The Sad Endings & Bizarre True Crime Tragedies Of BROTHERS CARY & STEVEN STAYNER!
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Today I visit the gravesite of Steven Stayner, who's buried at Merced Cemetery in Merced, California.
Stayner was abducted by Kenneth Parnell, when he was seven-years old. When he escaped and returned home at the at of 14, his story made headline news around the world. Sadly, a decade later, Steven died in a motorcycle accident.
But the Stayner family crime story didn't end with Steven. In 1999, his older brother Cary, was convicted of killing four women in Yosemite, California. This is a story of two all-American brothers who became famous for all the wrong reasons.
Thanks for joining me today and for sharing the memories!
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You hovered over my mom and dads grave at about 9 minutes in. Steven was my friend before and after his kidnapping. It was my birthday and it felt like Steve, and my mom and dad were wishing me a happy birthday from the other side. Thanks for the post. It was a sad and tragic end.
Thank you for sharing the memory of your mom and dad with us, Morgan. And thank you for sharing your personal memories of Steven with all of us, too. Happy Birthday!
Speaking of birthdays, your dad and I shared the same one, only half a century apart. :D A late happy birthday to you!
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I paused the video to check it out. I hope you have found comfort since their passing.
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My gosh steve, you certainly are determined! You work so hard at finding this grave but you wouldn't give up. I appreciate all your hard work I know that it's not easy. Thank you
Thanks, Connie. It's surprising how difficult it is to find some graves and others you just walk right to.
Steven never got a break. He was kidnapped at 7. He returned to his parents when he was 15. He's a hero for saving a little boy from being victimized like he was.
You mentioned trains and seeing that one pass near this cemetery reminded me of something. My grandfather loved trains. When he passed away and his funeral procession was getting close the cemetery, right in front of his hearse the bells started ringing, the crossing gates lowered and we all had to stop for the train that went by. The timing couldn’t have been more perfect. There wasn’t a dry eye in the car we were in and when we all got to the cemetery others that knew about his love of trains were commenting on it.
Such a sad life and ending for Steven Stayner. Heartbreaking. Thank you for highlighting his story. May he rest in peace.💙
Still breaks my heart how short Stevens life was ,yet to me he is still a hero.
It breaks my heart too.
I remember seeing the movie about Steven as a kid. I remember how sad it was it seems like the poor kid could never catch a break his whole life and after all he went through he had such a tragic ending. I hope he is at peace now
Seems like yesterday… the story was huge here in Sacramento. I’ll never forget Steven, Timothy, or Cary. Thanks again, Steve!
Thanks, Kim!
I forgot Cary really quick he is not worth remembering let him rot in prison where he is
One of the saddest stories I've heard. That poor boy didn't deserve such a cruel fate. Parnell deserved a much longer sentence. RIP Steven.
he got 6 years and was released early then kidnapped 2 more children and received life and he died there in prison. Tim was my cousin
In my world he deserved the death penalty for ruining a child in that way. I'm sure young Steven after suffering 7 years of sexual and mental abuse would have never been right in the head. Those who harm children deserve the most severe punishments possible.
@@flea8332 RIP 🙏😢 to your cousin Tim. What a story.
I feel for Steven's young bride and kid I think he had one but he is in a better place and his father is now there too and maybe his mother losing a child is brutal they lost him twice
@@flea8332 lol the masonic illuminati freakshows letting them out to rape and kill same old. THE Most High God took His children home!!!!! And yes He takes their pain as there are a million testimonies
I live in Australia and I cried watching the news and movie, Steven’s story broke my heart. I sometimes think of his kids, and family. He never got any justice from what happened to him.
Thank you for your persistence and for keeping the victims in the forefront.
Thank you, Dottie!
My ABSOLUTELY FAVORITE video you have done to date period. I will never forget him and his story. Loved Corin Nemic playing him in I Think My First Name is Steven. Made me cry. This video brought tears to my eyes. He went through so much only to end up passing in a motorcycle accident. I think he did get married and have one or two kids 🤔 I follow a FB group about him. This one is SOO APPRECIATED. ❤
Thanks for this one, I worked at Georgia State University Post Office when I was a student. I remember picking up the mail from the US Post Office when they were playing the news and Steven's rescue story was reported on a radio on the loading dock. I will never forget Steven, Rest in Peace, pal.
I chatted with Corin "Corky" Nemec who played teen Steven Stayner in the movie, when he first open his Twitter account and allowed DM's. Corin said he was greatly bothered by Steven's passing. Corin is probably best known for playing Parker Lewis. Very sad story!!
I knew by the name that you were visiting Steven's grave. What a tragedy, to be kidnapped and molested then to make it to his home and he gets killed riding his motor cycle. How sad. RIP Stephen. I remember it was all over the news. His brother, I won't talk about. He is where he deserves to be. Great video Steve.
