I just want to say THANK YOU to SoulPancake for such an amazing experience, and for giving me the confidence to get out there and seriously date. Sami and I are still together and so very happy. Also-Tiffany (producer for SP) is incredible and one of the most genuine humans I’ve had the opportunity to meet! Thank you for everything, Tiff. Don’t worry-I’ll still email you cute pics ;)
Aaron, you seem like such a down-to-earth, awesome person. Really confident but in a warm and genuine way. Also really glad everything worked out for you; keep rocking that beard!
Well, a relationship won't survive just by looks. So.... beard or no beard, I don't think they're gonna end up together. Especially when one person [fake cough] Kian [fake cough] is no longer interested in the relationship.
he kept emphasizing the fact that they BOTH didn't feel that much of a connection, that they BOTH didn't text again, that he wasn't late, that Aaron was just early, that the date was average.. well, nobody forces him to date someone if he doesn't want to but I feel like he's trying to conceal the details so that he doesn't look like the douche here.
b we don’t know him. He seems like a great guy. This just wasn’t for him, and that’s ok. Aaron met a great guy! That’s awesome. Kian will meet his, and that’s fantastic too. There might have been a misunderstanding of sorts. We shouldn’t judge
Thanks for saying this. We honestly don't know either of them. People feel like they need to choose a villain because it didn't work out. But maybe they just weren't a match. There doesn't have to be a villain.
They were both at different stages of their life. Aaron is ready to settle down and kian is still young and was probably checking his Grindr at the club.
@Ryan Stewart uhm Aaron did, Aaron said there was a text, and there's no context that suggests he should be disbelieved. And "You all sound so scary"!? really? drama queen much?
OMG I love Aaron!!! He's such a cutie and seems like a genuine sweet heart. I have no doubt he will have a happily ever after with some great guy! He definitely deserves it!😍💖💖💖
I’m *SOOOO* happy for Aaron 😭😭😭 keep prospering, king! I hope he and his new bf have a long healthy relationship! it’s clear that the other guy was just looking for a quick hookup 🙄
Kian, FYI, you text. That’s what you do in 2019. Even if to say you’re not interested in a second date. That simple. Is it fun? No? But you know what is even less fun? Being ghosted. Did it just this week. I put it off for hours cause it feels crappy to have to do. But then I remembered being ghosted earlier this year and how absolutely shitty that felt and I put my big boy pants on and was direct. He let me know he appreciated the directness and thanked me for telling him.
i swear i fell off my chair when i saw youtube reccomended this. i was really expecting a follow up on these two and soul pancake actually did it omg. Its a bummer they didnt work out as we thought they would. Happy aaron found someone. THAT BEARD HENNY. WERK💯
@@Seanonyoutube he could've just said, "thanks for letting me know. I had a good time. Have a goodnight." or something along those lines lol I wonder if Kian has some internal issues he needs to tackle.
Sean ...I said something along those lines. I’d imagine that most people would appreciate some type of response (even if it’s not the kind of response you want) as opposed to being ghosted but clearly everyone is different 🤷🏾♀️
I had a bad feeling about it, when I watched how Kian saw Aaron in the first episode, his eyes showed lust, but I thought it was just my imagination... now I can see that I was right.
Yay Aaron! Looks like you're settling into Denver nicely! I live in L.A., but grew up in Denver. The Mile High is a fantastic city! Wishing you all the best!
It’s sad that when they decided to walk to the club I had anxiety every time a car would be close because of all the stories affecting gay men. They both seem like very nice human beings ❤️ especially Aaron, he seems like such a sweetheart!!!
I knew this was going to happen, I could tell based on facial expressions and body language that Kian wasn't really sincere when he said he would still date Aaron, but I'm glad he found someone who loves him.
Aaron looks so handsome with that beard and new style... How the little things can change the whole perception of you. I'm so glad he found a co-author ❤️
Kian was not so into him since the first time! He was able to fake it! But now we can see that he was not, Aaron was so honest about things and seemed real about it
Darn I was hoping they continued dating. Oh well. Glad they had some fun and got something positive out of the overall experience. Well, I started typing this before the end. Yay! Also loving the facial hair.
