I used to work for an elderly lady who had a den/library with quite a large collection of books in it. When she passed, her kids were boxing up the books to donate, and they dropped one, and several $20 bills fell out of it. They decided to go through all the books and found tens of thousands of dollars tucked in those books in small amounts here and there.
Good job they looked. My gran was a farmer and in later years she wasn't very particular. She would freeze a pheasant with the feathers on! But when she died we found she'd wrapped up parcels of money in newspaper and put them in the freezer mixed in with all the food parcels. Everything had to be checked.
There's a 70's made for TV movie about a guy who falls in love and she tells him she's filthy rich, even though she lives very humble. She's quite eccentric. Well, she dies and he's left to take care of her stuff. Still puzzled about her claims to have lots and lots of money...well, he finds a bunch of $20's in a book and thinks that all the books have money...which he finds out nope, after going through a shelf of books...then finds another load of $20's and finally figures out that she stored her money only in books that were dark blue LOL. Yes, a fortune in $20 bills Can't remember the title or the actors in it, but it was a long time ago.
I knew my mom had life insurance. My brother disagreed. And she was an antique dealer. He was clueless. As we went through everything, literally everything, I had to tell him what to keep, sell or toss. He thought I was nuts going through a 2' stack of newspapers page by page until the single sheet for the life insurance dropped out.
@@debbielandis4811horrible but probably true. My mom was an antique dealer and I worked for the local show promoter. The horror stories we'd hear or see.
It would have been impossible for him to go through this amount of stuff…makes me determined not to leave this situation for my kids. I am actively working on it!!
I totally agree with you. Recently I have learned that I also diffently need to do the same thing. My mother just past away, She was so neat and tidy, but she could get the most items into any corner. We were so surprised what all we found. She had a 3 bedroom home, with a basement. One thing I regret is that I should have asked my Mom (years ago) questions of the items. And what she really wants done with them.
So, I wonder if renting a storage locker for items that may be valuable and then deliberately not paying for it, allowing an auction to be held and treasure hunters will be thrilled? No one wants anything free, even if it is valuable? You have to pretend to protect it in an outdoor storage shed with a faulty lock, put a sign “sell on eBay” and then allow folks to steal it! After thinking this through, call a dumpster company and rent one for a week and make sure to leave it open at night? P.S. I am exhausted!❤
Thank you for that. My father has been in the same home for 60 years. Two stories, a basement, and a 2 car garage full of hoarding, with piles of items expanded into the driveway. Add to that never updating the home or performing normal home maintenance, and one option on the table is to walk away from the giant mess and let the state take it after my father passes.
This was like a clown car closet! I couldn't believe when the rocking horses came out after all of those game boxes etc. Someone packed that thing well. Thank you, Scully.
Love the art. It is cool that you aren't just helping the guy declutter, but you have saved the memories for him in these videos. He will always be able to have a memory of the things, and his mom with this recording. He can also see the care in which you have handled the items, it really shows.
My husband and mother are hoarders. Every three-five years I order a big dumpster for two weeks. When it shows up they both know I have been pushed too far. I am not a cruel, cold person but I can only stand so much. I do make it a practice to toss a few things every day but cannot keep up with what they hoard. I sometimes break things and cut things up to keep it from being retrieved from the trash. People ask me if I care about their illness. After decades, I care more about my own mental status. That and being able to get out of my house without things falling on my head or if there is a fire. Being able to have family over would be nice, too. We have grandchildren. It’s a losing battle. If I survive them, I will be the best minimalist in the world.
It’s certainly a challenge to live with people who hoard. I wonder if you could create your own space, in a room in the house or by moving out, or otherwise add boundaries? Hoarding happens because stuff makes them feel safe, so while tossing and breaking things keeps the mess down it may also be contributing to the cycle of stress that causes them to acquire more. But you need a space that is safe and manageable. Of course, we don’t know your situation, and you should do whatever you need to to stay sane.
I feel your pain, son. When my mother-in-law died, we found every rubber band off the newspaper, twist tie off a loaf of bread, plastic bag also from the newspaper. Greeting cards from when her husband died 25 years ago. Rather than buy new underwear, she sewed elastic shoulder straps so her knickers wouldn’t hit the floor in a public place. In her last years she didn’t feel like walking to the bathroom in the middle of the night, so instead of buying a bedside commode, she cut down milk jugs and used them. And spilled plenty of urine on the floor. She wasn’t poor. She had plenty of money. She was really nice and I loved her but I cannot understand why she did some of these things.
@@christineriehl9228 I have done it twice in 40 years. Numerous times I have cleaned and burned. It’s definitely a never ending chore. Heaped upon the shoulders of others because they do not want to admit they are mentally ill. It’s not fair to everyone else living in the home. It makes me think I am losing MY mind. I started therapy 5 years ago to cope. Still go. Still have anger issues.
A parents' love knows no bounds. I still honor them with letting them know that it is their face that needs a round-house. Especially, their MoMs' face! ..."Mean Old Mother". That is how you get Mom out of mother. Oh that reminds me! I need to get my boys' Muthas Day cards. Specially crafted for their disturbing faces.
As fellow rural Illinoisan (“No, not Chicago.” 😂) and child of the same generation, I so appreciate your cultural references! This homeowner has shed the weight and allowed you to purge a heavy burden for him. Well done, sir. Well done.
@@Rollimggiant There’s nothing wrong with Chicago. I like to visit. People just always assume when you say you’re from Illinois that you are from Chicago. 😁
Seeing all those books go bye-bye was giving me major anxiety! I'm a baby boomer and I remember so many of those books and games that were popular when I was a child. However, it's wonderful to let these things go and release oneself from the burden of so many things. You and your son are a blessing and I hope your channel encourages other people to reach out and help someone in any way they know how.
I, too, remember many of the books and had fun seeing them again. We had a set of children's encyclopedias that I enjoyed reading when I was young. It is not the same to look at a computer screen.
As someone with hoarding tendencies, I get so frustrated with people who can't understand that sometimes you just need to throw things away even if they're in good condition. So thank you for putting your client's mental health above the desire to save usable stuff. He needed the house cleaned more than charity shops needed more items.
Why do you need to? You’re carrying the stuff out of the house and into a container, instead put it in a truck or even a pile on the curb for others to take and whatever is left at the end of the day scrap it. I do this for a living and there literally is no reason to throw it all away. I also have hoarding tendencies (that’s what sparked me to start this business) so I can understand the need to just purge but that makes no difference to where good, useable items can go. This is not a criticism of this channel in particular, it’s an observation on how much waste there is in a world where we cannot afford to make more waste unnecessarily.
@@brennagreenglasspeacock some people don't have the spoons left to do that. I just spent 3 years cleaning out a hoarding house. At the end, I just had to recycle the 4,000 th plain, generic, glass vase. I sold/donated/repurposed/gave away stuff for YEARS and at the end, I just needed it fkn GONE for my sanity's sake.
@@Cole_Cross not trying to be argumentative but I’m not sure how that’s relevant to my comment. Totally different than collectibles that could have benefited this home owner being sold or other items that were still in good condition. If the answer to my question is just because we want to, then that’s that.
I think in many cases, the problem would be solved a bit more if countries -like America- would stop their useless overconsumption and the produce and waste of items that are discarded before they are even used. So much forced labour, pain, money, time, water and efforts are wasted on items that you don't use and chuck away. Landfill is not normal.
i’m so jealous about how many vintage books were in this house, i’m a 2003 baby but i remember my elementary school always was a little more outdated than other schools so we had a lot of 1970s/80s/90s books and i loved them! i loved this video so much, i enjoy watching you guys show every single little thing :) thanks for helping out these people 💚
Wow! Those albums! Still sealed! And for this to be a hoarder situation, so many things aren't damaged, from mold, mice, etc. It's actually incredible.
You did the right thing to get rid of things as fast as possible. This poor man needs a clean house and a clean start. Thanks so much for sharing this.
This is what reminds me how valuable & enjoyable window shopping is. I just look at stuff and never buy it when I think of the beautiful, organised, free space at my place. Everything I own, gets used everyday, otherwise it won't get purchased. Nothing is more freeing than having less and living more. Good job guys
Watching this type of show and having to clean out Mom's house has made me reevaluate my purchases. My kids won't want to go thru things that meant something to me but not much to anyone else.
