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Hell nah lmao
@@tannershanksftw 😭
To each their own but whoever watches the whole 12 hours should really rethink their life lol
that's a pretty straightforward website name lol
Tripping 😭
This is by far the most brutal blind date experiment Cut has ever tried
I couldn’t stop cringing 😂😂 and it wasn’t even that bad
bro no way in hell i'm talking to a girl for 12 hours straight tf this is wild i'd tap out
All I'll say is, fellas, always ask consent before touching anybody. Especially if they literally can't move away from you.
This was hard to watch but entertaining
yep and i feel like they didn't even try to put in compatible people tbh
I don't know how the guy didn't see her getting uncomfortable, her eyes and body language are literally showing every emotion she's going through.
Frrr
She definitely wasn’t really feeling his touchy touchy 😂
It was obvious for us to see but maybe not within that small space
Seems like he was projecting his emotional needs on her from the get go and not really paying attention to who she is or what she wants … hopefully he gives therapy a try.
@@CakeboyRiP oh shut it its obv
He’s so touchy and she’s so uncomfortable and he’s getting into so much detail abt his s3x life and he keeps asking her abt hers
she asked him if he has ever tasted ... you are 100% sexist
@@ChillinWithRyder. Like one question compared to his hundred
Why is he so touchy with a new person
fr.
So touchy
ikr!!
they literally had to tell him to ask permission first
FRRR
This was a little painful to watch. That being said, please make more of these
HAHA
they should make one w divorced couples
LMFAOOOOO 😹
🤣🤣🤣
Agreed lmaoooo
She's a trooper for hanging in there. You could tell she wasn't very comfortable but still gave it a chance. He seems like a great guy but both are very different.
Yeah, I could tell by her hand on his stomach when they were laying there that she was so uncomfortable.
@@ericbogar9665 what time??
@@ericbogar9665 That was his own hand resting in his body, not hers.
@@Heatherbtime saw 12 hours and these cuts and snippets made him out to be much worse. Left out a lot of the deeper questions he asked (her passions, hobbies, fears,family,goals) plenty of times where they got mentally intimate.
Exactly what I was saying..
Anyone else just thought from the start that he was very touchy?
Yeah. Me too
This the type of guy to say “where my hug at”
Ick 🤮
oh boy
The person who comes up with these series deserves a raise.
💯
Fr
Right?! I wanna do this lol. What a great idea!
Lifetime membership to anything good in life
Agreed
I love how it started with her being more into him, and ended with him being more into her.
I'm like this dude but better
@@Myers00 fym
@@FactFlix3 I'm better then you
@@Myers00 cap
@@obssessedvideoguy and even more better then u
She’s light years ahead of this kid .
What's with the feet bro? Why is everyone bothered about the feet? Why to hide it? Please explain it to me.
@@RohitPatil-pz6bn Feet are weird.
@@gts2550 Why though the question is why not you to repeat what you think again
I think it'd be fun if you gave them activities to distract themselves from the awkwardness of a first, long date. Usually, when you meet someone you don't have to be talking the whole time. You can enjoy each other company while you listen to music, dance, walk, play board games, etc. Maybe that could help to make it feel like a more casual encounter and less like a trap
Actually, I like the fact that it's "a trap" with no distractions whatsoever. I would love to be in here.
There is a format in the German version where 2 strangers are locked in a slightly larger box for 100 hours with date challenges and at the end they have to decide whether they are in a relationship or never see each other again
@@xGxdeon what's the name of it? I'm so curious right know about it
Now do one with married couples
Id love to see how long term couples talk and spend time in this box!
literally putting any group of people into a box for 12 hours would end up as a good video though. strangers (with no expectation of a date), best friends, couples, siblings, *crushes*
Oh shit this comment blew up
Hey cut, me and my spouse will be together for 9 years in May 👀
Would just sleep half of the 12 hours lol
Prolly just sleep lol
My parents would have eachother dead
How does homeboy not realize she’s mad uncomfortable and if he does realize why is he continuing on
It’s his way of getting comfortable they really don’t realize until you let them know or someone addresses it but even then it’s hard to stop because it’s them being them🫡
@@triin2510 he should have figured that out by now he can restrain himself he’s not an animal
@@goat5208 uh…yeah, yeah he is. We’re human. That’s why we, as humans, react to situations like this in the ways he is.
