Lies, love and HIV - The story of Renny Mbori and Martin Oyoto

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  • Renny Atieno Mbori had a secret and she kept it from her husband, Martin Amolo Oyoto, for over 10 years. What was it and how did she cope with the weight of the secret she held? Don't miss this edition of Better Living with Kobi Kihara.
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  • @sharonsekano5022
    @sharonsekano5022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I never new gentle men existed till i watched this video. Martin is such a blessing. the story is so touching and emotional.

  • @Renegade_studios
    @Renegade_studios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I still feel she was selfish and should have told him while he was negative knowing he would never leave her but he’s amazing for staying!

  • @baddie_peppapig1
    @baddie_peppapig1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Martin you are the man.A true picture of how christ loved the church...Wow

  • @tiffanydevine6770
    @tiffanydevine6770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She’s so Selfish.... 10 years. I’m sorry that’s not love from her end.

  • @faithkarimi4478
    @faithkarimi4478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    this is so touching. and the grace that that man has to forgive to that extent is out of this world. may they live long long long life together.

  • @christinagoredema6561
    @christinagoredema6561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Im sorry to say this woman was selfish. She could have protected him by using protection. She says she doesnt know how she got it yet she wasinjecting blood! If she was in denial then she wouldn’t have had protected the kids. She knew she had it. He has a heart of Gold may God keep him.

    • @doras6772
      @doras6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surely you don't know the burden that this lady was carrying, it's too bad that the guy got infected too! But thank God she got herself a very loving man!!

    • @eddiekruggerr4972
      @eddiekruggerr4972 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@doras6772 how would you feel if your partner infected you with HIV?

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eddiekruggerr4972 nothing because there's nothing to do,its already done.
      Thats also my personal story.

    • @lollymadikiza3174
      @lollymadikiza3174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @christina...i agree wid u, she is cruel & selfish, strange dat girls like her end up wid good men(south Africa)

  • @irenenyamburamwangi7321
    @irenenyamburamwangi7321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    whoa! reckless love! the way this man loved this lady in spite of her shame and secret is the way God loves us just like the prodigal son in Luke 15. May God bless their union.

  • @hannahnjuugu5170
    @hannahnjuugu5170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    How can we honor such men in our society???? Such a beautiful soul!!! Martin, because of your unconditional love may our good and gracious God shower your generations with blessings.

  • @solangen1560
    @solangen1560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I can't hold my tears , God is good all the time ,Martine God bless beyond .

  • @stellaharris6191
    @stellaharris6191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Martin🙏🏾 You are the embodiment of Christ’s love. Am in tears watching this.

  • @sarahngugi7122
    @sarahngugi7122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This man is one in a million may God bless his family greatly

  • @amandastephanie3584
    @amandastephanie3584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My humble prayer: that the good Lord blesses me with a black, yellow or white Martin in this life...Amen!

  • @Karry45
    @Karry45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh what a man? Someone give me a man like this and I marry him forever ..

  • @moemusa0014
    @moemusa0014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    No need of likes to me but sincerely speaking am on the same situation but we are leaving happily I have a story to tell to show the world what it takes to be a man sometimes

    • @chplyd2850
      @chplyd2850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We need to talk man

    • @TheTeresiah
      @TheTeresiah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless 🙌🏽❤️

    • @nyakaru_orina
      @nyakaru_orina 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chplyd2850 did you guys eventually connect?

  • @Iman_39
    @Iman_39 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She had a knife under the seat😨what kind of love is this.. The guy loves her unconditionally,unfortunately she doesn't according to me she's selfish and there for personal reasons

  • @georgespeter7106
    @georgespeter7106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel bad for the guy if that woman really love the guy she cudnt keep secrets to the love ones...she take his kindness as his weakness...according to the law unafaa to be charged for infecting someone ukijua hi are +ve

  • @sallysarch9441
    @sallysarch9441 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Unfair to the guy

  • @blendfold
    @blendfold 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I find Martins patience and love for his wife inspiring. However I find that this encourages others to do the same, to infect others unknowingly. It’s illegal to not disclose someone’s status and not give them a chance to protect themselves. There should be a disclaimer from this video.

  • @vlindermadelief9487
    @vlindermadelief9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This man's humbleness is on another level. He reminds me of my dad💞

    • @loya.ls.4552
      @loya.ls.4552 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry

    • @lisalee7308
      @lisalee7308 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i call it stupidity. It's like someone telling you to drink poison and because of love you do it!! Something is wrong with the man that they're hiding.

