Mum Bullies Bride Out Of Wearing Her “Perfect” Wedding Dress I Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- Bride Hannah is going dress shopping for the first time. And has brought her mum with her to help out. She picks out a dress she absolutely loves, but when it has no lace on it, mum can’t stop herself telling her daughter how much she hates it! Will the two agree on a dress?
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When I got married, I went to pick out my wedding dress alone. After watching these programs, I am overjoyed I made that decision.
I didn’t go alone but I went with the least opinionated people I know. I already knew what I was going for.
I am in absolute agreement unless you are fortunate enough to have a lovely Mum whose only desire is to support you . A friend who has the same point of view would work too .
Amen. I think it’s crazy to have to please other people with your dress. This is supposed to be your special day and instead you are stressed.
Same here, shopped alone and I don’t regret it
I went alone and then brought my mum to the fitting and measurement appointments cos there's no changing the dress so have to be nice lmao
welcome back to another episode of "its not your wedding!" 🙄🙄
Edit: thx for all the likes lol
Exactly 🙄
When I got married in 1974 my Mum helped me hem my dress (which I designed and made) and never said anything about whether she liked it or not...she wanted me to be happy. My second wedding a couple of decades later...same thing. She knew I knew my own mind.
I agree with you
@@CarolynMilburn what a wonderful mom you have
Another episode of mom should have stayed home
Loved the first one. Really fit the 1920’s theme. The one she ended up with was a dress found in almost any wedding. Blah
I liked that one too, 😔
I agree. She should have stood up for the dress she really wanted. Not to mention that belt actually disrupted the flow of that dress. It was too much IMO.
Really disliked the belt
Totally agree
definitely fit her theme better, and she loved it.
I knew the mum was full of it when she said the first dress didn’t do anything for the bride. Are you kidding?? She looked exceptional
I have to agree with the mother. It was just a weird shape and made her look boxy.
Maybe she is jealous of her daughter.....wouldn't be the 1st mum to be so. Psych nurse after observing my unpleasant parent in action categorically stated " she's very jealous of you". Truly a shock at the time.
Right the other silhouettes did wayyyyy less for her figure
@@MsJubjubbird I didn’t like it either. I don’t think it did anything for her but if it was my daughter I would want her to have her own opinion and ultimately make her own choice. I do think sometimes they make the mother seem much more toxic than they really are though.
I thought the 1st dress was a "Pippa Middleton" dress, the type of dress that would show every lump and bump of fat. It was too tight. Few women can really wear those dresses well.
Mom sits there with her Kate Gosselin haircut and dressed like my 90 year old grandma but she's God's gift to fashion, because she's just always right.... Lord Almighty, Emmanuel and staff are patient and polite.
I think I might invite her to go check out bridesmaid dresses or something -- just get those steely, judgemental eyes away from that girl.
Haha your comment really made me laugh !! Best comment ever
God's gift to the fashion world also needs a (better) bra.
@@thekingsdaughter4233 That's all I could think of at the beginning. The lady needs a bra intervention.
this comment was amazing 😂😂
Her mom is SO arrogant. "I'm always right". "I've been right for 26 years, I know I'm right this time". Can't stand people like her!
I cant stand women like her shese had her day . But wants all her own way for her daughters wedding
@@oliverkitkat6860 before i watched this show i thought it was rare and only my mom was toxic like this. turns out most old ladies are just karen's but most karen's are introverted so we dont notice it much XD
@@illusionist1244
Well I am an ‘old lady’ just like many of my friends, I would never ever speak to my kids like this woman did but more importantly I raised my kids to be confident in their own decisions and tell me to but out.
@@carolecoote1926 aww youre so sweet
What did I hear mom say? “I’ve been an unholy WITCH for 26 years, and I’m a WITCH right now!” Yes. . . that’s what she said.
these "mums" be secretly hating on their daughters. They project their insecurities on them clearly. That first dress was the bomb!
Or they don't want their "little girl" to marry someone Mom does NOT approve of! Control issue.
I agree
I loved that dress and she loved it too. I can’t believe that mom!
It looked amazing, 100%, but so does lingerie. Some things should be toned down a little bit just so. I must say that I liked it better than the other 2 and would've liked to see her try on something else. That belt made it look stupid. Ah well.
The first dress looks way better on her and she looks breathtaking in it.
