That’s true but be aware he only does that when Dave is there when he’s wouldn’t, George is hosting himself he’ll always interrupt and interject and interrupt and interject out true facts that cold up paying attention to detail. Thank you all. Have a great morning.
I don’t understand the first caller, my goodness I just wasn’t raised that way. My mom moved in with my husband and I, and 3 kids because none of my siblings wanted to, or could not. I had to take my 3 year old daughter out of her room for grandma. My daughter was only 3 but didn’t mind, she was just so happy grandma was with us. We didn’t have money believe me, but we survived God always provides! We all had a beautiful relationship full of love, my husband loved my mom and my kids oh their grandma was the best! I miss my mom everyday she was a friend to all! No matter who you were she always showed love to people! My mom is with the Lord now she, had a strong faith in God even with her health failing she kept the faith! Love your parents do what you can for them, you only get one! Money is always the problem I know, but seriously God always makes a way! We were blessed having my mom with us a few years now we have beautiful memories and we are not rich,but not poor either, God has always taken care of us. He blessed my husband with a job he loves for so many years and a great family who love God! ❤
I agree I've watched my mom single handedly raise me and my siblings of 5 and the thought of not taking care of her as I got older never crossed my mind.
I feel like they definitely can take care of the mother. And she will get some money if the husband dies, which should be enough to take care of her. I feel she just doesn't want to.
The first caller sounded conflicted because I think she knows she can do it but doesn’t want to. And instead of telling her parents she and her husband don’t want to help them, she rather tell a white lie that they don’t have the financial capability to do so. So sad. I also think the mom suspects her daughter doesn’t want to but is hoping that’s not the case.
While we don’t have a moral obligation to help our elderly parents financially. We should be blessed to and pray for the opportunity to be financially able. In my opinion.
Im kind of hoping that that 80 yo dad who is still working & making $100k/year was really one of those super frugal people who actually has millions unbeknownst to his daughter….and she just failed the test on who’s getting the inheritance 😂
Agree! I’ve never heard such a prideful arrogant condescending tone from a daughter. She thinks she is better than them. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Love your neighbor as you love yourself. People are more valuable than money.
Some things missing from the phone call about the 80 yr old father who earns a $100,000 a year.... What do we not know? I think that there may have been health issues financial setbacks and other things in her father's life.... She sounds too young and without wisdom in talking about her 80 year old father.
I love the Ramsey philosophy bt Im amazed when the talk of being outrageously generous excludes the parents. For us, charity starts at home. So we will always start with our parents first
I agree my parents didn't really teach me what to do but it's because they didn't. Should they have learned yeah. Me and my wife always give to our parents. We are blessed to do it so why not. We make sure us and our family is taken care of first then help parents if we can.
I don’t think he excludes that. They’ve had about 65 years to plan and haven’t. It’s enabling at that point because they could have and didn’t plan. It’s irresponsible that the parent plans to force their children to support them.
For many, it's not about financially taking care of parents, but instead caring for them because of issues like dementia. I'm disappointed Dave doesn't address this more substantially.
First caller: if there is equity in your parent’s house. They are going to have to sell that bad boy and downsize or either get something smaller or perhaps build an ADU at your place with that money.
When Dave said, "The Silver Squatters" in that gravely voice, it reminded me so much of that Key & Peele bit about Stan Lee. Now that's a good comic book idea.
To the people in the comments rooting their nose up at the first caller, she clearly said though they are debt free and contribute to retirement and college funds--> they are not in that space. This means they have nothing extra! They can’t help her parents without hurting themselves.
I really like how Dave doesn't make side comments when listening to the callers. No, "oof, ouch, what!, sheesh" that we hear so often from some of the other personalities. He's compassionate and tough at the same time. If Dave is judging, at least he's hiding it better than some others who will remain nameless. Their judgy, condescending attitude is somewhat off-putting.
The show isn't the same without Dave. He listens to the callers (Jayde and Ken - hint hint) and gives solid advice, but is also sympathetic. My heart leaps when I hear he is the presenter.
