EP 01 | Breaking my Silence after 10 years

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  • @ajenifujafuad
    @ajenifujafuad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Here representing odd fam. It’s the fact that I relate do well with the boarding school era and being here in the United States as an immigrant. I’m here for the growth of this podcast. HERE WE GO!!!

  • @mullenq3038
    @mullenq3038 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Hey Sophie I am usually a silent subscriber of your channels but I have to say this podcast and hearing your story has inspired me so much and made me feel like I can really do something great with my life. I am a 21 yr old from Ghana. I came to the US at 9 and I just graduated with my bs in public health. I’ve been feeling so scared and lost with my life and future and I just keep asking what do I want. I still don’t know the answer to that. I hope you keep it up with this podcast because your story is going to heal a lot of souls and inspire many out there. I just want to say THANK YOU!!!!

  • @iamthechide
    @iamthechide 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I’m sorry about the things you went through during your university days in Nigeria. I pray that you find a beautiful love that is very kind and that you continue to heal from the trauma that it may have caused. Also, you are doing great and your story is beautiful like you 😊. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @lolaatolani8510
    @lolaatolani8510 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your video randomly showed up on my YT feed and I absolutely enjoyed watching and listening to you! I know you glossed over some of the struggles but as an immigrant myself, I can relate to some of the struggles. I’m so glad you’re living your best life now. I pray you continue to experience miracles and may your dreams be fulfilled!

  • @womanofvalor7
    @womanofvalor7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I admire your reslience! God will use your story for His Glory!

  • @TSHwithModupe
    @TSHwithModupe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Adding crying to the list of things you do as a human, we will cry with you. Thank you for sharing your life experiences and journey with us. Thank you for your authenticity, love you too. Xoxo

  • @giamaryse8898
    @giamaryse8898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Woooooowwww girl i needed to hear your story being an international student is so stressful am almost done with school here in U.S. and am still figuring out what am going to do to stay here legally praying to get a job soon ❤️

  • @marveldera
    @marveldera 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    12:03 damn the throwback is crazzy😂, this is why documentation is important
    damn you've been through so much, i actually shed tears
    yh that jeans video is sooo funny😂😂, "as a spec that i am" 😂
    Your story is really touching and inspiring.
    thanks for sharing💯

  • @funkyredhead1
    @funkyredhead1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Such a heartfelt story. This is YOUR podcast, you BLOCK! i.e 🚫Stop making excuses for speaking freely etc. etc. We love you. You make sense because we are your kinfolk. xoxo❤❤❤🎉

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really really enjoyed this video. So many up and downs, sad moments, happy moments, this is GROWTH

  • @Tamareact
    @Tamareact 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I remember finding you on twitter and followed because of the way your laugther is so pure, and since then i've sticked around with every of your content on all social media pages especially on youtube.
    I remember crying with you when you cried sharing how stressed out you were, and the funniest thing is that I was also stressed out. It felt like i was there with you.
    I'm so so happy of where you've gotten to now. Your successs always makes me happy @TheOdditty

    • @dijahariyo
      @dijahariyo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yo me too, from twitter and now I’m all over her❤❤❤

  • @SebeneleDlamini-ge9ct
    @SebeneleDlamini-ge9ct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I like how she said, welcome back, on episode 1 😂

  • @cydneystephen2814
    @cydneystephen2814 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Sofi. Your expression in your thumbnail speaks volumes. Was wondering about the cold as we get further into winter. Mother’s certainly have different relationships with sons and daughters. So sorry you went through these 2 situations. A professor called you the N word? Omg. 😳🥺. Virginia to Louisiana? Scholarship and RA. Wonderful. You’ve always been a fighter. Grad assistant. Masters 🙌🏼. Omg. This 1st vid in the jeans is adorable, precious and hilarious. Many layers to you indeed. Thanks for sharing such intimate and private details. See you next Wednesday ❤

  • @ArmaniRae
    @ArmaniRae 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are so so strong, I am weak watching this. You did Great for yourself, I always thought you were born in America.
    You’ve gained a subscriber! 🥹❤️

  • @Echoesofexperiencee
    @Echoesofexperiencee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I teared up 😢 no way!
    You are really an inspiration 💪 and you deserve every good thing coming your way because mehn! you worked sooo hard for it ❤❤

