Mum Tries On A Dress During Daughter’s Fittings! I Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

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  • @Gigi-14
    @Gigi-14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2422

    That Mother embarrassed herself with that selfish behavior. Some people don’t deserve children, I swear.

    • @kathymcel
      @kathymcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you think this show isn't scripted for drama? Mom was paying out $2000! Sheesh!

    • @enchantedaria1104
      @enchantedaria1104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yasss girl I agree if I were the sister in law or the consultant I'd get the two hundred and pay it so she could have her dream

    • @anitamorin6255
      @anitamorin6255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same, and if my mom were to behave like that too, I wouldn't even think twice about uninviting to my wedding. Period.

    • @bihtazuh6601
      @bihtazuh6601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kathymcel and the daughter had to think about getting the dress instead of adding $200 to get her dream dress

    • @bihtazuh6601
      @bihtazuh6601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@anitamorin6255 really? Even though she's paying $2000? So many mothers dress to impress when their children marry, though not to outshine their daughters

  • @jenniegriffin553
    @jenniegriffin553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4793

    When she said that she had to buy her dress, I thought she meant that she was getting married soon as well... I did not realise she was more concerned with a dress that she'd be wearing at her daughter's wedding... speechless 🤯

    • @ms.teaversation8072
      @ms.teaversation8072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Yes, that's my point exactly!

    • @brookelynnenewcomer943
      @brookelynnenewcomer943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Right selfish and rude mother. Saying your as important as the bride like no no your not.

    • @anitamorrison4238
      @anitamorrison4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      So embarrassing. Do not people know this is on media forever?

    • @mollysito534
      @mollysito534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Her mother is so selfish 🙄

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@brookelynnenewcomer943 If I were the future mother in law I would immediately offer up the $200 to see her happy and get off on the right foot. Of course, that runs the risk of causing a rift with mother of the bride, but damn how can you do that to your own daughter!!! And to smile while doing it.

  • @lauraclaire
    @lauraclaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3907

    That mum just clearly showed that she doesn't put her child first. That is so disappointing I feel for this bride.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      she showed that the minute she quashed the budget so SHE could get a dress because "i need to look good." she doesn't care what her daughter looks like walking down the aisle because she wants all the attention on herself anyway. honestly surprised she didn't pick out a wedding dress for herself.

    • @lesliemillni4003
      @lesliemillni4003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@dietotaku 😊, your comment put a smile on my face cuz I totally agree with you
      Nobody's going to pay attention to her mother all eyes is going to be on the bride

    • @kathymcel
      @kathymcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      on the other hand she was giving her plenty of money for a dress AND the bride could pay the extra $200 HERSELF- GADS! How about she had to pay for the entire thing? She wouldnt buy a dress at all?

    • @maryalston7462
      @maryalston7462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was completely selfish

    • @jenniferpanther2979
      @jenniferpanther2979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@kathymcel True, but I think the bigger issue is that she was disappointed "again" (did anyone notice that "again" in her comment?) that her mother put herself over her daughter. If the strict cap on the budget was because she truly couldn't afford more than that it would be one thing, but the mom frankly states it's because she's more interested in looking amazing herself than in how her daughter looks or what she wants for her wedding day. Mom is clearly a narcissist and has done things like this to her daughter before. Frankly, Talia's best bet is to cut Mom out completely and pay for her own dress, but we always hope our parents, and moms in particular, will live up to what we wish they were.

  • @Killer-Vibe
    @Killer-Vibe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +937

    I'm absolutely speechless when she said "I'm just as important as her" like ma'am it's your daughters wedding she's the one that has to feel special and important on her day just because you didn't have a wedding doesn't mean you have the right to ruin your daughter's that's messed up as a mother I'm not gonna lie I absolutely hate the mom

    • @Justicia007
      @Justicia007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I don't hate her but she's a real narcissist

    • @lmichelle80sbaby
      @lmichelle80sbaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's a true "bitch" and that's a word I almost never use.

    • @bestillandknow46101
      @bestillandknow46101 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Justicia007 that's what I immediately thought. She has a deep insecurity and can't let her daughter shine.

  • @pratishthabajracharya7
    @pratishthabajracharya7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5016

    Whenever I see this type of mom, I feel bad for the daughter's entire childhood. If the mom does this in such special day then imagine how she was brought up.

    • @tlwagener9245
      @tlwagener9245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      It's not just childhood. It's the daughter's entire life. A narcissistic mother is toxic and crippling.

    • @dotnb
      @dotnb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I know. Hell on wheels 🔥🔥🔥☄

    • @moonchild708
      @moonchild708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      i couldn't even shave my legs for my own graduation because my mom chose to get her hair done professionally for my event instead of taking me home to let me shave. if she started lookin for her own dress for my wedding, she would be uninvited 🙂.

