Here's the predicted aftermath, according to Reddit statistics of cheating AHoles: Lisa takes the guilty cheater route and marries Mike. Once the ring is in place, Mike drops the cool guy facade and starts treating Lisa like trash, controlling and abusive - he doesn't take Lisa's grief over her dead marriage well. He cheats on her constantly and blatantly. Lisa takes it all in a mix of self-imposed punishment and lack of alternative to lying in the bed she made. John helps Emily realize she enabled her mother by accepting Mike into her life, and deeply regrets it. OP never threw it in her face but is somewhat hurt and distant after his move to Spokane. When her second son is born, she and John decide to move to Spokane closer to her dad. One year later, OP receives a call from Lisa. Mike got arrested in a bar fight and she doesn't have money for bail. She asks for help, and OP denies it, and after hanging up the call he ponders about the letters if his ex-wife was ever the women he thought she was.
Yeah but he was a cook(the word I really want to use would get this post deleted) throughout most of the story to the point where he lost his daughter and grandson. How did he expect that his daughter to have any respect for him when he was going along with so much of it?
The daughter is extremely delusional.He's a nice guy, but he's having an affair with your mom.He's not that bad, but he's the reason that your parents marriage is falling apart.Did she just mess over that whole entire part?Or am I just stupid
Girls are closer to their mothers than they are to their fathers. Women are also extremely emotional creatures. If they sense a woman is happier with an individual, they will push for that woman to stay with what makes them happiest. Truthfully, Emily was also probably living vicariously through her Mom if she spared no details when talking about Mike to Emily. She got to stay with John who was stable and reliable all while her Mom was living a romance movie, reigniting her love with her lover from high school (again, emotional creatures). Emily was so willing to let her dad suffer because she was enjoying the drama and risqueness of it all.
No. just don't quit. regardless of how it got broke, it is both party responsibility to fix it. If you are unwilling to change yourself not sure why she should. Do you love her.. These are the requirement.
@@oneofspades cause I would never stay in such a marriage. Once a cheater always a cheater. And as a man ... If a woman disrespects you in such a way she will never respect you. To her you will always be weak and she will show you such with future attitudes even if you do everything right.
@@cesarportillo2330 Not only that if you were raised with any traditional values of loyalty honour responsibility and honesty the odds of you being able to look at your partner without personal shame would be surprising. As someone who has been betrayed by very close friends some who i knew for over 8 to 9 years and grew up with i can safely say any empathy for them died when the knife went in my back i cannot imagine the betrayal someone feels from a partner.
@@lordsathariel4384 agree ... It is just so funny how the cheaters and weak betrayed can justify the blame. It is sickening, cheating is never acceptable if your spouse has some bad habits or attitude you should first talk about it and solve the issue. But in today's society cheating is the norm how disgusting.
Well, this way, he got to either hide his assets or burn through them, leaving her homeless cause he gave the house away, half of next to nothing, and a got a job out of state so she can't find him She's now broke, homeless & with a guy that will likely cheat and leave her once he gets bored, even if he does stay, all his money is going to his ex wives
@@WTC-1990 She still walked with $200k (yet she should have to pay capital gains tax on that). No, he should have left the second she admitted to lying and seeing dude behind her husband's back. The weak, spineless way these AI stories portray men is sickening.
When he saw them in the restaurant and got confronted by the guy, he should've said, "so youre the marine whos fkng my wife? Under different circumstances Id thank you for your service in single handedly keeping Crayola in business. I know your branch has a taste for their crayons. Which color is your favorite? My guess is yellow. Matches your temperment." Marines eating crayon jokes never get old 😂
Thank you. Nothing about the story is good after that point. As soon as she stated she lied and slept with the dude I would have stood up paid MY half of the bill and never looked back. I would have started the divorce proceedings and took the financial 'L'. These works of fiction are straight ridiculous in the amount of disrespect they make the guys take before they get to grow a spine.
The story is fake which has been mentioned by other posters. The thing I disagree with is the OP even agreed to the separation in the first place. Very few men would ever agree to this unless it's an open marriage.
