Is She Flirting Or Just Being Friendly? 😏 (11 Signs Men ALWAYS Miss!)
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- Is She Flirting Or Just Being Friendly? 😏 (11 Signs Men ALWAYS Miss!) // How do you know if a girl is flirting with you? How do you know if she likes you or is just being nice? Get ready for 11 signs she is NOT just being nice and DOES like you! Reading female body language is one of the easiest ways to know how she feels about you. Once you know the signs a girl likes you, your entire dating life changes forever. Are you ready to know the signs a woman is flirting with you? Let’s dive in!
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Hold back: Feeling judged or lesser than, less attractive because of material things as criteria (money, car). My question though: these signs aren't only shown due to courtesy or via a subconscious habit, correct? @coachmelannie
Biggest struggle, specifically in regards to dating? Belief. Even when I was positioned perfectly, and open to the idea of dating, I simply didn't buy into the idea that she wasn't just being friendly. A lot of the key signs that something might be there could also mean she's just being friendly, such as using "we". "We" was/is code for "I want you to do this for me". I get the caveat that, yes, she may just be a toxic type, but a nice, friendly woman might still just see a guy as useful. Bonus points, if you have a pickup truck.
It wasn't in the cards, for me, and that's okay. Better to play my position, than to be embarrassed, have my hopes dashed, or be accused of something.
Women fought for legislation to protect them from men. Now men don't bother talking to women because they can catch a life breaking felony on their record. My advice to men, move on and work on yourselves, women rigged the system and now want us to fall for the trap now that we've walked away.
This is the first of your videos that I've seen. Lovin your energy! We could be friends!
My biggest struggle right now in dating is trying to hard. When I'm attracted to a girl I try to set up ideal situations and it totally comes across wrong. Women hate and punish try hard dudes. Try hard pretty much guarantees die hard results. Basically I just need the confidence to live and make moves in the moment instead of doing nothing in the moment and then setting up an ideal moment next week. Lol
a fish won't teach a man how to catch fish but a fisherman will.
In order to protect myself I ALWAYS assume that she is just being friendly.
😂
Same, im a pretty handsome dude and get a lot of attention but always leave the chicks looking at me like they were expecting more from our interactions.
Girls like balls don't get into your feelings, being bold get em wet
I do the same thing
Exactly because society has made women them that way with feminist movement
Summary
1. Talk over shoulder
2. Pupils dialate
3. Tells she miss you
4. Talks in 'we', 'us'
5. Does nice things for you repeatedly
6. Tries to keep conversation going
7. Laughs all your jokes
8. Always around
9. Does cow walk 😂
10. Makes eye contact
11. Ask for help
All these "signs" can still mean she's just being friendly lol Number 5, 6, 7, 10 happens all the time, to which she's just being nice.
It's actually very simple, if you are tall, good looking, wealthy, confident, in great shape, smooth, funny, dress nice, and have a big house and nice car. She is into you and flirting, if you are just an average guy, she is just being nice.
FACTS
😂😂😂 And that kids is how I met your mother
I used to believe that
Sounds like a very red pill take. Materialism isn't everything. Look for women who don't only value material things.
if you are below average guy, then they avoiding eye contact with you
Those 11 don’t always mean she’s flirting. Learned that the hard way.
whats flirting to you
Unless you want to get rejected just assume she’s being friendly
The laughing thing is so true. I would tell a joke that is NOT very funny, but she would laugh like it's the best joke ever.
In todays day and age, a women needs to be much more clear about her openness to engage than these almost imperceptible “signs”. Too much risk, both emotional and potentially legal if we get it wrong. Men simply won’t take the chance. Those days are gone.
Still I enjoyed your video, your message and mostly your positivity. 😊 Thx.
Not even that I can get in trouble but deciphering all these "signs" is way to much work, and at the end of the day, I got better things to do. "Her flirting" my response, cool have a good day lol so I missed your 20+ signs, just thought you were being friendly.
