How To Give Him What He Wants AND Be A CHALLENGE!

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  • @1LaOriental
    @1LaOriental 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Be a moving target.

  • @lisat5666
    @lisat5666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I'd rather be myself and not have constant worry he might leave me. When are you going to do a video for men about how to give HER what she wants?

    • @stephblenheim4283
      @stephblenheim4283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This is so true. What can he bring to the table? Best to just move on if ever in doubt. The man needs to be in constant fear of losing us not the other way round

    • @nimfanorromor5547
      @nimfanorromor5547 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Alex.You are amazing.

    • @patc2515
      @patc2515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stephblenheim4283 that's ridiculous! Best to move on when in doubt?! Why wouldn't you work to communicate, gain understanding, and growth together. Why would you move on when you have someone standing beside you already who might simply need to hear what you want or need in a way they can understand? That mindset is going to leave you totally alone. Noone is a mind reader and far too many men and women leave or are left because the other gave up before even really trying to communicate their needs or desires. The one who's left so often doesn't even have a real chance to meet a communicated need. This is mutual for men and women and it's ridiculous that you'd just give up and walk away. In a world where so many people cheat or abuse, both men and women, and you'd just give up and walk awY because someone isn't meeting another need of yours? Don't be the problem. Boys and girls aren't properly shown, taught, or even encouraged to serve themselves let alone the other and therfore don't grow up to be men and women who could possibly know how to innately serve themselves or the other. If you're the one realizing that needs aren't being met in a relationship, remove the plank from your own eye first and then help your partner tk see theirs. Then help each other mutually to remove both and either make your own path or get professional help to pave a path forward. Then if your partner is unwilling to meet you half way or to meet your needs, then yes walk away. You're not special, neither is your partner, you both owe each other and yourselves real effort and commitment, this expectation of the world or walk away mentality is toxic and will certainly cause you to end up alone, old, and desperate for any partner to stand by you. We've all see in. Be better to yourself and your partner. Give them a chance to be better for you.

    • @cheetahcat3940
      @cheetahcat3940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men have to WANT to watch those type of videos. There are lots of them out there. Alex can make all the videos he wants, but if the man you want isn't watching the video, what's the point.

  • @natalic6088
    @natalic6088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You are so right! Having the ’what can I give to keep a man’ is so destructive and usually misinterpreted by a man to be sign of desperation.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Natali, thank you for your support, so glad you are here.

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A healthy relationship honors the gift of both partners. Passion is not desperation. #intentional #LOVE

    • @nenajohnson3676
      @nenajohnson3676 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are my key of life ! I appreciate your knowledge with men and I’m a Hawaiian 🌺 princess ! Very loyal and loving ! And I will always rule !! I will live up to the knowledge that you Inspire me …. I really wish I can return the wisdoms you are cultivating in me !!! God bless you my man for beautiful knowledge of how to understand men ! so I don’t get destroyed! I love you!!!! Thank you 🙏

  • @doctorchaimaachanel8974
    @doctorchaimaachanel8974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Confidence is very important and focus on ur passions ur happiness

  • @ivyalagon6643
    @ivyalagon6643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't want challenge, because loving to each other As long as you have trust and respect to each other,is the most important Thing for a relationship to work out,taking care of him tenderness To make family happy,you need to let your love to each other know how very important he is,,there no love if have,

  • @kaveribhar8197
    @kaveribhar8197 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doing embroidery, farming in balcony, painting, interior decoration, many new restaurants, zumba , aerobics etc.

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sometimes have to use a mobility Scooter. I can't see how a man can see me as a catch😢I'm disabled

  • @Challenger2A7
    @Challenger2A7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I always ask myself what HE can do for me, and I NEVER concentrate on just the one man. My hobbies? Blow their little minds, that's what. Tanks, yeah Tiger 1 etc., Languages, English obviously, French, German, Greek, driving through the night in my all-black Land Rover Defender. I also play the piano to concert standard. Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn, which is probably why I have several men permanently interested. What Alex is saying is absolutely right on.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your support and for being part of this amazing community.

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What? Permanent interest is a husband or a stalker

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      👆🌠😁😅😰

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sometimes have to use a mobility Scooter. I can't see how a man can see me as a catch😢I'm disabled

  • @rebeccagreen5609
    @rebeccagreen5609 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent advice- and a reminder! Thank you. Be 100% yourself. Men love it!

