Even people without kids will benefit. Siblings! Even if it’s not a lot of stuff the emotions to deal with can be devastating! It’s best to leave clear instructions but nobody wants to think about death. 🙏🏼 We are temporary and we forget that. Our soul doesn’t need any stuff 🩷
You're doing so well. You've come a long way since your first video I watched when you started your channel. Not only have you had to deal with quite a sudden loss of your mother, but you've also overcome your anxiety with this massive task and you're making huge strides forward. I really believe you'll be able to clear your mum's house yourself and make a healthy bunch of cash in the process for renovations. Keep going. ❤
A year ago today I was living with Mom trying to help her get through chemotherapy. She was 84. Today her house is totally cleaned out. In some strange way watching your videos is therapeutic for me. Seeing how you deal with grief and go through the aftermath of your Mom’s life. I was wondering why you don’t just hire someone to do an estate sale like I did and then in another video you explained and I thought, “that makes sense. It’s therapeutic for you”. For me that would not have been the case. I found it very difficult to go through mom’s stuff and pick what I wanted to keep. Very exhausting. I cannot even think about pricing everything so I admire your perseverance. At the end of the estate sale for my Mom’s stuff, the lady sent me a video of her house showing it empty. I cried. I cried hard. In another video you said it was hard watching people leave with your mom’s stuff. I relate to that. I get it. We are two different people doing basically the same thing, having similar feelings but doing it differently because that is what works for us to move forward. After the sale I heard some stories about people that bought some of my mom’s stuff and I was so touched that it meant a lot to them. I worried about people not appreciating her stuff and I felt guilty not keeping some things. A good friend said to me, “these things brought joy to your mom and she did not expect everything that brought her joy would also bring you joy. She would want someone who got joy out of any one item to have it.” That was helpful for me. Also helpful for me was Mom telling me to not stress over her stuff. Take what you want and have someone come in and do an estate sale. She gave me permission to do that. I can see with your Mom, if I have been told correctly, hoarders are protective of their things. They cannot deal with their things being “rid of”. I see you as doing this because you are honoring your mother the best way you can by “gently passing them on to people that will appreciate her stuff.” It makes sense to me how you are doing this. It’s a lot of work. All the physical work you are doing I think is mentally and emotionally even more work. I admire how you space it out and give yourself time and grace. Thank you for doing the filming and thank you for being an open book. I’ve learned, I’ve moved forward, and I grieve with you.
Thank you so much for such a thoughtful comment. I appreciate that you understand what I'm going through and why I do what I do, as most people don't and just tell me to sell or donate everything and be done with it. I am so glad you are enjoying the videos and they are helping you. Yes, we are going through the same journey, just going about it different ways.
Mindy, you barely had time to come to terms w/your mother’s health and cancer battle b4 she passed away-that is all traumatic enough, but then to have her house, garage, and shed with 85 years worth of life’s accumulations to go thru, no wonder you were feeling so overwhelmed😬🥺😩🥰 You have come so far in a short amount of time and it is GREAT to see you smile due to all you have accomplished!! Looking forward to your next videos!!😃
I've been watching and wondering if anyone has suggested to you about donating crafting supplies/fabric to senior centers or nursing homes. My friend was an activities director and would always talk about needing supplies. Also my aunt here in AZ goes everyday to a local senior center for craft classes. I donated my old craft supplies to a Boys and girls club. Also St. Vincent de Paul with come pick up furniture etc .
I def recommend letting people take things for free towards the end of your sale, too, so you don't have to take it all to goodwill yourself :) If it's not selling, put a tarp out on your driveway and make that the "free" zone -- people who come for the sale can take free things away!
You are doing a great job. I had to clear out my parents house and while they weren't hoarders there was 50 years of accumulated stuff. It was really hard to do and I admire your strength and tenacity getting through your mom's house. Well done, you're getting there!
I feel like it must be fate that I found your channel. My mom recently passed away under very similar circumstances. Finding out she had cancer due to breathing problems, realizing it had spread to her bone, ending up in the hospital before she could start treatment, and then going on hospice. All in the space of about 3 months. Not only that she was also somewhat of a hoarder and I have been cleaning out her house. Luckily I have some help but it’s a lot. Your videos have been bringing me comfort in this difficult time. Thank you for sharing the process 💕
Wow, our stories do sound very similar! I am so sorry you are dealing with the loss of your mom, it sure is tough, especially when it happens in such a short time frame. Big hugs to you. ❤️
I really enjoyed the voiceover while the timelapse was happening, and learning more about your Mom. It was fun to hear about your channel name! And it is a relief to see you more settled with your system to sort through stuff and not so stressed/overwhelmed. I was cheering along with you about the clear patch of garage floor! 🎉 woohoo! Take care, and please give Mr Cat an extra couple of pets for us. 😸💗
I love your sensible and caring attitude towards your mother´s disorder. It is so important to remember that people is more than their flaws, disorders or addiction, we must remember to have quality time together where we are not concentrating on that.
I have been praying for you dear one you are doing a great job at working thru all the "stuff" and getting it out. It is a long process it overwhelms me just watching. I will be having to do this for both parents' homes and the anxiety I feel is sometimes more than I can bare. Your videos are helping me giving me the strength and knowledge that I will be able to conquer the "stuff" too. You are helping a lot of people. You are very brave to put this out and I am grateful you have.
Wow, I can't believe how much you got done in the garage all by yourself. Would have taken me a couple of days. You are going to be a total decluttering pro by the time you are done. I'm 69 and have been working on decluttering for a couple of years now. I don't want to leave my daughters too much to have to deal with when I'm gone. I'm learning a lot watching you go through this process. You are doing great! I'm looking forward to your next video. Have a great week!