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She thanks her mom for teaching her how to thrift shop in a recent article.

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@L.Spencer That's not as important, however, as making her daughter feel loved. That mother was only concerned with herself. She didn't look like she cared one bit for her daughter, while the daughter seemed to badly want some sign from her mother that she mattered to her. If all she ever got from her mother was how to thrift shop, that's mighty little.

  • @Azarisage
    @Azarisage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    The sister in law was so sweet and supportive
    I wish her mom could’ve shown the same support

    • @UMewMew
      @UMewMew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would totally wear the second dress for sure

    • @ben6217
      @ben6217 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ngl I thought the others were gonna help her out to get it.

    • @jacquiethebibliophil
      @jacquiethebibliophil ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ben6217 Mom was horrible for what she did, true true; however, I couldn't believe no one offered to chip in, call the fiancé, bride's dad, future in laws, whatever/whoever, to make up the small difference.

  • @LisaLGruman
    @LisaLGruman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5056

    “...my mom just deflated me again”, and she was smiling while doing so. That’s not love; that’s sadistic.

    • @ndisfoshiz
      @ndisfoshiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      The “again” made me angry!

    • @L.Spencer
      @L.Spencer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She seems to have had a great wedding.

    • @LisaLGruman
      @LisaLGruman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@L.Spencer She deserves happiness.

    • @gigimckinlay8553
      @gigimckinlay8553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      If my mum made me feel that way I tell her to leave

    • @janicerosier403
      @janicerosier403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I would not invite Mom to my next bridal party when trying on dresses. She was awful, selfish, inconsiderate and jealous.

  • @sammy--ikshya19
    @sammy--ikshya19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +681

    I love that the mother in law is looking at the mother like she is gonna kill her if she says anything bad about the bride...

    • @roberthaalexis5741
      @roberthaalexis5741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      The mother in law picked out a dress for herself too..

    • @sammy--ikshya19
      @sammy--ikshya19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@roberthaalexis5741 the "Mother" Picked the dress not the "Mother-in-law"

    • @harshithakeerti
      @harshithakeerti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@roberthaalexis5741 no she was just holding it

    • @abbynormal4740
      @abbynormal4740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I love how the sister in law kept sticking up for the bride from the get-go.

    • @rosesilveira344
      @rosesilveira344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It hints the type of mother in law she will be.

  • @rmdebora
    @rmdebora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2292

    This is the type of person who would show up in a wedding dress also if she could. It was not about the 200 dollars, it was that she didn’t have the experience and didn’t let the daughter have it also.

    • @dotnb
      @dotnb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      So true. It makes me so angry. I hope the daughter came back for that dress and fully embraced her wonderful day.

    • @sandrasignorelli5960
      @sandrasignorelli5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      If I were the daughter I'd go back by myself and get the dress, work some overtime to pay for the additional $200 plus the alterations and accessories, and make sure her diva mom not steal the spotlight.

    • @melrobertson2743
      @melrobertson2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      If my mom tried to wear a white/ wedding dress to my wedding I'd be spiteful and have my bridesmaids and most guest wear white while I wear a colored gown

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@sandrasignorelli5960 I agree with your feelings, but my intuition is that the mother would find some other way to steal the spotlight. I feel so sorry for that poor bride living her entire childhood and adolescence with a self-absorbed mother such as that. I hope her in-laws are loving to her.

    • @sylviepelletier9953
      @sylviepelletier9953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      rmdebora, I agree with.

  • @alliecampbell995
    @alliecampbell995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Can we just take a minute and appreciate how GORGEOUS the bride is?!🤍

  • @gabriellebecker254
    @gabriellebecker254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1961

    This made me sad. It’s the bride that should have said yes to the dress. No one else should make that decision for her.

    • @peggyjames1668
      @peggyjames1668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I can see why the mother isn't married. It's all about what she wants. But it's suppose to be about the daughter.

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She didn’t get to say yay or nay ‘cause someone else is paying. She’s 29 yrs old….if not paying for her own, could at least pay the over mom’s budget amount…duh. Mom doesn’t look loaded.

    • @karlafox5975
      @karlafox5975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mom is a narcissist!!!!!

    • @somebody-br2hm
      @somebody-br2hm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ThePrincessWorrior I agree

    • @kathymcel
      @kathymcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ThePrincessWorrior I agree!

  • @jscho8674
    @jscho8674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This bride is absolutely stunning. I was totally staring at her the whole time. The mother was a NIGHTMARE. Omg...

  • @jemma-joon
    @jemma-joon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1380

    the bride is so beautiful, absolutely stunning in every dress

    • @Thehighpriestess108
      @Thehighpriestess108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      This is the first comment about how beautiful the bride is. Such a shame her mom ruined this moment for her, especially knowing there was going to be an audience! I pray this beautiful young woman found a dress she loves.

