Spiritual Whistle Blower talks Identifying Narcissistic Partners, Parents, Family Members + More

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  • Spiritual Whistle Blower talks Identifying Narcissistic Partners, Parents, Family Members + More
    On this episode DCMWG is joined by certified Life Coach and Narcissistic Abuse Expert Chanel Jasmin Clark, better known as Spiritual Whistle Blower. The two of them start with Chanel’s background in hip-hop journalism before tackling a series of narcissistic studies such as how to identify a narcissistic partner, narcissistic traits in parents/family, as well being an author. DCMWG gives her theories & experiences with narcissism, Darkside Of The DMs, voicemails & more.
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  • @nikeyface7114
    @nikeyface7114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    A quote I heard from Iyanla Van Zandt that changed my thinking, “ I forgive myself for believing I should have done better when I didn’t know how”. For you Damona.

    • @PrettyFinessa
      @PrettyFinessa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you I needed this. ❤️

    • @elijahandnylatv
      @elijahandnylatv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Whoa, that part!!! That is a golden saying. Thank you

    • @RuizMrs
      @RuizMrs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Powerful ❤

  • @Dani-fq3fb
    @Dani-fq3fb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Broke up with my child's father, found out I was pregnant, and STILL stayed away. My pregnancy was so peaceful and had no issues. It's true to stay AWAY from narcissistic men idc what your situation is. Best decision God is good.

    • @SimplySadeWorld
      @SimplySadeWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I applaud you ! I knew I didn’t want to have a baby by my bd , but I stuck beside him . My pregnancy was hell ! My baby came out so tiny bc he couldn’t grow properly from the stress . My son is almost 2 now and my bd still brings negativity to my & my kids life . I just now started to keep my son away from him & keep him and his evil ass away from us .

    • @Dani-fq3fb
      @Dani-fq3fb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@SimplySadeWorld 🥺 this makes me sad to even think about what you went through. Now is the time to let go completely. These men do not care or even put thought into what happens to you or your kid. Cut off all contacts. Your peace is important

    • @time.2869
      @time.2869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or maybe you can just close your legs. But apparently that's impossible for you women.

    • @asshhdoll
      @asshhdoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You. Are. Goals.

    • @Dani-fq3fb
      @Dani-fq3fb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@asshhdoll ❤️ God made it all possible. Strength courage ands wisdom

  • @Lexxmorgan
    @Lexxmorgan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    I really felt this episode! Black parents be wrong af but lack accountability and will make you suppress your feeling when they hurt you smh. They make you feel like your feelings and opinions don’t matter. They lack empathy too, they can’t do no wrong

    • @thevenusian1314
      @thevenusian1314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      And they think you owe them for choosing to bring you into their struggle.

    • @Mo.1988
      @Mo.1988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

    • @Mo.1988
      @Mo.1988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thevenusian1314 🤣🤣so true

    • @kaprik828
      @kaprik828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup it’s so sad

    • @luxebeauty5362
      @luxebeauty5362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I make this a point to articulately apologize to my three year old, especially if I know I wasn’t being patient or nice.

  • @kiarajones7013
    @kiarajones7013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This woman is the sole reason why I recognized I was raised in a narcissistic household and was able to break free from the toxic loyalty.

    • @amandawhipple1302
      @amandawhipple1302 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you go no contact? I’m struggling to not feel guilty leaving them.

  • @aliiiiiiiful
    @aliiiiiiiful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    This information is SO important. We are not taught to identify these behaviors. I was with a narcissist for 10yrs from 16-26 & only now at 31 did I just begin to unravel what actually happened to me! If young girls can see this & learn this earlier in life it will literally save people from so much abuse & trauma!

    • @nopressurenodiamonds5566
      @nopressurenodiamonds5566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too! I was married to one for 10 years and it was a living hell. He was physically, financially, & emotionally abusive. I did not educate myself on what he was until the 8th year, once that sunk in, I left and not looking back. Narcs are easily capable of killing you!

    •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Chile!!! Yes, I have the same story! I'm 34 now. 9 year relationship. Started dating at 22 and until ALMOST 31! I was focused on my career. I was to focused to really notice until I got around 28 and started wondering.... Chile, I'm off in my own story now. LOL! Thank you for sharing this! Needed to see it!