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mom to 8 1/2 years ago and my precious daughter 8 years ago both to cancer. It’s a horrible disease. I had colon surgery last November for cancer. It was early and I didn’t need chemo. I’m one of the lucky ones. My mom and daughter weren’t so lucky. 🙏
I am sorry for your loss and that you have had to process all these emotions as well as cleaning out your mother’s house on your own. I just learned about your videos a few days ago when one showed up on my home page. I’ve watched them pretty consistently to the point that I am now caught up to the current one. Thank you so much for sharing your journey on TH-cam. I am also an only child and will have to at some point go through my mom’s things, but even after almost 4 years I still don’t feel ready to do so. I can’t put into enough words how helpful it has been for me to watch your videos because these are the kind of things you cannot really explain to people. Grief is such a lonely place, especially as an only child. I’m so glad you have made so much progress and you are seeing some bright moments through this difficult process. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏾
You're doing so good!!! Might be worth it to locate where mice entering and block up / repair those holes. They are germy and destructive. You are most likely experiencing sinus issues from dust ❤❤❤ keep up the good work!!
You are doing great! You've got this! You can hear the energy in your voice now that you've made so much progress! I couldn't believe the age you said your mom was and she had all these projects and patterns. She must have been a true optimist! Some people her age are afraid to buy green bananas!!! Best of luck on your next sale. You've worked hard to get it ready!
I just discovered your channel and binge watched to catch up. You seem to be doing better emotionally. It helps to see progress. My husband and I went to his dad’s house when he was admitted to the rest home, just to clean out the fridge. Before long we were cleaning out the whole house. Made my husband nervous. But I’m glad we did it because he never did get to come back home. Then I cleaned out my parents assisted living apartment when they passed. I love organizing and getting rid of stuff. I like working alone too because I’m better able to think things through, and it gives me momentum to keep going. You’re doing a great job. I admire your tenacity. This isn’t easy. But I will say your mom had a pretty clean house. I’ve watched Hoarders, but those places were so filthy and full of rodents, I had to quit watching. Looking forward to your next video.
You are doing great !!! As someone who USED TO collect glass and certain dishes, here's something I did. I took the majority of the glass to the Goodwill and Habitat for Humanity store BECAUSE I realized that unless it's really rare or extremely old, is worth nothing. I looked at thrift stores and see alot of glass for that reason. I got rid of most of it and it has helped me immensely. I'm almost 60 so I try to remember you when I think about that cute lil whatever and say no !!! ❤❤❤ Good thoughts and strength as you continue.
I have watched all of your videos. In the beginning, it appeared you were emotionally struggling with anger and frustration. Although having to go through this process was not ideal it appears that you are gaining strength emotionally from this process. I’m sad that you don’t have someone to share this process with but you are strong. I have been through this with my brother. It’s hard but it gave us time to grieve and heal. Keep going!!!
I’ve watched since your first video and wow you’ve come a long way. We are cheering you on every step of the way. You’ve got this. So lovely to see your true smile at the beginning, it was heartwarming to see the real you! 💖
Well done on all you got done in the garage 👏 Looking forward to seeing how your next sale goes. You are reclaiming space every day. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏👍💪🙏💐🐈
Wow! You are really on a roll. Things are looking so much less overwhelming (haha - at least on video, maybe not in person) and yay for the money you made at the earlier sale! I like how you realized that you do better with a plan for your next visit to your mom's house. When I think back to your first videos, and remember how overwhelmed and shocked and grief-stricken you were, it makes me happy to see you doing better and laughing. Thanks for keeping us updated! I love these videos. Yep, people love to watch decluttering videos, especially when they can feel compassion and empathy for the person posting them.
Hi, I've been watching, and cheering you on. My dear Mom has also passed ( it was from Alzheimers and a long hard condition, i miss her alot, but it was so ... awful watching her go through it). I was her primary caregiver for about 6 years. and now have the responsibility too of emptying her house and we need to sell it. Soon. I happen to be married & i now also help take daily care of my adult but pretty severely mentally and physically deteriorating disease that my stepdaughter has. So anyway, I can identify with a feeling of ... getting overwhelmed, and your work and videos keeps help motivating me to ... basically ' keep at it.' Sending you good wishes & a smile & a thank you for sharing your journey. ( Hope you do try an air filter. Concerned for ya on that one🤔. Take care & a hello to you, Mr Cat, and your kitty cat too.😉
I'm so glad you decided to take the long, slow approach. You have given yourself the gift of working through the stages of grief, and been brave enough to take this emotional journey, and you are healing in the process. If you had chosen to hire someone else to deal with all of this, I think it would have left you with a gaping hole in your heart, full of resentment. Instead, you have understanding and compassion for your mom and the choices she made. Your grit and determination to take it day by day is inspiring. Thank you for sharing the journey for us. I want to suggest a change in wording - please disregard this if it's not helpful, I don't mean it as a criticism. I believe your mom was a collector, not a hoarder. Maybe it's just part of the "hoarder" spectrum, but your mom clearly loved her collections. She organized them meticulously and took care of them. She didn't collect garbage or have piles of empty packaging filling every empty space in her home. And her collections didn't make her home difficult to navigate or unsafe to live in. Just my thoughts - like I said, I don't mean to criticize you or the way you are handling any of this. Hugs to you!
Agree that certain hoarders collect dirty, broken, useless items etc. However, the mom’s house and garage were indeed difficult to navigate through (for the daughter’s whole life). She stated she barely had lines in the floors to walk through…so, not just collecting
I’m so happy for you making progress in your cleaning plan. I’m down to my mom’s oak porch swing. All of the attorney business is complete. Suggestion: after every sale, pack up what doesn’t sell and take to charity, then onto the next group of items. At the end of my mom’s sale, the rest was hauled away. It brought me great relief. I wish the same for you! 💙
I have noticed that there is a fair amount of dust on some surfaces and items so you will be breathing it in. Getting rid of it with a slightly damp cloth should help & make the items look more desirable.
