good for this guy but crazy to me that it takes some people years to figure this out. it's literally the biggest sh*t hole on earth and all the reports about it are out there in plain sight.
I was so looking forward to leaving this fake, overpriced city with controlled freedom of speech and stuck up, unfriendly people with miserable attitude. Never again!
I'm 40 years your senior, and I will suggest that people of your age (20-35 really) have _More_ opportunity than we had. Many "younger folks" don't think so, as they are mentally trapped in their geographic bubbles. But for those that realize the traditionally cultural (meaning Western) ideals are designed to only shackle one to "perpetually chasing the carrot". Whereas actually living a meaningful life doesn't revolve around debt, hustling 24/7, acquiring _Contrived_ trappings of success, etc. . I would submit that it wasn't the _Location_ (Dubai) that allowed you to flourish, it was the mere fact that you had the courage, wherewithal, and determination to venture out of your particular cultural bubble. It's the gettin' out part that seeds the success, not particularly where one goes.
It is not the same to start a company in San Francisco than in a small town in Mexico and moving from your city without capital and without support can destroy your morale before achieving success, in addition to the lack of opportunities and mentors.
@@orlandocastellanos9263 I don't disagree with you. Here is the _Nuance;_ You stated "... can destroy your morale before achieving success,". [Keyword: "can"] Such a move can also _Enhance_ ones position. The point is removing oneself from the mental bondage of ones geographic comfort zone. Indeed, getting away from the so-called support system, forcing one to engage, compromise, relate, and _Compete_ in the real world. Example; if on is not born into privilege, Being in San Francisco (Silicon Valley) will not typically present an advantage. It takes more than developing a better Mouse-trap, one also has to hone the skills to SELL the better mouse-trap the consumers or/and investors.
Absolutely spot on, Liam. I have spent many years in Dubai, and what have I realized? Dubai is 'quicksand'. If you stay there for too long you'll sink, the longer you stay deeper you'll sink, and by the time you get out you'll be too old. Dubai is good for, holiday/visit but not for work and living. For professionals, it's career suicide. Everything is so artificial; people, friends, relationships, attitudes of the people and the city itself.
Wow, please elaborate some more. Why is it career suicide and why is everything artificial? Can you give examples please? Super interested in your experiences and view.
@@beslemeto err no??? Dubai is quite different and prolly not for anybody who is not affluent already. Or have a problem with th endogenous family rulers whimsical ways and laws. Also the sight of full on slavery -and not just extreme economic inequality- can get under your skin over time. Oh and then ofc even if you don't belong to lower classes perse you may happen to be a woman or gay, etc
This feels like the most honest, thoughtful, and unbiased review of living in Dubai I have come across. This video was really helpful and stands out amongst a sea of videos with an agenda, painting Dubai as either a paradise or a dystopia. Thank you so much for this.
Moving to Dubai 30 years ago was the best thing I ever did and I had lived previously in the UK, California and Australia. I got married here and had my daughter here. It is the best place to have kids who grow up into polite, driven and grounded young adults. I have witnessed that in my daughter and every one of her friends. I know I will be sad when the day comes to leave as this feels like home. Sure, it's not perfect- but nowhere is, and are there some cons, yes but they are few and the benefits and pleasure of living here outweigh them. When I need a nature fix, I will take my annual vacation to a number of places a short flight away and easy to pop to the Uk to visit family and be reminded of why I left to move here. And to feel safe is priceless.
Of course you love it there. Those Arabs are obsessed with blondes, especially women. You have been treated very well just for your looks and thats it. Just look have badly they treat blacks, Indians (many with advanced degrees), Asians like Filipinos and other not white-passing Arabs in the region. Dubai is an ugly place filled by fakeness everywhere.
There are so many nice girls to be frank. I was there 10 years, met great girls, emirates crew. Very healthy lifestyle oriented. But I know there are others too.
Also the quality of guys too, "tech" entrepeneurs , or other wannabes flashy dudes doing reels with rented cars , superficial guys that came after the pandemic thanks to instagram , mostly which goes perfectly with the golddiggers . So i would say both suits each other. I could say majority of single guys are like this. plus . Ive living here 8 years so i know what i am talking about
For every good digger out there is a man that only will date a woman for her looks so what’s the difference? Both looking for a partner for the wrong reasons
Dubai is for Emiraties, they have big extended families and roots there, it’s their land and culture, only they have citizenship, everyone else is just a visitor regardless of how long they live there. Local emirati men have no problem finding women as they marry within their community!
I’ve lived in the UAE for 12 years and I love living here. The sun, sand sea lifestyle is something I always dreamed of when I lived in the UK. Every day is like a holiday. I work for semi-govt and have a fantastic salary and benefits which I could not get in the UK. In this video, he says 70% of the population is male which is true but the unequal gender distribution is due to large number of migrant labourers from south-east Asia who are the very low paid construction workers or retail assistants or office boys (although most are not boys, they’re grown men). If you put the construction workers to one side and you focus on Westerners, Americans, Australians, Europeans etc, I’d say there are more women than men. This guy in the video says he moved there on his own at 22 years old and worked long days as an entrepreneur, sometimes until 11 at night. Not surprised he felt a bit lonely and a lack of community and found it hard to date. That’s not the way to make friends, and find ladies to date. How you experience Dubai depends on so many different things, your age, your social skills (how good you are at making friends easily), who you work for or if you work alone, people you already know there, your knowledge and understanding of the culture and ‘how things work’, if you like the sunny beach lifestyle etc. I think if this guy goes back to Dubai or Abu Dhabi 10 years from now (when he’s a bit more worldly) with, say, a girlfriend, group of friends or if he’s married with kids, he’ll see it from a different perspective and will look back on his early twenties and realise he was not in the right place at the right time for what he wants out of life. For me, for my friends, it’s amazing. We love it here. The only way to know if it’s right for you is to experience it for yourself.
Wonderful young man, this video is much more than a review of living in Dubai. Many will benefit from the wisdom of making the best of circumstances, finding and pulling oneself from a somewhat messy world and finding a clearer forward path. Nice going at 24.
Dubai is great to touch down and get motivated by wealth and then disappear back into nature and grind with the motivation you got from there. Then once you start seeing the results, pop back out & enjoy your new wealth in Dubai or another city, then get back to the grind in nature. Balance between city & nature is key.
Lived and worked in Dubai and Abu Dhabi between 2006 and 2011 (age 26-31). Revisited in 2017 and 2019. I can confirm everything that you said here. Even then had a tendency to became progressively more expensive and... soulless. I would add that if you do business with local entities (most of them gov. controlled) you will have a hard time getting paid. I had the luxury of being surrounded by friends, but still felt... dry. Left because of burnout, weather, shallow humans and the feeling I was struggling in vain after the first 2 years. Learned and earned a lot though. Only regret is that 5 years was too much, 2 would have been enough.
I lived there too and agree with you. I have a close friend who is musician from Spain, and he got scammed by employers many times, and couldn't work easily because he didn't have a company and a license to work as an artist, which is nonsense because it only limits the amount of people than can work and make their art and bring that soulful vibe.
Try to live in Australia, you will feel about people and making friends the same. It’s always happening when you are immigrating. People always compare their home country where they have relatives and friends with a new country, so the last one will be always not in favor of the first one
As a female who lives in Dubai for more than 10 years I would like to say something about the dating scene. Decent women struggle finding decent men in Dubai because many men come to Dubai not looking for meaningful relationships but just casual flings and men purposely prefer dating eye candy who in their turn have their own “financial” goals. It’s a Demand- Supply situation.
My summary of the quality of life in Dubai: Dubai is like a Christmas decoration ball, very beautiful on the outside , but completely hollow in the inside!
Agreed. I'm currently living in Dubai (moved here before Covid as a consultant for the government), and the dating pool here is not great. Isolation is real - especially if you can't find people with similar values. As you said, it's a numbers game. However, as an entrepreneur (having left the corporate world), having strong faith, wanting a family, and seeking a masculine man - not a sugar daddy - is tough and makes you feel like a unicorn. Most of my single female friends are in the same situation because we can't find men with a long-term vision (not just for love but even for their own lives). Most people are focused on status - not even true wealth building - and showing off to others, losing sight of what's truly important and fulfilling. But things will change soon. I've just subscribed and wish you the best on your next steps!
From all you’ve described from your own detailed experience and that of others what makes you say ‘but things will change soon’ how exactly?? Your answer should be interesting!
I lived there for 20 years and saw a lot of change. My family grew up there and I loved it back then. You're pretty spot on though with how things currently are. I still have a business there but it's getting harder and harder and more expensive to run it despite the hype.
Moved my family back to the US after living there for 10 years because of the lack of community. I also found children there to be more spoiled and more bratty than kids in the US. My kids are more happy back in the state than they were in Dubai
The kids in the US are def. worse 😂😂😂I taught in the Middle East for a long time. They are indeed spoiled but the children here in the US are awful, please don't sugarcoat it. 😂😂😂
@@ThePinkPantha21like everywhere, it’s probably quite dependent on state and neighbourhood. I’m not even American, but you shouldn’t just generalise one of the planets largest countries 😅
@@ThePinkPantha21 well, that sounds like an anecdotal unbalanced take and I wonder what kind of experienced teacher in the Middle Ease uses that many crying smiley emojies...
I was born in America. I moved to Bogota Colombia recently. 9000ft altitude, cool and dry. 69F daily highs, 55F nightly lows. That’s everyday, year round. No humidity. No flies or bugs. A lot of tourists go to the beach cities or Medellin. Not for me. I love Bogota and I’m not leaving.