Today is my 52nd birthday, and this video was like an awesome time capsule of my childhood. What a treat! I know it has to be a huge relief for the owner. Grief makes everything harder to deal with. You're doing a huge service for folks, not just physically, but emotionally as well. Thank you for all you do, and for sharing!
If the gentleman who owned the house is depressed, he should have the inside of the house painted a light color and get rid of the dark carpets and the dark cabinets in the kitchen. The floor in the kitchen is nice. Light colors would help to lift his spirits. God bless the gentleman. It is so hard to lose loved ones. It is wonderful there are people like you to help people who are struggling.
I was talking to a friend yesterday about the sunk cost fallacy. It took me many, many years to learn how to cut my losses. There was probably several thousand dollar's worth of stuff going in the dumpster. Lots of valuable stuff being donated, too. Your client was suffocating under the burden of his mother's hoard. His mental health and physical well-being are worth many times more than those old treasures. I feel bad when I see usable items going into the trash, but it isn't the end of the world. I can guarantee you that the gentlemen will not miss one thing that was discarded. I'm going to assume that since he had so many shirts to hang up that some of them are too big. Clothing for plus sized people is expensive. I hope he will be able to go through his too big clothes and donate them. Since his cooking habits are different now, he probably could get rid of half or more of the cookware and dishes, too. I wish him the best of luck.
This has to be one of the most emotional ones you have done. Even I felt sad seeing all those things that were once so loved and enjoyed by the family. Real nostalgia even as a stranger - the son is very brave to part with so much stuff, and you have done an amazing thing for him - you are an angel
A closet full of childhood treasures lovingly kept by a mother. I kept imagining the Christmas mornings those toys must have represented. It's amazing how you two manage to organize so well, I'd be lost. Blessings on this gentleman for his perseverance and strength. Thanks for another awesome video!
The part where you sorted all the collectible games, toys, and dolls into categorized plastic bins was just as satisfying as the full dumpster. Preserving so much value there! Also the fireworks in the closet. Imagine if there had been a house fire 🙃
God bless your little pea picking heart for being such a compassionate human being! I love that you don’t judge people and demonstrate by your example that people deserve respect. I’m a borderline hoarder and totally understand how hard it is to let go of things that others consider trash. It takes me hours to sort through my boxes of memorabilia and I have gotten better at parting ways with those old rubber bands and pictures of scenery that I have no clue where it is, lol. Videos like yours inspire me to make better decisions on what I want cluttering up my life. Thank you so much! I love your sense of humor too! Keep the videos coming please! ❤
The respect you show for these ppl has given me strength to address my own house. im realizing how some of my own past traumas has effected me especially around cleaning and being overwhelmed by it. thank you so much for posting these. I hope to never get to this point myself. But I'm glad to know there *are* ppl out there who still would respect my house and what *I* consider valuable to own.
Omg….seriously, you’ve opened a portal to where all my childhood toys were hiding! Right down to the cap gun…used to take a whole roll of caps and hit it with a hammer! Ah, memories.
I lost my dad about 20 years ago and many of these things look like they’d be in his hoard. He worked out of town on the railroad (he built track) and he’d come home every weekend. That little tv and it’s antenna entertained him in his truck bed camper he had that he stayed in all week. He was cheap enough to not want to spend money on motels and never got rid of things because he refused to spend money on something twice, so getting rid of of things was not what he EVER did. He also had many bowling balls and golf clubs! When you got to those big bear house slippers it triggered a memory of weekend mornings and pancakes with him and I lost my shit crying and crying! Thanks for what you do, man. Thanks for not judging that man or his house or anyone else that you help. I appreciate people like you so damn much and I’m so sad that more people like you don’t exist in the world! From the bottom of my heart, thank you. 🥺❤️
We had the exact same children's encyclopedia set when I was growing up - I recognized the pictures on the covers & it brought back memories. Also some of the kid's books I remember. That horse he brought out of that closet I think was that 'Marvel the Mustang! You sat on it & bounced up & down & it would move across the floor. Bet that was from the 60's! I even remember the words to the song on the commercials for it on tv, lol. ... So many vintage items! Worth a lot & a lot of reminiscing too!
Former bank teller here. Regarding the change, first you probably have more money than you realize. Second, to find coin collectibles focus on the dimes and the nickels. Dimes, back in the day, were made of silver. Those are SUPER easy to distinguish from regular dimes. They feel different, they weigh less, they’re thinner, smooth on the edge, and they have a different shade of color to them. Some Nickels, back in the day, we’re called “Buffalo Nickels” because there was a buffalo on the back. Those are collectible. Pennies, not so much, but there is one style of penny that has “wheat” on the back. They’re called Wheat Pennies. Half-dollars, 50-cent pieces and the Susan B Anthony dollar coins are also always good to get appraised by a coin collector.
@Debra Magginetti - I agree. I couldn't help but see how much love was shared year after year that built that huge amount - a life's worth - of memories. Memories that were cherished enough to save every moment.
Great video. I love what you did for this .man. His story touched my heart and I am so happy that you are able to help him through this . Thank you for being such a kind person .
@@sheilam4964 , this was such an emotional clean-out. We just watched two men unpack a mother's heart with such gentleness. There was another comment about grief and guilt walking hand-in-hand that just about laid me out flat. Such a tender gift for her son in a difficult time.
This a Father that loves his son so much Jason, Jason & him have a sense of humor hope everyone gets it. Wonderful work both of you do to help these people. Love watching.
You and your son are truly a godsend for this young man. Now he can lie a life in the home he grew upon,which will be a safe environment for him as well. And having his kitchen organized was a good thing ,too. You and your son gave this man the relief he needed. It was amazing how his mom had all that change all over the house. Be sure to check the wheat head pennies. There are people who actually collects them. I have seen websites for it. Your helping this young man has been a true blessing GOD will bless your for your Act of Kindness for all the people you have helped. Thank You.
I am so happy that I came across your videos without allowing myself to to feel discussed or judged without seeing the results. Now I cannot stop watching you because I see your compassion and care for these people. I like that you do not judge them and explain in a positive way their situation. You seem honest and very thoughtful and caring. You leave nothing undone and give explanations for everything because we know that people tent to watch and then criticize. These videos also teaches in how and why we tent to become hoarders. You also give a lot of points on what to use to clean and how to organize
Hi guys! Bless you for the work you do. After my dad passed we found change/money everywhere! Filled a kitchen garbage can! A couple hundred, thank goodness bank didn't make us put into rolls! And found a bag of keys with a label that said "don't know what these go to"...
Really appreciate your sense of order. I have a horror of “things being in the wrong place” and go nuts when I can’t find what I want when I need it, argghh! I hope the chap you and Jason are doing this for continues to recover from the grief of losing his Mum and the after effects of having cancer. I hope, too, that what the two of you have done helps him to deal with the overwhelm of it all.
You guys have really improved his life and given him a fresh start! I wish this guy continued improvement and better health!! Maybe one day he will have a special bond with someone like you and Jason share (so warm and fuzzy❤)!!! Sending good wishes from Ohio!!!
I’m 60 and my grandmother had a series of the Best In Children’s Books at her house for my brother and me. Core memory unlocked when I saw that book cover! 😊
But it’s not over! The son is still there, and can now look forward to better living conditions and a less-burdened life. He surely didn’t even know that most of that stuff still existed, let alone could enjoy it.
Yes and it also makes me consider what I will eventually leave behind. The THINGS we leave behind aren’t our real legacy anyway. We leave our influence, our kindnesses, the ways we’ve touched other lives without even knowing it. Like the butterfly effect, one single kind interaction may have changed the course of a stranger’s life. So we ARE leaving behind a legacy, even if every physical item of ours is gone. That thought comforts me as I go through and pare down my “things.” Hope this encourages you too friend. 😊
I love how carefully you removed all the things.. you can see it when you open that small compact with the mirror, care is being taken. Even tho it was cracked, you still made sure. That shows everything. How much time goes in to all the cleans you do for the people that need you. It's a gift.
This lady must have been a fabulous mother and grandmother or aunt. She loved children and gave them a childhood rich in books, games, and activities. Things to entertain and enrich a child's mind. No wonder the man is so aggrieved at her loss. You have done him a tremendous service in doing what he could not: removing the emotional burden that all this clutter placed on him emotionally and physically.