Agreed!! Dave listens and is so empathetic to his callers’ situations. The ability to patiently listen has a lot to do with maturity. Being quick to solve an issue without assessing the entire situation, (which requires listening), is virtually impossible to be helpful. His daughter, Rachel, and his cohost, George, are excellent listeners; surprisingly, George has grown on me, lol.😂 He’s so humble, kindhearted, and intellectually honest.
I will never agree with the way Ramsey talks about the elderly parents. If your aging parents end up on the streets you take them in. Planning for retirement should happen and we absolutely are doing that. But if your parents truly cannot take care of themselves taking them in will not be a financial burden at all
That's the way me and my wife think about it. If our parents need it we are they took care of us for 18+ years when we needed it. We are taking steps for our kids to not have to worry about taking care of us.
I have let my mom live with me when she was not able to work until she passed away ,now my dad caint work and I'm letting him stay with me until the lord brings him home, I don't see how someone can worry about money over there family the bible talks about the love of money yall be careful
Totally agree. This is the one point I always disagree with Dave. This is not how we are taught in my culture. It's a blessing to take care of your parents. We are currently taking care of my mother in law, not there physically, because we don't live in the same city but monetarily we do. We helped support her and her daughter, who assists her. We are blessed that someone who takes care of her loves her, and so it's not a burden to help support her. The same will be when it's my mom's turn. My mother in law is much older. I say this while my husband and I try to prepare for our old age, and try to have enough save to not need help. But we still teach our children that taking care of our elderly parents is not a burden.
Timothy 5:8, which says "But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.". Essentially, it means that neglecting to care for those close to you who are in need is considered a greater offense than not believing in God at all, as it demonstrates a lack of compassion and disregard for basic human needs within your own family unit. I don’t know how to believe this in the Bible and what Dave says about not providing financially for parents- if we can help or share what we have.
I guess the definition of “provide” is important to consider. First of all, your parents are not members of your household. Second of all, it doesnt mean they need a 5 star hotel provided or else youre worse then an unbeliever. It could just mean basic necessities like food and water.. which they are more then capable of achieving in america.
Actually, that was written in a time when people did not make $100,000 a year, have social security, and could buy large houses. It's totally inaccurate to compare today's situation and possibilities with what existed at the time of Christ.
Take a look at this too. Jesus brought out that we are to honor our parents and that it wasn't just the position of being a parent. People were neglecting the care of their parents by claiming that what they had was a gift to the temple (church). Christ admonished them. Mark 7:9-13 And he said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of God, that ye may keep your own tradition. [10] For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death: [11] But ye say, If a man shall say to his father or mother, It is Corban, that is to say, a gift, by whatsoever thou mightest be profited by me; he shall be free. [12] And ye suffer him no more to do ought for his father or his mother; [13] Making the word of God of none effect through your tradition, which ye have delivered: and many such like things do ye.
It's a difficult line to draw with not being obligated to look after parents because for most of human history it was an expectation. It's only in the last hundred years or so in the western world/anglosphere that it's fallen out of fashion
46:23 If yall don’t agree on kids DO NOT have kids!! Please! There could be multiple reasons why he isn’t ready to have kids and to force him into it is completely unfair.
We have a silver squatter 😅 she has no savings and no retirement we are currently looking for something affordable for her. 😢 we have 5 people living in a 2 bdrm apartment it's waaay crowded
I would rather house my parent than send them to a home. I hope this does not come about because they were financially irresponsible. I want them to help pay the bills and be closer to loved ones.
I disagree with number one. We hope my mom will move in with us as she ages with an early Parkinson’s diagnosis right now. She will enrich our lives and we can help her in many practical ways. Our house even has a wheelchair ramp.
57:51 You don't need to film yourself being generous and helping others. Matthew 6:3-4 New International Version, "But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."
I feel like the guy in the accident needed more help than was given. Instead of making him relive a traumatic event, give him more advice. He really needed the career guy.
Appreciate the detailed breakdown! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
After paying off 6 credit cards-$100,000.00 and so close to being debt free - we had to finance a car which I will pay off in about 2 years- WHY is it so hard to spend MONEY when I know it’s necessary? Is this normal?