@@Jesus-The-Everlasting-FatherIt's very easy for person can get arrested in Dubai for stupidest reason. All my friends in Dubai have spent at least a night in police custody, and got released next morning.😂
I am sorry to put this out it's just a personal opinion, I would totally fail to understand why someone would like to leave a nature abundant paradise like new zealand to move to dubai. As a nature, waterfalls and cold weather loving guy, even your pros sounded like cons to me. But yeah the money is good.
if in younger years when one has peak stamina one makes great sacrifices to make serious bank, then perhaps one can retire in their 40's and do whatever they want while that bank keeps churning and growing on auto pilot.
But that is true everywhere. World has turned much more "winner takes it all". Now even high skiled professionals are perpetually running on hamster wheel.
Your videos are awesome!! I've been watching them lately, and I have to say, they've been super helpful. After spending 3 years in Dubai, I've been thinking more seriously about investing, but I still can't seem to find the right investment to get into. I would really appreciate any help or guidance you could offer. Thanks!
Yes, there has been a lot of talk about investing lately but I am new and want to know where to start. Can someone explain to me how to invest and get started?
In my opinion, investing is not about getting rich but rather about achieving financial independence. To become a professional investor, you need a financial advisor. I succeeded by following the instructions of my financial advisor (Darry Edwards). I have no regrets so far.
Awesome, you have such amazing information. Can you share more details on how to contact your financial advisor? Like I said, I am very interested and if I can get some help here, I will start.
Best Dubai Pro/Con Video. I have lived there 7 years of my life and i would just add to it.. Expats know that they will be there only for a few years... This in combination with the fact that you need to know people to get ahead makes people ruthless... Relationships become very egoistic.
@theancientsancients1769 Yes, during those years, if you had a pulse and happened to live in dubai, you probably made a ton of money. I was referring to the values that make up a person's character though. It's crazy how you can tell who is new to dubai and who is already corrupted just by speaking to them for a few minutes...
Your priorities will change as you get older due to the experiences you have when you are younger. My daughter is 24 as well. She is out on her own learning to survive. No matter how hard we parents try to prepare our children in advance, they simply end up having to learn on their own, and hopefully not die in the process. :)
Sorry to say sir but most of gangs take gilrs give them greed most of girls here are prostitute I know many girls here who say I'm in real estate business but actually millimoires fuck them that's reality
Lucky your daughter! I never got any guidance at all Left Croatia to work on USA cruise liners 25 yrs ago Now British citizen and enjoying my travels and life
you so mature for your age.... to see all this things im impressed.... a girl who lives in uae, i can agree with everything you said. congrats to your parents for giving you this education...all the best in your future
As someone who lived in Kuwait for 7 years, I can attest that this is by far the most comprehensive 'reflections on...' piece to camera I've seen. Everything mentioned here is absolutely true (to date), and unless certain things change, is likely to remain that way for some time yet.
YT suggested this video to me. I appreciate your honesty in this video, you seem very sincere. I totally understand all the pro's and con's you are mentioning. All the best to you!
Impressed with how level headed you are and not being a typical Gen Z-er. First time I was in Dubai was in 1991 and already felt back then as a superficial, soulless and material world. When a woman tells me she lived in Dubai for a few years, I say no thanks and move on. Yes you can get something out of Dubai as you experienced and described. You did a great job, discovered, worked hard, learned a lot and realize that a truthful, natural, humanely life doesn't take place in Dubai. To me it's an empty, overly regulated, material focused and shallow society. Thanks for this great vid and analysis. You're only 24 with more wisdom and grounded spirit than 99% of 44 y.o. and older. You're rocking your life very well. Cheers and keep on going and teaching people about the true values of Life. ⭐💜✌️
I've never been to Dubai, but generalization never did any good to me. I'll tell you this, stats shows that 80% of women in the US are not okay with men making less money than they are and that doesn't make them bad people. Just like a dude who is showing off a very beautiful woman next to him is not a bad person.
you judge someone instantly because they said they lived somewhere for a few yeasr? Without even knowing anything about them and their experience, and say no thanks? NO THANKS! 😂😂
The lack of nature would kill me. I'd be so damn depressed in a place like Dubai. Breathing exhaust fumes all day. The sausage fest and crappy women don't sound appealing either. I've been to NZ and it's just incredible. Nature is a far better sculptor than anything we can build. Unbelievably beautiful country and people.
I lived in NZ and since 25 years in cool green NW Spain , best move ever. Would never advice to fall into the nude bare cold damp poor violent overrated far flung NZ narrative unless you are a simpleton with no taste and background.
For someone who lived in such a fake world for 2 years Im really glad you stayed so level headed - wonderful life experience for you Seems the old saying is true All the glitters is not gold Most videos show the wealth and glamour thank you for keeping it real and including the pros and cons
I came to Dubai as a photographer, as soon as you get your tripod out, there is a security guard jumping on you, I can't even make a picture of the sea... what a sick joke, an awful place, also way too much sun, heat, and humidity. Just beaches and shops...
I can't understand why anyone would want to keep visiting a live air prison. There are places people live with modest incomes but as free citizens and democracy.
Interesting video. As someone who has been living in Dubai for 2 decades now it's quite surprising how different the experiences of individuals can be. Personally I would have to say my list would look completely different. For example I feel Dubai Police are some of the friendliest police from anywhere and I would have so many stories to share to back up why I feel the way I do. I also don't think it's particularly difficult here for entrepreneurs, quite the opposite. There are so many companies that handle every little aspect and supporting to make your life easier and as there is a lot of competition prices are very reasonable for all these services. Even groceries and food are much lower than lets say in Europe or the US. Of course if you only buy imported products then you will pay a premium but if you buy fresh produce meat chicken seafood and locally produced items you will spend much less than in the Western world. Restaurants take out the same. Of course there is no limit if you go to high end places but you would not have to choose such places if you are on a limited budget. Also never had an issue as far as dating goes, of course it always depends on what you are looking for. But then again I am a female and as you already mentioned the gender distribution is really in our favor here 😇I enjoy being treated in a more old fashioned, gentlemanly way which is unfortunately not the norm anymore in the west. The negatives for me after all these years in the UAE would be 1) definitely the weather during the summer half of the year. I don't mind dry heat but the humidity in summer it's just insufferable. 2) Nature. You are absolutely correct about that, I can relate to your missing the outdoors and true nature beyond a landscaped garden. I do enjoy going out of the city to the desert or even the mountainous areas that we have here, but it's still a far cry from much more scenic nature in so many other places around the world. As a third negative I would have to state that you can never rely on rules and regulations here to remain the same. Today it's like this then they might implement a new law from one week to the next and suddenly your whole business might be in jeopardy if the new rules somehow affect you. I've seen friends lose huge amounts of money that they had invested lets say in a restaurant and then suddenly one week they were told that this area is closed and that was that. No solution given and a lot of money lost. You also gotta be careful with who you do business. Let's say you are a construction company and win a contract for a government project. If any payment issues arise you are in trouble, not like you can go to court and sue them. Overall and to summarize, however, I do think that one can build a very good life over here. Sometimes I do consider moving elsewhere, it's mostly about missing nature for me, but it is certainly not easy to leave after being used to the convenient life style of Dubai.
I lived in Abu Dhabi for 6 years 2009 -2015. The first thing my boss told me is that everyone leaves, it’s just a question of whether your money pot or shit pot fills up first. This was good advice, I realised that it wasn’t a permanent thing, always had the end in sight and I squirrelled every spare penny away (off shore) and never emotionally unpacked. There are many material things that make the Middle East attractive but once you scrape the surface, you realise it’s a castle made of sand and the soul is as black as the oil it’s built on. If you go, leave your expectations about how you and others should be treated equally at home, understand that you have no rights, you are just labour, there is a cast system and what ever you do don’t upset a local. Then treat it like a bank job, get your head down and stick to the plan. Get in, grab the money, get out fast and don’t look back.
We lived in Dubai for 7 years, and have been out now for 6 years. This is the best, most rational and accurate reflection of Dubai I have watched on TH-cam. Well done 👌🏻
I lived in Dubai for 6 years after living in Al Ain for a year. I was there with my wife and two kids. As an American, the entire UAE experience for me was the single most greatest experience of my life. So much that I still come back to TH-cam and find videos like this. It’s been six years now that I’ve been back in the States and everyday I wake up and wish the nightmare would end 😂. I found safety, community and an overall sense of well-being. It was truly where I felt at home. Unfortunately, personal circumstances sent me back to the other side of the globe. But I would return in an instant if given the chance.
I came to Dubai for 2 weeks and have now been here for just over 8 years. We're not into the nightclub and partying scene. It depends on what you're looking for. There's many positives and I think like any country it comes with some variety of characters. The lack of violence and crime is an absolute blessing. We do a lot of outdoor activities during the cooler months and stay in and focus during the summer or head off for a month here and there. May not stay here forever, but grateful to be here and experience the kind friendly people we've met here.
I’m military, I lived in Bahrain, Dubai and Saudi, all truth told. I loved it there but still wanted to leave. When I look back at it, it’s like it wasn’t a real place. Hard to describe. I want to go back for a long time but I don’t want to stay.
Hi I also lived in the same 3 countries. Bahrain, Abu Dhabi and Jeddha. Over 10 years. I really enjoyed it. But the whole time I was there I always felt this is not my home.