Thanks! You and family are admirable for not only doing this but doing such an honest thorough job. I never thought I'd be watching a cleaning channel. Also you inspire me to clean in fast mode like you.
When my husband passed away just over 15 years ago, for some reason I didn't have a hard time getting rid of his truck, his tools, or his books but I just couldn't seem to bring myself to get rid of his clothes. I hung on to them for years! Then one day I took them off the hangers and put them in bags and put them in my car and I decided that if I ever got brave enough I would drop them off at Goodwill and if I drove around with them for a long time and still couldn't bring myself to donate them, I would simply bring them back in the house and hang them back up and just keep them. I drove around with them for a few weeks and then one day I just zipped into Goodwill and dropped them off and it was surprisingly a lot easier to do than I had thought it would be. So I totally understand why this man found it difficult to get rid of his mother's clothes. But I hope he realizes that getting rid of her clothes does not mean he is getting rid of the memories of her. He will still have all of those. BTW, I have to ask. HOW BIG WAS THAT CLOSET?
Hey, as someone that shops at Goodwill, please know it means a LOT to be able to wear nice clothes for a tiny price. I got a really good job after interviewing in a Goodwill suit.❤
@@ShellyS2060 That is my experience also. When you have extremely little money, these places are lifesavers. I still go when I can, because while I am no longer destitute, I live on a pension and I don't have much to spare. Donations can make such a difference in people's lives!
Prefer the classic clothing and bed linens in natural earth grown fibers. They "vibrate" with high energies for us. 100% linen is at 5000 units, organic cotton =100 (matching human resonance 100). Cotton = 80, linen blended with cotton cancels the high resonance. Silk is quite low at 30. A woman from Japan tested the various fabrics. This strange info was heard on a short vid Dr. (Naturopath) Shanael Wolverton's channel. *using a linen top sheet at night makes me feel comfort.
I'm also autistic and I feel so much relief when you put things in order or come back to place boxes in line. Very good job, I love watching your videos and it's like me hearing myself when you talk to your son LOL you have a new subscriber. I wish I had so many coins to count. Let me not send a hug from Spain.
What a Time Capsule! The toys and books were the same types of things we cleared out of my mom's house....over 60's years of accumulated stuff. We had the time to sort through the mess; set aside items for various auctioneers who specialized in toys, model kits, model trains, appliances, and home goods to get the best prices we could get (yes, they take a cut, but they hauled the items away); donated clean usable items to charity; and still filled about five 20-yard dumpsters with junk.
I’m trying to watch every one of your videos at least once. Not only are they motivating to rid the house of clutter so it’s not someone else’s problem some day, but because of your generosity! It’s amazing that you buy needed items for the homes you clean, but also for other cleaning channels that do free cleans. It’s wonderful that there are decent human beings still left in this world! Seeing all the stuff you’re pulling from the closet reminds me of my childhood!! Although I didn’t see a strawberry shortcake doll ha!!
WOW! Watching you clear out these spaces gives me deja vu. I've cleared out my grandmother's storage unit. I'm slowly clearing out my mother's home (she is still living), and then when I come home from purging, I look around my house and then do the same thing. It's an absolutely exhausting process thinking about the YEAR the item comes from and recollecting what/when/who/how I was doing back then and dealing with memories. It's amazing what items people choose to fill up their hearths & heads. Thank you for both motivating me to continue and talking me through the process as I move forward.
My mother in law is like this. Closeted hoarder (in literal term). All the closets and a spare bedroom in her house is jammed packed with stuff. Her 2 car garage is also full of boxes stacked to the ceiling with only one narrow way to get to the front. She keeps all her children's baby clothes, toys and books. Her youngest is 43 and has a 10 year old daughter. She now keeps that granddaughter's gifts, pictures, everything she could get. And she keeps buying seasonal/holiday decorations - any holidays esp. Christmas. Her kitchen cupboards are tetris-worthy with all sizes and patterns of plates and glasses/tumblers/goblets for different holidays or birthdays. The original shelves sagged because they were just particle board, and I replaced them a few years ago with solid pine board, for fear that one day she'd be getting avalanche of dinnerware. I tried and offered to organize the cabinets but it only lasted for 4 hours before she stopped me because she had separation anxiety even though nothing was taken away, just categorized to the frequency of use. Now I am the opposite of her, a minimalist and ever since that, I have a suppressed anxiety whenever I go to her house and open one of those cupboards.
I see these videos, of this man's home, as a permanent record of everything that built a lifetime of love and memories for him. A very special gift, indeed. Wishing him the Best of Luck for the Future and plenty more Blessings.
I had that same Chinese checkers board, with glass marbles, it was so much fun! I can practically smell the books, too. And the kitchen drawer pulls and cabinet door hinges took me right back to my parent's house, we had the same ones in our kitchen -- same with the Corelle dishes, wow. Thank you so much for recording all of this.
_I just wept & wept for watching my childhood come to life in 2023. It made for the greatest Christmas gift because there's no one left to share it with anymore. Thanks a million._
I hope he feels so much better & able to continue getting his health under control, but I also hope he can keep up with the house now. Unbelievable how much you guys cleaned out!!! Great job 👍
This is amazing! What a treasure trove! I see stuff that my little sister had in the 70s and stuff my kids had in the 80s. Lawn jarts 😊 we used to have so much fun when we would come home to visit my folks. I tell ya, it would have taken me a month to get through that one closest. I would wind up playing with everything. And the Golden Books 🥰 our kids had loads of them. The artist in the house did, what appears to be, some nice work.
So many treasures! I see my childhood in that closet- things I had as a kid and things I wanted. You and your son are a blessing to these folks that need your help! The clothes is the easiest part to get rid of but I learned from my grandma to “check the pockets” she hid her jewelry in her pockets- the logic was a thief will never check her pockets.
Oh my God, I had that Golden Book Encyclopedia set! Recognized that image of Jefferson on the cover as soon as you picked up the stack. (In my age defense, I did get a lot of things handed down from my three older siblings, one of whom is 9 years older than I, so..... eh, who am I kidding, I'm older than the dirt in that closet.
Oh my gosh. We had those encyclopedias. You got them at the grocery store each week until,you got the full set. These closets brought back lots of childhood memories. Yeah, I am really old
This was like watching the ‘boy’ version of my childhood. You can tell that this family was very focused on their child(ten) and took extremely good care of their items. I was kind of aching thinking of all of these things going into a dumpster. MANY of those toys are worth a lot of money. But I do understand the scope and putting the metal Health of the owner first. But those books! Homeschool families would have loved those!!! Jason needs to start a side business selling the crazy stuff you find and helping folks make repairs to their homes! As someone currently dealing with my parents farm (multiple barns and a house!) I also saved the KISS 8 track!
I applaud you for the work you do. My grandmother was a hoarder. I remember bailing out her basement when it flooded 3 times in 10 years and having to throw so much stuff away. I think that experience is what has helped me to reexamine my own relationship with material possessions. I see some hoarding tendencies in my mother and I don't want my daughter to have to go through what I will have to go through when my mother passes to get the house cleaned out.
Wow! You and your team took on a Herculean task! Sometimes it takes someone from outside the family and removed emotionally from the stuff, to purge and make progress. Awesome job! Beautiful artwork you uncovered, btw. The artist was very gifted. Thanks for sharing.
I collect Hargrove oil paintings. Mainly covered bridges since I am from Indiana. Those painting were really nice. I know that picture frames are expensive so I would sell them if I didn't need them. He probably had enough things, and change, to retire on! Another great job by you and your dear son!
I had to clean out my parents' clean non-hoarded house after they died 20 years ago. It was still a huge amount of work. And a very emotional situation as well. You get decision fatigue about what to keep and what to toss. It's just really hard. If you have stuff that is too good to throw out there are charities that will send out a truck and take almost everything. I called Goodwill, they even took my father's bowling balls. Salvation Army also has a truck service. Habitat for Humanity might. There are non religious charities as well. I think Lupus will pick up a ton of stuff, as will some veterans organizations. There are estate clear out services as well. They may not take a lot of stuff but they will take stuff they can resell. Depending on your neighborhood sometimes just leaving stuff out overnight will make it disappear. (I still feel bad that I had to get rid of some of my mother's stuff that she really loved.)
