After listening to this story, the title is just a massive lie. Bro never cut contact with her at all and the vibe is ENTIRELY different than the title implies. Bro is just a simp who can't stand up for himself
@@alegendarywolf3278 Exactly. People need to realize there is nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and wanting to be respected in a relationship. And also need to learn how to collect evidence such as recording the disrespect, lies, and abuse.
Man, it's outstanding the amount of people that don't understand how gaslighting on the hands of a pathological narcissist works. I guess you must also think the same way about people who get physically abused by their spouces and stay, right? So immature.
What the hell is wrong with OP? I have watched 12 minutes on 2x until now and can't tolerate the frustration I have got from liatening to his story. A doormat.
These men are a lost cause. I hate to turn my back on the boys but sometimes you just have to 😥. Thing is, there is most likely going to be things your partner does that annoys you but you’ll have to deal with it. This, on the other hand, this is just being plain oblivious to someone so flawed.
Never be the guy like in this story. If someone constantly lies and does shit towards you, just leave and never return or give them any attention again. It's obvious from the start that she didn't value this guy and he was just being a doormat. small edit here: Also I think the girl is definitely a narcissist and oh boy they do love people who have no backbone and are easy to manipulate. If you let that shit go on, it will just keep going as long as you let it to. They will never respect you and you're just a tool for them to use.
My story is completely similar to his. It took me a long time so stop being a doormat. You know what the actual problem is? Us doormats? We tend to be the nicest(trust me it's not a good thing) people, I have helped my friend with college tution only to be back bitched about I have helped my ex with her entire ducking life only to be used and betrayed in a worse way. I was blackmailed into having se* with her and I ducking cried because I didn't want to but to everyone else the only question which would come to their mind is how can a guy not consent to a woman (especially when it's his cheating girlfriend). I faced aggravated assault and so much shit but the only reason why I couldn't leave was because it was either the devil or the deep blue sea. I recieved some fake affection from her which I had missed out on all my life. I am thankful I was born in a financially well off family but I never really formed any deep connections, meaningful relations and never experienced affection. I did get into flings but I always felt like they were in it for the money or idk something was off and for the first time I thought I had struck gold because of the way she would fake all that cuddling and affection. Ofcourse I know I am a total wimp, after literally saving people's careers, helping people pass, giving out loans to people only for them to be never repaid other than the backbitching ofcourse. I did nothing. I didn't take any revenge. It takes time for people like us to keep getting battered and fucked. It takes time for people like us to keep getting betrayed. But once we reach our limit, life's so much better. I see everyone and everything as scum, I will never fall for anyone's bs and never ever lose my way again. It's simply work, MMA and alcohol(I can't sleep otherwise but I run for atleast 3 hours with rest ofcourse and 2mma sessions a day) ps. I am in IT. So yeah, he's not a wimp, he's simply in his training arc. Once op is done he will never experience heartbreak, betrayal, disappointment and never crave happiness, peace, affection, relation whatever. People like us are only fuelled by hatred, anger and an everlasting craving for revenge(lawfully ofcourse). So from here on it's only upwards.
Stockholm syndrome or has deep attachment issues. I've been there and even OP knows what the partner does is wrong, he might've have issues that lead him to this.
the "Tried Every Move to Win Me Back After Getting Dumped" part started at 18:59 🙃 17:13 where op blocked cheater, but prior to that, its all denial and bargaining, dormat behavior on op's part. man needs therapy and needs to move on and respect himself
Was checking the comments to see if this would happen. Made it 12min in and I can't stand this guy. A lot of the people that give cheaters a second chance initially, I completely understand since they've worked so hard for it and it's essentially denial playing out. This dude's either so much of a doormat it would take a full rug restoration video to find a human under there, or he's in so much denial that she could walk him into a firing squad claiming it would help their relationship by it actually being a glory hole that would allow him to let loose while he thinks it's some type of hyperbole for a date at a water fountain.
1:23 "As the relationship progressed" Bro WTF are you still doing there?!?! Bail!!!!! Everything that happens to OP from here on out it's his own fault for being with that crazy woman in spite of everything she does to him
He straight deserves all of this I’m only 12 minutes in and this dude has literally been cheated on abused and Murrietta other things and he refuses to do anything about it
OP needs to stay alone for a LONG WHILE. He got fed red flags and the runaround so many times that he has vertigo. That woman is a mother-effing nightmare.