    • @user-gt1kd9rv1w
      @user-gt1kd9rv1w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessss!!!

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAMEEE GIRLLLLLL WTF ! Now idk if its GOD BUTTTT I FEEL LIKE IM IN THE DAMN TWILIGHT ZONE !!✨🌠🌌🌌

    • @YourLifeYourStyleTV
      @YourLifeYourStyleTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ SAME!!!! It’s amazing how so many of us have the SAME stories!!!!

  • @mamboyeye999
    @mamboyeye999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    PLEASE BRING HER BACK!!! This was what everyone needed there is so much going on in this world and I believe this goddess is in alignment

    • @MsJacquena
      @MsJacquena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🔥🔥🔥🔥Yes!!

    • @Queen-ConsciousYa
      @Queen-ConsciousYa ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes she is! Very honest and genuine

    • @fizzl3sah
      @fizzl3sah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      shes back they did a part two mona just didnt upload it yet

  • @TheCslangels350
    @TheCslangels350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I started my spiritual journey after getting out a relationship with a narcissist. I did my shadow work and realized I was an empath. It has been a hell of a journey. And I still have a lot healing to do.

    • @RockthestageNYC622
      @RockthestageNYC622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing, you keep The Faith!!!!

    • @TheCslangels350
      @TheCslangels350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RockthestageNYC622 thanks babe. I will. Forward is the motion

  • @aliiiiiiiful
    @aliiiiiiiful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    What she said about discernment was so true once you learn to identify these behaviors you cannot unlearn it. You start seeing it in different people and you know just how to move around them.

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, yes, yes!!!💯💯💯

  • @tiabrown9014
    @tiabrown9014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I have a BS in Psychology and this was absolutely validating of the horror show experience I had with my ex and his mother. I literally was being bullied by a frown as woman until I refused to talk to be in the same space as her. She was toxic and had a unhealthy relationship with her sons. I’m so thankful more women are talking about this because that Jezebel spirit runs deep in a lot of families.

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bitch i almost fought mines🤔🙄 ! GLAD IM UP OUT OF THERE HONEY ! ⚠️⚠️🔫⚡️

    • @lovelykiyah7415
      @lovelykiyah7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jezebel KNOW not to play w a daughter of GOD

    • @joycomesinthemorning6721
      @joycomesinthemorning6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Having issues from trauma does not always mean they are narcs

    • @brionna911
      @brionna911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joycomesinthemorning6721 if you did not experience it you wouldn’t know. If she spoke of it I’m pretty sure she knows what she dealt with

    • @NickiaWiley
      @NickiaWiley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessss girllll 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍

  • @jayspencer8893
    @jayspencer8893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The way Mona explained her misunderstanding about exactly what a narcissist is and how we use words we don’t really understand only because we hear them a lot……that gave me chills because she articulated my own thoughts better than I ever could.
    She’s lowkey a modern day philosopher as much as she’s a comedian.

  • @juanitaervin4757
    @juanitaervin4757 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman is so passionate about her message to women to stick up for ourselves

  • @lovelife3809
    @lovelife3809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    As a black women this is the best damn interview in the history of interview for us women thank you to both of yall for waking us women up.

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss!!!🙌🏽💯💯💯

    • @Mara_143
      @Mara_143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯💯💯

    • @damoab1909
      @damoab1909 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am mixed white and asian and this was very true for me too! No one talks about the white baby daddies that fit this bill.

  • @taigenmiles1490
    @taigenmiles1490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    My mother is a huge narcissist and has alienated me from her side of the family. This is a great episode cause we do get so much shit for cutting parents off but they deserve it

    • @sherrie8221
      @sherrie8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow..that's what happened to me too, though my mom has transitioned-I have absolutely zero communication with her side of the family. I haven't talked to any of them in years...YEARS!

    • @Mrsprice220
      @Mrsprice220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I know how you feel! I've have no contact with my mom at all! People will try to guilt trip you into thinking that cutting your parents off is wrong, but it's not! Toxic is TOXIC!!!!