My biggest struggle was the fact that I asked a girl out and apparently was creepy because I looked like I had no emotion (I was scared) and that spread to the whole campus so that I was rejected like 90 times. As a result I am scared of being perceived as a creep and end up not asking at all.
Just do the opposite of good and girls will like you 😊
It’s because from the moment she gets up in the morning until the moment she goes to sleep, even this “coach”, she’s been messaged by simps all day. Her phone is NOTHING like yours. If a women showed you their phone and social media messages, you’d want to give up. You should move on. Dress nice, go out with a couple nice looking buddies DO NOT LOOK at any girls. Ignore them completely. It will be hard for a few times. Why do you think they spend hours on makeup and outfits bro. Racking up attention from guys with no chance. Period. It is a drug for them. They wonder about the guy in the room that isn’t give them that and is confident. You HAVE to trust me on this. When you see her, picture 20 other guys standing next to her. Because that’s who is on that phone. Don’t be one. It WILL happen for you as girls are looking for successful guys and not the Chads that run through them and all over them. I am telling you from experience. Best of luck.
Masculine way = Have lot of Money , be Celebrity or Famous = all Girls are yours.
I learned this hard lesson over past 34 Years, even as Tall 6.4 ft guy.
I am done dating or trying getting or finding Girl, feels better.
If ur going the red pill way, why are you here? Christian dating, is not the red pill way, so you seem to be in the wrong place.
In Northern Europe that's average...
@@larslevinberget9558You don't live there hein
Misread the signs and end up with a felony, I wouldn't even bother.
I’m done reading the “signs” I had 8 and got ghosted for no good reasons. I just didn’t get it. I’m done though I’m now 0-23 in my life. Women only give me signs for ego boost
Boo. Good info. Thanks for always being a positive person!
I really like your positive energy and how you explain things. That goes along way. Keep it up and thank you.
Your voice is hypnotic! It's definitely made for broadcasting/podcasting.
"BOO" You have a priceless cuteness with these bloopers.Thank You for keeping it real.
This is my first full video from start to finish. I am now subscribed. Thanks again!
Very informative.. Thank you 🙏
I always assume that she's just being friendly. Sometimes if it's someone I know I say something to the effect of "oh you're such a good friend" or "I am so glad you are a friend" or something like that. And typically that pretty much sets the tone of the relationship. Frankly I don't want to get the smoke from an angry woman who was just being friendly and is now offended that I told her I was interested in her. The pain of suppressing feelings is better than the heartbreak of rejection and ridicule.
Boo. Wonderful wise advice.
Thanks! Bless you Melannie Spreading Kindness hope it makes you smile today.
Thank you SO much for your kindness and support! God bless! 🙏
Your teaching is excellent.
Your a great help an thank-you . Your flirt interpretation from women does better guide my day to day interactions with women , me being a single friendly person having to be careful not to be overly friendly . May God bless you helping others.
wow thank you for your good work,>>stay blessed
"Boo to you too."
Hi, my name is James, and my biggest fear when it comes to meeting people (mostly women) is my shyness.
I sometimes come strong out of the gate, but soon stall out just standing there feeling embarrassed. Any info you have would be Gr8 info.
P.S. You are helping more people than you may ever know. Keep up the awesome work. Thank you so much.
Some excellent advice once again. The fact that you see effort on both sides is a major factor to consider. The other thing is time. Genuine interest doesn't fade and being civil is the perfect ice breaker. A friendly hello is a good place to start but the effort is shared and doesn't just go away overnight.
Same advice once again
My biggest struggle is just I'm totally unable to talk to a girl I like and stay apparently normal. I loose all my self control, stress, sweat, blush, forget simple words and so on. I know the girl see it and of course things get worse. I'm often even too scared to walk to the girl and start to speak so I just walk away.
your videos give me life!
