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I'm a Christian and I watch many many of Rabbi's video clips. His wisdom is profound. May the Almighty God bless this Rabbi. Thank you, Rabbi.
Same here, as a Christian I appreciate God's wisdome speaking through him
Rabbi Friedman the young man you are speaking with gives me hope in our Future generations! I was so happy to hear him speak of such concern of his Friends to check on them with no agendas but Love and Caring! May the Most High continue to Bless you and Guide you!
It’s interesting to observe two generations with the wisdom that oozes from Rabbi. Ahhhh we were all young and searching like this young man. It gets easier as you mature in age and gather wisdom along the journey. How blessed we are to have access to this wisdom! Thank you, Rabbi.
In this day and age, women don't necessarily need physical provision (money, shelter, etc.), but we do need from our men emotional provision: love, admiration, companionship, being a friend, someone to always root for us, someone to hold us, someone to do their share of keeping the house and the kids (that would really help decrease a woman's stress), etc.
Did u realise what u just said. No wonder men aren't marrying anymore. Unbelievable
Now read your comment, but replace the word “woman” with the word “man,” and you will understand that both genders have the same problems. But, and this is a big BUT, we used to know how to support each other; we understood that we are two “horses” pulling the same “cart.”
Today, we are told that the other “horse” is the one responsible for our frustration and suffering; therefore, we should get rid of him or her, without being informed that at the very moment this happens, the suffering and burden are doubled.
"Fake it till you make it"? In fact, you pretend that everything is fine, but it is never is. And so, we find ourselves in a world full of very unhappy pretenders.
You're just another one
Root for you??? What are you gonna be doing 🤦
"A woman's virtue is in her lack of talent"
Chores🤦
Okay 👌
If she does nice gestures for you or the little details, the attachment signals then she needs you. If she always waits for you to call first, she does not need you.
I'm a mover and most of my clientel is based on divorces
Thank God for marriage.
And great Jewish divorce lawyers...
@ifyouarereadingthisitstool7780 hahaha with police details and regardless of how long the lawyers coat is, the woman always keeps the kids, the house, and everything in it.. And the Guy still has to pay for the house, the kids, and the police detail.
G-d bless you Rabbi Friedman
The end is incredible
Awesome ❤❤❤❤❤
I believe we all are needy… we all want affection, security and certainty… it’s a human thing! HaShem made that way… or it would “be good for men to be alone”.
We need each other.
What exactly do we need each other for? So that we can take care of one another. Taking care of ourselves can often feel boring and pointless. But taking care of others? It is uplifting and fills us with life. When we are hungry and alone, we will invest the minimum necessary to satisfy our hunger. But when someone else is hungry? Oh, then we are really "turned on". activating our brains to it full potential and are ready to invest a lot of effort and time. Why? Because feeding someone else makes us feel alive, which, in fact, makes us feel like we are fulfilling our purpose.
Therefore, being needy is a "drop of water", compared to the "ocean" of being needed.
Therefore, our needs are intended solely so that we can do our job as "needed."
@ Yes, we belong like that… I am completely alone on this earth beside HaShem and His creatures around me where I live… I know that we all belong closer. I couldn’t afford to go to a place where there are more Jews yet and it’s excruciating.
HaShem willing soon! His Plan is always perfect anyway! Baruch HaShem!
Thank you rabbi
Dear Rabi Friedman
Good morning
This video is wonderful
My thought went into the next idea.
The result from a marriage is a son or a daugter. For this person there Will always be a father and Mother. No matter what it is eternal
B''H, I am needed, Amen. Thank you so much for the Wisdom Aibishter is waiting for me. Thank you!
I like this conversation! :)
Wow!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Where was this Rabbi when I needed him?
The teacher/rabbi is always there, but we only notice him when we ourselves become students.
04:45 wise man
This is true
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
I looked up him name online and found his page. I emailed and made an appointment to talk with him. Thanks for the tip
Coincecoinces. True, protection against punishment
This young guy has working ears, but he just doesn't have the capacity to hear other people. Hopefully one day he does hear other people.
Book the i want to get thank you.
Wow. Three for three with negative comments. Must be something in the air today
Rabbi please my opinion, to me life is risk and sacrifice because the future is always uncertain and nobody will decide to marry and divorce later and nobody will start a journey if he or she knows there will be accidents on the road but our very best helper is our instinct it's can help you to know sometimes what's is ahead of you and other is to sacrifice and work on it together with understanding and love, because if you think about what's happening around you in this world broken home's broken marriages broken trust fear will grip you and you will become insecure so all is risk or stay alone to enjoy your peace. Thank you 🙏
The way the interviewer sits, with the sole of his shoe facing the rabbi, indicates a lack of respect and condescension toward the rabbi.
I don't agree, maybe he is not aware of his lack of self confidence & body language
@@WendyFranklin-o8b the source of disrespect, arrogance, and aggression stems from a lack of self-confidence or, more accurately, a person's OWN feeling of low self-worth, of "I am unworthy".
The meaning is, we treat others exactly the way we should be treated.
@user-jn6jm4bb6f or maybe he could just be a bit Young & DUMB, he strikes me as rather naive
Rabbi Manis Friedman, you are my last hope to save my marriage to one Bris Lev, my stumbling block, my Talmud chochom. Please, let me learn from your wisdom.
Did he invest
So basic to know that, for the reaaon we are here.
Then he has to pay for it
clemistry develops, becoming one with your spouse.. becoming one is clmistry..We know this..why? How?
simple god puts us together using our clemistry.. how well , it start with holding each other hands, and hugs and a kiss.
our human bodys are help together as one due to this created formula.. give becoming one a chance.
Build up your esteem for this men's. And your are not going to think as his present is.
Humans developed civilizations of Lands in physcological containment of Humans.
Modern Civilizations To Understand: *You shouldn't need someone...that's not love. If *You're with someone because *You need that *Person, *You don't love that *Person. It's not healthy to need someone. It is Healthy NOT to Be the "needy without."
The Tree of Knowledge🦉 (biting the apple, as you read as naked): Marriage was a physcological method used as "common suffrage" designed to use as entrapment tactics in western culture, a gruesomely cruel business model. Marriage physcologically contents Humans to suffrage as it is "common" or "common suffrage" proned for acceptance.
Better to me something from them? What are you suggesting?
Totally wrong. Men are happy when they feel needed and useful.
And when women show appreciation, that's a demonstration of love. Then men want to give even more..
Women end up feeling that someone cares for them and they are protected. That is exactly want they absolutly need..
Men and women have different needs.
@@NIF18What I could easily suggest, satan will only replicate to further severe evil doings onto Humans that currently massively are "mentally/emotionally/physically/spiritually incapable" held captive.
God doesnt say anything? He talks to you through other people more often than not He is speaking through the one right infront of you in one way or another. 😅
Can this young man not hear His voice through this Rabbi.😂
He can't.
Look where he is putting his hands most of all the time. His mind is still at that level !. It takes time.
It's not polite to point the bottom.of you shoe towards the face of your Rav.
Don't they teach you this at the Yeshiva !?
The only one who has the right to be unpolite with Manis is me
I sense that he has a lack of self confidence & is not aware of his body language 😢