I remember that after watching their first video everybody seemed positive, happy and rooting for them and...then this happened. Well, no hurt feelings (I guess) and both will be moving forward and wish them the best
Wonderful video. I love how the guys felt .....and also their assumptions on how the other must have felt even though the reasons didn't match. Makes me realize how much I assume and could be wrong as well. Thanks for sharing.
I'm so happy Aaron found someone to co-author 😀. It's ok to not be ready to commit in a relationship and it's ok to have been in a date. It's probably an experience which will help Kian to grow. There are both lovely guys not at the same pathway in life.
Kian definitely sounded quite emotionally detached and a bit presumptuous, but maybe it was out of insecurities. I’m happy that Aaron didn’t end up with him because I think he would have got hurt by the relationship eventually.
So lesson here is don't wait too long before a date and just because you look good together especially on social media it doesn't mean that you are meant for each other.
Such different perspectives about the same experience.
That's why there's always 2 sides to every story.
Aaron was giving details compared to Kian giving explanations.
I felt and saw that Kian was not genuinely interested since the first video.
@@itsgoingtobeok-justbreathe4808 I think you mean " bold" faced liar. Atleast I think that's right. Lol bald faced make me laugh though
Lolololol bald faced liar is maybe the meanest typo ever.
he looks so good with a beard
Orange Julius so good.
I would totally date him but I live in London, England.
He looks better without it.
I usually love guys with beard but him...I like it more if he dont hide his... bones, face structure...yknow
Agreeeed!!! Lumbersexual vibes
I just want to say THANK YOU to SoulPancake for such an amazing experience, and for giving me the confidence to get out there and seriously date. Sami and I are still together and so very happy.
Also-Tiffany (producer for SP) is incredible and one of the most genuine humans I’ve had the opportunity to meet! Thank you for everything, Tiff. Don’t worry-I’ll still email you cute pics ;)
So glad you found a great guy! You seem like such a wonderful person. Best of luck!
Aaron, you seem like such a down-to-earth, awesome person. Really confident but in a warm and genuine way. Also really glad everything worked out for you; keep rocking that beard!
Both of you have such beautiful eyes ❤ and am really happy to hear the update about you and Sami
I live in Denver as well!! I’m so glad you striving out here and have found someone ♥️
Aaron you are the best!
Aaron went from cute adorable young man to DADDY.
Beards make such a difference 👀
Very masculine, gives sense of security.
BioSky exaaaaactly
I’m so glad Aaron met someone. He’s such a sweetheart.
Yes oml 😍
And he said the guy might be his "co-author" aah
My intuition tells me Aaron’s account of the date is the accurate version.
Mark Taylor they could both be the accurate version
@@quietestkitten Yeah; the communication might not have been there and they both might have felt differently about it
its not, anyone who lies about getting there early, then whines about their date also not being earlier is clearly not ready to be an adult.
@@pantsuck11 I don't think he lied about getting there early.... I think Kian lied about not being late
@@quietestkitten
No they can’t. You can’t have it both ways. Stop trying to give excuses to liars or fake people.
I'm always glad when the person that gets ghosted ends up with someone that's a much better match. Kian seems a bit flaky, no offence.
He looks sooo good with a beard on! If it were me i'd locked him down like asap!
Yassss!👍👍
Well, a relationship won't survive just by looks. So.... beard or no beard, I don't think they're gonna end up together. Especially when one person [fake cough] Kian [fake cough] is no longer interested in the relationship.
Yes love the beard!
"he was too late"
...
"he was too early"
Me : "they have no future together"
Reminds me of that quote, “I’m not late, everyone else is just early”
There are two types of people...
except aaron lied about being earlier and Kian didn't lie about being late.
pantsuck11 there was literally a video of him waiting alone, looking at his watch
Am I the only one not buying Kian's side of the story? Something just feels... Non-genuine.
he kept emphasizing the fact that they BOTH didn't feel that much of a connection, that they BOTH didn't text again, that he wasn't late, that Aaron was just early, that the date was average.. well, nobody forces him to date someone if he doesn't want to but I feel like he's trying to conceal the details so that he doesn't look like the douche here.
