truerthanyouknow -- Oh woooooow! That sentence brought tears to my eyes! First, over the years spent not knowing (even while married), and then, out of sheer joy at his discovery. I too want these guys to end up in a lifetime relationship! My very best wishes to them! 💞
00:03:15 "So that's what it's like to hold the hand of someone you're really attracted to" he can't say otherwise.. we still live in a heteronormative world.. but at the end he made it clear ENOUGH. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈✌🏻
@@ibrahxy501 I'm confused really. I'm never acting like this. since my puberty I'm know who I am and I NEVER foolish anyone. Thanks to my parents and Madonna.
He played her. And everyone here in the comments like Aw thats so sweet. Like no he’s a liar. He played someone for almost a decade and than comes on national tv saying he never liked her. A true POS.
Max’s story really touched me, after the pain of divorce and a loving relationship ending he was open minded about finding love again. I really hope this worked out for them!
Wow, i love when people learn about themselves. I also respect that he can acknowledge his ex wife was great but not for him and now he’s ready to live this part of himself completely
The guy from James' first date is a HMQ! a high maintenance queen, who is constant hard work, needs to be the centre of attention...."Oh yeah I get that!" but yet doesn't do anything about it to change.
"Ah, That's what it's like to hold the hand of a person that you're really attracted to!?"---I wonder how many have really never held the hand of who they were really attracted to; yet expected to...
That is profoundly sad and bleak. Just because they're pushed into "norms" that go against who they really are. I had this done to me but I got out really fast.
I would wonder if he was attracted to being pursued rather than being the pursuer. I wouldnt think you suddenly say Im gay because another guy asked you out.
No but sometimes until that moment , one doesn’t realise the difference hence such incidents are awakenings of things , that we consciously weren’t looking at .
Not at all... I am a girl and many women invite me... At first i thought it was just dinner or coffee..☕. But slowly i ve been realizing 🤔they wanted more...
Sexual orientation is not based on pursuer and being pursued tho. Maybe he likes being pursued but this can't be the basic of your entiiiiire sexual orientation...hes probably bi
Seems like everyone has a very different journey. I knew I was different when I was 5 and had butterflies in my stomach for boys when I was 11 and fireworks in my brain when I had my first kiss with a boy at like 18.
Random comment because I've never encountered this show until it was suggested: I kept watching because all the British accents are so interesting...mainly because they are so class bound...but since I'm a total foreigner...I can't quite place them!
I really wonder what it must be like to only realise your attraction to a gender in your 30s (guessing that's this guy's age). I'm not trying to invalidate this guy's identity at all. I realised I was a lesbian when I was 18, and people use the argument that I'm about to make, all the time in order to invalidate my identity. But hear me out. Lust is heady and intoxicating. It makes itself known. It's not tentative and lukewarm. In the ten years between the seething hormonal horniness of adolescence, to the more ripened age of 30 years old, had this guy not ever looked at another guy and thought WOW that guy is hot...? Maybe someone else who's come out late in life could explain? Did you always feel it but violently suppressed it? Or your newfound attraction completely crept up on you out of the blue?
I think that feeling was always there, you know? But the person never noticed, or ignored it, or decided to bury it until the whole thing finally managed to manifest itself at age 30. But I honestly think he's bi because even after he got divorced he continued to naturally see other girls, so..
crap, I missed the full ep here in UK, anyone know did they ... you know, ..... the channel 4 inuendos ... was it the nest of action or arrow through the heart.... did they go on 2nd date? what happened to both, anyone got IGs ?, Ch 4, get them back, together or on new dates ...... 2021
Everyone keeps saying they had amazing chemistry?!?!?! Maybe a tiny little bit, but I don’t see it. I could tell he was turned off by the whole married to a woman for 8 years thing. I could tell he was thinking like, what’s gonna stop Max from going back to a woman once he realizes he is bi and likes both.
But isn't he bi? I mean he says he fell in love with that girl, married her and was happy, after he got divorced he kept seeing girls. For me that's being bisexual lol
“Ahhhh. That’s what it’s like to hold the hand of someone you’re really attracted to”. Yessir
I felt that.