Hi Mac, love the video, it was a trip to see everything that came from the closet. Have you, by any chance, ever watched the antique nomad? He is a L goofy, but a super smart well educated guy who absolutely knows antiques of all types of. I think it would be a fun one to watch - especially with all the declutterring you do. Best always! Vicki in San Antonio 😊🌻
You really did major work on this one. Even providing organization for his clothes and pretty much everything! I bet he feels such relief, and the ability to even think clearer.
I feel for this gentleman that inherited this house. I was in a very similar situation. Had depression, lost my mom in 2003. She was a slight hoarder, but because we moved like once a year, it kept the massively extra down. I had to go through her stuff by myself. Then my dad passed away in 2016. He was a hoarder that had remained in his home from 1973-2016. I had to clean up his house as well. He had a 5 bedroom house, one 5 car garage, then also a 6 car garage and shed. 2 overhead attics that were full. I have hoarding tendencies as well, so this was a really tough job for me. I moved from this house and it took 2 years to go through the stuff. I tend not to trust others to go through my stuff, so I did it myself. I should have let someone do it for me. It would have saved so much time.
This video really brought me back to the 70's. It was really fun to see the contents of those closets. The paintings were beautiful. I wonder if his mom was an artist. I laughed every time you guys found another bowling ball. haha
I can't believe the amazing stuff you found in that closet, 8 track tapes...I haven't seen those in years. I'm actually old enough to know what they are. My grandparents had a huge collection of them. This would've been so fun and interesting to go through all that cool stuff.
Thank you so much for showing us some of the stuff! I totally enjoyed that! Broke my heart a little too! (We really do call him "Johnny won't put up with it" here in Austin) LoL Mac Davis "Baby baby don't get hooked on me" OMG....the Alexander children's book! I had that one! Yep...you just dated this closet! The ceramic Christmas tree is highly collectible right now also. This one was a little tough emotionally for me...which is weird...no attachment. I have seen other things in other homes you have done that I also owned, but this one touched me. Ooo I saw an MRE in the stock car closet. Hands down the best part of this video (aside from helping the owner) is the last two frames! Have a great week!
Great video as usual! I absolutely love the way you narrate and time lapse your videos! To top that, your sense of humor keeps me in stitches 😅😅😅😅😅 I hope that the gentleman that you're cleaning for gets better. I know, it's really hard to lose loved ones. I wish everyone all the best!
My parents both passed with less than 2 years of obe another. I inherited their small hoarder house, it is also in pretty bad disrepair. I'm an only child, with no other living family and its overwhelming because I'm on my own trying to sort and go through cleaning it all out. I've been trying to take it one room at a time but they were both hoarders and were sufferibg both in mental and physical health for the last few years of their lives. There is just so much and this house holds a lot of trauma for me I've not been able to make it to the worst of it yet. My dad's shop barely has walking space with tools, hardware, books, paperwork, equipment, literally everything he ever thought might be useful for more than 40 years. No mail for at least the last decade was ever thrown away, no paperwork, taxes, or receipts were ever thrown away. I really understand the struggle with this owners mothers clothing, I've not been able to face my moms things yet, facing her packed closet was so emotional and hard, I've not been able to sort through all her things yet. I really really need some help and am trying to not get too depressed and overwhelmed by it as I'm currently recovering from a mental health crisis myself. I just have no idea how I am going to be able to do it all. If you could recommend anyone/services in Southern Oklahoma that could help I would be forever grateful. Thank you so much for your videos and the care and empathy you give towards mental health awareness. I wish more people would be willing to help others as you do without passing judgment.
Oh Amber, I'm so sorry for your loss and what you have been through. :( I hope you feel a litte bit better at the moment? Do you have a good friend, who could support you or is there something like a local help center or social center, who you can ask for help? (I'm so sorry that I couldn't be THE support that you needed but I live in Germany) I wish you all the best 🌻
The lidless mushroom canister you put the change in hit me right in the mostalgia. My mom had the full set lined up neatly on the kitchen counter of my childhood home. As a kid I hated those canisters, but now I find myself missing them. Not enough to want to hunt down my own set of mushroom canisters, but I think it's more of a bittersweet thing. I miss them, and there are fond memories (of game nights and family meals piled in the kitchen), but I'm alright with letting the past remain where it's at.
I need to thank you, Dude. You motivated me to begin spring cleaning... and that means throwing out stuff that I have been holding on to. I had to downsize and the clutter was driving me mad. I have only just begun and have to take it slowly. I sit down when I get tired, then continue when my energy gets back up. You do a great job.
AAAAAAA I own that EXACT SAME "Good Decorating & Home Improvement" book -- bought at a thrift store years ago, and holy cow it is SPECTACULAR. Half the decor in it is legit amazing, and the other half is "no, seriously, what the helllllll."
I used to work for an elderly lady who had a den/library with quite a large collection of books in it. When she passed, her kids were boxing up the books to donate, and they dropped one, and several $20 bills fell out of it. They decided to go through all the books and found tens of thousands of dollars tucked in those books in small amounts here and there.
😮😮
Good job they looked. My gran was a farmer and in later years she wasn't very particular. She would freeze a pheasant with the feathers on! But when she died we found she'd wrapped up parcels of money in newspaper and put them in the freezer mixed in with all the food parcels. Everything had to be checked.
There's a 70's made for TV movie about a guy who falls in love and she tells him she's filthy rich, even though she lives very humble. She's quite eccentric. Well, she dies and he's left to take care of her stuff. Still puzzled about her claims to have lots and lots of money...well, he finds a bunch of $20's in a book and thinks that all the books have money...which he finds out nope, after going through a shelf of books...then finds another load of $20's and finally figures out that she stored her money only in books that were dark blue LOL. Yes, a fortune in $20 bills Can't remember the title or the actors in it, but it was a long time ago.
I was thinking I hope they are opening up books and game/toy boxes and looking for money, deeds, etc .
WOW AMAZING
I knew my mom had life insurance. My brother disagreed. And she was an antique dealer. He was clueless. As we went through everything, literally everything, I had to tell him what to keep, sell or toss. He thought I was nuts going through a 2' stack of newspapers page by page until the single sheet for the life insurance dropped out.
I just found my passport - after 3 years of searching. It was in an envelope of important papers!
Bet he likes you a lot more now!! @renel7303
Oh lord. We have STACKS of papers we need to go through for my MIL. ugh!
That’s pretty amazing! Glad you found it
Hey, when you know, you know.
I am an eBay reseller and i do a lot of vintage games, dolls, toys ,etc. You pulled a small fortune of items out of that closet!!
I was just about to say, so much vintage stuff.. wow!!! You could make quite a bit of money
He probably just threw them away.
@@KingJamesBibleBeliever-de9fy Nooooooooooooo
@@debbielandis4811horrible but probably true. My mom was an antique dealer and I worked for the local show promoter. The horror stories we'd hear or see.
It’s more about the man’s mental health than money…
You can tell so many kids have amazing childhoods there, it's like a time capsule of childhoods 😭
Was thinking the same. Those books and games... what a great treasure. Would be hard to let go of any of it, even without a hording disorder.
I can’t blame the son one bit. A house full of so many memories. Grief and guilt go hand-in-hand. 😢
Really nice job! He'll be happy not to look at all that stuff. Way to help your Dad, Jason! 👍👍👍👍
I never thought of that. That grief and guilt go hand in home. I’ll need to thing about that…
I’ve never seen a long closet like that. (??)
Why should the son feel guilty?
I feel this so much 😢
It would have been impossible for him to go through this amount of stuff…makes me determined not to leave this situation for my kids. I am actively working on it!!
Good for you!
Me too, but unfortunately they won't find any money stashed anywhere! Lol
I totally agree with you. Recently I have learned that I also diffently need to do the same thing. My mother just past away, She was so neat and tidy, but she could get the most items into any corner. We were so surprised what all we found. She had a 3 bedroom home, with a basement. One thing I regret is that I should have asked my Mom (years ago) questions of the items. And what she really wants done with them.
So, I wonder if renting a storage locker for items that may be valuable and then deliberately not paying for it, allowing an auction to be held and treasure hunters will be thrilled? No one wants anything free, even if it is valuable? You have to pretend to protect it in an outdoor storage shed with a faulty lock, put a sign “sell on eBay” and then allow folks to steal it! After thinking this through, call a dumpster company and rent one for a week and make sure to leave it open at night? P.S. I am exhausted!❤
Thank you for that. My father has been in the same home for 60 years. Two stories, a basement, and a 2 car garage full of hoarding, with piles of items expanded into the driveway. Add to that never updating the home or performing normal home maintenance, and one option on the table is to walk away from the giant mess and let the state take it after my father passes.