Thanks, Pat!
That poor kid never had a moments peace.
Have a GREAT weekend Steve and Jim!!
Did you like the cemetery train, Anthony?
@@TheGraveyardChannel Yes! And you describe trains much like us railfanners do!
Ironically in Florida, the practitioners of Santeria roll coconuts through their houses gathering up bad spirits and then put them on the railroad tracks with the belief that the passing trains will whisk away the spirits.
Thank you for this, nice that you found Steven after visiting Timmy last week. That poor boy and his poor parents with what then happened with the elder brother.
I share your love of train horns, we don't have them in the UK so to me that sound is heaven! Thanks for the shout out too.
Thanks for becoming a patron and for being a part of this video, F!
Thank you for sharing.
Shame both boys died shortly after their horrible experience.
We stayed at that motel too on our move from Oregon to Arizona Oct 2020. We had 5 cats, 1 little dog and our 19 old kid with us. I remember the river rocks on the shower floor. Clean and quiet rooms. Thanks for all yout time and energy visiting these beautiful peoples' finally resting place.
Steve, thank you for making this video. I live in central California. I remember Steven's story. I remember Cary's story too. Thank you for also telling Tim White's story. I love your videos.
Thank you, Juanita!
Steve - This was an incredible story - Unbelievable and so very tragic. Thank you for sharing. Blessings - Judith 🎭🎵
Wow Steve, Sherlock Holmes has nothing on you. When it comes to finding a difficult grave site you are dauntless.
The story of the two youngsters in this bizarre and twisted tale is very sad. To think that a disgusting animal (my apologies to animals whose actions are dedicated to survival) could ruin the lives of innocent children fills me with sorrow for the children and disgust for the perpetrator. As a Christian I believe the two innocent children are seated at God's table where only love and no want is present. Thank you Steve for this information follow-up to what you already have shared.
Thank you, Mario!
Mario Linares I must correct one thing you said animals are pure creatures Cary or the man who kidnapped and abused Steven they are scum they are non human demonic entities have taken over them which was by their choices
@@TheGraveyardChannel I don't understand how/why a school would let him enroll Steven in school with no birth certificate, custody papers etc. because they at least had that then. Very odd
Was aware of both stories Steve - the original kidnapping and the later Yosemite Murders…but had NO idea they were linked so closely!
The only saving grace, I guess, is that Steven didn’t live to see how psychotic his brother was, because that would have just been enough to finish him off psychologically. 😪
Thank you so much for this video Steve! As always it was awesome thanks to your great and through work! As weird as this sounds I love true crime and because of that I purchased the Steven Staynor Story on Dvd. I can clear up why Parnell was never charged for Steven's kidnapping is because prosecutors were counting on Steven's testimony to lengthen Parnell's sentence. He couldn't bring himself to even talk about it. He was too overcome and traumatized. All this according to the movie. May Steven rest in peace
Steven’s story was made into a TV movie in 1989 called I Know My Name is Steven. I bought the movie later and watched it several times. It was based on the book with the same name. The book and movie are still available on Amazon for about $12 each for the movie or book.
He was never tried for Stephen. Statute had run already. He was convicted for Timothys kidnapping only. Everyone was his friend when he came home. Many kids ostracized him when he testified. It was pathetic. He left behind a sweet wife and two sweet little children. Carey copped a plea that avoided the death penalty
God will punish Steven's kidnapper and abuser if he is not already the horrible crimes perpetrated on him and that other boy whom he saved will not go unpunished by the lord
aprilgosa5779 The lord took Steven and Timmy before Parnell
Thanks for this one Steve! I watch Lamont too. You both have your own styles and I enjoy your reporting on these stories. They all should be remembered~ Best regards from NJ❣ Joan
What is his TH-cam handle?
Thanks, Joan!
@@nanaterri392 Lamont at Large
Love your stories, thanks so much for your time .
May steven rest in peace! He didn't deserve that but than again NO ONE DOES! Thank you!
Steve, you are one determined person. I appreciate how much you care about these deceased people that you never met to tell their stories and honor their lives. You are a very caring person. This video really touched me.
Thanks, Joan. That's nice to hear!
Thank You for sharing Steve .
Steve, your videos are so interesting and informative. I really appreciate all your hard work
Thanks, JRW!
Good video. I feel like I was there helping you look.
It’s a very interesting and strange story of abduction. But, the back story of the weird family dynamic is both unique and shocking.
I had no idea they were brothers! Wow! How terribly sad for the parents.
To this day its still heartbreaking for our families , in ways you could never understand .