@@devildogs1147 bruh what
@@goat5208 as a touchy person the fist thing I look for in an awkward situation is touch, even to comfort the other person, I really relate to him in that aspect and I’ve had situations where I didn’t realise the other person was into it. Hence why the produce said to ask for permission which he respected it’s not like he was purposely trying to make her feel uncomfortable infact he was doing the opposite. Different people different coping mechanisms.
he crossed sooo many boundaries i could not
this was the saddest video I’ve ever seen. and that’s crazy to say. just progressively watching the girl learn who this guy is and the guy learn his own personal bad traits about himself was so sad. especially since he even recognized he always sees the bad in other people and now he was just showing the bad to her. just a rough time
8:47 WHEN HE DID THIS I CRINGED SO HARD (and I loved how the Cut guy called him out)
? nobody called him out@@goosecaboose3039
Yeah it is
i think it's healing for him
Love how people behind the camera knew she was uncomfortable and told them to ask permission to touch
yeah that was really relieving watching it. cause i really felt her discomfort
Shouldn't he know not to touch without permission? And Cut also only stepped in 6 hours in, so the fact the warning was even needed and how late the warning came actually made me quite concerned about this guy not knowing consent or boundaries.
@@jacknesbitt240 she literally signed up for staying in a box for 12 hours with a stranger, isnt it common sense that they would touch each other at some point of time? she could have told him if she was feeling uncomfortable; dont think the guy will predict that in advance. and how do u know if he doesnt know about consent, u kid? stop making him a villain, snowflake
@@jacknesbitt240 they only stepped in after he had pull her closer to him by the ankles. You could see the look of panic in her eyes as he grabbed her like that. She laughed it off because he was. but they probably caught it as someone was reviewing the footage when they were either swapping what they use to store it or swapping batteries.
No, this is some psy shit. These 304s need to get outside their comfort zone more.
as a pale person, i love when people compare me to raw chicken on a date, it really sets the mood, thanks kwan
😂
This guy is creepy.
@@mr.perfect2852 No he isnt
@@mr.perfect2852 He's not creepy at all lol. If you're talking about the sex talk, that was a very small amount of what they actually talked about. The way this video was edited makes it seem like that was a major topic, but it was not.
Right like that's an insult 😭
he was so
comfortable touching her.. like when he pulled her in at the 5 minutes where they stared at each other. red flag
What red flag u have problem with touch u need to meet people it’s sad
@@AngadGrewal-df2tx she was clearly uncomfortable, first time meeting someone shouldn’t be like that
Its a weird and uncomfortable experiment. But they both really did everything that was asked of them. Kudos yo both of them.
He most definitely does have a foot femish, literally.. shared socks, talked about feet, had her give him a foot massage, and showed her his toes-
femish?
@@supernathanjr I think youtube will delete the comment if you say the real thing.
@@hihungryimdad Okay
I like how this comment is edited and u still didnt correct ur spelling of 'fetish'
@@adamwahal9817 i did that on purpose bc i assumed itd get auto deleted.
I feel for both of them. She seemed to close off pretty quickly, but I don’t blame her cause they’re clearly very different. As someone who’s love language is touch, I understand why he wanted to be touchy, but she was clearly uncomfortable. I think he was trying to use touch to make her more comfortable (cause that’s how he gets comfortable), but it definitely made her even more uncomfortable
My love language is touch as well so I understood where he was coming from, up until 8:50. Then I was like "whoa dude, what are you doing??"
I wouldn't do that with someone I barely knew. Especially if I met said person for the first time 6 hours ago.
@@Zythus07 exactly!
@@Zythus07 its 12 hours in a box. Being normal kinda get thrown out the window.
My love language is touch too but that doesn't mean I like to be touched by strangers...
@@angelicbaby92 I think people are forgetting they are in a box for 12 hours. People need understand that self control is difficult when your in those uncomfortable situation. its not like 1 hour date at a restaurant.
It takes alot of courage for random strangers to be open with each other, kudos to them FOR REALS
I’m glad the director brought up consent with touching.
As a general rule, if you’re ever stuck in a box for 12 hours on a blind date and you’re showing her your fucked up toe only 2 hours in… the date is not going well.
“I dont have a foot fetnish”
Be so fr bro.. 😔
Sounds like you know from experience....
I just cackled laughing at your comment lmao. I was cringing at his lack of self-awareness, like STOP WITH THE FEET lol
Or well!
Bro I would do that lol just for the meme. I know people who would find that hilarious
Omg I love her vibe, super down to earth and chill. Ahhh let’s be friends!