    • @Wyzdom1974
      @Wyzdom1974 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real Talk 💯💯💯

  • @chiamakaifeoma7628
    @chiamakaifeoma7628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    she hit hard with a lot of her statements. literally as i’m watching i’m just like 😳. and so many people i know coming across my mind as she speaks ….just crazy

  • @mrsakhilav
    @mrsakhilav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    This episode here has showed me how much I have grown and how I am not wrong for the changes I have made in my life! I previously dated a Narcissist and It was a crazy experience but I'm so proud of myself that I got out fast!!! I worked on me and I am very happy with where I am today!!!

    • @bazgingin1156
      @bazgingin1156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Toxic loyalty is real, friends, family, ect, I did a purge!! Only allowing on my terms!!!

  • @tacosonatuesday
    @tacosonatuesday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    My son was born without a leg, the disability is called PFFD, it happens from trauma or infection between 4-6 weeks gestation, I was abused really bad during my my first trimester and a part of my second, but the date I will always remember (April 12th 2019) was when I was about 5 weeks pregnant, my babyfather punched me in my stomach and caused me head trauma by repeatedly punching me in my face, I took a picture of the puddle of blood and sent it to his mother and she told me basically it didn’t happen, I didn’t allow him to see the baby so he took me to court, I proved that it wasn’t from my genetics (micro aray test) or my health, now my son is 2 and is displaying autistic symptoms.
    The judge didn’t believe me at first because I’m a black woman and this man is white and his mother works for the government. Luckily I kept everything that was in writing and pictures of bruises.
    To be honest, my social media is stalked by him so I shouldn’t even be typing this. I always wanted to start a platform to speak out and relate with other women but I don’t want the drama or disrespect that comes from him.

    • @prosperousk5477
      @prosperousk5477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sorry you went through that. It is true that abuse will affect a mother and the development of baby in the uterus. Hope you and your baby are doing well now!

    • @tacosonatuesday
      @tacosonatuesday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@prosperousk5477 he is doing good other than his disability but he has an appointment soon with a specialist about his developmental delays and the first question asked was if I was abused during my pregnancy, hopefully I can get a doctor to put it in writing that his father is the issue of this

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg 🙏🏾 start a platform. There are so many others I'm can relate to you

  • @jessysmith7953
    @jessysmith7953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This woman is a legend.

  • @fatgirlish8754
    @fatgirlish8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whew! She sugar coated NOTHING! RAW!!! I respect anyone speaking the truth and can also acknowledge she’s bitter. Truth can still come from a bitter mouth!

  • @nikeyface7114
    @nikeyface7114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    My fiancé actively protects me from his mother and female family
    Members. He’s traumatized by them, keeps his distance and advised me early on to do the same

    • @mineedo
      @mineedo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Good man

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I was advised the same at 19 and he ended up having his mask on very well as if he was different and No, he wasn't.. That was a huge red flag I felt could have helped me go in a different direction if it didn't go over my head

    • @payraapayraa8540
      @payraapayraa8540 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smart man how old is he ?

    • @NiyahSan
      @NiyahSan หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine as well. Moved me and our son states away for this reason.

  • @breel3053
    @breel3053 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is the realest video on the internet. IDC. I don't comment on videos, but I needed to hear this from Black women (because too often our abuse is swept under the rug FROM PEOPLE WHO LOOK JUST LIKE US or we are told to move on/get over it with no reflection, no empathy...and hurt people do end up hurting people--everybody needs to be heard/seen and these narcissistic/sociopathic people need to be exposed--thank you). When she says LEAVE, LEAVE YALL. Don't ever let him come back. Don't ask him to come back before he asks to come back (because they always do)... LEAVE. RUN. You will end up MESSED UP if you don't. I wasn't even in a real relationship with mine and the toxicity has opened my eyes (for better and worse) to so many ugly truths in the world. I am now desperately trying to find beauty in humanity and life--I don't even talk to people anymore. Also, share videos like these if someone reaches out to you for help. A woman who was dealing with the same "man" actually put me on to the whistle blower and I am thankful as ever!! Everything she said has been true in my situation--from him being on the down low, to his mommy issues/hate/weird relationship, etc. He could give a d**n about any of his children and it is SICKENING. 0 stars, would not recommend, RUN... and whatever made you enmesh with the foolishness, GET TO KNOW IT...make peace with it ...and then kill it.