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Thehighpriestess108 Tes, but more importantly an in-law family who will give her the love her mother can't.

    • @karenhouser4123
      @karenhouser4123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Her mom is a selfish, self centered narcissist. Never once did she say her daughter looked beautiful. Her daughter is just gorgeous!! Shame on this mom for ruining that special day for her daughter. Mom, you can't hold a candle next your daughter!!

    • @karenhouser4123
      @karenhouser4123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree! Beautiful!

    • @lilianabatista9867
      @lilianabatista9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This girl is gorgeous. It sucks to have a mother like her

  • @mirjammirjam2435
    @mirjammirjam2435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This makes me so sad and angry. Ruining her daughters special day, while smiling. Vicious person. Imagine the poor brides upbringing. The bride is absolutely gorgeous. Mum is jealous.

    • @deborahpurvis5354
      @deborahpurvis5354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Let's just say, "I KNOW ABOUT IT!" My mom made this woman look like an angel. Been like that, all my life! Very Sad!
      She'll Never know how much she hurt her daughter, but I Do! 😒💔

  • @atxmic25
    @atxmic25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +820

    There was a line from corpse bride, “i had my dreams taken from me. Now im taking them away from someone else.” Being that its about a wedding, it feels so fitting. The mom didnt get her wedding, so shes taking that special day away from her daughter.

    • @alyssathompson3919
      @alyssathompson3919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Best comment ✨💯

    • @happyash6048
      @happyash6048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love that movie!

    • @kathymcel
      @kathymcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mom was giving the daughter $2000! That's a huge amount of money! Daughter can put $200 towards HER OWN DRESS! And so what if she got up while daughter was changing to pick out a dress?! Big WHOOP! GET OVER IT.

    • @atxmic25
      @atxmic25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@kathymcel i feel bad for your kids :( not everything is about money. This appointment is about emotion and a daughter’s connection with her mother in her most important and most emotional hours. You cant force someone to love and appreciate you by throwing money at them.

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@atxmic25 Maybe Kathy is really the mother in this episode.

  • @MabelleJS
    @MabelleJS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    honestly love how supportive the bride’s sister-in-law is

  • @MrsBrit1
    @MrsBrit1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    "It needs some embezzlement."
    Uhh, mom, I don't think that means what you think it means...😂😂

    • @MrsBrit1
      @MrsBrit1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Also, just shame on this mom.

    • @albanarimsu4736
      @albanarimsu4736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Was looking if anyone also caught that 😂

    • @Bshera
      @Bshera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Was looking for this comment😂

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In this witches case maybe she does embezzle

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@albanarimsu4736 Same...got a good chuckle from that. Maybe WE got it wrong....embellishing your clothing is illegal. Confiscate those bedazzler kits.

  • @neydaa_
    @neydaa_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    When mom said “it needs some embezzlement” I died 😂 I know what she meant but it had me cracking up.
    She’s legit trying to live her dream through her a daughter and that’s a big no from me. Focus on your daughter, let her shine ✨ it’s her day!

    • @angelaminter2632
      @angelaminter2632 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not really living through her daughter she completely doesn’t want to go above 2000 so she can buy her own dress. This woman is just giving insecurity if she’s not the center of attention this is completely disgusting.😂

  • @Brembelia
    @Brembelia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +949

    That's terrible. Too bad Monty Ray wasn't around to give that mother a piece of our minds! Mom needs to have her own wedding (vow renewal) and let her daughter have her own wedding without all of the selfish, immature upstaging.

    • @christinelavoie2644
      @christinelavoie2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      My intuition is that the mother never had her own wedding because there never was anyone to get married to, let alone renew vows with.

    • @GoriBeringeifan332
      @GoriBeringeifan332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I have a feeling that if her husband is still around, he'd rather go skinny dipping in lava than to renew anything with this horrible woman.

  • @Leonicole09
    @Leonicole09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She looked so happy when she got that last dress on!! I cant imagine having a mom like this..

  • @suzannecoffman5741
    @suzannecoffman5741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    And once again, I am grateful for my mother, who never would have been so selfish.

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She gave her $2000, she's far from selfish.

    • @idontcare-sf1vb
      @idontcare-sf1vb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@annie6891 money isn’t everything when she purposefully sabotaged her daughters wedding dress shopping. Please.

    • @idontcare-sf1vb
      @idontcare-sf1vb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annie6891 you’re really the type of person to think that money fixes everything. If a man cheating on you and throw money at you you’re gonna feel better?

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idontcare-sf1vb 🤣 you entitled broads kill me. How did she sabotage it, by sticking to her budget? Sorry, but I can't relate, empathize or sympathize with spoil brats or their supporters. I was raised differently.

