"Should I Seek Revenge?" - Nouman Ali Khan

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  • In this short Dream BIG 10 day Arabic Intensive class clip, Ustadh Nouman sheds light on the boundless mercy and forgiveness of Allah, and emphasizes that the power to forgive ultimately rests with Allah alone, and it is not within our jurisdiction to determine who deserves forgiveness.
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  • @F.N_NOORZAI_
    @F.N_NOORZAI_ ปีที่แล้ว +329

    I just want to be healed by Allah to the point of forgetting what others have done to me 😢😭

    • @dewis7659
      @dewis7659 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Aamiiiin..

    • @shimmerjaysondelalu
      @shimmerjaysondelalu ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Oppression is something instance i cant advice you concerning it, but illah make it easy for us 😢 Subanallah

    • @kainatmikael9761
      @kainatmikael9761 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same as me may Allah help us

    • @kausamsalam8543
      @kausamsalam8543 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ameen🤲🏿

    • @cosynests4387
      @cosynests4387 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      One can forgive but forgetting takes all lifetime 😢 especially injuries given by your own blood relations .

  • @awesomekindness5711
    @awesomekindness5711 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I am going through a lot of trials right now, please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters and for Allah to accept my duas

    • @NAURYEONN
      @NAURYEONN ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same may Allah help us please also pray for me

    • @awesomekindness5711
      @awesomekindness5711 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@NAURYEONN Ameen and I will do
      In Shaa Allah

    • @NAURYEONN
      @NAURYEONN ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@awesomekindness5711 thnks

    • @NAURYEONN
      @NAURYEONN ปีที่แล้ว

      @@awesomekindness5711 btw what're are you going from

    • @awesomekindness5711
      @awesomekindness5711 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NAURYEONN May Allah gives us all ease

  • @samra3654
    @samra3654 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I want to be healed so that I can forgive people who have wronged me..I tried to forgive them but can't because I am still in excruciating pain..

  • @aribakhan9214
    @aribakhan9214 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    This lecture has saved me in so many ways both in this duniya and akhirah 😭 thank you ustaad

  • @MM-eq4ez
    @MM-eq4ez 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Your dignity and honor can't be taken by the words of others. If Allah favoured you with Honor , no one can take this blessing from you.

  • @saimaahmed4612
    @saimaahmed4612 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is the best lecture I heard in my life. May Allah forgive us all. Because we don't want to forgive others on their mistakes but rather want to see them suffer😩

  • @user-bg9vd2es7m
    @user-bg9vd2es7m ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I will remember this hadid . Allah for give me and others . Allah mercy me ameen .

  • @ayya5990
    @ayya5990 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Iman is Wisdom, indeed ✨️🫶

  • @loveofAllah440
    @loveofAllah440 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    SUBHANA ALLAH
    Ya Allah forgive us and give us more wisdom to learn about Islam Ameeen

  • @kausamsalam8543
    @kausamsalam8543 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you so much. What an important message you’ve shared about our Faith, MashaAllah.
    “You cannot allow that pain to turn you into a pharaoh.”

  • @salmaNiyas05
    @salmaNiyas05 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Before commiting a crime to anyone, he has commited crime to Allah, absolutely Allah is the one to decide..so true...this will in shaa Allah change me n heal me..n all...jazak Allahu khairan ustad ...may Allmighty bless you n your team alwayz..Ameen.

  • @towhidaislam9239
    @towhidaislam9239 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    May Allah subhanu wa tayala bless you and your family with endless happiness and success in duniyah and akhirah.
    Ameen.

  • @ISLAMINREAL04
    @ISLAMINREAL04 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Asalam U r my teacher may Allah bless all of u❤❤love from Afghanistan 🇦🇫

  • @peacepeace4256
    @peacepeace4256 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    100% right SubhanAllah. May Allah forgive all those who wronged me.

