LOVE IS BLIND: AD & CLAY'S WEDDING DAY FROM HELL

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  • @BooksandLooksTV
    @BooksandLooksTV  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey check out my latest video: th-cam.com/video/UY1GLpotv_U/w-d-xo.htmlsi=1Fohjp1scSwinfXF

    • @SharonEndesha
      @SharonEndesha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where's next

  • @helismusings7390
    @helismusings7390 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1826

    Why not tell her beforehand and protect her from the humiliation.

    • @yolandalcheek462
      @yolandalcheek462 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      Absolutely, I would have never did that to anyone. I'm letting that person know in private. Men are a trip

    • @toniadrysdale5698
      @toniadrysdale5698 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      There was no humiliation just dignity and 100%support from everyone seeing her walk away to a better place

    • @djackson9984
      @djackson9984 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Because he wasn't ready to end his relationship with her. AD said during the season and also in interviews that whenever Clay would tell her that he didn't think he was ready to get married she would say "that's perfectly OK but I won't continue to date you afterwards". He really did love her and didn't want to lose her but he wasn't ready to get married just yet.

    • @jamaicanscorpio9522
      @jamaicanscorpio9522 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Why wait until she's all dressed and ready to then tell her. Wasted her time, energy and money.

    • @BellaR.
      @BellaR. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      He’s narcissistic and he’s actually getting off on her pain, that he has the power in his hands to make or break her. I would never speak to someone like him again. People like him will make me wear orange and I don’t look good in orange, who does…?

  • @f44863
    @f44863 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +569

    what an asshole!!! why wait for the wedding to say no?!😳

    • @cherylseebreth328
      @cherylseebreth328 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      And he is talking a load of contradictory bull crap..

    • @brightnessiordza2330
      @brightnessiordza2330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@cherylseebreth328exactly, he couldn't even keep quiet, he's so confident in justifying his actions

    • @evangelinenape5951
      @evangelinenape5951 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is love is blind show right?🎉🎉🎉 most of them is not ready because of many issues let them deal it in time…

    • @saalla4177
      @saalla4177 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True total AH

    • @BabyLove-dd1wj
      @BabyLove-dd1wj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly 💯 he KNEW long before getting to the altar 😢

  • @THEIDLESHOW
    @THEIDLESHOW 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +966

    He did her a favor. She dodged a nuke.

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@oskien0714shows desperation

    • @wandaharris6092
      @wandaharris6092 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No he dodge a mommy she's desperate

    • @ansuputhenveedu1015
      @ansuputhenveedu1015 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​​@@anonymous101-sb1bfit's not desperation it shows her true love you can't move on that easily

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ansuputhenveedu1015 true love from a male she just met that she continues to give access to her in hopes he will change his mind ok sure true love ... Those tears were "this could have been my only chance".... No way she didn't know something. You can lie all day but your energy will give it away... Going on a scripted show to get married is very close to desperation

    • @indigowildflowers
      @indigowildflowers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Black women need to leave these deceitful down low me alone. Why can't y'all leave them alone?

  • @lorraineyah2795
    @lorraineyah2795 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +494

    When a man tells you that, accept it and move on.
    Men marry who they want to be married to.

    • @barstasia2
      @barstasia2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      But he should have told her, before letting her get dressed up, and totally embarrassing her in front of the world. He already knew his intentions. That's so hurtful and a crying shame. 👎👎

    • @Mavanna-G
      @Mavanna-G 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's not easy 😢 I have a baby with my boyfriend and he's telling me these same things. My heart aches.😢

    • @Pets-q9w
      @Pets-q9w 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes but why at that time 😢

    • @dkadwoa4114
      @dkadwoa4114 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Pets-q9wyou'd rather that than to waste precious time on NOTHIN

    • @trulysensitive5620
      @trulysensitive5620 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What he sows he will surely reap.

  • @MsSunita123
    @MsSunita123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1188

    The lies he tells! He knew he never had intentions on marrying AD

    • @floram3722
      @floram3722 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This TRICK! Run for your life.

    • @lesleypenny1458
      @lesleypenny1458 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Exactly!!! Wasted her time

    • @enumsarwah7342
      @enumsarwah7342 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is this a movie?

