Therapist Reacts To: Black Beauty by Lana Del Rey

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  • @Lanaspoisonivy
    @Lanaspoisonivy ปีที่แล้ว +471

    "did she date my ex" stoppp I laughed so hard 😂
    The idea of having the responsibility to fix him or men she was with in a main thematic umbrella in the whole Ultraviolence album. She really shows the psychomachia of wanting to please but also wanting to make them better. Despite it all, she chooses to stay because she's not aware that she deserves better. That comes in more in Honeymoon when she sees that her need to please these men is just the honeymoon phase of a relationship and she actually comes to realize that it's time to walk away because it damages her wellbeing. It's part of her evolution. As the albums progress you'll see that more.

  • @bluewescott4631
    @bluewescott4631 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    lana literally says "you are unfixable" in her song shades of cool!

    • @lilianadelcaribe
      @lilianadelcaribe ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @LouisianasQueenLuisaMorgadoperiodt

    • @mrovvka6882
      @mrovvka6882 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The first thing that came to my mind when she said that haha

    • @kdr3108
      @kdr3108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought it was "invincible" because she put the lyrics in the describtion and it is "invincible"

    • @faisal-ag
      @faisal-ag ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg! Please do the entire Ultraviolence album. Shades of Cool next? 🥹

    • @marihaf
      @marihaf ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I LOVE THIS SONG

  • @mohamedbenmokhtar8367
    @mohamedbenmokhtar8367 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Keep on serving

  • @edoliveira7695
    @edoliveira7695 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    i think you’ll love “Old Money”, one of the best songs of hers

  • @pawys6705
    @pawys6705 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I read somewhere that these lyrics:
    "Oh what can I do?
    Nothing, my sparrow blue"
    were a real dialogue between her and her boyfriend. He answered her that she can't do anything and called her his sparrow. It makes this song even sadder.
    Thanks ❤

    • @computerb0y
      @computerb0y ปีที่แล้ว +20

      really? where did you see that? that's sad but actually beautiful, like black beauty

    • @frotah
      @frotah ปีที่แล้ว

      calling her his sparrow means something I'm not catching at first glance? english is not my native language so if there's some known meaning that I'm not aware about I would very much appreciate a reply :] thanks

    • @k.d.5603
      @k.d.5603 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@frotahAs far as I know we haven't heard Lana explain that lyric. I think it's a term of endearment like Sweetheart, Honey and Babe. I'm sure it means something important to Lana. She's said she likes to add little things in her song that only she (and sometimes family or friends) will understand exactly what it's means. I think that's probably common for artists.

  • @tilltheend4564
    @tilltheend4564 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    This song is so sad, and it's clearly about her relationship with barrie- james i always remember what she said when they broke up: "Probably the relationship I’ve been in for the last three years. Definitely demolished that through tons of depression and insecurity. Now it’s just an untenable relationship, impossible because of my emotional instability."

  • @CatnapWhisper
    @CatnapWhisper ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This song has made me curl up and weep before. Loving someone with depression is so hard. You'd do anything to take their pain from them. It physically hurts to see them unhappy.
    And as someone who has struggled severely with mental illness my whole life sometimes this song feels like I'm singing to myself.
    The instrumentals fit the theme perfectly too and capture that longing aching feeling of wanting happiness for yourself or someone else
    This is in my top 3 Lana songs

  • @cerde4392
    @cerde4392 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    as a lana del rey stan who’s studying psychology in uni, i’m loving these reactions. also - today’s her birthday!
    by the way, i love the wallpaper in the background 🤩

  • @mariamiguelmartins6227
    @mariamiguelmartins6227 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I see Lana, I click

  • @Hearchives
    @Hearchives ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Happy birthday Lana Del Rey!!! She’s 38 now!!