  • @MuhammadSajid-yq9ct
    @MuhammadSajid-yq9ct ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great messages in each and every videos posted.. جزاک اللہ خیرا

  • @shymaj9601
    @shymaj9601 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    SubhanAllah! Mind blown

  • @WintermelonSnow
    @WintermelonSnow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed this!!!❤❤❤ May Allah keep you steadfast Ustaz!

  • @tarekahmad2978
    @tarekahmad2978 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is a delicate line here. Of course there should be justice. I don't see it as revenge, its just justice and letting go and getting rid of the trash. I also think that the messaging is a slippery slope, because when someone wrongs someone else, that is A LOT DIFFERENT than wronging oneself. Especially in matters of the heart. Lots of narcissistic people who you hope are brought to justice but don't let it consume you or your thoughts. Let go, get these toxic people out of your life and let God deal with them.

  • @Sal-imm
    @Sal-imm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah so true. Illness first in ourselves and in Ummat i Muslima collectively.

  • @destiny_reached
    @destiny_reached ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shukar Alhamdulillah...
    this video appeared at the right time... JazakAllah khair💐

  • @AhmedAliRecitation
    @AhmedAliRecitation ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mashallah May ALLAH Bless You Ustadh 🌺

  • @kamranAG
    @kamranAG ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subhan-Allah beautifully explained. ❤️☝🏽🤲🏽

  • @AA-df2iz
    @AA-df2iz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah bless you🤲🏻

  • @kathybryant5643
    @kathybryant5643 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This gentleman has the most beautiful lessons and messages. His knowledge of Islam is amazing, and his understanding of the needs of the Moslem struggling with his faith is astounding. His delivery is so loving, understanding, and comprehensible. Allah, keep this gentleman safe to continue his messages...Ameen

  • @mariammohamed8239
    @mariammohamed8239 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    زادك الله علما وحكمة

  • @Geebee67
    @Geebee67 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MashAllah brother thank you for this reminder. You are one of a many few on the internet today who has taught me and so many I know, thankyou.

  • @nub2999
    @nub2999 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The absolute answer to my question …. Searched all my life for this. Thank you NAK ❤

  • @kingrapid
    @kingrapid ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way brother Nouman breaks everything down mashaAllah. Beautiful and with wisdom.

  • @samrasiddique5852
    @samrasiddique5852 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ma Sha Allah
    Ya Shiekh! Stay blessed... 💖

  • @pendosemei2847
    @pendosemei2847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JazakAllahu khairan ❤

  • @mudasirashraf1074
    @mudasirashraf1074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah 😢
    جزاکم اللّہ خیرا🌻

  • @user-wo3sr4wm5f
    @user-wo3sr4wm5f 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamdulillah.. Im so glad I got to see the lecture. Alhamdulillah

  • @mahdhimohinudeen9977
    @mahdhimohinudeen9977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhanallah! May Allah give this scholar a long life, aafiyah and use him for the hidayath of billions of people! Aameen!

  • @maryammirza7119
    @maryammirza7119 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful wholesome advice SubhanAllah. Sometimes we do get so carried away in our pain/agony that we lose balance. May Allah swt protect us, may He swt forgive us and may He swt heal our hearts/souls ameen sum ameen

  • @crescent416
    @crescent416 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is incredibly helping me to getting through my sadness,anxciety, full of anger.. Allah yerda ankum

  • @alishahudda3738
    @alishahudda3738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MashaAllah. Great Message

  • @afshanasif1728
    @afshanasif1728 ปีที่แล้ว

    jazakAllah o kheran kaseera ustaadh May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in aafiat ilm e nafey and Emaan...May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in Rizq in every sense
    Allahumma Aameen

  • @jaffarsamoon6711
    @jaffarsamoon6711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazakallahu Khair n kaseera va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakaatuho 👌🌹☑️❤

  • @amreenmostafa5440
    @amreenmostafa5440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank-you brother for explaining so well ❤❤❤MashAllah

  • @afhamulfahimin3963
    @afhamulfahimin3963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guys is amazing really...i love him