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idontcare-sf1vb Whoever deleted your previous comment with the terrible analogy did you a favor.

  • @irisf.9355
    @irisf.9355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    That mother was unbelievable! Needed to be shown the door and uninvited to the wedding. Give her more time to go "embellizing."

    • @elisemiller13
      @elisemiller13 ปีที่แล้ว

      If the daughter could afford to do that Iris F.

    • @hollydejong1792
      @hollydejong1792 ปีที่แล้ว

      She clearly doesn't know the difference between embezzling & embellishing 🙄 What clearly does know how to do is crush her daughter 😢 She's so petty

  • @b_jean755
    @b_jean755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    That mom is clearly so jelly of her daughter and is in competition with her which is just so sickening and disgusting! At that point I wouldn't even invite her to the next dress try on and maybe not even the wedding!

    • @dotnb
      @dotnb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I would too. They don't stop, unfortunately. Christenings, holidays, family visits, they bring drama. I hope the bride had a wonderful day in a wonderful dress, nonetheless.

  • @PrincessPetch24
    @PrincessPetch24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    “I will not go over budget.” Oh, but she was willing to pick a dress out for herself.

  • @connieramsey6798
    @connieramsey6798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    Meanwhile, that class-act of a mother says the bride’s dress needs some “embezzlement”. WHAT? Lololol.

    • @velmacoffey3763
      @velmacoffey3763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Yeah, noticed that too. And Lori's eyeroll...yeah she heard that!! LOL

    • @preciousuno70
      @preciousuno70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      EXACTLY.

    • @mzp6620
      @mzp6620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LOL I heard that! ;)

    • @Hailey_lovejoy
      @Hailey_lovejoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      She definitely meant to say embellishment lol.

    • @sewaldodiy
      @sewaldodiy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣

  • @briananeagu1265
    @briananeagu1265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    every child deserves a mom but not every mom deserves a child

  • @MA-di9zh
    @MA-di9zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    In no episode have I ever seen a mother being so little connected to her daughter... Fascinating in a bad way. What a childhood it must have been..

    • @annoir
      @annoir 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this episode out. It depicts one of the most narcissistic Moms I've ever seen: th-cam.com/video/Q61fj0yEx38/w-d-xo.html

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      There is one where the daughter went to 80+ plus stores without finding a dress. Then, during the episode we understand why. The mother was despicable. The daughter found a dress, which the mother thought it beautiful in the mannequin before but found fault in her daughter. Randy was so messed up over it.

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Usually, they are busy focusing on the dress that they like and not what the bride wants. I would go solo before would allow some of those "crews" to accompany them.

    • @joannehenry8273
      @joannehenry8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Willowy13 Yeah that one took place at Kleinfield's. That mother was a nightmare and you wonder what her situation had been as a child, that she would treat her child in such a horrible manner!

    • @gracielou1407
      @gracielou1407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You should the see the episode where the MOB who is also going to get married walked on the runway in a bridal gown while her daughter was trying on hers and was already on the runway. There was another episode where the sister is whining because she too did not have a wedding having gotten married at the courthouse so without asking or telling the consultants that she was the sister of the bride who had the appointment they put the sister in a gown. You guessed it they both walked on the runway at the same time. The bride told the sister off that it was not here day and to sit down: if she wanted to try on dresses, she had to get her own appointment.

  • @meidalukosiute6511
    @meidalukosiute6511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The mother in law's eyes 👀every time the mother would say something stupid and self-centred 😂

  • @nomorecensoringme
    @nomorecensoringme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    I hope the bride comes up with $200 on her own, so she can get her dress. I think it comes down to the money being an excuse. The mom does not want her daughter to look sexy on her day. The dress she chose for herself is short. I think it s possible that she wants to shine brighter on her daughter's day.

    • @dotnb
      @dotnb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes. Absolutely 100% true.

    • @lucybee3361
      @lucybee3361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's definite

    • @Tes7000
      @Tes7000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mary: This made me wonder if this appointment was real. A $2,000 budget is a really generous gift. It didn't make sense for the bride to not pay the difference and get the dress that she really liked. And nobody else in the entourage was willing to chip in either?
      The above plus the mother's outrageous behavior makes me think they just wanted to be on TV.

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Tes7000 Yeah, I would have thought the group would pay the difference. If it were me, I'd offer especially if I was the MIL or grandma.

  • @cloudydayz1022
    @cloudydayz1022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "im just as important as she is" 🚩🚩🚩 I feel so bad for the bride no one has to go through something like that.

  • @rivertam7827
    @rivertam7827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    "Needs embezzlement" 😂😂😂
    The sister in law is a sweetheart though

  • @madihanaveed1820
    @madihanaveed1820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The sister-in law actually was more supportive then her own mother

  • @amstergal
    @amstergal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    This is the saddest episode I've seen. I hope things turned out well for this bride; it was heartbreaking when she said she wanted to wait. I thought she looked like a dream and I love the option to take off the lovely tulle overlay.