I've driven Hwy 99 for years without knowing that this is where Steven was buried. I remember the story of his abduction and his rescue of the second child but I had completely forgotten about his death, leaving behind a wife and 2 young children, and his brother's killings. Such tragedy in this family. It surprised me that Steven's Dad wasn't buried near Steven until I did a search and found that his Dad, a Korean War Veteran, was buried in San Joaquin Valley National Cemetery. Thank you for your respectful visit and not giving up on Steven's location.
Another great video Steve thank you
Enjoyed this
Thanks for your persistence Steve, I remember the story so sad.
The way Steven was bullied afterwards and was made to feel ashamed about what happened to him is so tragic. He is a hero he saved this other little boy from going through the years of abuse he suffered from his capturer .. Cary is a gross monster I can’t believe these two are brothers.
A real Cain & Abel Story.
You’re so right, Steve. You couldn’t write something like this.😔
Such determination to find Steven. Steve you go above and beyond what most people do and are so respectful. I hope you and Jim are staying safe 💙
Thank you, Fay!
The whole Steven Stayner tragedy really just makes me so sad. Not just what Steven himself went through, but his family, the boy he saved, his brother Cary's victims.. the whole thing is just one big tragedy
Thank you for taking the time to fine the grave site and for the kindness you shown to lamount your words you use and the compation is just great. Again I say thank you
Thank you, so much, Pattie!
@@TheGraveyardChannel 🙂
I love your videos and the info you give on them.
You're awesome and very helpful for others that would like to visit his grave. Thank you so much
Intresting story,thanks for sharing🍀
I am glad you are so determined-thanks Steve!💕👍
Parnell got 22 months for Steven due to California law at the time. Parnell got 5 years for Timothy White, whose trial was first. When stevens trial came up the most the judge could give was 22 extra months for Steven, served _concurrently_ not _consecutively_ , meaning the 22 months were served as part of Whites time, not *after* awful, stupid laws that should have never been.
The last child he abducted or tried to, the woman was his caretaker, she knew his history, turned him in, and when he paid the money for a 5 year old boy, he was arrested. Thankfully, no actual child was involved.
Stevens story is so sad, he was just beginning to live again. He left a wife and two children. Parnell started him on drugs, he was high when killed in the motorcycle accident, so in a way Parnell killed him in the end.
Carey is mentally ill if read of him, problems began as a young man. Newer books of I know my first name is Steven have updated part on Carey as well. Timmy of course died young of natural causes. Sad story all around..RIP STEVEN, TIMMY, (JOIE, CAROLE, JULIE, SVETLANA) ..CAREYS VICTIMS
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Interesting vlog thanks
Thanks for the story Steve
I saw the movie about Steven. What a terrible life he had. I just cannot even begin to imagine what he went through. Thank you for posting this.
RIP Steven...your never will be forgotten and will always be loved and missed 💔..YOUR always in our prayers...thk you...Steve for doing this..
great video sir
This was a tragic story I heard about this so many times and it still gets to me amazing video Steve hope you in Jim are doing well God bless you both much love
Thanks, Deevine!
Very nice video, Steve. Such a crazy story.. I’m getting caught up on videos today, so I’m glad to see that I have a few of yours to watch!
Thanks for watching, Chris. I know you've been busy visiting cemeteries lately. Looking forward to you sharing them!
Thank you for telling his story.💖
Hi Steve! This was a very interesting and sad video! Thank you for your hard work in finding Steven's grave, and for all of your research!👍👍
Excellent job Steve great video
Thanks Alex 👍
Thanks Steve for yet another great video! This young man went through so much in his short life. I had no idea about his brother being a serial killer. I can't wait for your video on that story! Looking forward to more great stories...I am loving your channel more and more with each and every post!!!
Thank you, Donner!
Thanks, Steve!
I was thinking about this case recently and I couldn't for the life of me remember the names of the victim and his murderer brother. I saw a documentary on it years ago but forgot so much about it I thought Cary Stayner the brother was related to the hero/kid involved in the mid 70's bus hijacking in southern California. I couldn't have been more wrong. Thanks for clearing up my memories. A very tragic case for so many different families.
Very touching story Rest in Peace young man Thanks Steve for your persistence.❤️😎
Great video Steve
Thanks Randy!
Thanks for sharing this story!!!😇☹👏
I remember this story. My heartaches for these parents and the parents of those women. It's amazing how an incident in someone else's life can affect yours. It's too much. 🫂♥️🫂
Another great video and the fact that there was fog Made it so appropriate for this time of year !👍👍
So interesting to see where you stayed. Looks quite comfy! Love your videos Steve .
Glad you enjoyed seeing it, Susan. It was very comfortable!
Love this steve just love your videos thanks again👍
Glad you like them, Tom!
Love your channel....thank u for your efforts.. You are a good story teller. 😇
Thank you so much, Carolyn!