  • @ashbhunt
    @ashbhunt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Watching Mona get so invested in the conversation is gold!!!

  • @rowayne3555
    @rowayne3555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm glad the whistle blower is healing and her therapy is helping people understand what's happening. I think she has a good heart and very genuine. An Empathic Gangster that's treading on these demonic entities. One Love♥️

    • @96heyyall
      @96heyyall 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This comment is so poetic.

    • @rowayne3555
      @rowayne3555 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@96heyyall what's that suppose to mean

    • @96heyyall
      @96heyyall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rowayne3555 it’s written very well, it reads like poetry.

  • @miamohamed8496
    @miamohamed8496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Wow this was so insightful ! Specially the part where you mentioned “ toxic loyalty “ . I struggle with this deeply with my mother for many many years . Although she loves me , it’s very evident she seeks pleasure in my pain ( words right out of her mouth ) . Thank you Mona for this 🙏🏽❤️.

  • @Leedalee2x
    @Leedalee2x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I didnt have a clue who she was but she spoke facts in this interview . Great interview

  • @lolapink3508
    @lolapink3508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve dealt w/ a narcissist. Love bombed me & got me into him heavy just to go back & forth between me & his BM. I knew he was a narcissist when I was crying my eyes out & his eyes looked happy. No empathy for me hurting & crying. Get the fuck outta there once you realize it’s a narcissist. They will have you up & down just b/c they wanna see you cry. And your heart will be broken but it’s just a game to them. I pray for his daughter still from time to time & it’s been 4 yrs since I stopped dealing w/ him.

  • @niablee
    @niablee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    This episode is SO good so far! Not even 10 mins in and I’m learning so much.

    • @LipsAllMiighty
      @LipsAllMiighty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nbs I’m only 5 minutes in

    • @aoc6700
      @aoc6700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!!

    • @Waynlo618
      @Waynlo618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On god

  • @meoy0521
    @meoy0521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I’m so proud of Chanel !!!! She literally help me at my lowest with my narcissist ex. Forever grateful ❤️

    • @BlackButterfly504
      @BlackButterfly504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same hear, talking to her is like talking with a friend you've had for years.

  • @msmisha146
    @msmisha146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I didn’t know I needed this until I got it!! Being raised by a narcissistic mother and coming from a narcissistic family it made me realize I didn’t stand a chance when it comes to the toxic loyalty I have for my mom and battle that I was dealing with! Even recognizing my own narcissistic traits that I have this episode was definitely self reflection for me. Thank you for this💖💖💖💖

  • @yantaaella6347
    @yantaaella6347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    toxicity loyalty/Trauma bond is for sure REAL !!!!!!!! Especially in our community ... it's so sad respectfully! I'm glad ya having this convo because people be acting oblivious to the sht that they be doing to people like yk what you are doing and acting !!! And when ya talk about toxicity in black parents especially the moms!!

  • @ashleysantiago4683
    @ashleysantiago4683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think I can speak for myself and other women (and some men) when I say this episode was VERY VERY MUCH NEEDED!!!!!! It came at the PERFECT TIME!!!! So thank you Mona for bringing this beautiful black woman on here to put us all on to game 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯

  • @amandapretty265
    @amandapretty265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Wow neeeeeeded this podcast !!! Especially those mothers /sisters who be their cheerleaders instead of telling him when he’s wrong ! Sickening , hold your male relatives accountable.

  • @catieq5270
    @catieq5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I have my BS in psychology and masters in social work, considering pursuing my doctorate in psychology and just want to say that this was the BEST episode yet. Please have her come back and allow guests to ask her questions.

    • @damikajones6446
      @damikajones6446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with having her back on. Keep going for that doctorate! We may need YOU one day, to come back so we can ask YOU questions! Keep pushing, Catie Q

    • @catieq5270
      @catieq5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damikajones6446 Aw thank you. I work in psychiatry in Baltimore and sometimes get really discouraged from the population that I serve (severe mental illness clients). I needed those words today.