I have a house and my wife inherited her Father’s house we have 2 kids and way before we paid off our house we asked them if one day we couldn’t afford to pay our bills and mortgage we could move in with them? They said yes happy to have us move in. My question is if your parents are with paid off house and some money it should go to the kids but if they are broke don’t even ask for help? What kind of person are you?
Dave, what if parents are in their 80s or 90s and could not walk or make food for themselves and they probably only have a couple years left? In that case I will let them move in, hire a nurse coming over every day to check on them and give them a bath. Don't you think it's sad to pass away in a hospice or a nursing home? Don't you want to be around family, grand kids and great grand kids in the last couple years of your life? I never heard you talk about that? We are Asian American and that's what we do.
Where’s that little gadget that said “NO!” Y’all had on the show one time. Think with Kristina when was on (miss her). Dave and her were laughing and got me laughing 😂
Not sure the best advice is given to Megan. Just opening the conversation, when it hasn't been asked, entails a certain expectation that she will become financially involved. She may be drawing conclusions that are not true. Her parents may not be taking care of the house simply because they don't have the energy (which is also the reason a lot of older people don't move - they just can't face the work.) In addition, if the house is substantial and the house is paid for, the wife can sell the home and then there are options with the proceeds. Maybe she can use the money for an annuity which should pay her a good amount each month since they are already in their 80s. Maybe the wife can invest the money from the house and put it with her social security (which will be the entire amount her husband has) and then downsize to a much smaller place that she can handle on her own. In any case, personally I would NOT open the conversation b/c by opening it, she is already taking some responsibility for their financial future, if only by giving advice. Giving advice and finding out the situation is worse than Megan thought will be very difficult to face emotionally when what she needs to do is concentrate on her own family.
Talking about money with parents isn’t a bad thing. The occurrence of a conversation doesn’t set an expectation of financial involvement. In fact, speaking from person experience, it can do exactly the opposite. If she has a conversation she won’t have to draw conclusions. Neither of my grandparents were in a position to take care of their finances years before they died. Someone had to be involved. Wouldn’t it be better to know their financial situation in advance as opposed to dealing with it after a parent had a stroke and couldn’t communicate, or before the dad dies and takes all knowledge of the accounts with him? I know it’s a personal choice, but if people are unwilling to talk about money (especially with their parents), it’s probably because they’ve been hurt at some point.
Funny how in the western world we’re so individualistic. Countries in the east like Japan love to support their parents in old age. Western culture is actually very harsh.
Lmao as mentioned above, Japan and all the other Asian countries with the "take care of your parents no matter what" culture have declining birth rates. Wonder why....
Dave talks about generosity and tithing, but when it comes to supporting 80 year old parents he talks otherwise. This is not biblical advice to be fair. Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’[a] and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition.
@@Jetup24 In some states that can make sense. He rounded the number anyway, on top of his head, assuming some tax deduction and credits like having a kid, self-employed driver maybe... Seems a little low. Anyway saving 2k/month on a 6k salary is not as simple as they say. Living off 4k/month for 3 people, I hope they don't own a house.
@romt-712 wisconsin salary for 78k would be about 4600-4700 a month after deductions. That's without asumming credits. That's a big difference from 6k a month.
Your parents didn't tell you to earn your keep when you were young, why should you tell them that when they are old? Take care of them, family is more important.
That’s a silly thing to say. Kids are kids, they can’t work and they don’t know anything. People who are 60-70 years old had 40-50 years to get their act together.
Dave really messed up on the 1st Call. He isnt a person on drugs he is an 80 year old man working full time. Im feel bad for him because he has a p.o.s arrogant daughter.
Which means he should have saved enough money to fund his own care when his health fails. There is a lot of money he should have saved but apparently hasn't. That's on him. Unless he has a couple of million stashed away that the caller doesn't know about he has been irresponsible about saving money.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 that's bull crap. Because that lady got a new pair of teeth. Wasn't it on her to take care of them in the 1st place? Let's take care of the lady with no teeth but screw over our 80 year old father who works fulltime because he didn't save. Maybe he didn't save because he gave that arrogant daughter a good life because if she had a rough life she would be humble enough to take care of her dad
@@KarlaGarcia-gw8ue Were you dropped on your head as a child? Repeatedly? You know what's actually bull crap? He has had 35+ years to save for his old age care and has failed to do so. We are all responsible for our OWN old age care. Wow you Americans are not bright. When he didn't save he screwed himself over. And the only kind of life that is possible in America is a rough one. You want a good life you stay away from that dump.
