8 Clear signs you are not ready for a marriage / serious relationship | smile with prachi

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  • Is it too soon, or are you ready for a bigger commitment? Time to stop running from yourself, and know what you really need and want :)
    New channel for the old smile with prachi series. Will be uploading the original videos first and then pick up from there :-)
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    Disclaimer: This is not professional advice, please take this series lightly. Treat my opinions as something coming from your friend. For those suffering from depression and mental health issues I would seriously recommend going to a professional.

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  • @saranibhattacharya2849
    @saranibhattacharya2849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Never getting married. Happy being single

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @Tom K tomktom99 lesbians can also get married..its legal you knowww

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @Tom K tomktom99 and who makes you the judge of whats right and what gives a good message? If two people love each other.. They get to be together.. And thats amazing. You are no one to judge anyone especially with that English of yours.

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Tom K tomktom99 i am not advising anyone to do anything.. I am simply saying if thats what people like you are no one to judge.. And lesbianism isn't something to adopt.. Its something you are born with.
      Its your orientation. And you can't change it.

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @Tom K tomktom99 this girl simply said.. She doesn't wanna get married.. How can you make a judgement on her and call her a lesbian?Straight girls also don't wanna get married due to reasons of their own.. You can't put labels on people whenever you wish.. I get that you are homophobic but you can shove your mentality up your hind end.. And accept people for who they are.

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Tom K tomktom99 oh god.. Go to school and learn some english.. And then write comments.. I can't understand a word you said.

  • @SuperWowstyle
    @SuperWowstyle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    New videos starting tomorrow

    • @dilpreetkaurgill7099
      @dilpreetkaurgill7099 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you plz send your email so that i can also send u the letter😣

    • @AshleenKaur
      @AshleenKaur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plz do write ur mail id !!!

    • @preethyp4043
      @preethyp4043 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls share your email id

    • @dilpreetkaurgill7099
      @dilpreetkaurgill7099 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@preethyp4043 go to abouts page you ll find her email id

    • @AshleenKaur
      @AshleenKaur 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@preethyp4043 who me??

  • @prakritidas3547
    @prakritidas3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I am 20 n every one in family is telling me to get married n all but will wait at least I should be 26 n then I will marry this is my plan

    • @deepamurthy7105
      @deepamurthy7105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Trust me get married when u re ready...to accept
      1. the change...
      2.diff family
      3.dominating in laws
      4.compromises only from ur side
      5.the limits or restrictions
      6.dos n donts
      Marry wen u re 28 yrs then at 30 u ll b forced for kids !!
      Meanwhile study get job..b financially independent n travel n then go on few dates n njoy to fullest...then marry !!

    • @prakritidas3547
      @prakritidas3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@deepamurthy7105 yes I agree with u truly 😄💖 coz I will be independent n mature then I will get married

    • @prakritidas3547
      @prakritidas3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tom K tomktom99 hmm

    • @prakritidas3547
      @prakritidas3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tom K tomktom99 yes I knw n I understood ur point

    • @shellypal3694
      @shellypal3694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Take a stand. Stop listening them. Listen to your heart. It's your life. One wrong decision can make you regret life long. And one right decision can make you healty, happy and success life long. So, always to yourself before and after listening to the polluted world or society.

  • @rekhapendiala5916
    @rekhapendiala5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You made it easier for me to make categorical decisions. I was reeling under huge pressure and guilt to even exercise my basic rights and choices. Society has made me feel that I am at fault just because I exercise my choices. It had put me under immense pain and depression. Thanks to your videos, I am able to understand who is at fault, I am now able to choose whats right for me, identify negative people and put them at bay. Thanks a tonne Prachi. God bless you.

  • @sg3918
    @sg3918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    16:08 very good point. the wedding is DAY 0 of marital life in what could be a journey exceeding 50 years. just make sure you are more excited and happy about your to be spouse and the family you are marrying into rather than planning some elaborate day and dressing in your best clothes which will be a fading memory soon after once 'life' returns.

  • @payalspalette1038
    @payalspalette1038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This makes me realise my partner is so much better than me😂 lucky to have him, I need to work on certain things!