OP did not agree with it. it was final warning. It just that OP wife never get it. He just buying time to recollect himself and prepare to divorce. It take a lots of preparation for a US man to defend their property in case of divorce
This is what happened when you let you women being cosy with her ex and friends with her... It come back to bite ya àssss even after 30years. 30yrs marriage wouldn't be enough to hold a candle to for a fling. She let him into the bed right when she met him afte 30yrs... But atlast OP did whats needed to be done.
she was cheating the whole relationship. Exchanging texts, letters and what not the whole time he would try and contact her it only got physical at 60 lol
Once she confessed that she was having sn affair and wanted to keep seeing the om..all he should have said was thats find dear. Tomorrow ill go talk to a divorce attorney and get the paperwork started. In the mean time go ahead and pack up most of uour stuff and you can move into his place. Im sorry you no longer care for me and our relationship. I have some good memories but it looks like they were all a lie. A shame. Now, go be single. I hope you find the life you are looking for. It obviously wasnt this one.
Even though the story is so fake it's just wrong how she left her husband for the Marine guy. He did not deserve that because she was so hooked on the bereaved guy and he was still hooked on her even though he was married twice they should have respected the sanctity of marriage.
Hollleeeeee shat. He gave the daughter the house after she enabled, supported, orchestrated and defended her psycho mothers betrayal and relatiobship? Lol what a crap angle to take for rhe story in relation to Enily from 22m onwards. This selfish narcissist is just like her mother, she only wanted to maintain her picture perfect life with both granparents as she said....she did not hive ONE thought for her father even belittling his feelings. Emily is the shittiest character here. GJ author 😂, atleast she is balance out by John. Wheres our aftermath?
...a savage that was willing to take his lying, cheating, tramp of a wife back when she stated she let some ex rod out her guts and she planned on continuing to do so. Yeah...a real savage.
Dude trusted, like many of us. He should have insisted on no contact. He saw the edges of an emotional affair of 30 years that ended up being physical. She cheated on him before announcing her sabbatical. She justified it. I can’t help but think when she “came back” she would justify cheating on her husband in the future because Mike was “so sad and needs me and PTSD” before eventually asking for a polyamorous relationship when the cheating was discovered. An ounce of prevention …. But we’ve all been there, if not in relationships than in something else.
I wonder if OP knows that high school romances can't last 10 times longer than high school last. There's a reason the word high school Is before romance. They only they exist in high school. Otherwise they're just romances. That's like calling a job you've had for twenty years Your "new job". It might have once been true, but time changes it's description.
my friend dated her highschool sweetheart on 2005, married her on 2011, seperated on 2022. the reason for divorce? they just got bored at each other. their kid is living with the ex wife's parents. this kind of thing could be happen anytime and tbh i'm genuinely scared it will come to me and my wife. my wife holding me tight like a koala, scared (yes, she's reading this poor old man's story with me).
You misinterpreted what that means, HS romance refers to to a romance that begun in that period. It doesn't mean only during the time in HS. Same way a 50yr long married couple are still referred to as HS sweethearts. It doesn't mean they are 70 and still in HS.
@@MetalTree210Showing up to the child's birth so the daughter could keep her picture perfect life, while supporting the destruction of his life and person is absolutely spineless.
@@ImGoing2CymInYoMilk she never stopped talking to him even as far as right before the wedding her family had to intervene. If you have to fight that hard before marriage you deserve what you get. You didn't hear that part?
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Here's the predicted aftermath, according to Reddit statistics of cheating AHoles: Lisa takes the guilty cheater route and marries Mike. Once the ring is in place, Mike drops the cool guy facade and starts treating Lisa like trash, controlling and abusive - he doesn't take Lisa's grief over her dead marriage well. He cheats on her constantly and blatantly. Lisa takes it all in a mix of self-imposed punishment and lack of alternative to lying in the bed she made.
John helps Emily realize she enabled her mother by accepting Mike into her life, and deeply regrets it. OP never threw it in her face but is somewhat hurt and distant after his move to Spokane. When her second son is born, she and John decide to move to Spokane closer to her dad.