How are you going to handle your Mom's clothes and personal items???? Jewelery, Shoes, under garments etc....I found these are the hardest to deal with. and to be honest, after 6 years since she past, I haven't been able to deal with her house much at all. Your videos have been a blessing. I hope people , especially older folks, who are watching your videos understand what our children sometimes have to face when we pass, Perhaps it will motivate parents to try and take care of "stuff " before we transition as best we can . Most adult children really don't want our things.....
I have come across a lot of her personal keepsakes that I can't bear to get rid of. I'm sure I can pear them down later after I've had time to grieve and can decide what I really want to keep. I will probably keep some her clothing, we were almost the same size, she has a lot of nice jackets! Shoes I can get rid of since they don't fit me. Jewelry will be hit or miss. Most of it is costume jewelry, I am keeping the gold jewelry for money's sake. Some pieces of jewelry are ones that I made for her, I will probably put those with the cards I gave her and decide later. It all really is a lengthy and heart wrenching process.
Mindy u r doing great! Ty for sharing about your mom! Decluttering videos are very popular! I know u like parking in the garage I wish u had one building to put all your sale stuff in so u could get the house empty! I don’t like clutter either I can not relax! I am glad that you are showing the process! 😊
Hey Mindy 👋🏻 I too think you are doing an amazing job!! When it’s all done you will be able to sit and reflect and enjoy the space. I wish you continued success and look forward to seeing what’s next ❤ ~hugs Kim
You’re doing great. Cleaning out the house is hard in so many ways. Mr Cat definitely helps you to relax a bit so he’s helpful that way. You’ll got this.
You are doing great! Lots of progress, and it is motivating me to always stay on top of things and not become a burden to my adult children. The plan to have a theme or focus for the sales is a good idea. You can even advertise them that way. Your idea to donate if things don't sell after a couple of sales is a good one too. Makes room for more things to be offered. I know it's easier to see someone else's weak spots, but I feel for you. You do have a lot of things to go through. Hoarding is a mental disorder that can be misunderstood when people really do need help, and it can be hard to comprehend how people can accumulate so many things.
the accumulation of dust might be affecting you, check around to house near anywhere water come through and make sure there is no hidden mold, which could also be a factor
Mindy, you have such a gentle spirit! It really shines through in all of your videos. I also love how you just put your head down and keep doing the next right thing, even if that means taking a much needed break and going home. We’re all rooting for you! (And I also think a little bit in awe of you too!)❤
I feel like I've bonded with you, as I was back in AZ for my dad's funeral when I found your channel. It was kind of eerie watching you go through your mom's stuff while I went through my dad's. He collected records, tools, radio equipment, etc. Going through his books was the hardest emotionally. My brother and I were at odds most of the time I was there. 😔
I always enjoy seeing another video post from you. I’ve seen such growth in you since you’ve started your journey. I’m delighted to see you chugging along the track. you’re doing very well making goals and achieving them. You GO, GIRL ‼️ 🩷❤️🩵💙💚💜
Going through a whole house and garage clean out is physically and mentally challenging...you are doing great ! My husband died of heart and kidney failure. I took him to all his medical appointments aand the three time a week kidney dialysis sessions for several months. I had to clean out our house by myself preparing the house for sale...so I know what you are going through. Love how you named your TH-cam Channel. Love seeing Mr. Kitty.❤❤
Also...do you know if your mom's town does "city-wide" garage sales or if her neighborhood has a sale in the Spring/ early summer? You would get a lot of traffic with one of those events, too, if they have them. We're in the upper Midwest, so maybe it's a Midwest thing. 😉
@@sherrielouks419it’s also a California thing. Neighborhood yard sales are excellent ways to get rid of unwanted stuff. One day in the spring every year, neighborhoods have a free, take whatever you want, giveaway. Set it out with a sign that says “free” and it will disappear. Except for one of my ironing boards last year. 🤔🤷🏻♀️ Finally was able to get rid of it by advertising on our local giveaway group.
That was very interesting, the voiceover. I enjoyed hearing you answer questions. What is that font used for? I was thinking it was a type style, but it’s characters. Im sorry your mom didn’t catch the cancer early. At least she was in her 80s. I do believe some of us just get tired and are ready to go… I lost my husband at 45, 11 years ago. It’s harder and harder being alone, the older I get. I need to get out and do more, but I don’t really socialize a lot. I think that sofa is a great frame, good size and would Look amazing if someone reupholstered it. I use to do upholstery and I have said that every time I see it. Put a modern fabric on it, is so it in a linen. Classic. Anyway. Don’t know if people Still upholster or how affordable, but something to think about.
She did lead a full, long life. I am so sorry about losing your husband so early, that must have been very difficult. I don't socialize much either and fear being alone as I get older. Hugs to you ~
You are doing so great! It's so wonderful to see your progress and see you overcome emotional setbacks. Your organizational skills amaze me. Good luck with the next sale! I hope you break your last sale's record. 🤞
Wow! Mindy, you’ve done it again!! Whipping things into shape, sorting like with like, getting ready for the sale. Looks like you’ve got a large amount of items ready for the next sale. You’re making this happen! Loved your voice-over! Always love to see you smile! You surely ARE headed in the right direction - Kudos to you!
I'm so sorry to hear the frustration your mom went through when diagnosed with cancer. That's just awful she had to wait another 6 weeks to get scheduled! I can't imagine how disheartening that had to be for her. She didn't even have time to get her things in order. It makes my heart hurt for you and her.