Totally agree
First one was stunning on her what does mama frumpy know
The color of the first one was a blue white. Too white for her skin.
Yep agreed First one was stunning.
agreed!! it fit the bride so well. it was so simple but so gorgeous and really gave it the “elegant vintage” vibe she wanted as well. i really wish the mom wasnt so negative!
The bride's instincts were right on the first dress- she looked gorgeous! The neckline and A-Line fit of the other two (including the one she picked) neither made her face light up like the first one, nor flattered her figure. It felt more like a consolation prize for her.
I agree. The first dress was much better than the others.
I personally think it was too revealing for a wedding. People who you care about of all ages and tastes tend to be at your wedding.
it fit her so well too? the dress she chose makes her look like a little girl :( and the belt isnt it either
@@fayepatrice1672 yea um if she didnt think it was revealing her family may have seen her wear low cut tops lol
@@fayepatrice1672 if theres a wedding dress like this it’s not too revealing for a wedding lol
Dude
She looked AMAZING in the first one!
Classy, confident, showed off her figure beautifully
It was perfect!
The mom really needs to let her daughter have her damn day.
mom made her choose smthn showing less skin and looking more childish. she cant stand her daughter has grown up
The first dress was gorgeous but it's her decision that really matters.
@@illusionist1244 yup, mom might even be jealous of her daughter’s looks.
This mom is an excellent bully. Her daughter is freaking beautiful. I hope the bride and groom won't invite this disrespectful mother to their wedding if she continues to act like this.
My sister got to show skin on her wedding dress because she went with me to get the gown. There was no judgement on what she picked. On the day of the wedding, my jaw dropped to the floor/ deck because she got married outside. She had her hair colored and got her makeup professionally done. I got my makeup done by the same lady
The dresses are lovely. The bride should have stood her ground and gotten the 1st dress, it suites her venue and theme. The gowns she chose is lovely, but I think she'll regret her choice.
Agreed- the dress she chose was overly trendy and will be dated in no time, and that belt they put on her made her look stocky, cluttered, and busy. The first one was elegant, sophisticated and sparkly. Fit for a New Years wedding.
If I was there I wouldn’t let anyone leave until she got that first dress.. it was absolutely made for her!!
So mom is normally "right." That is a problem. Mom has an opinion, but the bride has to be happy. I wonder if she really is. the first dress was incredible!
No, she looked awkward and the colour made her look like a corpse. The second dress was nicest on her for cut. I’m afraid the mother was right.
That is a problem. The mom need to stay out of it.
@@alisonfraser3305 if it's the color, that would be an easy change. She wouldn't wear that very dress anyway, it will be made up when ordered. So if optic white does not suit her, have it done in ivory, champagne or blush. I don't suit pure white (makes me look like sick), and my dress was in cream white.
@@alisonfraser3305 if that was the concern all she needed was a little blush on her cheeks, however I didn't see a problem with the color at all. She was fair-skinned but definitely didn't look anything like a "corpse" 🤨
This is the definition of bad parenting. You value an adult child agreeing with you over them having their own opinions and views. That is how you produce an insecure, unsure adult with low self-esteem. They then go out and find a partner who does the same thing to them. They drift through life having other people dominate them and tell them what to wear, think and do. This is a very bad mother. Mothers out there, potential mothers, please take note. This mother believes that dominating her daughter and always being right = love. That is MESSED UP. Do not do this.
You are absolutely spot on.
Stop exaggerating. She values her Mum's opinion and that's why she brought her along. And from what I see it's her Mum who was paying for the dress......
I agree to a point. Shes a bit aggressive but I wouldn't call her "a very bad mother" that's a bit extra.
@@123staycee People in this comment section are always extra, and act like they are psychologists.
@@jenniferngure1136 she seems completely incapable of making any decision that her mother disagrees with. Which is not how you want your adult children to go through life, afraid of making choices that only affect themselves, because someone else doesn’t like it.
The first dress was absolutely perfect! Both for her body, and the theme!!! Nothing wrong with the one she chose, it just sucks that mothers think they can bully their daughters... ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING!
Mom is paying for it, and their relatives will come to witness the wedding. She gets a say. The first dress looked like a too tight nightgown-a little embarrassing for a wedding. Brides need to stop thinking the wedding is all about them. A wedding is a joining of two families to support the young couple as they go forward in life.