  • @buildyourself3521
    @buildyourself3521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Listening to you is feel like my brain is talking to me. Thank you for wonderful video 😊😊👍

  • @Mani-ee2pe
    @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Personally I Don't think.. "little flirting is okay"
    Its not okay. If you and your partner are Happy and they don't wanna do anything to do with the other person.. Why will they flirt with random people?? Its not fine.

    • @shellypal3694
      @shellypal3694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Flirting isn't okay totally. But it is scientifically true that, after having a serious and healthy relationship, sometimes u feel attracted to beautiful girls or handsome boys. And this is casual and general. Bcz brain always gets attracted towards beauty through eyes. But the thing is that one shouldn't take this attraction too seriously.

    • @Mani-ee2pe
      @Mani-ee2pe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@shellypal3694 i agree but flirting is taking action... Right?

    • @shellypal3694
      @shellypal3694 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mani-ee2pe yeah.. you are right 👍

    • @riashridher2212
      @riashridher2212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      everyone is entitled to their own opinion. be with someone who thinks the same as you. personally, i think it's fine to flirt a little bit.

    • @arshiyaguptaa
      @arshiyaguptaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

  • @althaf192
    @althaf192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    #1 'negative things inside us' point.. really helped out well..i was confused...u cleared it up..❤️

  • @jyotsnavashi8988
    @jyotsnavashi8988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Prachi di I like how you explain things in your videos . It put things into persoective . I think one should marry when we are actually ready. And not because its a society’s norm to get married at a certain age .

    • @bharathdv4210
      @bharathdv4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      100% rightly said.. also we should marry only when we get a partner of our choice.. no point in compromising

  • @dreamweaver1558
    @dreamweaver1558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I wish I had got these advice a few years back..

  • @ekta8704
    @ekta8704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow what a nice thing to say in 1st point I had baggage & I thought my partner will solve it and make me happy but that was wrong. I really learned good lesson

  • @nandanikumari6715
    @nandanikumari6715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Prachi di first of all I luv u soooooo much u r just fabolus ......I rearly do comments in any channel but u touches my heart in each and every vedio ....a positive vibes come from you make me happy and I start loving myself whenever I feel lonely disturbed I just come to your channel and see u the way u talk ....I luv the way u Handel each and every situation so calmly ......u r doing gr8 job .....I learnt a lot from u ...I just want to say that u r my mentor somewhere luv u ❤

  • @swatihegde164
    @swatihegde164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I just hate marriage

  • @triptirathore9027
    @triptirathore9027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stay single stay happy :)

  • @shatarupachowdhury4100
    @shatarupachowdhury4100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am in a serious relationship I feel very happy with him but sometimes I feel like maybe I am making a mistake but i don't want to breakup with me I am very confused sometimes he is very loving and caring and sometimes he is a completely unknown to me

    • @monagautam8052
      @monagautam8052 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😓

    • @janasharma0710
      @janasharma0710 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😥

    • @Bonanza889
      @Bonanza889 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May be hes faking it

    • @SS-bu8ez
      @SS-bu8ez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't marry if you're doubtful

    • @ayushighosh20
      @ayushighosh20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your intuition is always right. Trust it. Trust it.

  • @rajishar.v8795
    @rajishar.v8795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    House wife I am hating this status.....

    • @DarkSoul-fh8yl
      @DarkSoul-fh8yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Home maker!

    • @joannajoel
      @joannajoel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can understand. But try if you can get to work somehow. Talk to your spouse about how you feel.

  • @amitpaul7940
    @amitpaul7940 ปีที่แล้ว

    The number of views in such constructive videos shows why so many relationships are disastrous now.

  • @shilpashreelgowda2842
    @shilpashreelgowda2842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Prachi.... I just subscribed because I felt you are talking sense... all the best👍😊

  • @cuttostah
    @cuttostah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video is very very helpful❤ I thank you with all my heart for explaining all these points so beautifully❤❤❤

  • @angelicab5145
    @angelicab5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am always negative and unhappy
    Always crumbling and angry not at a happy stage .Can you suggest some therapist or some things I can do to improve

  • @akashi-theskyworld2636
    @akashi-theskyworld2636 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you explain is commendable

  • @gl1981
    @gl1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was extremely useful thanks a lot ❤️

