Couples With A Wider Age Gap

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  • Couples with wider years between them often face criticism from society, whether it's the name-calling or just the lack of understanding.
    We sat these couples down to get the in-scoop and the what’s what of being a wider age gap couple.
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    Tell us in the comments if you've ever been in one or are still with someone with an age gap and what it's like, we'd love to know!
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ความคิดเห็น • 536

  • @Sara-rr9ss
    @Sara-rr9ss 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9580

    all of these girls are so pretty damn

  • @Pantsu_Samurai
    @Pantsu_Samurai 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6316

    im 18 and my hand is the same age as me.
    #foreveralone

  • @charissamahendran3483
    @charissamahendran3483 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4288

    My mum is 7 years older than my dad. There were criticism and jokes targeted towards them. But they've been together for 22 years now. So yeah, age isn't really a problem.

  • @greaneregencia3228
    @greaneregencia3228 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4724

    My parent's age gap is 15 years..
    My Mom is 37
    My Dad is 52

  • @MusicLover-og1jf
    @MusicLover-og1jf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    People who thinks this is weird or disgusting,you will never know love until you experience it. That’s when you will realise that age doesn’t matter to you. When you fall for someone older or younger,then you’ll believe in the ‘age is just a number’

  • @YangMinRam3n
    @YangMinRam3n 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1096

    I thought it was going to be much more dramatic like 20 years apart

  • @Iivinginfiction
    @Iivinginfiction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    i feel like relationships with a wider age gap works best when the younger person is wise beyond their years and the older person is more innocent and childish in nature. it balances things out

  • @chickenpie9363
    @chickenpie9363 6 ปีที่แล้ว +950

    My dad and mum are born 2 days apart

  • @christinewalsh3043
    @christinewalsh3043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I'm 36, my husband is 27, we've together nine years. Seven years of marriage, moving from the US to Europe to Japan, four kids (and two on the way) later and we are still incredibly in love. Love is love is love.

  • @aliarsenal6136
    @aliarsenal6136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1779

    It's just 5 years gap, how come they called him a pedophile? 🙄The age gap is not huge. She was over 18 yo when they dates too. Older guys is more mature. That is why women like older men.

  • @avocadotoastie459
    @avocadotoastie459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3195

    My husband is 12 years older than me. Can u imagine, when he was 20, I was like 8 year old.. Errrrr... 🤭😂😜

  • @islalin5833
    @islalin5833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1514

    7 years gap, my bf wants to get married before 30 but I would be still too young, it;s like he is already in the next stage of his life cycle when I am just starting...

  • @jeannekoh9544
    @jeannekoh9544 6 ปีที่แล้ว +705

    If u worry what people say, then you are not living your own life but following societal standards. You only have 1 life.

  • @lottiecaldwell8627
    @lottiecaldwell8627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    25 year gap here, together for 8 years, planning our wedding next year. He was 24 when we met, I was 49. I tried to push him away several times because I wanted him to have a "normal" life, but he refused to go. It wasn't until he turned 30 (old enough to make life decisions) and I really believed that he never intended to have children whether we stayed together or not, that I gave in and we settled down to being happy. And we are so very happy. Even after 8 years, he is my best friend, we laugh every day, and we love just hanging out together. I adore him and I know he adores me.

  • @tanukikamii
    @tanukikamii 6 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    My mom is 41 and dad 65 😆 24 year age gap

  • @lunastella2323
    @lunastella2323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    Purely in my opinion...even more important than any sort of age gap is the maturity level of each person in the relationship. If both individuals are of similar or complementary maturity then it will work regardless of age gap. If the maturity difference is too great the relationship will not last....no matter the age....