@@diane730 These are all sample gowns and the first dress was clearly a sample that was a size too small. The final dress would have fit properly. It looks nothing like a nightgown, that’s ridiculous, and just because someone is paying for it doesn’t mean they have the right to choose the dress. The other ones she tried on were very boring & conventional. Bride is a grown woman and capable of picking out her clothes.
@@diane730 The bride was very accommodating to her mother's wishes, she said she did not want a dress her mother didn't like, she acknowledged her mother's competence in helping her choose clothing, the only time she appeared to state her own wishes was when she said she didn't like lace and yet she was still willing to try it.
In contrast the mother was ungracious and arrogant, it's always concerning when the mother thinks she knows better than the daughter and and takes pride in that. She clearly felt that her opinion is the one that matters most.
The daughter is clearly used to giving in to her mums wishes and did so in record time here when mum didn't like the first dress. But was it necessary for mum to be so blunt, "I hate it, I hate everything about it" she just shut down her daughters moment of joy.
I hope this marriage gives the daughter a chance to move out of her mother's sphere of influence.
I agree.
@@diane730 She gets a say but she gets a limited say. All the guests that come are just that, guests. And most of them will get little to no say at all. At the end of the day, only one person has to wear the dress. If you’re going to offer to pay for someone’s wedding dress just so you can control which one they choose, that makes you selfish.
I hate that they always ask “what does your fiancé do?” Who cares! How about “tell us about your fiancé’ “and leave it at that!
I agree completely. And why do they never ask, "What do YOU do?"
@@BasicYTHandle fr
I think the reason they ask detailed questions about the fiance is to stop people trying in dresses just for fun or trying to get on TV. But they could use a better question than what their job is.
I HATE THAT!!!!
I don't know how much it's done in the UK version, but there have been multiple episodes of the Kleinfeld where either the bride has had a public figure status (being a singer, bodybuilder, or other sort of performer), or their fiance is someone famous enough. I'm guessing a lot of those people get on the show because of that, so I wonder if the question evolved as a way to 'naturally' bring it up and just stuck?
“I think your bum looks amazing”
Omg I loved that comment 😂
But in all seriousness, the bride should’ve stood her ground and gone with the dress she loved and felt amazing in, which was the first one. The second one is what she said she didn’t like. At the beginning, she said “no lace, no sleeves.” Momma is being too controlling. I’d have been fine with maybe a compromise, like the first dress with a little lace to satisfy Mum. The third dress was VERY VERY good for the day, with a lot of bling, very New Years Eve-esque, but mum had to come and ruin the bride’s spirit, but I mean, at least she was able to compromise with her mom on this one. Still think the first one was better :/
The first dress was perfect. Her friends agreed. Then Mom jumped in. Mom is jealous of her daughter. So she didn't "like anything about it." And Mom got her way, again. Bet she's always been this way. Sorry, sad, but true.
I agree, they should have dressed up the first one the bride loved or pulled more satin fitted off the shoulder or sleeveless. So disappointed in the dresses they chose for this beautiful young woman.
I didn't especially like the first dress, but the bride loved it- I would have suggested she try a couple of others in the same silhouette- but if none beat that first one in her opinion, I would have advised her to buy it.
Just who are these awful, selfish bullies who call themselves mothers? It's sick.
I wasn't into the beading on the neckline but I loveddd the shape and cut of it and how gorgeous the fabric looked on her. It was so bold I really wish she would have left with something similar. The other dresses looked so frumpy on her....
I didn't really like the first dress. The gathering made it look too tight in the waist area.
Mom had no fashion sense whatsoever, look at her Karen haircut, how frumpy SHE was dressed!! Daughter should have stood her ground on the first dress and not cave into mom’s bullying. That first dress was perfect for her, and looked very elegant and flattering. Sometimes mothers don’t want their daughters to look their best, out of jealousy.
This is exactly what I was thinking!
who else got mad just from the title?
and who else is ready to yell at the mother of the bride and say "It's not your bloody wedding, you harpie"
first dress was the best, it was more her, but she got the third one
but give it a few years when she'll look back on this episode and maybe realise that she made the wrong choice, but i think everyone is going to call her mum out for being a bully
imagine this is your MIL lmao
This is why I went by myself to choose my dress, because both my mother and mother in law are bullies.
@@illusionist1244 OMG...how far away can we move! 🚈🛳🛫🛬🚀
Occasionally, the brides do not get married in that show dress; and that's only those we know of from the comments! This episode would be a good possibility.