Dave is wrong on bitcoin. Its just like gold when there was a value put on it. Value of something is what society puts on it, regardless of what it is. Bitcoin makes sense and wish Dave would stop being so against it. Woud help builld future wealth for some of these folks.
@MarnaCOG7 so just because something is a metal and hard to get it should be worth something? Gold has no utility too, it is what society puts on it. Its not like you can use gold like you can carbon fiber. Your last statement about how bitcoin could dissappear shows me you know nothing about bitcoin.
Such a blast being on ❤
Thank you, Jimmy! It's always refreshing to watch your videos and practice your teachings.
Love when worlds collide
Gorge is wise and i like how he never interrupts Dave , he waits his turn and soaks up that wisdom from Dave
That’s true but be aware he only does that when Dave is there when he’s wouldn’t, George is hosting himself he’ll always interrupt and interject and interrupt and interject out true facts that cold up paying attention to detail. Thank you all. Have a great morning.
If Deloney had cohosted, they wouldn't have been able to take as many calls
due to Dr. John on the spot therapy sessions!
@@Zee-zj2uh 😂 your spot on with this comment,
Awful to work side by side with the owner of any company. I would never do it, in any circumstance.
I hope the parents have millions and they donated to their favorite charity this daughter would deserve that and only that
I don’t understand the first caller, my goodness I just wasn’t raised that way. My mom moved in with my husband and I, and 3 kids because none of my siblings wanted to, or could not. I had to take my 3 year old daughter out of her room for grandma. My daughter was only 3 but didn’t mind, she was just so happy grandma was with us. We didn’t have money believe me, but we survived God always provides! We all had a beautiful relationship full of love, my husband loved my mom and my kids oh their grandma was the best! I miss my mom everyday she was a friend to all! No matter who you were she always showed love to people! My mom is with the Lord now she, had a strong faith in God even with her health failing she kept the faith! Love your parents do what you can for them, you only get one! Money is always the problem I know, but seriously God always makes a way! We were blessed having my mom with us a few years now we have beautiful memories and we are not rich,but not poor either, God has always taken care of us. He blessed my husband with a job he loves for so many years and a great family who love God! ❤
I agree I've watched my mom single handedly raise me and my siblings of 5 and the thought of not taking care of her as I got older never crossed my mind.
I feel like they definitely can take care of the mother. And she will get some money if the husband dies, which should be enough to take care of her. I feel she just doesn't want to.
The first caller sounded conflicted because I think she knows she can do it but doesn’t want to. And instead of telling her parents she and her husband don’t want to help them, she rather tell a white lie that they don’t have the financial capability to do so. So sad. I also think the mom suspects her daughter doesn’t want to but is hoping that’s not the case.
All families are different and complicated
While we don’t have a moral obligation to help our elderly parents financially. We should be blessed to and pray for the opportunity to be financially able. In my opinion.
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Im kind of hoping that that 80 yo dad who is still working & making $100k/year was really one of those super frugal people who actually has millions unbeknownst to his daughter….and she just failed the test on who’s getting the inheritance 😂
Agree! I’ve never heard such a prideful arrogant condescending tone from a daughter. She thinks she is better than them.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Love your neighbor as you love yourself.
People are more valuable than money.
Some things missing from the phone call about the 80 yr old father who earns a $100,000 a year.... What do we not know?
I think that there may have been health issues financial setbacks and other things in her father's life.... She sounds too young and without wisdom in talking about her 80 year old father.
Because if they need help then they have failed.
I love the Ramsey philosophy bt Im amazed when the talk of being outrageously generous excludes the parents. For us, charity starts at home. So we will always start with our parents first
Your parents should not need charity.
Hand up, not hand out. Financial education is a way to help parents.
Exactly. They are older, have worked longer and have had the chance to invest earlier
I agree my parents didn't really teach me what to do but it's because they didn't. Should they have learned yeah. Me and my wife always give to our parents. We are blessed to do it so why not. We make sure us and our family is taken care of first then help parents if we can.