I visited Dubai last winter, but preferred Cyprus where I have been multiple times, and arriving in Cyprus after spending a couple of weeks in Dubai was a real relief! I'm from Denmark btw. They have lots of nature and then Limassol is pretty metropolitan, almost like a mini Dubai but better. Going there again in 2 weeks
I don't know about Dubai ,but i live in Cyprus and i am very disappointed ,the cities and small towns here are not really impressive compared to Italy or Spain, not so green ,full of messy buildings ,there are many roads in bad condition, there are many missing sidewalks ,trash bins always in the streets which looks ugly, some parking areas are not concreted at all, trash on the streets. People don't walk here mostly drive cars, winter is very boring ,many touristic places are closed. Many people smoke cigarettes here which is really annoying when u sit in a cafe outside. There are also many very old cars which pollute the air which should be forbidden. This year supermarkets are more expensive fruit kg costs 4€ , salaries here are low. Limassol is very expensive ,overrated ,there are few skyscrapers that's all . Cyprus isn't so modern, many people don't even have air conditioner at home ,this summer is very hot and humid, without air conditioner unbearable , electricity price is very high.
@@catsfan_M Maybe you would prefer Dubai, but I doubt it. Spain and Italy are nice too, but have their own problems. Overall I think what Cyprus offers is pretty good depending on your circumstances and preference of course
Love your genuineness of your experience in Dubai especially the Cons that people might not see at a personal level, as what they see is just things on the surface about growing money.. Best of luck going back to NZ!!
I traveld to Dubai first last year , because a lot of influencers tell that Dubai is the best place to live...so i was there for 2 weeks to make my own picture. So at the first time i was shocked about that there is no free speech and actually the city has no soul and the bars where are women the air is freezed , because you can not just casually talk to a random women for a date or something. After 2 week i must say there was this positiv thing about the comfort and convinience.
@Enzo-G63 free speech is incredibly important and it’s sad that you don’t even realize why it has value. Like a goldfish in a small bowl that doesn’t dare to dream of being free because it’s dangerous out there in the lake so it tells itself that the bowl is great. All governments are unethical and corrupt, we have a right and a duty to criticize them.
@ashleylala4293 freespeech is overrated. Just an example.... many brag about freesoeech is USA, so can you say anything, without getting targeted or potentially losing your livelihood?
Lol "no free speech"? So 2 weeks in you have an issue with free speech. Pray tell what you wanted to say that you weren't allowed to and who actually stopped you??? I find it odd that being only there for 2 weeks you had an issue with free speech.
First time viewer and I think it's a fair analysis. Personal safety is quite underated, Dubai (and UAE overall) is hands down the safest place on earth which one appreciates as they get older, or have young children or from a religious minority.
Can't be safer than Japan. In Japan you can forget your wallet somewhere and 3 days later it'll still be there... It's an alternative universe, not another country.
Your blog is so reassuring to me, an older individual, about this younger generation. You seem to have a valuable outlook on life and good work ethic. Wish you the best for an interesting, fulfilling life!
I must admit, I didn’t watch your entire video but did catch the first 5 minutes. The comments section is full of people sharing their experiences in Dubai. Dubai is a major business hub connecting the MENA region, much like New York, London, or Mumbai. It’s a highly competitive city, and for those seeking a more community-oriented environment, other cities within the Emirates might be a better fit. Dubai is a Muslim city, but it's also a tolerant one that welcomes people from all nationalities and religious backgrounds. It's important to remember that life isn't just about chasing money and wealth. Many who relocate from Western countries often do so because they struggled to find suitable employment at home.
We lived in Dubai and Abu Dhabi for the last 10 years and for us, it's a different experience. I've met a lot of our friends there. It's easier for us since there are a lot of fellowmen from our country (Philippines), living and working there. You are right with your pros and cons, but it taught us much knowledge, built wisdom, and plans for our future. We love how accessible Dubai is when you travel to Europe. We moved to Australia after that and considered it the best for our family and future. But we miss the desert once in a while, the people, the culture, and the food scene.
Dude, you'd probably be happier in Singapore if you want to live in a big, sophisticated city with nature, community, infrastructure... all in a central location ✌🏽
For me Margarita Island, is the best place in the planet, you can buy a nice apartment or house for around $10.000, that island has the best malls in the Caribbean, the people are nice and friendly.
EXCELLENT video thank you for succintly describing all of this. I visited Dubai a few years ago for a month and I often toy with the idea of moving there for a couple of years with the taxfree setup but Im a US citizen and have been more strongly feeling pulled to set up home base in NYC. After watching this video I KNOW that my feeling of being called to New York is a MUCH better fit for me. I have been traveling and visiting family the last couple years and I really miss sense of community plus the extremely strict laws do not work well for me. So I am very grateful for your summary and showcase of who is and who isnt a good fit for the place. Cheers!
I've been in Dubai for 4 years and married, never made a penny.. I can't start a business because I dont have a budget.. working as employee. I just hate it
It's incredibly easy. Won't actually take too long to save enough to finally leave where you work.. Takes courage and knowing the right contacts. But don't stay unhappy there.
You forgot about the weather, though it is very harsh in summer but it is amaizing at least 8 months out of 12. Pretty good description of Dubai.The taxe free is just out of this world. You make money selling your house, it all goes to your bank account, no queations ask. You make money on the stock market, except for transaction fees and dividend, zero taxe. You own a property, zero school taxe or annual taxe. Just housing fees on electric bill and maintenance fee for the community maintenance where you live.
@@mteokay1246 Agree, there is something like 70-90K non taxable and some expense deduction available to Americans. But you are right, there is no hiding for USA citizen.
I was in Dubai for a week on a job interview that was paying 5 times my salary at the time , and didn’t take the job for the very reasons you mentioned. I haven’t seen another clip describe Dubai as good and true as you have! Well done and best move to get out of there🎉
That was one of the best talking videos I ever saw, not only for this subject but in general. How you sorted your points in numbers made it super clear and user friendly. Thanks for the info.
Nice assessment, your bonus pro hit the nail on the head. I moved there in the mid nineties and left 2009 after seeing the country go from a jewel in the desert to an oasis of grotesque opulence. Sounds like you did it right and took the best parts and left with a clear wise head.
It is simple, if you value zero personal income tax Dubai is worth it, if you dont then Dubai is not worth it. If Dubai had average tax rates no one would move there and if no one moved there then there would have been no demand to build anything.
From $10K to $25k that's the minimum range of profit return every week I think it's not a bad one for me, now I have enough to pay bills and take care of my family
So you are very level headed, clear and focused plus you sincerely know what you do and don't want, and what your options are. So you made the most Dubai for personal growth too. Well Done
first time to the channel; what a candid dude 👏🏻🤘🏻 I was on/off Dubai 2016-2019 working on Expo2020. I work in solar energy and I guess an environmentalist at heart. What surprised me about Dubai was meeting people from all corners of the world trying to make something of their lives. Nobody comes with their tribe and are generally to embrace you as a new friend if you click. People take you into their group. I rediscovered who I was through other peoples openness to me. Everyone works their ass off and you raise your game..do more than you thought you could. It has left an impact on me. Live in Berlin now..very relaxed in comparison 😄
I grew up in regional Queensland and the best education investment I've made was to pack up and live overseas. I spent seven years in Europe and another 7 in Asia. Now, it's nice to be back in Queensland and Brisbane is a reasonably sized city. I still keep my eyes out for sound opportunities to live abroad. Congratulations on your ME adventure, Liam! You don't have to be a creep to mature and travel too.
Haha... you never hear of Aussies or New Zealanders choosing to go live in Central America or sub-Saharan Africa. Only some northern Europeans have the balls to do that....
Lack of nature is why I’m leaving too. Not a whole lot of greenery. And the heat between June to October is awful. I don’t agree necessarily about the police. They’ve always been helpful in my experience. Nothing to fear if anyone’s moving here. :) Cost of living is high yes - but high salaries with no income tax makes it all manageable. It’s a great city- but at some point - you might get tired of it. If you’re someone who craves nature - you won’t last long. Another great thing is - travel is super easy- well connected to lots of great travel destinations.
1 Of the best videos of the pros & cons of Dubai. Dubai is worth the visit, but it needs to be short term. I lived in Dubai for too long was there for 12 years. Great video sums up Dubai.
I think you made the right choice! Dubai seems too artificial to me, in my 3 months there. New Zeeland is one of the most beautiful countries in the world.
11:22 you're spot on this because as you said Dubai attracts a certain types of guys and I definitely don't want to be associated with them I think going to Dubai as a tourist makes sense more than actually living there it's seems like an empty concrete city with no soul compared to other cities
Great video, I enjoyed it. I have just relocated to Dubai from New Zealand as well (Taranaki born and raised). We've been here 3 weeks now (I say we, as I have a family with 2 young kids) and already I can resonate with a lot of the points you have outlined in this clip! However, one thing that I would say is more of a pro than a con is the community point. But that is because we moved into a family orientated community - there are kids and young families everywhere. We have met more people in the last 3 weeks than we would have met in a year in New Zealand. Which is nice. I have been surprised (and frustrated) how slow and stressful 'setting up' has been here though. LOTS of paper work, lots of unexpected fees, lots of extra costs I wasn't aware of and also lots of delays. Though we did choose the hard path when it came to moving - We purchased a house here on a mortgage, and I'm self employed - moving the company to Dubai - so there has been a lot more work compared to say someone moving here and just renting and getting a job and a salary. Anyway, like you - the location is a big driver for my move. Plus I wanted to be surrounded by ambition and recognised NZ was not the best place to grow my business (I travel to Europe a lot as well). Plus, I didn't think NZ was the best place for my kids (poor schooling, medical system etc). Will Dubai be our forever 'home', who knows. We'll definitely give it a solid crack. But I wouldn't be surprised if in 2-5 years we're moving out for another change.