I would binge watch more of these. It’s always interesting to see how humans connect (or don’t)
I like the girl, she seems like she's in a completely different stage in life than him, so I kinda wish they chose a guy who seemed more serious about her in terms of not trying to kiss her or rush things
Maybe but when you're in a box for 12 hours with someone I think it makes for an interesting conversation. They're trying to find ways to keep themselves occupied for half a day and it wasn't him trying to initiate a casual relationship or anything. Just make it interesting for the both of them. I don't think its necessarily that she's in a different stage in life than him (they could both be looking for something long term). It's just that they're completely different people - she's more reserved and introverted and he's more extroverted. She needs to build a level of comfort with someone before opening up to them whereas he's able to become comfortable with new people much quicker.
they were pretty different maturity wise. I liked both of them but the guy is like young 20s and she's like old 20s
@@nelsondendomo6687 bro they’re the same age 😂😂
@@Anonymous-xr8hx she said no so many times and he should of accept that from the beginning. She was uncomfortable and he kept pushing it. She’s not there to put on a show for y’all and entertain. She doesn’t like him at all and the guy doesn’t understand boundaries
They would've put the chick in one box while the other guy in another box (without knowing how they look like) and start a conversation - if they "click" they reveal themselves and go for a date. Feel bad for the chick though it was awkward to watch tbh not to mention the dude was already being too touchy and comfortable with her smh (when I don't know someone i don't like being touchy or touching someone's hair lol this guy is a huge red flag, one thing is extrovert and the other being way too comfortable) lol
“Ask for permission before any physical touch” that’s was so right, that’s the way it should always be.
no, thats stupid.
@@lowenization silence male
Within the realms of dating/talking phase, I agree 100%. But within a relationship, I don't think asking permission every time is as necessary
@@doktorhypebeast i agree unless its more intimate like intercours and sex and stuf
@@lowenization how? it’s only fair and people should never have to feel forced to do anything they aren’t comfortable with. did you just that for a reaction? or…
14:33 you lost her there😂
Jesus Christ, ikr. He is still damn shameless and just put it in Infront of her.
She’s so beautiful her aura glows.
I like how he says he’s not gonna tell her to kiss him and then he goes ahead and does it anyway
Staff asked him to ask that, be more engaging, and to bring up childhood trauma. Then they put it all in this one shortened video. Watch the UNCUT version, different vibes, he was able to carry the conversation for 12 hours. Unbelievable
@@annamckay6537 was the uncut version 12 hours long lol
@@sophiel9533 12 hours is long. But I felt the need to bring awareness and the truth. This shortened version basically set him up for failure for future dates. People take this for face value, when in reality hes a good kid, handsome, and has good heart.
@@annamckay6537 exactly, he's growing
@@annamckay6537 do you know him just curious how you found this out
The GUY has the looks. But literally flirts like a teenager.
Dude pushing 30 man
MadeInTejas 😂😂
The girl is gorgeous too wym
@@DaggerGee the girl doesn't want the guy to think she's easy to get. That's a sign of a matured woman right there.
@@Chuwopington do you think it’s impossible to look good in your late 20s?
He gives me so many red flagssssss
Like?
guess not@@rushabhgothi8880
@@rushabhgothi8880dude his obsession over sex and touching her and feet is not enough for you? You can see the creepiness and uncomfortable feeling just filling her
the foot rub, did u see the look on her face??
@@rushabhgothi8880
What he was cool why judge so much
I know I'm a little late, but I loved that experiment. If anyone would actually want to have a straight 12 hour conversation with a stranger, I would be totally down for it.
i hope people understand how long 12hrs is, I would have slept for like an hour in between
We filmed another group that you’ll see next week. They do indeed take a nap.
@@cut ahh my type of people, hopefully they didn't sleep because they were too awk to speak
Lmao same
I suffer from insomnia...I have had 36 hours of no sleep.
@@cut did they cuddle?
He seems emotionally immature and I think her hunch about him not wanting/being able to handle a serious relationship was accurate. I do feel bad for him and hope he gives therapy a shot one day. As for her, I think she handled this very well despite clearly not wanting to be there after the first few hours lmao. She remained sweet even through her obvious discomfort and that takes a lot.
I feel like this was a silly challenge for her to try. she seems hella boring and closed off. That's not a bad thing but i think he did the best he could to try and not be bored for 12 hours lol. I was bored just watching 😂
Agreed
@@yazzy_wazzy1 I agreee w that
@@yazzy_wazzy1 tbh i just felt like she wasnt compatible w him not boring, probably would be more open w someone else
@@yazzy_wazzy1 I definitely feel like she seemed boring because she didn’t really like him. If you enjoy someone as a person you’ll want to open up more of your personality to them.