  • @mommamia9948
    @mommamia9948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a fun podcast. Thank you for being unfiltered and honest. I am currently in university and it is a predominantly white college. I am not an immigrant, but I am a black woman. Your older vlogs give me a special comfort and I’m excited for this podcast! Thank you Sofi 💜

  • @TitoLifestyle
    @TitoLifestyle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are such an inspiration Sofi! You’ve been through so much and what you’ve never done is give up or back down.
    As a new immigrant starting all over again, you’ve been an inspiration for me “If Sofi can pull this off, I can”. Proud of you and your journey.
    Wish you all the best!

  • @justices007
    @justices007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love love these podcasts! Well done girl

  • @favourenu2
    @favourenu2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As a member of the odd fam we are super proud of you SoFi. 37:57

  • @ExquisiteEtta
    @ExquisiteEtta 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love how you shared your truth without bashing anyone :) I'm taking notes

  • @vanessadh3939
    @vanessadh3939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible first episode!! I could listen to you for hours! I look forward to the episodes to come!

  • @Datboiisam
    @Datboiisam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story. This video gave me hope. I had a tough day because I wasn’t happy with the position I was in, but you just lifted my spirit. Thank you!

  • @TheresidentchefJ
    @TheresidentchefJ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh wow!!!!! I loved thissss a little toooooo much! And oh Sophieeeee! You’re strong!

  • @JustUchey
    @JustUchey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is how I can relate with your boarding school experience to an extent. It is really interesting how your boarding school experience helped you secure scholarships. I love this pod so much❤

  • @fisayomeee
    @fisayomeee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg!! This is a lot girl. So proud of how far you’ve come. ❤❤❤

  • @Chlurr007
    @Chlurr007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The level of anger I was feeling when you told the assault stories, especially with the professor! I left Naija after I finished primary school so I never experienced the boarding school life, but the stories I hear from people about it. The impunity! Aspects of our society are rotten to the core! As a brother, I'm with your brother. If it were one of my sisters, people are getting dealt with, f*** the consequences.

    • @bukolafulani
      @bukolafulani 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish she mentioned his full government name(he’s a big fool). I thought the same thing too… can’t imagine what my Brother would’ve done cause it’s the same sibling dynamic here “2 children”. I am pissed.

  • @LIVEwTAI
    @LIVEwTAI 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was honestly so beautifully well said👏🏾 sending you lots of strength and encouragement as you’re on this new endeavor, I can’t wait to see all the things going forward 🤎 thank you for sharing your story my girl ✨

  • @annekigoro8155
    @annekigoro8155 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this!! as an Immigrant myself, i can soo relate!! You ROCK!!! SO PROUD OF YOU!!

  • @francesnwachukwu3480
    @francesnwachukwu3480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love that you didn't let it affect your personality

  • @radiantly_fatime
    @radiantly_fatime 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! This is a lot to digest and I'm proud of how far you've come.

  • @thegirlanjy6220
    @thegirlanjy6220 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember watching you for the first time on TH-cam in 2018. You were doing your postgrad. Your growth since then has been massive, and you inspire me to know that I can achieve so much.
    Love you Sofi😍

  • @KeepingupwithAG
    @KeepingupwithAG 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is an amazing piece.. love it for you sofi on how far you have come ..

  • @RichardBoovie
    @RichardBoovie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this channel oddity your existence and experience alone is inspiring

  • @nengigreen7104
    @nengigreen7104 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I teared up so many times 🥹 you are so strong and resilient

  • @ritadeviolinist
    @ritadeviolinist 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Youtubbbeeeeeee! I’m here!
    I love this Sofi!

  • @MagdaleneDarwar
    @MagdaleneDarwar 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this Episode ❤

  • @gloryO
    @gloryO 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Here for it!!!!!!