Op should have just laid by the front door so he could be a more thorough doormat than he already was. I lost any sympathy for him a third of the way through the story. Absolutely pathetic.
I know I'm late, but I hope you didn't make the mistake I made (watching the whole vid). It got to the point where I stopped hoping for op to grow a spine and instead hoped he'd be fuck3d over in some big way cos the story was pissing me off
OP is a complete doormat but I get where he's comming from. Narcs hook you up quickly and is very difficult to detach, even though you know they are bad people and they do bad things to you. However, there's a point where it seems OP is willingly giving in... I wonder if he has any support network that helps him remain strong, because it isn't mentioned here.
This guy clearly did not recover from his first relationship, and then he jumped into this one, where he is a doormat, completely disrespected and not accounted for. The dude should have left at first sight of infidelity, smh.
"I want to hold people accountable", and who is holding him accountable for behaving like a doormat? There is a selfless love and there is you being a doormat. The two are completely different.
The antrophormised Red Flag must have been hot. Or OP hails from that parallel universe showcased in 'The Invention of Lying' and still has relapses, despite doing some successful investigating now and then.
He's being abused by her, I'm just in awe. How can he stay with her? (I am aware people who are being abused don't want to leave. But he should have done something earlier.)
Yeah, I don't think I'm going to finish this. At this point I'm more mad at op. She's pretty much waving 1000 red flags in his face, and he's like, "oooh, what shade is that one? Maroon? I don't really like it, but anything for you!"
Bro, she was waving the red flags in his face, making sure he could see them, even went out of her way to tell him she has always been a cheater and used guys for money, and this guy really just let it happen. He might as well ask her to spit in his face, at least then her disrespect for him and his lack of respect for himself would be out in the open
Entire thing was "There were these 147 red flags, but we decided to try and work on it together, but she didn't actually try, so I had to try for her."
This woman was a trebuchet-sized red flag from month one and OP just shrugged it off. She literally showed him the texts of her emotional affair with her boss and he ignored it all. What a punk.
I’m hoping op is extremely young because the amount of red flags has me face palming, he is way too passive and allowed this woman to disrespect him over and over.
I don't know why straight men have this problem where they allow themselves to enter these relationships, straight women have it better figured out as they will absolutely refuse to be with a man who likes other men.
I can't even feel bad for you, you letting all this happen and didn't put your foot down it's really on you bro be a man and don't fold I get how you wish it would get better and it couldn't be as it seems. You a push over and she saw that and took advantage of you for that be better your a good man but to foolish I wish you the best at the end doe.
dude op was a door mat how do you let consistent cheating and verbal/physical abuse go and try to continue, even if you were blind you would see that this person wont change and isnt worth the op time it sucks people can fail to see whats right in front of them.
I dated a sociopath and had all this happen to me as well. I understand completely why he couldn't move on, as narcissists break your self worth over time and manipulate your mind into believing that you can't live without them. The gaslightning is so bad, as they make you question your sanity. They don't hide their narcissistic behaviour and it happens so often that that pain becomes your new "normal". It's so sad to see people go through this, the healing process is the worst, I hope OP is well. I wish I could find the post to speak to them.
After listening to this story, the title is just a massive lie. Bro never cut contact with her at all and the vibe is ENTIRELY different than the title implies. Bro is just a simp who can't stand up for himself
I agree, to be blunt he deserved everything he got for having no backbone to stand up for himself.
@@alegendarywolf3278 Exactly. People need to realize there is nothing wrong with sticking up for yourself and wanting to be respected in a relationship. And also need to learn how to collect evidence such as recording the disrespect, lies, and abuse.
@@alegendarywolf3278 Most people in abusive relationships have no backbone, do you blame all of them or just the men?
Man, it's outstanding the amount of people that don't understand how gaslighting on the hands of a pathological narcissist works. I guess you must also think the same way about people who get physically abused by their spouces and stay, right? So immature.
Bro, have every right to go to the phone
What the hell is wrong with OP?
I have watched 12 minutes on 2x until now and can't tolerate the frustration I have got from liatening to his story.
A doormat.
She clearly disrespected him and he still moved in with her... why???
Because he is a spineless simp charming
It only gets worse...
Thinking with his "head" and not his head.
These men are a lost cause. I hate to turn my back on the boys but sometimes you just have to 😥. Thing is, there is most likely going to be things your partner does that annoys you but you’ll have to deal with it. This, on the other hand, this is just being plain oblivious to someone so flawed.