I literally had NO idea what it was like there so THANK YOU bro (I’ve followed your channel for Ai before) FANTASTIC quick real view for us all! AMAZING
Had lived in Shanghai for 13yrs, I realized immediately this is not my place at all right after I arrived in Dubai yesterday. I'm joking with my friends this is just a heated version of Pudong, shanghai，city of steel and concrete, extremely wide streets with traffic jam nor no space for people to walk. As a person from the country with overbearing government, I can even sense the regime here also doing the same in every aspect in the society, like you can not call someone with whatapp, messenger, telegram, facetime, Chinese wechat, only the two apps of their own, unless opening your vpn all the time.
I'm 46 and Dubai has been very good to me. It all depends on your attitude. I have a great friendship group. Live in a gorgeous villa in a very green and lush area. You sound bitter. Dubai isn't for everyone. Depends how much effort you put in socially also. I never got sucked into fancy cars and designer goods as I've never understood why people want that. I spend my money on experiences, my family, dogs and travel. I also volunteer at charities and work full time. I'm sure the dating scene has changed but I hear women say that men just think they are constantly on holiday and won't commit. Not sure if it's a Dubai thing or just a world wide problem due to dating apps. Plus you have so many nationalities here, some have very different values. Everyone is different. Just don't get sucked into the wealth, build a strong friendship group and work hard. Dubai can really work out for you.
If you already have your social needs satisfied through a family it's a decent place. For those still seeking their life partner -- particularly straight guys -- it's a horrible expensive waste of time even trying to get a glimmer of attention as anyone beyond either a servant, a mark, or an obstacle.
Such a great video. It popped up on my feed drew me in. I watched it and a few mins it I can tell you are highly intelligent and self aware. Hard to believe you’re 24. Im not sure what your channel is about but I know I’ll be able to learn from it so I just subscribed. Love the way you relay information, in an objective fair and calm way. Thank you.
Hi from Serbia, glad you are here bro, if you need anything just say 😁 I have truffle business and marketing agency so I may be able to help with networking. Wellcom to Serbia 🥳
Interesting. I have a very different perspective after 4 years coming to Dubai and 2 years living here. The sense of reputation maybe it’s attached to your market segment, whereas to me it has been a great asset being working in the UAE. No idea about the dating scene, but as per making friends and having a sense of community, my personal experience has been better than in the USA or Europe. Emiratis are extremely kind and it helps a lot trying to speak a little bit of Arabic (also as a matter of respect for their culture) and many expats I’ve met are here to stay (also maybe we are from different age groups). I’ve lived in NZ a long time ago, so I can relate to your extremely high standards as per nature and climate, but I’ve found so much beauty in the desert and desert life and, of course, it helps if you can afford taking a break elsewhere during summer time. As you said, it’s not for everyone and it seems that you tried to be very honest to your feelings in your video. Wish you best of luck in your next steps.
I have been living here for 10 years now. The first four years were hell and I hated Dubai. But this was due to personal reasons and once that was resolved, I discovered the positive side of Dubai. I am a single woman living with my adult daughter and the fact that Dubai is so safe for woman counts a lot. Where you come from also matters a lot when evaluating Dubai. I am from India and was travelling in the US for a month recently. I would take Dubai any day. Dubai has the infrastructure and technical advances of the West combined with the convenience of the East.
Liam - thanks so much for posting such an interesting video! I'm not even considering moving to Dubai at this age and stage in my life but I found your attitude, maturity and presentation well worth my time. Good luck!
Thanks for sharing this Liam! You've validated a lot of points I was thinking about. It would be cool if you could also talk about your experience in Europe 🔥🌍
Thanks for your comments. As an older guy who has enjoyed a fantastic life, Dubai is anathema for me. I doubt if I would last more than a couple of weeks but as you say it entirely depends on your age and priorities. I grew up in a society devoid of hi tech and so glad I did, what you don’t know you don’t miss and though I’ve had my ups and downs (who hasn’t) wouldn’t trade my life for that of anyone else.
The most valuable thing I got out of Dubai: "It was seeing where I don't want to end up."
Sums it up quite nicely.
good for this guy but crazy to me that it takes some people years to figure this out. it's literally the biggest sh*t hole on earth and all the reports about it are out there in plain sight.
I was so looking forward to leaving this fake, overpriced city with controlled freedom of speech and stuck up, unfriendly people with miserable attitude. Never again!
Dude prefers OLDER Women.. 😀
Should have moved to Abu Dhabi then or Bahrain or Oman there heaven
@@diorocks5858 Abu Dhabi for work and life, Dubai for mental reset and a healthy weekend portion of fakeness lol
I'm 40 years your senior, and I will suggest that people of your age (20-35 really) have _More_ opportunity than we had. Many "younger folks" don't think so, as they are mentally trapped in their geographic bubbles. But for those that realize the traditionally cultural (meaning Western) ideals are designed to only shackle one to "perpetually chasing the carrot". Whereas actually living a meaningful life doesn't revolve around debt, hustling 24/7, acquiring _Contrived_ trappings of success, etc. . I would submit that it wasn't the _Location_ (Dubai) that allowed you to flourish, it was the mere fact that you had the courage, wherewithal, and determination to venture out of your particular cultural bubble. It's the gettin' out part that seeds the success, not particularly where one goes.
It is not the same to start a company in San Francisco than in a small town in Mexico and moving from your city without capital and without support can destroy your morale before achieving success, in addition to the lack of opportunities and mentors.
@@orlandocastellanos9263 I don't disagree with you. Here is the _Nuance;_ You stated "... can destroy your morale before achieving success,". [Keyword: "can"] Such a move can also _Enhance_ ones position.
The point is removing oneself from the mental bondage of ones geographic comfort zone. Indeed, getting away from the so-called support system, forcing one to engage, compromise, relate, and _Compete_ in the real world. Example; if on is not born into privilege, Being in San Francisco (Silicon Valley) will not typically present an advantage. It takes more than developing a better Mouse-trap, one also has to hone the skills to SELL the better mouse-trap the consumers or/and investors.
I like this. Well articulated. Thank you for sharing.
dem right✌
Well everything is expensive now can afford to do anything
Absolutely spot on, Liam. I have spent many years in Dubai, and what have I realized? Dubai is 'quicksand'. If you stay there for too long you'll sink, the longer you stay deeper you'll sink, and by the time you get out you'll be too old. Dubai is good for, holiday/visit but not for work and living. For professionals, it's career suicide. Everything is so artificial; people, friends, relationships, attitudes of the people and the city itself.
Wow, please elaborate some more. Why is it career suicide and why is everything artificial? Can you give examples please? Super interested in your experiences and view.
London is same....
@@beslemeto err no??? Dubai is quite different and prolly not for anybody who is not affluent already. Or have a problem with th endogenous family rulers whimsical ways and laws. Also the sight of full on slavery -and not just extreme economic inequality- can get under your skin over time. Oh and then ofc even if you don't belong to lower classes perse you may happen to be a woman or gay, etc
So true!
Absolutely I agree, a fake city with fake people. I spent 8 years of my youth there there and regret I didn’t get out early 😢
This feels like the most honest, thoughtful, and unbiased review of living in Dubai I have come across. This video was really helpful and stands out amongst a sea of videos with an agenda, painting Dubai as either a paradise or a dystopia. Thank you so much for this.
Moving to Dubai 30 years ago was the best thing I ever did and I had lived previously in the UK, California and Australia. I got married here and had my daughter here. It is the best place to have kids who grow up into polite, driven and grounded young adults. I have witnessed that in my daughter and every one of her friends. I know I will be sad when the day comes to leave as this feels like home. Sure, it's not perfect- but nowhere is, and are there some cons, yes but they are few and the benefits and pleasure of living here outweigh them. When I need a nature fix, I will take my annual vacation to a number of places a short flight away and easy to pop to the Uk to visit family and be reminded of why I left to move here. And to feel safe is priceless.
How do you compare California and Australia with Dubai?
Of course you love it there. Those Arabs are obsessed with blondes, especially women. You have been treated very well just for your looks and thats it. Just look have badly they treat blacks, Indians (many with advanced degrees), Asians like Filipinos and other not white-passing Arabs in the region. Dubai is an ugly place filled by fakeness everywhere.
@@thewhatorwhy mad lady
@@thewhatorwhy, expensive, not safe, bad culture
Totally agree 👍
Dude. Living in Dubai 2 years now. You're 100% right. The dating scene is also full of women looking to level up at every turn. Gold diggers paradise
@Russo2024Zir There very few illegals hear. I think you mean expats. Dubai is supposed to be for us too. We drive the economy
There are so many nice girls to be frank. I was there 10 years, met great girls, emirates crew. Very healthy lifestyle oriented. But I know there are others too.
Also the quality of guys too, "tech" entrepeneurs , or other wannabes flashy dudes doing reels with rented cars , superficial guys that came after the pandemic thanks to instagram , mostly which goes perfectly with the golddiggers . So i would say both suits each other. I could say majority of single guys are like this.
plus . Ive living here 8 years so i know what i am talking about
if you go in Dubai for dating you are DELUSIONAL
For every good digger out there is a man that only will date a woman for her looks so what’s the difference? Both looking for a partner for the wrong reasons
You built a pretty good case for 90% of people to not even bother thinking about Dubai.
Great where you from ?
@@mohammedaldowairi996 most probably not Dubai, you?