  • @thytuz
    @thytuz ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I laughed so hard when you asked "she dated my ex?" 🤣🤣

  • @ej3917
    @ej3917 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    3:07 “he’s unfixable” listen to Shades Of Cool she says this exact line :) it’s in the same album too! 💗

  • @iagoduarte2365
    @iagoduarte2365 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She wrote this song and basically the whole Ultraviolence album about Barrie, he struggled with depression and that’s why they broke up 🥺 despite she tried to bring him up, like you said, it was not her job 😭

  • @Claaasic
    @Claaasic ปีที่แล้ว +9

    4:48-7:45 This whole dialogue 😢
    This is one of my favorite songs by her.
    The entire Ultraviolence album is incredible.

  • @SeasonOfLana
    @SeasonOfLana ปีที่แล้ว +26

    “I think she might’ve dated my ex” SENT ME😭 I think this is why we all love her so much, there’s such a relatability ❤️

  • @iagoduarte2365
    @iagoduarte2365 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Black Bathing Suit it’s also a great song that tells a little bit more of Lana

  • @axelivan2518
    @axelivan2518 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I LOVE BLACK BEAUTY SO MUCH!! This is my favorite song of all the time 🫶🏼✨

  • @ZacharyKhitmi
    @ZacharyKhitmi ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "He's unfixable", Lana says "You're unfixable" in her song Shades of Cool from the same album Black Beauty is from, Ultraviolence.

  • @xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395
    @xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is from her Ultraviolence album, where, as another commenter pointed out, the central themes surround the idea of wanting to simultaneously please/appeal to and change/fix the men she’s romantically involved with. Another song in the album that’s very similar to Black Beauty, but I think a bit more direct, is Shades of Cool. I’d really love to see your reaction/analysis of that one at some point! The chorus literally breaks out with “you are unfixable, I can’t break through your walls”

  • @alenglitz
    @alenglitz ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your interpretations are so spot-on. As a die-hard Lana fan since 2011, these are some of the best reactions out there. I've been following your channel for a few months now, and thank you SOOO much, you make me feel like I'm listening to these songs for the very first time. Looking forward to more ❤

  • @theotherwomen8248
    @theotherwomen8248 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    MERE DID THIS FOR LANA'S BIRTHDAY

  • @lightangelow1775
    @lightangelow1775 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Oh, what can i do?"
    Wait 4 Mend with Mere to post, that's what! Thank you for the DEDICATION, we love every reaction, interpretation and advice! ^^

  • @bbh8286
    @bbh8286 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I found myself obsessed with your reactions to Lana 🩷

  • @mjb78
    @mjb78 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I think many people miss a lot of Lana’s humor or sarcasm in her lyrics. Not saying the song’s subject is humorous, but her singing “I paint the house black, and my wedding dress too,” is a rather funny image. Makes me think of the movie BeetleJuice. So many of her songs have a twisted humor to them, but because other lyrics are so heavy it gets overlooked. Love your reactions - they’re super insightful ✌️

  • @keithmoore8702
    @keithmoore8702 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Happy birthday Lana! She's playing here in the UK this weekend at Glastonbury. Keep on doing what you are doing Mere. Love the analysis

  • @MJLM2312
    @MJLM2312 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What I associate this song to the most, in a purely subjective way, it's to this one time during my darkest phase, when I had suicidal idealizations and felt completely hopeless: I decided to go out for a run around a park at night, took my headphones and phone with me, put Lana's music on on shuffle, and this song came on. Despite the fact I was running, I couldn't take my mind off my negative thoughts and emotions, but when Dark Beauty came on, I really listened to the lyrics for the first time, and it was so soothing, I felt she was singing it to me. It gave me a sparkle of hope, thinking about how beautiful life can be, starting with the fact that such beautiful music and art exists and how it can brighten you up for a little while at least.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! This proves music is so healing. Sometimes no amount of medication or therapy can help in the way one song can. So glad it supported you and you are here.