  • @kavyakans96
    @kavyakans96 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much prachi maam u actually clear my all mental lock god bless you ❤️

  • @BossOp0909
    @BossOp0909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Prachi I m a 23 year old and my father is thinking for marriage and I had a boyfriend before and we were indulge in physical relationship also ....n i belong to a very conservative family ....I wanna say truth to fiance but how? Please help me out with this

    • @340ji
      @340ji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Decision aapka tha but aage iska kya asar hoga relation me isko dhyan me rakhte huye agar ye mamla pahle clear ho jaye to sahi h pahle us ladke ki matuarity level dkh lo fir kuch decide karna aur sach bolne me darna mat life me🤘

    • @unavemarunthu5110
      @unavemarunthu5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why can’t you marry the guy with whom U had physical relation ship ?? Think about it !! In case if he s good guy go for the same person ...

    • @KUSH_Joshi
      @KUSH_Joshi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U are saying that ur from a conservative family then why did u indulge ur self in such things before marriage.... Dont you value yr family??? Hypocrite 😐🙄

    • @ayushighosh20
      @ayushighosh20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@KUSH_Joshi So? Maybe she thought she'll spend the rest of her life with him and that didn't happen. Conservative atmosphere has nothing on love.

    • @KUSH_Joshi
      @KUSH_Joshi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ayushighosh20 yes may be!! But if she knew her family is conservative then she should hold herself until marriage .
      Just my opinion coz iam from a conservative family and even if i enter a relationship i hold my self until marriage for physical things coz i know until marriage things can go wrong!!

  • @riswana979
    @riswana979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After marriage i realize that i am not ready for a married life i want live my life for me what am i do😭😭😭

  • @anuradharastogi8196
    @anuradharastogi8196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    mujhe to kbhi nahi lgta ki hm Sadi k layak kbhi hoge....

    • @railwaynews2446
      @railwaynews2446 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cuz all female females are immature,,even this girl who is making vedio😆😆 kanna raja andhi praja

    • @lovemypain7501
      @lovemypain7501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@railwaynews2446 no yaar😂

  • @revathithara6281
    @revathithara6281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful video, makes lot of sense. Love u di

  • @helpingvideos2015
    @helpingvideos2015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TQ u Prachi Didi it's very helpful to lot of girls

  • @pritiraj5875
    @pritiraj5875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great explanation 👏❤️
    In the last your reaction is so cute & 😘❤️😍

  • @19blackstar
    @19blackstar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don’t agree with point #2. It’s not insecurity. Is about being sure that the guy or girl isn’t a cheater etc. It can be about playing safe. If one is stalking constantly it’s a different story. Also, especially in arranged marriage kind of set ups it’s hard to find out about the person.

  • @urjasvirathva6000
    @urjasvirathva6000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! ❤

  • @SuyogVSK
    @SuyogVSK 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Speaking personally, the whole point of me watching the video was to see after each and every point do I imagine about any one girl. But frankly speaking I didn't. So does that clearly say I am not ready for a serious relationship?

  • @kamblepranita1595
    @kamblepranita1595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very helpful video prachi 💓

  • @honeyostwal846
    @honeyostwal846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Prachi .... very helpful video 🙏👍🏻

  • @vr3216
    @vr3216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here is the thing guys i have met are very vague about their expectations like he broke up his last relationship coz the girl was hyper when i asked him to elaborate hyper is all that he says its bad coz i don't know how i will get branded if things don t work out hence have been single for long.

  • @factsvalley6641
    @factsvalley6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks prachi..

  • @Priya_Saha_Shorts
    @Priya_Saha_Shorts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Prachi Devi please solve my problem my brother is going to marry and it is a or arrange marriage when the girl girl is very good enough but her family always confused about the marriage like it's a range but they always get it like confusing all the time and create many problems troubles in this relationship and now my brother like the girl and the cord like my brother but the fault is that girl also and now the girl also get affected by their parents and she also behave like them what should I do I am being his sister what should I do say what should my family do because my brother wants to marry that girl only but the girl is not good enough for my brother and her family is not also good they create troubles so what should we do please please please answer

  • @ushasharma3956
    @ushasharma3956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How to email you to share our problems??