@@mohammedaldowairi996 Los Angeles
reputation should be #1, Dubai rat scammer
He trade New Zeland for Dubai.......Jesus....
Dubai is for Emiraties, they have big extended families and roots there, it’s their land and culture, only they have citizenship, everyone else is just a visitor regardless of how long they live there. Local emirati men have no problem finding women as they marry within their community!
They're ugly on the outside and the poor things are ugly on the outside too. 😂
I’ve lived in the UAE for 12 years and I love living here. The sun, sand sea lifestyle is something I always dreamed of when I lived in the UK. Every day is like a holiday. I work for semi-govt and have a fantastic salary and benefits which I could not get in the UK. In this video, he says 70% of the population is male which is true but the unequal gender distribution is due to large number of migrant labourers from south-east Asia who are the very low paid construction workers or retail assistants or office boys (although most are not boys, they’re grown men). If you put the construction workers to one side and you focus on Westerners, Americans, Australians, Europeans etc, I’d say there are more women than men. This guy in the video says he moved there on his own at 22 years old and worked long days as an entrepreneur, sometimes until 11 at night. Not surprised he felt a bit lonely and a lack of community and found it hard to date. That’s not the way to make friends, and find ladies to date. How you experience Dubai depends on so many different things, your age, your social skills (how good you are at making friends easily), who you work for or if you work alone, people you already know there, your knowledge and understanding of the culture and ‘how things work’, if you like the sunny beach lifestyle etc. I think if this guy goes back to Dubai or Abu Dhabi 10 years from now (when he’s a bit more worldly) with, say, a girlfriend, group of friends or if he’s married with kids, he’ll see it from a different perspective and will look back on his early twenties and realise he was not in the right place at the right time for what he wants out of life. For me, for my friends, it’s amazing. We love it here. The only way to know if it’s right for you is to experience it for yourself.
Wonderful young man, this video is much more than a review of living in Dubai. Many will benefit from the wisdom of making the best of circumstances, finding and pulling oneself from a somewhat messy world and finding a clearer forward path. Nice going at 24.
Dubai is great to touch down and get motivated by wealth and then disappear back into nature and grind with the motivation you got from there. Then once you start seeing the results, pop back out & enjoy your new wealth in Dubai or another city, then get back to the grind in nature. Balance between city & nature is key.
@@JeffLombardo Dubai has fucking very very low salaries for Asians
nailed it!
"Motivated by wealth." No thanks.
What a bullshit
@@organboi then go be motivated by poverty lol
Lived and worked in Dubai and Abu Dhabi between 2006 and 2011 (age 26-31). Revisited in 2017 and 2019. I can confirm everything that you said here. Even then had a tendency to became progressively more expensive and... soulless. I would add that if you do business with local entities (most of them gov. controlled) you will have a hard time getting paid. I had the luxury of being surrounded by friends, but still felt... dry. Left because of burnout, weather, shallow humans and the feeling I was struggling in vain after the first 2 years. Learned and earned a lot though. Only regret is that 5 years was too much, 2 would have been enough.
I lived there too and agree with you. I have a close friend who is musician from Spain, and he got scammed by employers many times, and couldn't work easily because he didn't have a company and a license to work as an artist, which is nonsense because it only limits the amount of people than can work and make their art and bring that soulful vibe.
Try to live in Australia, you will feel about people and making friends the same. It’s always happening when you are immigrating. People always compare their home country where they have relatives and friends with a new country, so the last one will be always not in favor of the first one
Bro is always straight to the point. No Fuzz. Appreciate that!
Absolutely right
your bro ?? since when ??
As a female who lives in Dubai for more than 10 years I would like to say something about the dating scene. Decent women struggle finding decent men in Dubai because many men come to Dubai not looking for meaningful relationships but just casual flings and men purposely prefer dating eye candy who in their turn have their own “financial” goals. It’s a Demand- Supply situation.
Tried to find a rich guy and failed?
Thanks for your insight. Much appreciated.
@jxsilicon9 she was trying to find something deeper, your reading comprehension is poor like your attitude
everything is demand-supply sweet heart, but loved your analysis
@@Lost4llen not everything...
My summary of the quality of life in Dubai: Dubai is like a Christmas decoration ball, very beautiful on the outside , but completely hollow in the inside!
A bit like friendship, only skin deep...........
Yes that's how Christmas is also
Great analogy, and my sense of the place too from various videos and a family member (who was pretty superficial) visiting Dubai.
Agreed. I'm currently living in Dubai (moved here before Covid as a consultant for the government), and the dating pool here is not great. Isolation is real - especially if you can't find people with similar values.
As you said, it's a numbers game. However, as an entrepreneur (having left the corporate world), having strong faith, wanting a family, and seeking a masculine man - not a sugar daddy - is tough and makes you feel like a unicorn. Most of my single female friends are in the same situation because we can't find men with a long-term vision (not just for love but even for their own lives). Most people are focused on status - not even true wealth building - and showing off to others, losing sight of what's truly important and fulfilling.
But things will change soon. I've just subscribed and wish you the best on your next steps!
consultant in what ?
Agreed. Dating is rough there.
From all you’ve described from your own detailed experience and that of others what makes you say ‘but things will change soon’ how exactly?? Your answer should be interesting!
Woh desperate you are
@@strategy419 strategy (: did projects to Expo and Dubai Economy
I lived there for 20 years and saw a lot of change. My family grew up there and I loved it back then. You're pretty spot on though with how things currently are. I still have a business there but it's getting harder and harder and more expensive to run it despite the hype.
Moved my family back to the US after living there for 10 years because of the lack of community. I also found children there to be more spoiled and more bratty than kids in the US. My kids are more happy back in the state than they were in Dubai
The kids in the US are def. worse 😂😂😂I taught in the Middle East for a long time. They are indeed spoiled but the children here in the US are awful, please don't sugarcoat it. 😂😂😂
@@ThePinkPantha21like everywhere, it’s probably quite dependent on state and neighbourhood. I’m not even American, but you shouldn’t just generalise one of the planets largest countries 😅
@@ThePinkPantha21 well, that sounds like an anecdotal unbalanced take and I wonder what kind of experienced teacher in the Middle Ease uses that many crying smiley emojies...
At least dubai is safe for kids, unlike the states where theres shootings, trafficking, drugs and kids cant go out without adults
American kids r worse than Dubai n most other countries I hv lived in. And dont even get me started on d random shooting culture jn American schools
I lived and worked in Dubai for four years. And yes, this is a place where you don't want to end up. Under the shiny surface it's all stinky and ugly.
Where did you move to?
Could you elaborate please?
@@Vengeful_Goan_spirit They have truck loads of shit hauled out of the city because many buildings lack a sewage system
I was born in America. I moved to Bogota Colombia recently. 9000ft altitude, cool and dry. 69F daily highs, 55F nightly lows. That’s everyday, year round. No humidity. No flies or bugs. A lot of tourists go to the beach cities or Medellin. Not for me. I love Bogota and I’m not leaving.
What do you do for a living there? Because the wages are very low..
Have been in Dubai for 21 years and he is spot on. Very clear video.
yeah, you'll get jailed for reporting sexual assault.
what has kept you in Dubai for so long if it's so bad?
I wouldn’t move to Dubai even if it was rent free…. Such a fake place.
There is no Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ in that country. It's just so dead. As if you are eating candy with a wrapper on it.
@@Jesus-The-Everlasting-FatherIt's very easy for person can get arrested in Dubai for stupidest reason. All my friends in Dubai have spent at least a night in police custody, and got released next morning.😂
I am sorry to put this out it's just a personal opinion, I would totally fail to understand why someone would like to leave a nature abundant paradise like new zealand to move to dubai. As a nature, waterfalls and cold weather loving guy, even your pros sounded like cons to me. But yeah the money is good.
Personal income taxes, for one. They are zero in Dubai. 30%+ in NZ
if in younger years when one has peak stamina one makes great sacrifices to make serious bank, then perhaps one can retire in their 40's and do whatever they want while that bank keeps churning and growing on auto pilot.
No jobs
Two words. Jacinda Arden
no taxes and crime rate super super low
People struggling mostly are migrants from around the last 7 years. In the 2000s and early 2010s serious money was made there with less competition.
People made money until 2000, from here on things went south after property boom. Now Dubai is the hot bed for scammers and fraudsters.
But that is true everywhere. World has turned much more "winner takes it all". Now even high skiled professionals are perpetually running on hamster wheel.
Having traveled in and out of Dubai for many years, your assessment is spot on!
Your videos are awesome!! I've been watching them lately, and I have to say, they've been super helpful. After spending 3 years in Dubai, I've been thinking more seriously about investing, but I still can't seem to find the right investment to get into. I would really appreciate any help or guidance you could offer. Thanks!
Yes, there has been a lot of talk about investing lately but I am new and want to know where to start. Can someone explain to me how to invest and get started?
In my opinion, investing is not about getting rich but rather about achieving financial independence. To become a professional investor, you need a financial advisor. I succeeded by following the instructions of my financial advisor (Darry Edwards). I have no regrets so far.
Awesome, you have such amazing information. Can you share more details on how to contact your financial advisor? Like I said, I am very interested and if I can get some help here, I will start.
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Best Dubai Pro/Con Video.
I have lived there 7 years of my life and i would just add to it.. Expats know that they will be there only for a few years... This in combination with the fact that you need to know people to get ahead makes people ruthless...
Relationships become very egoistic.
sounds like everything that's bad about capitalism dialed up to 11.