    • @ChristinaQueenHeart
      @ChristinaQueenHeart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Be cautious about which area you get into for your doctorate in psychology. Make sure YOU are fulfilled in that specialty and it won't bring your mental health down AND it is profitable/employable where you live. I got my PhD in psychology and it has not afforded me much more than what a masters would. Not discouraging your progress, but be wise about it. Weigh the pros and cons for what your goals are and if the economy is setup for that. Having more knowledge is useful but often times, experience does that better and is free, in comparison to getting a degree.

    • @catieq5270
      @catieq5270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChristinaQueenHeart I appreciate your words of wisdom and advice. My husband is supportive of my goals but only wants me to get my doctorate if we don’t have to take out a huge loan, and I honestly can’t blame him.

    • @ahmadjaelen
      @ahmadjaelen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very proud of you, keep up the good work!

  • @thebiancabrand330
    @thebiancabrand330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Mona given Charlie Baltimore vibes 😍

    • @tijeraslack3
      @tijeraslack3 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She reminds me of Faith Evans. 💛💛💛

  • @mmbbee
    @mmbbee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I've been following her...glad to see she's blowing up

  • @AKAE47
    @AKAE47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I strongly feel as though spirit brought me to the episode.. i use to skip over it cause im like wtf is a whistleblower But my higher self was always intrigued by the spiritual portion. I just cut off my narc ass ex boyfriend. Any time i expressed my feelings on how he made me feel he would always flip it on me, Always accusing me of cheating but you know how that goes, he was feeling GUILTY Bc thats most likely what he was doing. I had mentally left about a year ago But it feels SO DAMN GOOD to finally allow mysef to be free & physically leave!!!! Everything She said in this video is exactly what he does. Im in my healing process & i know that since i finally closed this karmic cycle that bigger & better blessings are Otw. BRING HER BACK!!!!!! Love you Mona💖💖💖💖

  • @Mara_143
    @Mara_143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Spiritual WhistleBlower Is The Truth🔥🔥🔥

    • @Zidane9ful
      @Zidane9ful 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes Mam . ♒♒♒⚡⚡⚡💯

  • @REESIEBOO13
    @REESIEBOO13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Omg. I've been in tears watching this. I've dealt with 2 narcissists... both my baby daddies in different ways. They absolutely abandon the children when you don't want them anymore. I thought i was wrong; thought I was crazy 💪🏽 I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kahariquinn9279
    @kahariquinn9279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Watching this episode really made realize that my ex was a narcissistic man ,and it's mind blowing because I watched this to look out for the signs only to realize I already been through it. So crazy and mind blowing

  • @flybyky820
    @flybyky820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have a narcissistic mother grandmother and baby dad. I have cut my mother and baby dad off completely! My grandmother I keep at a distance cuz she’s older. But I realized the ppl they were very early on cuz I realized the treatment I received from these ppl wasn’t right. I do believe in generational karma as well. And w me having a daughter now. I refuse to let my daughter receive their karma like I did. Ion let my daughter around them anymore cuz she’s only three months and I have to nip it in the bud now before I get older. My mom played my siblings against me I was the oldest. I be damned if she tries w my own child. Thank you for this!

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation. I had to cut grandma off tho because she played me and my sister against each other all of our lives. She is my dad's mother. He's one too. Never was there for us and abusive. Has kids all over the place, one died never even got to meet him. My grandmother would still push a narrative for us to take care of him and be there for him. She's so condescending when she talks to me. You'd think because she's older that she would be different, no She's evil. My spirit cannot take it I want to cuss her out all the time I'd just rather not bother.

  • @shantelmaz
    @shantelmaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this episode, my partner’s parents are Narcissists and abuse him on a daily, today I sent him this video and this prevented him from committing suicide. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

  • @luckap79
    @luckap79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Damona’s energy is everything

  • @Brandirell
    @Brandirell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    A lot of toxicity to digest here but Mona’s vibe offered the perfect balance to get through this episode! 🙌🏾

    • @EboniFlowers
      @EboniFlowers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Explain….what do you mean??

