My mother married a white man and I immigrated to Australia when I was a child. When I was growing up I was surrounded by asian women who married white men. More often than not I see these women work very hard to earn money, raise their children, doing work around the house and 'serve' their husband. And yet the husbands are disrespectful, lazy and ungrateful. Disrespecting their wife as a woman of race and their culture. These women get treated like a slave when they should highly be applaud for all their daily hardwork. I cried everyday for years as a child growing up and seeing my mother being treated in such a way. And yet she still tells me to be grateful to him. It makes me furious. Just because I am in a 'better' country due to my mother marrying a white men. That doesnt mean that WE are that men doormat. But the problem is, there is not one single person outside of our home who knows what's really going on inside. The reality is even though I was raised in poverty back in Asia but I had a childhood and was happy. And when I moved to the 'free' country I felt that all my childhood was robbed from me and I was locked in a box with tears and aching heart as my daily bread. I felt so alone and hopeless. So dont look badly on these Asian women. Because these women have to be one of the hardest working and strongest women I ever met. All women should be respected. No matter the race or background.
Men like your mothers husband behave that way to plenty of 'white women' too,white,black,brown and yellow,they hunt out women they can dominate bully and control so 'buying Asian brides' as it's called is just another fork off the bullies track when they fail to trick another 'white' national woman or want to speed up the process and bypass all the effort of dating and having to pretend to be who they are not. I don't think anyone looks badly on any women who honestly just wishes to lift themselves and their children out of poverty and constant struggle, we look badly on horrible dominating bullies like your mothers husband who abuse and trick vulnerable,nice women
Thanks for sharing your story. I was wondering how local people interact with these foreign women in the island. Aren't their children discriminated against at school by other children or maybe eben teachers? If these children are brighter than local children, do these children get jealous of the half Asian children? I live in the States as an Asian woman with English as a second language. When white males approach me, I get an impression of them as overly confident as if they already knew I would be honored. That being said Asian women are more likely seen as "less than" by white men; therefore, Asian women should be graceful to be approached by white men. This is why I think women should be educated(instead of men to be educated) to be independent for their freedom. When women need to depend on men, some men take advantage of them. Unfortunately, we cannot control these men's mentality and their behavior to respect women.
I’m half-Thai and English and get called a prostitute allllll the time. My mum always loved my dad, until the day he passed away. Imagine being a medical student, like me, and getting called a prostitute once a week my your patients and people on the streets. Please don’tV paint the picture that ALL Thai girls are prostitutes, many of us are educated and work hard. UPDATE: it’s been 2 year, I wrote this in my 1st year med school and now that I’m in clinical year (at hospital everyday), I can confirm that it doesn’t get better. I want to clearly state that prostitutes are also most likely educated people and we shouldn’t judge someone by their need to stay alive (unless it hurts others). I want to thank everyone who supports the Black Lives Matter movement, as my school is now looking into the inequalities BAME students face in practice. To my fellow females and POC, or anyone who is judged by their sexuality or appearance or heritage, let’s support each other.
My father is white, my mum is thai, I am male and look more Thai than white. My dad doesn’t say and he tries but I can tell he is distant and looks disappointed in me. he cannot see himself in me. Although They never said, it felt like my dad looked down on thai men like he was superior, he didn’t think that he would have to raise, love and understand one, his son. I was so thankful when I got into uni and moved out.
Great human stupidity is an attempt at self-deception. Especially under the influence of idiotic modern trends. Human nature is an established mechanism, physical and, more importantly, psycho-emotional. And we are trying to deceive this mechanism. Stupidity. People are unhappy, as a result, trying in various stupid ways to become happier, we drive ourselves into misfortune even more. Nature is always higher than human. Don't do anything about it. People are stupid and vicious precisely because they are people. It just needs to be accepted and forgiven. We are far from perfect. Good luck buddy.
Not to dismiss your instincts, but sometimes assumptions can be wrong, maybe a Heart to heart with your dad could clarify, at the worst, he could confirm what you felt all along, but maybe the distancing was more about him than you, and he could let you know that, you may have picked up on the energies but concluded different perceptions than what he was feeling or thinking. You’ll never know for sure unless you ask. It took my mom being on her deathbed for us to have a meaningful conversation and heal a lifetime of estrangement.
Give her credit for giving up her life in her country in exchange for a better life-style in a faraway country with her true soul mate...awesome story..enjoyed watching this video..
It's not about love and respect. It's about males wanting someone who they think is dumb to the laws that they can therefore control. Same reason they aim for much younger females. Nothing about love. Business and ego.
@@barbymadison878 well the women are also looking for an easy way out….out of their shanties in their third world homes. Why work for it when you can just marry into it, right?
Wow Mary Joy can speak 3 languages, is a supervisor, went to university, and is an awesome mum to 3 (now 4) children! I am happy to watch this video :) most of the videos I have been watching at of Filipino women being exploited and/ or marrying for the wrong reasons. This is so refreshing to watch.
Don’t judge, these women are looking for a better life and these men are looking for a wife , everyone benefits, this probably happens a lot around the world and watching this video looks like everyone is happy and I’m happy for them 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🇵🇹
Yes exactly, it doesn't matter how it begins as long as they are kind to each other. There are many good signs showing: the women speak of greater equality, they choose to follow their family members their after visiting and seeing the situation for themselves and still say years on that they prefer it, the single man expressed concern for not hearing the voices of these women enough, the 100% Filipino children who came with their mothers are treated well enough that they prefer it... There are other marriages that do not go well, but that is true around the world for all marriages. Humans are always a mixed lot. The conditions overall seem to be decent and humane for everyone involved, certainly better than in many other places in the world. It is a good sign that the divorced Thai woman was able to buy a home and a car, that she likes her job. The fact that she was able to get a visa and can choose to make her home there indicates the laws and conditions are much more fair than in many other places. I have no doubt it was hard for her--divorce always is--but we can only judge if the laws and conditions are fair and humane.
I think the video title should be rephrased to Faroese men looking for love in Asia. Clearly, not all, but many Asians, those who come from poor backgrounds are after the better opportunities, not love, while many Faroese men are trying to gain power at home by marrying women who are more likely to take on traditional roles.
Then base on what you initially say looking for love it should be looking for caretakers or maids. The single man in the video said it well. He wants a traditional woman. One who would do things for him. Like the Filipina who made the fried fish in the beginning of the video. But she educated herself, has a job and even learned the Faroe language so she wears many hats.
Sofia You are seeing it in reverse. It's the women gaining power by marrying outside of a misogynistic culture that suppresses women. In the faroes they can be whoever they want to be. And the men are just awkward, that's why they opt for a partner that's less hard to attract.
neejohnenjegek Kiv "It's the women gaining power by marrying outside of a misogynistic culture that suppresses women." You are actually wrong. Many of my fellow Filipinas marry foreign men because they see it as a way to get better jobs and a better future for their loved ones back home. You have no idea what you're going on about. Women in the Philippines actually have a much more equal treatment to men compared to any Asian country. They're breadwinners. This is just one way they see to provide for their families back home.
I am pleased to say that I am married to a Philippine lady who I think is the the most beautiful person on earth. She has brought into my life a sense of family, love and care. She makes me beautiful food, keeps our home clean and tidy and loves me with all her heart. I cannot ask for anymore in my life. I look forward to having children with her and further enjoying good family life and blessings for the future. I applaud the courage these women have to travel to such far destinations from their family and homeland and the work they do to knit together hope for men who's lives are lonely and sometimes lost. Just like any relationship no matter what the nationalities involved, it takes time to get to know each other before marriage, but negative comments that have been put here are uncalled for and aim to tarnish even the good relationships. I suggest if you don't have anything positive to say, then don't say anything. From the content of the heart the mouth speaks. Evil words, evil heart.
It's because Filipinas don't see your face. Just an escape. For them and kind of security But sooner or later they will go back home....They don't like butterfaces ..just guapos like😉✌
The lady is a shy type of a woman to show her affection to her husband infront of other people, especially to the camera. This is common to many of the Filipinos who used to live in the Philippine countryside.
To the people commenting about the Filipino lady being uncomfortable at the dinner table, i would be uncomfortable if someone was filming me showing PDA or anything like that, too. Especially when she can get judged by people like the ones in the comments.