I'm one minute in and already the alarm bells are ringing, what a mess
Tales from doormatland the chronicles of simperiex the doormat god.
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684I'd laugh if it wasn't so painful, Lord have mercy
Alternative way to say first
@@musabokmen7681 Is it? Whoops, my bad 🤣
Same
Never be the guy like in this story. If someone constantly lies and does shit towards you, just leave and never return or give them any attention again. It's obvious from the start that she didn't value this guy and he was just being a doormat.
small edit here: Also I think the girl is definitely a narcissist and oh boy they do love people who have no backbone and are easy to manipulate. If you let that shit go on, it will just keep going as long as you let it to. They will never respect you and you're just a tool for them to use.
You can but be the better girlfriend than that street slug of a girl
Warning : title is clickbait. The story is about a total wimp.
Yeh, people in abusive relationships normally are
Thank you, I was about to wasting my time hearing an irritating story about a doormat.
How someone can get themselves and stay in this situation is beyond me.
Clearly OP is the one at fault here
Nah that guy had like 5 chances to leave, i feel no pity for him
OP is a walking piece of reusable toilet paper
Yeah i almost couldnt finish this one. This man is THE BIGGEST DOORMAT
I almost couldn't neither. I have to pause the video several times to digest the level of idiot OP is
he was being abused. physically, emotionally, etc.
@@yukiandkanamekurandoesn’t mean you have to be bitch made
@@yukiandkanamekuranvoluntarily
He probably gets off on it cuz like DAMN
He's constantly uncomfortable, but still kept the relationship going. I can't make sense of it.
He's a doormat.
My story is completely similar to his. It took me a long time so stop being a doormat. You know what the actual problem is? Us doormats? We tend to be the nicest(trust me it's not a good thing) people, I have helped my friend with college tution only to be back bitched about I have helped my ex with her entire ducking life only to be used and betrayed in a worse way. I was blackmailed into having se* with her and I ducking cried because I didn't want to but to everyone else the only question which would come to their mind is how can a guy not consent to a woman (especially when it's his cheating girlfriend). I faced aggravated assault and so much shit but the only reason why I couldn't leave was because it was either the devil or the deep blue sea. I recieved some fake affection from her which I had missed out on all my life. I am thankful I was born in a financially well off family but I never really formed any deep connections, meaningful relations and never experienced affection. I did get into flings but I always felt like they were in it for the money or idk something was off and for the first time I thought I had struck gold because of the way she would fake all that cuddling and affection. Ofcourse I know I am a total wimp, after literally saving people's careers, helping people pass, giving out loans to people only for them to be never repaid other than the backbitching ofcourse. I did nothing. I didn't take any revenge. It takes time for people like us to keep getting battered and fucked. It takes time for people like us to keep getting betrayed. But once we reach our limit, life's so much better. I see everyone and everything as scum, I will never fall for anyone's bs and never ever lose my way again. It's simply work, MMA and alcohol(I can't sleep otherwise but I run for atleast 3 hours with rest ofcourse and 2mma sessions a day) ps. I am in IT. So yeah, he's not a wimp, he's simply in his training arc. Once op is done he will never experience heartbreak, betrayal, disappointment and never crave happiness, peace, affection, relation whatever. People like us are only fuelled by hatred, anger and an everlasting craving for revenge(lawfully ofcourse). So from here on it's only upwards.
She*
Stockholm syndrome or has deep attachment issues. I've been there and even OP knows what the partner does is wrong, he might've have issues that lead him to this.
She admitted that she cheats in every relationship and her continues the relationship for another 4 months? lol
God damn door mat central here fella got 1000 red flags within the first 2 minutes.
FACTS!!!
Lowkey feel bad because it shows poor self image, confidence and it shows hes a little weak bc of that
the "Tried Every Move to Win Me Back After Getting Dumped" part started at 18:59 🙃
17:13 where op blocked cheater, but prior to that, its all denial and bargaining, dormat behavior on op's part. man needs therapy and needs to move on and respect himself
Thank you so much!!! 🫡
I’m speechless. I kept waiting for him to finally cut her off and be the hero of his own story but it never came.
Was checking the comments to see if this would happen. Made it 12min in and I can't stand this guy.
A lot of the people that give cheaters a second chance initially, I completely understand since they've worked so hard for it and it's essentially denial playing out.
This dude's either so much of a doormat it would take a full rug restoration video to find a human under there, or he's in so much denial that she could walk him into a firing squad claiming it would help their relationship by it actually being a glory hole that would allow him to let loose while he thinks it's some type of hyperbole for a date at a water fountain.