I totally picked that up too. So disappointing. 💔
Sadly i felt the same way, it broke my heart XD
I think we all agree...Kian seems disingenuous and cagey.
Kian disappointed me compared to the first video. On the other hand, Aaron upped the ante with his beard! He looked hot.
So happy Aaron found someone more suited for him though ❤️!
I was feeling so sad for him and wanted them to bring him back and then I saw the end, my heart!! He deserves the world.
Thank god soulpancake added that bit in the video!!
Please don't drag either of these dudes, remember how much you loved them in their first episode?
b we don’t know him. He seems like a great guy. This just wasn’t for him, and that’s ok. Aaron met a great guy! That’s awesome. Kian will meet his, and that’s fantastic too.
There might have been a misunderstanding of sorts. We shouldn’t judge
Thanks for saying this. We honestly don't know either of them. People feel like they need to choose a villain because it didn't work out. But maybe they just weren't a match. There doesn't have to be a villain.
we didnt know Kian was such a liar...
Kian is a jerk.
Kian is less ready to settle down like Aaron. They're at different stages in life.
They were both at different stages of their life. Aaron is ready to settle down and kian is still young and was probably checking his Grindr at the club.
mike c lol 😝 sounds familiar like.
They are about 1 day to a year apart depending on birth. 25 for Aaron and 24 for Kian. Its not a young thing, its a hoe thang.
@@andrewvalentine8759 it's also not a hoe thing, it's just that two people want different things - both of which are absolutely valid
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@@andrewvalentine8759 i don't know what your smoking lol but they are clearly at different stages in life lol
The guy with glasses just wanted a hookup and that’s the tea ☕️
idecided28 periodt
Facts
From the first interaction it was. clear Aaron was indeed ready to commit to a relationship. Kian still got some queening days ahead.
Queening days ahead!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Queening days!!!! I love it!!!!
Queening days that may just turn out "permanent"! 🤭
Oh, my disappointed heart 😭 They are both so sweet, I hope they find what they are looking for 👏
b 😂😂😂
Am I the only one who got his heartbroken after watching this video? :(
I watched Call Me By Your Name last weekend.
Glad that Aaron found someone more suited to where he's at in life. Kian was a butt to not return the text, I hate that.
@Ryan Stewart uhm Aaron did, Aaron said there was a text, and there's no context that suggests he should be disbelieved. And "You all sound so scary"!? really? drama queen much?
@Ryan Stewart except literally no one declared any witch hunt on the other. You're the damn mess, drama queen. "You people"!? 💀💀💀
Aaron is such a sweet heart! The kindness in his voice is everything. 😘😘
My man Aaron didn't miss out on anything, so happy for him!
OMG I love Aaron!!! He's such a cutie and seems like a genuine sweet heart. I have no doubt he will have a happily ever after with some great guy! He definitely deserves it!😍💖💖💖
Halloween is over and yet we're still being ghosted.
😭😂
Facts (I died)
Last week 👌 still hurtin!
All these ghosts... ALL these ghosts! And I still can’t find a boo 😂
I dated guys like Kian so the rage really built up for me here lol
Ditto.
Assholes?
Relatable
im confused though what do you mean?
De St Why say that there’s nothing wrong with “engaging other peoples’ affections”? It is wrong to lead someone on.
I’m *SOOOO* happy for Aaron 😭😭😭 keep prospering, king! I hope he and his new bf have a long healthy relationship!
it’s clear that the other guy was just looking for a quick hookup 🙄
I like Aaron.. so handsome and seems so nice definitely deserves the world 😭❤️
Self-consciusness, Insecurities and anxiety, the most common excuse for ghosting and getting cold feet these days...
Its 2019, you RESPOND to a 'I just got home' text. Fin.