  • @antaquillahall2033
    @antaquillahall2033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Protect this woman at all costs!!

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This interview was SO INFORMATIVE!! Ladies, pay attention for real! I’m a survivor of a narcissist & it took YEARS to heal from that. And as the SWB said, your discernment go way up & gets stuck and you DO look at folks with spiritual lenses. It’s crazy at first, but I’m so grateful for that gift! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
    Mona, I love you & thank you for another great episode! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @GetUpGetFitGurl
    @GetUpGetFitGurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This was so insightful. I learned more about narcissists through Chanel's definitive breakdown. Thanks Damona for continually bringing us fire content and laughs!

  • @MindBodySoul333
    @MindBodySoul333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My Gosh, 25 Min Into This I am In Tears Just Thinking About Things iEndured From Child Into The Present .. This Is Just Mind Blowing… 🥺😔

  • @Faaade_
    @Faaade_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Been following her for a while!! Found her on TH-cam. She goes off in the way that it’s needed. Nice to see her on this podcast! The point she made about the mothers is spot on!!

  • @lisagilmore9504
    @lisagilmore9504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This should go viral. It’s so much information in this video that millions of people could learn from.

  • @kome301
    @kome301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is giving she needs to make a weekly appearance on the show !! I love their energy together !!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @m.t.9142
    @m.t.9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Can’t believe how bad I needed every part of this episode. Especially the toxic mother portion bc that never is discussed in our community, making ppl
    going through it feel like outcasts and wrong in some way. Thank you for this!!

  • @erykahsg6081
    @erykahsg6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Wow Mona I can’t even tell you how much I needed this episode! I got so many answers to so many questions I didn’t even know I had! Thanks Mona 💕

  • @IAmTheoracle007
    @IAmTheoracle007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    @SWB OMG!!!! I am screaming on the inside!!! FYI - I finally picked up the book I was afraid to buy! I have made it to the first page! 🤣 Bless you! I am so proud of you for staying on this! It was a blessing seeing you in Atlanta and I feel like, I can endure!

  • @LJishandsome
    @LJishandsome 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This one of the best conversations I’ve heard in a long ass time.

  • @AncientOne222
    @AncientOne222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I dated a narcissist and had to learn all about narcissism, I quickly realized my parents are narcissist.
    Once I realized my parents are narcissist it was a relief, I no longer had to ask myself wtf is wrong with them? I kicked my Mother out of my home after 49 torture filled years of dealing with her insanity.
    11 years of her staying in my home.
    Every day was an argument and a religious rant from her it was utter foolishness.
    She triangulated my children against each other and she is the sole cause of my anxiety.
    I kicked her ass out and I don’t care if she lives or die because I’m at peace.
    Do not feel compelled to deal with your parents 💩 go no contact and live your best life.

  • @channelyourpowerwakasha2681
    @channelyourpowerwakasha2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I cried and chanted for 35mins prior to watching this episode bc I'm watching my son be an absolutely abusive narcissist. 😔 breaks my heart to watch and as an empath I feel completely responsible for his behavior.

  • @qianaevans481
    @qianaevans481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I absolutely love this convo! I'm going through this with my mom, sometimes you have to love from afar. Respect she's your mom but you have a right to be happy and not to be held hostage by their insecurities.

  • @ChristinaQueenHeart
    @ChristinaQueenHeart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Not Mona saying "I feel like you in my business" 🤣🤣😂😂😂
    "How you feel about the one with the cone head...🤔" LMAO bless it.
    Side note: I'm so happy seeing another Black woman pursue her doctorate. Bless it!

  • @judyp9141
    @judyp9141 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU!!!! NO ONEEE and I mean no one, talks about this about parents. Thank you for being transparent.

  • @mrs.-robinson7521
    @mrs.-robinson7521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This episode spoke to me! My husband's mother (he has no contact with is father) and my father ( my mother died when I was a teen) are both narcissist and have in different ways really tried to hurt out relationship. But we are pulling through and going strong. Keep talking the truth and trying to help women!