  • @julioary2558
    @julioary2558 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shades of cool, pretty when u cry and sad girl will be amazing for u to listen

  • @christinabatura7888
    @christinabatura7888 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This song is dedicated to Lana's ex-boyfriend, who used to be one of her few men who wasn't that abusive to her (my personal impression and observation, cause Lana usually doesn’t talk much about her personal relationships).
    I guess they really loved each other, but because of his and her dark personalities, they were not able to make it. Barrie used to have depression at that time, sadly, Lana is also not the most optimistic person.
    She moved to London for some time to live with him. He is a singer too. At that time Lana kept getting popularity, so whenever you see some videos of that time when they both were caught in public or at some music related events, it is clear that all attention goes to Lana, while Barrie stays aside just observing. He wanted the recognition too I believe, so at those times, especially, taking to consideration he had depression and his career was not as successful as Lana’s(must admit he is a talented singer too), it was obvious he was jealous. At the same point I want to say he used to always protect her from her annoying or crazy fans in public. You can see he really loved her and cared for her. I think it was not a good time for two of them then. Maybe if they started dating later, when they were not as vulnerable as they were, they would have had a better ending, who knows..?
    I guess their story is really sad😞, their relationship was one of the longest from all Lana’s. It was sincere, but painful love… I believe they had much in common.. it was just not a right time for them..
    You can tell, cause Lana still gives a positive feedback about him. Barrie does the same. They still keep in touch as friends :)
    You can check out their cover for a song “Summer Wine” on Lana’s channel. They sound great together! Very magnificent cover ☺️ watching the video to the cover now, gives me a feeling it is a dream, that was never supposed to become true…
    Thank you for your reaction!🥰 Looking forward to the next ones😁

    • @sabra8064
      @sabra8064 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No he wasn’t jealous of her at all! Barrie didn’t want fame he just sings and plays guitar because he loves doing it

    • @heavenboulevard
      @heavenboulevard ปีที่แล้ว +23

      her songs with or about barrie are the best 😭

    • @V10l3tta1
      @V10l3tta1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that’s so sad omg

    • @dglsldrh4166
      @dglsldrh4166 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      the part you say they could meet themselves later is the main ideia of Flipside (song).

    • @emilyb.8219
      @emilyb.8219 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@heavenboulevard Do you know what other of her songs are believed to be about him?

  • @rasida1206
    @rasida1206 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another one in such a short time 😍 and on Lana's birthday❤

  • @LaurenLyn01
    @LaurenLyn01 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how deep you dig into these songs, trying to interpret the works of art and deep emotion! One song by Lana, that's on the "Lust For Life' album, has always been beautifully challenging for me to understand. It's called "13 Beaches". The song has a haunting need to escape from the world with the sound of a cinematic ballad. Somehow it's relatable, but I'm not sure why.

  • @christinayelamobergantini6508
    @christinayelamobergantini6508 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been waiting a long time for this one 🥹

  • @sheridansmith1946
    @sheridansmith1946 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Highly recommend listening to her song, Beautiful, on her album Blue Banisters. Its amazing song that discusses her going through depression herself. Highly recommend

  • @claraazevedo1826
    @claraazevedo1826 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this song is a bonus track from ultraviolence, arguably her darkest album (honeymoon is also a good candidate), about a very toxic relationship that ended up hurting everyone involved

  • @nykola
    @nykola ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Maybe you should listen to Wild at Heart by Lana where she says "I love you lots like polka-dots..." another relatable fact 😊❤

  • @stevend8080
    @stevend8080 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Out of all of Lana's songs, this one definitely hit me the hardest, VERY close to home. I remember hearing it for the first time. Sure, vocally speaking, it is angelical, no doubt. Poetically/lyrically, it absolutely destroyed me to the point of causing me a breakdown. I interpreted the lyrics a little differently than what they possibly were meant to/for. It felt as if a younger version of myself was trying to speak to me. A version of myself that wants to fight/change, and do everything in his power to take my current version out of the depression I was feeling at the time. It made me rethink so many things and build enough courage to want to heal. This song is one of the reasons why I'm alive today.

  • @SummerWine19
    @SummerWine19 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ever since i've heard this song for the first time ,it has still remained my fav Lana song of all time and that is hard cuz all of her music is superior.