@@anab0lic nah it's human nature
@@ahbe9232 Nope, not everyone is selfish only thinking about their own personal gain.
People that struggle are the newbies from the last 7 years. Real money 💰 was made 2000s and early 2010s
@theancientsancients1769 Yes, during those years, if you had a pulse and happened to live in dubai, you probably made a ton of money. I was referring to the values that make up a person's character though. It's crazy how you can tell who is new to dubai and who is already corrupted just by speaking to them for a few minutes...
Your priorities will change as you get older due to the experiences you have when you are younger. My daughter is 24 as well. She is out on her own learning to survive. No matter how hard we parents try to prepare our children in advance, they simply end up having to learn on their own, and hopefully not die in the process. :)
Sorry to say sir but most of gangs take gilrs give them greed most of girls here are prostitute I know many girls here who say I'm in real estate business but actually millimoires fuck them that's reality
Well said
Can’t escape Darwin 🐒
Lucky your daughter!
I never got any guidance at all
Left Croatia to work on USA cruise liners 25 yrs ago
Now British citizen and enjoying my travels and life
you so mature for your age.... to see all this things im impressed.... a girl who lives in uae, i can agree with everything you said. congrats to your parents for giving you this education...all the best in your future
Esti romanca, ai valori si apreciezi acelasi lucru la altii. Asta este (din pacate) o raritate in Europa de vest, in SUA, Canada, Dubai, etc.
As someone who lived in Kuwait for 7 years, I can attest that this is by far the most comprehensive 'reflections on...' piece to camera I've seen. Everything mentioned here is absolutely true (to date), and unless certain things change, is likely to remain that way for some time yet.
This is one of the most succinct and accurate executive summaries I have ever listened to. You are wise and have a brilliant future ahead of you!
YT suggested this video to me. I appreciate your honesty in this video, you seem very sincere. I totally understand all the pro's and con's you are mentioning. All the best to you!
Impressed with how level headed you are and not being a typical Gen Z-er.
First time I was in Dubai was in 1991 and already felt back then as a superficial, soulless and material world.
When a woman tells me she lived in Dubai for a few years, I say no thanks and move on.
Yes you can get something out of Dubai as you experienced and described. You did a great job, discovered, worked hard, learned a lot and realize that a truthful, natural, humanely life doesn't take place in Dubai.
To me it's an empty, overly regulated, material focused and shallow society.
Thanks for this great vid and analysis. You're only 24 with more wisdom and grounded spirit than 99% of 44 y.o. and older. You're rocking your life very well.
Cheers and keep on going and teaching people about the true values of Life.
⭐💜✌️
Lol I've met a few vvimmin who said they'd lived in Dubai too. Instant disqualification.
I've never been to Dubai, but generalization never did any good to me. I'll tell you this, stats shows that 80% of women in the US are not okay with men making less money than they are and that doesn't make them bad people. Just like a dude who is showing off a very beautiful woman next to him is not a bad person.
you judge someone instantly because they said they lived somewhere for a few yeasr? Without even knowing anything about them and their experience, and say no thanks? NO THANKS! 😂😂
@@dawno.81 Yeah. I guess it must be our loss, right? 😂
@@dawno.81
You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it is about women and Dubai.
The lack of nature would kill me. I'd be so damn depressed in a place like Dubai. Breathing exhaust fumes all day. The sausage fest and crappy women don't sound appealing either. I've been to NZ and it's just incredible. Nature is a far better sculptor than anything we can build. Unbelievably beautiful country and people.
Yes and thank GOD for that. The ultimate creator
Exactly. And the slave is labor culture in Dubai. No thank you. The air quality alone is horrid
I lived in NZ and since 25 years in cool green NW Spain , best move ever. Would never advice to fall into the nude bare cold damp poor violent overrated far flung NZ narrative unless you are a simpleton with no taste and background.
If NZ is so incredible why did he leave? And why now did he move to a poor third world country under Putin? Obviously he did not make it there
@@bambinaforever1402 Ask him. I think NZ is incredible.
For someone who lived in such a fake world for 2 years Im really glad you stayed so level headed - wonderful life experience for you Seems the old saying is true All the glitters is not gold Most videos show the wealth and glamour thank you for keeping it real and including the pros and cons
I came to Dubai as a photographer, as soon as you get your tripod out, there is a security guard jumping on you, I can't even make a picture of the sea... what a sick joke, an awful place,
also way too much sun, heat, and humidity.
Just beaches and shops...
Hello sir, how can I reach out to you? I have passion for photo and videography. I would need you mentorship if possible please. Am a newbie
@@jallowjerry9452 @pictofrog
I can't understand why anyone would want to keep visiting a live air prison.
There are places people live with modest incomes but as free citizens and democracy.
Wait, filming is not allowed?! Why?? Is that a law or something? Or just a policy of private places?
Total B.S I have took photos all over Dubai never have I been prevented.
Loved your BONUS PRO!!! Getting that awareness at a young age is a good thing. Way to go!!!
I lived in Dubai for 2 years and absolutely hated it. It's true that not everything that glitters is gold.
Interesting video. As someone who has been living in Dubai for 2 decades now it's quite surprising how different the experiences of individuals can be. Personally I would have to say my list would look completely different. For example I feel Dubai Police are some of the friendliest police from anywhere and I would have so many stories to share to back up why I feel the way I do. I also don't think it's particularly difficult here for entrepreneurs, quite the opposite. There are so many companies that handle every little aspect and supporting to make your life easier and as there is a lot of competition prices are very reasonable for all these services. Even groceries and food are much lower than lets say in Europe or the US. Of course if you only buy imported products then you will pay a premium but if you buy fresh produce meat chicken seafood and locally produced items you will spend much less than in the Western world. Restaurants take out the same. Of course there is no limit if you go to high end places but you would not have to choose such places if you are on a limited budget. Also never had an issue as far as dating goes, of course it always depends on what you are looking for. But then again I am a female and as you already mentioned the gender distribution is really in our favor here 😇I enjoy being treated in a more old fashioned, gentlemanly way which is unfortunately not the norm anymore in the west.
The negatives for me after all these years in the UAE would be 1) definitely the weather during the summer half of the year. I don't mind dry heat but the humidity in summer it's just insufferable. 2) Nature. You are absolutely correct about that, I can relate to your missing the outdoors and true nature beyond a landscaped garden. I do enjoy going out of the city to the desert or even the mountainous areas that we have here, but it's still a far cry from much more scenic nature in so many other places around the world. As a third negative I would have to state that you can never rely on rules and regulations here to remain the same. Today it's like this then they might implement a new law from one week to the next and suddenly your whole business might be in jeopardy if the new rules somehow affect you. I've seen friends lose huge amounts of money that they had invested lets say in a restaurant and then suddenly one week they were told that this area is closed and that was that. No solution given and a lot of money lost. You also gotta be careful with who you do business. Let's say you are a construction company and win a contract for a government project. If any payment issues arise you are in trouble, not like you can go to court and sue them.
Overall and to summarize, however, I do think that one can build a very good life over here. Sometimes I do consider moving elsewhere, it's mostly about missing nature for me, but it is certainly not easy to leave after being used to the convenient life style of Dubai.
Puzzling that you have so many stories related to the Police. I wonder why...
@@west_ldn_xxx5549haha yeah, I’m curious
The police thing may be also because you're a woman... They treat women better.
@@west_ldn_xxx5549she just said they are friendly! And indeed they are. It’s part of middle eastern hospitality culture!
@@west_ldn_xxx5549 I see no mention of family options in your comment.
I lived in Abu Dhabi for 6 years 2009 -2015. The first thing my boss told me is that everyone leaves, it’s just a question of whether your money pot or shit pot fills up first. This was good advice, I realised that it wasn’t a permanent thing, always had the end in sight and I squirrelled every spare penny away (off shore) and never emotionally unpacked. There are many material things that make the Middle East attractive but once you scrape the surface, you realise it’s a castle made of sand and the soul is as black as the oil it’s built on. If you go, leave your expectations about how you and others should be treated equally at home, understand that you have no rights, you are just labour, there is a cast system and what ever you do don’t upset a local. Then treat it like a bank job, get your head down and stick to the plan. Get in, grab the money, get out fast and don’t look back.
We lived in Dubai for 7 years, and have been out now for 6 years. This is the best, most rational and accurate reflection of Dubai I have watched on TH-cam. Well done 👌🏻
Wild horses couldn’t drag me to Dubai.
Same
I feel the same way about Vegas...all that glitters
I live in London and I’m sick of this place. Would love to move to Dubai.
@@vonder7 Dubai is a slave State
@@vonder7 Grass is always greener. You will miss london badly. You should go and see
You can tell when people say the truth, thanks Liam for everything you've done for us online!
15:30 😁
I live in Dubai and I couldn’t agree more with all the points you mentioned. Also, Serbia is great! Goodluck with your journey!
I lived in Dubai for 6 years after living in Al Ain for a year. I was there with my wife and two kids. As an American, the entire UAE experience for me was the single most greatest experience of my life. So much that I still come back to TH-cam and find videos like this. It’s been six years now that I’ve been back in the States and everyday I wake up and wish the nightmare would end 😂. I found safety, community and an overall sense of well-being. It was truly where I felt at home. Unfortunately, personal circumstances sent me back to the other side of the globe. But I would return in an instant if given the chance.
