Adete didi, I want to make a video on toxic environment , toxic parenting and how to overcome fear and evolve as a person. This topic is much needed to be talked about and how it affects the childhood, teenage and adulthood. Please make a video on this.!!!
Thanks for the video di,perfect timing! Going through a friendship breakup, this is even affecting my studies, mental health,almost all aspects of my life. messing with this situation up for past 6-7 months and finally decided to put a ultimate closure, on day first of this month,it's been five days only, I'm leaving this comment here so that I'd come back in future after healing completely and to tell you that yeah I did it ,after crying for so many days,and after even imagining that I'll not able to survive without this girl,I finally made it happen.
Totally get u girl ...even my bestie who I thought was my family ditched me like I never existed ....the pain , the anxiety , the heaviness ...the memories haunting all of it is real ....am here for u❤
Thank you so much for this helpful and effective tips. I am in the healing stage and its healing of all the past traumas as well. Another point I would like to add is that in the process of healing there are going to be times where you fall and go back to the start but always remember there never to let yourself down. keep moving on and focus on healing know and believe that you are getting stronger than yesterday. Be patient with yourself because you have been through a lot.
I hope everyone in this comment section heals completely, maybe not immediately but eventually. It'll all make sense a few years later. Adete di, nothing is more attractive than being understood in this world. Thank you for this video, for understanding us, and for being our elder sister. Sending you a big virtual hug. Lots of love!
Most genuine person...I love your content ...this video is just what I needed ...thaank you ❤ love watching your videos ..so helpful ..trying to inculcate the most..😊
I don't usually comment on TH-cam videos or reels . But this is the different case, first of all, in last 14 months I have watched hundreds of videos on this topic and I can guarantee you that by far this is the most useful and almost accurate representation of breakup and aftermath of breakup. Anybody who might not feel the same way, I would request you to please have patience and linger on the hope that everything will be okay sooner and later and most importantly this is definitely not the end. Happy healing and growing. Good work, Adete👏👏
Most of it I actually tried in my case by my own realisation and I'm still in the process...and at this moment found someone saying the same actually giving me a sense of reassurance and relief that I'm not alone or in any wrong track....thank you for making this video😊
Dear Adete , love your content. Can you please make a career option related video for women on career break or career gap . Especially remote job options
Here's a poem for all the warriors of heartbreaks: You're my favorite chocolate cake, And I devour the sweetness in you every day. But as time progressed, I started to notice that you became a bitter and not a better cake. And I knew a breakup was the only way. I left for my sake To the nearest Bay, Not to kill myself but to find a cake shop there and get a chocolate cake That gets sweeter and better every day! And Alas I found one!😃
I just broke up out of a perfectly good relationship and was seeking closure but I think I will finally have the energy to make peace will it and move on
Even after watching N no. of videos on heartbreak healing and understanding it , I wake up every day and cry over those good memories even after understanding that relationship was toxic and the pain he had given me was so intense.
I was in your stage a few months ago. I can totally understand you. It's a horrible feeling. I've moved on . And you can do it, too. Hope you move on and heal soon 💚
almost 4 years of relationship, it ended two months ago, due to long distance. it has already been very emotionally draining for me, and i'm still struggling to get over that, it hasn't even got 1 percent better even though it's been two months. almost every single day i have these weird phases of my mood when i start crying out of nowhere, or i start feeling suffocated and i just don't know how to handle this. i'm writing this before watching the video, i hope this video gives me some direction towards healing myself and glow up. thank you so so so much aditi di for making the video, this is EXACTLY what i needed at this point.
Today my favorite person left me for another boy. I don't feel bad. But the fact is. A stopped clock shows the correct time twice a day. Thanks to her and my success will crying her one day.
Mam your videos are amazing i am 15years old and I must say your are one of my guide ❤️ i love your videos and i wish all the best wishes. You should reach 1 million very soon. Sending you lots of love and please do your eyeliner tutorial 😊
1. Cut things off ( block them) peace of mind>> 2. Stop stalking them on social media 3. Don’t look at pictures. Delete the pictures. 4. Write a letter to this person and burn it. Will help you let go. Create Distance and closure comes from within. 5. Fill in the emotional gap. You lack clarity. (Go on solo dates, do an activity you wanted to do, self reflect and journal- what is it that you need, what do you want from life) 6. Practice gratitude. 7. Surround yourself with your loved ones and be gentle with yourself 8. Don’t bottle up your emotions 9. Don’t force yourself to forgive. Don’t try to numb your emotions. 9. Give yourself closure 10. Every person in our life is there for a limited time. Things come to an end 11. Healing
Just had breakup yesterday...thankd you doo much di..i always wait for your video..iske bare mein hi video srch krne ayi..then apke video dkh gye.issey achha kya ho skte h 🙂
7th sep,2024 my bf broke up with me and his reason is he doesn't have any feelings bcoz I reacted so much after knowing he cheated me for another girl....I have no words and the sad thing is he cheated me ,he lost his interest and I'm in depression , I lost my happiness...plz help me from coming out of this...we r in 2 years 9 months 28 days relationship but that girl snatched my happiness in just 2 days
That girl didn’t snatch your happiness,your boyfriend did girl. He cheated, he lost interest & blamed you for finding out all this & reacting?what did he expect after all this shit that you u gonna worship him? Babe, I know it hurts. it hurts like hell,but move on, heal yourself & love yourself. if u can give that to someone, you can also give it to yourself. and please heal yourself before getting yourself in another relationship. more power to you❤️
Hii maam i genuinely like your content. I Watch your content for long time. It's so helpful. I can help you in some way. Do you need a video editor ? I can help you to save your crucial time through my editing skills.
