy(still can't believe was like that lol) problem now is he don't wanna return my stuff from his place just blue ticks my request on whatsaap to bring them back,told him to chuck them..... Can't believe was dealing with a psycho Shera thank you sooo much💕
That dude was super insecure and a mental case . I would have had him taken down by another man to get your s back !!! That’s no man that’s a child
When you establish standards and maintain healthy boundaries, Dusties then accuse you of being Bitter...
“some dude you at dinner with and answered some questions” WOW !!!!!!!!!! 😭
Omg i needed this I am sooo clingy 😂❤️
Sara Azizam that's wuzup
A P x
Me too plus anxiety and fear of abandonment i need some work
@@GeorginaJett thank you very much I really apprecuate this! I agree it is a huge disadvantage in relationship and i feel i need to fix it, all my experience point to the fack i need to resolve my issues... ! I will check him out.. Thanks ❤️
Gosh the baby, "Sasha" in the background is so funny!😂 She's like a little old lady who's been here in another lifetime 😂🤣...So cuuute😊
Because it was your turn!!!
They was ignoring the other woman for you . Now they found the next and ignoring you.
So they just playing around?
THIS ADVICE IS SOLID!📌
hi shera all your ideas come on time for me when I need them, its like the saying when the student is ready the teacher will appear.please allow the subtitles as English is not my mother tongue.much love from France
You’re so pretty. You look better each time I stop by. #motivation
This video hurt me, I love this so much! Hilarious my favorite one so far! 😂✊🏾
Because they not interested in you point blank
This video is just so funny because you really serving the tea so nonchalantly 😩😭 but I needed it
Too many games to play 🤷🏽♀️ but this is the society we live in
Omg shera you’re just looking better and better 💯💯✨
I’d rather be with someone that treats me well and loves me but I also love him too
They like luther, here and now. They mean it, then off they go. Now you know
“Yo sistah is not smart” 😩
Who EVER watches tv with a man and calls it a date??? Hell no!
Humbled and appreciative.
If he’s ignoring the majority of the time, he’s cheating on you! Again, if he’s ignoring the majority of the time. And this is if he’s your man or husband!
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I won’t be able to do coffee but I can do dinner
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I’ve never been to the golf course
I automatically told my guy this yesterday( prior to seeing this video ). He asked me if I wanted to go to Starbucks and I told him No and that I already had Starbucks coffee prior to church( actually it was coffee provided by the church..lol). Then later on, we decided to go to a dining restaurant☺.
1DNETTA manipulative matriarchy is effeminating men into simps with no backbone. Your situation is exactly what my dad was telling me about yesterday, women saying one thing when their man has already spoken, when the men gives in, he becomes her bitch that she knows she can leverage at her own will. That’s exactly what you did. I feel bad for the poor guy
@@larkford4460 ,
Omg, No. It's not that Serious- the way you put it. He is Not "my bitch" or anything like that-that's a stretch and a stupid way to describe this situation😅.
My guy just asked me a simple question if I wanted to get Starbucks coffee...at about 5pm in the afternoon! Why would I want coffee that late in the afternoon in place of dinner?? Some people like coffee late in the afternoon and many people Do NOt. So I didn't say or do anything wrong to him, I told the truth...only thing is it just wasn't "Starbucks" coffee, but nevertheless it was coffee and I had coffee already and mentioned to him that I preferred dinner instead at that time of the day.
I’m in tears !! Shera you so REAL!!!
I wish I found you earlier in my life .
“I’m also the beneficiary on that insurance policy too” ✨✨😂😂😂 How you doing? Next. I Love it❤️
I relocated for a dusty who was undercover gay. worst decision I ever made. The only thing I got is European citizenship.
Also, successful men spend a good chunk of time reading the newspapers.
Yasmine M.P.R um im 23 years young and read the newspaper quite often. It’s actually news and not fear monger that they show on televised news. But carry on, because you know it all right
A man on 2 child support🤔🤔 no thanks I don't want a child support too . I want a family that stays together.