    • @KyMalone.
      @KyMalone. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@enumsarwah7342 Love Is Blind TV Show

    • @MsSunita123
      @MsSunita123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@enumsarwah7342 No, it’s a tv show

  • @jalidouche4306
    @jalidouche4306 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    He embarrassed her in front of everyone. He could have told her before they got to the alter.

    • @lasavinegivens1756
      @lasavinegivens1756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Coward.

    • @joshuahbrown7396
      @joshuahbrown7396 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Facts Thank you 🙏. She probably felt that they can’t fight through it.

  • @donnaclinkscale4690
    @donnaclinkscale4690 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    To the male in this video: It's hurting me to hear you lie. But baby girl...he's just given you the greatest gift. Say nothing sweetheart & turn around , walk away. Delete him from your phone, all electronics & life. Enjoy your life.

  • @quinnterry2834
    @quinnterry2834 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    I love the power of her silence in this clip. Silence is golden. ❤

    • @jwh648
      @jwh648 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He is lying. Now she can see through him by her silence. Dude

  • @fruitinspector8247
    @fruitinspector8247 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There's a harshness in his voice that's disturbing.
    He has no right to be this harsh and its almost bordering on hostile.
    She dodged a bullet. He's not introspective. He's making this ALL about him.
    There's a softer way to reject someone. This is so so wrong and heartless.

  • @nicoleayala4153
    @nicoleayala4153 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +293

    He’s not ready for that but made the choice to get up that morning. Get dressed. Get there. And wait for her to show up to tell her all this? Nah. He ain’t shit period and regardless if she sees it now or not, she dodged a bullet and his “no” was her blessing

  • @tandaciascott4418
    @tandaciascott4418 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +237

    Boy take a damn seat, you should've made that decision before you took her to the alter and embarrassing her in front of everyone

    • @pamelafuller4447
      @pamelafuller4447 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He need to have several seats.

    • @enahorookhamafe2710
      @enahorookhamafe2710 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      But The embarrassment is still better than a tortuous marriage.

    • @trishathompson9890
      @trishathompson9890 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @latoyawalker42
    @latoyawalker42 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    Just walk away baby and find someone who genuinely loves u and wants the same things you want. ❤

    • @legslipsandlashes9831
      @legslipsandlashes9831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She did. But he still wants to prove his case after he wasted her time. She has accepted what he said.

    • @zoelife7272
      @zoelife7272 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who is genuine period. No one can make a person love another

    • @evakinlaw839
      @evakinlaw839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the problem. Don't find someone. A man who seeks a wife?❤ Be grateful and let the tears flow.

    • @luvinaka6521
      @luvinaka6521 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@legslipsandlashes9831 I would have never spoken to him in life again.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She didn’t have no self worth as a woman for herself

  • @_empressofdeath
    @_empressofdeath 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    I'm convinced Love is Blind is a humiliation ritual.

    • @SWiseman
      @SWiseman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is.
      For blaq women.

  • @minatakashi3557
    @minatakashi3557 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    Girl he knew he wasn't ready for marriage I don't know why men wait till the last minute to tell the woman move on and find you somebody that's ready to take the next step find somebody that's going to make you really happy and when he is ready that's when he's going to want to come back but it's going to be too late

    • @WordOFGod2017
      @WordOFGod2017 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So women don’t drag men along until they find what they really want? Women do all the time. Men waking up now

    • @WWEENETWORK
      @WWEENETWORK 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THE RULES OF THE SHOW FROM THE FIRST SEASON...WAS ...MAKE YOUR DECISION AT THE ALTAR.

    • @patricelake8290
      @patricelake8290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That part

    • @minatakashi3557
      @minatakashi3557 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This show going to get someone hurt 🤕 smh it's so dumb

    • @melissamcintyre2574
      @melissamcintyre2574 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Y’all please, this cat will marry someone else in 3 months, if he had that in his heart ♥️ like he said he did, he would have told her prior to humiliating her in front of her family and GOD, but I admire the sisters strength and her bridesmaids they road with her.