OP needs to REWIRE his brain, don't put your self worth & value on having a relationship. You don't need them to live life.
1:23 "As the relationship progressed" Bro WTF are you still doing there?!?! Bail!!!!! Everything that happens to OP from here on out it's his own fault for being with that crazy woman in spite of everything she does to him
Actual doormat. I've seen newborn kittens with more spine than OP
E-books have more spine! And they don't even have spines!
The average jellyfish has more of a spine
You know its sooo frustrating when someone has all the cards in their favor but chooses to be a doormat 😢
Were are the revenge stories, this one pissed me off by how much of a pussy the op was.
He straight deserves all of this I’m only 12 minutes in and this dude has literally been cheated on abused and Murrietta other things and he refuses to do anything about it
OP needs to stay alone for a LONG WHILE. He got fed red flags and the runaround so many times that he has vertigo. That woman is a mother-effing nightmare.
Op should have just laid by the front door so he could be a more thorough doormat than he already was. I lost any sympathy for him a third of the way through the story. Absolutely pathetic.
Lmfaooo
I know I'm late, but I hope you didn't make the mistake I made (watching the whole vid). It got to the point where I stopped hoping for op to grow a spine and instead hoped he'd be fuck3d over in some big way cos the story was pissing me off
@rogueknight5984 Unfortunately, I did. I don't know how he managed to get around without a spine to keep him upright, but he was somehow he did.
@@becausemynameiscommon5609 Ig you can only stay a doormat for so long
My reaction to this whole fucking thing was “Dude, just break up with her, she is waving the red flags happily in your face wtf”
Goddamn, I wanted to feel sad for the OP but he's such a doofus.
OP is a complete doormat but I get where he's comming from. Narcs hook you up quickly and is very difficult to detach, even though you know they are bad people and they do bad things to you. However, there's a point where it seems OP is willingly giving in... I wonder if he has any support network that helps him remain strong, because it isn't mentioned here.
It doesn't sound like it. And his family don't sound too helpful.
Omg yes! Finally a comment that calls her a Narcisist. I was thinking more of a psychopath or sociopath, but just narcissist works too.
Nobody is going to miss those signs. Those are red flags with 2000 floodlights and spotlight pointing towards it
It takes a guy as dumb and gullible as Patrick from SpongeBob to stay in this relationship for as long as the OP did
This guy clearly did not recover from his first relationship, and then he jumped into this one, where he is a doormat, completely disrespected and not accounted for. The dude should have left at first sight of infidelity, smh.
What a bunch of doormat behavior. LEAVE her at once ffs
I don't blame the cheater. Op is a volunteering doormat. At this point i believe he is enjoying this
Right?
She straight up said how she feels about him and he is like ongggg you hurt me. But i feel sad now can you come over?
Holy hell. This story is so frustrating. OP should have grown a spine about a dozen times and kicked this awful woman out of his life.
This story is so frustrating! I've never wish any of this on anyone more than OP. He deserved everything that happened to him.
"I want to hold people accountable", and who is holding him accountable for behaving like a doormat? There is a selfless love and there is you being a doormat. The two are completely different.
Smh this dude is the biggest simp ever. No self respect at all
These are 20 minutes of my life I can't get back
This guy is a doormat for such a long time. I'm more mad at him than the cheater.
Bro 31 and dated a immature 25 yr old how was a walking red flag and ignored everything. He deserves everything that happened to him
Poor op doesnt even know how to value himself properly.. I hope he works out his issues
I...got angry listening to this.
She's toxic, abusive and a cheater...but OP is a MASSSIVE doormat...
The antrophormised Red Flag must have been hot. Or OP hails from that parallel universe showcased in 'The Invention of Lying' and still has relapses, despite doing some successful investigating now and then.
This guy looooove the pain!
Low self esteem is a sickness
I cant even finish this, its like hes asking to get cheated on
I wonder how he survived 31 years with no spine?
He's being abused by her, I'm just in awe. How can he stay with her? (I am aware people who are being abused don't want to leave. But he should have done something earlier.)
I don't feel bad for wildlife getting hunted, circle of life and all that. Same applies to guys like this.
Ahhh, BPD. Never, ever try to have a relationship with these people. You will regret it every single time.
This can't be real. It's like he intentionally put himself through this.