I came to Dubai for 2 weeks and have now been here for just over 8 years. We're not into the nightclub and partying scene. It depends on what you're looking for. There's many positives and I think like any country it comes with some variety of characters. The lack of violence and crime is an absolute blessing. We do a lot of outdoor activities during the cooler months and stay in and focus during the summer or head off for a month here and there. May not stay here forever, but grateful to be here and experience the kind friendly people we've met here.
meh
I’m military, I lived in Bahrain, Dubai and Saudi, all truth told. I loved it there but still wanted to leave. When I look back at it, it’s like it wasn’t a real place. Hard to describe. I want to go back for a long time but I don’t want to stay.
Where among the 3 countries would you settle for a long time ?
Hi I also lived in the same 3 countries. Bahrain, Abu Dhabi and Jeddha. Over 10 years. I really enjoyed it. But the whole time I was there I always felt this is not my home.
@@MeMoi-k9t I would settle in Abu Dhabi if I had the choice. Oman isn’t too far with natural waterfalls and greenery so that’s that.
'When I look back at it, it’s like it wasn’t a real place' It isn't a real place, it's a fake place.
thank you for your terrorism sir
I visited Dubai last winter, but preferred Cyprus where I have been multiple times, and arriving in Cyprus after spending a couple of weeks in Dubai was a real relief! I'm from Denmark btw. They have lots of nature and then Limassol is pretty metropolitan, almost like a mini Dubai but better. Going there again in 2 weeks
You live in Cyprus? Do you speak greek?
@ahbe9232 no need you can speak English or Russian and be ok.
I don't know about Dubai ,but i live in Cyprus and i am very disappointed ,the cities and small towns here are not really impressive compared to Italy or Spain, not so green ,full of messy buildings ,there are many roads in bad condition, there are many missing sidewalks ,trash bins always in the streets which looks ugly, some parking areas are not concreted at all, trash on the streets. People don't walk here mostly drive cars, winter is very boring ,many touristic places are closed. Many people smoke cigarettes here which is really annoying when u sit in a cafe outside. There are also many very old cars which pollute the air which should be forbidden. This year supermarkets are more expensive fruit kg costs 4€ , salaries here are low. Limassol is very expensive ,overrated ,there are few skyscrapers that's all . Cyprus isn't so modern, many people don't even have air conditioner at home ,this summer is very hot and humid, without air conditioner unbearable , electricity price is very high.
@@catsfan_Mi agree 100 %
@@catsfan_M Maybe you would prefer Dubai, but I doubt it. Spain and Italy are nice too, but have their own problems. Overall I think what Cyprus offers is pretty good depending on your circumstances and preference of course
I actually quite like how you put this video together and explained this .. very little bias, honest, realistic, and not so very negative nasty energy
Love your genuineness of your experience in Dubai especially the Cons that people might not see at a personal level, as what they see is just things on the surface about growing money.. Best of luck going back to NZ!!
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience! Am considering moving to Dubai and found this review to be very honest and also inspiring.
I traveld to Dubai first last year , because a lot of influencers tell that Dubai is the best place to live...so i was there for 2 weeks to make my own picture. So at the first time i was shocked about that there is no free speech and actually the city has no soul and the bars where are women the air is freezed , because you can not just casually talk to a random women for a date or something. After 2 week i must say there was this positiv thing about the comfort and convinience.
People complain about no free speech usually want to offend someone, And no random women do not want to be harassed.
@@Enzo-G63 you're acc offending me! Let's censor you!
@Enzo-G63 free speech is incredibly important and it’s sad that you don’t even realize why it has value. Like a goldfish in a small bowl that doesn’t dare to dream of being free because it’s dangerous out there in the lake so it tells itself that the bowl is great.
All governments are unethical and corrupt, we have a right and a duty to criticize them.
@ashleylala4293 freespeech is overrated. Just an example.... many brag about freesoeech is USA, so can you say anything, without getting targeted or potentially losing your livelihood?
Lol "no free speech"? So 2 weeks in you have an issue with free speech. Pray tell what you wanted to say that you weren't allowed to and who actually stopped you??? I find it odd that being only there for 2 weeks you had an issue with free speech.
First time viewer and I think it's a fair analysis. Personal safety is quite underated, Dubai (and UAE overall) is hands down the safest place on earth which one appreciates as they get older, or have young children or from a religious minority.
It's safe on the streets. Behind closed doors is easily a different story.
Can't be safer than Japan.
In Japan you can forget your wallet somewhere and 3 days later it'll still be there... It's an alternative universe, not another country.
Other Gulf states are safer plus financial crime and scams are more common in Dubai than other places.
used to be. not now
Not very safe if you criticise the government though is it
Hi Liam, you have a clean spirit. Keep it up. And good luck on your journey in life.
Your blog is so reassuring to me, an older individual, about this younger generation. You seem to have a valuable outlook on life and good work ethic. Wish you the best for an interesting, fulfilling life!
I must admit, I didn’t watch your entire video but did catch the first 5 minutes. The comments section is full of people sharing their experiences in Dubai. Dubai is a major business hub connecting the MENA region, much like New York, London, or Mumbai. It’s a highly competitive city, and for those seeking a more community-oriented environment, other cities within the Emirates might be a better fit. Dubai is a Muslim city, but it's also a tolerant one that welcomes people from all nationalities and religious backgrounds. It's important to remember that life isn't just about chasing money and wealth. Many who relocate from Western countries often do so because they struggled to find suitable employment at home.
Can you recommend other cities within the Emirates that might be a better fit?
as a locll i really apprieciate your honest review and you're always welcome to dubai and UAE
Hello. Iam Harrison and I just recently launched my Ai Automation Agency at 19 on my birthday a few weeks ago..
All thanks to Liam's video's
Congratulations 🎉
@@mrsd2143 thank you
100% agree on everything you said, Liam. Warsaw next? Enterpreneurship | Energy | Nature | Cheap | Community.
You're such a good person
'I wish I had spent more time in Dubai'. Said nobody on their deathbed.
We lived in Dubai and Abu Dhabi for the last 10 years and for us, it's a different experience. I've met a lot of our friends there. It's easier for us since there are a lot of fellowmen from our country (Philippines), living and working there. You are right with your pros and cons, but it taught us much knowledge, built wisdom, and plans for our future. We love how accessible Dubai is when you travel to Europe. We moved to Australia after that and considered it the best for our family and future. But we miss the desert once in a while, the people, the culture, and the food scene.
Australia is incredible and I am looking to do my visa applications as I feel for families it is fantastic!
Dude, you'd probably be happier in Singapore if you want to live in a big, sophisticated city with nature, community, infrastructure... all in a central location ✌🏽
but in singapore there is no beautiful russians/ white girls. The arabs love white girls
Fine city😂
@@parnamsaini4751 expensive city.....
Agree with that. Actually it's not that expensive except accommodation and cars!
@@mbronti i goto Singapore every year.. everything has gone up by 20 to 40 percent after 2020...
For me Margarita Island, is the best place in the planet, you can buy a nice apartment or house for around $10.000, that island has the best malls in the Caribbean, the people are nice and friendly.
🤫🤫🤫🤫 Margarita is our secret.
😂 not a secret anymore. I am googling it already @@keylahope8599
@@keylahope8599I love Margarita so much, there are too many things to do on that beautiful island, Venezuela is magic.
Venezuela is safe ? Or this part is safe ?
@@aksm8888 Margarita Island and Venezuela is super safe, the people is too friendly.
Great video mate. Appreciate the honesty and lack of sugar coating
EXCELLENT video thank you for succintly describing all of this. I visited Dubai a few years ago for a month and I often toy with the idea of moving there for a couple of years with the taxfree setup but Im a US citizen and have been more strongly feeling pulled to set up home base in NYC. After watching this video I KNOW that my feeling of being called to New York is a MUCH better fit for me. I have been traveling and visiting family the last couple years and I really miss sense of community plus the extremely strict laws do not work well for me. So I am very grateful for your summary and showcase of who is and who isnt a good fit for the place. Cheers!
Always keeping it real, appreciate your perspective on the experience.
I've been in Dubai for 4 years and married, never made a penny.. I can't start a business because I dont have a budget.. working as employee. I just hate it
Marriage was your biggest mistake.
Budget? Do you mean the funds to start a business?
@@SWISSMUSICFC Yes if I'm wrong. + Can't work without permit
It's incredibly easy.
Won't actually take too long to save enough to finally leave where you work..
Takes courage and knowing the right contacts. But don't stay unhappy there.
You forgot about the weather, though it is very harsh in summer but it is amaizing at least 8 months out of 12. Pretty good description of Dubai.The taxe free is just out of this world. You make money selling your house, it all goes to your bank account, no queations ask. You make money on the stock market, except for transaction fees and dividend, zero taxe. You own a property, zero school taxe or annual taxe. Just housing fees on electric bill and maintenance fee for the community maintenance where you live.
yea but if youre an expat from say the USA, nothing escapes Uncle Sam - he gonna tax your 'ess' whether youre earning stateside or earning in Dubai.
@@mteokay1246 Agree, there is something like 70-90K non taxable and some expense deduction available to Americans. But you are right, there is no hiding for USA citizen.
I was in Dubai for a week on a job interview that was paying 5 times my salary at the time , and didn’t take the job for the very reasons you mentioned. I haven’t seen another clip describe Dubai as good and true as you have! Well done and best move to get out of there🎉
That was one of the best talking videos I ever saw, not only for this subject but in general. How you sorted your points in numbers made it super clear and user friendly. Thanks for the info.
Nice assessment, your bonus pro hit the nail on the head. I moved there in the mid nineties and left 2009 after seeing the country go from a jewel in the desert to an oasis of grotesque opulence. Sounds like you did it right and took the best parts and left with a clear wise head.