I don’t think he excludes that. They’ve had about 65 years to plan and haven’t. It’s enabling at that point because they could have and didn’t plan. It’s irresponsible that the parent plans to force their children to support them.
If our parents took care of us we take care of them . Once a man twice a child. Amen
A true Christmas Miracle! Dave is at work Today!
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I love it!!
😂 good 1️⃣
@@qepps7602😅😅😅
Christmas is still more than a month away!
So glad Dave is back! Cos if he makes $100k a year why do the adult kids have to help financially 🤦🏽♀️ reduce your lifestyle and start saving…
I love debt free screams, they always bring a tear to my eye and I'm so proud of people I've never met
Me too🥹
We missed Dave! Loving the no no from him. My new ring tone ❤😅
Yes. Brought my widowed aging mom to live with us. Hard but blessed. We are all helping each other in the ways we can serve.
Dave is the magic!! So excited to see him on show.
The parents need to sale home now, so they together will adjust on downsizing. Less pain but their together for the changes 🙏
I missed Dave! ❤
Jimmy’s videos always make me cry 😭 ❤
Love Dave back on Air and good pair with George❤
Dave is in the house. We missed you.
For many, it's not about financially taking care of parents, but instead caring for them because of issues like dementia. I'm disappointed Dave doesn't address this more substantially.
First caller: if there is equity in your parent’s house. They are going to have to sell that bad boy and downsize or either get something smaller or perhaps build an ADU at your place with that money.
Watching on replay. Happy to see Dave again!!
Dave is back!
When Dave said, "The Silver Squatters" in that gravely voice, it reminded me so much of that Key & Peele bit about Stan Lee. Now that's a good comic book idea.
Dave is back!....Yes!
Those debt free screams are way different after the mortgage is paid!!!!
"the secret weapon, the ancient word, the word no one is allowed to speak anymore... NO!!!" Never change Dave, you're amazing lol
To the people in the comments rooting their nose up at the first caller, she clearly said though they are debt free and contribute to retirement and college funds--> they are not in that space. This means they have nothing extra! They can’t help her parents without hurting themselves.
Taking in your parents isn’t a financial burden
Did you even read my comment? And who said it wasn’t? And do you know her parents?
@@alqoshgirlmath is math. Of course taking care of additional people will cost more money. It certainly is a financial burden.
Amen❤
KING DAVE IS BACK 👑 💪🏿!!!!!
I really like how Dave doesn't make side comments when listening to the callers. No, "oof, ouch, what!, sheesh" that we hear so often from some of the other personalities. He's compassionate and tough at the same time. If Dave is judging, at least he's hiding it better than some others who will remain nameless. Their judgy, condescending attitude is somewhat off-putting.
AGREE 10%
1000 percent
Not true at all, maybe not as much as other hosts, but he definitely makes comments and jokes about people lol
I want that ringtone too!!! 😂😂 Papa Dave is a BEAST!!!
❤ listening to y'all talk life + money!
The show isn't the same without Dave. He listens to the callers (Jayde and Ken - hint hint) and gives solid advice, but is also sympathetic. My heart leaps when I hear he is the presenter.
Agreed!! Dave listens and is so empathetic to his callers’ situations. The ability to patiently listen has a lot to do with maturity. Being quick to solve an issue without assessing the entire situation, (which requires listening), is virtually impossible to be helpful. His daughter, Rachel, and his cohost, George, are excellent listeners; surprisingly, George has grown on me, lol.😂 He’s so humble, kindhearted, and intellectually honest.
He's experienced and wise
Been waiting for you to be back Dave!
I will never agree with the way Ramsey talks about the elderly parents. If your aging parents end up on the streets you take them in. Planning for retirement should happen and we absolutely are doing that. But if your parents truly cannot take care of themselves taking them in will not be a financial burden at all
That's the way me and my wife think about it. If our parents need it we are they took care of us for 18+ years when we needed it. We are taking steps for our kids to not have to worry about taking care of us.
Not a financial burden? You’ve either been extremely lucky, or haven’t yet moved your parents in.