He’s clueless. Ugh. Gross.
aric ting
Kian, FYI, you text. That’s what you do in 2019. Even if to say you’re not interested in a second date. That simple. Is it fun? No? But you know what is even less fun? Being ghosted.
Did it just this week. I put it off for hours cause it feels crappy to have to do. But then I remembered being ghosted earlier this year and how absolutely shitty that felt and I put my big boy pants on and was direct. He let me know he appreciated the directness and thanked me for telling him.
Aaron and his boyfriend are so cute together
Ugh Aaron seems so kind and genuine. I live in Denver too! I'd love to meet him and see what his energy is irl. I bet it's amazing 💗
this video made me so sad but then i watched the end and i got soooo happy omg that was adorable i’m so happy for aaron
i swear i fell off my chair when i saw youtube reccomended this. i was really expecting a follow up on these two and soul pancake actually did it omg. Its a bummer they didnt work out as we thought they would. Happy aaron found someone. THAT BEARD HENNY. WERK💯
Nice to have an update on the second dates. Super bummed about the outcome, but I wish them both good luck and success. I’m so glad Aaron met someone!
“I sent him a text saying I made it home...didn’t hear from him after that”
Ghosting 👻
He’s not worth it.
This is why sequel's aren't always a good idea. Kian's such a letdown. (I hate late, not even a kiss? The text debacle) But u go aaron!
Aww that was so cute 😊 happy endings don’t always mean the two that dated end up with each other
he is SO hot with that beard
Ohh my god!!!! Kian is unsufferable! He keeps making excuses for his lack of desire for commitment
First I was a bit disapointed but I have the biggest smile seeing Aaron happy!!! He is such a sweetheart!!
Please bring this series back
Omg the ending him maybe finding is coauthor is the CUTEST 😭❤️❤️❤️
Aaron seems like a keeper. I wouldve locked him down. Lol
I'm so glad Aaron found someone, he seems like a great guy!
Favorite couple on these series. I really enjoyed their responses and the beauty of their personalities.
it’s sad that them dancing ruined it all
?
I feel like that was just an excuse
If not the dancing, it would've been something else. It wasn't meant to be and some good came out of it. Aaron met someone else!
Malikah Brown-Henry from what they said it went well until then though. can’t really write a person off after just one day
I feel like that was his way of writing off that he felt weird about it being a date and not just a hook-up.
Aaron with a beard tho!
Aaron’s Midwest is showing! Lol, he’s a ride or die, someone needs to lock that down ASAP!
So did stripes never get the "i got home safe" text from flannel?
aliciaseptember he did but it’s 2019 so he didn’t know how to respond...lol
Sean ohhh of course. 2019 makes life difficult 😂🤦🏽♀️
@@Seanonyoutube he could've just said, "thanks for letting me know. I had a good time. Have a goodnight." or something along those lines lol I wonder if Kian has some internal issues he needs to tackle.
AJ H. I’d rather be ghosted than get back a text with three periods, I mean that’s just cruel
Sean ...I said something along those lines. I’d imagine that most people would appreciate some type of response (even if it’s not the kind of response you want) as opposed to being ghosted but clearly everyone is different 🤷🏾♀️
I had a bad feeling about it, when I watched how Kian saw Aaron in the first episode, his eyes showed lust, but I thought it was just my imagination... now I can see that I was right.
Yay Aaron! Looks like you're settling into Denver nicely! I live in L.A., but grew up in Denver. The Mile High is a fantastic city! Wishing you all the best!
Opportunity is not a lengthy visitor, and calls less frequently as one gets older.
while they r so similar when they were talking, but it's action that really matters.
Oh Aaron, if you were in to girls I would have totally kissed you goodbye! What a sweetheart you are
For what it's worth, it's better to end it now than to end it later.
If you truly are into someone that awkwardness of not knowing how to dance is so so secondary
I was so bummed out after seeing this and then the ending made me tear up. I’m so happy Aaron found his “co-author” 😍❤️
The tea: SoulPancake and all of us loving Aaron the most. Them giving Aaron a good follow up to the follow up.