  • @humanbeing1693
    @humanbeing1693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2232

    My boyfriend is 2 years older than me and he already felt that the age gap is big lol

  • @marigold7386
    @marigold7386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I started dating when I was 18 and he was 28.. we are happily married

  • @miquela
    @miquela 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1832

    15 Years Gap. 10 years together. 6 years married. Age is just a number.

  • @Aki92-11
    @Aki92-11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1842

    Watching this and realising how single I am..😂

  • @starrynakshu6792
    @starrynakshu6792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am in relation with 11 yr older guy, he's the best thing that has ever happened to me and,As long as u love each other. As long as u understand, trust and support each other, u can love him/her. Age is just a number

    • @samiahsamiah7626
      @samiahsamiah7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      for a second I thought it was an 11-year-old

  • @hyunjoon.watterson
    @hyunjoon.watterson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1206

    I'll never have an age gap ..
    #Single_Forever

  • @freiheit6311
    @freiheit6311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "I don't feel the need to go travel the world before I settle. Because if you do that then, what if, by the time you come back, the one good thing you had is gone." PREACH IT!

  • @sterlingforbes3872
    @sterlingforbes3872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm 38 and my gf is 22. The gap as a number is not ideal... but neither of us care. We both connect on such deep levels and it's the healthiest and happiest relationship either of us have ever been in. At some point, we just have to stop caring so much about what others think. To quote my gf, "it's 2020, people need to get over it, if they actually care about us, then they will only care that we are happy." My girl rocks my world and I'm so thankful for her, every moment of every day.

  • @jarijahy.1591
    @jarijahy.1591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    My wife and I have a 10 year gap too, she's the best that has happened to me. I tried to not fall for her and actually tried to "kill" my feelings. The burden got too heavy, so I decided that if we would have 1 date I would see that we dont match and the feelings would go.
    Well she was great, very engaging and funny. I had no chance ^^ no regrets. If it's meant to be 😀 #LetLoveRule

  • @knmplans
    @knmplans 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I met my husband just after I turned 19. He’s almost 6 years older than me, but I don’t know that I ever thought of that as being a particularly large gap. We’ve been together 16 years this month and have two kids.

  • @ratgirl669
    @ratgirl669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    They are all perfect for each other!!! All i see are happy and secure relationships i wish them all the love and happiness

  • @pinkgirllostinthisuniverse7895
    @pinkgirllostinthisuniverse7895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    And like we say in French, "L'amour n'a pas d'âge", which basically means Love has no age, it doesn't matter if they're younger or older than you, what truely matters is mutual love and respect.

  • @cornelia9309
    @cornelia9309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    My dad's wife is 12 years younger than him, they seem happy 🤷‍♀️

  • @auroraiday2834
    @auroraiday2834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i was 24 while my bf was 18 when we first dating...the only challenge we have is we came from different religion.. still going strong till today tho...

  • @AprilJustinTV
    @AprilJustinTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Omggg all the couples are sooo cuuute!!!

  • @dece020
    @dece020 6 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    my husband is 14 years older than me, married for 13 years now

  • @tuffsmurfen96
    @tuffsmurfen96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My husband is 13 years old than me and I don’t think that is a very age gap. Mostly I notice it when we talk about what movies, games etc. that was popular when we were children. He is an 80s kid and I’m a 90s kid.

  • @sisarka468
    @sisarka468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I'm 20 and I'm with a guy 14 years older than me and I have never been happier :)

  • @christianhetzel7956
    @christianhetzel7956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been dating someone who’s 11yrs older I’m 20 and she’s 31! We absolutely love each other and our relationship is strong!

  • @Lightner445555555555
    @Lightner445555555555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Alot of times the age difference isn't even noticeable.

  • @lourrainepaim5869
    @lourrainepaim5869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Yo, my parents are 18 years apart. My dad could literally be my grandpa. They’re still together and very happy.
    It’s like, at this point these age gaps don’t shock me AT ALL 😂

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    Definitely age doesn't matter as long as the intentions and feelings are genuine. It would be challenging tho but as Hashy said, "Love conquers all." You just have to be strong and face everything together.

  • @dzevada1992
    @dzevada1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m older then my husband 7 years, no one guesses and when we tell them they r shocked

  • @averillecq9188
    @averillecq9188 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    19 years apart. Still happily shharing lives for years now. Best decision ever. 😍

  • @abbyfaith.
    @abbyfaith. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My boyfriend & I are 5 years apart & we got a lot of backlash for it when we first started dating. People didn’t think that it was right of us to date because of the age difference so whenever I hear couples talk about age gaps, I have no room to judge because I know what it’s like to be criticized for being with someone much older than you, even though you’re both in love. Love is love and has no boundaries. Everyone deserves to be happy and we all deserve love.

