i find what helps with my negative thoughts or fears is saying to myself immediately when i notice them "oh its just that anxious story" and by doing that it diminishes is because its reduced to simply a story
Thank you for this, after having my baby, I have postpartum anxiety and I feel like my thoughts/mind have been rewired and I can't control my negative thinking and constant worry about EVERYTHING! The examples you use are so helpful that I'm going to try it myself.
I find your channel the most helpful for me. Thanks to the Universe (or youtube algorithms eheh) to show me your videos! This one I've rewatched already couple of times and every time catch extra details to improve my relatioinships with myself even more! Thank youuuu
It’s so true the mind is like a chatterbox and can be very criticising, your method of being aware and live in the moment is the key to a clear mind and happier life ❤
Thoroughly appreciated your explanation of Intuition and Mind "Voices". I`ve read articles trying to explain both and failed. Keep up the good work Devi!
I loved what you said about not wanting to read the book of our lives because it would take the fun out of life. Even if you look at it another way and say yes id read it and it would make me flow with life more because if a problem happened id still know I was on my way to my destination that still validates your point which I love! 🌹
Thanks I share here , My parents are toxic but I did love them However as I’m the girl I think they are not so respecting my thought , since my 30s I left my home and leave alone. In China culture it’s not good if you are not married but move out. And my mom blamed me not giving them money than giving others rent. ( while I did save money for monthly money for them , but they thought I should give the rent to them instead of others ) My parent are negative ppl After I left them My life is incredibly changing and getting better and better I’m here to share to people who may be ignored by your parent and they may threat you are nothing if you leave them. But trust me, it will get much better leaving your parent . I have a long story but after 4 years , I cut off my parent totally since this year . Love yourself and don’t let anyone to disrespect, hurt Youc including n your parent , who was “supposed “ loving you with unconditional
Thank you so much for sharing your story, what a brave move you have made. I know someone close to me in a similar situation where cutting their parents of was healthier than with. Children are programmed and born to want to receive love and acceptance from their parents, not receiving that creates incredibly deep wounds but at the same time it could be the seed for strength and resilience. I hope that there are other people around you in your life that love you unconditionally. Bless you for being so strong. Sending my love🫶🏽
These are 7 things I realised myself from experience and my own awareness. So I do not have a specific book for each point, although the Unethered Soul by Michael Singer talks about thoughts not being the ultimate truth.
Holy shit this video lifted me up.especially the 3rd point. Youre so so so right,i have forgotten that hope anyways. Thank u i rly needed this. You're so real😭😭❤
Totally related to me I always worry what other think of me😢am I fun around people will someone call be serious personality now I realised why I feel so drained near friends becoz I constantly try to fit myself
Devi, I want to express my appreciation for your content. You have a knack for creating engaging and informative videos that always capture my attention. Your topics are relevant, your explanations are clear, and your delivery is flawless. You make learning fun and easy. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and passion with us. You are a talented and inspiring content creator.🥰
Hi Devi, Your video came up randomly from my search history. Happiness is a goal that we want to achieve in life, but like all things, we will one day get bored of this and seek more of what life can offer us--at least for the curious ones. When that happens, we may begin to ask what our true purpose in life is and go on a soul searching journey. From there, we may dive into spiritual growth, which opens up a a can of worms but filled with exciting learning opportunities. At the end of our physical lives, we can close out our final chapter with a core message to take away with, and hopefully bring it to our next life, whatever form it may be! PS: do you have TikTok? If not, you should consider starting one by condensing your existing vids into shorts.