It’s sad that when they decided to walk to the club I had anxiety every time a car would be close because of all the stories affecting gay men. They both seem like very nice human beings ❤️ especially Aaron, he seems like such a sweetheart!!!
I knew this was going to happen, I could tell based on facial expressions and body language that Kian wasn't really sincere when he said he would still date Aaron, but I'm glad he found someone who loves him.
I was so looking forward to see what happened with these two. I really wanted them to get together.
Kian seems shady
He is a queen after all.
I am bi. And i would sooo date with Aaron, he’s very chill open-minded guy to be with.
Aaron looks so handsome with that beard and new style... How the little things can change the whole perception of you. I'm so glad he found a co-author ❤️
Aaron is a really sweet guy and he deserved better. I´m glad he found someone!
Who else scrolled directly on the comments to check if they are still together to not be heartbroken?
Aaron just seems like such a sweet guy awww
Aaron is so cute! I'm glad he met someone genuine in CO!
Aaron looks so good with a beard what the heck such a gorgeous being
Love the follow up dates, but doesn't seem too many go very far :(
Kian was not so into him since the first time! He was able to fake it! But now we can see that he was not, Aaron was so honest about things and seemed real about it
Darn I was hoping they continued dating. Oh well. Glad they had some fun and got something positive out of the overall experience. Well, I started typing this before the end. Yay! Also loving the facial hair.
Aww well that’s a bummer they didn’t work out BUT I’m so happy Aaron found someone in Denver!!
It sucks to be ghosted. Some people should grow some balls and just talk about their feeling.
It's also important to give another chance.
I remember that after watching their first video everybody seemed positive, happy and rooting for them and...then this happened. Well, no hurt feelings (I guess) and both will be moving forward and wish them the best
Next time I am late to a date I'm blaming the guy that he came too early. Haha.
Kian even stated he's new to this so maybe that's why. Could be a great couple tbh
I'll take Aaron!!! 😍 oh wait he found someone 😭
Wonderful video. I love how the guys felt .....and also their assumptions on how the other must have felt even though the reasons didn't match. Makes me realize how much I assume and could be wrong as well. Thanks for sharing.
The Beard on Aaron fits so well! They re a both lovely.
Aarons looks so good with the beard! 😍 I am glad that he found the perfect guy for him. 💗
I'm so happy Aaron found someone to co-author 😀. It's ok to not be ready to commit in a relationship and it's ok to have been in a date. It's probably an experience which will help Kian to grow. There are both lovely guys not at the same pathway in life.
He looks so much better with facial hair.
Awh!! So happy for Aaron. He seems so sweet and genuine 😩❤️
Hey Tiffany, can you please do the MOST REQUESTED Aaron and Drew's Follow-up Date video ASAP??
WE ALL HAVE BEEN WAITING A LONG.
Awe I had hope for them! But I’m happy Aaron found someone who makes him happy!💕
Kian definitely sounded quite emotionally detached and a bit presumptuous, but maybe it was out of insecurities. I’m happy that Aaron didn’t end up with him because I think he would have got hurt by the relationship eventually.
I think Kian and Aaron are on a different stage of life,
Finally an update from this two!!! Not what I'm expecting though. Bummer
Aaron is a gem! I'm so glad he found someone :')
Loved that little follow-up of Aaron at the end
That's disappointing that it didn't work out for them. I was really rooting for them. I'm glad Aaron found someone though
I am so happy for Aaron! Wishing both the best. PS the beard is sexy as hell 😉
Good for Aaron! I may not know the guy he seems so genuine. Happy for you man!
So lesson here is don't wait too long before a date and just because you look good together especially on social media it doesn't mean that you are meant for each other.
Their answers are so different haha
Realistic and great story. Ending was Awesome.
21 years with my partner. Thank GOD I don't have to date nowadays.
AMEN
That co-author quote is so sweet.
Damn it, I thought it was a match made in heaven 😞
Aaron looks great with a beard
And looks so happy with his new bf❤️❤️❤️ yay!
This is so depressing. After an amazing first day on Tell My Story where sparks flew and now this. Ugh, there’s no hope. 😩