Please reflect on all your progress. Clean only for a specific time, then go do something nice for yourself. Looks like your parents were both hoarders your whole life. You are very brave and strong! You are helping others, even though you don’t need to! Hugs to you girl 😊
It’s funny you mentioned about why you chose the name chickabiddies. After the last video I actually looked up what that meant, which raised more questions, but now I know and understand. Very cute!
Wow! You are doing it! High five! You’ve turned an overwhelming project into manageable bite sized pieces. Like you said, one day at a time. I get excited for you, thinking about how you are getting some money back from your moms “investments”. A lot of people wouldn’t even think of trying to sell it and just put it in a dumpster. Or hire a company and spend thousands, and not see a dime. You are in a way very fortunate to be in a position with your e commerce jobs to be able to take your time and get some money back, save a lot of money. Very happy for you. When you mentioned stuffy nose/breathing difficulties I thought maybe it’s too dry in the house? Maybe a little humidifier at the bedside? Or maybe it’s the dust and needs a good vacuum once the house is more empty. Anyways, I feel for you. I have parents that are hoarders. I’m dreading the day. Not even going to try while they are enjoying their home. It just causes stress on everyone to try and fix/help.
since there's just SO much fabric, I wonder if you could just start adding it to the sale a bit at a time. even with all the space in the world idk how you'd display that much fabric for sale :) you could let any buyers know that you'll be putting more out each time so they can come back.
Great video, well done. Its getting better each time you do a bit of the house. Think that Polar bear ornament might be worth something, anyway check it before you sell it, just in case it is a good or known make. I keep buying vintage 30s glass but most of it can be sold again, so after seeing the daunting task you are dealing with, I have decided that if I reach 68, thats the year I am going to sell the whole bloody lot, so no one has to clear out too much stuff after I am gone. No family to speak of, well no one that has bothered visiting me in over 30 years, so a cat charity of my choice will inherit what little bit I have. Keep going, it helps me to stop my compulsive buying a little bit.
Very good progress you are making. Making a plan beforehand has helped you focus and get more done as you said. Too bad you don't have a friend that could help you. They could even take some of the stuff for payment for helping.
Are you getting way more people now coming to the sales? I feel like summer yard sale season will be wonderfully busy to help clear everything out. Thank you for sharing with us. You are doing such a monumental task and it seems to be going easier. Bless you ❤
She has some really nice things.. An indoor sale would be great. Just don't let too many people in at once..I did it when I sold me house..I had a friend with me, but made lots of cash..
You’re doing great! Good job! Thank you for giving us a little more insight into your mom’s illness. I have a mother that is also a compulsive shopper. It can make for a difficult relationship. You are a very loving daughter.
So happy to get a new video, I was just rewatching a few! You are doing great! I love the answering questions during filming that was genius! Definitely some things I have wondered about! I already looked up the meaning of your chickabiddes! I just hate the thought of the day you are done!! And no more videos!!! So I hope you continue in some way?? Have a good day!!❤
I think you are doing so well in this situation. I cheered along with you when you did, with clearing out a spot for your car. I am pulling for you. Thank you for answering personal questions about your Mom. It really makes me know what you have had to go through before all this. I hope you have a great day.
I've been following your videos, Mindy, and my heart goes out to you. Not an easy job by any means. Thank you for sharing what happened with your mom. I am very sorry for your loss. Sometime, if you were up for it, it would be nice to see a picture of your mom. She has some interesting hobbies.
Hello Mindy I ve watched every single video you made and your an awesome person and I love all the work your doing and thank you for sharing it with your fans.
Did you grow up in this house? I found drawers and closets full of yarn when my mom passed. I too can’t stand clutter. It makes me very anxious. Your small victories make me smile. ❤
This is important to watch for older people. I too have an only daughter. These videos help me to be ruthless when declutterring. ❤️
Yes, ruthless is the right word. Nothing can stop us now.
Even people without kids will benefit. Siblings! Even if it’s not a lot of stuff the emotions to deal with can be devastating! It’s best to leave clear instructions but nobody wants to think about death. 🙏🏼
We are temporary and we forget that. Our soul doesn’t need any stuff 🩷
So true. No body wants your stuff.
Agree
You're doing so well. You've come a long way since your first video I watched when you started your channel. Not only have you had to deal with quite a sudden loss of your mother, but you've also overcome your anxiety with this massive task and you're making huge strides forward. I really believe you'll be able to clear your mum's house yourself and make a healthy bunch of cash in the process for renovations. Keep going. ❤
An added bonus- her TH-cam channel! I think these videos will be watched for a long time…
A year ago today I was living with Mom trying to help her get through chemotherapy. She was 84. Today her house is totally cleaned out. In some strange way watching your videos is therapeutic for me. Seeing how you deal with grief and go through the aftermath of your Mom’s life. I was wondering why you don’t just hire someone to do an estate sale like I did and then in another video you explained and I thought, “that makes sense. It’s therapeutic for you”. For me that would not have been the case. I found it very difficult to go through mom’s stuff and pick what I wanted to keep. Very exhausting. I cannot even think about pricing everything so I admire your perseverance. At the end of the estate sale for my Mom’s stuff, the lady sent me a video of her house showing it empty. I cried. I cried hard. In another video you said it was hard watching people leave with your mom’s stuff. I relate to that. I get it. We are two different people doing basically the same thing, having similar feelings but doing it differently because that is what works for us to move forward. After the sale I heard some stories about people that bought some of my mom’s stuff and I was so touched that it meant a lot to them. I worried about people not appreciating her stuff and I felt guilty not keeping some things. A good friend said to me, “these things brought joy to your mom and she did not expect everything that brought her joy would also bring you joy. She would want someone who got joy out of any one item to have it.” That was helpful for me. Also helpful for me was Mom telling me to not stress over her stuff. Take what you want and have someone come in and do an estate sale. She gave me permission to do that. I can see with your Mom, if I have been told correctly, hoarders are protective of their things. They cannot deal with their things being “rid of”. I see you as doing this because you are honoring your mother the best way you can by “gently passing them on to people that will appreciate her stuff.” It makes sense to me how you are doing this. It’s a lot of work. All the physical work you are doing I think is mentally and emotionally even more work. I admire how you space it out and give yourself time and grace. Thank you for doing the filming and thank you for being an open book. I’ve learned, I’ve moved forward, and I grieve with you.