  • @mandipanda4276
    @mandipanda4276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My boyfriend and I have an 8 year age gap, height gap(im taller than him) and we have a language barrier. Love is a strange thing haha

  • @reveirg9
    @reveirg9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    Age is just a number. 50 years age gap. She's 70 i'm 20. She's freaking rich.

  • @miwanabanana
    @miwanabanana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Less than 10 years is not that really big of an age gap. For me, I think one of the major age gap related obstacle i would be concerned of is that one will be aging at the same time the other one's parents will be. Like imagine having to care for your mom and dad then also your spouse. Even with money that would be so stressful emotionally.

  • @Xhin229
    @Xhin229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Love comes in all forms and it comes with responsibilities. Can't really say that age doesn't matter, but when the time comes and you decided to be partners, age shouldn't matter anymore. Both should be responsible in their relationship because it should be a mutual thing.

  • @pizzaovenpizza
    @pizzaovenpizza 6 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    MARC AND HASHY ARE SO CUTE

  • @MrPolyalert
    @MrPolyalert 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As a young teacher teaching 6th graders, I just can’t imagine dating anyone 10+ yrs younger than me. But I can imagine myself dating someone 10+ older than me 😅

  • @sitifauziah150
    @sitifauziah150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Im 19 and my fiance is 30! We'lll be getting married next year, age doesn't matter as long as your partner is loyal and most importantly have responsibilities. 😘

  • @yvettedawn290
    @yvettedawn290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There's no age in love. As long as you know how to love you are always young inside and outside. Age gap isn't important. The important is both couple are happy with each other. I'm 32 years old and my boyfriend is 51. We're so happy sharing and building our life together and our love is getting stronger everday. 😍😍😍

  • @GS-kw2fw
    @GS-kw2fw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My husband and I are 11 pears apart. He’s a millennial and I’m a gen z. We always poke fun at each other’s age and times of growing up but we also recognize the good and bad that came from both times. All in good spirit. We are super strong no matter the gap.

  • @shaikhaalmheiri8026
    @shaikhaalmheiri8026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    5 years isn’t a lot my dudes! My mum and dad have that age gap and my aunt is married to a man who is older than her by 8 years it’s fine lol

  • @scorpionwarrior8895
    @scorpionwarrior8895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My wife is 37 I’m 27 we get along just fine tho we honestly never brought up our age gap lol.

  • @gcinankomzwayo4443
    @gcinankomzwayo4443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    1:46 The girl seems mature. It's like she just said that to make the guy happy

  • @BrahmaDBA
    @BrahmaDBA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Why not couples where the female is older? My girlfriend is 7 years older than me.

  • @daisydoo3669
    @daisydoo3669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    my husband is 29 years older and we are still happily married.

  • @annamazni4376
    @annamazni4376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My friend with her bf age gap is 25 lol. She's 20+ and the guy is 40+😂
    Even her parent's age gap is 20. As long as she's happy i'm fine with it🤷🏻

  • @estherg1932
    @estherg1932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My parents are 7 years apart and I never really thought it was that much of an age gap because my mom is 45 and my dad is 52 + they are the same maturity level bc they’re both adults

  • @leannnnne2cool
    @leannnnne2cool 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My boyfriend is 20 years older, has sleeve tattoos on both of his arms, and he's white, he is the coolest and supportive person I've ever met. The first time my dad know about him, he called him a paedophile and didn't like an ang moh, but at the end my dad told me he doesn't mind if i marry him as long as i am happy.

  • @ys3929
    @ys3929 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    the editing was so much fun omg 😂 kudos to the team!

  • @Aqishable
    @Aqishable 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My dad is 6 years older than my mum but still they love each other and have 5 children now. This upcoming November will be their 24th anniversary..

  • @Commievn
    @Commievn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    According to scientific research.
    Women are generally more matured than men at least by 3 to 4 years old both in physically and mentally.
    They also have a research that men older than women 4-5 years are the couples that least-likely to breakup or divorce.
    The best age to marry is 28 - 33 for both genders.