  • @xcxnon
    @xcxnon ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love you and your reactions!!!

  • @Heroinheart
    @Heroinheart ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had this song on replay from SoundCloud then one day decided to listen to UV and realized the song has been released 😭

  • @dungam5005
    @dungam5005 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hiii Mere, since Fleetwood Mac is one of ur fav ( and my personal fav band, and Stevie Nicks omg ), i think you'd love "Beautiful People With Beautiful Problems by Lana featuring Stevie Nicks herself lol, btw love your reactions 💖

  • @guilmma
    @guilmma ปีที่แล้ว +9

    lana’s catalogue is full of controversial themes that somehow we can all relate in a way, it’s just as painful as it is beautiful

  • @TinCole
    @TinCole ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lana's celebrating 38th birthday today! I love your reactions!

  • @dennysm
    @dennysm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    By minute 4 of this video I was already crying, damn. Thank you for doing this song, it's one of my favorite ones by Lana 🖤

  • @____thisguyhere________
    @____thisguyhere________ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this reaction! I think you’d enjoy Shades of Cool. It’s one of my favorites from the Ultraviolence record and she’s talking about very similar themes.

  • @jeffreymarra231
    @jeffreymarra231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ALWAYS look forward to your videos, Mere!!! This made my day. Thank you for all you do!!!

  • @cappylady1
    @cappylady1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My fav LANA song on her birthday what a sign thank you!🖤

  • @che_blasey
    @che_blasey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHH I love your vids and this is my fav song

  • @vincentmajors2182
    @vincentmajors2182 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mere trust me, you must do violets for roses, it won’t disappoint!!

  • @elinakhisamova3569
    @elinakhisamova3569 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your reactions! as a fan of Lana, I don’t always understand the meaning of her songs and it’s so interesting to listen to your opinion and really a lot starts to make sense I also like to look at your face when she sings, for example, about changing for a man😅Thanks a lot! take breaks, hope you don't get tired of doing reactions to her songs. Sending you so much love💕 you should go to her concert! at the moment she has many festival concerts

  • @Iann-
    @Iann- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your reactions are always amazing! ❤️

  • @henriquesouzanascimento9543
    @henriquesouzanascimento9543 ปีที่แล้ว

    I WAITED SO MUCH FOR THIS REACT

  • @JJ-hr2ti
    @JJ-hr2ti ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YOU JUST KEEP PICKING MY FAVORITE SONGS FROM THE ALBUMS 😭❤️

  • @itz_tisel
    @itz_tisel ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lana and Mere? Yes please!

  • @aatutiitinen6598
    @aatutiitinen6598 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    once again, you slayed

  • @thetunelsong
    @thetunelsong ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think this song is about how is hard to be in a relationship when ur the only one who´s actually tryng to make things work out, i felt this one so deeply, one of my favorites of ultraviolence album🖤

    • @kadinmay
      @kadinmay ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t think it’s about being “the only one actually trying,” I think it’s about her lovers sheer inability to put in the same effort she did. How despite her efforts there’s nothing much she or her lover can do.

  • @chasedaniels8086
    @chasedaniels8086 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im really loving this channel! Lana's music is definitely a genre where you have to have been through some things to fully appreciate, rather than see it all as sad and depressing. And I see similar outtakes as you do on some of her songs. If you don't mind a request, I recommend doing her song "cherry" from her lust for life album. Thank you again. And keep up the OUTSTANDING vids❤😊

  • @alinxy
    @alinxy ปีที่แล้ว

    FINALLY THE ONE I WAS WAITING FORRE

  • @juanda5252
    @juanda5252 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been binging your videos and you make such good points and annotations on her lyrics to the point that I am shocked, you are so good at analyzing her songs and I agree with 99.9% of the conclusions you get to!