Thank you so much for such a thoughtful comment. I appreciate that you understand what I'm going through and why I do what I do, as most people don't and just tell me to sell or donate everything and be done with it. I am so glad you are enjoying the videos and they are helping you. Yes, we are going through the same journey, just going about it different ways.
Mindy, you barely had time to come to terms w/your mother’s health and cancer battle b4 she passed away-that is all traumatic enough, but then to have her house, garage, and shed with 85 years worth of life’s accumulations to go thru, no wonder you were feeling so overwhelmed😬🥺😩🥰 You have come so far in a short amount of time and it is GREAT to see you smile due to all you have accomplished!! Looking forward to your next videos!!😃
I've been watching and wondering if anyone has suggested to you about donating crafting supplies/fabric to senior centers or nursing homes. My friend was an activities director and would always talk about needing supplies. Also my aunt here in AZ goes everyday to a local senior center for craft classes. I donated my old craft supplies to a Boys and girls club. Also St. Vincent de Paul with come pick up furniture etc .
I def recommend letting people take things for free towards the end of your sale, too, so you don't have to take it all to goodwill yourself :) If it's not selling, put a tarp out on your driveway and make that the "free" zone -- people who come for the sale can take free things away!
Great 👍 idea 💡 I thought the same
You are doing a great job. I had to clear out my parents house and while they weren't hoarders there was 50 years of accumulated stuff. It was really hard to do and I admire your strength and tenacity getting through your mom's house. Well done, you're getting there!
You were overwhelmed in the beginning but now you have a plan. It’s still hard work though.
It seems like the heaviness of this monumental task is lifting with every bit of progress you make! We’re all very proud of you!!! ❤
I feel like it must be fate that I found your channel. My mom recently passed away under very similar circumstances. Finding out she had cancer due to breathing problems, realizing it had spread to her bone, ending up in the hospital before she could start treatment, and then going on hospice. All in the space of about 3 months.
Not only that she was also somewhat of a hoarder and I have been cleaning out her house. Luckily I have some help but it’s a lot.
Your videos have been bringing me comfort in this difficult time. Thank you for sharing the process 💕
Wow, our stories do sound very similar! I am so sorry you are dealing with the loss of your mom, it sure is tough, especially when it happens in such a short time frame. Big hugs to you. ❤️
I feel like giving you a hug. I have 2 adult daughters. I'm proud of your progress, and that you're doing it alone.
I really enjoyed the voiceover while the timelapse was happening, and learning more about your Mom. It was fun to hear about your channel name! And it is a relief to see you more settled with your system to sort through stuff and not so stressed/overwhelmed. I was cheering along with you about the clear patch of garage floor! 🎉 woohoo! Take care, and please give Mr Cat an extra couple of pets for us. 😸💗
I can’t imagine what you are going through. Safe journeys between houses
💛Chickabiddies 💛
I love your sensible and caring attitude towards your mother´s disorder. It is so important to remember that people is more than their flaws, disorders or addiction, we must remember to have quality time together where we are not concentrating on that.
The scale is finally tipping in your favor with this monumental job , and I am happy for you ! You have persevered ! Nice job !!!
You could move the frames up onto the couch.
I have been praying for you dear one you are doing a great job at working thru all the "stuff" and getting it out. It is a long process it overwhelms me just watching. I will be having to do this for both parents' homes and the anxiety I feel is sometimes more than I can bare. Your videos are helping me giving me the strength and knowledge that I will be able to conquer the "stuff" too. You are helping a lot of people. You are very brave to put this out and I am grateful you have.
Wow, I can't believe how much you got done in the garage all by yourself. Would have taken me a couple of days. You are going to be a total decluttering pro by the time you are done. I'm 69 and have been working on decluttering for a couple of years now. I don't want to leave my daughters too much to have to deal with when I'm gone. I'm learning a lot watching you go through this process. You are doing great! I'm looking forward to your next video. Have a great week!
Thank you! Wishing you a great week as well ~
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mom to 8 1/2 years ago and my precious daughter 8 years ago both to cancer. It’s a horrible disease. I had colon surgery last November for cancer. It was early and I didn’t need chemo. I’m one of the lucky ones. My mom and daughter weren’t so lucky. 🙏
You are doing great and what you are doing is not easy. Hugs to you.
I am sorry for your loss and that you have had to process all these emotions as well as cleaning out your mother’s house on your own. I just learned about your videos a few days ago when one showed up on my home page. I’ve watched them pretty consistently to the point that I am now caught up to the current one. Thank you so much for sharing your journey on TH-cam. I am also an only child and will have to at some point go through my mom’s things, but even after almost 4 years I still don’t feel ready to do so. I can’t put into enough words how helpful it has been for me to watch your videos because these are the kind of things you cannot really explain to people. Grief is such a lonely place, especially as an only child. I’m so glad you have made so much progress and you are seeing some bright moments through this difficult process. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏾
I think there are a lot of your viewers Mindy, that if we could, would be always giving you a hug. ❤❤
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You're doing so good!!! Might be worth it to locate where mice entering and block up / repair those holes. They are germy and destructive. You are most likely experiencing sinus issues from dust ❤❤❤ keep up the good work!!