  • @gabrielmcdonnell8699
    @gabrielmcdonnell8699 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    Haven’t watched this season but it looks like he just wanted to be on TV. I blame casting for letting this motherflower get this far.✌🏽

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Ironically they humiliated the darkest bw on the cast

    • @jujubean9267
      @jujubean9267 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@BooksandLooksTVHe did that. He could have done what Jimmy done. It was all about him.... I, I, I, me,me,me. Prick!

    • @legslipsandlashes9831
      @legslipsandlashes9831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I didn't watch either but I did see the short of him saying he couldn't marry her at the altar. To me, he wants to prove his case, and again, she has no argument. She accepted what he said. He would have to get out of my face, seriously.

    • @kaydubya6347
      @kaydubya6347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      He did. And his best friend already said. He's GAY

    • @gabrielmcdonnell8699
      @gabrielmcdonnell8699 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@kaydubya6347 “Shocker”, said no one with any sense. And shame on these sistas who habitually fall for these brothas on the down low. Talk about denial just bc you want a ring. And, no, y’all, I’m NOT blaming the victim. I feel for this woman but c’mon now she had to have suspected something bc bruh isn’t exactly Cam Newton.✌🏽

  • @Trinaladybug-nn5fx
    @Trinaladybug-nn5fx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    He's a coward, why would you go on the show you knew what it was. Toxicity starts here.

  • @QponHoney
    @QponHoney 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I wish my first husband would have told me he wasnt ready. I could have saved 20 years of my life. So girlfriend it may not feel like a blessing but it is. Your husband is out there. Your tears will be tears of joy one day.

  • @michellefoster4260
    @michellefoster4260 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    He’s not really ready to settle down with anyone. He wants his cake and ice creams too.

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Kate and Edith too

    • @Que772
      @Que772 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She should have kept her legs closed.

    • @sarah_d.o.z.
      @sarah_d.o.z. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ninja wants Tyrone

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sarah_d.o.z.😂😂😂

  • @esperanzaestrada1157
    @esperanzaestrada1157 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    It's unresponsible of you to say no at the altar, to belittle her and embarrass her in front of friends and family, you are🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮, you beautiful lady. Don't give him the time, heal and move on.

    • @sheemay4281
      @sheemay4281 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      what a trash of a guy... he did her so wrong by doing that... pathetic

  • @user-wx9xr8rl8g
    @user-wx9xr8rl8g 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    2 Things:- 1. If he wasn't ready for marriage, why did he go to the show to find a wife?
    2. He didn't marry her because, according to him, he wasn't in love with her. He probably loved her body but not in love with her enough to let himself be kept by her. He deceived her.
    She must never ever get into his bed again, forever.
    She walked away with her head up with dignity. So proud of her.

  • @SharonAna-hl9ix
    @SharonAna-hl9ix 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    He claims he couldn't commit off of a 'great two weeks,' but then states that he has grown with her. He has other motives for being on the show and it's certainly not to find a wife!

  • @atty7697
    @atty7697 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    He was smiling while telling her the wedding was off at the ceremony. He knows what he's doing. Find the strength to stay away from him.

  • @ReynelleGreaves
    @ReynelleGreaves 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He doesn't love you.. no one that loves you does this & he's talking about how he feels..You need a man that thinks you are a Queen..LET HIM GO!! Never let a man tell you he doesn't love you more than once..He's trifling😢💔💔You deserve soooo much more👑👑

  • @Marie-r5l1v
    @Marie-r5l1v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Never let a man tell you two times he's not ready

  • @margaridaandrade2007
    @margaridaandrade2007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Never let a man tells you that he doesn’t want you twice.

  • @leaf3918
    @leaf3918 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    NARCISSIST

    • @JenC-x3e
      @JenC-x3e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Text book! He loved dumping her! And he’s gonna do it again.. to her!
      Smh

    • @netzaragai1100
      @netzaragai1100 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he is 💯 😢

    • @evekingstone3434
      @evekingstone3434 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My first thought

    • @OlgaLabadie
      @OlgaLabadie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You guys throw this word out like crazy ... My goodness

    • @JenC-x3e
      @JenC-x3e 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OlgaLabadie if the shoe fits

  • @Courber99
    @Courber99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Hmmm how can "she be the perfect girl" and you are not ready to give 100% when marriage is a journey not relying on 100%....Deep down he thinks he can do better.....and she feels ..he is the best she can get. "Learn to love, what good for you"😢

  • @SagittariusQueen1980
    @SagittariusQueen1980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He sure didn't reject the career 304 Celina Powell! AD dodged a bullet.