I have let my mom live with me when she was not able to work until she passed away ,now my dad caint work and I'm letting him stay with me until the lord brings him home, I don't see how someone can worry about money over there family the bible talks about the love of money yall be careful
@@davidbishop4218Amen!
Totally agree. This is the one point I always disagree with Dave. This is not how we are taught in my culture. It's a blessing to take care of your parents. We are currently taking care of my mother in law, not there physically, because we don't live in the same city but monetarily we do. We helped support her and her daughter, who assists her. We are blessed that someone who takes care of her loves her, and so it's not a burden to help support her. The same will be when it's my mom's turn. My mother in law is much older. I say this while my husband and I try to prepare for our old age, and try to have enough save to not need help. But we still teach our children that taking care of our elderly parents is not a burden.
How can someone be unemployed for 6 months and not get SOMETHING. With a family at home? That’s mind boggling.
I only watch the episodes with Dave on. I would love to have some ones with just him hosting like the good ole days!
Timothy 5:8, which says "But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.". Essentially, it means that neglecting to care for those close to you who are in need is considered a greater offense than not believing in God at all, as it demonstrates a lack of compassion and disregard for basic human needs within your own family unit.
I don’t know how to believe this in the Bible and what Dave says about not providing financially for parents- if we can help or share what we have.
AGREE!!
I guess the definition of “provide” is important to consider. First of all, your parents are not members of your household. Second of all, it doesnt mean they need a 5 star hotel provided or else youre worse then an unbeliever. It could just mean basic necessities like food and water.. which they are more then capable of achieving in america.
For example, they could provide for them by giving them food and water and clothes.. they dont need to give them any money..
Actually, that was written in a time when people did not make $100,000 a year, have social security, and could buy large houses. It's totally inaccurate to compare today's situation and possibilities with what existed at the time of Christ.
Take a look at this too. Jesus brought out that we are to honor our parents and that it wasn't just the position of being a parent. People were neglecting the care of their parents by claiming that what they had was a gift to the temple (church). Christ admonished them.
Mark 7:9-13
And he said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of God, that ye may keep your own tradition. [10] For Moses said, Honour thy father and thy mother; and, Whoso curseth father or mother, let him die the death: [11] But ye say, If a man shall say to his father or mother, It is Corban, that is to say, a gift, by whatsoever thou mightest be profited by me; he shall be free. [12] And ye suffer him no more to do ought for his father or his mother; [13] Making the word of God of none effect through your tradition, which ye have delivered: and many such like things do ye.
It's a difficult line to draw with not being obligated to look after parents because for most of human history it was an expectation. It's only in the last hundred years or so in the western world/anglosphere that it's fallen out of fashion
The wife in the debt free scream looks *incredible* for having had 5 kids!
Yes, it's wonderful to see a couple who isn't overweight or obese on the debt free stage. So refreshing and pleasing to the eye.
46:23 If yall don’t agree on kids DO NOT have kids!! Please!
There could be multiple reasons why he isn’t ready to have kids and to force him into it is completely unfair.
Yay! My favorite host duo! ❤
Have to practice saying “NO!”
no thank you
We have a silver squatter 😅 she has no savings and no retirement we are currently looking for something affordable for her. 😢 we have 5 people living in a 2 bdrm apartment it's waaay crowded
I would rather house my parent than send them to a home. I hope this does not come about because they were financially irresponsible. I want them to help pay the bills and be closer to loved ones.
Not everyone feels that way about family.
Dave is back!! 😊
Thank you for the sound advice
I disagree with number one. We hope my mom will move in with us as she ages with an early Parkinson’s diagnosis right now. She will enrich our lives and we can help her in many practical ways. Our house even has a wheelchair ramp.
Dave is irreplaceable. Was wondering where he was for the last several sessions.
57:51 You don't need to film yourself being generous and helping others. Matthew 6:3-4 New International Version, "But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."
True, but if you watch, people donate to that person and bless them even more.
Dave is back, now what are y'all going to complain about? Lol
They’ll find something
I feel like the guy in the accident needed more help than was given. Instead of making him relive a traumatic event, give him more advice. He really needed the career guy.
You can hear it in his voice he's depressed. 😢
He could have called in on Ken's show
I think it was great for him to share. Not run from it. He has not found his purpose and he is very young, lots of life ahead.