  • @neshondrasmith5389
    @neshondrasmith5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hearing these woman talk I appreciate my mother so much really she always tried her best to treat us equal and she worked her as off… like I really seen my mom breaking generational curses in my family like she really raised us different and I really see that shit everyday the more I’m around my family.

  • @lisathompson4602
    @lisathompson4602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love ❤️ love the Spiritual Whistleblower!!! She is everything!!! She is teaching the masses to get their mind right!!! #BlackGirlMagic#GirlPower

  • @TheKurlyGurly
    @TheKurlyGurly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love her!! Her content helped save me and my children.

  • @Bobbi_with_an_i
    @Bobbi_with_an_i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love Chanel. She deserves to be on all platforms

  • @sashaAcruz693
    @sashaAcruz693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My girl on da Moana showww!!! 💜💜💜 she did not come to play she came to slayy the looks and the narcissists 😂

  • @amandamcfarland9012
    @amandamcfarland9012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mannnn, I needed to hear this. I am truly going through this right now. This makes my heart hurt, but the truth hurts.

  • @TheRealAnandaj
    @TheRealAnandaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh wow she definitely read my life chile. Definitely want more episodes like this. Mona y’all both look amazing too.

  • @ciaralashay
    @ciaralashay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wowwww amazing episode. I dealt with a narcissist when I didn’t even know what it was… everything spoken in this episode was so true. Wow.

  • @devoteddevine
    @devoteddevine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Resonates 1000% I’m soooooo proud of spiritual whistle blower she’s going to make it so far she already has 🥰🥰💋💋

  • @leadwithlove_
    @leadwithlove_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You're like Ghostbusters 🤣🤣🤣 I loved this episode...so real and honest. Keep talking about the hard to speak on topics with no filter Monaaaa!! Great content as usual.
    But let me say this, this made me LOVE MY MAN EVEN MORE because I was blessed with a good one. I had to say that because we have to celebrate the good ones even tho alot of this resonates on different levels. 💯

  • @traekiful
    @traekiful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just ordered I can’t stand my mama! I just had a breakdown about how my narcissistic mom can catch these hands 🤦🏾‍♀️

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Come through set upgrades!!! Hair sitting, Set visually pleasing, Makeup, Outfit, and Nails are right!!! Love you for spreading this message to your platform. Move us ALL into a better headspace. Keep doing what you're doing my love!!!!

  • @sylvettehardy3474
    @sylvettehardy3474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    WHAT AN AMAZING SHOW! Thank you so much for having such an Amazing Guest! She broke the Narcissist down so freaking well! I Love Love Love your show! Please keep bringing it!

  • @mirasyal4259
    @mirasyal4259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When she said down low. Bihhhhhh! I dealt with a narc a couple years ago and he was definitely bisexual/gay and when I called him out he got quiet. 😶

  • @Nanimatos__
    @Nanimatos__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I absolutely loved this episode!!! This was very much needed confirmation. Plus how you read Derek for filth when he asked that question, I screamed. Cause yes, the man is the one that wants you and initiates everything in the first place.

  • @SheltanZachary
    @SheltanZachary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A lot of this was so needed. Having multiple child's mothers or fathers doesn't, by itself, make you a narcissist but I get the point about not caring about having them in order to trap the woman/man and then moving on and doing it again. (and don't come at me, I don't have no baby daddies. I just know it's circumstantial) I pray everyone is loving and healing though.

  • @Torybee
    @Torybee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Truest shit ever!!!! If I only knew what I know now back then I could have saved a lifetime

  • @goddesssavannah258
    @goddesssavannah258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You're not lying about that mama clip!! Narc free after 12 years of marriage. The mama was a tale tell and I ignored it.

  • @sunshineandsunflowers_3699
    @sunshineandsunflowers_3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She is preaching a word..

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae2589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Whew! This episode shook me down to the health issues connected to narcissistic trams.