    • @komalyadav21
      @komalyadav21 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check her other videos discription for the email

  • @parthahazarika4299
    @parthahazarika4299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is long distance relationship really tiring and need much effort and time consuming to continue with my partner?

  • @shashijain5084
    @shashijain5084 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very hard to convince parents & well wishers !!!!

  • @amitkumarsaha2424
    @amitkumarsaha2424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks

  • @simmizkitchen2021
    @simmizkitchen2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice content!! But guys is it audible 😊

  • @hometowntv4010
    @hometowntv4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many cases not write time for marriage based on astrology still they are single how you consider not prepared for marriage?

  • @mdivya3097
    @mdivya3097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prachi how to contact you

  • @sumank524
    @sumank524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice videos❤

  • @sandhyadesulu7980
    @sandhyadesulu7980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely top❤️

  • @Strongmind2016
    @Strongmind2016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    how to write letter to you please guide?

    • @usernotfound6979
      @usernotfound6979 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Email her

    • @KingKhan-bi7kb
      @KingKhan-bi7kb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are a muslim then you have scholars to answer and not this people

  • @GimmWolff_SL
    @GimmWolff_SL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are SOOO lovely lady :)

  • @afreenibrahim1739
    @afreenibrahim1739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm in 4yrs relationships my bf is vry undstndng bt my mother-in-law is nt coz she has a prblm with my western wear bt I love to wear every model wt should i have to do? My bf is vry supportive in dis bt I'm little bit confuse wt to do Sis?? ?

    • @shellypal3694
      @shellypal3694 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you live in your mother in law's house or outside somewhere with your husband?

    • @afreenibrahim1739
      @afreenibrahim1739 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I Am with my mother-in-law joint family

    • @shakalakaboomboom1
      @shakalakaboomboom1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same thing here... except I’m from a western country with western mindset and of course clothing style (I’m not Indian btw). My boyfriend (an Indian) is very supportive, as long as he’s with me I can wear pretty ‘revealing’ clothing (depending on the occasion of course) . He’s also protective over me so he doesn’t like it when I wear too open clothes when going alone somewhere. So my point is...... it depends where and when you wear western clothing. I’ve yet to discover how to live with my inLaws though!!!!! I’m freaking out already! 😱😱

  • @avinashkumar4705
    @avinashkumar4705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have any degree in relationship management? If yes then from which University?

    • @pritiraj5875
      @pritiraj5875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life university 😂🤪

  • @leenarora5291
    @leenarora5291 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tnkyuu for ur vdo.. kashh ye pehle dekhli hotii toh achaa hotaa.. plzz plzz tell me that how can I contact you.. I want to ask you something that you have mentioned in this video.. plz plzz let me know soon!!

  • @puskarchaturvedi6418
    @puskarchaturvedi6418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Basically aap 10 lakh ka Haney moon trip kroge or 10 lakh brbaad kroge not today but definitely some day😂😂😂

  • @simritakaurbhatty9200
    @simritakaurbhatty9200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Age ?

  • @nimmimimlu783
    @nimmimimlu783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any comments with summary! 😝

  • @jaspreet2912
    @jaspreet2912 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If ur fioncy is not trusting u between his mother and me. But I think he is confused. Bcz his mother talk to me and she want to make me money minded like her. But I am not puppet. I talk to my partner and he simply denied that his mother can't say this. Plz tell me how can I tell him that I am not lying

  • @shrutidance4917
    @shrutidance4917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This girl immitates Radhika apte
    Gosh horrible

    • @SmileWithPrachi
      @SmileWithPrachi  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      In what way am I imitating her? Please explain??!

    • @Annak969
      @Annak969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shruti Dance49
      Helo she looks like , N thats great ! Radhika apte is pretty good ! Imitation is not the one you think , check up with dictionary

    • @joymascarenhas3491
      @joymascarenhas3491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shruti Dance49 pls change the channel and u will b cured of sore eyes and equally sour remarks

    • @aditiaher7
      @aditiaher7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@spicycrackers797 It's her channel and her videos! She has the very damm right to question certain foul comments like this!

    • @unavemarunthu5110
      @unavemarunthu5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bewarely Reba Johnson such way she can stop asking wrong questions by someone again Zzz