That Thai lady is indeed so pretty, and if she wants to be on her own, then more power to her, but she could easily get another man with that face and hair. And if she does meet another man, she will now have the experience and wisdom to take things slowly.
so basically out of the 300 women , 299 are Filipinos. gotcha.the title is very misleading. it should say, "the Faroe Islands are importing women from the Philippines. "
oh, snowflake is sad.. truth hurts , huh?? btw, such a well thought out and intelligent response to my post. lol!! let me guess, you're married to a flip?? come back when you have a more articulate response then you and I have a more sustainable debate on why you disagree with my post.
You see western women can find any single man with resources just like the Asian women are doing . But the west women look for rich men first . The is making them look for women that have better home training . Thailand women are not like that . They more into the western lifestyle looking to see who has the most money
As a filipina myself, this is a difficult subject to to talked about. But seeing as i see a lot of prejudiced comments being thrown here, i’ll try to give a perspective about what its really like. There are women who seeks a better life than what our country or our men can offer. Poverty, lack of education and sometimes pressure from family to provide for them makes it an easier choice for some to try and marry older foreigner men who they think can help to better their lives. And most of the time it does happen. These women gets to immigrate in their husband’s country where access to health, education and most importantly a higher salary, these things are greater than the slums and hardship theyre used to back home. It is a culture happening even now. Even family members urged their daughters or nieces to marry men like that because they think our own men are no good compared to foreigners. They think being white also equals to better bank accounts. And while you see these women as opportunists or gold diggers, their story is not for you to judged. BUT i know women who learns to eventually love their husbands and are very loyal to them, love is quiet thing that grows within them, when i asked them how, they told me that their husbands are equally loving and caring, 2 qualities that warms a woman’s heart. I know women who raised their children and give them the childhood they never had. I know how these women provides for their family back home by their earnings they get abroad. These women are generous, selfless and they have a kind heart. It is very unfair to automatically assume the worst of them just because of the choices they made. As if they have options and opportunities like those in the rich countries in the first place. As if its not hard enough as it already is to leave the comforts of home and settle in a different country with a different language and an even different culture or weather and much worse, leaving the people you love behind in the pursuits of having more. When someone offers you a much better quality of life than what you had back home, wouldnt you want to grab that immediately and hold on to that hoping and dreaming against all odds that it is finally your answer to all your problems? These women feels that way. Their circumstances are very different from yours so you dont get to raised your flags as if you are so much better than them. You’re not.
Nice to read a considered, balanced and thoughtful comment. I feel as you....."don't judge lest ye be judged" and all that. As an aside, I lived on the Shetland Isles, the most northerly part of the United Kingdom, just for one Winter......never been so cold in my life! Lol.
Cy Star...The bottom line is that the parents of these "girls" want better lives for themselves (not daughters) thru their wealthier WHITE son in laws. The parents pimp their daughters out & care less about their daughter's future.
There are women and women, so don’t get confused with it. You are right, it’s all about how you were raised. I emigrated to another country for better life... without a man. My daughter was 10 month old when I got divorced and her and I went on a adventure. I didn’t need a man to help me out, I did it alone so don’t tell me that you need a man to get things done. I went from business to business to ask for a job and i have to say that I was never jobless for more than a week or so. Yeah, of course you learn to love people you are surrounded with, that goes for your coworkers, neighbors etc, that’s just a bs excuse to convince yourself that you didn’t do anything wrong. My heart is clean because I didn’t have to lie to anybody that I love them. How about you?
Really ??? Life is not easy everywhere, but people try to make the best of it, but Filipinos always try to escape, instead of fixing their problems in their own country, if one finds the way , he/she brings the whole village, starting to overwhelm and hate the population of the country where they are guests themselves, why is that???
I am southeast Asian girl, I am well educated, I am not poor and I am not a bargirl. I have had been in relationship with people from all races and all colours, so what? We fall in love with people, not money. Well of course there are some southeast Asian girls are money diggers, but do not blame the whole race because of the act of small group of people! p/s: English is not my native language.
Nur Hidayah Karim don't lie to yourself. Everybody knows you and the rest of them are gold diggers to escape poverty and so u can show off a white man to your people back home who also know you're a gold digger
To each his/her own... love is everywhere. love is a refuge. race, color, age, size and shape are not to define a person but how you carry yourself and conquer the world...
I love how respectful and warm the interviewer is. A lot of times in find these interviewers have a presumption about Asian women marrying away from home.
Exploitation of Asian women, it's Asian men's responsibility to fight back because they don't know what they're doing, since men were evolved to protect their women with their lives.
@@chrisnamaste3572 It was Mutual. Native Faroese Women went to other places to look for a better life. The bachelors were left at there own expense with no girls to marry.
In reality not all are looking for love.they are looking for comfortable life. Some guys also looking for young Asian women. They are young fresh, loyal and loving women.
I admire the Thai woman. She's strong and independent. I'm happy for her. I am Filipino but man, I kinda cringed when I learned that Mary Joy's mom and sister also married Faroese men. However, I'm not judging them or anything. I think MJ is an amazing, smart woman. I think that like most Filipinos, they just wanted a better life. A better future. I hope people realize that we are not all born with equal opportunities. Not all of us can afford to follow our dreams and marry who we love. A lot of Filipinos are born poor. There isn't anything wrong in wanting to have a better future as long as they are not hurting anybody or breaking any law. It's their life and they should be entitled to do whatever they think will be good for them.
A cold island that needs a warm touch by Filipinas. It is just a give and take situation. Faroese men assured safety to the Filipinas and as a gratitude they give back warm love and care. Life is just as simple as that, just be kind to each other and everything works, hardships are bearable and sacrifice is easy. Love comes eventually.
@@forreal245 Any woman regardless of ethnicity or race, heck even a transgender gets motivated with $$$$ 😁😂. Why do you think Lauren Sanchez is proud to have cheated with Bezos ehhhh? 😁😁🤣
No she did not speak the truth you don’t know what she did before this she is a horrible person I just because you see a nice looking apple don’t mean it’s good on the inside she is rotten on the inside treated everyone badly she did not get the money to purchase that house by herself nothing independent about her at all
there's a proverb "Tamarind on the mountain, salt in the sea meet in the one pot." meaning even two persons of different backgrounds / from distant places can meet and eventually get married,
Stop lying to yourself it is about love that is all they have is single males of all ages with old ladies that can't make any kids . And they Thailand women are making asian people look bad . They life style is more like western women looking for the rich men to marry .
AnthroP Like every relationship this matters must, but don’t forget that mutual respect is above all what’s important. It’s like food, you must like it regardless of the price, but there’s a lot of cheap food that tastes better that expensive ones and bis versa.
Hmmm women looking for men with money is UNiVERSAL 😂. I’m a young successful white girl and I prefer a man who has more money and success than me. How does that make me different from these women? They deserve to seek a better life just as everyone else. If men look for hot chicks, women look for successful $$$ men. That’s just the way the world works. There are Russian mail order brides so it’s also Russian white women who do the same.
Kate Lama true. Women want stability. Btw im a filipina and id go crazy if i dont have my own money or my own job. If i date someone a filipino or an italian id be happy to know a man has more 💶💶💶 to me itis a bonus
The majority of women that contact and live at the women's shelter in The Faroe Islands are from Asia. I really think this should be mentioned in this documentary.
It must be down to the fact that they will marry whoever is willing to bring them there, whiteout even knowing the person, that will put any woman in a dangerous situation, put together the fact that they will completely and fully depend on their husbands, as soon as the situations get bad they really don’t have a way out, they are trapped, they don’t have any money, they don’t speak the language, they don’t have any friends or families, I mean it’s only obvious they will be more prone to entering abusive relationships that might end them in a woman’s shelter
It seems to me the Faroe Islander is more akward and unattractive, and the Philipina is young and pretty and looking for financial stability. They are both getting something out of it. To call her a gold digger is ridiculous considering the guy is no millionaire. To call him exploitive is ridiculous. She was 20 years old. God bless them.
Really? Being a model is the only option for a person who is perceived attractive by society? Firstly, the concept of attractive or beautiful itself should not have standards. Secondly, to be a model should NOT be any little girl’s aspiration.