U said distance helps d most Bt he is in my ofc I m seeing him happy laughing nd everything he is enjoying Nd everyday I m suffering Not because of him only my whole life is sucks for different reason I just gave my self secnd chance in relationship and look at me He did the same with me Plz tell me how to handle this I need someone I m not able to ignore him I had gone through panic attacks multiple times In office I don't knw y this is happening I m not able to control myself Plz help wo mere samne hi baithta hai yar
yesterday night one of my friend whom i thought of very close asked me to get over this friendship as her bf did not like her to talk to a male friend whom "he" don't know of..... and hence broken
Its been 7 months still I didn't moved on my exams all coming im not able to focus on my studies due to overthinking nd negative thoughts but problem is that i still love him i can't get over him no matter how much i try 💔
Hey Girl, let me tell you one thing, you’re stronger than you think. I was at your place last year and trust me that was tha hardest time of my life but please understand life goes on with or without your loved ones. I would suggest try to vent out all your emotions by writing it down or record a video and after you are done just go back to your books. What I used to do is I have had dedicated half an hour to write whatever I’m feeling and I used to feel a lot better . I also used to cry for 5-10 minutes and remind myself that I have to get back to my books. Trust after crying I used to feel so much better and the is why I used to let myself cry for sometime. I hope it helps🫶🏻Much love❤
I'm actually dealing with a toxic sibling. She doesn't even consider me as her elder sister, respect dena to dur ki baat hai 😢 We have to share the same room so it is not fully possible for me to completely isolate myself from her. Her behaviour gives me alot of heartache ❤️🩹 I have always been keen to help her but she thinks that I am worthless and stupid and makes me cry multiple times a month And no it is not a normal sibling fight (Parents don't even listen to me, they say that they can't do anything about the situation) In reality parents are the root cause of the situation. They failed to teach her to respect me Aditi it possible please make a video on this topic too 😢❤
In my case, just a friendship breakup is enough for depression!
You are very true! Experiencing the same.
Same bro
Same
Same here!!
Fuck ! Same bruh
I got out of a 3-year relationship without getting into any other relationship but choosing the path of healing and self-growth :)
You made the right decision. I pray that you heal soon ❤
@@shrutiranjan0511 I’m all healed and in the best version of myself:)
I cannot express the way you speak, your sweet voice seems to have healed all my problems.❤❤
Adete didi, I want to make a video on toxic environment , toxic parenting and how to overcome fear and evolve as a person. This topic is much needed to be talked about and how it affects the childhood, teenage and adulthood. Please make a video on this.!!!
Yes please address this topic !!
Yes much needed.
Voting for this video
Yes please, in my case I am dealing with the toxic sibling who is like this because of bad parenting. My parents didn't teach her to respect me
Offcourse an important topic. And im also a victim of toxic parenting 🙂
Noted ❤️
I've watched many videos on this topic, but this one was by far the clearest and most relatable.
This video is something need by today's generation 😢. Dealing with breakup is essential. Thank you so much didi for this video❤
Thanks for the video di,perfect timing! Going through a friendship breakup, this is even affecting my studies, mental health,almost all aspects of my life. messing with this situation up for past 6-7 months and finally decided to put a ultimate closure, on day first of this month,it's been five days only, I'm leaving this comment here so that I'd come back in future after healing completely and to tell you that yeah I did it ,after crying for so many days,and after even imagining that I'll not able to survive without this girl,I finally made it happen.
Totally get u girl ...even my bestie who I thought was my family ditched me like I never existed ....the pain , the anxiety , the heaviness ...the memories haunting all of it is real ....am here for u❤
Thank you so much for this helpful and effective tips. I am in the healing stage and its healing of all the past traumas as well. Another point I would like to add is that in the process of healing there are going to be times where you fall and go back to the start but always remember there never to let yourself down. keep moving on and focus on healing know and believe that you are getting stronger than yesterday. Be patient with yourself because you have been through a lot.