One year later, OP receives a call from Lisa. Mike got arrested in a bar fight and she doesn't have money for bail. She asks for help, and OP denies it, and after hanging up the call he ponders about the letters if his ex-wife was ever the women he thought she was.
He left like a boss, I salute you sir.
That last part was gangsta 😂😂
I know, came out as simp and ended as a chad 🤣
@@invasiveinqustiorahahahhah548
He came nothing and ended nothing. They don't exist.
The last part was nothing. He doesn't exist. Neither exist.
Yeah but it was a good story though 😂
Yeah but he was a cook(the word I really want to use would get this post deleted) throughout most of the story to the point where he lost his daughter and grandson. How did he expect that his daughter to have any respect for him when he was going along with so much of it?
Made sure the daughter will not follow in her mom’s footsteps 😂😂😂 this guy is an OG
but his daughter came back to her senses at least
nvm
He pulled a complete 180 turning from a simp to a gigachad. Absolute Legend
The daughter is extremely delusional.He's a nice guy, but he's having an affair with your mom.He's not that bad, but he's the reason that your parents marriage is falling apart.Did she just mess over that whole entire part?Or am I just stupid
Like mother like daughter.
Yeah, the daughter only expressed concern from 22mins> that she wanted the grandparents together for her child. I hate that character by far the most.
Girls are closer to their mothers than they are to their fathers. Women are also extremely emotional creatures. If they sense a woman is happier with an individual, they will push for that woman to stay with what makes them happiest.
Truthfully, Emily was also probably living vicariously through her Mom if she spared no details when talking about Mike to Emily. She got to stay with John who was stable and reliable all while her Mom was living a romance movie, reigniting her love with her lover from high school (again, emotional creatures). Emily was so willing to let her dad suffer because she was enjoying the drama and risqueness of it all.
@@ZioN.I.N.O Cliff Notes: She is evil.
@@TaylorWhite-v8x HE is never the reason. It is always her; he cant force her to cheat.
I finally realized why women treat men the way they do this generation. Guys like this, that fights for a broken marriage.
The fact that you can’t tell this is a fake story says a lot
@@hm5468 this MUST be your story.
It a fake story dude. Stop being slow@@donaldkue2364
@@hm5468 It may be fake but stories like this happen all the time.
@@TheKadanz actually for a moment i thought it was recounting something that happened to a friend of mine , it's is sadly too common
Once a women makes her decision leave and never look back.
No. just don't quit. regardless of how it got broke, it is both party responsibility to fix it. If you are unwilling to change yourself not sure why she should. Do you love her.. These are the requirement.
@@oneofspades can I ask would you work on such marriage?
@@oneofspades cause I would never stay in such a marriage. Once a cheater always a cheater. And as a man ... If a woman disrespects you in such a way she will never respect you. To her you will always be weak and she will show you such with future attitudes even if you do everything right.
@@cesarportillo2330 Not only that if you were raised with any traditional values of loyalty honour responsibility and honesty the odds of you being able to look at your partner without personal shame would be surprising.
As someone who has been betrayed by very close friends some who i knew for over 8 to 9 years and grew up with i can safely say any empathy for them died when the knife went in my back i cannot imagine the betrayal someone feels from a partner.
@@lordsathariel4384 agree ... It is just so funny how the cheaters and weak betrayed can justify the blame. It is sickening, cheating is never acceptable if your spouse has some bad habits or attitude you should first talk about it and solve the issue. But in today's society cheating is the norm how disgusting.
Why is this 40 mins. It should only be 8 or so, once she confessed to cheating OP shouldve left
FR! I finished folding laundry and cleaning the fridge at my job by the time this ended
Well, this way, he got to either hide his assets or burn through them, leaving her homeless cause he gave the house away, half of next to nothing, and a got a job out of state so she can't find him
She's now broke, homeless & with a guy that will likely cheat and leave her once he gets bored, even if he does stay, all his money is going to his ex wives
@@WTC-1990 She still walked with $200k (yet she should have to pay capital gains tax on that). No, he should have left the second she admitted to lying and seeing dude behind her husband's back. The weak, spineless way these AI stories portray men is sickening.