Don't we all look for a partner to build a life, not just "be in love" with? I have no shame in saying that I looked for a mentally stable, kind, hard-working man who would be a good father. Men look for similar attributes in a wife. I had passionate love stories with other men before him, but they were not marriage material.
Pallas 27 Are you one of those know-it-alls who always generalize people and think you're perfect and you haven't been dependent all your life? 😆😂 Not all Filipinas are like that
@@krishnakhundongbam9797 yeah, for many its a relaxed carefree life as tiktokers and house wives while men spend their days on fishing boats on the wind swept ocean.
Well, the shortage of women in Faroe island is actually a tragedy. It is a problem many outlying places in Scandinavia. But I think a wife from Asia is better than no woman at all. Our outlying places must live also in the future.
I cringed when at the dinner table, Mary Joy reacted standoffish-ly to her husband showing her affection by putting his arm around her. A part of me felt bad for her, because in looking at her wedding video, you see how young she was and that she had her entire life ahead of her. It seems like she didn't get the chance to "live", in the sense of making use of her youth to forge for herself the type of life she truly wanted. She got to marry, and leave the Philippines and have children. So, those are good things; but at what cost? Poverty makes people desperate man.
Christine different culture different expressions may be... The common mistake especially for Americans is when they judge others from their own standpoint. People are different in many ways than one.
I'm not American, and my intention was not to judge her negatively, nor do I. I based my perception of her situation, based on what I observed. Whether or not that's actually the case, is another story. But neither you nor I know the truth.
Mary Joe does not love her husband, she basically "sold"/ sacrificed herself to help her family. Obviously she comes from an impoverished family and married him for money, a better economic situation to help get money to her family in the Philippines. Then later got the other women from her family to the Faroe Islands. That's why her cousin said "love is sacrifice", because they all didn't marry for love, but for $$$. Sad.
Mary joy looks depressed marrying that bucktooth Norwegian. I laughed when she said he looked like his picture, avoiding commenting her disappointment.
Thai women are generally very strong and independent. My wife is Thai and we have 2 beautiful kids. she's not shy about speaking her mind in regards to her beliefs and opinions. she like most Thai women missed their beloved homeland and their way of life ( food, culture, lakorns, music) . we travelled back and vacation either every year or every other year. this Thai lady in this documentary is resilient and hard working, those 2 traits will make you a survivor no matter the circumstance Life throws at you. good for her!
If you believe that Thai ladies are all prostitutes and out for your money you should better review the people you meet, and the way how you spent you holidays. It is you who put himself into that mental ghetto.
Im gonna guess it will be a few more years before she brings in her whole family, divorces you leaves you debt and kids and ruin you're life a winner is you my friend
MrMikeinDevon not only in Thailand. It depends on where , who and how you spend your money for. Yes if you spend for bar girls of course they want money from your pocket. There are many good people and good ladies in Thailand. I'm sorry for your experience!
Richard Bug- I haven't check my comments since I posted a year ago. I finally have a chance to see your jaded and misguided comments. were you used up and spit out by some Asian lady in the past?? is that why I sense your bitterness?? WE have been married for 9 years and I'm still waiting for the BS you assume was going to happen. my wife's father passed away 6 years ago. her mother has no desire to come to the U.S , she is back home taking care of grandma. in fact, I have been the one who has asked my wife to bring my mother in law to the states. she has been a loving and nurturing yai ( Thai for grandma) to our kids whenever we come back to Thailand on vacation. I would love for them to be together more often, but my mother in law is happy where she is in life at the moment. furthermore, I live debt free and will retire in 3 more years. so before you make ill informed, generalized comments online towards complete strangers , perhaps you need to think before you post.
thanks for this video... this place is beautiful 💜 now one of my bucket list to visit 💕 i’m so excited to see the amazing nature in this wonderful country 😊😍
Both men & Women from the islands of Filipines make great nurses, they are in most hospitals in the West, They are hardworking, loyal & very clean. They have great values & maintain family unit in most cases.
what a beautiful story...those women are happy and living their dream...Like one beautiful lady says, when things get a little rough, stand up, be strong and keep living the dream you dreamed...well done ladies..enjoyed listening to your stories...thanks for sharing.
Worked in the middle east and all the Filipinos women there as well as in Hawaii all want a westerner to marry to escape the Philippines. Don't blame them if their goal is to escape poverty, but nothing was off limits to them -- whether the man was married, whether they had to lie on others, anything to get as much money as they can. Acted sweet as sugar but lacked integrity.
No matter where you go in this planet, you will always find a Filipino living there. Guaranteed. And whenever you need help, they willingly offer it with a smile. :)
it’s called Slave Laborers. Every country needs and has gotten slave laborers known as “Foreign Temp Workers” to work jobs that no citizen wants to do. That’s where the Philopinos come in, and no not all of them like each other, I know Philopinos that don’t like each other because they come from different parts of the philipines
"...................................... If the women aren't there, it's difficult. You can't invent a woman. So, yeah. you have to find the woman elsewhere. And the easiest way is the Asian Countries......................................" I am Filipina who once dated a Western man and I see where these Faroese men are coming from. This is an honest, practical and realistic point of view. Most of us dream to settle down and have our own family. According to BBC, in recent years the Faroes have experienced population decline, with young people leaving, often in search of education, and not returning. Some of their Faroese women have proved more likely to settle abroad. So what about the men left? They have to widen their options in search for a wife so they turn and look beyond their island for romance. That's when interracial marriage favors them. And for everyone's information, the Asian women are not just plain housewives. Some have come in are very active in the labour market, which is good for Faroe Island's economy. Stop this hypocrisy about "Mail-Order Bride", "Golddigger", "Marriage for Convenience", blah, blah, blah. Everyone, any race or skin color, is capable of Fraud and Scam. I don't see anything wrong if a woman will see a man beyond his good looks but his capability to stand for her, emotionally, physically and financially. If interracial marriage works in Faroe island and what makes it as it is now, who are we to judge???
Probably they are envious. The many nationality whom married to other race are very proud of themselves. To those white women, percentage of your are higher having sugar dadys before you settle down...That why white men choose to find the rigth partner- The perfect parner .
They can go to university anywhere in the Nordic area -- but most go to Denmark. (The Faroe Islands are together with Greenland and Denmark proper part of the same state. Everybody there speaks Danish as a second language and English as a third.)
nothing is simple, did you ever enjoyed 6 months without sun and six months without darkness, cold rain and wind, stormy nights etc, they must work for their money too, like everyone else in the world..
I know it's not right to judge, but I get the impression that a lot of the time the couple just sit in silence - all of the dialogue between them and the reporter seemed awkward.
Wayne Samuel Don’t really understand how the UK is married. Danish Kingdom is three countries, Denmark/Greenland/Faroes, each country has it’s own parliament, gov and legislation. Greenland has what I’d consider a difficult language situation, google it yourself. Faroes use Faroese and Danish as official languages. Denmark uses solely Danish as official language, albeit the German minorities in South Jutland have special rights concerning the preservation of their language. We do have common foreign policies, military, police and use the same currency. As a constitutional monarchy the queen is head of the kingdom. Each country has their own Prime Minister. The North Atlantic Territories are representated in the Danish Parliament with two reps each - the Danes are representated in the Territories by a Governor (Rigsombudsmand)who manages what is under Danish supervision for the Danish gov, eg foreign policies in the Territories. What is regarded as domestic, the other countries have no say or juristiction in regards to veto. As such, Faroes have no embassies, but have established trade missions in what we consider important trade partners. Also, disregarding what your govs are telling you is possible or not, Greenland and Faroes are not part of the EU, while Denmark is. Greenland was initially part of the EU, but when trawlers from all over Europe showed up in their waters, they soon came to their wits and left the Union. Hope this answered your question
Faroe Islands is a commonwealth of Denmark and has 75% men, 25% women and 100% sheep to fleece without condoms when all the faroese women run to greener pastures around the world!
This is why I am so blessed to be a Singaporean, I am secured. I reject white guys because I prefer cats. Cats won't hurt you and they are way more interesting than a pale white dude.
you sound like my sister, poor you, i dont have cats, dogs or not even flowers, because i like to travel, i even was in Singapore, my daughter is a mix of Europe and South America, she and my motorcycle are the most importent things in my life, in the same order as i wrote...