This was like a clown car closet! I couldn't believe when the rocking horses came out after all of those game boxes etc. Someone packed that thing well. Thank you, Scully.
Love the art. It is cool that you aren't just helping the guy declutter, but you have saved the memories for him in these videos. He will always be able to have a memory of the things, and his mom with this recording. He can also see the care in which you have handled the items, it really shows.
My husband and mother are hoarders.
Every three-five years I order a big dumpster for two weeks.
When it shows up they both know I have been pushed too far.
I am not a cruel, cold person but I can only stand so much.
I do make it a practice to toss a few things every day but cannot keep up with what they hoard.
I sometimes break things and cut things up to keep it from being retrieved from the trash.
People ask me if I care about their illness.
After decades, I care more about my own mental status.
That and being able to get out of my house without things falling on my head or if there is a fire.
Being able to have family over would be nice, too.
We have grandchildren.
It’s a losing battle.
If I survive them, I will be the best minimalist in the world.
You have to move out. Let them hoard. You can stay married I guess but that’s no marriage.
It’s certainly a challenge to live with people who hoard. I wonder if you could create your own space, in a room in the house or by moving out, or otherwise add boundaries? Hoarding happens because stuff makes them feel safe, so while tossing and breaking things keeps the mess down it may also be contributing to the cycle of stress that causes them to acquire more. But you need a space that is safe and manageable.
Of course, we don’t know your situation, and you should do whatever you need to to stay sane.
I feel your pain, son. When my mother-in-law died, we found every rubber band off the newspaper, twist tie off a loaf of bread, plastic bag also from the newspaper. Greeting cards from when her husband died 25 years ago. Rather than buy new underwear, she sewed elastic shoulder straps so her knickers wouldn’t hit the floor in a public place. In her last years she didn’t feel like walking to the bathroom in the middle of the night, so instead of buying a bedside commode, she cut down milk jugs and used them. And spilled plenty of urine on the floor. She wasn’t poor. She had plenty of money. She was really nice and I loved her but I cannot understand why she did some of these things.
I live with a hoarder.....I wish I had the guts to order a dumpster 😢
@@christineriehl9228 I have done it twice in 40 years.
Numerous times I have cleaned and burned.
It’s definitely a never ending chore.
Heaped upon the shoulders of others because they do not want to admit they are mentally ill.
It’s not fair to everyone else living in the home.
It makes me think I am losing MY mind.
I started therapy 5 years ago to cope.
Still go.
Still have anger issues.
All that stuff you were pulling out of that closet we had as kids growing up in the 70's. Brought back good memories!
Omg!I was thinking same thing! Very nostalgic!
Jason, I know your dad loves and appreciates you for helping him. Good job, both of you!
He may be human filth, but he’s our favorite human filth & he has a laugh that cheers my heart to hear.
I want to know how often they go to Family Counseling.
@@02chevyguy 😆 never. That IS their counseling! I believe he’ll agree.
A parents' love knows no bounds. I still honor them with letting them know that it is their face that needs a round-house. Especially, their MoMs' face! ..."Mean Old Mother". That is how you get Mom out of mother. Oh that reminds me! I need to get my boys' Muthas Day cards. Specially crafted for their disturbing faces.
Yeah... 😊😊😊 Daniel is prety cool too... Thank You guys...
This house needed to be turned into a 1970s themed toy store. I could spend hours in a store like that!
I saw my childhood 😊
As fellow rural Illinoisan (“No, not Chicago.” 😂) and child of the same generation, I so appreciate your cultural references! This homeowner has shed the weight and allowed you to purge a heavy burden for him. Well done, sir. Well done.
I live in Springfield, Illinois! Everyone always assumes when you say Illinois, its Chicago!
What's wrong with Chicago? I'm now living in Vegas but born and raised in Chicago. There is no place like home ❤
@@Rollimggiant There’s nothing wrong with Chicago. I like to visit. People just always assume when you say you’re from Illinois that you are from Chicago. 😁
@@LoraSmith789 exactly. I love Chicago, in fact I was born there. But, the rest of the state kinda gets forgotten about.
@@LoraSmith789 Is this really a problem?
Seeing all those books go bye-bye was giving me major anxiety! I'm a baby boomer and I remember so many of those books and games that were popular when I was a child. However, it's wonderful to let these things go and release oneself from the burden of so many things. You and your son are a blessing and I hope your channel encourages other people to reach out and help someone in any way they know how.
I, too, remember many of the books and had fun seeing them again. We had a set of children's encyclopedias that I enjoyed reading when I was young. It is not the same to look at a computer screen.
As someone with hoarding tendencies, I get so frustrated with people who can't understand that sometimes you just need to throw things away even if they're in good condition. So thank you for putting your client's mental health above the desire to save usable stuff. He needed the house cleaned more than charity shops needed more items.
Exactly. Those things weren't missed for years and years. They will not be missed in the future either. This is very reasonable "sacrifice".
Why do you need to? You’re carrying the stuff out of the house and into a container, instead put it in a truck or even a pile on the curb for others to take and whatever is left at the end of the day scrap it. I do this for a living and there literally is no reason to throw it all away. I also have hoarding tendencies (that’s what sparked me to start this business) so I can understand the need to just purge but that makes no difference to where good, useable items can go. This is not a criticism of this channel in particular, it’s an observation on how much waste there is in a world where we cannot afford to make more waste unnecessarily.
@@brennagreenglasspeacock some people don't have the spoons left to do that. I just spent 3 years cleaning out a hoarding house. At the end, I just had to recycle the 4,000 th plain, generic, glass vase. I sold/donated/repurposed/gave away stuff for YEARS and at the end, I just needed it fkn GONE for my sanity's sake.
@@Cole_Cross not trying to be argumentative but I’m not sure how that’s relevant to my comment. Totally different than collectibles that could have benefited this home owner being sold or other items that were still in good condition. If the answer to my question is just because we want to, then that’s that.
I think in many cases, the problem would be solved a bit more if countries -like America- would stop their useless overconsumption and the produce and waste of items that are discarded before they are even used.
So much forced labour, pain, money, time, water and efforts are wasted on items that you don't use and chuck away. Landfill is not normal.
i’m so jealous about how many vintage books were in this house, i’m a 2003 baby but i remember my elementary school always was a little more outdated than other schools so we had a lot of 1970s/80s/90s books and i loved them! i loved this video so much, i enjoy watching you guys show every single little thing :) thanks for helping out these people 💚
Wow! Those albums! Still sealed! And for this to be a hoarder situation, so many things aren't damaged, from mold, mice, etc. It's actually incredible.
You did the right thing to get rid of things as fast as possible. This poor man needs a clean house and a clean start. Thanks so much for sharing this.
I would love a cup that says "oh look more dishes" bc it's got that Scully humor energy this channel is known for
Did you see the cup on the site? I loved the irony of it!
And now maybe, “Look, another bowling ball…” 🙂
I was a dishwasher for 30 years, a T-shirt with "oh look more dishes" would be perfect for me, lol!
@@KingJamesBibleBeliever-de9fy I'm wearing mine right now. It's my favorite t shirt, because I loathe doing dishes. I've got the cup too.
This is what reminds me how valuable & enjoyable window shopping is. I just look at stuff and never buy it when I think of the beautiful, organised, free space at my place. Everything I own, gets used everyday, otherwise it won't get purchased. Nothing is more freeing than having less and living more. Good job guys
Watching this type of show and having to clean out Mom's house has made me reevaluate my purchases. My kids won't want to go thru things that meant something to me but not much to anyone else.
Today is my 52nd birthday, and this video was like an awesome time capsule of my childhood. What a treat! I know it has to be a huge relief for the owner. Grief makes everything harder to deal with. You're doing a huge service for folks, not just physically, but emotionally as well. Thank you for all you do, and for sharing!
@doloresm7396 Happy Birthday Dolores!! 🎉🎉
@Dolores M Happy birthday, Dolores! 🎂 🎈 💐
Happy Birthday 🎉
Happy birthday to you both! 🎂
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ❤️❤️❤️
If the gentleman who owned the house is depressed, he should have the inside of the house painted a light color and get rid of the dark carpets and the dark cabinets in the kitchen. The floor in the kitchen is nice. Light colors would help to lift his spirits. God bless the gentleman. It is so hard to lose loved ones. It is wonderful there are people like you to help people who are struggling.