I hope everyone in this comment section heals completely, maybe not immediately but eventually. It'll all make sense a few years later. Adete di, nothing is more attractive than being understood in this world. Thank you for this video, for understanding us, and for being our elder sister. Sending you a big virtual hug. Lots of love!
Much needed videos at this time of my life
The timing of this video ❤
It was much needed right now..😢 thank you so much for the video❤❤
Your videos are so calming and comforting, no other youtuber have made me feel like this, thankyou so much never change girl❤
Hiiii,Adete do a video about, getting out of emotional traumas and burnout, to heal our self and get rid of stored emotions. It will really help ❤
Noted
Most genuine person...I love your content ...this video is just what I needed ...thaank you ❤ love watching your videos ..so helpful ..trying to inculcate the most..😊
I don't usually comment on TH-cam videos or reels . But this is the different case, first of all, in last 14 months I have watched hundreds of videos on this topic and I can guarantee you that by far this is the most useful and almost accurate representation of breakup and aftermath of breakup. Anybody who might not feel the same way, I would request you to please have patience and linger on the hope that everything will be okay sooner and later and most importantly this is definitely not the end. Happy healing and growing.
Good work, Adete👏👏
Timing of the video...just send by universe at the right time..thank you thank you thank you💖🥹
Most of it I actually tried in my case by my own realisation and I'm still in the process...and at this moment found someone saying the same actually giving me a sense of reassurance and relief that I'm not alone or in any wrong track....thank you for making this video😊
oh my god! this video was the need of the hour di ❤
thanku so much
❤️
oh god i needed it sooo badly
just had a friendship heartbreak literally last night
Every time I feel, I just need this video from you 😊😅❤
Hi ,
You made things pretty simple
3:00 oh adete! you are so wise💜
Dear Adete , love your content. Can you please make a career option related video for women on career break or career gap . Especially remote job options
Yes noted :)
this is what i wanted at present thank you much lots of love❤❤❤
Thanks for making this video... really today's gen z kids need this type of video which guide them❤❤.....
Finally i found perfect lesson for myself ❤
the timing of this video! 🥺
Thankss a lots didi really too much helpful n i needed this video for a month 😭
Love uhh a lotss
From bihar ❤
Here's a poem for all the warriors of heartbreaks:
You're my favorite chocolate cake,
And I devour the sweetness in you every day.
But as time progressed, I started to notice that you became a bitter and not a better cake.
And I knew a breakup was the only way.
I left for my sake
To the nearest Bay,
Not to kill myself but to find a cake shop there and get a chocolate cake
That gets sweeter and better every day!
And Alas I found one!😃
Our weekly guru is back 😎 thanks adete 🙏🙏🙋🏻
I just broke up out of a perfectly good relationship and was seeking closure but I think I will finally have the energy to make peace will it and move on
Even after watching N no. of videos on heartbreak healing and understanding it , I wake up every day and cry over those good memories even after understanding that relationship was toxic and the pain he had given me was so intense.
So true. Going thru same! Hope we heal soon 😊
I was in your stage a few months ago. I can totally understand you. It's a horrible feeling. I've moved on . And you can do it, too. Hope you move on and heal soon 💚
Thankyou for making this video 😢❤
almost 4 years of relationship, it ended two months ago, due to long distance. it has already been very emotionally draining for me, and i'm still struggling to get over that, it hasn't even got 1 percent better even though it's been two months. almost every single day i have these weird phases of my mood when i start crying out of nowhere, or i start feeling suffocated and i just don't know how to handle this. i'm writing this before watching the video, i hope this video gives me some direction towards healing myself and glow up. thank you so so so much aditi di for making the video, this is EXACTLY what i needed at this point.
Today my favorite person left me for another boy. I don't feel bad. But the fact is. A stopped clock shows the correct time twice a day. Thanks to her and my success will crying her one day.
literally needed this!!!!😭
Didi , you're a life saver ❤
Much needed love u adete ❤
Mam your videos are amazing i am 15years old and I must say your are one of my guide ❤️ i love your videos and i wish all the best wishes. You should reach 1 million very soon. Sending you lots of love and please do your eyeliner tutorial 😊
1. Cut things off ( block them) peace of mind>>
2. Stop stalking them on social media
3. Don’t look at pictures. Delete the pictures.
4. Write a letter to this person and burn it. Will help you let go. Create Distance and closure comes from within.
5. Fill in the emotional gap. You lack clarity. (Go on solo dates, do an activity you wanted to do, self reflect and journal- what is it that you need, what do you want from life)