@@Arltratlo Not porr me, excellent me. I am happier this way. I have traveled far and wide and during my trip there's always a white guy who thinks he can go to bed with me. Haha....the poor fella always get rejected by me. I have too much pride and moral values to be treated like a piece of meat!
@@OpulentRed sorry to hear that, did you ever thought about a girl friend...lol i am to liberal to have any bad feelings about your choice of living, enjoy your life as you want, dont hurt others is all i expect!
@@Arltratlo Why is Planet Nirvana a "poor you"? Because she finds happiness in herself, animals, etc versus spreading her gene pool & "needing" a child to lean on? You sound like the one needing "pity".
pinky1489 you are right , we see this a lot in the USA as well , Most of the Filipinos are like that , they country is poor & want to get out this is the only way 🤷🏻♀️
My mother married a white man and I immigrated to Australia when I was a child.
When I was growing up I was surrounded by asian women who married white men. More often than not I see these women work very hard to earn money, raise their children, doing work around the house and 'serve' their husband.
And yet the husbands are disrespectful, lazy and ungrateful. Disrespecting their wife as a woman of race and their culture. These women get treated like a slave when they should highly be applaud for all their daily hardwork.
I cried everyday for years as a child growing up and seeing my mother being treated in such a way.
And yet she still tells me to be grateful to him. It makes me furious. Just because I am in a 'better' country due to my mother marrying a white men. That doesnt mean that WE are that men doormat.
But the problem is, there is not one single person outside of our home who knows what's really going on inside.
The reality is even though I was raised in poverty back in Asia but I had a childhood and was happy. And when I moved to the 'free' country I felt that all my childhood was robbed from me and I was locked in a box with tears and aching heart as my daily bread. I felt so alone and hopeless.
So dont look badly on these Asian women. Because these women have to be one of the hardest working and strongest women I ever met. All women should be respected. No matter the race or background.
Men like your mothers husband behave that way to plenty of 'white women' too,white,black,brown and yellow,they hunt out women they can dominate bully and control so 'buying Asian brides' as it's called is just another fork off the bullies track when they fail to trick another 'white' national woman or want to speed up the process and bypass all the effort of dating and having to pretend to be who they are not.
I don't think anyone looks badly on any women who honestly just wishes to lift themselves and their children out of poverty and constant struggle, we look badly on horrible dominating bullies like your mothers husband who abuse and trick vulnerable,nice women
Men should respect their wives no matter how they met them. They should love and honor them.
Thanks for sharing your story. I was wondering how local people interact with these foreign women in the island. Aren't their children discriminated against at school by other children or maybe eben teachers? If these children are brighter than local children, do these children get jealous of the half Asian children?
I live in the States as an Asian woman with English as a second language. When white males approach me, I get an impression of them as overly confident as if they already knew I would be honored. That being said Asian women are more likely seen as "less than" by white men; therefore, Asian women should be graceful to be approached by white men.
This is why I think women should be educated(instead of men to be educated) to be independent for their freedom. When women need to depend on men, some men take advantage of them. Unfortunately, we cannot control these men's mentality and their behavior to respect women.
Yes thank you 🙏🏼
💖💖💖
I’m half-Thai and English and get called a prostitute allllll the time. My mum always loved my dad, until the day he passed away. Imagine being a medical student, like me, and getting called a prostitute once a week my your patients and people on the streets. Please don’tV paint the picture that ALL Thai girls are prostitutes, many of us are educated and work hard.
UPDATE: it’s been 2 year, I wrote this in my 1st year med school and now that I’m in clinical year (at hospital everyday), I can confirm that it doesn’t get better.
I want to clearly state that prostitutes are also most likely educated people and we shouldn’t judge someone by their need to stay alive (unless it hurts others).
I want to thank everyone who supports the Black Lives Matter movement, as my school is now looking into the inequalities BAME students face in practice.
To my fellow females and POC, or anyone who is judged by their sexuality or appearance or heritage, let’s support each other.
the same with Pilipina. obviously, these tv channel is just using other country to make themselves "look good".
I don't believe you are a medical student, sorry.
AG 98 sorry to hear about your dad. I’m sure he is so proud of you especially your mom. Keep your head up and stay strong!
@@toofastforyall8590 racist
Asian women get a bad wrap. Eastern Europeans get it too. Love is very hard to find, some are lucky.
The title is misleading. It should be: Foroe men travel to asia to look for love.
Watch it and you will agree with me.
Yes. The women were looking for other things.
Asians love white 🍆
Why not?
@@cooliipie we sure do
01001011 and whites love black 🍆 🤣
My father is white, my mum is thai, I am male and look more Thai than white. My dad doesn’t say and he tries but I can tell he is distant and looks disappointed in me. he cannot see himself in me. Although They never said, it felt like my dad looked down on thai men like he was superior, he didn’t think that he would have to raise, love and understand one, his son. I was so thankful when I got into uni and moved out.
Big hugs you were definitely meant to be here
Great human stupidity is an attempt at self-deception. Especially under the influence of idiotic modern trends. Human nature is an established mechanism, physical and, more importantly, psycho-emotional. And we are trying to deceive this mechanism. Stupidity. People are unhappy, as a result, trying in various stupid ways to become happier, we drive ourselves into misfortune even more. Nature is always higher than human. Don't do anything about it. People are stupid and vicious precisely because they are people. It just needs to be accepted and forgiven. We are far from perfect. Good luck buddy.
Not to dismiss your instincts, but sometimes assumptions can be wrong, maybe a Heart to heart with your dad could clarify, at the worst, he could confirm what you felt all along, but maybe the distancing was more about him than you, and he could let you know that, you may have picked up on the energies but concluded different perceptions than what he was feeling or thinking. You’ll never know for sure unless you ask. It took my mom being on her deathbed for us to have a meaningful conversation and heal a lifetime of estrangement.
Terrible.
Faroe is a nordic, a barbarian long ago. So it depends on a person if they are good or bad.
she speaks fluent Faroeses, been to Uni and works in the community..................she is a credit to other's
A credit to other's? What kind of statement is that? xD
What does that even mean though?
Give her credit for giving up her life in her country in exchange for a better life-style in a faraway country with her true soul mate...awesome story..enjoyed watching this video..
True, but one should never forget their own culture and heritage. I hope she's helping spread that as well.
Nothing's wrong she has the right and proud of her
2000 years from now, this will leave the anthropologist scratching their heads.
She was 20 so he wasn't exploiting her, he's no millionaire so she's not a gold digger...they make each other happy.
Five years before that she was 15. Just 5 years
@@HdHd-cg4nz Men and women are different, women need security, men need youth and fertility. Stop being jealous.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with this as long as it's mutual and they show love and respect to each other.
It's not about love and respect. It's about males wanting someone who they think is dumb to the laws that they can therefore control. Same reason they aim for much younger females. Nothing about love. Business and ego.
@@barbymadison878 the Asian women consent, the Faroese men consent. But you don’t, so I guess it should end
@@barbymadison878 well the women are also looking for an easy way out….out of their shanties in their third world homes. Why work for it when you can just marry into it, right?
@@barbymadison878 How do you know that they don’t respect their women? Or is it you that are projecting your own ideas on to others?
@JJ-wh3rh why don't they marry European women? When there's power imbalance there can't be respect.
Wow Mary Joy can speak 3 languages, is a supervisor, went to university, and is an awesome mum to 3 (now 4) children! I am happy to watch this video :) most of the videos I have been watching at of Filipino women being exploited and/ or marrying for the wrong reasons. This is so refreshing to watch.
you're right
Ena Sim, you're right ! She's a beautiful, high educated woman, a good wife, and a very good mother. I'm proud that she's a woman !!! 💪💪💪💪
she has achieved more than i could ever have achieved. I usually get white people telling me how much they like my men
she seems like a smart person.
looks like I ended up in the wrong country. lol
Don’t judge, these women are looking for a better life and these men are looking for a wife , everyone benefits, this probably happens a lot around the world and watching this video looks like everyone is happy and I’m happy for them 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🇵🇹
Perfect
I am from Portugal too 🇵🇹 and i agree with you
Yes exactly, it doesn't matter how it begins as long as they are kind to each other. There are many good signs showing: the women speak of greater equality, they choose to follow their family members their after visiting and seeing the situation for themselves and still say years on that they prefer it, the single man expressed concern for not hearing the voices of these women enough, the 100% Filipino children who came with their mothers are treated well enough that they prefer it... There are other marriages that do not go well, but that is true around the world for all marriages. Humans are always a mixed lot. The conditions overall seem to be decent and humane for everyone involved, certainly better than in many other places in the world. It is a good sign that the divorced Thai woman was able to buy a home and a car, that she likes her job. The fact that she was able to get a visa and can choose to make her home there indicates the laws and conditions are much more fair than in many other places. I have no doubt it was hard for her--divorce always is--but we can only judge if the laws and conditions are fair and humane.