  • @sheis_jhay
    @sheis_jhay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed every bit of this… you gats have some courage to be able to say stuffs like this on camera I applaud you for that👏🏼… I relate a bit to your story and it’s so sweet to see someone come out and speak about things no one will talk about

  • @azoakweenda
    @azoakweenda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We are here boooooo 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Ebunoluwa-mm1oy
    @Ebunoluwa-mm1oy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Truthfully you are just amazing all round.never saw the discussion coming but trust me it was really helpful i don't know about anyone else but it was a wonderful video for me . I also experience some of the things you mentioned but coming from a country like ours were fear is been built into us more than self confidence we just have to leave with our pains. I know you don't know me but i will always root for you and I pray one day you eventually have it all figured out. Love always from one of your fans in Ibadan Nigeria ❤

  • @gloriaadocta5297
    @gloriaadocta5297 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, I’m so sorry for all you went through and I’m proud of the outcome. I’m so glad you aren’t bitter towards your mom at any point. I’m so proud of you, I’m in a similar situation and I can’t help but to be bitter towards my dad. I hope I find my way out and tell my story someday❤❤

  • @GraceOE
    @GraceOE 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great first episode!! I sat through the whole thing, even though I’ve been a follower for a while (so already know a lot of the stories here) but it was still entertaining. Congratulations Sofi🎉

  • @itstrac3
    @itstrac3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how this was all over the place! 💜my mind works the exact same way 🥰

  • @nikeabanise8858
    @nikeabanise8858 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing sofi! I know it was not easy. I felt like I could relate to you in some aspects. Just know that you are a strong and wonderful person inside and out and you are inspiring others out there including me.

  • @billiehicks6587
    @billiehicks6587 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great journey with all its Oddity…❤

  • @zaytuniabdulmalik696
    @zaytuniabdulmalik696 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations on finding yourself. It's honestly beautiful

  • @prityprinses
    @prityprinses 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yessss babbbyyyy. I am sooo happy for youuuuu ( & for myself cause I love The Oddity content! More, more, more! (Only if you feel like it, tho) ♥️

  • @ethosconnect
    @ethosconnect 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a beautiful episode. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7:05 yessss please talk about boarding school. Gosh the memories 🤣😂

  • @khafilataminu8609
    @khafilataminu8609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really can’t wait!😍😍

  • @ReineSalomee
    @ReineSalomee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your resilience and I am really happy you launched this podcast

  • @formofeve
    @formofeve 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I definitely look at you at a whole new light. We’re so similar. I went to a networking event and a social media manager said we were I see it more. Your videos def showed but hearing you speaking def shows it ❤❤❤

  • @seunolowo3869
    @seunolowo3869 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gosh!!! I can relate to your story; I'm super proud of you!

  • @omolewatitilayo6676
    @omolewatitilayo6676 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations on your wins🎉more growth!!!!

  • @vivianchinonye9212
    @vivianchinonye9212 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We love to hear it 😊
    Always here for you girl.
    Rooting for you always❤

  • @faridahahmed3859
    @faridahahmed3859 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The throwback killed me😂😂yo that wig!!😂😂

  • @peteimbaha3568
    @peteimbaha3568 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came across your video over a year or 2 ago. I can't remember. I am African, too, and there is something about your personality that resonates so much with mine. I love that you are loud and weird and beautiful.. Thank you for being you literally.. and the level of extra vulnerability on here I love.. I follow you on all your platforms, but this is my favourite, I can say..

  • @SadamOmoAkin
    @SadamOmoAkin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for sharing......

  • @BarbeeRuffin
    @BarbeeRuffin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad you found ur way here and made it through . I pray god continue to give you what ur heart desire 💕 much love 🫂

  • @snakeyebrat8136
    @snakeyebrat8136 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here for this and here to stay. Longing it.......episode 2

  • @khafilataminu8609
    @khafilataminu8609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Looool. The coach that propositioned me is the reason I ran away from basketball till today. I hate pedophiles 🤧

  • @ogunjimiayodeji5281
    @ogunjimiayodeji5281 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    MOTIVATIONAL

  • @FavourOlatunde
    @FavourOlatunde 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aww Sofi, I'm soo proud of you. You should write a book, I would definitely read it!