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This doesn't come close to the one with the daughter that travelled the whole world and visited 80+ stores and never found a dress. While you watch the episode you understand why. That has to be the most despicable mother I've seen.

    • @mrenaep
      @mrenaep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There was one episode where the mom tried on a wedding dress too. The daughter was crying and the mom didn't seem to care all that much.

  • @superbadgirl82
    @superbadgirl82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can't believe she said she was just important as the bride. Horrible mother. It's not her day and she should respect that.

  • @cornishmaid9138
    @cornishmaid9138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    What selfish, selfish mother. She wilfully deflated her daughter’s most precious moment. Wicked woman. 😡

    • @jemma-joon
      @jemma-joon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      The bride could have paid 200, there is nothing selfish about sticking to the budget and the rest of the attendees can contribute

    • @lorrainewhitlock5377
      @lorrainewhitlock5377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jemma-joon that's right!! Could have paid the $200 to get her dream dress also everybody there could have grouped together to pay for it

    • @twistersurvivor
      @twistersurvivor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@jemma-joon The mother sat her ass down and let her daughter have her day but she didn't.

    • @jemma-joon
      @jemma-joon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@twistersurvivor the bride wasn't there, they were seated when she came, if you had to wait there for hours, you wouldn't care if ppl are wondering around

    • @Dulcess
      @Dulcess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't forget her future mother in law helping her mom out. 😒

  • @doseofglory1927
    @doseofglory1927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    When the mom said the dress needed more “embezzlement” that’s all I needed to hear🤣🤣🤣…she is selfish/ jealous of her daughter

  • @Kirome
    @Kirome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    Self-Centered mothers who wanna be the main character..gross. You should NEVER do something like that at your child’s wedding. It’s about HER, and It’s HER day..

    • @anitamorrison4238
      @anitamorrison4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wonder how you live that down after you're on TV behaving like that? Move? Change your name? Change your behavior?

    • @tsukilunamoon
      @tsukilunamoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This isn't the wedding day, it's dress shopping day

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tsukilunamoon Yes, but the dress shopping day is still her day. The appointment is booked for the bride not the entourage.

  • @karendumas5760
    @karendumas5760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The mother is CLASSLESS. She could have had her day at another time and not compromise her daughter's day and special moment. She is fixated on herself and not so much her daughter. She needs to be diplomatic.

  • @twistersurvivor
    @twistersurvivor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    That Mom is a real piece of work.

  • @aleven9642
    @aleven9642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "I didn't have a wedding" OKAY??? LET YOUR DAUGHTER HAVE ONE DAMN

  • @jemma-joon
    @jemma-joon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    honestly? $200 is Now a showstopper when you are in an expensive place already? The bride could have paid the difference, or the aunts, either way they'll get her a present. I support someone sticking to the budget, but you have to agree at home "anything over budget, you'll pay the difference"

    • @cbow5582
      @cbow5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right

    • @doralevitt2879
      @doralevitt2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Somebody could have chipped in the $200, even if they took a collection btwn each other 🙄😒

    • @heatherheape4165
      @heatherheape4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Agreed. I would have just paid the $200 myself.

    • @deblavan4190
      @deblavan4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Or the nasty mother could of just paid it! Her darn dress is not that important till bride had hers!! That mother needs to be less stingy snd selfish!!

    • @roserain7034
      @roserain7034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@deblavan4190 Or the bride can pay for her own dress?? Dafuq? If it's "her day" she can PAY FOR ALL OF IT.

  • @rr8960
    @rr8960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Did she really said it needed more “embezzlement “?! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @susanking9502
    @susanking9502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Mom is ruthless and disrespectful! I real mom would be there, for her daughter!

  • @Thyswaggster
    @Thyswaggster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “But I’m the mother”
    Yeah and she’s the bride so let her have her moment.

  • @LRSL
    @LRSL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    The mother was out of line to try and hijack the appointment for her own dress shopping, but I don't understand this expectation/mentality that anyone but the bride should be financially responsible for the wedding gown. Pay for your own dress, and everyone and their opinions can take a seat. Your wedding, your money, your rules. If a family member offers to cover the cost of the dress as a gift, then have the decency to respect their budget; it is a gift in the end.

    • @pramaroy5289
      @pramaroy5289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I agree completely. The bride should pay the $200 difference at the very least

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      it's a holdover from the days of a bride's family paying a dowry in order for the other family to take on the "financial burden" of providing for their daughter. not to mention the only reason she's being such a stinker about the budget is because she's more concerned about her OWN dress. i feel so sorry for that bride having to deal with such a narcissist for a mom.