Can you do more of the “Trapped in a box for 12 hours with my blind date” videos? I rewatched them so many times😅
He got way too comfortable way too fast and she was clearly not into him
I’m glad the guy behind the camera set the boundary about physical touch because he could read that she was uncomfortable. That was appreciated :))))
@UC-a97w0BiqNEbjhH9hDcp1g I checked out the time stamp for it in the full version, at around 6 hours and 3 mins while he’s gone to the bathroom, they ask her if they should bring up asking permission before touching. She said yes and when he came back, they set the boundary.
@@alex20011999 he even asked her permission about permission 👏👏👏
Wish Cut had that already talked about from the start. They should honestly do that for most of their series since touch is involved in a lot of the dares and stuff. Def would be better if they looked at other spaces that led with consent first disclaimer talk (kinda like having to sign a waiver confirming all participates know this) and make a requirement in the events/places they plan.
@@erincurley1234 Yes I'm thinking it needs to be on camera when they start, that they each agree to ask the other person before stretching out and taking up space that it's ok to touch and overlap. I'm disappointed that they didn't do this first thing, and even if they did, it seems like they didn't reinforce the rule until later.
If they do more episodes they should say it from the start
Everytime he touched her, her score for him went down and once he stopped touching her (because the producers stepped in), her score for him started to go up again. She went from saying she finds him attractive to saying she could only see them as friends. If this doesn't prove that asking consent, permission or (at the very least) where their comfortability level with certain acts is is important then idk what does.
you are delusional. she only had points go up again cause she felt relieved that he stopped touching and so she wanted to reward him with the "friend zone". Yay
Or you know, it could've just been that as time went on she got to speak with him more to understand him as a person and got past just looks? What you're saying is very important but this is not a good example of it
@@aidennicholson2109 This doesn't track because she was scoring him highly at first when she didn't know him and was basing it off looks. She then scored him high again as they began to talk and get to know each other. He started to touch her without permission an she visibly physically retreated and was uncomfortable. She then scored him lower despite them getting along and talking. He continued to touch her and her score continued to drop. She asked the producers to stop him touching her and they did. They continued to to talk but with no physical interaction and she then scored him slightly higher. As they continued to talk with no physical interaction, her score of him continued to rise. At the end she scored him highly since they got along but said that as she got to know him, she realised they weren't in the same place in life.
That's all to say that if looks was something she had to get past, her initial score wouldn't have been so high. She was scoring him high based off good initial physical attraction. If his personality was the issue then her end score should have been lower and she should have continued to score him low as she got to know him. If she was liking certain parts of his personality and not liking others and that was the issue then we should have seen more random jumps in her score based on that instead of the straight down curve it took. Even though she cited their goals etc as the reason for not wanting to see him again, she still scored him high proving that she liked him, personality and looks, overall. So if looks earned him high scores and personality scored him high scores then the touching (during which she was so physically uncomfortable) is the only anomaly. The timing (high before touching, low during touching, immediately higher again right after no touching) seems like more than just coincidence.
None of this is fact of course. No one can now what was going through her head except her but it is a reasonable conclusion to draw if you look at the data objectively (including the fact that she didn't feel safe asserting herself and telling him she's uncomfortable and what that says about her personality as well as what it says about his that he completely missed all the social cues signaling her discomfort). I could go on as I have a huge interest in and am studying human behavior so stuff like this where you get to analyze it is super interesting to me but this is already too long for a yt comment section. If you (still) think I'm wrong though, I would love to hear a deeper breakdown of exactly why you feel that way.
Uh don’t ask for consent that’s just weird , you’ll know when a girl wants physical tough trust me, He was trying way to hard that’s it.
@@anthonyolmos9176 clearly not considering the video lol
Yea that guys was right about the boundaries. She definitely was uncomfortable 9:18
Hes not a creep trust me, in the uncut version he and she had a very VERY good bond until the second hour, which was when the producers stepped in and started asking him to be sexual and touchy for "entertainment" which lead to him and her's bond being completely broken because she had no idea he was being pressured into doing so. The man was able to make her laugh and get comfortable with her, and he also asked for consent. But then the producers did him bad again by telling him to be more touchy after his 2nd bathroom break. He did which then they basically framed him because right when he did what they asked him to DO they went up and told him to be comfortable with her boundaries.
@@Unairu_PSFwow good job with this response
This vid gave me the idea of why im not ready for serious relationship. In my 23 i behave like this guy and need to learn more maturity, he's like a mirror of mine and i can see different things from this perspective.