    • @Rogueviewer1
      @Rogueviewer1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And Celina already confirmed he’s a cheater, liar and his daddy’s son. Then, she disrespected his mom. There men and their 304 preferences smh

  • @knicheygil
    @knicheygil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    He did right. Don't enter into a marriage then mistreat her! He has issues to overcome before total commitment. AD will see this blessing in the future...it hurts right now to see it.

    • @Precious-ex5er
      @Precious-ex5er 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      True, but he shouldn't have let it go this far.

    • @evakinlaw839
      @evakinlaw839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you😮

    • @R1228
      @R1228 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@Precious-ex5er perfect should have stopped ✋️ at preparing and gathering under one roof. He is on point but wrong time,girl trust God if you still love him continue and heal yourself knowing well life sometimes is not what you see.❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉Him:I'm not rejecting you!!! Take these words to heal your broken heart.❤❤❤❤

  • @user-zy7bb6rs2n
    @user-zy7bb6rs2n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This girl is so so beautiful inside out and calm my problem is he shouldn’t have wait till that time in front of everyone and he said that he loves you when u truly love someone u have to care about their feelings good God man all me started to cry this girl love you I can feel and see it 😭😭😭😭

  • @jennifercarrington1190
    @jennifercarrington1190 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "It feels like I am not ready, you know?," Her answer: "Yes, it dose."
    Me. That answer was priceless. Class all
    Of the way.

    • @lasavinegivens1756
      @lasavinegivens1756 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's his loss. He doesn't see it now, but he will soon. Move on. Don't wait for anyone that discards you.

    • @jennyk4428
      @jennyk4428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow we heard different. He said “it feels like I’m *rejecting* you”. And she said yes it does.

  • @darlanagreen4318
    @darlanagreen4318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He Knew He Was Not Ready when he propose to you , he took your love as a joke 😅

  • @CTH2159
    @CTH2159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love love AD….. she exhibits so much grace, class and mercy.

  • @ck0211
    @ck0211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    “This is gonna be my wife forever I couldn’t make that decision today” that’s messed up, he’s actually saying I don’t want you to be my wife forever. Why wait on the day of their marriage to reject her, what a d***

  • @rosemarie4121
    @rosemarie4121 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate his Honesty.
    Yawl saying he should've told her b4 hand
    He was battling DO I GO THROUGH WITH THIS MARRIAGE TO MAKE IT LOOK GOOD OR DO I HAVE TO BE HONEST WITH MYSELF? HE CHOSE HISSELF CUZ HE SEE SHE DESERVE BETTER.
    HES NOT REEADY, IM PROUD OF HIM ❤BETTER NOW THAN LATER BEING MISEEABLE

  • @natashaspriggs2311
    @natashaspriggs2311 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The fact that u won’t marry her is NOT the main part!!! The gaslighting is crazy!!! He could’ve told her ample time prior to the damn ceremony!

  • @terelltinsley1454
    @terelltinsley1454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    He’s correct. They shouldn’t get married that fast, that is just common sense. Date a while.

    • @legslipsandlashes9831
      @legslipsandlashes9831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Didn't he watch the show?

    • @mikadre12
      @mikadre12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      He agreed to be on the show, and that's what the show is about. He wasted her time and the show time as well. He wanted to be on TV.

    • @terelltinsley1454
      @terelltinsley1454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@mikadre12 show business is show business whether He/She wanted to be on tv or not. Marriage can come later with more time being spent together.

    • @loveconquersall419
      @loveconquersall419 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@terelltinsley1454 his best friend said he's gay....the guy just wanted to be on TV.

    • @terelltinsley1454
      @terelltinsley1454 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@loveconquersall419 I felt a that he had that sauce in there 😂

  • @kimberlysmith8156
    @kimberlysmith8156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    His heart not broke he didn't want here in the beginning. She not hurt she was saved from destruction let his Ass alone.