  • @saadiasattar8558
    @saadiasattar8558 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazak Allah kher Ustadh Mohtaram

  • @muharslan
    @muharslan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aoa Nauman, I love you my brother. Your talks always give me not only deep understanding of Quran, Hadidth but also help me improve morally. ❤

  • @kirankhan4667
    @kirankhan4667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much needed video.. Someone hurted me. Badly and when opened ds, this video came... ❤

  • @abdulaziz3044
    @abdulaziz3044 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing explanation.. just needed it

  • @nizamuddin667
    @nizamuddin667 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very amazing seriously... I was in desperate need of this lesson... Thank you

  • @Hundura-k3y
    @Hundura-k3y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are just too much. Masha Allah!!

  • @farahja3023
    @farahja3023 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was an amazing video, JazakAllah khair ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tehminaaftab9171
    @tehminaaftab9171 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah give you jaza for bringing muslims back on right path

  • @yashoos
    @yashoos ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah Sir Noman

  • @rukhsananaz6838
    @rukhsananaz6838 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah khair

  • @KA-bw3wf
    @KA-bw3wf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice mind shift👍. Allah help us all.

  • @Arwiedi
    @Arwiedi ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah…Jazaakumullahu khairan

  • @MukhtarAli-ld5zj
    @MukhtarAli-ld5zj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing Ustadh.

  • @waqasahmed9241
    @waqasahmed9241 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for this.

  • @bushraali5263
    @bushraali5263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakllah khair

  • @hadithoftheday3858
    @hadithoftheday3858 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Abu Bakr asked the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): Teach me a dua that I may say in my prayer. He said: `Say: O Allah, I have wronged myself greatly & no one forgives sins but you, grant me forgiveness from you & have mercy on me for you are the Oft Forgiving Most Merciful.’
    (Ahmad)

    • @rashiqabegum1149
      @rashiqabegum1149 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you share it in Arabic?

  • @saimaakber1069
    @saimaakber1069 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah

  • @zaviansyed7701
    @zaviansyed7701 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m sorry if I’m making no sense, however, I don’t think I can appreciate this lecture. As some of the wrong words have mentioned like “revenge”. A victim who has been wronged for that person maybe Allah is the last resort to seek justice. As this world is not perfect. If you don’t always see justice here. And the right that’s been given to every human being to seek justice from his/her Lord. Sometimes that’s the only thing a victim have. this video pressurize a lot on victims reaction and villainifying of victims reactions. It’s true. Sometimes some pain causes us monstrous behavior, but when a person does not see any justice from this world. This is why it’s super important that we at least can hope that our creator is just and he will do the justice. It’s not revenge it’s simply the matter of hoping for justice.

    • @humnaasif34
      @humnaasif34 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you... I just lost another friendship and I said Allah this time I'm not seeking any revenge or not even having a slightest thought of revenge so I leave this matter upto you cuz you clearly know whay did they do wrong

    • @ahmadnazary2434
      @ahmadnazary2434 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Salam aleykum, i trink you totally misunderstood What he Said. Maybe You should Watch it again

    • @herakhan1609
      @herakhan1609 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I feel you and it's okay to want justice and to have hope in Allah but here the lecture was about not saying things from yourself about Allah like he mentioned you should not say Allah is not going to forgive you as a Muslim we cant say what's Allah is gonna do ...we can pray n trust him but it's totally on Allah to forgive that person or take revenge.