9:15 i love how the crew see she's uncomfortable and steps in to help her feel more comfortable in the situation.... Good on you guys at CUT!
Even I felt uncomfortable...
Like when he grabbed her legs I literally shuddered I was so uncomfortable. Like ik i as a person in that situation I would have moved away from the touch
It’s obvious that he is trying to get closer to her and get to know her. But he made it look weird.
I'm a dude and I felt uncomfortable
And just look at the expression he makes when they say that!!
the way he says “she’s not like most girls i talk to” after having a the most surface level conversation about emotions you can have
LOL
They didn’t show the whole convo, they probably talked about deeper things that were maybe too personal to keep in the final video
Guys a raised to hide that stuff
LMAO
Men☕️
8:50 onward made me shiver jfc
Such a good experiment idea. It's like your anxiety goes away because they can't leave you.
Yes, the prey can't escape 😂 Jk, but I like how you bumbled into that phrasing 😅
i feel like this was would be super interesting to do with an already married couple. i’d love to try this out with my husband
I was literally just thinking this
I hope they can notice this comment, i want to watch that.
We already saw it in "YOU" apparently it works.
Omg I would love to do this with my husband too. I feel like it would low key turn into a therapy session.
Yes commenting for the algorithm
“I don’t have a foot fetish”
“Switch socks with me for the rest of the episode”
“I would gladly take a foot rub”
Bro chill with the feet💀
Yo 😭😭
FR
that was so gross!
Dude is such a weirdo...
@@smoontiex In the full version she says she's attracted to feet. They just cut out all of her cringe moments to make him look bad.
so interesting how much more confident they get over time, id love to try this
she's uncomfortable during a lot of this video and it's important we all see that and think about why
i feel exactly like this man everything he says i feel him so much
she’s mad brave for wearing jeans- i would have worn sweats lmao
Ligma
Or like leggings and a dress that's so comfy its practically a nightgown
Pretty sure they don't know what video their going to be in sometimes.. Its a suprise when they get there.
@@tannershanksftw im, pretty sure if their spending 12 hours in a box they've been told beforehand
@@tannershanksftw they didn't know what vid they would be in? What u think random people show up on set not knowing what they will do for 12 hours?
I think the coolest thing was being able to see how over time their feelings began to change. the scoring definitely helped for us to follow along!
😁
I love you
I love you 🚘🚗❤❤💑💌💌💍💍🌷🌷🌹🌹🌺🌺
at 14:46 he totally crossed bounries because like ask if she wantde to give you a foot massage cause you can tell she was uncomfortable.
I like them both, she’s very humble, quiet, sweet, and the dude was also very open and comfortable :)) I do think that she didn’t feel as comfortable as him and she wasn’t as touchy but this was so cool to watch (ps: give the person who makes these ideas a raise)
Dude was being a little too touchy feely and his date was visibly uncomfortable. I’m glad something was said about it.
RIGHTTTTT HE KEPT PULLING HER WEIRDLY I WAS LIKE BROO.?
@@imnotsure4864 LEGIT
@@imnotsure4864 different ways of coping he’s clearly more touchy but none the less good on the producer
In the Uncut version they told him to be more touchy and stuff
As fun and brutal as this is, I would love to see this with seasoned couples. Like a really elderly pair, or newlyweds would be interesting.
yessss
I’d be scared for the backs of the elderly people tough. So maybe a bigger box? 😂
Viola Fehring they can have rocking chairs in there or something 😂
@@vivigoesusa maybe get them a chair or smth 😭😭
Omg newlyweds would be interested 😂
13:44 such a genuine reaction my jaw dropped when I heard that too lmao
This is a really interesting experiment. As you see two people react to each other over multiple hours. Pls more!
She’s not just beautiful, she also has a very calm and relaxed demeanor, she’s very mature and emotionally intelligent. The silent attractive type. He had the teenage spirit, lacked a little awareness but goofy and a little insecure, she was spot on when she said "he avoids some topics". They are not compatible with each other.
watch the full version, they left alot out to portray her as a "goddess" (I don't really like that word but it's accurate)
@@Xous_ wheres the full version
she wants you bro fr
@@Xous_ tell us where to find the full version
thats exactly what i was thinking
i’ve felt exactly like she’s felt before on a first date so this is bringing up feelings i didn’t expect to feel lmao
omg, same
Yes lol… wanting so badly to like this person but just not being able to
@Nonaya Bidness yes only a women condition
right these are moments that off camera, men take advantage of women for.