Boo. Awesome stuff.
love the bloopers,
Love the hat mel❤gazzzzx
New sub. Awesome channel. Fun & informative. Love it :)
Hey Melannie,
Your hat was very in style for girls in school in the mid 80s.
It was an alternative for the girls who didn't or couldn't do the poofy teased high styles that were big then.
I have experienced the "she kept the conversation going" then later asked me out. We went out but discovered we were too different. She actually became much more shy once we were out together in her hangouts for whatever reason.
Also had the "talking over her shoulder" thing. She was a very attractive "friend" though we did go out once (& everyone stared at us together and guys asking me to pass them her #).
She maybe was "in flirt mode" as she was doing the catwalk as well, but she told me about the guy she was dating she was going to dump and go with a different guy who she later got married to, & stayed married to as well. She was just flirty with a number of us guys.
I also got the "she keeps looking at me" sign as well though from much older women I wasn't really interested in.
Once, I did get the multiple smiles and repeated looks from a Shania Twain double looking woman.
I was too nervous to speak (suddenly) which was my fault.
The times where I wasn't, (& getting the looks etc) they turned me down.
Hipster style is a turn off.
kewl looking hat melannie
Good Advice
I love your content
BOO:) Great vid, I especially like the steps at the end of how to put the signs into context and determine if shes actually flirting! Greatest struggle was always my nature of being a dreamer and hoping, and (unknowingly) assuming that we would get together and putting pressure on myself to do well. For example I would get to know her and without already knowing if feelings were mutual, already picture us married building a life together. As a result I would try too hard, jump at any could-be-considered-good-sign i could see without trying to get the big picture, consequently brushing off some not-interested signs. I later realized that I knew how to move forward properly and read good signs (THX to all your amazing VIDS), but my rose-tinted glasses were messing with my ability to do it properly. Didnt think I was at first but I really was 'marrying her before marrying her' (a phrase that I truly understood after it fell apart). So now going into any relationship I may pursue in the future (single right now), I always remind myself to not assume that we will be together until we are officially established, and that to never ignore any non-interested signs and when seeing them, to not be discouraged and instead remind myself that you dont want to be with someone who doesnt like you back because it does me (and her) a disservice. Your channel has helped me discover and remedy my flaws SOOOOOO MUCH over the last year and a half! God Bless, Melannie:)
sir just like me you are a hopeless romantic...and it sux i know coz unless she is? that wont work...keep a leash on the emotions and fantasies and work from reality which is HARD
I love these videos. I have a very hard time with all this social stuff when I already know a girl, when I meet her at the train or something like that its kind of clear what each of the parties want but especially when you are close to people you have to read the signs first to not get embarassed. This is the part I struggle the most with and whenever I come across someone I try to remember the signs, watch 1-2 videos just because. 10/11 signs saying my intern wants something from me.....not sure this is necessarily great.....because it seems I feel the same way. Social stuff....I hate it ;)
My biggest struggle is to actually approach even after seeing the obvious signs or even the subtle ones!
I love the bloopers
I only just realized it, but you have a great kind of voice for radio. You should consider doing that kind of work.
Remember that the signs can depend from woman to woman. I would recommend to use your gut feeling because even if she doesnt show so many of the classical signs she can still be in to you. Then she can show some signs but still doesnt have a romantic interest. As i said before. It depends.
I'm a 30' female and theese are my signs of interest and attraction:
1. Closing up to you/touch you (subtile of course, depending on how well we know each other)
2. Prolonged eyecontact
3. Asking a lot of questions
4. Becoming happier and laughing more in your presence
5. Dressing up more/care more about my aperence + maybe using that expensive parfume I bought last year but in normal cases dont want to waste.