i just found your channel and i couldn't like more the way you express what you want to transmit. i feel very identified with the way you think. greetings from spain :)
thanks for yr rant , it was understood and I'm now applying! self-love is so hard for me but not hard, learning to reflect that love on me first before anyone else
Devi you are an inspiration to me 😊 l watch all your videos and I feel like I have a friend who is helping me in my life. Lots of love ❤❤❤ you are doing a great job, more power to you 💪
Devi! I was just watching your videos yesterday and this morning I open YT and see your new video 😊🎉 Immediately clicked 🥰 You get better and better every time. :) This topic that you cover is probably the most important for me. I have been extremely unhappy the last 2 years. I want to find love and happiness within myself again. ❤ Thank you for your amazing work! AND ALSO the videos on science and manifestation are FIREEEEE
Yayyy🥹❤️🙏. So happy to hear you liked it, can completely relate this did truly feel like the most important video I have made, because at the core it is our mind and negative thought spirals that are truly always in the way of feeling happiness, not anything in the external world. Thanks for being here love🫶
The first four steps are profound and applicable immediately, and the next three are like uniquely crafted bonuses. Like sailors who stand watch on the deck 24/7, this video leads us to stand watch on our negative thoughts, not get caught up in them, but correct course and move forward. Thanks so much!🙏🙏
I love your videos. Can you make videos on: How to feel worthy, how to love yourself, how to receive love? Can you also make more videos on manifestation? Also you can recommend books to read. ❤
Amazing video Devi, especially when it comes to self-love you nail it on the head. In the end, it is important that we take a step back and realize that the only person who truly needs to accept us is ourselves :) Great video 🫶🏻
This is very helpful, Devi!! Thankyou as always for explaining it simply and gently ✨️🧚♀️ .. also, do you beliwve having stoic approach to life relates to this? Thanks again💐💛
I get this feeling that when graduate with a PhD in chemical engineering you won’t get a regular job like most people in academia. You’ll make enough as a TH-camr and evolve into a social media influencer or some other type of entrepreneur.
i deal with constant, disturbing intrusive thoughts and im terrified that they will manifest- because i start putting my energy on those thoughts by feeling anxious, fear, disturbed by those thoughts- someone help lol 🙃
Thing is you cant easily shift something you believe in.. you can think whatever but still wont believe it. Also I dont mind not talking to anybody at a birthday for example.. but I get bored and end up trying to strike a conversation, things like what do they think of me cross my mind, is that pleasing? I think its human we are social beings we need the sense of belonging in one way or another. Just a little example I cba think about it too much because in the end it are all just worries. People say boldly I dont care what people think of me. But do they really. And why.. please do care, it will make the world a better place, instead of people walking around with fake smiles and hiding beneath their masks. Its kinda toxic and I think it stems from a patriarchal way of thinking, not showing emotions, I dont care etc. You end up in your own shell without anyone liking you if you dont make an attempt for others to like you. If you truly dont care what others think why bother dressing up, why bother doing your hair, caring for hygiene, putting up a smile, being positive even though you arent, going somewhere even though you dont want to. You could say you do it for yourself but or health reasons but I dont think thats 100% the reason, we are all socially conditioned to meet expectations of others.
The point is that you don’t have to believe the thoughts! And I didn’t mean to not care about others, I am referring to an insecure attachment style/people pleasing.
@@gwnbw ooh totally, always welcome to rant here🤗. And it is truly hard finding the balance between being kind but still having boundaries, and dealing with the negative thoughts. Hope the video somewhat helped with those!🫶
Plenty of faulty logic, victim blaming and false assertions here. You make the analogy of negative self-talk being like abusive parents, and that's accurate. But you have no empathy at all for people that start with this negative talk from the world, because your answer to negative self talk is to love yourself. "The love you receive is reflective of the love for yourself" well, how would you describe colour to a blind person? you are not talking the same language. We can predict who is going to be diagnosed with aspd, be a criminal, etc as early as 4 years old because this lack of love from parents etc rewires peoples brains. Why do so many people who were abused go on to abuse others? Brains are adaptive and flexible.. to a point. You cannot love yourself if no love is given to you. Look how many positive comments here and on manifestation videos are from women, especially attractive women.. it reasonates with them because people and society are more prepared to give love to them, whereas for men it is transactional - no provision? no love. That's why the path of unemployment > relationship issues > suicide is primarily a male issue. Jibberish like this is just gaslighting people who never got love from the world, acting like because it works for you then that's how it is, from a position of such privilege is so ignorant.
You are the first person who explains those things in an non abstract and relatable way. Thank you
Thank you so much🤗
i find what helps with my negative thoughts or fears is saying to myself immediately when i notice them "oh its just that anxious story" and by doing that it diminishes is because its reduced to simply a story
Powerful mindshift affirmation! Love that. 🤗
Went in thinking I'd get a 7-day weather forecast for my brain... came out with a whole spiritual GPS system.