But...he was married for 8 years? Was he not... 🤭
such a natural way to describe his feelings 😊
truerthanyouknow -- Oh woooooow! That sentence brought tears to my eyes! First, over the years spent not knowing (even while married), and then, out of sheer joy at his discovery. I too want these guys to end up in a lifetime relationship! My very best wishes to them! 💞
@@EBrown-cr1gr married for five.
Max doesnt look nearly old enough to have been in an 8 year relationship, married and divored
I was thinking the same , maybe he did it in his 20s.
He said they met in university so clearly young at the beginning of it
@@georgeweatherford1027 but he looks 23 is what I mean, not even 28
He defenitely started very young...as a school boy... Just kidding
Straight people start much earlier
I don't know why, but I want this relationship to end up in marriage
I know why Mateo... It's because you have a kind heart.Look after it as it's worth it's weight in gold my friend!🌈🙏🦄
@@carolyoung8677 Oh my goodness thank you so much. Your words are so touching. May you be blessed with favour your whole life.
It didn't work, James just wanted publicity for his waffle van XD
@@deannebrazowy9531 did you not just break my heart
@@deannebrazowy9531 not you breaking my already broken heart
I like how natural Max reacted to the idea of being with another man and still being appreciative of his past marriage.
00:03:15 "So that's what it's like to hold the hand of someone you're really attracted to" he can't say otherwise.. we still live in a heteronormative world.. but at the end he made it clear ENOUGH. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈✌🏻
you called THIS 'appreciative'. oh dear. of course he is reacted this way, he dreamed of this all these years in his past marriage😂
@@ibrahxy501 poor girl. wasting so much time for this
@@sufyanlowel4631 well that makes two of us dear.
@@ibrahxy501 I'm confused really. I'm never acting like this. since my puberty I'm know who I am and I NEVER foolish anyone. Thanks to my parents and Madonna.
the ex wife listening to the “so that’s what it feels like to hold the hand of someone you’re attracted to” 👁️👄👁️
8 years wasted 🤡
He played her. And everyone here in the comments like Aw thats so sweet. Like no he’s a liar. He played someone for almost a decade and than comes on national tv saying he never liked her. A true POS.
and how do you know he played her ?@@RuPaulCharley
@@RuPaulCharley gurl please....
@@imadtorch8770literally bc of the story he told himself 😅
Max’s story really touched me, after the pain of divorce and a loving relationship ending he was open minded about finding love again. I really hope this worked out for them!
Yet he held his wife's hand for 8 years and didn't feel any attraction🙄
@@vistaprime bisexual people exist pal x
@@steveashworth4615 they do exist, but he said it himself so the comment is not wrong.
pain of divorce?! nah, he just finally stop pretending. I bet he was very very glad.
@@steveashworth4615 obviously u didn't know what logic is
Max’s story is lovely. Unfortunate about the relationship ending, but it sounds like he found his way. I wish him luck in his dating journey!
A 21st century "Persuasion" story.
@@dadt8009 how do you mean?
@@dadt8009 how do you mean?
@@dadt8009 how do you mean?
Max story literally the worst. 8 years of lie.
Wow, i love when people learn about themselves. I also respect that he can acknowledge his ex wife was great but not for him and now he’s ready to live this part of himself completely
Been there, done that, and can definitely relate to the "so that what it feels like to touch someone you're really attracted to!" The awakening!!
They seem compatible and similar sense of humor.
that waiter looks like armie hammer to me
Such a handsome fellow. The second date guy. Just gorgeous.
Max and his ex wife ending happily was very sweet and these two are quite cute with their calamari
No one ends a marriage happily.
@@dammee surprisingly it did 😉
@@maxmarullidebarletta3845 ow hey! Any updates on this?
i really hope they went on more dates and explored that chemistry they clearly have. if not romantic, they feel like they'd be friends
THESE GUYS ARE ADORABLE TOGETHER
See? That's why I always say, "Don't spend a lot of money on the wedding. Save it for the trip after the divorce."