I think the video title should be rephrased to Faroese men looking for love in Asia. Clearly, not all, but many Asians, those who come from poor backgrounds are after the better opportunities, not love, while many Faroese men are trying to gain power at home by marrying women who are more likely to take on traditional roles.
fair enough， it's life
Then base on what you initially say looking for love it should be looking for caretakers or maids. The single man in the video said it well. He wants a traditional woman. One who would do things for him. Like the Filipina who made the fried fish in the beginning of the video. But she educated herself, has a job and even learned the Faroe language so she wears many hats.
Sofia You are seeing it in reverse. It's the women gaining power by marrying outside of a misogynistic culture that suppresses women. In the faroes they can be whoever they want to be. And the men are just awkward, that's why they opt for a partner that's less hard to attract.
Kush Kunte You clearly have never met a Filipina. They're not pushovers.
neejohnenjegek Kiv "It's the women gaining power by marrying outside of a misogynistic culture that suppresses women." You are actually wrong. Many of my fellow Filipinas marry foreign men because they see it as a way to get better jobs and a better future for their loved ones back home. You have no idea what you're going on about. Women in the Philippines actually have a much more equal treatment to men compared to any Asian country. They're breadwinners. This is just one way they see to provide for their families back home.
I am pleased to say that I am married to a Philippine lady who I think is the the most beautiful person on earth. She has brought into my life a sense of family, love and care. She makes me beautiful food, keeps our home clean and tidy and loves me with all her heart. I cannot ask for anymore in my life. I look forward to having children with her and further enjoying good family life and blessings for the future.
I applaud the courage these women have to travel to such far destinations from their family and homeland and the work they do to knit together hope for men who's lives are lonely and sometimes lost.
Just like any relationship no matter what the nationalities involved, it takes time to get to know each other before marriage, but negative comments that have been put here are uncalled for and aim to tarnish even the good relationships. I suggest if you don't have anything positive to say, then don't say anything. From the content of the heart the mouth speaks. Evil words, evil heart.
Thats really nice to hear.😊
Beautifully written!
idealized rubbish
It's because Filipinas don't see your face. Just an escape. For them and kind of security But sooner or later they will go back home....They don't like butterfaces ..just guapos like😉✌
Yep, old, nerdy looking white men, promising good life for Filipinos.
The lady is a shy type of a woman to show her affection to her husband infront of other people, especially to the camera. This is common to many of the Filipinos who used to live in the Philippine countryside.
Marie true
Yeah it’s true
To the people commenting about the Filipino lady being uncomfortable at the dinner table, i would be uncomfortable if someone was filming me showing PDA or anything like that, too. Especially when she can get judged by people like the ones in the comments.
Your the same type of woman that abandon your culture and go for the white man for money smh. No real man wants a girl like that
They come across as easy. Any man can have them just as long as he has the right genetics and price
@@eddiekruggerr4972 as long as he has these white and rich genetics is a 100 plus plus
Money first love second.
She got confront and put on camera as a gold digger. That's why she's uncomfortable,
That wedding kiss was akward.
It hurts to watch
Hanna W sooo awkward. So weird
For real tho...she didn't even look like she enjoyed it.
I'm an Asian woman. .In my culture we never kiss a guy at public. .even at our wedding day
It’s cultural thing kissing in public is frowned upon. A lot of Filipino couples look awkward when they kiss in public.
Women are not breed animals.. I pray all unions are filled with love and devotion to each other.. true honest love between two is awesome
Mary Joy has such a beautiful personality.
Not really
I don’t like how she laughs after saying anything
A Lee she’s kinda shy.
Sure she is dear, are you looking for love here too ?
@@filipinocitizen2851 it’s normal to get shy dear
That thai lady is so pretty. Im glad she can be on her own
she should go back to Thailand. She is ugly
MrMikeinDevon stfu your jealous your ugly she is pretty loll
Thai women can love you long time and she can give you "soapy massage" part time.
That Thai lady is indeed so pretty, and if she wants to be on her own, then more power to her, but she could easily get another man with that face and hair. And if she does meet another man, she will now have the experience and wisdom to take things slowly.
I agree she looks good.
Faroe island seems a nice way place to visit.
I just wanna move to this country and live alone...
Without a husband hunt seals and polar bears?
Yes, without a husband who slaughters dolphins to prove his 'masculinity'. I would introduce veganism to the primitive natives.
@@Harriemes primitive?
Me too!!!
Me too
so basically out of the 300 women , 299 are Filipinos. gotcha.the title is very misleading. it should say, "the Faroe Islands are importing women from the Philippines. "
oh, snowflake is sad.. truth hurts , huh?? btw, such a well thought out and intelligent response to my post. lol!! let me guess, you're married to a flip?? come back when you have a more articulate response then you and I have a more sustainable debate on why you disagree with my post.
Hongbang dynasty -the clip title should be PHILLIPPINO WOMEN LOOKING FOR LOVE IN THE FAROES ISLAND.
Dont use Asian name.
-Hoang bang dynasty speak out the truth.
Dont blame H B Dynasty
You see western women can find any single man with resources just like the Asian women are doing . But the west women look for rich men first . The is making them look for women that have better home training . Thailand women are not like that . They more into the western lifestyle looking to see who has the most money
"Hongbang dynasty shut up "----- WHY ?
Title should be: "Faroese men looking for wives in Asia"
And winning
Title should be "Asian women hunt white men so bad, distance is but a number."
@@enugrahabharata oh ikaw na ang pumalit kay ate😂
Mas magaling ka gumawa ng titulo😂
True
@@enugrahabharata another asian woman with inferiority complex and self-hate wew
Credits to Aljazeera for sharing what we haven't heard of about Faroe island.
As a filipina myself, this is a difficult subject to to talked about. But seeing as i see a lot of prejudiced comments being thrown here, i’ll try to give a perspective about what its really like.
There are women who seeks a better life than what our country or our men can offer. Poverty, lack of education and sometimes pressure from family to provide for them makes it an easier choice for some to try and marry older foreigner men who they think can help to better their lives. And most of the time it does happen. These women gets to immigrate in their husband’s country where access to health, education and most importantly a higher salary, these things are greater than the slums and hardship theyre used to back home. It is a culture happening even now. Even family members urged their daughters or nieces to marry men like that because they think our own men are no good compared to foreigners. They think being white also equals to better bank accounts. And while you see these women as opportunists or gold diggers, their story is not for you to judged.
BUT i know women who learns to eventually love their husbands and are very loyal to them, love is quiet thing that grows within them, when i asked them how, they told me that their husbands are equally loving and caring, 2 qualities that warms a woman’s heart. I know women who raised their children and give them the childhood they never had. I know how these women provides for their family back home by their earnings they get abroad. These women are generous, selfless and they have a kind heart. It is very unfair to automatically assume the worst of them just because of the choices they made. As if they have options and opportunities like those in the rich countries in the first place. As if its not hard enough as it already is to leave the comforts of home and settle in a different country with a different language and an even different culture or weather and much worse, leaving the people you love behind in the pursuits of having more. When someone offers you a much better quality of life than what you had back home, wouldnt you want to grab that immediately and hold on to that hoping and dreaming against all odds that it is finally your answer to all your problems? These women feels that way. Their circumstances are very different from yours so you dont get to raised your flags as if you are so much better than them. You’re not.
Nice to read a considered, balanced and thoughtful comment. I feel as you....."don't judge lest ye be judged" and all that. As an aside, I lived on the Shetland Isles, the most northerly part of the United Kingdom, just for one Winter......never been so cold in my life! Lol.
Very well said!!!