  • @Chinese.driver
    @Chinese.driver ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much brother

  • @kovkebxanimmemmedli1321
    @kovkebxanimmemmedli1321 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing... Thank you, ustad

  • @nabeelurrehman
    @nabeelurrehman ปีที่แล้ว

    JazakAllah elkhair for great reminder.
    Ya Allah plz forgive me. This lecture has opened my eye. Ya Allah forgive me & give me/us strength to bear losses n hardship. Please help us in remaining patient. Ya Allah gather us all in Jannah. Aameen

  • @starry-eyes451
    @starry-eyes451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhan ALLAH 🥺🥺

  • @7khan012
    @7khan012 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Barakallah. Jazakallah for this speach

  • @akakonoha
    @akakonoha ปีที่แล้ว

    W❤'Allahi, we are grateful to Allah for Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) for his sacrifice for us 😥

  • @zonairaali7902
    @zonairaali7902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SubhanAllah Beshak Allah is the one WHO do justice
    Allah pak plz🙏🏻 forgive me if I have done wrong to anyone 😢😢😢

  • @nazreenismail1072
    @nazreenismail1072 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let go and just Let Allah 💚

  • @quaziteasha6020
    @quaziteasha6020 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah bless you.

  • @rutbarutba8856
    @rutbarutba8856 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice informational video thanku

  • @khadijafatima9240
    @khadijafatima9240 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    O Allah i am weak so make me strong, O Allah grant us Paradise with those we love

  • @ashahmed2
    @ashahmed2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wallahi i so needed that. I was a victim of thinking like that. May allah forgive me. And i have forgiven everyone.

  • @Cowboy72
    @Cowboy72 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man this video changed my life, flipping this guy is logical and so wise....Man He have my respect. He doesnt play politics like todays islamic people in religion

  • @aaliyahsaleem9676
    @aaliyahsaleem9676 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazaakomUllaaho khair

  • @Yesu
    @Yesu ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhan Allahil Azim

  • @saminanaz7301
    @saminanaz7301 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @yasminiqbal570
    @yasminiqbal570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SubhanAllah

  • @dr.uzmaazim9652
    @dr.uzmaazim9652 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ya Allah please heal us all 💔

  • @zahinazahoor7616
    @zahinazahoor7616 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent

  • @davalediga1540
    @davalediga1540 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dear sir your teach is exellent and its in morally Total being a Hindu I truly believe in all religion and I truly believe that all religions are really right. Please do your great work continue. Thank you sir.

  • @sosonay777
    @sosonay777 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks dear

  • @hildaramirez289
    @hildaramirez289 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Salam alaikum beautiful message

  • @muslimakhan3555
    @muslimakhan3555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Allah hu Akbar❤

  • @mariajennaharrismaria7013
    @mariajennaharrismaria7013 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Subhan Allah

  • @rutbarutba8856
    @rutbarutba8856 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice

  • @shehlakhan2217
    @shehlakhan2217 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Subhanallah

  • @ALWAYSFAITHFUL247
    @ALWAYSFAITHFUL247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alhamdulillah..

  • @yusufyahaya930
    @yusufyahaya930 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah is the beginning and the end of all matters

  • @fishbarbeque8540
    @fishbarbeque8540 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Cristians say "god helps those who help themselves"
    So us as MUSLIMS, can take a bit of that knowledge. You don't revenge but sometimes someone needs to get one type of recompense for there actions.

  • @xatareinunddreiiger2538
    @xatareinunddreiiger2538 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It depends on what the person has done, god knows our hearts and intentions

  • @dr.lubna78
    @dr.lubna78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some of us people nether hate anyone nor believe in revenge. It's nature. It too difficult to change our habits and mindset after fourties.

  • @user-bg9vd2es7m
    @user-bg9vd2es7m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tears feels couse of Allah i m afraid Allah by this hadid .
    MashaAllah baina .

  • @twaha1000
    @twaha1000 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I believe an important aspect has been neglected here by the sheikh. An oppressed person awaits justice and Allah will not forgive the opressor unless the oppressed himself forgives the oppressor. And on the day of jugment,the oppressor will have to give away his good deeds to the ones he oppressed depending of the degree of oppression. And the oppressed will accept those deeds readily as they will be valuable and thus the oppressor will be cleared and the oppressed happy.

    • @twaha1000
      @twaha1000 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If the oppressor did not have enough good deeds to pay for his oppression,the oppressed bad deeds will be removed from him and assigned to the oppressor.

