Me and this guy been friends since high school.I told him that I want to take things slow but he said we still can do adult things but said he was playing about it after I asked him. Last week I was trying to get to know him better asking him some questions he asked me am I done with the interviews then laughed at me l felt some type of way about it.Then he said he loves me and will always still have feelings for me since high school even if we don't get into a relationship. He takes me out to get something to eat but we sit in the car to eat our food or just sit in the car to talk. He sometimes want to see me at night around 11pm when it suppose to be at 5 something for us to go out some where he keeps making up excuses for not showing up on time.I make up excuses to not seeing him at night when he ask me.I had told him I wanted for us to go out more during the day.He still does the same stuff over.He even told me he want to go to the club with his guy friend. I told him you only go to the club if you're single so then I ask him why he wants to go to the club all the time for?.He said to hang with his friends.Why he says he want to go to the club after he done said he loves me.He is pressuring me to say l love you when I'm not ready yet.We haven't been on a date yet and doesn't want nobody else to have me or look at me.Then he said he was playing about the club thing.He told me he don't like using condoms because he is allergic to them, but that was a lie.He even said his baby mother still have feelings for him when everytime he drops the baby off to her house. Then 11pm yesterday he text me to come outside I had text him no because I was out with friends today. After that he text me "are you busy Tina" I was highly upset I told him that's not my name, but he said "lol he meant to put tomorrow in my text not Tina that's my cousin's name" as he claim.I didn't text him back after that, so he then text back "I told her about you as well" .What should I do? Then he said "he thought he earned sex from me because I'm his forever", but his actions don't match up with his words.He says "that if I ever cheat on him he would cheat on me back". I need advice on what should I do ?
Tamara Johnson you need to find another guy. Actions are more important than words. He has a child with another girl and he's allergic to condoms. Protect your heart, mind, body and spirit. You have your whole life ahead of you. Always pay attention to actions, always. Having sex with him will make you more attached and it will be more difficult to have clarity about him. There will always be time for relationships. At this time in your life, its important to have a good foundation, a plan for what you want your future to look like. Its way more difficult to get a higher education when you are raising a baby because of time, energy and expenses. Dont let some guy sweet talk you into anything you dont want to do.
I guess it’s just me then I’d like my partner to think I’m perfect all the time- and the guy I have a crush on I think he’s perfect all the time too, for me anyway he is perfect in his own way.
bo ra I don't think you really can make him feel love for you. It's something that he has to feel innately, naturally. This might sound a bit weird, but guys unconsciously want a mothering-like figure in the woman they most care about. This means unconditional and nonjudgmental love, even when he's not in his best state of mind.
I have a question and I hope you can answer this. there is a girl in my class I like and she is somewhat of a shy girl and I am really shy myself. But I have multiple problems: I'm something between a geek and a nerd, I have harry potter like glasses, and the biggest problem I tried to ask a other girl in class when I liked that girl, but now after a couple of months I like the girl I like now. How can I be actually sucessful this time?
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I feel like everyone I meet only cares to play games and will not open up lol
A guy who opens up a lot, not most of the men do that, when someone is vulnerable to a girl, that is love
Like the way you express yourselve The others just drag it onnnn. Get to the point! 👍
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Me and this guy been friends since high school.I told him that I want to take things slow but he said we still can do adult things but said he was playing about it after I asked him. Last week I was trying to get to know him better asking him some questions he asked me am I done with the interviews then laughed at me l felt some type of way about it.Then he said he loves me and will always still have feelings for me since high school even if we don't get into a relationship. He takes me out to get something to eat but we sit in the car to eat our food or just sit in the car to talk. He sometimes want to see me at night around 11pm when it suppose to be at 5 something for us to go out some where he keeps making up excuses for not showing up on time.I make up excuses to not seeing him at night when he ask me.I had told him I wanted for us to go out more during the day.He still does the same stuff over.He even told me he want to go to the club with his guy friend. I told him you only go to the club if you're single so then I ask him why he wants to go to the club all the time for?.He said to hang with his friends.Why he says he want to go to the club after he done said he loves me.He is pressuring me to say l love you when I'm not ready yet.We haven't been on a date yet and doesn't want nobody else to have me or look at me.Then he said he was playing about the club thing.He told me he don't like using condoms because he is allergic to them, but that was a lie.He even said his baby mother still have feelings for him when everytime he drops the baby off to her house. Then 11pm yesterday he text me to come outside I had text him no because I was out with friends today. After that he text me "are you busy Tina" I was highly upset I told him that's not my name, but he said "lol he meant to put tomorrow in my text not Tina that's my cousin's name" as he claim.I didn't text him back after that, so he then text back "I told her about you as well" .What should I do?
Then he said "he thought he earned sex from me because I'm his forever", but his actions don't match up with his words.He says "that if I ever cheat on him he would cheat on me back". I need advice on what should I do ?
Tamara Johnson you need to find another guy. Actions are more important than words.
He has a child with another girl and he's allergic to condoms. Protect your heart, mind, body and spirit. You have your whole life ahead of you. Always pay attention to actions, always. Having sex with him will make you more attached and it will be more difficult to have clarity about him. There will always be time for relationships. At this time in your life, its important to have a good foundation, a plan for what you want your future to look like. Its way more difficult to get a higher education when you are raising a baby because of time, energy and expenses. Dont let some guy sweet talk you into anything you dont want to do.
Tamara Johnson RUN
I guess it’s just me then I’d like my partner to think I’m perfect all the time- and the guy I have a crush on I think he’s perfect all the time too, for me anyway he is perfect in his own way.
What books do you read sir
Experience
so how to make him feel that way ? and be who he realy is ?
bo ra I don't think you really can make him feel love for you. It's something that he has to feel innately, naturally.
This might sound a bit weird, but guys unconsciously want a mothering-like figure in the woman they most care about.
This means unconditional and nonjudgmental love, even when he's not in his best state of mind.
@@the-chipette are you a guy? If so, what if in this case their mother smothered them..?
I have a question and I hope you can answer this. there is a girl in my class I like and she is somewhat of a shy girl and I am really shy myself. But I have multiple problems: I'm something between a geek and a nerd, I have harry potter like glasses, and the biggest problem I tried to ask a other girl in class when I liked that girl, but now after a couple of months I like the girl I like now. How can I be actually sucessful this time?
what does it mean when he wants to wait to get merried one to get our shyt together and two possibly 30?
This here is facts
What does it mean if my boyfriend tells me not to touch him ?
Very much illusion