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    *I don't need anyone to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves.*

  • @NamugangaSawuda
    @NamugangaSawuda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thx Alex for training ladies saudah Uganda 🎉

  • @wechonghonorine1402
    @wechonghonorine1402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Alex for making me know how to be myself since I join this family I have learned a lot I am from Cameroon

  • @carolebitz3207
    @carolebitz3207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love what I get from all you're giving

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sometimes have to use a mobility Scooter. I can't see how a man can see me as a catch😢I'm disabled

  • @Fitihuni
    @Fitihuni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Beautiful accent. I can listen to it all day 🤣. Love the advice 😍

  • @angelturyahebwa9311
    @angelturyahebwa9311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Powerful advice Thanks Alex
    Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @odessawilson9932
    @odessawilson9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hello every one from round the world have a great day

  • @aquamarine7545
    @aquamarine7545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Keep it playful and fun! I love to play games like ping pong, tennis etc. This is a good opportunity to become competitive and flirt ;) Also I’m a greedy pig so love to try new restaurants hehe

  • @Motivationmomenture
    @Motivationmomenture 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks so much🇦🇫🇦🇫

  • @mlisasweeney4308
    @mlisasweeney4308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I love your words. Impossible in-visionary.

  • @carolebitz3207
    @carolebitz3207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give what YOU want be you

  • @ehmmmaehmmmuz3916
    @ehmmmaehmmmuz3916 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m going to be myself and enjoy all of him. I like to be playful.

  • @ruthharris5110
    @ruthharris5110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Make him a better version of himself!

  • @ritayach258
    @ritayach258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the energy!! Thanks Alex!

  • @rosetalan1022
    @rosetalan1022 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the way you give advice...very nice.Thank you so much

  • @seekgodfirstallways8798
    @seekgodfirstallways8798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you my brother...I love this 😀 ❤

  • @yvetteumurerwa5862
    @yvetteumurerwa5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alexis ur daily advices are so powerful
    Stay Blessed

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! You too!

    • @Pinkcandy777
      @Pinkcandy777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sometimes have to use a mobility Scooter. I can't see how a man can see me as a catch😢I'm disabled

  • @MelissaKellyHerStunts
    @MelissaKellyHerStunts ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is nothing to challenge them if you dont showcase your personality

  • @SunShine-ou3dl
    @SunShine-ou3dl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How to keep a man interested even after marriage ?? because things fade away .

  • @sonnytotanes829
    @sonnytotanes829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good Night Sir Alex,
    Your Soohhhh Wonderful Sharing Your Ideas and great Advices.Thank you

  • @alenastewart9883
    @alenastewart9883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex help can you please share ideas, what we can do in COVID lockdown situations. In your home daily, how can you make someone see who they are missing out on by having fun when we can only really be home, or a walk same areas, or for outdoor exercise? Same same daily. Yawn!

  • @afg6605
    @afg6605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another very good advice video. Thanks my dear .🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sumaila2
    @Sumaila2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much

  • @monikaleszko5343
    @monikaleszko5343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 98/100 likes. Alex needs like 1000000 likes
    Great videos 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @fatimasalie3911
    @fatimasalie3911 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an south African..

  • @odessawilson9932
    @odessawilson9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks alex it helps alot

  • @karunaramsoondur62
    @karunaramsoondur62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Its so nice to listen. To you u r. So. Great. And. A Very nice Person.

  • @creativelads8162
    @creativelads8162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can make him.see life is a multiple work journey discover,work,and fun

  • @sonnytotanes829
    @sonnytotanes829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your Videos are all Lovely.

  • @Ashwag_arabian_rose
    @Ashwag_arabian_rose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really like your advice 🥰thank you 💐

  • @akintoyeelizabeth8344
    @akintoyeelizabeth8344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am not really rich,but I still buy him things supprisingly just to make him happy,but😒😒 I fight him to buy me things.Alex only you can help me

    • @SoultanicalsTube
      @SoultanicalsTube 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must focus on loving yourself! First and foremost!

  • @elsielee539
    @elsielee539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex,I'm from Msia...thanks .I love this

  • @meayalaojoom3678
    @meayalaojoom3678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video

  • @msqueen85
    @msqueen85 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi alex.how about a husband telling names..and prioritize an online games rather than spend time with me we are in ldr and its hard because he prefer his computer over me.