    • @KimmiiaS
      @KimmiiaS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woah I guess I am lucky 🤣 met my bf when I was 23 and a half he just turned 28. Been together for more than 2 years . Planning to get married when i will be around 28-29 and him 32-33 🤣🤣 I don't like big age gaps. My mom is only 2 years younger than dad and they are together for 38 years ( I am their youngest child) and they are as happy as ever.

  • @fauzansiao
    @fauzansiao 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Truly agree that love conquers all. But ya, I guess you guys just have to tahan when people give comments or that kind of impression especially to the guy in this case that "Err I think he's pedophile."

  • @putihpink2336
    @putihpink2336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was married at 16 with men 2 years older. Divorced after 11 years of marriage. Now im with a 3 years younger than me men that is so mature and insanely in love with me. He's like the one that telling me to stop partying and im the one like... hey im 31 i wont be young forever, soon ill be 35 and after that 40... this is my last years going clubbing 🤣.
    I do look like im a highschool student outside inside, that always makes people think he is older than me.
    But the truth is ladies the best gap is 7 years according to the grandmas and grandpas. Woman are way wiser than men.
    Well just enjoy your life and enjoy love ladies

  • @moonsister9426
    @moonsister9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you look back in history woman always used to date older men so why is it a big deal today ?

  • @superdude1759
    @superdude1759 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First of all I'm American and I love this video! I've seen several age gap relationship videos on TH-cam and I'm starring to see a common trend; the age gap couples are vey happy with each other! I would say they are even more happy than closer age couples and i think i know why: the closer age couples are competing with one another and the greater age difference couples are complementing one another! You all appreciate your differences and learn from each other! Wow that's amazing!
    The singing could was really funny! I can tell they laugh a lot with each other! Bravo!

  • @stephaniegs635
    @stephaniegs635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    my mom and dad is 15 years apart and... it's sadly kinda problematic, the generation gap is no joke, very prone to conflicts and misunderstandings :")

  • @nmj3735
    @nmj3735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am 52, my hubby is 39....we've been married for 11years. Never been happier....my age contributes to experiences in life and his is where I learn what's new..

  • @hayleyalexandra9468
    @hayleyalexandra9468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My ex and I were 14 years apart. He’s a great guy; we just wanted very different things out of life. We now have a 3 year old

  • @princealva
    @princealva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My hubby is 10yrs my senior. NVR felt weird. He look young even at his late 40s now.

  • @sabsupsub
    @sabsupsub 6 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    germaine and lim yi look so similar theres this saying that if couples look the same they are soulmates :p

  • @agnussunga3431
    @agnussunga3431 6 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    My mother and dad has 13 years age gap. HAHAHAHAHA

  • @nate86diy43
    @nate86diy43 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am currently 33 and my wife is 36. I used to date someone before I met my wife who was 12yrs older than me. We had good chemistry together, it was unfortunate we brokeup because I was working overseas.

  • @jow265
    @jow265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 33 my boyfriend of 2 years is 47. I love him soooooooooooooo much. He's the best man for me.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's absolutely true, it doesn't matter how much the age gap you have with your partner because what matters most is that both of you know that you love and respect each other despite the age gap and your life experience as an individual.

  • @nesst9607
    @nesst9607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Was hoping to see at least one couple with a larger age gap, but regardless, this was really nice to watch! My partner and I are 14 years apart and it doesn't affect us personally because we're both on the same wavelength and are truly made for each other, but we receive a lot of social judgement and concerns which we're really getting very tired of. Not to mention aside from the age gap we also battle two other social norms/relationship taboos D:

  • @mijaumiaumiao
    @mijaumiaumiao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My boyfriend is 6 years younger than me. When we first started dating people would always call me a cougar and people praised him for getting with an older girl. Its unfortunate how if the roles were reversed he would've been called the cradle robber or something similar.