6. Practice gratitude.
7. Surround yourself with your loved ones and be gentle with yourself
8. Don’t bottle up your emotions 9. Don’t force yourself to forgive. Don’t try to numb your emotions. 9. Give yourself closure
10. Every person in our life is there for a limited time. Things come to an end
11. Healing
Adete i want to know ur lipshades , they look soo good on you .❤ Please make a video on ur makeup 🙏🏻
Just had breakup yesterday...thankd you doo much di..i always wait for your video..iske bare mein hi video srch krne ayi..then apke video dkh gye.issey achha kya ho skte h 🙂
@Adete .. U r a gem 💎
7th sep,2024 my bf broke up with me and his reason is he doesn't have any feelings bcoz I reacted so much after knowing he cheated me for another girl....I have no words and the sad thing is he cheated me ,he lost his interest and I'm in depression , I lost my happiness...plz help me from coming out of this...we r in 2 years 9 months 28 days relationship but that girl snatched my happiness in just 2 days
That girl didn’t snatch your happiness,your boyfriend did girl. He cheated, he lost interest & blamed you for finding out all this & reacting?what did he expect after all this shit that you u gonna worship him? Babe, I know it hurts. it hurts like hell,but move on, heal yourself & love yourself. if u can give that to someone, you can also give it to yourself. and please heal yourself before getting yourself in another relationship. more power to you❤️
@@himalayan_nomad thank u so much...
Although I have overcome but I still don’t have guts to block him!
How to practice non attachment even in a relationship... Pls make a video on that.
Thank you.. lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Just a friendship heartbreak 😢
❤️🩹
😂😂
It will be fine❤❤
@@saranegi1004 I hope so🤞
I needed it❤
much needed video di ❤
One video on one side love please i just want to overcome from this but i can't please help 😢
Could you please make a video of video editing...which software are you using, thumbnail and video editing tips and tricks
What if your workplace is same , and u have to work daily with them!!
Thanks a lot didi❤
Thanks 🙏 u made a video on it
You r the best ❤
Di you so good❤️
thank u
Hii maam i genuinely like your content. I Watch your content for long time. It's so helpful.
I can help you in some way.
Do you need a video editor ?
I can help you to save your crucial time through my editing skills.
Thanku.
One can advise better with their experience.
U said distance helps d most
Bt he is in my ofc
I m seeing him happy laughing nd everything he is enjoying
Nd everyday I m suffering
Not because of him only my whole life is sucks for different reason
I just gave my self secnd chance in relationship and look at me
He did the same with me
Plz tell me how to handle this I need someone
I m not able to ignore him I had gone through panic attacks multiple times
In office
I don't knw y this is happening I m not able to control myself
Plz help wo mere samne hi baithta hai yar
Hey please make a video for teenagers like 16-19 group
yesterday night one of my friend whom i thought of very close asked me to get over this friendship as her bf did not like her to talk to a male friend whom "he" don't know of..... and hence broken
Vaise to mein relationship mein nahi hu par dekh rahahu ki kya kya zhelna padta relationship mein 😅
Its been 7 months still I didn't moved on my exams all coming im not able to focus on my studies due to overthinking nd negative thoughts but problem is that i still love him i can't get over him no matter how much i try 💔
Hey Girl, let me tell you one thing, you’re stronger than you think. I was at your place last year and trust me that was tha hardest time of my life but please understand life goes on with or without your loved ones. I would suggest try to vent out all your emotions by writing it down or record a video and after you are done just go back to your books. What I used to do is I have had dedicated half an hour to write whatever I’m feeling and I used to feel a lot better . I also used to cry for 5-10 minutes and remind myself that I have to get back to my books. Trust after crying I used to feel so much better and the is why I used to let myself cry for sometime. I hope it helps🫶🏻Much love❤
My ex gave me a collage of photo frame as a present..how can I dispose it?
Dii😎 please make video on teenagers girls 😊please please please 🥺
You meant I need to get rid of Manchester United from my life 😭😭😭
If we separate because of parents😢 then what to do
Adete didi plz reply I really need u
Pyar karna sab shikhate hai...Par Us pyar ko bhulana kese hai ye sala koi nahi Sikhata...
Watch Sadhguru videos that's it 😅😅😅😅😅😅
first comment ❤
I'm actually dealing with a toxic sibling. She doesn't even consider me as her elder sister, respect dena to dur ki baat hai 😢
We have to share the same room so it is not fully possible for me to completely isolate myself from her.
Her behaviour gives me alot of heartache ❤️🩹
I have always been keen to help her but she thinks that I am worthless and stupid and makes me cry multiple times a month
And no it is not a normal sibling fight
(Parents don't even listen to me, they say that they can't do anything about the situation)
In reality parents are the root cause of the situation. They failed to teach her to respect me
Aditi it possible please make a video on this topic too 😢❤
🫶
Attachment problem ❤️🩹
Couldn't have had better timing...... 🫂🌷