  • @PlastiscGuy
    @PlastiscGuy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love your channel, you bring such a new perspective to these songs with your insight!
    If you could, it'd be great to see you react to Beautiful People, both the demo and the released version. The difference in lyrics are... really something! I think you'd enjoy analyzing the evolution 👀

  • @brsixtn
    @brsixtn ปีที่แล้ว

    the quality of your content is amazing, love you mere

  • @Dave-vb4nd
    @Dave-vb4nd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU, REALLY!

  • @josearaujo2801
    @josearaujo2801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MY FAVORITE LANA SONG OMGGG. Starting to watch now

  • @pauline6092
    @pauline6092 ปีที่แล้ว

    YESSSS I WANTED THIS SO MUCH

  • @elinakhisamova3569
    @elinakhisamova3569 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah! And happy birthday to Lana💕

  • @angell1432
    @angell1432 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love when you make connections to the songs, you have so much good insight 😊❤️

  • @itscloudstrife
    @itscloudstrife ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i luv this song

  • @shilohgoes5544
    @shilohgoes5544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Violets for Roses please!! I know you’ll love it 💛

  • @erin-zf6iv
    @erin-zf6iv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'd love to see you break down "shades of cool" off of ultraviolence, it covers a lot of the same themes :)

  • @quantumwitcher9376
    @quantumwitcher9376 ปีที่แล้ว

    Their is a song called Riverside that is by Lana and the guy she sings about in this song. Its pretty good and only came out a few years ago even though they broke up a long while ago

  • @emilio_maduli
    @emilio_maduli ปีที่แล้ว

    00:12 Ultraviolence! Also my fav song from Ultraviolence😂😂

  • @christianabohn
    @christianabohn ปีที่แล้ว

    I get so excited when you post a new Lana video!! You're the best. Ty!!

  • @thytuz
    @thytuz ปีที่แล้ว

    Rewatching every single one of your Lana reactions just to say that you are amazing and I love you

  • @wakatoo2588
    @wakatoo2588 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Part of the backstory of this song is that lana has had 2 laptops stolen and hundreds of unreleased songs were leaked and posted this was her most popular unreleased song to the point people thought it was official so she remastered it and put it on her next album

    • @myopia2020
      @myopia2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm still a relative newbie. Are you saying Lana had laptops stolen around 10 years ago and not just the one that was stolen from her car last year?

    • @wakatoo2588
      @wakatoo2588 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @myopia2020 Yeah, i think it was after paradise was released because she put this song on ultraviolence. There are fanmade albums of their favorite songs on TH-cam and her first album that she made as "Lizzy Grant." Google said, "Say yes to heaven" leaked in 2014, so I guess that's when it was stolen.

    • @kadinmay
      @kadinmay ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wakatoo2588i think it was leaked in 2016? But stolen in 2014. I don’t know.

    • @myopia2020
      @myopia2020 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wakatoo2588 Thanks for the info!😊 It's mind-boggling that someone who has 'trust no one ' tattooed on her hand has left stuff in her car 3x(?) to be broken into and stolen.

  • @Iann-
    @Iann- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t wait for more reactions! Whatever you react to I will love and enjoy because you have amazing analysis, but if I had to make a suggestion I think you’d really like Sportcruiser, it’s a poem from Lana’s poetry book/album Violet Bent Backwards Over The Grass (an underrated masterpiece if u ask me) 🥰

  • @teddybrooksjr.2868
    @teddybrooksjr.2868 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY 30K MEREEEE

  • @Renato-kb2zz
    @Renato-kb2zz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This song is so sad 🥺

  • @otavioc5482
    @otavioc5482 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your reactions. I feel you understand Lana in a very different and deep way. Thank you!
    I would love to see your reaction to Liability by Lorde!
    Kisses from Brazil ❤

  • @jade259
    @jade259 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love u Mere keep up the great videos ❤

  • @christinabatura7888
    @christinabatura7888 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Copied from other video: there's this beautiful and sad interview of hers back in 2017 i think where the interviwer asks her about this song and she just cries. she says its a very sad song about being in a relationship with a depressed person, wich was the case back in time when she did ultraviolence. it's about her former boyfriend barrie james o'neill. she said:
    "That's a sad song. In that song-[sings] I keep my lips red like cherries in the spring/Darling, you can't let everything seem so dark blue--that's a girl who is still seeing the blue sky and a putting on a pop of color just for herself. But this [other] person- it was all black for them. And my world became inky with those overtones. [At this, Lana begins to cry, and we pause for a moment.]"