Cy Star...The bottom line is that the parents of these "girls" want better lives for themselves (not daughters) thru their wealthier WHITE son in laws. The parents pimp their daughters out & care less about their daughter's future.
There are women and women, so don’t get confused with it. You are right, it’s all about how you were raised. I emigrated to another country for better life... without a man. My daughter was 10 month old when I got divorced and her and I went on a adventure. I didn’t need a man to help me out, I did it alone so don’t tell me that you need a man to get things done. I went from business to business to ask for a job and i have to say that I was never jobless for more than a week or so. Yeah, of course you learn to love people you are surrounded with, that goes for your coworkers, neighbors etc, that’s just a bs excuse to convince yourself that you didn’t do anything wrong. My heart is clean because I didn’t have to lie to anybody that I love them. How about you?
Really ??? Life is not easy everywhere, but people try to make the best of it, but Filipinos always try to escape, instead of fixing their problems in their own country, if one finds the way , he/she brings the whole village, starting to overwhelm and hate the population of the country where they are guests themselves, why is that???
the place is beautiful tho no pollution
They need a McDonald's there
and a KFC
Btt we got burger king, mcdonalds is trash anyways
Pooper Scooper it was a joke anyway 👍🏽
Manuel Delgado We should? Tell the bigger countries that, we have some of the cleanest air on the planet lol
I am southeast Asian girl, I am well educated, I am not poor and I am not a bargirl. I have had been in relationship with people from all races and all colours, so what? We fall in love with people, not money. Well of course there are some southeast Asian girls are money diggers, but do not blame the whole race because of the act of small group of people!
p/s: English is not my native language.
Nur Hidayah Karim don't lie to yourself. Everybody knows you and the rest of them are gold diggers to escape poverty and so u can show off a white man to your people back home who also know you're a gold digger
T DUB,
What's it to you? The men and their Filipino wives seems quite happy together.
I'm happy for all of them; the men and women.
I agree, with you there are the good and bad in every country!You wrote English better then I do..lol!!
Nobody blame you dear , but you just can't represent the majority
T DUB oh really u ignorant brainless
It's beautiful there.They have a beautiful family ❤️I hope that their marriages work out and not unhappy.
The first family was beautiful 4 children and a really nice home
To each his/her own... love is everywhere. love is a refuge. race, color, age, size and shape are not to define a person but how you carry yourself and conquer the world...
This isn't "love" conquering the world but the "wallet" buying the world.
"How you like me?"
"No choice."
😂😂😂😂😂😩😩💀
Msfeminista I'm crying 💀😭😭😭😭
Msfeminista hahahahah..
Msfeminista I say that to my boyfriend at least twice a week and he still won't leave 🤔🤔🤔😥
NanaPearl pearl lol
@@nanapearlpearl2696 tell him you got an infectious disease then he would leave you.
I love how respectful and warm the interviewer is. A lot of times in find these interviewers have a presumption about Asian women marrying away from home.
The island might be small but it's beautiful.
Never heard about this country Faroe...Thanks to Aljazeera.
It belongs to DEnmark and those women are users. only 46000 people living there. No trees
i have lived close to there, those guys most likely aint getting women anywhere else, so give and take
David Chandler there are living no girls because mens are import girls for marriage from Philippines and Asia ?
Here we call it Færøyene. (øyene means islands)
here we call it Føroyar. im from this island :)
I had to see the comments section for some entertainment.
Me too lol
James Noble me too
James Noble so true
HAHAHA
Exploitation of Asian women, it's Asian men's responsibility to fight back because they don't know what they're doing, since men were evolved to protect their women with their lives.
"Asian woman looking for love".. It makes us asian feels so cheap.. Sheesh.
Tim Yeo I feel you lol. It's like love apps commercial for Asian
Miss Валентинка haha true
Tim Yeo Asians are cheap 5 dollaaa sucky sucky
Allow them ur good
So east asians are totally different with these south east asians
We are all humans in the end.. Nothing wrong finding love in different worlds. This is a beautiful representation of exactly that 😊
The group of women make it clear that it was not love but convenience and opportunity....
@@chrisnamaste3572 Exactly. It is very obvious it was not heartfelt love from both sides 😅 More like a marriage for financial stability.
Good to see some non judgemental people still exist!
@@chrisnamaste3572 It was Mutual. Native Faroese Women went to other places to look for a better life. The bachelors were left at there own expense with no girls to marry.
Yeah thats right love you girl
O myyyy ...gorgeous place, gorgeous. I would loooove to be there. I will never get tired sitting outside and watching the clouds, the water. Just wow
“"Asian woman look for love “ look like the other way around
really though!
Asian women do NOT look for "love". They look for $$$ & why not? It's just as easy to marry a man with $$$ versus a poor one.
Thank you thats what i was thinking lol.. White men going to east asia to look for brides not the other way around.
Love exist too in Africa. 😁Asians go to Africa.
In reality not all are looking for love.they are looking for comfortable life. Some guys also looking for young Asian women. They are young fresh, loyal and loving women.
I admire the Thai woman. She's strong and independent. I'm happy for her. I am Filipino but man, I kinda cringed when I learned that Mary Joy's mom and sister also married Faroese men. However, I'm not judging them or anything. I think MJ is an amazing, smart woman. I think that like most Filipinos, they just wanted a better life. A better future. I hope people realize that we are not all born with equal opportunities. Not all of us can afford to follow our dreams and marry who we love. A lot of Filipinos are born poor. There isn't anything wrong in wanting to have a better future as long as they are not hurting anybody or breaking any law. It's their life and they should be entitled to do whatever they think will be good for them.
And I want to add, good for you. You have got it. Also I hope love will find a way for you.
So true...
Exactly!
Agree. Me too
A cold island that needs a warm touch by Filipinas. It is just a give and take situation. Faroese men assured safety to the Filipinas and as a gratitude they give back warm love and care. Life is just as simple as that, just be kind to each other and everything works, hardships are bearable and sacrifice is easy. Love comes eventually.
Perfect 🥰
AMEN!!!
filipinos will say filipino pride but will move from the country any chance they get
Most Pinoys on the Faroe Islands express they like it there. I do not see a reason to doubt it.
yes!
@@forreal245 Any woman regardless of ethnicity or race, heck even a transgender gets motivated with $$$$ 😁😂. Why do you think Lauren Sanchez is proud to have cheated with Bezos ehhhh? 😁😁🤣
And they worship the whites that caused genocide in their country.
that does not stop them from being a filipino. Not one bit.
The Thai lady speaks truth. Good on her for achieving so much and being so independent! She should be so proud of herself!
Kimberley Chan what is the achievement? Locating a guy from the west, marrying, moving and getting rid of him. Doubtful achievements
@@kiraoo5201 stop karen
No she did not speak the truth you don’t know what she did before this she is a horrible person I just because you see a nice looking apple don’t mean it’s good on the inside she is rotten on the inside treated everyone badly she did not get the money to purchase that house by herself nothing independent about her at all
there's a proverb "Tamarind on the mountain, salt in the sea meet in the one pot." meaning even two persons of different backgrounds / from distant places can meet and eventually get married,
You have to be creative in this cold land. A lot popcorn, hugs, real warming love.
The Philippians are the number one exporter of love. Such beautiful people. :)
It's love love, it's opportunists.
Why will one be mad at other happiness?! As long as they're both consenting I see nothing wrong with these relationships.
Good to see that non judgemental people still exist. Most people in this comment thread are racist bigots.
So much hate comments on here. It's their lives and choices so let them be.
Scandinavians are racist
Man: - "How you like me?"
Woman: - "No choice"
...
I say the same thing for a relationship always evolve and it goes both ways
Still better than a white woman
Ey you get that Danish citizenship sounds like an upgrade to me from Philippine one or the thai one
Jealous Becky. Mad that you’re getting replaced by an Asian woman lol
@@GarrySkipPerkins Are you looking for a subservient and obedient slave?
wow..i wanna go here not to find love, but to visit the beautiful scenery😍😍😍
Stop lying to yourself it is about love that is all they have is single males of all ages with old ladies that can't make any kids . And they Thailand women are making asian people look bad . They life style is more like western women looking for the rich men to marry .