I was talking to a friend yesterday about the sunk cost fallacy. It took me many, many years to learn how to cut my losses. There was probably several thousand dollar's worth of stuff going in the dumpster. Lots of valuable stuff being donated, too. Your client was suffocating under the burden of his mother's hoard. His mental health and physical well-being are worth many times more than those old treasures. I feel bad when I see usable items going into the trash, but it isn't the end of the world. I can guarantee you that the gentlemen will not miss one thing that was discarded. I'm going to assume that since he had so many shirts to hang up that some of them are too big. Clothing for plus sized people is expensive. I hope he will be able to go through his too big clothes and donate them. Since his cooking habits are different now, he probably could get rid of half or more of the cookware and dishes, too. I wish him the best of luck.
I can't help but think of how kind and nice that lady must have been.. a child at heart🥺❤️❤️
It really does come across
This has to be one of the most emotional ones you have done. Even I felt sad seeing all those things that were once so loved and enjoyed by the family. Real nostalgia even as a stranger - the son is very brave to part with so much stuff, and you have done an amazing thing for him - you are an angel
I doubt they were ever displayed with honor, being packed in like that. Poor guy.
Man, it's like flashback mode for me. Looks like my childhood and all the stuff my grandmother had for the grandkids to play with in her front closet.
A closet full of childhood treasures lovingly kept by a mother. I kept imagining the Christmas mornings those toys must have represented. It's amazing how you two manage to organize so well, I'd be lost. Blessings on this gentleman for his perseverance and strength. Thanks for another awesome video!
The part where you sorted all the collectible games, toys, and dolls into categorized plastic bins was just as satisfying as the full dumpster. Preserving so much value there!
Also the fireworks in the closet. Imagine if there had been a house fire 🙃
It’s like a Time Capsule of treasures! I love vintage stuff like that. That record and book collection! Wow!
God bless your little pea picking heart for being such a compassionate human being! I love that you don’t judge people and demonstrate by your example that people deserve respect. I’m a borderline hoarder and totally understand how hard it is to let go of things that others consider trash. It takes me hours to sort through my boxes of memorabilia and I have gotten better at parting ways with those old rubber bands and pictures of scenery that I have no clue where it is, lol. Videos like yours inspire me to make better decisions on what I want cluttering up my life. Thank you so much! I love your sense of humor too! Keep the videos coming please! ❤
I hope this man knows just how many people are soooo proud of him and rooting for him! What an amazing gift you've given him ❤️❤️❤️
The respect you show for these ppl has given me strength to address my own house. im realizing how some of my own past traumas has effected me especially around cleaning and being overwhelmed by it. thank you so much for posting these. I hope to never get to this point myself. But I'm glad to know there *are* ppl out there who still would respect my house and what *I* consider valuable to own.
Omg….seriously, you’ve opened a portal to where all my childhood toys were hiding! Right down to the cap gun…used to take a whole roll of caps and hit it with a hammer! Ah, memories.
You know you're old when you recognize all the stuff coming out of a hoarder house! My whole childhood in one closet!
I lost my dad about 20 years ago and many of these things look like they’d be in his hoard. He worked out of town on the railroad (he built track) and he’d come home every weekend. That little tv and it’s antenna entertained him in his truck bed camper he had that he stayed in all week. He was cheap enough to not want to spend money on motels and never got rid of things because he refused to spend money on something twice, so getting rid of of things was not what he EVER did. He also had many bowling balls and golf clubs!
When you got to those big bear house slippers it triggered a memory of weekend mornings and pancakes with him and I lost my shit crying and crying!
Thanks for what you do, man. Thanks for not judging that man or his house or anyone else that you help. I appreciate people like you so damn much and I’m so sad that more people like you don’t exist in the world!
From the bottom of my heart, thank you. 🥺❤️
Mr Midwest you are my hero. You (and Jason) have given this man a lovely, more organised home so he can truly enjoy the memories of his mother.
We had the exact same children's encyclopedia set when I was growing up - I recognized the pictures on the covers & it brought back memories. Also some of the kid's books I remember. That horse he brought out of that closet I think was that 'Marvel the Mustang! You sat on it & bounced up & down & it would move across the floor. Bet that was from the 60's! I even remember the words to the song on the commercials for it on tv, lol. ... So many vintage items! Worth a lot & a lot of reminiscing too!
The history contained in that closet!!!! I would have had a hard time parting with it because I love nostalgic items.
Former bank teller here. Regarding the change, first you probably have more money than you realize. Second, to find coin collectibles focus on the dimes and the nickels.
Dimes, back in the day, were made of silver. Those are SUPER easy to distinguish from regular dimes. They feel different, they weigh less, they’re thinner, smooth on the edge, and they have a different shade of color to them.
Some Nickels, back in the day, we’re called “Buffalo Nickels” because there was a buffalo on the back. Those are collectible.
Pennies, not so much, but there is one style of penny that has “wheat” on the back. They’re called Wheat Pennies.
Half-dollars, 50-cent pieces and the Susan B Anthony dollar coins are also always good to get appraised by a coin collector.
He was obviously a much loved child.
Those records! 😍
There was a lot of love in that closet. Thank you for showing the respect for these folks that they need and deserve --
@Debra Magginetti - I agree. I couldn't help but see how much love was shared year after year that built that huge amount - a life's worth - of memories. Memories that were cherished enough to save every moment.
Great video. I love what you did for this .man. His story touched my heart and I am so happy that you are able to help him through this . Thank you for being such a kind person .
@@sheilam4964 , this was such an emotional clean-out. We just watched two men unpack a mother's heart with such gentleness. There was another comment about grief and guilt walking hand-in-hand that just about laid me out flat. Such a tender gift for her son in a difficult time.
This a Father that loves his son so much Jason, Jason & him have a sense of humor hope everyone gets it. Wonderful work both of you do to help these people. Love watching.
Please explain. Is Jason the homeowner? I’m so confused. He doesn’t look stinky to me.
You and your son are truly a godsend for this young man. Now he can lie a life in the home he grew upon,which will be a safe environment for him as well. And having his kitchen organized was a good thing ,too. You and your son gave this man the relief he needed. It was amazing how his mom had all that change all over the house. Be sure to check the wheat head pennies. There are people who actually collects them. I have seen websites for it. Your helping this young man has been a true blessing GOD will bless your for your Act of Kindness for all the people you have helped. Thank You.
I am so happy that I came across your videos without allowing myself to to feel discussed or judged without seeing the results. Now I cannot stop watching you because I see your compassion and care for these people. I like that you do not judge them and explain in a positive way their situation. You seem honest and very thoughtful and caring. You leave nothing undone and give explanations for everything because we know that people tent to watch and then criticize. These videos also teaches in how and why we tent to become hoarders. You also give a lot of points on what to use to clean and how to organize
Hi guys! Bless you for the work you do. After my dad passed we found change/money everywhere! Filled a kitchen garbage can! A couple hundred, thank goodness bank didn't make us put into rolls! And found a bag of keys with a label that said "don't know what these go to"...
Really appreciate your sense of order. I have a horror of “things being in the wrong place” and go nuts when I can’t find what I want when I need it, argghh! I hope the chap you and Jason are doing this for continues to recover from the grief of losing his Mum and the after effects of having cancer. I hope, too, that what the two of you have done helps him to deal with the overwhelm of it all.
You guys have really improved his life and given him a fresh start! I wish this guy continued improvement and better health!! Maybe one day he will have a special bond with someone like you and Jason share (so warm and fuzzy❤)!!! Sending good wishes from Ohio!!!
You just brighten up my day. I love when Jason laughs as you are hurling insults at him. He is a great man....just like you.
My grown grandson just asked me to try and quit laughing hysterically. We may have to introduce him to Jason!!!
I’m 60 and my grandmother had a series of the Best In Children’s Books at her house for my brother and me. Core memory unlocked when I saw that book cover! 😊
Anyone else feeling sad watching this? A families lifetime of memories, hobbies (painting, bowling, etc.) and now it’s just over.
But it’s not over! The son is still there, and can now look forward to better living conditions and a less-burdened life. He surely didn’t even know that most of that stuff still existed, let alone could enjoy it.