    • @pramaroy5289
      @pramaroy5289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@dietotaku The mom does come across as a narcissist in so many ways... but that is a separate matter. And it's good to be strict with the budget because if you go over for one thing... you might go over for everything else and be left with debt. At the very least, if the bride is old and mature enough to get married, she should be responsible enough to follow the budget or be able to pay for her own dress if need be.

    • @kimberleyslauenwhite9004
      @kimberleyslauenwhite9004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The bride's family paying for the dress is a custom in a lot of families - I was in my 40s when I got married and my parents insisted on paying for my dress. No talking them out of it. :)

    • @Sassafrass95
      @Sassafrass95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pramaroy5289 I have a feling growing up this mom didn't care about anything in regards to her daughter, so for once she can stop being selfish and give her daughter something she wants and not what the mother wants to live through her daughter

  • @shaylasorrells7671
    @shaylasorrells7671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    “I think she’s upset with me 🙂” How do you find joy in ruining an important moment for your child?! That’s so messed up 😡

  • @Cantwealljustgetalong
    @Cantwealljustgetalong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Mom: It needs some embezzlement Oh dear Mom... 😂😂😂

  • @1SpicyPisces
    @1SpicyPisces 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When mom said “it needs embezzlement”🤣🤣🤣, I almost fell of my couch, embellishment darling!🤣🤣

  • @gisellepintomusic123
    @gisellepintomusic123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Did the bride’s mother say “it needs more EMBEZZLEMENT”?!?!?!🧐🤔

    • @hannahphilips3875
      @hannahphilips3875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lmfao came here to comment this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @joyfuljaj
      @joyfuljaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Let's add some laundering and racketeering while we're at it.

    • @andersh9423
      @andersh9423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I caught that too.

    • @gisellepintomusic123
      @gisellepintomusic123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @nikimalloy808
      @nikimalloy808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lo lol lol. I was saying the same thing. 😆

  • @Ash_Ash7
    @Ash_Ash7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can we just talk about how the sister in law is standing up for the bride then her own mother

  • @fefefr4950
    @fefefr4950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I feel like If i was the mom, and i didn't have a wedding, i would want my daughter to have the BEST WEDDING that i didn't get. NOT interfering with my daughters wedding.

  • @mamabear9646
    @mamabear9646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When your in-laws are looking out for over your own mother, you've chosen your new family well.

  • @bethaniejify
    @bethaniejify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I hate parents that seemed to never grow out of being children. 🙄

  • @niveditarangarajan3788
    @niveditarangarajan3788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    'It needs some embezzlement' 6:12 😂 That word does not mean what you think it means, mom

  • @mrst678
    @mrst678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I didn’t even finish this video. The fact that the mother waited until her daughter’s day to have a moment is just sad. Live YOUR life, not your life through your child.

  • @Waffles84
    @Waffles84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her mom is mean and full of herself. She pushed her Daughter away from her and this beautiful young lady will never forget this

  • @robyndeddens6658
    @robyndeddens6658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    If I was the bride I would have just stopped the appointment and left.

    • @velmacoffey3763
      @velmacoffey3763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly.

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly and pay for your own dress. Half the drama would be avoided if they would.

    • @moonchild708
      @moonchild708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i would've waited til she purchased the mob dress and then told her she was uninvited from the wedding 😂

  • @rajishah780
    @rajishah780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the moms smile and weird response literally triggered my fight or flight 😭😭if my mom did that and smiled like that i would uninvite her.

  • @ozziarni742
    @ozziarni742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    That they should have clarified the budget question is clear, but the mother's reaction was just simply unkind. The mother of the bride ist just not as important as the bride.

    • @Yoruake89
      @Yoruake89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That was the sentence that the mother said, that made me so angry. No it is her daughters and her son-in-laws wedding day. This day will celebrate their love and not the mothers or someone else. For me, it was not about the 200 $ over budget, for me it was about this mother disrespecting and suppressing her daughter the whole time while they visited the bridal shop. My mum would have never done so!

  • @dawnvalarie8104
    @dawnvalarie8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She looked amazing in both dresses and will rock whatever she chooses, just a beautiful young lady. Her mother, that a whole different episode. Shameful.

  • @drewchase6577
    @drewchase6577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    They couldn't have chipped in $50 each? Mom can get her dress at Macys.

  • @lindaritchards2465
    @lindaritchards2465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @cw-s3582
    @cw-s3582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I would be so proud to be this poised, articulate and sweet Bride's mom & share this amazing time in her life... I just cannot understand a Mom so hurtful to her daughter at the price of her ego.. God Bless this lovely Bride & her Groom.
    PS: move far away from MIL 😉

  • @BlackBeauty2023
    @BlackBeauty2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I will go to my daughter's wedding in a paper bag, before I let her miss out on her dream dress. The mother was trying to steal the spotlight and it shows.