@Nonaya Bidness but you’re the one who said it’s a female condition
i love what they did around 9:20 the was very attentive and a well Chosen Action in my eyes
caption says (Beethoven music plays) while mozart is playing
I love people like you
@@harveysengers1379 appreciate it
He definitely made her uncomfortable and it's obvious before even admitting himself that he lacks self-awareness. Whenever she brought up therapy as a way to help him understand his own personal issues he took it like an insult and brushed it off like he didn't need it. Also when she clearly stated she dislikes anything to do with feet he kept trying to push and stay on the topic. I don't blame her for lowering her rating of him each time.
well this was extremely edited i kind of skimmed through the 12 hour unedited and it definitely portrays them both differently this was 20 minutes of 12 hours. Her score even went back up near the end.
I haven't watched the video and seeing the comments it looks like the dude was a real dk. But if you think it's OK to tell people you barely know how "therapy would help them" don't be surprised if they take it as an insult.
It's pretty dismissive when you're trying to open up about your problems and how you're working on them and someone just yells "TERAPHY". I know it's with good intentions but it's a conversation stopper there
@@marchingclocks It's a conversation stopped for people who aren't qualified to give you life advice to recommend you to people who are qualified to give you life advice? Why do ppl think they're entitiled to trauma dump on people and get mad when people tell them to do it to somebody who actually wants to hear it. These people don't even know eachother. Why would she want to listen to his personal issues???
@@queerlibtardhippie9357 I mean I haven't watch the whole thing but if we are talking about this edit two sentences about his feelings don't count as trauma dumping for me...
I admire how brave some folks are. I could never date on camera, it'd be so embarrasing. But, it's not like I'm dating off camera so I'm not supposed to judge
That's okay Luffy, you have more important things to take care of right now!
They are being paid dude lol
Same !
you have been dating boa off camera?
@@azzicarl Heck no!
I'd rather date Nami *^_^*
But ~shhh~ don't tell her!
i would run out of questions so fast, this is actually really impressive
god i am fan of her calmness
This is horrifying 😀 not sure why it took the producers that long to realize she was uncomfortable. They should've set boundaries from the very start
You have to watch the uncut to understand apparently
i cringed so hard when he put his head on her lap. yikes!!!!!
@@notreubensandwich me too
I don’t think they’re in the room they come back and check periodically
@@notreubensandwich yeah lmao i wonder why she didnt want to date him
That woman is gorgeous and her personality is iconic.
She’s like from a movie
@@daniellephillips638 Manic Pixie Dream Girl, (falsely, as far as I saw) providing him with her slightly weird therapy-urge ....
Women are so superficial and easy to use words like „iconic“ to label someone that seems like they have the personality of a potato plant
@@manfredschmalbach9023 everyone needs it
@@sayJessg Of course, most do need it even essentially before You could start thinking remotely about discussing anything along any form of relationship. BUT, and that is a BUT in capitals: With therapy it is the exact same like with stopping to drink or stopping to do drugs - You can only do it on Your own for Your own. Once You do it to make Your "partner" stop nagging and menacing about it, it will become a failure of some sort and will be mostly couterproductive within the "partnership" because none of both will achieve what they aimed for with a therapy on the other one's behalf.
i would like to see more kinds of these videos but just with more boundaries
This is a great idea definitely shows immediate connection or not in small places.
You can see her physically recoil from him almost every time he invites himself into her space.
You see her legs crossed and her leaning further into the corner while he spreads his legs, and at multiple points his entire body, more into her space. His lack of noticing is really telling.
nah he knows exactly what he's doing. But he is being just lowkey enough about it, so its hard to call out. Like the sexual questions, pushing physical boundaries further and further while pretending like it's casual/normal, the uncomfortable trauma dumping - literally this man mirrors the behavior of so many creepy dudes i've met, so closely
U should prolly watch the full 12 cuz some ppl did and they’re on his side.
@@KEML1256 this!
@@KEML1256 fr
Are you cringe? What is talkig for
It’s brutal that the space isn’t big enough to stand up in or have any cushions. This is torture in a different context.
Els it wouldn’t be called trapped in a box, it would be called trapped in a room
That’s how Jail felt like for one night except I did get a cushion. 🥲
I know I would’ve had leg cramps after an hour bleh
@@saskialolla4621 then call it trapped in a effing room
She could’ve not signed for this or just left?💀💀💀
I always think of this in a date, like a transparent box were in, and in a black void, but there is enough light to see them and trapped I think
Watching this and just hearing friends by both, just damn
I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU SAID FOR THEM TO ASK PERMISSION BEFORE TOUCHING!!! When i was younger I used to be the type of person who didn't know how to tell people to stop touching me if I was uncomfortable and would just laugh it off
They are both adults. If they can't say please don't touch me like that, they don't need to be leaving the house to begin with.