Rarely do we find videos which are both motivating and logical. This is one such video
Thank you for this, after having my baby, I have postpartum anxiety and I feel like my thoughts/mind have been rewired and I can't control my negative thinking and constant worry about EVERYTHING! The examples you use are so helpful that I'm going to try it myself.
I completely feel you, during PMS this is what helps me and so incredibly happy to hear it did for your situation too! 🤗sending love xx
I find your channel the most helpful for me. Thanks to the Universe (or youtube algorithms eheh) to show me your videos! This one I've rewatched already couple of times and every time catch extra details to improve my relatioinships with myself even more! Thank youuuu
NEW SUBIE 🥰‼️ YOUR BREAKDOWN OF THIS IS AMAZING 🔥🔥🔥🔥‼️
It's nice to hear a beautiful lady talk like this ❤thanks
Truer words have never been spoken 🙌 Thank you, Devi
🥹You are very welcome🤗
You care, it shows, and I am grateful, thanks you kindly Devi.. Hugs from Peru!
I AM GOING TO REWATCH THIS 5 TIMES ❤ love it /and also need it fr 😩/
💯💯💯💛💛💛
🎯👌🏻🫶🏻 100% . . . Let's gooo
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such an important video
It’s so true the mind is like a chatterbox and can be very criticising, your method of being aware and live in the moment is the key to a clear mind and happier life ❤
What you talk is the truth of the world, and it is related to the fact that Buddha found. 🙏🙏
Hello Devi, i've been watching your videos all the way from Portugal and i love it.
Thoroughly appreciated your explanation of Intuition and Mind "Voices". I`ve read articles trying to explain both and failed. Keep up the good work Devi!
You have a very refreshing perspective, thank you for doing these videos
Literally the best video ever
Well done 👏
I loved what you said about not wanting to read the book of our lives because it would take the fun out of life. Even if you look at it another way and say yes id read it and it would make me flow with life more because if a problem happened id still know I was on my way to my destination that still validates your point which I love! 🌹
Good stuff Devi!
Thanks
I share here ,
My parents are toxic but I did love them
However as I’m the girl I think they are not so respecting my thought , since my 30s I left my home and leave alone. In China culture it’s not good if you are not married but move out. And my mom blamed me not giving them money than giving others rent. ( while I did save money for monthly money for them , but they thought I should give the rent to them instead of others )
My parent are negative ppl
After I left them
My life is incredibly changing and getting better and better
I’m here to share to people who may be ignored by your parent and they may threat you are nothing if you leave them. But trust me, it will get much better leaving your parent .
I have a long story but after 4 years , I cut off my parent totally since this year .
Love yourself and don’t let anyone to disrespect, hurt Youc including n your parent , who was “supposed “ loving you with unconditional
Thank you so much for sharing your story, what a brave move you have made. I know someone close to me in a similar situation where cutting their parents of was healthier than with. Children are programmed and born to want to receive love and acceptance from their parents, not receiving that creates incredibly deep wounds but at the same time it could be the seed for strength and resilience. I hope that there are other people around you in your life that love you unconditionally. Bless you for being so strong. Sending my love🫶🏽
May you please keep this type of content coming or refer books related to #1-7?
These are 7 things I realised myself from experience and my own awareness. So I do not have a specific book for each point, although the Unethered Soul by Michael Singer talks about thoughts not being the ultimate truth.
Going to be the biggest youtuber
🥹🥹🫶🏽🫶🏽. Thank you for believing in me!
You speak with so much love ❤️ and emotions with your words. Really appreciate your content
🥹🥹🤗🤗. Thankyou🫶🏽
Thank you!
Thank you! ❤
I'm not sure,how u come up with your video ideas, but it looks like you are reading my personal diary! Thank you!
Our minds must be linked!! This video is improvised, these 7 things are basically my personal diary too hahah🤗💙
Holy shit this video lifted me up.especially the 3rd point. Youre so so so right,i have forgotten that hope anyways. Thank u i rly needed this. You're so real😭😭❤
This needs video need to be shared to everybody on this planet. This was a lovely reminder
Ahw so happy to hear that🥹🤗🫶🏽
thanks sweet
Thank you devi
Totally related to me I always worry what other think of me😢am I fun around people will someone call be serious personality now I realised why I feel so drained near friends becoz I constantly try to fit myself
I get you, when we put the energy back on ourselves it actually really helps to feel more at ease. Glad the video resonated🤗
I love you Devi, thank you
🤗🤗🤗
Love your content!