  • @josieloveyou2624
    @josieloveyou2624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    The mom can go dress shopping any day/anytime . Not the day her daughter is wedding dress shopping

  • @yvonnecampbell4663
    @yvonnecampbell4663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a mother

  • @s.p.5213
    @s.p.5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    That Southern "But I'm the mother" thing is truly disgusting. Kandi from RHOA, Black Southerners, White Southerners, all of them, it's SO wrong how they demonstrate their version of "respect your elders".

  • @auntnickie3190
    @auntnickie3190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn it Man!!!!! I'll give her the $200. She was so defeated by her mother's lack of enthusiasm & support.

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would be in trouble if I worked there and that occurred frequently because I'd pay it out my own pocket. I'd want to see that smile and this girl is great for promoting the store because she is stunning in that dress.

  • @gillianbuonanno3211
    @gillianbuonanno3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Ok, why isn't the bride paying for her dress? This way, she can have what she wants.

    • @aurie4894
      @aurie4894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      My thoughts exactly!!!! When u don't depend on someone else 2 pay 4 something, u have total freedom do get what u want.

    • @jemma-joon
      @jemma-joon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      200 she could have paid, I don't think she liked the dress that much

    • @roserain7034
      @roserain7034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@jemma-joon Maybe her mood was spoiled from her mom's behavior however, if the dress was as amazing as she think it is, she would pay for it. Then again, I don't really care about my parents opinion 🤣 if I like the dress, I like it so if my mom was like that, I wouldn't care.

    • @kittyonpointe2347
      @kittyonpointe2347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@aurie4894 she’s probably paying for the rest of her wedding. Not everybody has extra thousands of dollars

    • @aurie4894
      @aurie4894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@kittyonpointe2347 That may be the case & obviously understandable, however if she is going 2 b dependent on someone else 4 funds, she has 2 respect the limitations & budget that it set 4 her & not ask 4 additional funds or automatically expect that they will b given!

  • @forme3h
    @forme3h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! The mother though. No mercy and love🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @kathleenturner1522
    @kathleenturner1522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The dress the bride wants is different and gorgeous! Wow!

  • @alimck5123
    @alimck5123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s her daughter’s wedding yet the mother got her dream dress and refuse to pay extra for her daughter’s dream dress. I’m ready to cry for her.

  • @kmorris2371
    @kmorris2371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    WOW! Mom ruined Talia's moment by being selfish. That is so sad. It's Talia's day NOT her mothers. She looked beautiful in both dresses.

  • @annehampton5807
    @annehampton5807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was hoping the bride's future mother and sister in laws, would have said, we will pay for the rest. The bride would be stunning in any dress. How a so called mother can put herself first on her daughters wedding day is beyond my understanding. Wishing the beautiful bride and groom all the very best in life ❤️ 💕 ❤

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    The daughter is old enough to pay the difference if she chooses to go over budget.
    $2,000 is a generous budget for a one day dress.

    • @ishanika3038
      @ishanika3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I totally agree an adult 'getting married' should be able to pay their expenses if not the whole amount then atleast some amount..

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@ishanika3038 Generally it was tradition for the father of the bride to pay for the wedding. I believe it was because it was the last time he would be taking care of his daughter prior to her getting married. It's not always about whether that person can or can't afford something. And even if someone contribute they should still be respectful to the bride or whatever the case maybe.

    • @jamilecerqueira8685
      @jamilecerqueira8685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I couldn’t agree more! 2k for a dress is a generous gift already! Anything above it should be paid by the bride or the groom!

    • @Maz-zb9uf
      @Maz-zb9uf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your right the worst thing you can do is ask a parent for your dress then they feel they have power over you

    • @dianahouk6205
      @dianahouk6205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The mom was going to buy herself a dress. Selfish in every way! She couldnt steal the show, so no one was going to get anything! shame on you. Your antics, and behavior written all over her face were nothing less than disgrace, and sickening. The poor daughter probably wanted to vanish right off the stage. The moment was loss, when selfish mother got up from her chair. Pray she went on to find the most beautiful dress thru her eyes, and grace may her fairytale wedding be all that she dreams 💘

  • @mollythorpe6307
    @mollythorpe6307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That first dress looks so good on her I wish I had that figure I mean my gosh she looks so pretty in everything!

  • @jodicrain4500
    @jodicrain4500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'd let mom have the appointment and reschedule for myself, by myself.

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good plan. I say most of these shows their entourage is of little help and can be cruel and they'd be better off solo.

    • @francesfehrman741
      @francesfehrman741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would have gotten dressed, and left. Leave her mom sitting there!

  • @Lizzie-ve7kt
    @Lizzie-ve7kt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The bride is so STUNNING.