You are doing great! You've got this! You can hear the energy in your voice now that you've made so much progress! I couldn't believe the age you said your mom was and she had all these projects and patterns. She must have been a true optimist! Some people her age are afraid to buy green bananas!!! Best of luck on your next sale. You've worked hard to get it ready!
I am sorry your mother passed so fast. It’s got to be so hard for you,being the only child and not any relatives
It is hard, but I think back to when my dad passed and I draw strength from that.
God bless you for taking care of your mom's belongings. You do work hard at this process. Wishing you all the best. Love from Texas ❤❤
Enjoy watching your videos and seeing the progress you are making. Have a good evening.
I just discovered your channel and binge watched to catch up. You seem to be doing better emotionally. It helps to see progress. My husband and I went to his dad’s house when he was admitted to the rest home, just to clean out the fridge. Before long we were cleaning out the whole house. Made my husband nervous. But I’m glad we did it because he never did get to come back home. Then I cleaned out my parents assisted living apartment when they passed. I love organizing and getting rid of stuff. I like working alone too because I’m better able to think things through, and it gives me momentum to keep going. You’re doing a great job. I admire your tenacity. This isn’t easy. But I will say your mom had a pretty clean house. I’ve watched Hoarders, but those places were so filthy and full of rodents, I had to quit watching. Looking forward to your next video.
You are doing great !!! As someone who USED TO collect glass and certain dishes, here's something I did. I took the majority of the glass to the Goodwill and Habitat for Humanity store BECAUSE I realized that unless it's really rare or extremely old, is worth nothing. I looked at thrift stores and see alot of glass for that reason. I got rid of most of it and it has helped me immensely. I'm almost 60 so I try to remember you when I think about that cute lil whatever and say no !!! ❤❤❤ Good thoughts and strength as you continue.
I have just arrived home from my friend's house and saw you posted so will have a listen before going to bed X so proud of you you are doing so well🫂
I have watched all of your videos. In the beginning, it appeared you were emotionally struggling with anger and frustration. Although having to go through this process was not ideal it appears that you are gaining strength emotionally from this process. I’m sad that you don’t have someone to share this process with but you are strong. I have been through this with my brother. It’s hard but it gave us time to grieve and heal. Keep going!!!
I’ve watched since your first video and wow you’ve come a long way. We are cheering you on every step of the way. You’ve got this.
So lovely to see your true smile at the beginning, it was heartwarming to see the real you! 💖
Well done on all you got done in the garage 👏 Looking forward to seeing how your next sale goes. You are reclaiming space every day. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏👍💪🙏💐🐈
Wow! You are really on a roll. Things are looking so much less overwhelming (haha - at least on video, maybe not in person) and yay for the money you made at the earlier sale! I like how you realized that you do better with a plan for your next visit to your mom's house. When I think back to your first videos, and remember how overwhelmed and shocked and grief-stricken you were, it makes me happy to see you doing better and laughing. Thanks for keeping us updated! I love these videos. Yep, people love to watch decluttering videos, especially when they can feel compassion and empathy for the person posting them.
Beautiful smile, Chickabiddie! You are doing a great job, so proud of you!
Hi, I've been watching, and cheering you on.
My dear Mom has also passed ( it was from Alzheimers and a long hard condition, i miss her alot, but it was so ... awful watching her go through it). I was her primary caregiver for about 6 years. and now have the responsibility too of emptying her house and we need to sell it. Soon.
I happen to be married & i now also help take daily care of my adult but pretty severely mentally and physically deteriorating disease that my stepdaughter has.
So anyway, I can identify with a feeling of ... getting overwhelmed, and your work and videos keeps help motivating me to ... basically ' keep at it.'
Sending you good wishes & a smile & a thank you for sharing your journey.
( Hope you do try an air filter. Concerned for ya on that one🤔.
Take care & a hello to you, Mr Cat, and your kitty cat too.😉
I'm so glad you decided to take the long, slow approach. You have given yourself the gift of working through the stages of grief, and been brave enough to take this emotional journey, and you are healing in the process. If you had chosen to hire someone else to deal with all of this, I think it would have left you with a gaping hole in your heart, full of resentment. Instead, you have understanding and compassion for your mom and the choices she made. Your grit and determination to take it day by day is inspiring. Thank you for sharing the journey for us.
I want to suggest a change in wording - please disregard this if it's not helpful, I don't mean it as a criticism. I believe your mom was a collector, not a hoarder. Maybe it's just part of the "hoarder" spectrum, but your mom clearly loved her collections. She organized them meticulously and took care of them. She didn't collect garbage or have piles of empty packaging filling every empty space in her home. And her collections didn't make her home difficult to navigate or unsafe to live in. Just my thoughts - like I said, I don't mean to criticize you or the way you are handling any of this. Hugs to you!
Agree that certain hoarders collect dirty, broken, useless items etc. However, the mom’s house and garage were indeed difficult to navigate through (for the daughter’s whole life). She stated she barely had lines in the floors to walk through…so, not just collecting
😅You worked your socks off! We came for the decluttering and stayed for you, Mr cat and coco 😀 😸
Great job chickabiddie!
I’m so happy for you making progress in your cleaning plan. I’m down to my mom’s oak porch swing. All of the attorney business is complete. Suggestion: after every sale, pack up what doesn’t sell and take to charity, then onto the next group of items. At the end of my mom’s sale, the rest was hauled away. It brought me great relief. I wish the same for you! 💙
Wonder Woman!
I have noticed that there is a fair amount of dust on some surfaces and items so you will be breathing it in. Getting rid of it with a slightly damp cloth should help & make the items look more desirable.
Love the before and after picture of the garage, the big smile says it all!