@@catallguy43 You ain't walking out whole, $200k isn't that bad to lose considering
@@catallguy43
He doesn't know what he's talking about. 😂
When he said “happy new years” it reminded me of Omni man vs homelander in death battle were he said “merry Christmas”
When he saw them in the restaurant and got confronted by the guy, he should've said, "so youre the marine whos fkng my wife? Under different circumstances Id thank you for your service in single handedly keeping Crayola in business. I know your branch has a taste for their crayons. Which color is your favorite? My guess is yellow. Matches your temperment."
Marines eating crayon jokes never get old 😂
Bro should've left HER in the restaurant when she admitted that she had slept with her ex
Thank you. Nothing about the story is good after that point. As soon as she stated she lied and slept with the dude I would have stood up paid MY half of the bill and never looked back. I would have started the divorce proceedings and took the financial 'L'. These works of fiction are straight ridiculous in the amount of disrespect they make the guys take before they get to grow a spine.
My Arthur Spooner Response:
"As they threw me out of the restaurant for $pitting in my STBXW's face.....
John should divorce the daughter, any one who is fine with cheating and complicit to the extent shown in this story is a lost cause.
The story is fake which has been mentioned by other posters. The thing I disagree with is the OP even agreed to the separation in the first place. Very few men would ever agree to this unless it's an open marriage.
OP did not agree with it. it was final warning. It just that OP wife never get it. He just buying time to recollect himself and prepare to divorce. It take a lots of preparation for a US man to defend their property in case of divorce
i wish the was more about the fallout afterwards
Yeaaaahhh. It feels like the author got tired after writing the shitty Emily characters' storyline.
John a real one 🗿
A real one stays around after the wife lies and gets rodded out by her ex?
Honestly, after finding about Mike and knowing she wouldn't stop talking to her ex, that was it for me
I like these fake stories a lot lol
I'm glad someone else notices they're clearly fake too but yes definitely a good listen when bored
this is not fake... it's called fiction.
This is what happened when you let you women being cosy with her ex and friends with her... It come back to bite ya àssss even after 30years. 30yrs marriage wouldn't be enough to hold a candle to for a fling. She let him into the bed right when she met him afte 30yrs...
But atlast OP did whats needed to be done.
He started as a peasant left as a king😂
That was the moment John won a lifetime hero.
"these were the good days"
No such things as good days when you're married 😂😂😂😂
😂 this is the most spineless man iv ever seen this story had no reason to be this long
These lifetime movies are really interesting.
Cheating at 60 is wild
she was cheating the whole relationship. Exchanging texts, letters and what not the whole time he would try and contact her it only got physical at 60 lol
at 4 minutes in i can tell you were just a place holder for mike
Once she confessed that she was having sn affair and wanted to keep seeing the om..all he should have said was thats find dear. Tomorrow ill go talk to a divorce attorney and get the paperwork started. In the mean time go ahead and pack up most of uour stuff and you can move into his place. Im sorry you no longer care for me and our relationship. I have some good memories but it looks like they were all a lie. A shame. Now, go be single. I hope you find the life you are looking for. It obviously wasnt this one.
"Thousands"💀
To I said the same thing
She's 50 and it's Vegas. Probably this would take only 5 years or so outside Vegas.
In Vegas I bet you can do it in less than a year.
Even though the story is so fake it's just wrong how she left her husband for the Marine guy. He did not deserve that because she was so hooked on the bereaved guy and he was still hooked on her even though he was married twice they should have respected the sanctity of marriage.
She can't get him out of her system for 30 years and saying she can do it fo a year. 🙄
Hollleeeeee shat. He gave the daughter the house after she enabled, supported, orchestrated and defended her psycho mothers betrayal and relatiobship?
Lol what a crap angle to take for rhe story in relation to Enily from 22m onwards.
This selfish narcissist is just like her mother, she only wanted to maintain her picture perfect life with both granparents as she said....she did not hive ONE thought for her father even belittling his feelings.
Emily is the shittiest character here. GJ author 😂, atleast she is balance out by John.
Wheres our aftermath?
This story needs a follow up
Would love to know about the effects of David actions after he left
The daughter will cheat too... Pissed me off...