    • @lilanarcisse6470
      @lilanarcisse6470 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think this guy get confuse if he do it like that there's something behind this . Someone might work against they marriage some evil people . Someone was working against my marriage but prayer make it happen because that was God will for me.

  • @zakiyahjudah1688
    @zakiyahjudah1688 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I respect this young man. Most females will see it with emotion. He’s telling her don’t take me when I’m broken,but like most women they want a I’ll fix you project. It will be sad that she loved him when he was broken and now he’s putting the work in to be who she need she’s curving him.

  • @jeanniejones8777
    @jeanniejones8777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If this is meant to be it will come to pass. You want the man God has for you at the right time. 2 weeks is not enough time to really know you are ready for such a serious commitment.

  • @Mca__v
    @Mca__v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So this is relationship that tried to be serious but they are not… it’s crazy cause the next woman he meets he’s going to treat her better.

  • @renee-symonelee24
    @renee-symonelee24 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He making it seem like she forced him to do this talking about " I've said"

  • @janicegebhart1053
    @janicegebhart1053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When you're in so much pain you just shut down. She is broken and trying to process it all.

  • @smartin8459
    @smartin8459 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He will marry a woman of another race. This is our reality as black women. So scary and heartbreaking 💔

    • @loveconquersall419
      @loveconquersall419 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His friend said he's gay...he wants a man. This was for the TV check.

    • @marshabruner1649
      @marshabruner1649 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U could tell he didn't want her meanwhile Ken wanted a woman just like AD

    • @AaliyahNassirou-to9ww
      @AaliyahNassirou-to9ww 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No because yall choose men who clearly don't want u. Why would she carry on being with him especially when he said "I can work with this".

    • @AaliyahNassirou-to9ww
      @AaliyahNassirou-to9ww 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Black women want validation from men alot.

    • @Ebony5001
      @Ebony5001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly you couldn’t of said it better sis I’m surprised this comment doesn’t have way more likes but I guess some other BW can’t face the truth fact of that reality . Clays like most BM he’s probably a colourist too he wants a trophy lighter and brighter woman and AD is a beautiful dark skin sister but his self hate won’t allow him to make him his wife

  • @MK-gu2fw
    @MK-gu2fw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cuz his on the down low, and this really bring tears to my eyes cuz boy wen I tell you man like that will forever be hurt and confused and jacked up in life for turning down the one you kno you letting down. Stay strong beautiful 👑💕💪🏽

  • @IsabelaNtjana-f6o
    @IsabelaNtjana-f6o 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He is saying all that just for her to feel sorry for him while he's the one who's a jerk

  • @yogalekshumimarimuthu2173
    @yogalekshumimarimuthu2173 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Someone who loves you will not hurt you like this,… because when someone loves you, they will not leave you in any circumstances… if someone ditch you like this, that’s not love… run away from this mf….

  • @iwillsucceed2602
    @iwillsucceed2602 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I can't believe he did AD like that.

  • @jvin8098
    @jvin8098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The grace & poise this woman has is commendable. May God bless her

  • @mablem.9094
    @mablem.9094 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Why are you on the show, then ?

  • @nicoladavis580
    @nicoladavis580 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl whatever you do don't go back to him. You deserve better. He knew he was not ready before he proposed to you.
    He said he did not reject you but that's what he did when he told you no infront of all those people. Girl the rejection is a blessing. Run!

  • @msw170
    @msw170 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He loved her so much that he embarrassed her in front of their families? That’s a boy! She dodged a bullet! 😐

  • @jasmineakagha4354
    @jasmineakagha4354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way she listened and tears fell down her eyes😮.i had to watch this year.

  • @constancedenchy9801
    @constancedenchy9801 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Get rid of him. He saw her and said "The body" then announced she had her period. The guy is a narcissist. RUN...be thankful he gave you mercy...and just humiliated you a lil instead of destroying her life

    • @evakinlaw839
      @evakinlaw839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She can't get rid of him he already did that for her😂

    • @marshabruner1649
      @marshabruner1649 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When did he announce she was on her cycle?

