Mannn this does work lol! Me and my guy, got into a dispute and I got quiet on the phone, STOP talking 🤐 told him I was about to go to bed and I will talk to him tomorrow… How about he called me back within 15 minutes and apologizing saying baby I’m sorry if I said something to hurt your feelings 😂 power in femininity 😉
This is so real. In the first few years of marriage i was terrible. My mouth was insane. I really broke his spirit even years later. They really can’t handle it and I’ve learned to not do that. I detach.
U r speaking the truth!!! Just because I get quite don’t mean I’m a weak person. Actually I have to b strong to stay quite it’s so much easier to curse a person out. But most times I stop talking especially when I feel like I’m talking to a wall.
Wow MJ, you’re so soft and feminine in this video. No cursing or that loud ghetto energy that I love too but it’s so cute seeing you with this calm soft vibe ❤
When he is yelling at me I cry and he is going out to process, when he is back he apologises. It is hard sometimes to poker face, but what you are saying makes sense.
You hit the nail on the head, being in control feels safe, no one ever said that before, but that is me 100%. Wish I could up control in some areas, but I'm so scared that the person won't do it the way I do it, or not as good of a job as I do. I take one little mistake a person does and run with it.
You very much have the GIFT of making people understand or overstand the facts of LIFE AND FEMININITY 68 and I think man women ,beast ,or can’t do ANYTHING with my feminism and I love it, so KEEP ON WITH YO BAD SELF ❤IT DOSENT MATTER HOW THE MSG GOT TO YOU , THE MSG HAS ARRIVED PEOPLE❤
Boston here!!! My goodness, MJ, were, and how did you learn all this wisdom and knowledge? This is good food for my soul. Hold on a minute, instructor, let me draw up a chair cause class is in full session.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Gurl!!! Thank you so much for this today, I am meeting for a lunch date for the first time today... I really hope this has promise. Thank you for the insight!!! Kisses
32:55 Did THIS, and dude would amp up, looking for an argument. Man those last 10 years of the “madness” aka marriage was ugli! And I got violent cause he couldn’t even say good morning to me without getting slapped… it was bad and my behavior was abominable. Not no more … never will I let anyone take my power … reacting to a man or anyone.
I just have to tell you that I come to your channel when I’m feeling down. Your energy and positivity is so contagious. So here I am feeling down…..here to be lifted!
I’ve learned so much in this important video. Thank you, you are beautiful and have a natural talent. Please make a video on how to approach the situation when we are done processing the issue and talking about it later. ❤
Thank you for this video Please keep doing those type of videos because it help a lot With in my life and I am take this video and learn from this video. Please keep make more videos about this topic.
Oooooooooh, I learned some things!!! Thank you , yes .. I am going to take a minute & think about what you said. I am not going to respond to it , because I don't feel like I ....
I love you MJ ❤ This is just confirmation that I’ve finally gained this knowledge and I am still learning.. I am a damsel in distress, oh you can’t even get loud when talking to me. I immediately walk off.
Can you do a video of how to up our appearance when we have no time? For us woman and mothers on how to get out of our rut appearance wise but not to over do it. I know you can help. Thank you!
I think its also vice versa. I feel very protected around a masculine. man .Like ...i can finally relax. And stress free. Around feminine man i get frustrated and get up and do thing cuz ughhh it annoys tf out of me. At work im sorrounded by feminine energy men😩🥴and only 1 boss who is masculine. I can work w him but w them ?All they do each is :a woman should work too. I wanna sit here and you do the work🤮🤢🤯the worst part is some women at my job ,mainly moms who have sons support that behaviour.🤦♀️🙄Im very masculine btw but only a man who is more masculine than me cant tame that lol.
Thank you. You gave it to us nice and raw. Appreciate it. I wish I knew this many many many years ago. Thank you. Hopefully it's not too late. Perhaps I can get an Alpha male after all.
@@karenmurdocksam2550 i agree with you. But he has got to be willing to put in more effort. I have had countless conversations from a healthy point of view with no change. I know he has past trauma that he shared with me and I do not use that against him. However he has to do his part. Thank you for replying. At this time I am just trying to heal me and get on a good place with myself before having any further conversations with him 🙂
I saw the title of this video and wondered if this is something I could do. I did not watch the video( which I should have) because I tried to do this. I went to home Depot the other day and this man approached me. He looked interested in me and started talking to me about what project I was working on. At the time I was not sure what his intention was. Was he trying to help me or get to know me? I have been single for a very very very long time and once I realized that my being in control way of thinking messed up a possible encounter with this man I should of smacked myself. Now I'm kicking myself in the butt because I should of watched this video cause there is a lot I could of learned. :)
I am a lesbian in my masculine energy. Need to be more in my feminine energy. I see I am set in my ways. I literally said hell naw at first. This eoukd be way out my comfort zone.