  • @cocobetter2113
    @cocobetter2113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This woman is cold as hell!!!

  • @achienglilian6395
    @achienglilian6395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    this man was created on Sunday 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @MishenOnMission
      @MishenOnMission 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sure... during morning glory prayers

    • @estimatekay7351
      @estimatekay7351 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @lizaezra6966
      @lizaezra6966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooo no from the leftover clay🤣🤣🤣

    • @nomatterbutau106
      @nomatterbutau106 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 true tho

  • @slimk8744
    @slimk8744 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this guy has a golden heart

  • @stellakeziah8621
    @stellakeziah8621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think this lady ddnt love him..she jst married him cz she was desperate. The guy loved her so much that he was too blind to see her fauls. That's so selfish of her.

  • @jom.8938
    @jom.8938 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Martin you are truly a wonderful soul- this is truly a love story. May God continue to strengthen you and your marriage as you parent your daughters

  • @nonnynzuza9939
    @nonnynzuza9939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Martin, my brother, you have a heart of Gold!! So so good to know there are good people like you, well brought up you are😊God bless you and your family, may your kids take after you

    • @marie7710
      @marie7710 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please God see Martin through because his wife has an evil mind and heart. If she is testifying now how she managed to keep her HIV status as a secret for 10 yrs and never infected her husband, then we can tell she is a good person and really loved her husband but now!haaiya! This is a classic case study of how evil can dictate to destroy another person's life knowingly.

  • @dorcaskagwi706
    @dorcaskagwi706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    ooh what an amazing guy ..Martin you r exceptional you are a man with a golden heart.

  • @girlmagic3089
    @girlmagic3089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    😭all of you are overwhelmed by this man's golden heart but I'm also starstruck by this woman's ability to know and own her mistakes with grace

  • @GloBahati1923
    @GloBahati1923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story is so inspiring ....God bless your union for holding up together inspite of it all.

  • @justjayna5244
    @justjayna5244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her." GOD BLESS YOU MARTIN

    • @lisalee7308
      @lisalee7308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nonsense...Leave God out of this because if she was walking with God she wouldn't take blood and get HIV. It is not love on her part to infect a man when she could have prevented it. She stopped taking the pills that could prevent her husband from being infected which is very selfish, uncaring and irresponsible. She is not innocent, she is wicked

    • @latifagogola1863
      @latifagogola1863 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lisa for sure i wonder yani mmmmh mimi nakosa neno la kuongea maana!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @kimberleyhastings16
      @kimberleyhastings16 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@lisalee7308💯💯

  • @carlexerfinny2585
    @carlexerfinny2585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    am so happy that am expecting my first baby girl i and my husband got tested this year we are both negative am so happy my baby is safe and she has all physical features and good health thank you my LORD....may GOD bless this couple and give them a long life Amen....

  • @annejames1945
    @annejames1945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Being an affection of HIV patient I really learned alot , it takes time for one to accept the status but ones you accept and start taking arvs life moves on.. Happy for my cousin having it since 2007 and she is health and a mum

  • @judemazho9612
    @judemazho9612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Uiiii Martin how much you make me cry, you are really likeness of Jesus Himself. I pray that God will heal you completely and also use you to demonstrate His love 😍!
    You are blessed both.

  • @ritaroggs
    @ritaroggs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    what an Awesome Gentleman???
    iv cried...when he Turned Positive😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭God bless him! God bless this Relationship. long Live.

  • @josephinehlaisi5660
    @josephinehlaisi5660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Martin May the favor of God be with you. God can heal HIV

  • @linahdaniel999
    @linahdaniel999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So these men do exist

  • @glenokelly2670
    @glenokelly2670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I would like to donate for the cause, just to them.

  • @marthawanjiru5976
    @marthawanjiru5976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Waoh such a gentla man may God continue blessing u

    • @mariamkhamis2318
      @mariamkhamis2318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God is wonderful when you believe,,amaizing.Long life..😍

  • @margaretmaingi1711
    @margaretmaingi1711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so amazing. May God bless you.
    You will surely live a long life!!

  • @yarajok418
    @yarajok418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a gracious man but I can't help think this woman was reckless not how she contracted the disease but the fact that she kept this news a secret. Had she informed her partner earlier he would have not contracted the disease.

  • @josephgatere7616
    @josephgatere7616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We need more couples like this one. God bless you Renny. God bless you Martin

  • @mumynationchanel2812
    @mumynationchanel2812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the man is good but the women is heartless after u have make him to have Hiv now you think you save him madam you are wicked

  • @moregainsmorehs
    @moregainsmorehs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman never loved this man, she was just there for the support nothing else, how can you do this to a person you love.