I hope you feel less alone with all of us ❤
I do, everybody here has become my virtual friends and family! 🙏🏻❤️
How are you going to handle your Mom's clothes and personal items???? Jewelery, Shoes, under garments etc....I found these are the hardest to deal with. and to be honest, after 6 years since she past, I haven't been able to deal with her house much at all. Your videos have been a blessing. I hope people , especially older folks, who are watching your videos understand what our children sometimes have to face when we pass, Perhaps it will motivate parents to try and take care of "stuff " before we transition as best we can . Most adult children really don't want our things.....
I have come across a lot of her personal keepsakes that I can't bear to get rid of. I'm sure I can pear them down later after I've had time to grieve and can decide what I really want to keep. I will probably keep some her clothing, we were almost the same size, she has a lot of nice jackets! Shoes I can get rid of since they don't fit me. Jewelry will be hit or miss. Most of it is costume jewelry, I am keeping the gold jewelry for money's sake. Some pieces of jewelry are ones that I made for her, I will probably put those with the cards I gave her and decide later. It all really is a lengthy and heart wrenching process.
I love when you smile. You are just doing so great. Keep going and take care of yourself ❤
Mindy u r doing great! Ty for sharing about your mom! Decluttering videos are very popular! I know u like parking in the garage I wish u had one building to put all your sale stuff in so u could get the house empty! I don’t like clutter either I can not relax! I am glad that you are showing the process! 😊
Hey Mindy 👋🏻
I too think you are doing an amazing job!! When it’s all done you will be able to sit and reflect and enjoy the space. I wish you continued success and look forward to seeing what’s next ❤ ~hugs Kim
You’re doing great. Cleaning out the house is hard in so many ways. Mr Cat definitely helps you to relax a bit so he’s helpful that way.
You’ll got this.
Yes, very cool to hear about the channel name- now I have to go look up that font😁
You are doing great! Lots of progress, and it is motivating me to always stay on top of things and not become a burden to my adult children. The plan to have a theme or focus for the sales is a good idea. You can even advertise them that way. Your idea to donate if things don't sell after a couple of sales is a good one too. Makes room for more things to be offered. I know it's easier to see someone else's weak spots, but I feel for you. You do have a lot of things to go through. Hoarding is a mental disorder that can be misunderstood when people really do need help, and it can be hard to comprehend how people can accumulate so many things.
I love this. Every time your smile gets bigger. I am proud of your determination. You will get there. 😊😊
Thank you!
the accumulation of dust might be affecting you, check around to house near anywhere water come through and make sure there is no hidden mold, which could also be a factor
I’m so proud of you.
Mindy, you have such a gentle spirit! It really shines through in all of your videos. I also love how you just put your head down and keep doing the next right thing, even if that means taking a much needed break and going home. We’re all rooting for you! (And I also think a little bit in awe of you too!)❤
I feel like I've bonded with you, as I was back in AZ for my dad's funeral when I found your channel. It was kind of eerie watching you go through your mom's stuff while I went through my dad's. He collected records, tools, radio equipment, etc. Going through his books was the hardest emotionally.
My brother and I were at odds most of the time I was there. 😔
Awww cute story about chickabidee ❤
I always enjoy seeing another video post from you. I’ve seen such growth in you since you’ve started your journey. I’m delighted to see you chugging along the track. you’re doing very well making goals and achieving them. You GO, GIRL ‼️ 🩷❤️🩵💙💚💜
Going through a whole house and garage clean out is physically and mentally challenging...you are doing great ! My husband died of heart and kidney failure. I took him to all his medical appointments aand the three time a week kidney dialysis sessions for several months. I had to clean out our house by myself preparing the house for sale...so I know what you are going through. Love how you named your TH-cam Channel. Love seeing Mr. Kitty.❤❤
Sorry fore You lost! I really feel fore You,! And I wish I could help you. ❤Love Jannike from Sweden.
Thank you for sharing your story and the process of going through things.
Also...do you know if your mom's town does "city-wide" garage sales or if her neighborhood has a sale in the Spring/ early summer? You would get a lot of traffic with one of those events, too, if they have them. We're in the upper Midwest, so maybe it's a Midwest thing. 😉
@@sherrielouks419it’s also a California thing. Neighborhood yard sales are excellent ways to get rid of unwanted stuff. One day in the spring every year, neighborhoods have a free, take whatever you want, giveaway. Set it out with a sign that says “free” and it will disappear. Except for one of my ironing boards last year. 🤔🤷🏻♀️ Finally was able to get rid of it by advertising on our local giveaway group.
Thanks, I'll check and find out.
That was very interesting, the voiceover. I enjoyed hearing you answer questions. What is that font used for? I was thinking it was a type style, but it’s characters. Im sorry your mom didn’t catch the cancer early. At least she was in her 80s. I do believe some of us just get tired and are ready to go… I lost my husband at 45, 11 years ago. It’s harder and harder being alone, the older I get. I need to get out and do more, but I don’t really socialize a lot.
I think that sofa is a great frame, good size and would
Look amazing if someone reupholstered it. I use to do upholstery and I have said that every time I see it. Put a modern fabric on it, is so it in a linen. Classic. Anyway. Don’t know if people
Still upholster or how affordable, but something to think about.
Forgot to say, I think your videos are encouraging to all of us. For me, it’s helpful to see how baby steps really do turn into a big improvement.
She did lead a full, long life. I am so sorry about losing your husband so early, that must have been very difficult. I don't socialize much either and fear being alone as I get older. Hugs to you ~
You are doing an amazing job by yourself. You are an inspiration! ❤
You are doing so great! It's so wonderful to see your progress and see you overcome emotional setbacks. Your organizational skills amaze me. Good luck with the next sale! I hope you break your last sale's record. 🤞
Wow! Mindy, you’ve done it again!! Whipping things into shape, sorting like with like, getting ready for the sale. Looks like you’ve got a large amount of items ready for the next sale. You’re making this happen! Loved your voice-over! Always love to see you smile! You surely ARE headed in the right direction - Kudos to you!