    • @t4325
      @t4325 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He said body and SHE said Period ! Her catch phrase. Just like he says ALL DAY and she replies Oh Clay 😊

    • @Rogueviewer1
      @Rogueviewer1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Screaming period is just current black vernacular that works like an exclamation point. He wasn’t outing her menstruation.

  • @rosalindphillips6728
    @rosalindphillips6728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    PEOPLE WITH ANXIETY DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS!!!!!🤨

  • @poloresanderson8916
    @poloresanderson8916 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He did not humiliate her..he told her the truth..good man..plans can be broken

    • @durowaacatalina
      @durowaacatalina 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you serious. He rejected her at the altar, and you are saying it is not humiliation. God

  • @sherylwarren32
    @sherylwarren32 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He lacks integrity and character, no wedding plans nor relationship, should have happened at all, he’s a player, leave and don’t look back AD.

  • @Tania-uf9un
    @Tania-uf9un 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    But saying I LOVE YOU in to weeks ain’t bizarre too?
    If you were blindly in love you would definitely marry that person. And he was definitely not ready to make that commitment bc he clearly doesn’t love her. He still wants to be single

  • @queennzinga5988
    @queennzinga5988 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is definitely from the bronx, aggressive like a ninja. She got the complexion to get away with it. This is why he keeps going back...

  • @tawiahansen4108
    @tawiahansen4108 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    No need to listen any more. He will waste your time. Move on

  • @nicolelee1218
    @nicolelee1218 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how she is just listening and not arguing. Class act God has the right guy for you who will appreciate you.

  • @LisaRobinson0725
    @LisaRobinson0725 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No, this man is fuckin evil. Oh my gosh, I feel for her... Those are real tears... Oh Wow! Why didn't he have this talk with her before the wedding day?! She's going to be traumatized for life... My heart is breaking right now. I pray she meets a good man someday that can make up for this trauma. Those are real tears.... :(

  • @kimberlylindsey3774
    @kimberlylindsey3774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When she whisper saying "yeeap it does" ...I felt her pain 😢

  • @matticeburnett8827
    @matticeburnett8827 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Honesty hurts when love is involved

  • @dani88355
    @dani88355 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I commend him for saying no at the altar. It is never to late to change your mind.

  • @Cious05
    @Cious05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He's aware of what the show was about: by the end of 2 weeks or so he'd have to marry someone. So it's either he's somewhat delusional or had no intentions of marrying anyone there at all. Or am I missing something...?

  • @sharonsharon9540
    @sharonsharon9540 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How she is so pretty whilst crying....she even cries gracefully dealing with this horrible situation and his horrible behaviour

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She was a calm and empathetic person on the show

  • @moonlark
    @moonlark 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    His father messed him up smh.

  • @mayajona222
    @mayajona222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She stated they had multiple conversations about him not being ready to be married one day and then the next he is. I wish she didn’t ignore those red flags because the second someone tells me they not ready then ✌🏾

  • @mangojuice8038
    @mangojuice8038 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why put her through the humiliation, you should have said that before, I am sure the right person is waiting for her, he is doing her a favor.

  • @verahoward9824
    @verahoward9824 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Why didn’t you tell her before she bought her wedding dress wedding cake invitations flowers? food, music, flower girls, maid of honor what they paid for their 👗 the . bridesmaids . wedding 💒 venue photographer I can go on and on no he waits to tell her on the day they’re getting married what a coward she’s better off without him one day she’ll realize that.

  • @sandiebradley7523
    @sandiebradley7523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His whole conversation begins with I and ends with me. It’s all about him and how he feels ;no discussion or consideration about how his poor timing and insensitive actions affected her . She can’t feel it right now but one day (I hope) she’ll come to realize that his “no” was the best blessing he could have offered her . She dodged a bullet for sure !!

  • @betterbecausebookclub8732
    @betterbecausebookclub8732 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He should have said it sooner, but at least he didn’t marry her and ruin her whole life. Take it as a blessing. Signs were there. His delivery was good letting her know it wasn’t her.