I’m new here and I love it 😻 💗
Devi, I want to express my appreciation for your content. You have a knack for creating engaging and informative videos that always capture my attention. Your topics are relevant, your explanations are clear, and your delivery is flawless. You make learning fun and easy. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and passion with us. You are a talented and inspiring content creator.🥰
That means a lot thank you so much for such a kind compliment🥹🫶🏽🤗
Hi Devi,
Your video came up randomly from my search history. Happiness is a goal that we want to achieve in life, but like all things, we will one day get bored of this and seek more of what life can offer us--at least for the curious ones. When that happens, we may begin to ask what our true purpose in life is and go on a soul searching journey. From there, we may dive into spiritual growth, which opens up a a can of worms but filled with exciting learning opportunities. At the end of our physical lives, we can close out our final chapter with a core message to take away with, and hopefully bring it to our next life, whatever form it may be!
PS: do you have TikTok? If not, you should consider starting one by condensing your existing vids into shorts.
Like how we can practice detachment?? It will really if you make a video on deatchement Or let it go and how our 3d world doesn't affect us 🙏🏻
Definitely can make a video on that🤗
i just found your channel and i couldn't like more the way you express what you want to transmit. i feel very identified with the way you think. greetings from spain :)
thanks for yr rant , it was understood and I'm now applying! self-love is so hard for me but not hard, learning to reflect that love on me first before anyone else
❤
Devi you are an inspiration to me 😊 l watch all your videos and I feel like I have a friend who is helping me in my life. Lots of love ❤❤❤ you are doing a great job, more power to you 💪
Ahw thank you so much🤗🤗. Thanks for being here 🫶🏽
Devi! I was just watching your videos yesterday and this morning I open YT and see your new video 😊🎉 Immediately clicked 🥰 You get better and better every time. :) This topic that you cover is probably the most important for me. I have been extremely unhappy the last 2 years. I want to find love and happiness within myself again. ❤ Thank you for your amazing work! AND ALSO the videos on science and manifestation are FIREEEEE
Yayyy🥹❤️🙏. So happy to hear you liked it, can completely relate this did truly feel like the most important video I have made, because at the core it is our mind and negative thought spirals that are truly always in the way of feeling happiness, not anything in the external world. Thanks for being here love🫶
@@DeviSietaram Wo-hoo thank you for answering me and for the heart ❤ And of course, I love your videos
Honestly feel like gatekeeping this gem of a video but I must share. It’s incredibly how everything you said resonated!
So glad🤗🤗
What a blessing to be able to consume to content. 🙏🏽❤️
The first four steps are profound and applicable immediately, and the next three are like uniquely crafted bonuses. Like sailors who stand watch on the deck 24/7, this video leads us to stand watch on our negative thoughts, not get caught up in them, but correct course and move forward. Thanks so much!🙏🙏
his Devi aka I m huge fan of work aka .love from India 😁
Thank you so much Devi 🙏 u r unbelievably amazing
Thank you so much🤗🤗
so helpful. I think you should had done phd on human conciousness
I love your videos. Can you make videos on: How to feel worthy, how to love yourself, how to receive love? Can you also make more videos on manifestation? Also you can recommend books to read. ❤
All amazing points! I personally resonated with #7. Thank you for all your hard work with your videos, Devi❤️
Thank you so much 🫶🏽🙏🏽
Your videos are so wonderfully articulated and intelligent!
I loveeeeee the idea that I can CREATE my future 🤍
Ty Devi 💋
She is like my own sister😌
UR videos helped me a lot while my trouble time , I want to really thank you for ur videos . love ur work aka🥰❤
I love watching you talking Devi, thanks for the thoughtful videos. Hoping you can make more videos about LoA
You are amazing. Thank you so much for sharing 💜
Thank so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow glad I found this video !
more content like this please 🙏🏽
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The overthinking can really bully sometimes. It feels impossible to get over it
Having a hobby helps, it could be working with your hands or joining a musical group, it’s hard to be negative when you’re singing and dancing
Thank you Devi for the great video! Sending Peace, Love and Blessings your way ✌️❤️😊
Very valuable information again, Just what I needed to hear about setting boundaries and people pleasing. Thanks Devi !