Yes and it also makes me consider what I will eventually leave behind. The THINGS we leave behind aren’t our real legacy anyway. We leave our influence, our kindnesses, the ways we’ve touched other lives without even knowing it. Like the butterfly effect, one single kind interaction may have changed the course of a stranger’s life. So we ARE leaving behind a legacy, even if every physical item of ours is gone. That thought comforts me as I go through and pare down my “things.” Hope this encourages you too friend. 😊
It's not sad. Time marches on. The memories still exists and they bring continual joy. The stuff is just stuff.
You're amazing Mid West Magic!! Lots of sentimental attachment here, the most difficult of all. Great job!!
I love how carefully you removed all the things.. you can see it when you open that small compact with the mirror, care is being taken. Even tho it was cracked, you still made sure. That shows everything. How much time goes in to all the cleans you do for the people that need you. It's a gift.
This lady must have been a fabulous mother and grandmother or aunt. She loved children and gave them a childhood rich in books, games, and activities. Things to entertain and enrich a child's mind. No wonder the man is so aggrieved at her loss. You have done him a tremendous service in doing what he could not: removing the emotional burden that all this clutter placed on him emotionally and physically.
Thanks! You and family are admirable for not only doing this but doing such an honest thorough job. I never thought I'd be watching a cleaning channel. Also you inspire me to clean in fast mode like you.
Thank you! Be careful with fast mode. Your shoes can fly off.
Your extraordinary self control that kept you from changing Jason’s face was phenomenal. Great job! Patti
When my husband passed away just over 15 years ago, for some reason I didn't have a hard time getting rid of his truck, his tools, or his books but I just couldn't seem to bring myself to get rid of his clothes. I hung on to them for years! Then one day I took them off the hangers and put them in bags and put them in my car and I decided that if I ever got brave enough I would drop them off at Goodwill and if I drove around with them for a long time and still couldn't bring myself to donate them, I would simply bring them back in the house and hang them back up and just keep them. I drove around with them for a few weeks and then one day I just zipped into Goodwill and dropped them off and it was surprisingly a lot easier to do than I had thought it would be. So I totally understand why this man found it difficult to get rid of his mother's clothes. But I hope he realizes that getting rid of her clothes does not mean he is getting rid of the memories of her. He will still have all of those. BTW, I have to ask. HOW BIG WAS THAT CLOSET?
Hey, as someone that shops at Goodwill, please know it means a LOT to be able to wear nice clothes for a tiny price. I got a really good job after interviewing in a Goodwill suit.❤
@@ShellyS2060 That is my experience also. When you have extremely little money, these places are lifesavers. I still go when I can, because while I am no longer destitute, I live on a pension and I don't have much to spare. Donations can make such a difference in people's lives!
Prefer the classic clothing and bed linens in natural earth grown fibers. They "vibrate" with high energies for us. 100% linen is at 5000 units, organic cotton =100 (matching human resonance 100). Cotton = 80, linen blended with cotton cancels the high resonance. Silk is quite low at 30. A woman from Japan tested the various fabrics. This strange info was heard on a short vid Dr. (Naturopath) Shanael Wolverton's channel. *using a linen top sheet at night makes me feel comfort.
Sorry for your loss and glad you could finally let go. Wearing my mom's shawl, i just lost her couple months ago. ❤
@@colleengiese I am checking this out for sure! Super interesting!
I'm also autistic and I feel so much relief when you put things in order or come back to place boxes in line. Very good job, I love watching your videos and it's like me hearing myself when you talk to your son LOL you have a new subscriber. I wish I had so many coins to count.
Let me not send a hug from Spain.
What a Time Capsule! The toys and books were the same types of things we cleared out of my mom's house....over 60's years of accumulated stuff. We had the time to sort through the mess; set aside items for various auctioneers who specialized in toys, model kits, model trains, appliances, and home goods to get the best prices we could get (yes, they take a cut, but they hauled the items away); donated clean usable items to charity; and still filled about five 20-yard dumpsters with junk.
We had that encyclopedia set! My mother bought them book by book at the A & P grocery store until we had the complete set.
Wow, I need those closets…they are like magic voids. The volume of stuff they were holding!!
5:03 ... It's 🎵Howdy Doody Time 🎵 it's Howdy Doody Time 🎶🤠. I was 4 yrs old when that was on TV 📺.
Looks like this house once was full of kids and full of fun!
My house is full of toys and board games and video games… but no any kids at all. 😢
"The Ugly Daschund" book had to be from 1965. My sister, brother, and I all saw the movie when it came out.
@@JeupePaolaZavala but hopefully some good memories?
I was thinking the same thing! So many toys, games, and puzzles!
Lucky young man to have so many toys and games and things when he was young. All toys, paintings and lots books worth money for sure.
I’m trying to watch every one of your videos at least once. Not only are they motivating to rid the house of clutter so it’s not someone else’s problem some day, but because of your generosity! It’s amazing that you buy needed items for the homes you clean, but also for other cleaning channels that do free cleans. It’s wonderful that there are decent human beings still left in this world! Seeing all the stuff you’re pulling from the closet reminds me of my childhood!! Although I didn’t see a strawberry shortcake doll ha!!
WOW! Watching you clear out these spaces gives me deja vu. I've cleared out my grandmother's storage unit. I'm slowly clearing out my mother's home (she is still living), and then when I come home from purging, I look around my house and then do the same thing.
It's an absolutely exhausting process thinking about the YEAR the item comes from and recollecting what/when/who/how I was doing back then and dealing with memories. It's amazing what items people choose to fill up their hearths & heads. Thank you for both motivating me to continue and talking me through the process as I move forward.
My mother in law is like this. Closeted hoarder (in literal term). All the closets and a spare bedroom in her house is jammed packed with stuff. Her 2 car garage is also full of boxes stacked to the ceiling with only one narrow way to get to the front. She keeps all her children's baby clothes, toys and books. Her youngest is 43 and has a 10 year old daughter. She now keeps that granddaughter's gifts, pictures, everything she could get. And she keeps buying seasonal/holiday decorations - any holidays esp. Christmas. Her kitchen cupboards are tetris-worthy with all sizes and patterns of plates and glasses/tumblers/goblets for different holidays or birthdays. The original shelves sagged because they were just particle board, and I replaced them a few years ago with solid pine board, for fear that one day she'd be getting avalanche of dinnerware. I tried and offered to organize the cabinets but it only lasted for 4 hours before she stopped me because she had separation anxiety even though nothing was taken away, just categorized to the frequency of use. Now I am the opposite of her, a minimalist and ever since that, I have a suppressed anxiety whenever I go to her house and open one of those cupboards.
I see these videos, of this man's home, as a permanent record of everything that built a lifetime of love and memories for him. A very special gift, indeed. Wishing him the Best of Luck for the Future and plenty more Blessings.
I had that same Chinese checkers board, with glass marbles, it was so much fun! I can practically smell the books, too. And the kitchen drawer pulls and cabinet door hinges took me right back to my parent's house, we had the same ones in our kitchen -- same with the Corelle dishes, wow. Thank you so much for recording all of this.
_I just wept & wept for watching my childhood come to life in 2023. It made for the greatest Christmas gift because there's no one left to share it with anymore. Thanks a million._
I hope he feels so much better & able to continue getting his health under control, but I also hope he can keep up with the house now. Unbelievable how much you guys cleaned out!!! Great job 👍
This is amazing! What a treasure trove! I see stuff that my little sister had in the 70s and stuff my kids had in the 80s. Lawn jarts 😊 we used to have so much fun when we would come home to visit my folks. I tell ya, it would have taken me a month to get through that one closest. I would wind up playing with everything. And the Golden Books 🥰 our kids had loads of them.
The artist in the house did, what appears to be, some nice work.
So many treasures! I see my childhood in that closet- things I had as a kid and things I wanted. You and your son are a blessing to these folks that need your help! The clothes is the easiest part to get rid of but I learned from my grandma to “check the pockets” she hid her jewelry in her pockets- the logic was a thief will never check her pockets.
My grandmother found money sewn into her father’s coat linings….good thing she checked!
Seeing all the old books was the highlight for me! So many I remember from my childhood.❤
Oh my God, I had that Golden Book Encyclopedia set! Recognized that image of Jefferson on the cover as soon as you picked up the stack. (In my age defense, I did get a lot of things handed down from my three older siblings, one of whom is 9 years older than I, so..... eh, who am I kidding, I'm older than the dirt in that closet.