  • @mariamkaranja7231
    @mariamkaranja7231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really???? Martin God bless you but after all u infected him n that's not cool

  • @patiences.walutsachi3052
    @patiences.walutsachi3052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Touched!
    Martin, this was symbolic of how Christ has loved and has still accepted us no matter what we do, may God bless you
    And to both of you, thank you for that courage to share your story
    This is a great lesson

  • @maureenkariuki254
    @maureenkariuki254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I pray that you both turn negative miraculously just like you guys are miraculous. Nawapenda Sana.
    But nimelia sana woiye.

  • @bensontreasure4036
    @bensontreasure4036 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I lost words to those couple,so touching mpaka i think the interview was too short...waandike kitabu.

  • @kirstykirsty5706
    @kirstykirsty5706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She needs to go to prison she knew omg smh why omg

  • @paulinemuthoni6664
    @paulinemuthoni6664 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This union was made in heaven and it will forever flourish no matter what kudos Martin

  • @MishenOnMission
    @MishenOnMission 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wauuu.... God are u still creating people? kindly create one for me.. just like Martin plzz

  • @deescott8312
    @deescott8312 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should have told her husband .. it was selfish of her not to .. her husband is such a good man she doesn’t deserve him

  • @janetjeptoo4567
    @janetjeptoo4567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Where are men like this, but why did she infect such a soul..
    ??

  • @sheillajeptum2509
    @sheillajeptum2509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww Martin. You deserve everything you every wished and dreamt of, everything you worked hard for including your family you deserve it.

  • @muthonimwari882
    @muthonimwari882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She would have told him the secret,it she loves him,because if you love someone they will stick with even if sick

  • @seraphinjj2012
    @seraphinjj2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the kindness of this man😭😭😭. Bro, I love you so much.

  • @dorisdreezy3103
    @dorisdreezy3103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love is stupid and blind

  • @winfredterp1420
    @winfredterp1420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What the heck is this guy made of? You have a wonderful faith, a wonderful God, a wonderful family.

  • @beverlyfrancis8433
    @beverlyfrancis8433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's weird, sharing blood without knowing the match.

  • @janewangui2257
    @janewangui2257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing couples,GOD bless them fr being open abt their status. They will save a lot of families.

  • @mgori_media
    @mgori_media 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sad to infect someone knowingly. May God help you as you move forward.

  • @vlindermadelief9487
    @vlindermadelief9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing God's plan and this man's love for his wife is abundant.

  • @beamazing2497
    @beamazing2497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am not trying to be mean but this lady selfishly infected that man with HIV.Why did she keep the secret? She should have told him when he tested negative.He doesn't seem like he would of left her anyways.

  • @justdawnonline
    @justdawnonline ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's very manipulative. All that running away. She trapped him to staying

  • @phyllmwangi
    @phyllmwangi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fantastic couple .. long live and best wishes to both of you and your family

  • @julietagho6008
    @julietagho6008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The husband is a great man. Question, Did the husband call the wife one day to ask her what the problem was heart to heart? Yes he was always loving, caring, providing which the whole world appreciate, but it would have made a difference if he had one moment sat her close to ask one on one question. African men, yea, most African men really don't have heart to heart talk with thier wives. Stay blessed.

  • @evangelisttwinky981
    @evangelisttwinky981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    At times you may think you are going through tough time..but listen to other peoples stories chai

  • @MonicaMonica-up1zr
    @MonicaMonica-up1zr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    am swept away with this couples.may i get their conyacts plz hv asecret to them

  • @gbsm2699
    @gbsm2699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Communication Communication Communication
    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @sonieblessings9385
    @sonieblessings9385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My goodness. This woman is so selfish. How can you claim you love someone but put him at risk over and over? This was an offence and legally she can be charged. Luckily her husband has the real LOVE. The love that the Bible talks about. May his love continue to change his wife ( who still thinks love made him stupid) and many more people.

    • @elizabethisrael4256
      @elizabethisrael4256 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are not a good listener! Your name is blessing i doubt

    • @sonieblessings9385
      @sonieblessings9385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elizabethisrael4256 each to Thier own Brenda. You are untitled to your own opinion and so am I.