In other words start saving for the divorce straight after the honeymoon.
I've had great relationships like this where they end but we stay friends cause the chemistry is so good and we become good pals.
There is definite chemistry going on here...hope they peruse a deeper relationship. They are so cute together.
That’s what I’d call a hot date. Both really attractive and great chemistry. 🥰🎉
Max's story is cuuuuuute. we all stan an awakening
They’re both so cute!
Okay, I'm rooting for these two. Please someone tell me they ended up together.
I love both of their personalities so much
I wish for everyone to find love and happiness and acceptance.
HOW DOES IT ENDDDDD THOOOO :( :( :( Damn this channel for being such a tease. I'm in Canada, no access to the full episodes :(
Vpn
Sameeee
I’m in the States ... can’t even get it except snippets here on TH-cam. 😔
Get a good VPN - even pay a little for it to ensure safety. I use Winscribe , which is free for the first 10GB a month.
@@robyoungquist5803 Get a good VPN - even pay a little for it to ensure safety. I use Winscribe , which is free for the first 10GB a month.
It is great to enjoy the company of another person.
Idc if the second date didn't work out, in my head they lived happily ever after
Awww they sure are cute together!!
Imagine having Max’s journey ❤
STUNNINGLY HANDSOME! WOW! MALE MODELS!
Male models the blonde guy will be bald in about 2 years
@@tomcampbell5186 He’ll still have that sweet face and adorable smile, so he’s good, hair or no hair.
✌🏻🙂✌🏻
@@oceanlover3530 whats his ig
@@sriya4579 🤷🏻♂️
I wish I could go on a date this successful lollll
I would love to see this show come to the states. But of course if it did they would make it more salacious and less wholesome thus ruining it.
They make a great couple I have a feeling these 2 men are going to be more than just friends!
Yes, either have a relationship or become very close friends.
Need to be a part two to this date.
Girl: ‘’cries in Greek’’
The narrator in the beginning made it sound like a animal planet documentary 😂
I always feel like people on dates are acting like they're in a reality show, so watching people on a date on a reality show is overkill for me. 😂
That was GREAT. It was also unexpected.
The server, Grant. He’s sooo gorgeous
This is quite insightful!
They seem like a better match😉😊😎
Max is super cute hope fondling love goes well
That one in the white shirt is beautiful
Both are
The guy from James' first date is a HMQ! a high maintenance queen, who is constant hard work, needs to be the centre of attention...."Oh yeah I get that!" but yet doesn't do anything about it to change.
So lovely. Wishing all involved all the best. 💗
what season and episode was this
They are so cute together 🥰
This date is too cute it hurts
They are sooo cute together ❤️
Which episode is this?
They could make a good couple
Aww his date the ex married man is Gawjuss.
I don't get this. The blonde is way better looking.
@@butterflymoon6368 both are attractive but i leaned toward the divorced guy more. idk sumn about him hit different
their date was so cute!
"Ah, That's what it's like to hold the hand of a person that you're really attracted to!?"---I wonder how many have really never held the hand of who they were really attracted to; yet expected to...
That is profoundly sad and bleak. Just because they're pushed into "norms" that go against who they really are. I had this done to me but I got out really fast.
If I knew what I was looking for I would already have it
Wait what 💀😭 3:15 the shade
I mean if that's how he figured out his sexuality... wouldnt wanna date him because it sounds like nothing can top that feeling 😭
I would wonder if he was attracted to being pursued rather than being the pursuer. I wouldnt think you suddenly say Im gay because another guy asked you out.
No but sometimes until that moment , one doesn’t realise the difference hence such incidents are awakenings of things , that we consciously weren’t looking at .
It happened to a woman i know... She described it as electricity... ⚡... Love is love❤️❤️
Maybe he’s bisexual lol
Not at all... I am a girl and many women invite me... At first i thought it was just dinner or coffee..☕. But slowly i ve been realizing 🤔they wanted more...