@@illusionist1244 RUNNNNNN! ;) XD
She looks stunning in the first dress the back and the front really flattering her figure
The bride specified 1920's.... the first dress suited her like a glove!!!! I hope she goes with her vision
Such a shame she didn’t go for the first dress, it was perfect for the theme of her wedding & her figure & it was so unique. The other dresses were just like prom dresses. Her Mum is abhorrent, she’s ruined what her daughter will look like on her wedding day, so selfish!
im her mom and ive been right for 26 years THE AUDACITY
Dad is probably henpecked
Daniel Emmanuel has never made a bride cry happy tears. At the end when they say yes, I almost always feel like they're being forced 😭
Well as long a they sell a dress - it’s a business. The dress he designed for Diana was horrendous and totally swamped her.
I believe his name is David.
@@sandragruhle6288 Actually "David Emanuel" sounds like a very affected made up name.
@@katrinamoore3520 Gotta agree there! I remember yelling at the TV "THAT'S her dress?! You gotta be kidding me!" Not very flattering at all. Now, FERGIE'S wedding dress was PERFECT for her!!!
The Karen energy is strong with the mum bloody hell
I think she looked perfect in the first dress!
1st dress was perfect in every way. Mom just wants the bride to look pure & show less body. That's always the case. I don't understand why mom's, granny's, etc., always get the last word, when they're NOT wearing the dress & it's NOT their wedding. That just burns my nerves. 😠
"I'm always right, in my own opinion." Ugh. Calm down mom. If you like lace, get your own lace dress.
I actually HATE it when mums say that my mum always says this to me and it gets on my nerves I am sure that women just have children for some one to control and use as their puppets
the 1st one was the ONE. wish brides wouldn't let their entourage bully them out of an awesome dress to suit their personal agendas
The first dress was spot on!!! The others overwhelmed her and weren’t unique. I’m so sad for this bride having a mum like that.
The way the mum justifies herself by saying she’s been married for 26 years! But you only chose 1 wedding dress, 26 years ago then!
I’m pissed off that such a terrible person got married, maybe her husband sucks too.
I think she said she’s been “right” for 26 years, not married for it. I took that to mean she’s always been right for as long as her daughter has been alive
Right?!
40 seconds in and I already can’t stand her attitude
I'm convinced some of these rude ass moms are just trying to hold on to the last possible shred of control they have over their kids. It's sad.
Yes. That is exactly what it is.
Perfect summary yes
You know it!! Very sad.
No that mom will continue right on after the wedding bullying the sil then controlling the grandchildren.
I hate that they don’t include the added cost of the belt in the total. Also mom and her Karen haircut need to leave.
She has such a beautiful figure, the first dress really nailed it! I’m sad she choose otherwise 😭
I loved her in the first dress, she had a great figure, why hide it under a mountain of tulle?
Because MOM is insecure about being fat. Can't have her daughter looking better than her - even on her wedding day.
@@clwbchbabycakes EXACTLY. Mum is a bitter old COW.
And she's even got the haircut. Imagine that..........
Always the masculine looking mothers that put their pretty slim daughters down.
Can they just start kicking out the moms/entourage members who bully and forget it's not about them or their day? I feel bad for so many of these brides that bring a support system that ends up ruining their day.
“i’ve been right for 26 years and i’m right on this one”????? what?? what does that even mean?? right for who? no one’s right when it’s about taste you can’t be right or wrong only agree or disagree what the hell is this mentality 😭
Lol...my mother is exactly the same. Can't stand being wrong about anything and is a bully too. Unfortunately my mother in law is worse, so I learnt very quickly to stick up for myself when I got married and neither of them were with me when I chose my dress.
@@kerrystone7375 i’m so sorry for you this must create such a toxic atmosphere while growing up especially getting it from several people!! i’m glad you managed to stick up for yourself and put some distance!!
She's a classic narcissist
After being totally engaged in these videos, I will not have an extravagant wedding. 😅
I’m not sure I’ve ever been as wowed as I was by her in the first dress. Just absolutely breathtaking
Hello Cara how are you doing today?
the FIRST dress was 😍😳🤗...........the mom f'd it up......no offense
Does nothing for her ? Extraordinary
She did look better in the first one
They should have put a veil on her for the first dress. I bet her mom would love it.