  • @itsnay1ene904
    @itsnay1ene904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    it doesnt matter if “shes the mother” she had her chance years ago to get married, its her daughters choice not hers, common sense, and for her to even look for a dress for herself it’s disrespectful

  • @lhj276
    @lhj276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Talia is so beautiful and handled her mother's severe narcissism like a person who has endured so much of this it's normal for her. I hope she is okay and gets therapy and finds healing. She seems so sweet and patient and I am so sad that her mother is so self absorbed.

  • @tammyg3149
    @tammyg3149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have three grown boys and my now daughter in law asked me to go dress shopping with her. We had a blast and found a dress. I wasn't doing anything but supporting my daughter in law. It's HER day, HER dress.
    How sad for this young bride. I hope her future husband has a spine. He's going to need one🙄

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep his future MIL is a bulldog or a bulldozer. Not sure which.

  • @sha-maisworld7515
    @sha-maisworld7515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What a beautiful bride 😍❤️
    Mom’s behavior is disgusting!!!

  • @seriliaykilel
    @seriliaykilel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I get the feeling deflated because her mom was being overall not fully there for her, but at the same time (1) please don't put brides in dresses over budget without warning them and (2) if you do choose to put on a dress over budget, be prepared to pay for the difference yourself.

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did think about that, too. They often put them in a dress over budget and then nothing else compares. I saw one of these shows and the dress was $20 if I remember correctly. The dad upped his budget to make his princess happy.

  • @sakuratejina
    @sakuratejina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The fact that the mom cares more about herself than her daughter so openly like that should have been grounds for not inviting her to the wedding. Poor bride, her mother can’t even put her ego down to make her daughter happy for 1 second. She’s the mother of the bride, not the bride, no one cares what she wears so long as is doesn’t upstage the bride. This mom gives off the vibe that she would definitely try to wear something waaaaaaay more glamorous than her daughter for the attention.

  • @JValGen
    @JValGen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If my mom or someone tried to say that they’re just as important and it’s their day too I’d be SICK, if you loved someone so much you’d happily give them all the attention. The mom couldn’t have shopped for her dress after the appointment? The next day? Selfish .

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I said. Even if took a peak and had them hold something for you to try on later, but to select it before the bride and then be smug about.

  • @jilljacobs5319
    @jilljacobs5319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This beautiful young lady has got the most gorgeous cheekbones I have ever seen!!!

  • @gettheedgenow7079
    @gettheedgenow7079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I am so ashamed of this mother. She has a beautiful daughter, and she is too jealous to allow her to shine. Disgusting!

  • @_jessienicole_
    @_jessienicole_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She did not just say embezzlement 😂

  • @Lil-Jack-Jack
    @Lil-Jack-Jack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The bride is so naturally beautiful, the dress looked amazing on her, I hope she goes back and gets it!!! Shame on mom.

  • @donnasheehan8769
    @donnasheehan8769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is like a case study in Narcissistic Parents

  • @eringemini7091
    @eringemini7091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The Mom really was just there to find HER dress! I think the wedding dress was just an afterthought when it came to her daughter!

  • @queenbee3647
    @queenbee3647 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That bride was so sweet and beautiful! She could wear anything. 💖

  • @tlwagener9245
    @tlwagener9245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Perfect example of a narcissistic mother. They haunt you. Low contact, then no contact, love.

  • @riri_hins
    @riri_hins 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First dress was WHOA!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @colleennikstenas4921
    @colleennikstenas4921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Bought my own dress on sale and it was gorgeous! The day was less than great due to some personal issues, but the food and dress savings were fab and yum.

    • @nicolaablett7790
      @nicolaablett7790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bought my own suit not white at all

  • @makenzieanderson9962
    @makenzieanderson9962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wanted to comment and say this is the first time I’ve ever cried during and episode.. because the bride looked like a BRIDE 🥹 she is beautiful

  • @Martha-tb8ok
    @Martha-tb8ok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The mother is very selfish! And she said the second dress needs more embezzlement 😂! Totally ruined her daughter’s day.

    • @tsukilunamoon
      @tsukilunamoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The daughters day doesn't come until the wedding. This is just shopping. Let's hope she doesn't ruin her actual wedding day.

  • @kanna231
    @kanna231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One lesson to her mother don't live your dream out of your daughter at all because it's ruinning everything of the wedding and it's not your wedding at all.

  • @mahaylahuff2026
    @mahaylahuff2026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can we just acknowledge the fact that her mom said "we need some embezzlement." So different words. LOL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Oh gosh!

  • @zionsgirl6456
    @zionsgirl6456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This broke my heart. Family dysfunction at it's finest. It's sad. You grow up with so much love & admiration for people who don't have your best interests, rarely ever.