Mannn this does work lol! Me and my guy, got into a dispute and I got quiet on the phone, STOP talking 🤐 told him I was about to go to bed and I will talk to him tomorrow… How about he called me back within 15 minutes and apologizing saying baby I’m sorry if I said something to hurt your feelings 😂 power in femininity 😉
He who is in the most self control holds the power.
Very profound most relationships fail because of lack of balancing your emotions and up your game to help them step up and recognise you
Omg. Everything that is being said is how I am. But what I have learned is I am only feminine and soft when I feel safe and free to express myself
Amen girl same here❤
This is so real. In the first few years of marriage i was terrible. My mouth was insane. I really broke his spirit even years later. They really can’t handle it and I’ve learned to not do that. I detach.
The weakest place you could ever be in....reacting to a man....they are not the people we should let be in control of our emotions....Agreed
Silence is golden
That bird chirping in the background is fun. 😀
OMFG this is absolutely the best feminine energy in a relationship advice I've ever heard!!! Amazing. Thank you❤
who else uses all of these feminine response Tactis!? They work! MJ is not steering us wrong. Pay attention
U r speaking the truth!!! Just because I get quite don’t mean I’m a weak person. Actually I have to b strong to stay quite it’s so much easier to curse a person out. But most times I stop talking especially when I feel like I’m talking to a wall.
I love being an emotionally regulated, patient, soft, feminine YET assertive woman. Hahah
Wow MJ, you’re so soft and feminine in this video. No cursing or that loud ghetto energy that I love too but it’s so cute seeing you with this calm soft vibe ❤
Thank you for making me understand the importance of self-control ❤😊
When he is yelling at me I cry and he is going out to process, when he is back he apologises. It is hard sometimes to poker face, but what you are saying makes sense.
I really love the way you explaining to us . Thank you 🙏🏾
You hit the nail on the head, being in control feels safe, no one ever said that before, but that is me 100%. Wish I could up control in some areas, but I'm so scared that the person won't do it the way I do it, or not as good of a job as I do. I take one little mistake a person does and run with it.
God is control of everything
No i wouldn't act crazy but i will set boundaries. Nah there's but so much ill tolerate. We are going to treat each other respectfully.
You're absolute sweetness ❤
I truly appreciate you for being here for us! 🌸
You very much have the GIFT of making people understand or overstand the facts of LIFE AND FEMININITY 68 and I think man women ,beast ,or can’t do ANYTHING with my feminism and I love it, so KEEP ON WITH YO BAD SELF ❤IT DOSENT MATTER HOW THE MSG GOT TO YOU , THE MSG HAS ARRIVED PEOPLE❤
Boston here!!! My goodness, MJ, were, and how did you learn all this wisdom and knowledge? This is good food for my soul. Hold on a minute, instructor, let me draw up a chair cause class is in full session.❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are on point MJ! Knowledge is power!🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾💕
Gurl!!! Thank you so much for this today, I am meeting for a lunch date for the first time today... I really hope this has promise. Thank you for the insight!!! Kisses
This is so good, and definitely deserves more likes. Thank you 🙏🏾 💕
32:55 Did THIS, and dude would amp up, looking for an argument. Man those last 10 years of the “madness” aka marriage was ugli! And I got violent cause he couldn’t even say good morning to me without getting slapped… it was bad and my behavior was abominable.
Not no more … never will I let anyone take my power … reacting to a man or anyone.
Everytime I click on your videos I like them before I even watch them💕 it’s the captions for me !
OH MY GOD❣️ I SO LOVE YOU❣️ THANK YOU FOR ALL THE HELPFUL ADVICE AND WISDOM❣️ MUCH LOVE❣️
Love the way you talk and the sound of your voice MJ.
I just have to tell you that I come to your channel when I’m feeling down. Your energy and positivity is so contagious. So here I am feeling down…..here to be lifted!
100% ❤❤❤
You are so empowering MJ really apprentice these videos thank a million luv from my Hometown of Belize city 🇬🇺🙌💝💫
This is one of my favorite episodes. Of feminine energy. I will use this strategy this time. Operating in my feminine energy. Thank you
Love, love,love this MJ.. I'm learning so much from you on my walk in femininity ❤
MJ you're a wealth of knowledge I thank you so much
Hold on now!!!!!! Cause u preaching 🙏🏾🙏🏾
congratulations on your book you are truly blessed and an inspiration for us all thank you MJ thank you MJ on every video you do
I'm hitting REPLAY, and REPLAY ❤ Much love MJ
Every time MJ demonstrated the scurry away 🤣🤣
You are better than my therapist!! Thank you
I’ve learned so much in this important video. Thank you, you are beautiful and have a natural talent. Please make a video on how to approach the situation when we are done processing the issue and talking about it later. ❤
Yes I love you & need to sit in my peace!! Be 🤫 be 🤫 quiet... no arguing & emotional..wow be quiet but no passive aggressively 🎉❤
You so know of what you ! And sooo want to thank you for sharing your wisdom..Blessings to you luv❤
Such a wealth of information! Thank you Mj
I love you MJ, you just solved 90% of my issues. Emotional intelligence😍😍😍😍😍
MJ you sharing a WHOLE word!🎉🎉🎉
❤❤❤ Thanks for being you! Love your vibe and content.