  • @Oluwatoyosi.A
    @Oluwatoyosi.A 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gosh. You’re a brave person💚💚💚

  • @queenzwilliams8294
    @queenzwilliams8294 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enjoyed! Thanks girrlllll😊

  • @itstrac3
    @itstrac3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so refreshingly honest, I can't wait to see more 💚

  • @favourenu2
    @favourenu2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed every bit of this podcast. It's so inspiring and touching. I'm proud of you SoFi 36:43

  • @ProcitaPeach
    @ProcitaPeach 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Y’all green means the oddity ❤ and I love it here 😊. Thanks for sharing Sofi

  • @oyindamolaabdulfatai9921
    @oyindamolaabdulfatai9921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story 🥹

  • @mietebriggs8804
    @mietebriggs8804 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So inspiring, love you Sophia

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    26:53 yeah I remember 😢♥♥♥♥♥♥ much love B

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Naaaaaaaa bruv I absolutely enjoyed this 😊

  • @khafilataminu8609
    @khafilataminu8609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was a social prefect too!😂😂😂

  • @azoakweenda
    @azoakweenda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LMFAOOOOOO, you are loud 😂😂😂

  • @tracisellers385
    @tracisellers385 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this thanks for sharing you are truly a star

  • @Abiodunscorner
    @Abiodunscorner 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You have the same smile as back then

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    12:01 omgggggggggggggggg how do you still have this awwwwwwwwww❤❤❤❤😢😂😅😊

  • @lanreilori8193
    @lanreilori8193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations girl 🎈🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @detoun4med
    @detoun4med 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's the greeeeeeen for me. I'm jealous I have to share all that green with Sof❤❤❤

  • @thenaija
    @thenaija 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Oh that is where I recognize you from, Sofia Ibrahim , Home Science Association Secondary School, Social prefect. Damn. I was in Jss2 when you graduated. I remember now.

    • @kav1111
      @kav1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why put her full name on TH-cam lol?

    • @omolewatitilayo6676
      @omolewatitilayo6676 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kav1111 I don't think that's harmful

    • @kav1111
      @kav1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@omolewatitilayo6676 it’s not, but I use to go to school in Nigeria. & now my mates call me my full name in public and on social media. I hate it lol. We don’t do that in America/UK. She might not want the whole world knowing her full name lol x

  • @worth.a.fortune2479
    @worth.a.fortune2479 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super proud of you Sofi❤ Been an odd fan since day 1. I hope I get to tell my immigration story as you have with a happy ending. Lots of Love.❤️

  • @_Justann
    @_Justann 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this had inspired me so much THANK YOU

  • @thatsoryam
    @thatsoryam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    such an inspiration ! thank you for pushing me 💕

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    37:35 hence the whole idea behind the odditty sweetie. We dey hear for you omo iya miiii❤

  • @nabeehahbrown4681
    @nabeehahbrown4681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learned so much about you wow. I ask our Lord the Most High to guide and safeguard you and resolve every single affair for you aameen love ur auntie Nabeehah

  • @_Marvella__
    @_Marvella__ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you for sharing!❤

  • @Choklatekisses1
    @Choklatekisses1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A true fighter and survivor ❤❤

  • @lumio3311
    @lumio3311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Sophie! Love the pod already, was wondering if you'll be doing the Spotify video podcast also?

  • @mutmainatabolore969
    @mutmainatabolore969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my! Odditty is on TH-cam🥳🥳🥳

  • @ikeadeedaromosu7620
    @ikeadeedaromosu7620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely enjoyed watching this❤

  • @uniquebakedcookie
    @uniquebakedcookie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow!!! Well done sofi!!!!

  • @mrbrianlamont
    @mrbrianlamont 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loveeeee this

  • @OdysseyUnfolds
    @OdysseyUnfolds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why am I crying?😭🥺

  • @ireolawole9200
    @ireolawole9200 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG !! We're birthday twins 🥰🥳

  • @adaokonkwo1237
    @adaokonkwo1237 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have done well❤❤❤

  • @kofoworolaosofuye6301
    @kofoworolaosofuye6301 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sofi
    You deserve your flowers 🌹

  • @The.great.Olivia
    @The.great.Olivia หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg boarding school!😭

  • @maryi3073
    @maryi3073 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are very inspiring 😊

  • @nengigreen7104
    @nengigreen7104 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I pray you get all the flowers and the love you deserve❤

  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the Mai Pham merch ❤