Best advice, thank you
Appreciate the detailed breakdown! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
Jimmy, Jason and Britney are awesome!! ❤
Not just America. This problem is rapidly growing in the name of “Show some respect”.
God bless you!
LOL! Dave is a trip. He is so right. I will use that Jingle, "NO! NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Dave you let me down by not saying “We’re looking at weird peopleeeeee!!!!!”😔
It is hard to look at a doughnut and say no.
True that
After paying off 6 credit cards-$100,000.00 and so close to being debt free - we had to finance a car which I will pay off in about 2 years- WHY is it so hard to spend MONEY when I know it’s necessary? Is this normal?
I have a house and my wife inherited her Father’s house we have 2 kids and way before we paid off our house we asked them if one day we couldn’t afford to pay our bills and mortgage we could move in with them? They said yes happy to have us move in. My question is if your parents are with paid off house and some money it should go to the kids but if they are broke don’t even ask for help? What kind of person are you?
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Dave, what if parents are in their 80s or 90s and could not walk or make food for themselves and they probably only have a couple years left? In that case I will let them move in, hire a nurse coming over every day to check on them and give them a bath. Don't you think it's sad to pass away in a hospice or a nursing home? Don't you want to be around family, grand kids and great grand kids in the last couple years of your life? I never heard you talk about that? We are Asian American and that's what we do.
Charity begins at home
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Where’s that little gadget that said “NO!” Y’all had on the show one time. Think with Kristina when was on (miss her). Dave and her were laughing and got me laughing 😂
Not sure the best advice is given to Megan. Just opening the conversation, when it hasn't been asked, entails a certain expectation that she will become financially involved. She may be drawing conclusions that are not true. Her parents may not be taking care of the house simply because they don't have the energy (which is also the reason a lot of older people don't move - they just can't face the work.) In addition, if the house is substantial and the house is paid for, the wife can sell the home and then there are options with the proceeds. Maybe she can use the money for an annuity which should pay her a good amount each month since they are already in their 80s. Maybe the wife can invest the money from the house and put it with her social security (which will be the entire amount her husband has) and then downsize to a much smaller place that she can handle on her own. In any case, personally I would NOT open the conversation b/c by opening it, she is already taking some responsibility for their financial future, if only by giving advice. Giving advice and finding out the situation is worse than Megan thought will be very difficult to face emotionally when what she needs to do is concentrate on her own family.
Talking about money with parents isn’t a bad thing. The occurrence of a conversation doesn’t set an expectation of financial involvement. In fact, speaking from person experience, it can do exactly the opposite.
If she has a conversation she won’t have to draw conclusions.
Neither of my grandparents were in a position to take care of their finances years before they died. Someone had to be involved. Wouldn’t it be better to know their financial situation in advance as opposed to dealing with it after a parent had a stroke and couldn’t communicate, or before the dad dies and takes all knowledge of the accounts with him?
I know it’s a personal choice, but if people are unwilling to talk about money (especially with their parents), it’s probably because they’ve been hurt at some point.
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12:44 “Yes I’m a lot of fun NO! “
Funny how in the western world we’re so individualistic. Countries in the east like Japan love to support their parents in old age. Western culture is actually very harsh.
And Japan is aging with no children. Perhaps their way is not the right way. Gotta look after the future, not the past.
@@Malko_pileSpot on.
Some families help one another. I'm trying to get my dad to move in with me now. He took care of me, I take care of him.
Lmao as mentioned above, Japan and all the other Asian countries with the "take care of your parents no matter what" culture have declining birth rates. Wonder why....
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What about your grandkids? Shouldn’t you look after them?
Wow, a 1.5-hour show on the most powerful word in the universe: NO! 😂😂😂😂😂
I'm surprised about the advice Dave is giving. I've watched for years.
100k a year is a lot. Downgrade the house and invest heavily
Sell house save money for 2 years they can live of 50,000 save 40,000
Man can Dave just let the young lady talk???
The wives are the ones who take care of them for free. So why do they have to sacrifice their life? Are the staff from the welfare working for free?
In the meantime crypto is up😂 these guys really hate crypto. Love it or hate it folks crypto is a thing and it’s not going away.