Thank you for this video
Please keep doing those type of videos because it help a lot
With in my life and I am take this video and learn from this video. Please keep make more videos about this topic.
Aye, my favorite uncle MJ💯👑 I love your content you are so wise and sweet, but you tell it like it is to.💜💯👑
Oooooooooh, I learned some things!!! Thank you , yes .. I am going to take a minute & think about what you said. I am not going to respond to it , because I don't feel like I ....
I needed to hear this‼️Love u MJ, u always know what to say❤
Some of the best advice. Thank you
I love you MJ ❤ This is just confirmation that I’ve finally gained this knowledge and I am still learning.. I am a damsel in distress, oh you can’t even get loud when talking to me. I immediately walk off.
Thanks so much for this im walking in my power
Can you do a video of how to up our appearance when we have no time? For us woman and mothers on how to get out of our rut appearance wise but not to over do it. I know you can help. Thank you!
Well said Amen!!!! Love you and your content
thanks for this MJ....all the way from Jamaica
Awesome video and advising. So much to learn.
I needed this! Thank you ❤
Boston in the house.
Luv it Mj this video is on point 📍
I like your energy and dating guidance.
You bring it! ❤ truth 💯
Hey cousin I love you too. I appreciate you !!! Also thank you for helping me with my feminine energy 💋😘🙏
We love you MJ !
Thank u MJ your videos always reminds me and definitely helps me ❤
Perfectly. Said
This is heavy ❤
Powerful words
I think its also vice versa. I feel very protected around a masculine. man .Like ...i can finally relax. And stress free. Around feminine man i get frustrated and get up and do thing cuz ughhh it annoys tf out of me. At work im sorrounded by feminine energy men😩🥴and only 1 boss who is masculine. I can work w him but w them ?All they do each is :a woman should work too. I wanna sit here and you do the work🤮🤢🤯the worst part is some women at my job ,mainly moms who have sons support that behaviour.🤦♀️🙄Im very masculine btw but only a man who is more masculine than me cant tame that lol.
Gm u are so honest right.i love when you say right it's cute.
Thankyou so much❤
Thank you sooo much!!! You have put this in perspective for me… I needed to hear this… your awesome 😊
This is GOLD
This blessed me!
U need to be in a show!!!
Hello MJ how are you. Trust is so important especially trusting yourself.
YESS PREACH I LOVE THIS VIDEO
😊 North Carolina Rocky Mount
m.j you've said alot of states that i agree with💯♥
Thank you ❤
Thank you. You gave it to us nice and raw. Appreciate it. I wish I knew this many many many years ago. Thank you. Hopefully it's not too late. Perhaps I can get an Alpha male after all.
👍
You so good !!! Luv it
Definitely needed to hear this. I’m working on my fem energy currently 😅
Skin still gorgeous 😍
I love Mj channel
In loveeeeeee, so smart 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Your beautiful and wise 🎯
This was on time. We just had a disagreement and we have not spoken since Monday….today is Saturday!!!
I'm so sorry! Just go and talk it out. It is not always about who is wrong or who is right, it's also about communicating and working things out.
@@karenmurdocksam2550 i agree with you. But he has got to be willing to put in more effort. I have had countless conversations from a healthy point of view with no change. I know he has past trauma that he shared with me and I do not use that against him. However he has to do his part. Thank you for replying. At this time I am just trying to heal me and get on a good place with myself before having any further conversations with him 🙂
I needed this a few days ago 😅 Now I’ve gone off and might’ve ruined the connection.
Thanks 😊
I saw the title of this video and wondered if this is something I could do. I did not watch the video( which I should have) because I tried to do this. I went to home Depot the other day and this man approached me. He looked interested in me and started talking to me about what project I was working on. At the time I was not sure what his intention was. Was he trying to help me or get to know me? I have been single for a very very very long time and once I realized that my being in control way of thinking messed up a possible encounter with this man I should of smacked myself. Now I'm kicking myself in the butt because I should of watched this video cause there is a lot I could of learned. :)
Your so beautiful ❤🎉 thank you
From Maryland
I love the way you you are anyway you embrace your nephew love you all
So true i been married for 11yrs.. 😂
Baabbyy yes!
I am a lesbian in my masculine energy. Need to be more in my feminine energy. I see I am set in my ways. I literally said hell naw at first. This eoukd be way out my comfort zone.
I love myself and I need my future partner to accept me for and I just to send time how do that work
True
I tried this, and he accused me of being too nonchalant and not caring