Came out as a simp but ended as a chad 🤣
I was thinking to myself, if he didn’t change all the locks in house when she left I would be surprised
like a boss he went out
Never Poke a sleeping bear😎😎 Bro's a savage
...a savage that was willing to take his lying, cheating, tramp of a wife back when she stated she let some ex rod out her guts and she planned on continuing to do so. Yeah...a real savage.
I love the ending
Any talk about ex should result in divorce asap.
This gotta be a fake story 😂. Aint no way
Obviously fake story but entertain
As denzil Washington said, : "this is 90% bullshxt, but it entertains me."
High grade wattpad fiction.
She’d Ben cheating for decades is what I see after hearing the letters part. And the daughter just like the mother Like mother like daughter fr.
Dude trusted, like many of us. He should have insisted on no contact. He saw the edges of an emotional affair of 30 years that ended up being physical. She cheated on him before announcing her sabbatical. She justified it. I can’t help but think when she “came back” she would justify cheating on her husband in the future because Mike was “so sad and needs me and PTSD” before eventually asking for a polyamorous relationship when the cheating was discovered. An ounce of prevention …. But we’ve all been there, if not in relationships than in something else.
The " my wife is having a affair" should be the beginning of calling her ex wife
She lost a good man he lost a unfaithful woman blessing in disguise.
We need to speak to Mike's XO, he seems like an interesting fella
Hero salute
Always nurses
Yo i need a continuation
These are the equivalent of romance novels for men 😂
I wonder if OP knows that high school romances can't last 10 times longer than high school last. There's a reason the word high school Is before romance. They only they exist in high school. Otherwise they're just romances. That's like calling a job you've had for twenty years Your "new job". It might have once been true, but time changes it's description.
my friend dated her highschool sweetheart on 2005, married her on 2011, seperated on 2022. the reason for divorce? they just got bored at each other. their kid is living with the ex wife's parents. this kind of thing could be happen anytime and tbh i'm genuinely scared it will come to me and my wife. my wife holding me tight like a koala, scared (yes, she's reading this poor old man's story with me).
You misinterpreted what that means, HS romance refers to to a romance that begun in that period. It doesn't mean only during the time in HS.
Same way a 50yr long married couple are still referred to as HS sweethearts. It doesn't mean they are 70 and still in HS.
Divorce 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
He a simp 😂😂
Thousands ?!!!!😂
lol I need more
Theres no way this is real
Where is the follow-up to this novella?
His daughter and wife betray him. He has no backbone.
what do you mean?
@@MetalTree210 she means the guy can't stand up for himself.
He had no say in the wife and daughter betraying him, He cant force them to stay. He has a backbone he just cant force someone to stay
@@MetalTree210 no, he lacked the backbone to leave them
@@MetalTree210Showing up to the child's birth so the daughter could keep her picture perfect life, while supporting the destruction of his life and person is absolutely spineless.
Al menos me entretuvo mientras hacía almuerzo 😂
8:27 is where I stopped listening to it. A dumbass story. Don't bother going through it. _alright, don't do it again?_ Screw this man, honestly.
Isn’t this just the great gastby???? But more modern?
😂😂😂😂 bzzzzz , ⚡️ zap!!!!!
Nice AI story
if you gonna make a fake story at least make it satisfying
Stupid OP 😂😂😂
Fake?
So your ex needed you therefore is not cheating
God, female way of reasoning and thought is appalling
These AI storys are so a like its stupid
This sounds like a novel... i really dont think this is reddit 😂 sounds like its AI gened... oh wells
AI story
Well, I have to say, OP deseved it. She showed him who she was. Even well before marriage. 🤡
How??
@@ImGoing2CymInYoMilk listen to the first 5 minutes! Are you kidding? 😂
@@jarman365 explain
@@ImGoing2CymInYoMilk she never stopped talking to him even as far as right before the wedding her family had to intervene. If you have to fight that hard before marriage you deserve what you get. You didn't hear that part?
@@ImGoing2CymInYoMilkDude, how oblivious can you be😂 did you Watch the video at all?
This made up shit is funny
Made up story. 😂
People believe this shit?
Bs chatgpt story big dislike
He got no backbone?