Sexual orientation is not based on pursuer and being pursued tho. Maybe he likes being pursued but this can't be the basic of your entiiiiire sexual orientation...hes probably bi
these two are a good match.
They are very handsome and I wish them all the best!!
Sweet date, they both share a sense of humour.
Finally two that have some potential
Want to know what happened to the London Bridge hand holding bloke.
3:20 RIP his ex-wife
Gayometer's glass cover cracks and shatters
So happy to watch this..Hope to find the right one for me as well, in time.🙏💖
I dont know what this show is, but do they end up together?? Im invested now!!
Seems like everyone has a very different journey. I knew I was different when I was 5 and had butterflies in my stomach for boys when I was 11 and fireworks in my brain when I had my first kiss with a boy at like 18.
I hope your journey has been a good one and it continues to bring many welcome surprises.
Yes, somebody can lie to ourselves for years
Random comment because I've never encountered this show until it was suggested: I kept watching because all the British accents are so interesting...mainly because they are so class bound...but since I'm a total foreigner...I can't quite place them!
Where is the full vid?
I think they would be good together.
They shouldn't have waiters that hot in a restaurant solely for First Dates
Interesting video
3:40 he was checking the waiter which I have crush on
Great chemistry
I really wonder what it must be like to only realise your attraction to a gender in your 30s (guessing that's this guy's age). I'm not trying to invalidate this guy's identity at all. I realised I was a lesbian when I was 18, and people use the argument that I'm about to make, all the time in order to invalidate my identity. But hear me out. Lust is heady and intoxicating. It makes itself known. It's not tentative and lukewarm. In the ten years between the seething hormonal horniness of adolescence, to the more ripened age of 30 years old, had this guy not ever looked at another guy and thought WOW that guy is hot...? Maybe someone else who's come out late in life could explain? Did you always feel it but violently suppressed it? Or your newfound attraction completely crept up on you out of the blue?
I think he may be bisexual (I hope I do not offended anyone but it seems like that)
I gathered that, my question was more geared towards the ‘how’ rather than the ‘what’ of his sexual awakening
Demisexuality
I think that feeling was always there, you know? But the person never noticed, or ignored it, or decided to bury it until the whole thing finally managed to manifest itself at age 30. But I honestly think he's bi because even after he got divorced he continued to naturally see other girls, so..
He is just a liar. Man ALWAYS know what turns him on. Man see it, man want it, that's how male body works.
Damn lighting really does shift the way people look..............
no i mean really. he looks so good in the restaurant...
Anybody know Max’s social media
Do we know what happened? Is there any follow up dates? It's cruel to leave us hanging
I love them, but I cannot get over their meal... it’s just a cornucopia filled with calamari??!!
I didn’t even see marinara
crap, I missed the full ep here in UK, anyone know did they ... you know, ..... the channel 4 inuendos ... was it the nest of action or arrow through the heart.... did they go on 2nd date? what happened to both, anyone got IGs ?, Ch 4, get them back, together or on new dates ...... 2021
Awh. I remember human interraction...
Is this a tv show?????
damn their chemistry is off the charts
Gorgeous boys. ❤️
Calamari and Pizza? “I do!”
Update?
I spent this whole video going Awwww 😍
ok this was beautiful
Guy on the thumbnail looks a bit like sam claflin
I love Max!!! Clone him!!
Never dated anyone... Same here!!!
he sounds really messed up to me, RUN
Which one, the new one?
Isnt he that actor from me before you?????!!
Awww those 2 will make a beautiful couple
Everyone keeps saying they had amazing chemistry?!?!?! Maybe a tiny little bit, but I don’t see it. I could tell he was turned off by the whole married to a woman for 8 years thing. I could tell he was thinking like, what’s gonna stop Max from going back to a woman once he realizes he is bi and likes both.
But isn't he bi? I mean he says he fell in love with that girl, married her and was happy, after he got divorced he kept seeing girls. For me that's being bisexual lol
The white-shirt guy is hot.
Adorable.
❤️
Are they now in their second year together?
Pure Cuteness !!
Didn't know British men could be so good-looking?!