  • @lucyt9856
    @lucyt9856 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you your the best

  • @missyumyum8670
    @missyumyum8670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video Alex.

  • @vijilovesvinuforever5114
    @vijilovesvinuforever5114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice idea Alex.....

  • @supermanfan1315
    @supermanfan1315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay men in this world don’t have the balls to go after women who’s a challenge

  • @maggiewanjiru2807
    @maggiewanjiru2807 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!!!

  • @tlc8925
    @tlc8925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew I was doing something right! Lol

  • @carolebitz3207
    @carolebitz3207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need you Alex. I need to know what all to do since he went back to his ex I want to get him back

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

    I will show him around a favourite place of mine

  • @mariamadam-noor140
    @mariamadam-noor140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Alex, i know a guy who's to live happy and to take an action. He says what he feel when we are together. When he talk he says: i feels like child, free, and just myself then he start dreaming then he's stop talking and never finished his sentence. Why? maybe because afraid to be too attached?? 😐 what are your thoughts Alex? I just shorted what I noticed about him 😂

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Mariam, There can be several reasons why he response in this manner. In order to give you some valuable advice, I need to know more about the relationship. If interested in a coaching session here is my link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching

  • @jasmincordelia5477
    @jasmincordelia5477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even in a relationship, it doesn’t mean we spend everyday with him, no? :)

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry I'm having a hard time understanding this question...

  • @fatimasalie3911
    @fatimasalie3911 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His hot an cold..plse advise..❤😊

  • @shine.brighter6170
    @shine.brighter6170 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true

  • @tangotrouble7998
    @tangotrouble7998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give me a man that will give me everything I won’t any day and I will love his dirty drawls

  • @danielevieira1373
    @danielevieira1373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know a few restaurants that I like

  • @asmanain3665
    @asmanain3665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband never take me out what to do i always stay in home

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Asma,
      I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes you have to show him that you are of VALUE and I have a video explaining what to do to show him you are valuable.
      th-cam.com/video/SEs72JRYAHA/w-d-xo.html

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why don’t you go out instead with your girlfriends?

  • @miniebonie
    @miniebonie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what is putiston or putistop?

  • @odessawilson9932
    @odessawilson9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do I have to be girly girl for a guy to like me or can I still be a tomboy or bad girl

  • @daughterofyah9217
    @daughterofyah9217 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve liked a guy for almost 3 years he’s so shy, any advise ?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Yeshura, I have a video "How to Love Yourself", which I know would be helpful for him to watch.

    • @musicjunkieaddict6600
      @musicjunkieaddict6600 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Become his friend and he’ll loosen up

  • @mariadelamercedcharro1047
    @mariadelamercedcharro1047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to follow your advice OI feel blocked

  • @treasuretracy9769
    @treasuretracy9769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please l don't see the link for the video of 20 minutes

  • @mcarrigan64
    @mcarrigan64 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Alex we broke up over 6months ago, no contact for over 3 months.I have moved on other interests but I miss him.Do I have to wait on him to reach out or can I reach out to him?

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you give him what he wants you are giving a narcissistist supply

  • @akintoyeelizabeth8344
    @akintoyeelizabeth8344 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex I do everything just to satisfy him,our relationship is just 7months,the beginning was kinda fun but now,I beg him to take me out weekends.....he sleep around with girls which I cought him with three girls in his house,three different giirls and times 😒 ...he beg and I accept his apologize......but yet his still messing around .....and I also faithful to him..I don't have anybody except him which he knows.....so Alex please any advice?..I don't wanna start dating Another person.

    • @princessafanwi7026
      @princessafanwi7026 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He knows you are desperate and you will always be around

  • @phuissoon1
    @phuissoon1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @susanbrown465
    @susanbrown465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The whole thing is stupid. If he wants me to be myself, then I am giving him what he wants which is what you said not to do. If we give him what he wants we become needy and he takes us for granted. How does this not apply to the instruction here to create challenge. Dumb

  • @charitywinesa1258
    @charitywinesa1258 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u. Sir for puttin us up on stundand

  • @sophiasummer7339
    @sophiasummer7339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don’t get to the point 🙃

  • @yvetteumurerwa5862
    @yvetteumurerwa5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alexis ur daily advices are so powerful
    Stay Blessed

  • @Lizzygracias256
    @Lizzygracias256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks very much 🙏

  • @paolacoppola7660
    @paolacoppola7660 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and advice 👍