She looked amazing in the first dress. It fitted her perfectly. It was old Hollywood. The others were meh
I don’t feel like she was ready to commit but they still asked the question. I’m underwhelmed by David
Sometimes they just want it (the show) finally done and over with, instead of drawing it out any more. Sometimes the bride is tired, teary, upset and worn out (and sorry that she ever bothered with that show!), and just says yes to tie it up, and then goes for something different off-camera.
She looked amazing in the first dress and it went really well with her theme. Sorry mom, but you were not right this time!
She even has the karen haircut
Bride: Should have stood her ground for first dress. It looked amazing on you. Is your mother going to control your marriage/life? Mom: It isn't your wedding. It isn't your dress. You going to control daughter's & husband's marriage? You got what you really wanted; control. Bride should not have had her mother there.
She's been with her fiance for 6 yrs why does moms dress opinion matter so much?
Someone's jealous someone else gets a special day and has a cute figure still.
That’s what I think too.
Well she did like the 2nd dress.
@@mamablob2546 cause it’s hiding her figure.
Sometimes mothers don't know best at all.
The first dress looked incredible on her
had the glamour she wanted
My daughter can wear whatever she chooses I only asked one thing, to make sure the girls are put away so they don't blind the Priest
That was my mother’s one request, too. Thankfully I got married just as illusion necklines were becoming trendy (2018). Everybody won with my dress!
"sHe DoEsN't KnOw WhAt ShE lIkEs" as if the bride didnt have an entire list of requirements for the dress lol
This kind of situation would drive me up the wall if I was an assistant in a bridal shop. I don’t think I could stay impartial if I saw a bride abandon her own vision and go for pleasing her Narc mother instead.
Plus the first two were way over budget.
That's the exact reason I went dress shopping by myself. My mother picked apart my dress choice, but too bad, it was bought and paid for...and it was MY choice! When I went dress shopping with my daughter, I was the polar opposite of my mother...I let my daughter choose what she wanted, and told her how beautiful she looked. My daughter has told me many times she doesn't know how I grew up with a mother like mine.
Her mom: I'm always right.
Me: That haircut tells me otherwise Karen.
Whenever I feel bad about my mom I come and watch these videos
"I'm always right... I've been right for 26 years..." NO ONE CARES, KAREN, it's not your bloody wedding!
Also... "I don't like the colour." It's white, Karen, the colour that wedding dresses are, what the hell were you expecting?
well, she clearly has allowed mom to have the main voice - for a long time. It's their relationship so I won't speak about it. What bothers me is that they did not show her one dress that was within the budget. Plus the belt will add $$. It's a beautiful dress, happy everyone left happy, but they always do this! There are many dresses that are less than $1500.
That belt was horrendous by interrupting the flow of the sparkles, but congratulations Mummy Dearest, you got your way about something.
The ‘I want to speak to your manager’ is strong in this one.
1st dress was perfect for her venue, she will be back for it.
Who is going to pay? Wedding gowns are not cheap and they do not come off the rack they must be ordered months in advance, there may be a return policy but there will not be a full refund. Money matters are important.
Maybe 1 person will agree with me-3rd is a charmer. Elegant, beautifully blingy, unique.
I do think the bride was pleased with the one she picked. It will catch the light beautifully.
The first dress was really a show stopper! I believe she never looked as gorgeous in her whole life and never will. The last dress was just okay, lovely but not more.
I love the first dress, everything about it flatters her. The other two remind me of prom dresses, girly rather than womanly.
I was trying to figure out what you described as girly rather than womanly. She looked more sophisticated in the first dress.
When most of the mom’s say stuff like “I’m always right” makes me think what kind of people they probably are in real life.
I didn't like the first dress on her - agreed with the mother - the second was my favourite. The first dress looked a bit uncomfortable & washed her out.
I loved the first dress. The other 2 were like princess dresses, nothing old Hollywood Glam like she said. The first one would have been perfect.
The first dress was gorgeous...she should have gotten that one.
She looked great in all three dresses but I say the first one suits the venue best. It has the old Hollywood feel and she liked it best.
The first one was STUNNING! That mom needs some glasses or something!
My mother could be critical, but when we went to buy my wedding dress she couldn’t have been more wonderful. How can they be like this with their daughters. Thanks Mum😊
No mum ever watched this show at all? It is not your wedding, it is your daughter's
Totally agree!
That mother is giving me total "Karen" vibes.