Thank you so much for the story, I knew about Steven Stayner from your last video, but I had no idea about Cary. Thank you also for your dedication to finding Steven's grave! I would have given up after about an hour.
Thanks, fd!
Another interesting story and great video. Thanks Steve.
Thanks for watching, Fred!
@@TheGraveyardChannel Would you consider visiting Edgar Rice Burrows.
always like your post love from Tasmania Australia
So nice of you, jr!
Bless you 🙏
sad but incredible story. I'm looking forward to your next video. Good Bless & take care.
I've watched the Mr Ballen video about the crazy brother that killed the ladies and that'll make you head spin as to why a guy with all he had going for him would throw it all away the way he did...
Thank you Steve for the video and thanks for your persistence!
Tragic case indeed
Dear me.
Kindest regards to you and Jim
DJ from the UK!
Thank you, DJ!
You keep doing a good job Steve I enjoyed it
Another incredibly sad story with weird twist very interesting thank you Steve good job
Thanks Thomas 👍
i have never heard of this story..thank you for sharing
Thank you for watching, Jody!
Steve, you are so dedicated! Loved this one! As a former Forensic Pathologist, I'm always fascinated by crime.
Wow, what an interesting and important job you had, Leesa!
I remember hearing about this story. Soo sad. The laws are ridiculous. He should of been sent to prison for life. Your research is good, glad I subscribed.
I have never heard of these young men. Thanks for sharing the information and video.
Thank you for sharing your video what a sad thing what happened to him very sad 🥺. stay safe out there.
Thanks, Olivia!
I appreciate you sharing this. I love trains too🚂
You doing a good job Steve thankyou for you stream
I remember the story from when Steven escaped and took young Timmy with him. Also the TV movie. And then to find out Steven's brother Cary was a serial killer! Wow! What that family went through.
Hey Steven another great video, this was a sad story I also so the movie about him. I hope Steven is resting peace.
Wow, it was nice to see Stevens gravesite. I have read a lot about him over the years and watched the movie that was made. He had no help intergrading back into his previous life and former classmates in school were cruel as they had no understanding what he had been through. Family tried to help but they also had no support or counseling. This was a enjoyable video Steve. I too like to see the hotel rooms. I recently moved to Hawaii and have been visiting a lot of hotels!
It makes you wonder if he would still be alive if he had had therapy and support after this life shattering event. Glad you enjoyed seeing the room. Hawaii sounds awesome. Aloha!
@@TheGraveyardChannel loved there 5 years. you can have it
Verry tragic and very sad story and Thank you for looking at the graves of those brothers ! Its so very sad ! Always a pleasure watching your videos and hope you have a great weekend and a very nice day ! Its a nice day temp wise high of 72 but rain is in the forecast ! I love 72 degrees perfect temp to have !
Thanks, Patti!
what a sad story all the way around. Thanks for sharing, I remember both stories so well.(that gray structure is a well)
Thanks for clearing that up, Leah!
I love your videos very interesting in the story's and that there true
Jessy Stayner, the uncle buried next to Steven, was murdered in his home in 1990, and no arrest has ever been made. There is speculation that Cary killed Jessy, because they were living together in the home at the time.
OMG, I wondered why he died so young. That sure would make sense, wouldn’t it?! Thanks for sharing this with us Paul!
Awesome, upload my friend. 😍🌺Thanks for sharing. 👍 Have a nice day.☺❤
Steven thank you sooo much for saving that little boys life .You are a wonderful young man and you will always be loved and remembered!!! Never forgotten ❤💔♥💖I think about you often.Sorry for all the teasing you got and you handled it so well.My neighbor always said he would have given those kids a beatdown !! I never say goodbye l say see you later
Boy Steve, your a trooper and have persevered! That story was so 😥! I think I remember hearing about this story before. This poor boy, unfortunately 😔, led a very troubled like after being abducted. Too 😥!
You and Lamont are my go to!
Lovely room, Steve. Very cheerful looking, and it has everything u need👍🏿.
The Metro North commuter train runs up n down Park Ave in NYC., to Grand Central Station. I sometimes hear its whistle as it's passing thru East Harlem, in Manhattan, where I grew up.
Anyway, thank u yet again for allowing me to "travel" with u. I've never visited California. So it's nice to see different states & places one has never been.
RIP Steven Stayner✝️🕯🌷
Travel safe, Steve🙇🏽♀️
Hey Steve Love JP your Positiveness is Amazing!
Thanks, John-Paul!
I well remember the Steven Stayner case, and had hoped he finally found peace and a brighter future. I agree that he is no longer suffering from the terrible things that took away his innocence. May he rest in peace. Oh, by the way, Merced, California is where the actress of the classical era, Jeanne Crain. came from.