The only way the mother could transfer money from his savings account to their shared account is if the savings account was shared also. Having a shared account doesn't enable you to transfer money from an account solely owned by the other person.
I would have posted the entire story on Facebook, telling everyone the story and highlighting the fact they STOLE and NEVER apologised. I would have then left it up, even after they'd paid it back and block them from calling me.
This BS about "family helps family" only ever seems to matter when entitled beggars behave outrageously! I've seen enough toxic "family" dynamics to know that it's almost always a one-way street and the REAL victim is usually the one to be accused of "betraying the family". Eff the lot of them!
Good radiance you stand own and cut ties toxic family and ur sister..git karma move on man and be ur self dont let get them drag you down..and started new business
So his sister chose money over famiky and her mom decided to admit she was always a discrace to the word mother. So why didnt they talk to her spouce to be about how they stole over 40k from you. They really want a wife with family values like that?
@@penguinvic9892 if he had any money left they'd of used it. likely spent it a long time ago which also might be the reason he doesn't leave himself got not money.
My grandma brother family screwed over my family for land resources, my family lived on. They forged my grandmother signature and got all the $$, but in the end Karma got them, absolutely no college graduates from that family whereas my family we are racking those w/useful jobs and degrees.
If family helps family then why doesn't the mom help pay for her daughter's wedding. Also shouldn't the bank call the person who owns the account before having the money transferred. I haven't heard anything about the fathers take on this.
Pretty stupid that the sister wanted a “destination wedding” when they don’t even have a lot of money to spend it on to begin with…so stealing from her brother was the best option and consider it as “contributing”? 😂 no honey that’s called stealing “Family helps family” 😂 the audacity of this mother… well family DO NOT STEAL AND BETRAY family either
You know what your mother and sister are a piece of work they can steal from you and then your mother said oh after all we have family and your sister needed this her wedding should be beautiful or whatever and that you should understand then your sister is going to call talk about if you take this to court I'll never speak to you again you'll lose a sister I lost a sister and a mother the moment you stole from me and telling me that I'm young and I've always had it and I can get more that's no that's no that doesn't do it yes soon make them pay you back every bit every penny and if they never speak to you tell him you're happy about that because they didn't feel as though you were family when they took your money so why is it that you're supposed to feel so kind-hearted because their family family don't steal from each other but that's exactly what they did and now they want you to feel guilty I go no contact with all of them get my money get every damn dime of it that you took and don't bother me because I would not bother you that's God's blessing to meyour sister needs help mommy sees your daughter just like I'm your child you birthday you help her stealing from me won't do it!!
"You'll lose me as a sister" 😂 Lady that ship sailed the moment you stole your brothers money
OP didn’t choose money over family. Her mother and her sister chose money over family.
Him. Op is male.
Good for you, you did the right thing.Im so sick of "she really needs this ' and 'family helps family '
OP should write Mom, Sister, and Aunt out of his life. They are toxic.
I agree with him entirely. Nobody steals from me and then plays the victim.
*Stealing money from family is just low & insulting the person you've stolen from is even more despicable.*
He took the the most correct decision in standing up for himself against a selfish mother - daughter duo ,who thought nothing of stealing from him.
The only way the mother could transfer money from his savings account to their shared account is if the savings account was shared also. Having a shared account doesn't enable you to transfer money from an account solely owned by the other person.
The story said he forgot she was on the account also, so yea, a shared account.
@@thudtheace Did you even listen, he said from years ago and he forgot about that part.
I would have posted the entire story on Facebook, telling everyone the story and highlighting the fact they STOLE and NEVER apologised.
I would have then left it up, even after they'd paid it back and block them from calling me.
You did right,go low to no contact with them. Get on with your life ❤
Definitely would have sued her and the mother and got my money back and never spoke with them again. I’m glad my mom ain’t Trife like this
This BS about "family helps family" only ever seems to matter when entitled beggars behave outrageously! I've seen enough toxic "family" dynamics to know that it's almost always a one-way street and the REAL victim is usually the one to be accused of "betraying the family". Eff the lot of them!
lawyer up, call the police, shun "family" for life.
Good radiance you stand own and cut ties toxic family and ur sister..git karma move on man and be ur self dont let get them drag you down..and started new business
Interestingly story. The big question is … did the sister eventually get the wedding with Mr Big-Plans, or not?
Maybe we will get an update in future.
So his sister chose money over famiky and her mom decided to admit she was always a discrace to the word mother.
So why didnt they talk to her spouce to be about how they stole over 40k from you. They really want a wife with family values like that?
So, where was dad in all of this? Did the wedding even happen?
never heard a thing from the old fart father must be a true simp by now in that family.
That crossed my mind, too. Maybe they pinched some of his retirement money, too.
@@penguinvic9892 if he had any money left they'd of used it. likely spent it a long time ago which also might be the reason he doesn't leave himself got not money.
My grandma brother family screwed over my family for land resources, my family lived on. They forged my grandmother signature and got all the $$, but in the end Karma got them, absolutely no college graduates from that family whereas my family we are racking those w/useful jobs and degrees.
If family helps family then why doesn't the mom help pay for her daughter's wedding. Also shouldn't the bank call the person who owns the account before having the money transferred. I haven't heard anything about the fathers take on this.
Pretty stupid that the sister wanted a “destination wedding” when they don’t even have a lot of money to spend it on to begin with…so stealing from her brother was the best option and consider it as “contributing”? 😂 no honey that’s called stealing
“Family helps family” 😂 the audacity of this mother… well family DO NOT STEAL AND BETRAY family either
You know what your mother and sister are a piece of work they can steal from you and then your mother said oh after all we have family and your sister needed this her wedding should be beautiful or whatever and that you should understand then your sister is going to call talk about if you take this to court I'll never speak to you again you'll lose a sister I lost a sister and a mother the moment you stole from me and telling me that I'm young and I've always had it and I can get more that's no that's no that doesn't do it yes soon make them pay you back every bit every penny and if they never speak to you tell him you're happy about that because they didn't feel as though you were family when they took your money so why is it that you're supposed to feel so kind-hearted because their family family don't steal from each other but that's exactly what they did and now they want you to feel guilty I go no contact with all of them get my money get every damn dime of it that you took and don't bother me because I would not bother you that's God's blessing to meyour sister needs help mommy sees your daughter just like I'm your child you birthday you help her stealing from me won't do it!!
Op is NTA