"I'm hannahs mom and I've been right for 26 years" holy fuck.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought that.
Yes, she's been awful for 26 years. Can't stand opinionated people like her.
Unpopular opinion but I love the dress she got💜
She said she was marrying on New year's Eve so it does fit the party theme. The 1920 time theme was the 1st dress but New year's Eve theme fit this dress.
Plus I love ball gowns😍 My Indian girl heart can't have enough of bling🤣 Cause we blinged out on all occasions. There is never enough.
It is the daughter's wedding not hers. Why do a lot of the mothers do this.
Most likely, regret over the dress they chose, they want a do over, and it's the last bit of control over their daughter
Control issue; they may also NOT approve of the groom; i.e. derail the whole wedding.
If you cannot stand up for yourself regarding something as simple as a dress, you have no business getting married. You are not mature enough.
Yes and it's a typical issue. Mommy pushing her from a sexy mature look to innocent sparkly princess. Pretty sure she's envious of her daughter's figure but daughter doesn't get it...
Omg she looked amazing in that first dress is her mother blind...that first dress I think was her dress she settled because of mom..no ma'am it's ur day
These mom are rude living thru daughters it her day not her mom's
The dress she walked in wearing looked like a little girl and the wedding dress that she was persuaded in wearing looked like she was going to a church confirmation or cotillion... Go back and buy the first dress and sell the other dress on ebay.
I think she made a mistake, the first dress was amazing and she looked gorgeous
The 1st dress is amazing 🤩
That was stunning on her!!
This is why you don’t take an entourage married 37 years and I just on an off chance shopping by myself found my gown
The daughter was right - the first dress was the best.
My mom‘s opinion won’t matter to me at all when picking out a wedding dress. Don’t get me wrong, I’m only 18 and I’m not even dating, but I already know how this is going to be. I can already see it in my head.
Start SAVING your MONEY NOW as MUCH as you CAN! You DON'T have to tell anyone; it's YOUR little secret! ;) Weddings are expensive and will only go up in price as time goes on. The money you start saving NOW can help you insure a wedding that YOU want; NOT Mum or Dad's version!
There's not an "always right" in a wedding dress. I think this is a great choice for New Years.
When are the mothers going to realize that it's not their wedding.
I think some Mothers need to understand that it's not their wedding 💀✋
she loved the first one and was stunning on it.... but to please mum, well, she chose a very "not her choice" one. I feel so sorry.
When mums are so horrid why take them along
Mummy wants CONTROL!
Mum being married for 26 years and being “right” about this has absolutely no bearing on her daughter’s choice.
I suggest this bride start standing up for herself, because I suspect mom is going to interfere in the marriage and cause problems because she is too involved!!!
Wow an almost in budget dress! “Only” 70 over! It’s a record!!!
I really don't think its her dress. She has such a nice figure and this dress hides it. Also, high neck-line cuts her in a way. I think she wanted to please her mom, as it was 180 degrees switch right after her mom didn't like the first dress...
but do you have to show your figure off? Is there anything wrong with hiding it?
I did like the First dress for the top but the bottom was too tight and the third dress was perfect
The dress she chose looked like fire works, love that I've never seen a bride try this one on before.
I love the back of the first one
The first dress was absolutely stunning on her & it fit her theme and venue. She should have stood up for herself more. At the end of the day, it's her dress & her wedding, not moms. Her mom had her moment, it's her daughter's turn to shine 💕
I didn’t say one negative word when my daughter was shopping for her dress. I don’t understand how mothers can be so cruel. I did cry when she tried on the first dress because of her health problems we never thought she would live to be a bride. We were so blessed.
That's why the Bride NEEDS to PAY for the wedding dress/wedding HERSELF! No one can say anything about it; no one is holding the purse strings BUT the Bride! I realize lots of girl's have their "dream dress"; we all do. But they need to get their head out of the clouds; wake up and realize that maybe having Mommy and Daddy pay for everything will come with a noose to choke you! See if the shop you're dealing with will let you have a payment plan - mine did. OR...start saving NOW for your dream dress, even though it may be years before you decide to get married! There is no shame in that! OR...find a low-interest credit card you could use (yes, I know, few and far between, but still try).
I thought dress #1 was freaking perfect! For the venue and theme and the Bride's figure! wtf? -smdh
Should’ve had the first one, Mom should remember who’s day it is