You got a lot accomplished this trip! It’s good to see you in a better frame of mind and more positive. Go home n enjoy a rest!
Mindy, great progress. Of course we love your channel. You are not alone...:)
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I'm so sorry to hear the frustration your mom went through when diagnosed with cancer. That's just awful she had to wait another 6 weeks to get scheduled! I can't imagine how disheartening that had to be for her. She didn't even have time to get her things in order. It makes my heart hurt for you and her.
I'm really proud of you, of how far you’ve gotten. Kudos 👏 👏 👏
Hi Mindy! You are doing great. Be careful of Hanta Virus. We don't want you to get sick. 💜
You have come such a long way ! I really enjoy watching you ! Day by day is all you can do!
Hi Mindy, Just discovered your journey this week.
Please reflect on all your progress. Clean only for a specific time, then go do something nice for yourself. Looks like your parents were both hoarders your whole life. You are very brave and strong! You are helping others, even though you don’t need to! Hugs to you girl 😊
It’s funny you mentioned about why you chose the name chickabiddies. After the last video I actually looked up what that meant, which raised more questions, but now I know and understand. Very cute!
Wow! You are doing it! High five! You’ve turned an overwhelming project into manageable bite sized pieces. Like you said, one day at a time. I get excited for you, thinking about how you are getting some money back from your moms “investments”. A lot of people wouldn’t even think of trying to sell it and just put it in a dumpster. Or hire a company and spend thousands, and not see a dime. You are in a way very fortunate to be in a position with your e commerce jobs to be able to take your time and get some money back, save a lot of money. Very happy for you. When you mentioned stuffy nose/breathing difficulties I thought maybe it’s too dry in the house? Maybe a little humidifier at the bedside? Or maybe it’s the dust and needs a good vacuum once the house is more empty. Anyways, I feel for you. I have parents that are hoarders. I’m dreading the day. Not even going to try while they are enjoying their home. It just causes stress on everyone to try and fix/help.
since there's just SO much fabric, I wonder if you could just start adding it to the sale a bit at a time. even with all the space in the world idk how you'd display that much fabric for sale :) you could let any buyers know that you'll be putting more out each time so they can come back.
Thank you for telling your mom's story. It must have been difficult.
You're doing great!
Great video, well done. Its getting better each time you do a bit of the house. Think that Polar bear ornament might be worth something, anyway check it before you sell it, just in case it is a good or known make. I keep buying vintage 30s glass but most of it can be sold again, so after seeing the daunting task you are dealing with, I have decided that if I reach 68, thats the year I am going to sell the whole bloody lot, so no one has to clear out too much stuff after I am gone. No family to speak of, well no one that has bothered visiting me in over 30 years, so a cat charity of my choice will inherit what little bit I have. Keep going, it helps me to stop my compulsive buying a little bit.
You've got this, Girl!!!
Wow!! You are on a roll!
Very good progress you are making. Making a plan beforehand has helped you focus and get more done as you said. Too bad you don't have a friend that could help you. They could even take some of the stuff for payment for helping.
Are you getting way more people now coming to the sales? I feel like summer yard sale season will be wonderfully busy to help clear everything out. Thank you for sharing with us. You are doing such a monumental task and it seems to be going easier. Bless you ❤
You are amazing! All the decisions required even to just move the things in the garage…
I hope when you’re home you do find ways to totally relax.
She has some really nice things.. An indoor sale would be great. Just don't let too many people in at once..I did it when I sold me house..I had a friend with me, but made lots of cash..
You are doing an amazing job! 😊❤
Congratulations on getting the garage cleared out enough to get both vehicles in it! I also loved hearing the backstory to your channel name ❤
Matter how much work you do, they’re always seems to be so much more. Once again, you are a workhorse!
You’re doing great! Good job! Thank you for giving us a little more insight into your mom’s illness. I have a mother that is also a compulsive shopper. It can make for a difficult relationship. You are a very loving daughter.
So happy to get a new video, I was just rewatching a few! You are doing great! I love the answering questions during filming that was genius! Definitely some things I have wondered about! I already looked up the meaning of your chickabiddes! I just hate the thought of the day you are done!! And no more videos!!! So I hope you continue in some way?? Have a good day!!❤
Thank you! I do hope to continue making videos after the house is cleaned out.
@@chickabiddiesplease do!
I think you are doing so well in this situation. I cheered along with you when you did, with clearing out a spot for your car. I am pulling for you. Thank you for answering personal questions about your Mom. It really makes me know what you have had to go through before all this. I hope you have a great day.
Glad to see the progress you are making - slow but sure - I admire your courage in taking on this task. Much love to you. Take care of yourself.
I've been following your videos, Mindy, and my heart goes out to you. Not an easy job by any means. Thank you for sharing what happened with your mom. I am very sorry for your loss. Sometime, if you were up for it, it would be nice to see a picture of your mom. She has some interesting hobbies.
Thank you, I will share some photos and stories about my mom in an upcoming video.
@@chickabiddies Looking forward to that. Keep up the great work!
Hello Mindy I ve watched every single video you made and your an awesome person and I love all the work your doing and thank you for sharing it with your fans.
Thank you so much! ❤️
Did you grow up in this house? I found drawers and closets full of yarn when my mom passed. I too can’t stand clutter. It makes me very anxious. Your small victories make me smile. ❤
❤️. No I did not grow up in this house.
Lols what a great name! i am very childlike too, maybe chickabiddies refers to some of your viewers too! 😂💖
Your progress is really motivating!
Hi! You’re doing so well, getting a lot done! Have you learned things about your mother by going through her belongings?
Keep up the great work! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