I mean, I'd be happier if it didn't seem like they only just thought of basic rules like that halfway through it.
@@JoshinDallas it doesn't matter if they're adults or not, just don't touch people without their permission that's it!
THEY ARE IN A BOX TOGETHER FOR 12 HOURS! The touching wasn’t even bad and if your that insecure, then challenge yourself to grow and expand rather than live with it and bitch about being *iNsEcUrE*
@@JoshinDallas if you can't touch strangers without their permission, don't leave the house
i really like this concept but i do think they should ask them every hour if they want to continue with the date or not because 12 hours is a really long time. i also think that they should find people who are similar to each other and who will actually click throughout that amount of time. :)
nah, the whole point is to have people see how things evolve over a long period of time. if they had the option, people would just bail when it gets quiet or awkward
they kinda did if u watch the full version, blaine checks in on them every half hour and a couple times he asked if she wanted to leave the box
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@@sammie1766 you watched the whole 12 hour video?!?
@@flashbackmary9050 yes i did lmao
She is so heartwarming
crazy how hes being so touchy and then gives her a 4, she seems like a great girl
This definitely will not work out lmao. And she is absolutely right, he NEEDS therapy and he NEEDS to open and accept being uncomfortable and vulnerable with everything about himself. Also, I laugh and smile at serious things as a coping mechanism when I am feeling awkward, anxious, or vulnerable aswell.
He doesn’t need anything, people cope in different ways
Sounds like you need therapy too!
yea people who refuse therapy or say "i do self therapy" is a red flag for me 😶
People say men need to be more vulnerable but then will criticize and belittle them. I've seen it too many times.
@@jayholt4971 yeah but OTHER MEN are the ones criticizing and belittling them
It was so awkward watching her be uncomfortable for those 19 minutes imagine watchin the full 12 hours 😭😭😭
FR
In the Uncut 12 hour one you could tell they did him dirty as he was a funny dude and they seemed to have a great time in it
Channels like this do that on purpose to get the views. They either make the video very interesting or uncomfortable
Hes not a creep trust me, in the uncut version he and she had a very VERY good bond until the second hour, which was when the producers stepped in and started asking him to be sexual and touchy for "entertainment" which lead to him and her's bond being completely broken because she had no idea he was being pressured into doing so. The man was able to make her laugh and get comfortable with her, and he also asked for consent. But then the producers did him bad again by telling him to be more touchy after his 2nd bathroom break. He did which then they basically framed him because right when he did what they asked him to DO they went up and told him to be comfortable with her boundaries.
11:51 what….
My favorite cut video ❤️
The way the guy kept asking her sexual questions like "at what point do you sleep with someone" and "am I the type of person you'd sleep with"... possibly hinting that he wants to and she was clearly uninterested it was so cringe
ikr, and was wondering if sex is the only thing on his mind
He was showing his emotional immaturity at this point. Cringe.
It’s a 12 hour date. Relax cupcake.
@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN when was i not relaxed...just stating it was cringe because it was😁
I mean it could the editors doing that. Haven't check the full 12hours though
Maybe you guys should do check-ins every few hours to see if they still want to continue the date OR at the start, give them like 20 minutes to see if they like them on first impressions enough to continue with the full 12 hours - and if not, change the pairing
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@@sdrawkcabmiay Well she clearly was not attracted to him right off the jump, so they need at at the very LEAST make sure they are attracted to each other because that is a baseline you need. otherwise youll get a cringey video like this where they feel at a 5/10 most of the video. its not cute to watch.
I think it would be better with new couples or at least recent hook-ups. I think people like the strangers-to-lovers troupe but it's just not realistic.
In an experiment you always have the option to opt out of it at any time if they felt uncomfortable or weird
@@katieanne4705 technically yes, but in reality a lot of people would feel pressured to stay and go along with what's happening. If you're stuck with someone in a box - especially with someone who takes up a lot of space emotionally - you're more likely to try and make sure you don't ruin the "vibe". There should have been more check ins and clear agreed boundaries from the beginning, with a safe environment in which it feels very easy to say no.
i’m so glad the producer stepped in to tell that creep to stop
He wasn’t creepy 💀
@@user-yo1he6su5uyes he was💀
creep💀😭
Honestly he seems like a really nice and cool guy, and especially since he’s dealt with trauma it would be easier to relate to him too.