6. Becoming a bit awkward and clumsy
7. Getting a bit boastful and want to impress you. Its like: hey, see me and how fantastic I am!
8. Becoming soft and extra sweet to you. Making you favours and other selfless acts.
You have such a loving aura, when I'm around such a woman I'm interested in, I pray that I 'get it'. True romantic reciprocal sensuous love is just around the corner for me.
you're honestly so gorgeous xo
If a person does not want to be in a romantic relationship, then what exactly does being a friend mean? Friends do things together but I don't think this is what the person has in mind by being a friend.
Dude that’s what I’ve been thinking/saying for ages! I don’t understand it.
Thanks!
Thank YOU! Have a great day!
My biggest dating struggle is I live in a very rural area, with very few women.
No matter how much I watch these kind of videos I still have no clue what is going on
We've been friends online for approximately two years but haven't actually met in person yet. We were talking a couple of years ago, and both said we like each other. We lost touch for a while, but I've been chatting a little bit lately, and she agreed to meet, finally. She seems excited. It may take her a day or two to respond to my messages, but she always responds. What's holding me back? Fear of her canceling at the last minute. Also, she seems to be a love avoidant. She's been hurt, badly, before, and she guards her heart. She said, "we need to hang out" when I get home from a seasonal job. I'm a love addict and have to be very careful to not seem needy. It seems healthier too because I don't have her on a pedestal. I feel like I genuinely care about her. I want her to be my best friend. If she's an avoidant, how exactly can I move things from friendship to romantic, I guess? Maybe talk more about the dynamics of a love addict and love avoidant and how to move things forward in a healthy way. Thank you for all of your videos, Melannie! They bring much needed peace and hope to me! Boo.
good morning, good afternoon, good evening,good night.all your videos are good..Thanks a lot it's an honer
I have zero confidence, but that apparently has served me well in the Me Too era. Still... I get very lonely sometimes. Id love to be there for someone.
Love your Debbie Gibson hat. Great advise.
Yea she was just being nice good to know
Confidence, I am shy, I don't want to be rejected, nervous
any updates
Boo. Thanks for doing what you do and give us men the female perspective
Hello ,just came across your video by chance, stopped and watched 😊, big like, wishing you a lovely day. Cheers from SWEDEN. P.S.Subbed2 ❤🎉
I am widowed. What holds me back most is trying to get anything started with a lady . I'm not in a position to just meet women at all. Plus I'd rather to find the right woman. I have had one woman flirt with me, but she is a neighbor. I'm not interested in her in any romantic manner.
I know it will take time to find the right lady. At my age, it's not easy. Being over 50:doesn't make it easy what so ever. Not many within my age group whom are single.
My question for you Coach Melannie is how can an older person who is no longer in the workforce to find a woman to try to have a relationship with.
It's been over 18 years since I was single. I really need some advice on how to get something going in the right manner and with the right woman. Thank you for your videos .
Learn to be happy on your own.
Most women of our age have so much baggage, it's unbelievable.
Otherwise,take up yoga, line dancing and go to the gym.
My suggestion is to just do you bro. The anxiety, uncertainty, cost and sheer drama of it all is time better spent being channeled into yourself in the form of hobbies, learning something new, improving yourself.
I'm 45 and can pass for 37, failed marriage 6 years ago Ihave no problem with potentials from mid twenties to anything older but dam they all entitled and vain.
Boo. Nice hat, Melannie!
I love your voice and your the best pit shaver ever. I always giggle when I hear your voice.
Wow 140k+ 😂 you go girl! There is a sucker born every minute.
Thank and boo
Now I know women dont flirt with me
Loved the content and tips in this video Melannie,,yay to great advice and boo to those who choose to be be nagative towards you on the internet, hope and pray you feel better soon too 🙏😊
Melannie shuuttt uppp brooo
It's been a minute since I last checked out these videos - noticed the lack of the usual background music. Sounds weird when you're used to hearing it all the time!
Also - boo.
Beautiful Voice
Thanks
Danke!
I'm so happy you liked it! Thank you for your support!
I would like to hear about a friend being secretly in love with a friend.. I have a difficult time being able to get around physically.. I love women but haven't had a girlfriend for about just over 15 years..