+Dragon dont care bout the comments i just wanna visit their just to do some photography lol
+Chris Duane hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha
Annie Rose Brosillas n if u find love. Traditional love...stay
Annie Rose Brosillas who can belive this? 😃
I think the guys wants some compliant Asian woman and the Asian wants European citizenship.. Lets be real, this isn't about "love"
Yup!!!!
AnthroP Like every relationship this matters must, but don’t forget that mutual respect is above all what’s important. It’s like food, you must like it regardless of the price, but there’s a lot of cheap food that tastes better that expensive ones and bis versa.
Maybe some of them will find love
Hmmm women looking for men with money is UNiVERSAL 😂. I’m a young successful white girl and I prefer a man who has more money and success than me. How does that make me different from these women? They deserve to seek a better life just as everyone else. If men look for hot chicks, women look for successful $$$ men. That’s just the way the world works. There are Russian mail order brides so it’s also Russian white women who do the same.
Kate Lama true. Women want stability. Btw im a filipina and id go crazy if i dont have my own money or my own job. If i date someone a filipino or an italian id be happy to know a man has more 💶💶💶 to me itis a bonus
The majority of women that contact and live at the women's shelter in The Faroe Islands are from Asia. I really think this should be mentioned in this documentary.
It must be down to the fact that they will marry whoever is willing to bring them there, whiteout even knowing the person, that will put any woman in a dangerous situation, put together the fact that they will completely and fully depend on their husbands, as soon as the situations get bad they really don’t have a way out, they are trapped, they don’t have any money, they don’t speak the language, they don’t have any friends or families, I mean it’s only obvious they will be more prone to entering abusive relationships that might end them in a woman’s shelter
Title should be "Faroe Islanders lucky to find love"
@Fatiha Stark Perfect!
No, more like “gold diggers find poor losers to take advantage of”
It should be.
I know! So racist.
It seems to me the Faroe Islander is more akward and unattractive, and the Philipina is young and pretty and looking for financial stability. They are both getting something out of it. To call her a gold digger is ridiculous considering the guy is no millionaire. To call him exploitive is ridiculous. She was 20 years old. God bless them.
The Thai lady's daughter ...stunning...will be a model!
@Fatiha Stark LOL
Really? Being a model is the only option for a person who is perceived attractive by society? Firstly, the concept of attractive or beautiful itself should not have standards. Secondly, to be a model should NOT be any little girl’s aspiration.
Oh my god! So Beautiful Nature!!!😍
They are looking for a LIFE, not for LOVE.
zswasaS
Home run !!
@Pallas 27 😂😂😂
Oh well when u live in the philippines and u would understand why✌
Don't we all look for a partner to build a life, not just "be in love" with? I have no shame in saying that I looked for a mentally stable, kind, hard-working man who would be a good father. Men look for similar attributes in a wife. I had passionate love stories with other men before him, but they were not marriage material.
Pallas 27 Are you one of those know-it-alls who always generalize people and think you're perfect and you haven't been dependent all your life? 😆😂 Not all Filipinas are like that
Sounds like a mutually beneficial transaction. I see nothing wrong with it.
It's prostitution with a ring indeed :)
@@เรียนภาษาอังกฤษวันนี้ Says a person that came from Thailand. A lot of girls in Thailand are whores and easy to get.
Yeah and it seems mostly Filipino women are really interested in this type of transaction😂
@@nicapika7970 it’s really something
@@krishnakhundongbam9797 yeah, for many its a relaxed carefree life as tiktokers and house wives while men spend their days on fishing boats on the wind swept ocean.
Thanks for showing us the other side of the world... Never knew about this country! "Love is sacrifice" said by the lady.. 👍 how true is that.
Very true
Sincere_ Sista true
Sincere_ Sista the islands belong to denmark
Well, the shortage of women in Faroe island is actually a tragedy. It is a problem many outlying places in Scandinavia. But I think a wife from Asia is better than no woman at all. Our outlying places must live also in the future.
And that's how Asian Viking are born...
Hardi Winarso There were always Asian Vikings mate.
Their own women are too busy with themselves and emancipated.
Ма Муня
Actually, slavs are a mix between whites and asians. Putin also has asian eyes.
@@5454-t2p boiiii, the Asian in slavs is mostly outbred
Ronja C true. slavs are not hapas. The very tiny little bit of asian in them has been outbred cause ultimately they just didn't want to be asian 😝...
he said I need someone to decorate and sweep.. nice moves
The Faroe islands are absolutely breathtaking
I cringed when at the dinner table, Mary Joy reacted standoffish-ly to her husband showing her affection by putting his arm around her. A part of me felt bad for her, because in looking at her wedding video, you see how young she was and that she had her entire life ahead of her. It seems like she didn't get the chance to "live", in the sense of making use of her youth to forge for herself the type of life she truly wanted. She got to marry, and leave the Philippines and have children. So, those are good things; but at what cost? Poverty makes people desperate man.
Maybe she wanted kids. Filipinas are conservative catholic christians.
She's probably just shy with PDA
Christine different culture different expressions may be... The common mistake especially for Americans is when they judge others from their own standpoint. People are different in many ways than one.
I'm not American, and my intention was not to judge her negatively, nor do I. I based my perception of her situation, based on what I observed. Whether or not that's actually the case, is another story. But neither you nor I know the truth.
Mary Joe does not love her husband, she basically "sold"/ sacrificed herself to help her family. Obviously she comes from an impoverished family and married him for money, a better economic situation to help get money to her family in the Philippines. Then later got the other women from her family to the Faroe Islands. That's why her cousin said "love is sacrifice", because they all didn't marry for love, but for $$$. Sad.
beautiful peaceful place.
I saw their tourist ad many years ago and I really wanna go there so bad and experience their customs and traditions.
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So why not go try and experience our tradition culture and for sure you love our Filipino foods.
@@evelyndugcot5188 Teh, Filipino po ako, anong traditions pinagsasabi mo.
Mary joy looks depressed marrying that bucktooth Norwegian. I laughed when she said he looked like his picture, avoiding commenting her disappointment.
i really want to move here tbh, i love the cold
Thai women are generally very strong and independent. My wife is Thai and we have 2 beautiful kids. she's not shy about speaking her mind in regards to her beliefs and opinions. she like most Thai women missed their beloved homeland and their way of life ( food, culture, lakorns, music) . we travelled back and vacation either every year or every other year. this Thai lady in this documentary is resilient and hard working, those 2 traits will make you a survivor no matter the circumstance Life throws at you. good for her!
If you believe that Thai ladies are all prostitutes and out for your money you should better review the people you meet, and the way how you spent you holidays. It is you who put himself into that mental ghetto.
Im gonna guess it will be a few more years before she brings in her whole family, divorces you leaves you debt and kids and ruin you're life a winner is you my friend
MrMikeinDevon not only in Thailand. It depends on where , who and how you spend your money for. Yes if you spend for bar girls of course they want money from your pocket. There are many good people and good ladies in Thailand. I'm sorry for your experience!
Richard Bug- I haven't check my comments since I posted a year ago. I finally have a chance to see your jaded and misguided comments. were you used up and spit out by some Asian lady in the past?? is that why I sense your bitterness?? WE have been married for 9 years and I'm still waiting for the BS you assume was going to happen. my wife's father passed away 6 years ago. her mother has no desire to come to the U.S , she is back home taking care of grandma. in fact, I have been the one who has asked my wife to bring my mother in law to the states. she has been a loving and nurturing yai ( Thai for grandma) to our kids whenever we come back to Thailand on vacation. I would love for them to be together more often, but my mother in law is happy where she is in life at the moment. furthermore, I live debt free and will retire in 3 more years. so before you make ill informed, generalized comments online towards complete strangers , perhaps you need to think before you post.
thanks for this video... this place is beautiful 💜 now one of my bucket list to visit 💕 i’m so excited to see the amazing nature in this wonderful country 😊😍
I must admit, that place is beautiful.
“Romantic” is another word to quality it , you’re here in search of true love ?
The lady seems happy in her home, good for their family
I'm happy for them. It's a mutual exchange that works out well for all involved.
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these women are happy. that's all that matters. they made a life for themselves. proud of that Thai woman.
Pretty woman
They are not happy. If given a chance, they will not Marry these guys. Its poverty that drove them to Marry else where and have a better life.
@@paopao-hh5ie it goed both ways, most of these men wouldn't marry filipinas either, they don't have a choice if they wanna marry howver.