  • @chargingyellow
    @chargingyellow ปีที่แล้ว

    one of the songs that got me hooked onto her, so good 🖤🖤🖤

  • @iagoduarte2365
    @iagoduarte2365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t remember if you did Violet For Roses already, but it’s a great song, it’s the opposite of Black Beauty

  • @Ultraviolence14
    @Ultraviolence14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ultraviolence is her darkest album imo. But it's my favorite one

  • @merciaalcantara1
    @merciaalcantara1 ปีที่แล้ว

    that song is so amazing

  • @myopia2020
    @myopia2020 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol @4:07🤣 The unreleased "Life Is Beautiful" would a great one to react to.

  • @knzsl777
    @knzsl777 ปีที่แล้ว

    i clicked so fast when i saw you uploaded

  • @Sevarate.
    @Sevarate. ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for giving us these ♥

  • @caffeinatedshawty
    @caffeinatedshawty 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this song is so unbelievably painful for me, you explained it all so beautifully. thank you

  • @theotherwomen8248
    @theotherwomen8248 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Terrance loves you next please

  • @V10l3tta1
    @V10l3tta1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do ‘old money’ next! One of her saddest songs. It’s also off of the album ultraviolence

  • @MayaMaya-sw9vd
    @MayaMaya-sw9vd ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos had become my favourite videos

  • @Arcadia_776
    @Arcadia_776 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Arcadia next please😢❤

  • @zoal5029
    @zoal5029 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your videos sm

  • @senju451
    @senju451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤ great reaction.

  • @prism_7738
    @prism_7738 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tysm for the reaction, btw black beauty is a deluxe track from ultraviolence

  • @hallebuchanan7345
    @hallebuchanan7345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shades of cool and cruel world next please!!!!

  • @n3ll.delrey
    @n3ll.delrey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its a really deep song for Lana, she was crying while explaining what its about

  • @computerb0y
    @computerb0y ปีที่แล้ว +1

    do cruel world or shades of cool next

  • @cherrydelrey1949
    @cherrydelrey1949 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this one, great break down as usual. I really got into this song when my dog was diagnosed with cancer. We tried everything to help him, but he succumbed to the disease. I was playing this song for myself so much. "oh, what can I do?" because there was nothing I could do. "Life is beautiful but you don't have a clue" and I knew that the world was full of beautiful things, and that year (2019) before he got sick, was going really well. But it just broke me. I had to feel my feelings of deep grief and there was no escaping it.
    And it's interesting you used the description of "unfixable" because in Shades of Cool, the chorus is literally "But you are unfixable, I can't break through your world, 'cause you live in shades of cool, your heart is unbreakable" This song also reminds me of my first boy-friend I had as an adult who was an alcoholic. I remember asking him, "why don't you spend the day sober?" and he responded with "Now, why would I do that?" It was a hard time and I was very naive. He also lived on a street that was named Belair, so that song reminds me of him too. I hope he's doing well today. He was very self-destructive. Anyway, I hope you're doing well, Mere. Bright and light colors look beautiful on you! 💜

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This made me cry bc my dog isn’t doing too well at the moment and this comment changes how I see the song. Thank you so much for sharing 🤍

    • @cherrydelrey1949
      @cherrydelrey1949 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mendwithmere Aw, Mere my heart goes out to you. 💜

  • @matheusalves3550
    @matheusalves3550 ปีที่แล้ว

    you need to react "is this happiness'' by Lana omg i need to hear ur interpretation

  • @wjejeiissue4308
    @wjejeiissue4308 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loves it

  • @sparklexvbunreleased
    @sparklexvbunreleased 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    PLEASE DO HAPPINESS IS A BUTTERFLY!!