"Things went downhill from here." My dude, you are in the Marianas Trench. 😂
How can this guy live with himself
What an amazing doormat
Yeah, I don't think I'm going to finish this. At this point I'm more mad at op. She's pretty much waving 1000 red flags in his face, and he's like, "oooh, what shade is that one? Maroon? I don't really like it, but anything for you!"
Bro, she was waving the red flags in his face, making sure he could see them, even went out of her way to tell him she has always been a cheater and used guys for money, and this guy really just let it happen. He might as well ask her to spit in his face, at least then her disrespect for him and his lack of respect for himself would be out in the open
I'm surprised the OP is a functioning human being
I fucking can't with this OP. This dude isn't just a doormat, he's a soft velveteen welcome mat with a bowl of candy and champagne in the entryway.
He deserved everything past the first 3 minutes. Bruh, if your partner is actively keeping stuff from you it's time to go.
If there's no trust, there's no privacy.
Calling this beta weak boy a simp will be an understatement
Entire thing was "There were these 147 red flags, but we decided to try and work on it together, but she didn't actually try, so I had to try for her."
This woman was a trebuchet-sized red flag from month one and OP just shrugged it off. She literally showed him the texts of her emotional affair with her boss and he ignored it all. What a punk.
I'm assuming that OP needs to wear a helmet 24/7
I’m hoping op is extremely young because the amount of red flags has me face palming, he is way too passive and allowed this woman to disrespect him over and over.
He's 31. Shameful.
This girl had red flags from the start and he still chose to be with her.......is he a masochist?
Bro is a doormat Lord.
Bruh not even a minute and she is raising a mountain of Red Flags. worse that he actually moved in with her. Smh
Jesus Christ this relationship went on way too long take the L and move on
This guy is just walking through a field of red flags , just sad.
this guys got 0 self respect
And the doormat of the century award goes to:-
This hecking relationship what’s doomed from the beginning dude
I know I'm late to this party, but seriously which red flag do you need in this SEA of red flags???
OP is so dumb for getting played like that over and over and expects sympathy for all his foolishness
wtf? OP is the biggest doormat in existence...
wtf is wrong with this guy.
the holiest dormat
i think this is just ragebait
It always is
This guy is not a doormat but a punch bag. How can he be ok after all that shit?
Say it with me now…. DOORMAT!!!😂😂
Dude is such a wet wipe. Can't help but feel bad for him. Impliments no boundaries then calls his own actions unhealthy.
This dude seriously thought he could get into a committed relationship with a bisexual LMAO
I don't know why straight men have this problem where they allow themselves to enter these relationships, straight women have it better figured out as they will absolutely refuse to be with a man who likes other men.
*self respect has left the chat*
Im not sure if he just a doormat or a complete simp😅
so many red flags, how this guy is still alive after ignoring so much shit is beyond me
Wtf is wrong with him fr
Wow this guy is so unbelievable.
I can't even feel bad for you, you letting all this happen and didn't put your foot down it's really on you bro be a man and don't fold I get how you wish it would get better and it couldn't be as it seems. You a push over and she saw that and took advantage of you for that be better your a good man but to foolish I wish you the best at the end doe.
So Op is a doormat and it pisses me off so much
Ladies and gentlemen. I present to you the King of Simps
Dude, what the fck am I listening to? I kinda don't even believe this to be real
I got 36 seconds in. OP is either blind or just loves red flags.
Look, I am bad with women but this woman had so many fucking red flags
Another op I just can’t feel bad for
dude op was a door mat how do you let consistent cheating and verbal/physical abuse go and try to continue, even if you were blind you would see that this person wont change and isnt worth the op time it sucks people can fail to see whats right in front of them.
I really can’t feel bad for this dude
Crying for 2 hours? my god, how does he have friends??
This has to be fake who could be thie spineless
Wow poor soul!!! Bless his little heart. He isn't made for this!
Goodness have some self respect.
All hail King Doormat
a perpetual self foot shooter.....
I dated a sociopath and had all this happen to me as well. I understand completely why he couldn't move on, as narcissists break your self worth over time and manipulate your mind into believing that you can't live without them. The gaslightning is so bad, as they make you question your sanity. They don't hide their narcissistic behaviour and it happens so often that that pain becomes your new "normal". It's so sad to see people go through this, the healing process is the worst, I hope OP is well. I wish I could find the post to speak to them.
Disrespected, threatened with a knife,
Lies, cheating, yet OP still want that life.
Just... wow