In this age, since women feel themselves "empowered" and in this age of "me too" where men who engage with women can see themselves on the wrong end of a litigation or charge of assault, it should be up to them (women) to make it unmistakably clear to make the first unsubtle move. No more clues, no more innuendo....women, you deserve this.
Thank you! Exactly.
@@DonTrump-sv1si You're welcome and you have my vote for 2024 ! ;-)
Smartest Comments here.
There are female US Lawyers who state this very point.
Shyness is holding me back
I think she maybe is just trying to manipulate men, instead of being flirty or even just being nice. As an Uber driver, I meet a lot of people, even if they are or are not, they are usually just being manipulative and trying to get a free ride by giving the driver a poor rating and making fraudulent claims. This has made me realize that I can’t trust people, and I feel like I’m being falsely accused by people who just want a free ride and falsely accuse drivers due to a lack of respect.
Hey Coach,
I think my problem is that I grew up in a household of all women, so I probably miss the signs, because I grew up with all estrogen and female drama, I wouldn't recognize it I'd have to be flat out told, because by the time I was out of High school, I was helping change my nephews at the time diapers, by the time I was in college I had 4.
So I sort of tuned it out, because I grew up around female drama.
Hi Coach Melannie!!!
I have a doubt.
Are there any attitude that make her think I am friendly?
I mean, as you have taught there are some atitutes that make her feel unsafe and creep her out.
If I do not pursue her, she will think I do not find her cute and I am not interested in her.
So I would like to know if there is something like if I have a nerdy talk or If I my approaching is cheesy or something like that.
I feel my biggest struggle in relationship is sharing; It is hard for my to talk about something personal, and the girls I have known do not like to ask questions.
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Do you ever wondering why we are so sure that ghosts always say BOO?
Those are really good questions! There are certainly things that will make a girl think you're just interested in being friends instead of dating her. Usually as long as you're pursuing her well that won't happen though. It's important to be yourself because your dream girl wants to see that side of you 🙂
It can be hard to open up and share things about ourselves. Something helpful to remember is that you don't need to share more about yourself than you are comfortable with. Especially at the beginning of a relationship you can just take it slow and have fun with the conversations. I hope that helps! Thank you SO much for your support! God bless 🙏🙏
I can never really tell if a woman is fliting with me...sometimes, when she looks at me a little too long or smiles at me a lot, then i think she may be flirting...i try not to assume things about girls...but if a woman smiles at me a lot or touches me playfully, or goes out of her way to talk to me, then it's safe to say she's interested in me....
FLIRTING and BOO. The sign I'm gonna look for is whether or not her eyes dilate while I'm talking with her. To answer your question "What has been my biggest struggle in relationships? For me, it's been the lack of respect. I've actually earned their respect, yet there has been no reciprocation. So, all I have been able to do is work on me and my self-improvement. I've enrolled in and taken your online academy course and have patiently awaited the opportunity to meet a fine lady one day. Thank you for another good video. Please continue to have a great weekend and have a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
That's a great sign to look for! Lack of respect is a massive issue for relationships. You definitely deserve someone who treats you right! I'm so happy you enjoyed the video! Thank you for your kindness! 🙏
trust affects me the most!!!
They are flirting but then when you make a move they tell you they was just being friendly.
It's getting closer to Halloween; BOO!
Merci!
You're very welcome! Thank you for your support!
I went to your masterclass video and it says "Because of its privacy settings, this video cannot be played here".
What's holding me back? I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere. Also, there are no sincere women left. Even if I socialise outside my area getting to know many more people, they just bait. Women weren't like this in the 90s when I dated or had affairs.
Hey! Coach, I want to give up on love I don't want to be hurt
"Your heart starts to beat faster, as she smiles at you."
Um - as she does...what?
"The first thing you need to know is - girls hate turning guys down."