    • @florencewilson4821
      @florencewilson4821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. She is a selfish woman and very controlling

    • @verizzonwanjiru1914
      @verizzonwanjiru1914 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @celestekakunze8037
    @celestekakunze8037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have never seen a man like you, may God for give her because what she did was not good for someone you love. It’s not good to hide secret to someone you love.I will remember you in prayer I am sure God can heal you from this sickness when he do let us know. I thank God for your children’s life, keep praying don’t give up.

  • @dorcasmarende1354
    @dorcasmarende1354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow.... so touching and educative

  • @ruthatieno4904
    @ruthatieno4904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful couple God bless you guys

  • @sarahngugi7122
    @sarahngugi7122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lovely couple God bless you mightily

  • @estherkagema6537
    @estherkagema6537 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Extraordinary man.....Not many men can fathom this situation esp the secret ... I salute you boss...

  • @candidmusings
    @candidmusings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Martin was so naïve.

  • @xstn8
    @xstn8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Had she disclosed at the moment of first discovery she would have saved martin,God did everything to keep him from getting infected ,all those times she deserted him,tried divorcing him and even separated was probably God saying no my son i am trying to keep you from a danger that I alone know but martin for loves sake,family n faith insisted .life is cruel and as humans i guess our fate is sealed .God please speak to me clearly don't leave shades of grey lest i perish in my desire to do right.Teary

  • @ibuchiwill170
    @ibuchiwill170 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big up Martin's, your the real gee,wifey your cool remain blessed

  • @easterpatelawadh3963
    @easterpatelawadh3963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God is a living God. May he continue protecting guiding and blessing this lovely family. The man is a gentle man. Other men should learn from him. Be blessed Martin.

  • @girlmagic3089
    @girlmagic3089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    this interviewer is terrible at her job..she's giving it away..that she already knows the story and desperate to share the story's highlights instead of letting them talk about it

  • @lanasessy1999
    @lanasessy1999 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!!! am speechless but impressed. Such an amazing story ♡♡♡

  • @sophiakamau123
    @sophiakamau123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you and your family brother Martin🙏🏿

  • @withoutjesuschristofnazare2746
    @withoutjesuschristofnazare2746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The GRACE OF GOD is sufficient that is the KEY.
    Praise be to our LORD JESUS CHRIST.

  • @berniceonegbmusic2324
    @berniceonegbmusic2324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Renny hakumaliza shule na kizungu yake ni tamu kuliko yangu,yangu iko kwa akili ikifika mdomoni inablock na nimemaliza university

  • @AS-lz6hp
    @AS-lz6hp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shes a beautiful woman. I see why he loves her . She so cute and petite . God bless them 😘

  • @margaretkamau3095
    @margaretkamau3095 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to know real gentlemen still exist ,God bless you Martin

  • @lorrainechigodora47
    @lorrainechigodora47 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Martin is God sent. Keep the love burning

  • @destinyparis710
    @destinyparis710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A heart of an angel.

  • @laurakinjoki5211
    @laurakinjoki5211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kobi kihara is such an awesome interviewer. I admire how she put herself in their shoes and I enjoyed the interview

  • @felistasapis8462
    @felistasapis8462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Martin , you are saint. Good blessings. Renny , you are such a gift to Martin, that he becomes a hero of all husband on Earth.

  • @stephu1332
    @stephu1332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    An angel of a husband! God bless your family!

  • @rachealthomas8915
    @rachealthomas8915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    heeee....jesus some men were created in heaven I would just want to hug you Mr right my God bless you and grant you many years to live

  • @jackiekirabbo7662
    @jackiekirabbo7662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear God, are such kind of men still exists??....If yes,I need one too. Thanks @Martin

    • @MishenOnMission
      @MishenOnMission 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also need one...please God bless me with one

  • @evangelisttwinky981
    @evangelisttwinky981 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a sad long journey story it is really God's work.. we thank God for such people

  • @patrioticpeacekeepers1227
    @patrioticpeacekeepers1227 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So touching story

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    aww am teary.....God will keep you long enough , you shall not die premature

  • @franciscamueni8961
    @franciscamueni8961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So touching,, true love

  • @dottynight
    @dottynight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Martin, God bless you.

  • @julianamakau8742
    @julianamakau8742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is love i swear. May God bless your marriage Martin and your wife.

  • @bensonkinoti4779
    @bensonkinoti4779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a touching story..... The wife should repent for being so selfish yet God was gracious enough to give her a good man.

  • @luckyemmanuel8241
    @luckyemmanuel8241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for this, I'm down because of this issue,but now I feel free

  • @yvonnede-souza4809
    @yvonnede-souza4809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like your strength man.