  • @shakeiralittlejohn1087
    @shakeiralittlejohn1087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this after a break up with a narcissist is very refreshing but man I needed to see this some months ago

  • @heskeepnme
    @heskeepnme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Baby when she started talking bout the family!!! Whewwww

  • @Echo_R21
    @Echo_R21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She’s talking facts at 14:47 - 15:30. I’ll share my personal story w/ y’all. My ex boyfriend is a narcissist and she’s correct. Once you see that first red flag, you get the fuck outta there! I experienced this same thing. W/ him saying he’d go to therapy, lying to me. Gaslighting me and manipulating me and everything. I tried to talk to him and change him and none of that worked seeing how he never took accountability for his own actions. On my birthday last year on June 21st, him and I got into a physical altercation and we went to jail because of his actions provoking me and that’s when I had enough. Wasting money on lawyers since it was TWO open cases behind the dumb shit he did from being obsessed w/ me. I had to take accountability since he couldn’t do what he did on his own. I had a part to play in that by continuing to give him “second chances.” When you see that red flag, LEAVE and do NOT look back. Do not get gaslighted or manipulated. I wish they made this pod cast before that day. Maybe I wouldn’t have made that mistake but hey. Life is about growth and learning lessons.

  • @keoshadavis4130
    @keoshadavis4130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I been following her for a long minute now and I'm so proud and happy for her!!!!! 💚💚💚💚

  • @ladianaj
    @ladianaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This episode is EVERYTHING 💯 no lies told

  • @ciarabaylor3465
    @ciarabaylor3465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Baby this interview was SO GOOD!!!! Dcmwg you are on the RISE!!!!!

  • @nicki378110
    @nicki378110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely felt EVERYTHING she said!!!! I have done my research on what a Narcissist is and a lot of it hit home.

  • @MsJacquena
    @MsJacquena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn this video made me cry 😢 I love her! I really needed to hear 👂🏾 this! I’m going through that right now with family. I am from Sudan 🇸🇸 and all the Africans Parents I know are the worse! You are taught to look the other way and don’t fix anything. Ms. Chanel Jasmin Clark I love you! You are the BEST!! Please bring her BACK!!

  • @Artsence55
    @Artsence55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That's why I be loving the aquarius mind she does all types of interviews

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    A lot of relationships we are used to seeing are not normal y'all, especially those young serious relationships. I grew up in the hood and got the hell out early.. so I know.. Some people just won't get it and some will. Iykyk.. those ratchet relationships are deadly.. I do not recommend young romantic relationships, especially if you come from a broken family.. Live your life and make experiences!!

  • @SB-tg1xn
    @SB-tg1xn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly periodttttt, no shade Mona you look good af baby. Thank yall for this episode it was well needed

  • @asshhdoll
    @asshhdoll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My BD was asked to leave a session. They crazy!

  • @faceitfacialstudio1808
    @faceitfacialstudio1808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WHOOOOOOOOOOO YALL SPEAKING!!!Never I’m my life like I’ll I call another man’s mother “ma or mom”. I got my own thanks 😊

  • @shahlaamoss9711
    @shahlaamoss9711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Needed every bit of the video !!!!

  • @trinitej
    @trinitej 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so sad to hear the truth we need healing in our community. Break the cycle of these toxic love and thinkin this acceptable

  • @Homentertainement2
    @Homentertainement2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys are touching on good stuff! With the coddling and extra attention aka “SPOILING”.. This is a NEGATIVE word. Anything spoiled means something is harmful, unfit, unsafe to you so as a community and guardians we have to understand the difference of love, affirmation, protection and overcompensating and spoiling

  • @chym4791
    @chym4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This episode is the 1. I see no lies here. I follow her online she is the truth!!! Glad to see her on here!!! Great job!!🎉🎉

  • @bigmike0580
    @bigmike0580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love this episode. This type of stuff is needed.
    Side note: MONA!!! 😍😍😍😍

  • @rhondam4369
    @rhondam4369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    great episode.....I definitely want to see Spiritual Whistleblower on more podcasts and shows....I been watchin her for some months now...yessss get this out there...there are wayyyy too many narcissistic people out here

  • @ashbhunt
    @ashbhunt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This episode should go down in the podcast hall of fame! I'm shook 🤯🙌🏾

  • @jenealyles
    @jenealyles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great Episode!!
    I wasn’t a fan when Mona was on another podcast but I love that she found her voice on this one. I think this podcast let’s her show up authentically and show various sides of herself. Please keep it up ❤️