Both men & Women from the islands of Filipines make great nurses, they are in most hospitals in the West, They are hardworking, loyal & very clean. They have great values & maintain family unit in most cases.
well said sir
what a beautiful story...those women are happy and living their dream...Like one beautiful lady says, when things get a little rough, stand up, be strong and keep living the dream you dreamed...well done ladies..enjoyed listening to your stories...thanks for sharing.
Beautifully done. I love this documentary. Very interesting. Thanks aljazeera
I love to visit this place one day. It’s a beautiful place.
I love this simple life with family... I wish I can meet the man from Faroe Island
Maryjae is so pretty though, she was pretty then and pretty now
Worked in the middle east and all the Filipinos women there as well as in Hawaii all want a westerner to marry to escape the Philippines. Don't blame them if their goal is to escape poverty, but nothing was off limits to them -- whether the man was married, whether they had to lie on others, anything to get as much money as they can. Acted sweet as sugar but lacked integrity.
Filipino women, what a surprise
not surprise most of the Filipino women want to marry Caucasian, it apply to Thai too.
Did you expect Australian women, where its warm and sunny year round, to go to, a dark rainy cold and depressing country.
Jason4275 It was actually a tie between Chinese or Filipinos
cheapest in the region!
YOU HURT The majority of them are probably better educated than you, judging from your asinine, ignorant comment.
Beautiful place & beautiful people. Praying to be here in this place in GOD's perfect timing...
This island is absolutely beautiful, would like to visit one day.
The most important thing for the Filipinos is the Family. They value their family among other things.
No matter where you go in this planet, you will always find a Filipino living there. Guaranteed. And whenever you need help, they willingly offer it with a smile. :)
it’s called Slave Laborers. Every country needs and has gotten slave laborers known as “Foreign Temp Workers” to work jobs that no citizen wants to do. That’s where the Philopinos come in, and no not all of them like each other, I know Philopinos that don’t like each other because they come from different parts of the philipines
I never heard of this island in my life, but this is my kind of place! It’s perfect 🌳
I had no idea this island existed, seems like a beautiful place to visit during summer
"...................................... If the women aren't there, it's difficult. You can't invent a woman. So, yeah. you have to find the woman elsewhere. And the easiest way is the Asian Countries......................................"
I am Filipina who once dated a Western man and I see where these Faroese men are coming from. This is an honest, practical and realistic point of view. Most of us dream to settle down and have our own family. According to BBC, in recent years the Faroes have experienced population decline, with young people leaving, often in search of education, and not returning. Some of their Faroese women have proved more likely to settle abroad. So what about the men left? They have to widen their options in search for a wife so they turn and look beyond their island for romance. That's when interracial marriage favors them.
And for everyone's information, the Asian women are not just plain housewives. Some have come in are very active in the labour market, which is good for Faroe Island's economy. Stop this hypocrisy about "Mail-Order Bride", "Golddigger", "Marriage for Convenience", blah, blah, blah. Everyone, any race or skin color, is capable of Fraud and Scam. I don't see anything wrong if a woman will see a man beyond his good looks but his capability to stand for her, emotionally, physically and financially. If interracial marriage works in Faroe island and what makes it as it is now, who are we to judge???
Sounds like China to me.
Probably they are envious. The many nationality whom married to other race are very proud of themselves. To those white women, percentage of your are higher having sugar dadys before you settle down...That why white men choose to find the rigth partner- The perfect parner .
That was fascinating. Where do the young people go to get a University Education? It looks very safe & wholesome. Lucky people.
well most of the young move to denmark to take there education. some come back and some dont.
They can go to university anywhere in the Nordic area -- but most go to Denmark.
(The Faroe Islands are together with Greenland and Denmark proper part of the same state. Everybody there speaks Danish as a second language and English as a third.)
I wanna go there! It's so beautiful, simple life.
nothing is simple, did you ever enjoyed 6 months without sun and six months without darkness, cold rain and wind, stormy nights etc, they must work for their money too, like everyone else in the world..
@@Arltratlo it looks beautiful from behind my keyboard but hells to the no I would never go.
I didn't realise im getting hate from i wrote here.
Answer: Residency/ Passport / Money/ Healthcare
Shows ur ignorance Ed. The Philippines has 1 of the best healthcare systems in the world
@Sean Tottenham thats what i said.....1 of the best
I know it's not right to judge, but I get the impression that a lot of the time the couple just sit in silence - all of the dialogue between them and the reporter seemed awkward.
MrZapparin That's a fair point MrZapparin.
Some how I think it’s a Scandinavian kind of personality. Silent and not very gregarious.
Seems like a pretty dope country though.
THISGUY it's denmark
no its not. that´s the same as saying denmark and greenland are the same. cuz greenland says to be owned by denmark
Denmark doesn’t own the Faroes or Greenland. We are however part of the same kingdom.
What does that mean? Is that like Scotland is to the United Kingdom?
Wayne Samuel
Don’t really understand how the UK is married.
Danish Kingdom is three countries, Denmark/Greenland/Faroes, each country has it’s own parliament, gov and legislation.
Greenland has what I’d consider a difficult language situation, google it yourself. Faroes use Faroese and Danish as official languages. Denmark uses solely Danish as official language, albeit the German minorities in South Jutland have special rights concerning the preservation of their language.
We do have common foreign policies, military, police and use the same currency. As a constitutional monarchy the queen is head of the kingdom. Each country has their own Prime Minister.
The North Atlantic Territories are representated in the Danish Parliament with two reps each - the Danes are representated in the Territories by a Governor (Rigsombudsmand)who manages what is under Danish supervision for the Danish gov, eg foreign policies in the Territories. What is regarded as domestic, the other countries have no say or juristiction in regards to veto.
As such, Faroes have no embassies, but have established trade missions in what we consider important trade partners.
Also, disregarding what your govs are telling you is possible or not, Greenland and Faroes are not part of the EU, while Denmark is. Greenland was initially part of the EU, but when trawlers from all over Europe showed up in their waters, they soon came to their wits and left the Union.
Hope this answered your question
Faroe Islands is a commonwealth of Denmark and has 75% men, 25% women and 100% sheep to fleece without condoms when all the faroese women run to greener pastures around the world!
This is why I am so blessed to be a Singaporean, I am secured. I reject white guys because I prefer cats. Cats won't hurt you and they are way more interesting than a pale white dude.
you sound like my sister, poor you, i dont have cats, dogs or not even flowers, because i like to travel, i even was in Singapore, my daughter is a mix of Europe and South America, she and my motorcycle are the most importent things in my life, in the same order as i wrote...
@@Arltratlo Not porr me, excellent me. I am happier this way. I have traveled far and wide and during my trip there's always a white guy who thinks he can go to bed with me. Haha....the poor fella always get rejected by me. I have too much pride and moral values to be treated like a piece of meat!
@@OpulentRed sorry to hear that, did you ever thought about a girl friend...lol i am to liberal to have any bad feelings about your choice of living, enjoy your life as you want, dont hurt others is all i expect!
Agree
@@Arltratlo Why is Planet Nirvana a "poor you"? Because she finds happiness in herself, animals, etc versus spreading her gene pool & "needing" a child to lean on? You sound like the one needing "pity".
marriage of convenience
pinky1489 for both
so as American women
most of the women outside of the western world marry for security, not love
pinky1489 you are right , we see this a lot in the USA as well , Most of the Filipinos are like that , they country is poor & want to get out this is the only way 🤷🏻♀️
pinky1489 They have three grown up kids and both are happy. You should get a life yourself.
A salute. Thai woman. She's really strong woman ❤️❤️❤️
Girls face and body languge tell s all about her sacrifice for life
which girl?
I think its special good hearted people and GOD BLESS, peace from Indiana USA
I would say European looking for love in Asia
Move in Asia.
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Money brought them to island not love .
hahahaahahah 😂😂
I agree money brought those girls to the island. But there must be something else that keeps them there.
Farrah GOD BLESS YOU
spoken like a typical Westerner ... with no clue of other places or other cultures
Their GDP/capita is 53k... they might as well move to Singapore, if that's considered rich. It's closer.
Please don't be rude with your comments it's the life of people everyone didn't choose his life or where he/she come from.💐
Very touching words from Thai woman for her advice..