Baby daddy started to give me money in addition, to kids money after I start ignoring him more . We don't live together and no sex for 2 years ha ha
Please do a video about how to get a dusty roommate out of my house that will not go
Aww Sasha can sing and has good advice.
No young lady need to have good self-esteem by not taking care of a man .
I have a new shirt on today and I put on boots .So I look good today
You're my internet mom
Your girl sasha is well prep for any man come her way!!!!!!
Thanks Shera for exposing dusty men ! I always felt something was wrong with some men nowadays but didn't know what it was. You depict them clearly in your videos and you say that it's not a normal behavior. I thing maybe women know that their attitude is wrong but they don't know any different.
‘ I love you, I got all my morals’ 🤣🤣
I always get hit with what I bring to the table question. After they tell me they want bedroom time, I say what I need (dates, time, energy, trips, house maintenance, etc) Then the question happens. Is there anyway to deal with this or just throw the fish immediately back in the pond?
They are showing you who/what they are. Believe them. They are looking for women to build with. Run!!
@V D.O. thanks❤
@@sheabutta5425 Agreed! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
You bring your beauty and feminine energy to the table. That is what attracted him to you. Anything after that is pure B.S. What he looking for a roommate? A friend? Don"t come out of your pockets. He won't see any value in you. Tell him to kick rocks!
@@lauritapolk9400 love how you put that. Blessings
No the Bible says that a man's prayers could be hindered if he's not kind to his wife or if he's hurting his wife's feelings not just if she's mad because if a husband made his wife mad by telling her the truth and correcting her with love that is not what God is talking about in Jesus name my Lord and Savior amen
His prayers are not even heard girl ..they need to quit thinking it's a game...
@Natasha Richardson amen girl!, Keep thinking it's a game, we playing chess not checkers, lol
God is not with their shiggity.
Alot of the things u say r so funny. But true. And helpful
Your daughter is adorable & hilarious
Always judge a man by the car he drives, his car will tell you a lot about his personality
👏👏👏 my GrandFather 💛 use to always! Say that!😳👍🏿👍🏿😊
@Oh K Because they might like Cool cars
What kind of personality does a man have that drives classic cars? Don’t answe too soon now, men from 18 up to 80 drive classic cars daily so what are you going to “assume” about all these men??? You should also know none of them are the same, they are different races, different names and different principles and beliefs. So what is your judgement
It’s not about the value of the car , it’s abt the style ..
He's just there taking what your giving for free. #thetruth That's a fact 💯
Damnnnnn lol you drop knowledge with the quickness
25:45 really needed to hear this, I don't know who else does!
Not true u can have on makeup n heels all the time if a man dont want u he dont want u men chase who they want
Yup
Lmaoooo Sasha is meeeee “poop on the floor” .... I wanna be serious like Sheera but I’m sassy and silly like Sash
You give me teacher vibes !!! Yaaass
Shera bb you have no idea wt you have done to us you really changed our stupid mindsets no more stupid dusties no more stupid ppl I leveled up my closet im acting more feminine and ohhh god im attracting very quality men thxx for everything sexy beautiful elegant smart lady.
Good glad somebody said it...that boring to be up under yo man all day..a lil air keep things exciting to me..even in marriage that's how the marriage last.. long..space
You’re hilarious. And so smart. 😉
You will unlock level 2 hahahahahahahahah Your answers are so sarcastic and sassy hahahah I love it hahaha
Shera what supplements are you taking rite now, you look beautiful last few days, glowing. Do a vid on what you eat!
She showed her lighting lamps briefly. They're 2 the right.
Calista Europa2 hi I use my Gold Fountain Elixir spray on my Etsy store Dark Realm
Biosil drops give the inner glow. Just drink a lot of water or you'll breakout. They have capsules too.
You got eyebrows? Draw some on!...... I'm laughing so hard
Let him do him & I am doing me ✌🏾
You’re hilarious 🤣🧡my daily lunch partner in crime. gotta take notes 📝 (even though men don’t ignore me 🥴) except for one young guy but I’m not into them anyways 🤣😂