It is simple, if you value zero personal income tax Dubai is worth it, if you dont then Dubai is not worth it. If Dubai had average tax rates no one would move there and if no one moved there then there would have been no demand to build anything.
Rather no oligarchs and oligarch-wannabes would move there. Normal people might actually have a chance.
From $10K to $25k that's the minimum range of profit return every week I think it's not a bad one for me, now I have enough to pay bills and take care of my family
Damn that's huge, how do you make that much weekly? I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Oh, yeah. That was possible with the help of my Guru expert, Jenifer Spencer
That's great!!. I don't know anything about investing and I intend to start. What are your strategies?
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately.
Wow! Kind of in shock you mentioned expert, Jenifer Spencer. What a coincidence
So you are very level headed, clear and focused plus you sincerely know what you do and don't want, and what your options are. So you made the most Dubai for personal growth too. Well Done
first time to the channel; what a candid dude 👏🏻🤘🏻
I was on/off Dubai 2016-2019 working on Expo2020. I work in solar energy and I guess an environmentalist at heart. What surprised me about Dubai was meeting people from all corners of the world trying to make something of their lives. Nobody comes with their tribe and are generally to embrace you as a new friend if you click. People take you into their group. I rediscovered who I was through other peoples openness to me. Everyone works their ass off and you raise your game..do more than you thought you could. It has left an impact on me. Live in Berlin now..very relaxed in comparison 😄
I grew up in regional Queensland and the best education investment I've made was to pack up and live overseas. I spent seven years in Europe and another 7 in Asia. Now, it's nice to be back in Queensland and Brisbane is a reasonably sized city. I still keep my eyes out for sound opportunities to live abroad. Congratulations on your ME adventure, Liam! You don't have to be a creep to mature and travel too.
Wanna live abroad? How about coming to Sweden?
What’s your job? Mate
Haha... you never hear of Aussies or New Zealanders choosing to go live in Central America or sub-Saharan Africa. Only some northern Europeans have the balls to do that....
He doesn’t have to be a mature creep??
One of the best detailed videos ive seen on the topic, im impressed 👌
Awesome video man, great and honest perspective!
Wow 😳
Lack of nature is why I’m leaving too. Not a whole lot of greenery.
And the heat between June to October is awful.
I don’t agree necessarily about the police. They’ve always been helpful in my experience. Nothing to fear if anyone’s moving here. :)
Cost of living is high yes - but high salaries with no income tax makes it all manageable.
It’s a great city- but at some point - you might get tired of it. If you’re someone who craves nature - you won’t last long.
Another great thing is - travel is super easy- well connected to lots of great travel destinations.
1 Of the best videos of the pros & cons of Dubai. Dubai is worth the visit, but it needs to be short term. I lived in Dubai for too long was there for 12 years. Great video sums up Dubai.
My highest respect for the courage. And thanks for sharing!
Courage 😂😂😂😂😂
I think you made the right choice!
Dubai seems too artificial to me, in my 3 months there.
New Zeeland is one of the most beautiful countries in the world.
No it isn't
@@kaydod3190why not ?
11:22 you're spot on this because as you said Dubai attracts a certain types of guys and I definitely don't want to be associated with them I think going to Dubai as a tourist makes sense more than actually living there it's seems like an empty concrete city with no soul compared to other cities
Great video, I enjoyed it. I have just relocated to Dubai from New Zealand as well (Taranaki born and raised). We've been here 3 weeks now (I say we, as I have a family with 2 young kids) and already I can resonate with a lot of the points you have outlined in this clip!
However, one thing that I would say is more of a pro than a con is the community point. But that is because we moved into a family orientated community - there are kids and young families everywhere. We have met more people in the last 3 weeks than we would have met in a year in New Zealand. Which is nice.
I have been surprised (and frustrated) how slow and stressful 'setting up' has been here though. LOTS of paper work, lots of unexpected fees, lots of extra costs I wasn't aware of and also lots of delays. Though we did choose the hard path when it came to moving - We purchased a house here on a mortgage, and I'm self employed - moving the company to Dubai - so there has been a lot more work compared to say someone moving here and just renting and getting a job and a salary.
Anyway, like you - the location is a big driver for my move. Plus I wanted to be surrounded by ambition and recognised NZ was not the best place to grow my business (I travel to Europe a lot as well). Plus, I didn't think NZ was the best place for my kids (poor schooling, medical system etc).
Will Dubai be our forever 'home', who knows. We'll definitely give it a solid crack. But I wouldn't be surprised if in 2-5 years we're moving out for another change.
I literally had NO idea what it was like there so THANK YOU bro (I’ve followed your channel for Ai before) FANTASTIC quick real view for us all! AMAZING
Great video! Very insightful and honest and I appreciate that. Thank you!
Had lived in Shanghai for 13yrs, I realized immediately this is not my place at all right after I arrived in Dubai yesterday. I'm joking with my friends this is just a heated version of Pudong, shanghai，city of steel and concrete, extremely wide streets with traffic jam nor no space for people to walk.
As a person from the country with overbearing government, I can even sense the regime here also doing the same in every aspect in the society, like you can not call someone with whatapp, messenger, telegram, facetime, Chinese wechat, only the two apps of their own, unless opening your vpn all the time.
I'm 46 and Dubai has been very good to me. It all depends on your attitude. I have a great friendship group. Live in a gorgeous villa in a very green and lush area. You sound bitter. Dubai isn't for everyone. Depends how much effort you put in socially also. I never got sucked into fancy cars and designer goods as I've never understood why people want that. I spend my money on experiences, my family, dogs and travel.
I also volunteer at charities and work full time. I'm sure the dating scene has changed but I hear women say that men just think they are constantly on holiday and won't commit. Not sure if it's a Dubai thing or just a world wide problem due to dating apps. Plus you have so many nationalities here, some have very different values. Everyone is different. Just don't get sucked into the wealth, build a strong friendship group and work hard. Dubai can really work out for you.
If you already have your social needs satisfied through a family it's a decent place. For those still seeking their life partner -- particularly straight guys -- it's a horrible expensive waste of time even trying to get a glimmer of attention as anyone beyond either a servant, a mark, or an obstacle.
For gay men it may be an even bigger waste of time: they get death sentences. 😆
It's a world problem now. I hear the same about Berlin, NYC, Scandinavia and other locations.
Agreed. Can’t think where else would be a better place to live right now.
lol
Nice, honest review. Good one!
Such a great video. It popped up on my feed drew me in. I watched it and a few mins it I can tell you are highly intelligent and self aware. Hard to believe you’re 24. Im not sure what your channel is about but I know I’ll be able to learn from it so I just subscribed. Love the way you relay information, in an objective fair and calm way. Thank you.
Hi from Serbia, glad you are here bro, if you need anything just say 😁 I have truffle business and marketing agency so I may be able to help with networking. Wellcom to Serbia 🥳
Hi, I moved to Serbia recently. Great choice mate. Best Wishes
Y'all are more than welcome to my country Kenya, 🇰🇪🇰🇪 where love and freedom abound.
But earn Peanuts 😂
😂😂😂
@@winstondsouza3177Better to earn peanuts and have freedom rather than live your life like a slave.
@@winstondsouza3177People in Dubai are super materialistic and fake.
Freedom my ass.
Interesting. I have a very different perspective after 4 years coming to Dubai and 2 years living here. The sense of reputation maybe it’s attached to your market segment, whereas to me it has been a great asset being working in the UAE. No idea about the dating scene, but as per making friends and having a sense of community, my personal experience has been better than in the USA or Europe. Emiratis are extremely kind and it helps a lot trying to speak a little bit of Arabic (also as a matter of respect for their culture) and many expats I’ve met are here to stay (also maybe we are from different age groups). I’ve lived in NZ a long time ago, so I can relate to your extremely high standards as per nature and climate, but I’ve found so much beauty in the desert and desert life and, of course, it helps if you can afford taking a break elsewhere during summer time. As you said, it’s not for everyone and it seems that you tried to be very honest to your feelings in your video. Wish you best of luck in your next steps.
You've only lived in Dubai for 2 years. I've lived in Dubai/UAE for 12 years. What he says is mostly true. It's not a place for everyone.
@@saiyedakhtar3931 mfer I lived here 16 years, my whole life lmao.
I have been living here for 10 years now. The first four years were hell and I hated Dubai. But this was due to personal reasons and once that was resolved, I discovered the positive side of Dubai. I am a single woman living with my adult daughter and the fact that Dubai is so safe for woman counts a lot. Where you come from also matters a lot when evaluating Dubai. I am from India and was travelling in the US for a month recently. I would take Dubai any day. Dubai has the infrastructure and technical advances of the West combined with the convenience of the East.
As always, Indians really love Dubai
Liam - thanks so much for posting such an interesting video! I'm not even considering moving to Dubai at this age and stage in my life but I found your attitude, maturity and presentation well worth my time. Good luck!
This was super helpful Liam. Very grounded video.
Thanks for sharing this Liam! You've validated a lot of points I was thinking about. It would be cool if you could also talk about your experience in Europe 🔥🌍
This guy is Spot On. Respect!
This is the best breakdown of any country Ive ever seen on TH-cam
Thanks for your comments. As an older guy who has enjoyed a fantastic life, Dubai is anathema for me. I doubt if I would last more than a couple of weeks but as you say it entirely depends on your age and priorities. I grew up in a society devoid of hi tech and so glad I did, what you don’t know you don’t miss and though I’ve had my ups and downs (who hasn’t) wouldn’t trade my life for that of anyone else.