  • @bobletter6938
    @bobletter6938 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why you didn’t tell her this before you went to the altar?? Why embarrassed her in front of everyone? I wouldn’t forgive you if I was her. Girl 👧🏽 RUN 🏃‍♂️

  • @lisanicon6996
    @lisanicon6996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    LIES LIES LIES LIES!!!😢😢

  • @naaadaku7344
    @naaadaku7344 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One day it will be him being rejected! It’s always easy when the shoe is on the other foot but karma is a bitch! Women beware of forcing love!!

  • @lisa7184
    @lisa7184 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Did he have to do this in front of the whole world....he can kick rocks on a very short cliff.

  • @Gratefulphyl
    @Gratefulphyl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like how the lady talks and carries herself i have only seen the alter video and this. Girl is a class act. Wishing am this grntle and soft.

  • @MsElegantChick
    @MsElegantChick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    True this must hurt..At lest he is being honest..She is better off

  • @veliciawilliams1018
    @veliciawilliams1018 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To be self aware enough to know where you are in life. I pray she understands. No one wants to be married to someone who is not prepared for it..

  • @pebbles1340
    @pebbles1340 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good for him for telling the truth 👍

  • @saleadean93
    @saleadean93 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He wanted to be on TV and that’s why he’s now with the woman who’s owned by the streets 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @joanebaptiste-cummins3207
    @joanebaptiste-cummins3207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He has all rights, but thing is - YOUR WORD IS SHAKY NOW. Move on girl- Maybe next LIFETIME 😮

  • @megk8305
    @megk8305 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl find yourself a wholesome man. This one is broken i inside. He feeds off of hurting people 😡

  • @jaylathinks1549
    @jaylathinks1549 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It's not fair to her to expect her to wait on YOU to be ready? Bro needs therapy, and she needs to MOVE on because she is ready.

    • @madeleinetepa4455
      @madeleinetepa4455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's true tell her from the start

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How is she still standing there listening to him? Lord I need strength not these evil thoughts in my head!!

  • @marieromain9095
    @marieromain9095 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    May be he’s a narcissist

  • @darlanagreen4318
    @darlanagreen4318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My oldest daughter did this to her Husband 😢she new she was Gay, but married my son-in-law anyway, and gave us a grandchild and then gave us hell within 2 1/2 years the marriage was over😢

  • @SylviaSturgis
    @SylviaSturgis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    U KNOW WHAT U'RE DOING 😏 😉 😌 IT'S NOT WHAT U DID IT'S WHERE U DID IT
    REALLY THE DAY OF THE WEDDING😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮😮

  • @minahtheweirdo
    @minahtheweirdo 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m just watching this now and I had to go on TH-cam to ff and see what happened with these two because I’m cringing so hard at the reveal I knew he wouldn’t want her as soon as he said he cares about looks lol he is like the Indian guy that did that too the deepdi girl on the other season

  • @Godlove83
    @Godlove83 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well move out the way so she can find her real husband.

    • @evakinlaw839
      @evakinlaw839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😮 men find wives.

  • @ladyajohnrose3274
    @ladyajohnrose3274 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why are you bringing her to the altar? Why wait to tell her that in front of everybody why humiliate her please

  • @jujubean9267
    @jujubean9267 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Air time

  • @tequilasmith5510
    @tequilasmith5510 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A black man will break you. How at the same time he isn’t attracted to her and I get it. He did her a favor. Go where you are wanted

  • @sandracameron4515
    @sandracameron4515 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He should have been said that

  • @elizabethreina3753
    @elizabethreina3753 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe it was too fast. At the end of the day married is a forever thing... Everything happens for a reason ❤

  • @TheCommentSpy769
    @TheCommentSpy769 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Man tell you the truth and its still not enough..he dont love u..just move on

    • @Mimi-girl
      @Mimi-girl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He could have said the truth a little earlier, like, before the wedding day… just an observation.

  • @AlllyEatsVav
    @AlllyEatsVav 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is lying! It's because she is dark skin and he is not attracted to her skin color.

  • @lashayjohnson2857
    @lashayjohnson2857 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I appreciate this dude because he is keeping it 100 with her. I just don't like how he waited till the wedding but I do salute him though.