Um, no...just, no. Girls have always delighted in turning me down. Most girls I encounter seem to absolutely love rejecting guys.
Oh, well. Maybe, one day, I'll see a girl's eyes dilate. It's important to have something to live for, isn't it?
Can you make a video about how a coworker is flirting?
What I feel is holding me is back is financial
No, no they don’t hate turning a guy down. If the guy is ugly, she’s just being friendly.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way, women however since they play a passive role that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating
Both of us feel like we can’t get a word in and be heard
Boo to you too! 😃
BOO!
My thing is, I give my attention to women and if they share personal stuff I feel awkward and start to think that I invaded her privacy.
I Agree
the signs and do nothing proves you can wait for another and not be too quick on the draw
So, I have watched you channel a lot and you bring up great points.
So, I do like someone and they do not approach me as much but I approach them and we kind of flirted by accident because I told her she would do great in her career because she likes to help people and she looked down and giggled and said thanks. Definitely blushing to me hahaha 😂
So, I asked her if I could get to know her and first she thought I was asking her out and than I said I just wanted to get to now her. (Safe way to get to know someone without dating them or being rejected) So, she has been letting me approach her after church but o think sometimes she will follow me while at small group. However, I do not know if it is following because she is talking to others but she gives a lot of eye contact and I caught her once looking at me and the teachings that the small group when she was talking and it was very quick.
I am sure she likes me but I do not want to be hovering or making it seem like I am creepy by approaching too much but I do not want to make it seem like I do not like her. 🤷🏻♂️ Communicating is very difficult for me.
You ask her out yet
She's giving blatant signs she likes you. That's not to dump on you - I find reading the signs difficult too - but she wants you to ask her out and pursue her more confidently and take things quicker.
@@edmiller5588 I tried texting her and asking her to do things and she did not want too. So I moved on.
I clicked this video and instantly realised its a mistake to care this much if a girl likes you just carry on showing her you care but dont be obsessed focus on yourself be there for her but never let her know you are craving her you wanna meet up? ask once and thats it dont force her to meet you do the oppisite of what she does to you that gives masculine energy dont bother texting nonsense you got a question ask it or call her and wrap it up make sure your texts arent dumb like wyd u up or something those convos dry up quick they only work when the girl says it
I always thought talking over the shoulder was a sign of disinterest or slight annoyance. A gal at church smiles at me and also winks at me on occasion, but on the rare occasion we talk, she seems nervous and talks over her shoulder most the time. I kinda quit thinking she was interested
A girl wouldn't wink just to be nice. You know that...
shes nervous coz she likes u bro...make her feel comfy and relaxed in your presence...she may also be mildly afraid of love or success at love...i am sometimes.
I believe that this woman who pursued me many years ago is trying again.
In the beginning, she would run up to me in church (I would visit her church for another reason), throw her arms around me, and kiss me on the cheek.
She did this on four consecutive weeks, and what did I do? Absolutely nothing. I have this blank expression (trait of epilepsy) but would kick myself each time it would happen later in that day.
Now, many years later (around seven or so), I believe she is trying again but without throwing herself at me (I'm picking up on the body language you train on Melannie!)
I thought of something to get her to smile and to hopefully get me to laugh along with me as I think that shis playful kinda scene would do.
I have been trying to make myself more appealing and presentable for church each Sunday. So I thought of dressing up like James Bond with a tuxedo, bow tie etc and box of milk tray (uk tv add / 007 type) playing the catchy theme tune and presentinting her with the box of chocolates and a red rose. The climax to the add "all because the lady loves milk try." And hopefully in a playful funny way I win her over.???
Not catching the signs that she sends me. Or messing up what might have been. Or wondering what kind of game she's playing. Or this just can't be real. Or what could she possibly want from me. Etc etc etc
How to spark feeling more attached to the person when they just seem friendly
Okay but these are all pertaining to a woman you are always around, in a work environment or something....not really applicable to someone you meet once out in public.