  • @leviswifey699
    @leviswifey699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thinks it’s ok as long some one for the right reason and if you personally wouldn’t date someone say who was 15 years older then you that’s fine just respect the. Love is love no matter what age what gender or what race.❤️

  • @taiebatasnim9016
    @taiebatasnim9016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    In desi countries like ours people judge a girl if she choses a mate who’s the same age as her or younger than her
    They also judge her if the age gap isn’t ‘big enough’🤣

  • @yahiakhaled253
    @yahiakhaled253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was 16 and he was 21. Girlie, I----

  • @affahiyah6750
    @affahiyah6750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im 24 and my gf is 34 years old. I disagree with this gap at first until finally i experience it myself.

  • @belleswithlove9778
    @belleswithlove9778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's nice, my guy's 17 years older. Age is indeed just a number once you start to get to know someone too well.

  • @windabudi2792
    @windabudi2792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I ever been dating a man who is 23 years older than me. That is a huge age gap. Btw...wish you guys have a happy life in the years to come :)

  • @Julietta1one
    @Julietta1one 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My husband(American) and I are 20 years apart from each other .. 😉❤️

  • @maysin2131
    @maysin2131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We have 16 years gap. Me and fiancé feeling happy with each other. At first everyone will comment and hurt you with some special "eyesight". But trust me! Age is not a problem when come to Love!

  • @jpaul8589
    @jpaul8589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🤣 laughing about my 31 year age gap😂

  • @iangoh4648
    @iangoh4648 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I have a Friend whose parents has a 30-40 year age gap. I don't know the exact number but it is in that age range difference

  • @nibbonbon
    @nibbonbon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a relationship with someone who is 10 years older than me too... Still can't convince anybody it's okay... I know I shouldn't care but it's hustling because I can't even convince my closest friends

    • @gracia6362
      @gracia6362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do what ever makes u happy, in my opinion someone 10 year's is okay but if it's more it's kinda weird in my opinion, I like a tiktoker that is 5 year's bigger then me😭😭I got no chance

  • @myramyra6221
    @myramyra6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mum was 12 and dad was 32 30 years together and still happy toghether faced alot of judgments and they don't understand that's how much they love each other they o ly see age

  • @153ika
    @153ika 6 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    i am 20 and my bf is 37

  • @lollipoplove7073
    @lollipoplove7073 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now I feel bad of rejecting a guy who approached me and I rejected him because he is 10yrs older than me.

  • @zoemadison578
    @zoemadison578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think age does matter, but like MANY other factors go into a relationship.

  • @emily.ck_30
    @emily.ck_30 6 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    the funny clips in between 💀

  • @reigns1217
    @reigns1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol ,my parents too have an age gap of 15 years...But I just can't get over the fact that my mom was born when my dad graduated HIGH SCHOOL!!! (In my country we finish high school at 15)

  • @hipsterstyles
    @hipsterstyles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ugh I’m always one who thinks that you have to experience life on your own, be truly comfortable with yourself, achieve your goals, chase your dreams etc. All these FIRST before you settle down... Marriage is huge thing. What if you get married before you do things for your own self and you start losing yourself along the way and you’re unhappy? You’re feeling regretful? I guess i’m the only one lol

  • @allietarasova3560
    @allietarasova3560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am 18, just started dating a 36 year old.....My mama doesn`t like it.....:(

  • @bts_army_v7700
    @bts_army_v7700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my mom and dad are 8 years apart and are married for 23 years and are as happy as they can be and it's not a huge age gap according to me❤

    • @Ohkeh640
      @Ohkeh640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice

  • @suspicioushat6790
    @suspicioushat6790 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    aww this is so cute! my bf and i are 9 years apart, so i really relate! i can agree 101% age is just a number, besides my bf is kinda childish so he really doesn't seem his age ahaha. glad to see other couples happy despite a wider age gap in their relationship 💜

  • @krisroblovoe
    @krisroblovoe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    All three look so good together with their partners like damn...where's my boyfriend/partner? #foreveralone

  • @nochu7866
    @nochu7866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My parents are like 12 years apart...and they have been together for almost 21 years❤️

  • @zezerinity
    @zezerinity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:44 I believe on what she said. I love the person very much that I want to do the things with him. It's more happier to be with someone you love while pursuing the things that you want to do in life.