🍩 14:02 😂😂
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Yep / none of that / / yep /.and some times I have to stand up ,... to them
1:01:26.5
Dave talks about generosity and tithing, but when it comes to supporting 80 year old parents he talks otherwise. This is not biblical advice to be fair.
Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’[a] and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition.
George says Nick is bringing home 6k monthly on a 78k salary?
Yeah after taxes
@romt-712 so he's only paying 6k in taxes 🙄. They are always so off with net income
@@Jetup24 In some states that can make sense. He rounded the number anyway, on top of his head, assuming some tax deduction and credits like having a kid, self-employed driver maybe... Seems a little low. Anyway saving 2k/month on a 6k salary is not as simple as they say. Living off 4k/month for 3 people, I hope they don't own a house.
@romt-712 wisconsin salary for 78k would be about 4600-4700 a month after deductions. That's without asumming credits. That's a big difference from 6k a month.
Sell the house buy a cooperative if possible
Seems like a lot more commercials than content lately.
1:09:33 😅
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Crypto 10% if you must then do the 90% every month
So sorry wow so sorry
No no no lol
Dave, you were unnecessary rough and disrespectful to her and that is not ok! You just spoke to her like you were scolding a child!
You said you were wrong but you never actually apologized!
Silver squatters lol
I don't know how anyone has five kids and manages to pay off debt, much less keep the shirt they had on in the picture. Good lord.
Your parents didn't tell you to earn your keep when you were young, why should you tell them that when they are old? Take care of them, family is more important.
That’s a silly thing to say. Kids are kids, they can’t work and they don’t know anything. People who are 60-70 years old had 40-50 years to get their act together.
I don’t know how you could not help your parents 😢
1500 a week delivering pizza???
Hey, I want that gig! $1,500? Sounds like an 80 our work schedule though. Papa John's here I come, woohoo!!
I have tried 3 different food delivery companies and the best year I had was 2020 (shocker) and I still only made $600/mo on my highest months.
1500 a week delivering pizza. Sure..... 1:26:35
Have you tried it?
We love what you are doing @jimmydarts
These are FAKE calls. 100K/yr and has NO $$$. BS - My opinion
Dave really messed up on the 1st Call. He isnt a person on drugs he is an 80 year old man working full time. Im feel bad for him because he has a p.o.s arrogant daughter.
Which means he should have saved enough money to fund his own care when his health fails. There is a lot of money he should have saved but apparently hasn't. That's on him. Unless he has a couple of million stashed away that the caller doesn't know about he has been irresponsible about saving money.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 that's bull crap. Because that lady got a new pair of teeth. Wasn't it on her to take care of them in the 1st place?
Let's take care of the lady with no teeth but screw over our 80 year old father who works fulltime because he didn't save. Maybe he didn't save because he gave that arrogant daughter a good life because if she had a rough life she would be humble enough to take care of her dad
Judge not
@@KarlaGarcia-gw8ue Were you dropped on your head as a child? Repeatedly? You know what's actually bull crap? He has had 35+ years to save for his old age care and has failed to do so. We are all responsible for our OWN old age care. Wow you Americans are not bright.
When he didn't save he screwed himself over. And the only kind of life that is possible in America is a rough one. You want a good life you stay away from that dump.
Yeah that guy blew money every year, obviously and his daughter doesn't want to pay for his mistakes.
Dave’s wrong on Bitcoin
Dave is wrong on bitcoin. Its just like gold when there was a value put on it. Value of something is what society puts on it, regardless of what it is. Bitcoin makes sense and wish Dave would stop being so against it. Woud help builld future wealth for some of these folks.
But gold is a precious metal that takes hard work to gather. Crypto could disappear with a computer glitch.
@MarnaCOG7 or like Doge coin, have coins made all the time that dilute the market
@MarnaCOG7 so just because something is a metal and hard to get it should be worth something? Gold has no utility too, it is what society puts on it. Its not like you can use gold like you can carbon fiber. Your last statement about how bitcoin could dissappear shows me you know nothing about bitcoin.
Dave doesn’t like gold as an investment either
People don't understand bitcoin. Or fiat currency.
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