He’s *experienced* trauma… not dealt with it. Dude needs therapy. Please see that or you’ll attract toxicity in your relationships.
@@ms.hjohnson6820 Yes I know, but people who don’t know real trauma
don’t ever know what some people have gone through, he can get therapy but he’s not going to forget his past.
he's a predator with no grasp on female autonomy
I ❤ 🦶
bro is meeting another human being for the first time
She gives me Dakota Johnson vibes, she's so calm, inteligent and cool, and she definitely looks like her 💕💕
I thought so too
Omgg yes
Omg I had the same thought
I was searching for this comment bro. Like I was thinking that so hard seriously she’s so beautiful
It's the bangs.... thats pretty much it
Proud of her for not feeling pressured to do anything just bc there was a camera.
What this experiment really shows is that video edits can portray a person to be a certain way and how people judge very quickly based on only what they saw. 12hrs is a looong time and for the guy to hold up the conversation, he's gotta do some bold moves and especially in a tiny empty space without anything to do. Props to him for being able to open up and share his vulnerabilities in a public space.
16:21 where do i start
He has sooooo much growing to do and it’s obvious he could benefit from deeper connections. This might just be his first real mental connection, that’s why he was emotionally attached by the end.
I would LOVE to be both of their friends. Hers for a mature and genuine connection, his for lighthearted fun.
The typical dude response about therapy killed me, I hate that it has such a bad stigma. He would love it.
I agree. He's not at a place in life where he should be looking to going into a relationship at all. Let alone a serious one. The woman was mature and I hope he gets to see from that example and tries to pave his way towards a better life. Mentally, physically, morally and spiritually.
@@saad6948 i hope she isn't traumatized from that experience cause she seems like a human with a fragile psych
That is so true.
are you his therapist, cuz you are on point
Love that the Cut producer/director pointed out that they need to ask permission before touching each other! The way he was touching her around 8:50 would've made me feel insanely uncomfortable.
right. i’m glad they said something
SHIT SO DUMB if she had a problem with it she could have said something.
imho 6 hours is too late :/ the bar is so low but we should lift it a little and expect better from "dating experiment" producers. Yes he's responsible for his actions - but he felt able to do that on camera because those boundaries + expectations weren't made clear in the beginning (as far as we know).
I died laughing at this part🤣🤣🤣
@@tonyflamingosucks6590 for sure, idk what was stated to participants beforehand but clearly some rules need to be clarified - that includes asking consent, checking in regularly and always holding the expectation that someone might say no or change their mind about something. these are the rules set in adult s*xual spaces/events so why not in dating experiments too? hope that makes sense
Can we agree that whatever we think about the guy and his growing , him seeing this video, the millions and millions of views , 130k likes, all these very detailed ( but nice and genuine ) critiques about him, seeing that he could’ve done this much better, 100% percent helped him grow and become more self aware about most of these topics . I feel for the guy. I know he grew from it tho so I salute him . Going this viral and constantly still being exposed to new people daily from this very popular video would shock anyone into better habits for the most part .
She was clearly not feeling him especially with the touch and requests and personal questions and overall dude is just the type to do one night stands as to also why his relationships don’t last, he moves and take things too fast, he’s so forward, unhinged, touchy etc etc
“I don’t have a foot fetish!” proceeds to work feet into every other game/topic
FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT
and he is very touch entered around the legs/feet too 😭
Its not really a fetish though, it was a few times throughout half an entire day, and he said he had a foot appreciation, also, they put in multiple clips about the foot stuff in this 20 minute version on purpose.
also the monitors/supervisors suggested most of the stuff like the foot massage its all in the uncut version, they just removed a lot of context and all of their actual bonding moments
He does and he's probably not comfortable to express it which is totally normal. Would be better if the other person was more comfortable with it, or anything with him in general, though.
It’s funny how I started off meh about the girl, and grew to admire her within this video. I’m so impressed with her boundaries, and how even though he tried to push them in the slightest way, she still did not give in. Those are healthy boundaries.
Yeah she seemed so nice. And beautiful as well.
You are impressed with her boundaries? Thats one of the lamest comments I ve ever read…
What
Might as well salute her for breathing
@@stipebokarica8783 lmao why u so mad about boundaries
Love this concept. I'd like to try it. Seems scary at first though. 12 hours is a long time.
You can see him starting to like her more and more throughout ... it's so cute!
And you can see how she's getting more and more uncomfortable and wanna get tf out of there as soon as possible