Kira, I recognized the Teddy Roosevelt cover!
What an incredible job! I hope, the gentleman, you helped found home more comfortable ❤ Your humor is priceless as always. God bless!
Oh my gosh. We had those encyclopedias. You got them at the grocery store each week until,you got the full set. These closets brought back lots of childhood memories. Yeah, I am really old
This was like watching the ‘boy’ version of my childhood. You can tell that this family was very focused on their child(ten) and took extremely good care of their items.
I was kind of aching thinking of all of these things going into a dumpster. MANY of those toys are worth a lot of money. But I do understand the scope and putting the metal Health of the owner first.
But those books! Homeschool families would have loved those!!!
Jason needs to start a side business selling the crazy stuff you find and helping folks make repairs to their homes!
As someone currently dealing with my parents farm (multiple barns and a house!) I also saved the KISS 8 track!
Wow, some of those books are such classics!
I understand your limitations in decluttering and am so glad you are able to help this man with his house.
I applaud you for the work you do. My grandmother was a hoarder. I remember bailing out her basement when it flooded 3 times in 10 years and having to throw so much stuff away. I think that experience is what has helped me to reexamine my own relationship with material possessions. I see some hoarding tendencies in my mother and I don't want my daughter to have to go through what I will have to go through when my mother passes to get the house cleaned out.
Wow! You and your team took on a Herculean task! Sometimes it takes someone from outside the family and removed emotionally from the stuff, to purge and make progress. Awesome job! Beautiful artwork you uncovered, btw. The artist was very gifted. Thanks for sharing.
I had that exact calligraphy kit, wow, memory unlocked! Gonna go rock myself in a corner while I ride out the wave of nostalgia.
I collect Hargrove oil paintings. Mainly covered bridges since I am from Indiana. Those painting were really nice. I know that picture frames are expensive so I would sell them if I didn't need them. He probably had enough things, and change, to retire on! Another great job by you and your dear son!
I had to clean out my parents' clean non-hoarded house after they died 20 years ago. It was still a huge amount of work. And a very emotional situation as well. You get decision fatigue about what to keep and what to toss. It's just really hard. If you have stuff that is too good to throw out there are charities that will send out a truck and take almost everything. I called Goodwill, they even took my father's bowling balls. Salvation Army also has a truck service. Habitat for Humanity might. There are non religious charities as well. I think Lupus will pick up a ton of stuff, as will some veterans organizations. There are estate clear out services as well. They may not take a lot of stuff but they will take stuff they can resell. Depending on your neighborhood sometimes just leaving stuff out overnight will make it disappear. (I still feel bad that I had to get rid of some of my mother's stuff that she really loved.)
Hi Mac, love the video, it was a trip to see everything that came from the closet. Have you, by any chance, ever watched the antique nomad? He is a L goofy, but a super smart well educated guy who absolutely knows antiques of all types of. I think it would be a fun one to watch - especially with all the declutterring you do. Best always! Vicki in San Antonio 😊🌻
You really did major work on this one. Even providing organization for his clothes and pretty much everything! I bet he feels such relief, and the ability to even think clearer.
I feel for this gentleman that inherited this house. I was in a very similar situation. Had depression, lost my mom in 2003. She was a slight hoarder, but because we moved like once a year, it kept the massively extra down. I had to go through her stuff by myself. Then my dad passed away in 2016. He was a hoarder that had remained in his home from 1973-2016. I had to clean up his house as well. He had a 5 bedroom house, one 5 car garage, then also a 6 car garage and shed. 2 overhead attics that were full. I have hoarding tendencies as well, so this was a really tough job for me. I moved from this house and it took 2 years to go through the stuff. I tend not to trust others to go through my stuff, so I did it myself. I should have let someone do it for me. It would have saved so much time.
I always look for natural wood frames for my art, I paint watercolors. Artists could use them. Or framers. Great job!
Love seeing the amazing results and hope this man enjoys his home
This video really brought me back to the 70's. It was really fun to see the contents of those closets. The paintings were beautiful. I wonder if his mom was an artist. I laughed every time you guys found another bowling ball. haha
I can't believe the amazing stuff you found in that closet, 8 track tapes...I haven't seen those in years. I'm actually old enough to know what they are. My grandparents had a huge collection of them. This would've been so fun and interesting to go through all that cool stuff.
Oh man. I want that wooden shoe lamp! Looking at those books is a real stroll through memory lane.
Thank you so much for showing us some of the stuff! I totally enjoyed that! Broke my heart a little too! (We really do call him "Johnny won't put up with it" here in Austin) LoL Mac Davis "Baby baby don't get hooked on me" OMG....the Alexander children's book! I had that one! Yep...you just dated this closet! The ceramic Christmas tree is highly collectible right now also. This one was a little tough emotionally for me...which is weird...no attachment. I have seen other things in other homes you have done that I also owned, but this one touched me. Ooo I saw an MRE in the stock car closet. Hands down the best part of this video (aside from helping the owner) is the last two frames! Have a great week!
Golden Book Encyclopedias! I just loved mine. I loved the covers and I read them. I learned the 5 positions of ballet from them.
That closet was like a window into my past! So many of those things were items we had or I played with as a child. Super cool!
Great video as usual! I absolutely love the way you narrate and time lapse your videos! To top that, your sense of humor keeps me in stitches 😅😅😅😅😅
I hope that the gentleman that you're cleaning for gets better. I know, it's really hard to lose loved ones. I wish everyone all the best!
My parents both passed with less than 2 years of obe another. I inherited their small hoarder house, it is also in pretty bad disrepair. I'm an only child, with no other living family and its overwhelming because I'm on my own trying to sort and go through cleaning it all out. I've been trying to take it one room at a time but they were both hoarders and were sufferibg both in mental and physical health for the last few years of their lives. There is just so much and this house holds a lot of trauma for me I've not been able to make it to the worst of it yet. My dad's shop barely has walking space with tools, hardware, books, paperwork, equipment, literally everything he ever thought might be useful for more than 40 years. No mail for at least the last decade was ever thrown away, no paperwork, taxes, or receipts were ever thrown away. I really understand the struggle with this owners mothers clothing, I've not been able to face my moms things yet, facing her packed closet was so emotional and hard, I've not been able to sort through all her things yet. I really really need some help and am trying to not get too depressed and overwhelmed by it as I'm currently recovering from a mental health crisis myself. I just have no idea how I am going to be able to do it all. If you could recommend anyone/services in Southern Oklahoma that could help I would be forever grateful. Thank you so much for your videos and the care and empathy you give towards mental health awareness. I wish more people would be willing to help others as you do without passing judgment.
Oh Amber, I'm so sorry for your loss and what you have been through. :( I hope you feel a litte bit better at the moment? Do you have a good friend, who could support you or is there something like a local help center or social center, who you can ask for help? (I'm so sorry that I couldn't be THE support that you needed but I live in Germany) I wish you all the best 🌻
Love how you guys work together to help clean up the house 🏡✨️❤️🧡💛
The lidless mushroom canister you put the change in hit me right in the mostalgia. My mom had the full set lined up neatly on the kitchen counter of my childhood home. As a kid I hated those canisters, but now I find myself missing them. Not enough to want to hunt down my own set of mushroom canisters, but I think it's more of a bittersweet thing. I miss them, and there are fond memories (of game nights and family meals piled in the kitchen), but I'm alright with letting the past remain where it's at.
I need to thank you, Dude. You motivated me to begin spring cleaning... and that means throwing out stuff that I have been holding on to. I had to downsize and the clutter was driving me mad. I have only just begun and have to take it slowly. I sit down when I get tired, then continue when my energy gets back up. You do a great job.
Wow that Lite Brite at 5:30 ! 🫨 Tons of 1970s childhood memories right there. 😊
AAAAAAA I own that EXACT SAME "Good Decorating & Home Improvement" book -- bought at a thrift store years ago, and holy cow it is SPECTACULAR. Half the decor in it is legit amazing, and the other half is "no, seriously, what the helllllll."
I love your description, I may have to keep an eye out for it in thrift stores
Keep the most treasured items.
Thank you so much for showing us that closet. Rich with valued items.
Aww the stuffed Tigger is in great condition. A small child in a shelter would love ❤️ it. Great job as usual!