Amazing video Devi, especially when it comes to self-love you nail it on the head. In the end, it is important that we take a step back and realize that the only person who truly needs to accept us is ourselves :)
Great video 🫶🏻
Beautifully formulated!! Totally agree🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
I love your work. Thank you !!!
So profound, this really spoke to me ❤
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Holaa, me ha encantado este video lo dejaré guardado solo para recordarme todas las cosas que dices. Muchas gracias ❤❤😊
J'adore ton accent ! Tu es digne de BEAUCOUP d’amour Devi ;)
Would love to go skating with someone like you
This is very helpful, Devi!! Thankyou as always for explaining it simply and gently ✨️🧚♀️ .. also, do you beliwve having stoic approach to life relates to this?
Thanks again💐💛
I get this feeling that when graduate with a PhD in chemical engineering you won’t get a regular job like most people in academia. You’ll make enough as a TH-camr and evolve into a social media influencer or some other type of entrepreneur.
I can see that👀🤗
Are you familiar with any of Itzhak Bentovs works?
i deal with constant, disturbing intrusive thoughts and im terrified that they will manifest- because i start putting my energy on those thoughts by feeling anxious, fear, disturbed by those thoughts-
someone help lol 🙃
Any recommended books about manifesting/ the law of attraction?❤
thanks ahhhh
Can I change assumptions & beliefs through this ???
Hey Devi i love to watch your video. But in the background, is there a NATRAJ deity?
And your name is Devi which means goddess.
There is yeah well spotted 🤗. I am half Indian hence my name 😊
@@DeviSietaram Indians are everywhere 😂.
I am very interested in spirituality and i believe you also.
So do you have read Bhagwat gita?
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Thing is you cant easily shift something you believe in.. you can think whatever but still wont believe it. Also I dont mind not talking to anybody at a birthday for example.. but I get bored and end up trying to strike a conversation, things like what do they think of me cross my mind, is that pleasing? I think its human we are social beings we need the sense of belonging in one way or another.
Just a little example I cba think about it too much because in the end it are all just worries. People say boldly I dont care what people think of me. But do they really. And why.. please do care, it will make the world a better place, instead of people walking around with fake smiles and hiding beneath their masks.
Its kinda toxic and I think it stems from a patriarchal way of thinking, not showing emotions, I dont care etc. You end up in your own shell without anyone liking you if you dont make an attempt for others to like you.
If you truly dont care what others think why bother dressing up, why bother doing your hair, caring for hygiene, putting up a smile, being positive even though you arent, going somewhere even though you dont want to. You could say you do it for yourself but or health reasons but I dont think thats 100% the reason, we are all socially conditioned to meet expectations of others.
The point is that you don’t have to believe the thoughts! And I didn’t mean to not care about others, I am referring to an insecure attachment style/people pleasing.
@@DeviSietaram I know I'm just ranting
@@gwnbw ooh totally, always welcome to rant here🤗. And it is truly hard finding the balance between being kind but still having boundaries, and dealing with the negative thoughts. Hope the video somewhat helped with those!🫶
@@DeviSietaram Good to know, it is confusing yeah. But I really like your vids!
The mind is a vicious monkey - only transcending it will give you peace. In day-to-day life just listen to Devi :-)))
Plenty of faulty logic, victim blaming and false assertions here. You make the analogy of negative self-talk being like abusive parents, and that's accurate. But you have no empathy at all for people that start with this negative talk from the world, because your answer to negative self talk is to love yourself. "The love you receive is reflective of the love for yourself" well, how would you describe colour to a blind person? you are not talking the same language. We can predict who is going to be diagnosed with aspd, be a criminal, etc as early as 4 years old because this lack of love from parents etc rewires peoples brains. Why do so many people who were abused go on to abuse others? Brains are adaptive and flexible.. to a point.
You cannot love yourself if no love is given to you. Look how many positive comments here and on manifestation videos are from women, especially attractive women.. it reasonates with them because people and society are more prepared to give love to them, whereas for men it is transactional - no provision? no love. That's why the path of unemployment > relationship issues > suicide is primarily a male issue. Jibberish like this is just gaslighting people who never got love from the world, acting like because it works for you then that's how it is, from a position of such privilege is so ignorant.
You are so beautiful