    • @Alexandra-yi6dw
      @Alexandra-yi6dw ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its not forget but is that when you forgive them for the sake of Allah is much better for you than take his good deeds ,Allah will reward you much better than you taking revenge to them , anyway they will answer to Allah for everything they have done if you forgive them or not they will be answering for everything , so the best is to forgive them and clean your heart to go to Allah with kalbin selim , a clean heart

    • @dr.lubna78
      @dr.lubna78 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@twaha1000
      I want to write here a single sentence by ALLAH.
      ALLAH is able to forgive all of your sins except shirk.
      Isn't so ????
      So where is the concept of forgiveness by people . As he almighty knows what's hidden inside our hearts, our prayers and tears in loneliness.
      Here, in In pakistan there is a tradition of begging forgiveness from relatives before going to Hajj or umraah. There are several possibilities of unavailability of a person you ask for forgiveness or a person says. No .. I'm not able to forgive you go to Hajj and waste your prayers .
      Forgiveness is actually KAFFAARAH. Because repetitive mistakes in Deen or dunya is not always forgiveable. ALLAH never said that I can't forgive that, that and those ....
      Common sense clues towards Allah's powers and RAHMAT . EACH AND EVERYTHING IS DESCRIBED IN OUR HOLLY BOOK ABOUT WHAT ALLAH DO AND WAHT HE DON'T.
      Regardless any firqa MASLAK , there are several questions are hidden there in QURAAN.

    • @twaha1000
      @twaha1000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The concept of forgiveness of people in not found in the qur'an. Its hadith,but the Qur'an does give us a hint that we will not be wronged on the day of Judgement. So Allah will not forgive if the oppressed has not been given justice.

    • @ShayTurkmani
      @ShayTurkmani ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@twaha1000that’s just a fake lame excuse just to comfort someone. Oppression can only be resolved by your own fight against the oppression. If you read hadiths prophet saw had to fight against Meccans not just sit back and wait for oppression to be forgiven till day of Judgement . We studied these Ghazwas from childhood. You have to fight oppression otherwise no one will do anything

  • @isolamutmainah3700
    @isolamutmainah3700 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just what I need, I didn’t know forgiving someone is this hard I always thought it’s like a switch that you can just turn on easily, but now that I’ve been hurt by someone very close and dear to me , I keep telling myself not to dislike this person and whenever I try to console myself and put it pass me , it makes me feel more angry. Another issue is that the person didn’t know that they’ve hurt me by their actions and I can’t bring myself to tell them, cos I will definitely blow things up , cos I’m still angry and the last thing I want is to hurt this person with my word or approach.

  • @frames999
    @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว

    ch - 96
    1st verb - read
    1st NR - to drag
    last NR - -
    last - Qaf - Raa - Baa

  • @realo6
    @realo6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah really gave NAK wisdom and knowledge

  • @muhammadsharif7990
    @muhammadsharif7990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good lecture. Btw, seeking justice, protesting, pointing out injustices, shying/distancing etc. is not necessarily seeking "revenge"

  • @izzy.i
    @izzy.i 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some people are just pure evil that they don’t deserve forgiveness.

  • @frames999
    @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว

    ch - 68
    1st verb - write
    1st NR - to compromise
    last NR - to make slip
    last - QUL

  • @shimmerjaysondelalu
    @shimmerjaysondelalu ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam alaikum sheikh,

  • @frames999
    @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    attaining the 7th HABiT .. is CONQUERing the ENEMY by thoroughly UNDERSTANDing & EMPATHiSing with hom / her ..

    • @frames999
      @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว

      enemy - centric people become ZOMBiES

    • @frames999
      @frames999 ปีที่แล้ว

      neiki kar dariya mein daal ..
      🦁 THiNK like this ..

  • @LADYZEE702
    @LADYZEE702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear I always love the humor of NAK when he is talking about a really important thing. "One week in the barbecue because I haven't forgiven them"😅 Subhanallah! I e heard this statement from people for real! Alhamdulillah Allah is Allah