It's called childhood abandonment trauma. Which has a tremendous impact upon a child psyche. So when you get into a relationship this behaviour comes out. The inner child is searching for that adult parent to take care of those needs you didn't get as a child. There's a lot of people in this world that deal with this. You have to go back to your childhood in order to heal from this. Your past is the root cause of this attachment trauma. People please read about this. This is what I went through and now I'm healing from it.
I've been married for 18 years and have lots of anger inside of me. I asked God to help me to forgive my husband from cheating on me with many women ; however when I see him again, I am very overwhelmed, frustrated, and angry. When he is not home, I am at peace. What should I do? He is in the process of moving out.
You are so right. I dont like him. But we have fun when things are good I seen the red flags early. That's is y hes upset that I dont wanna be in a RELATIONSHIP the way he want. I rejected almostc3yrs now. But he wont go anywhere. And begin that I'm a loner. He seems to be the only one who tries to enjoy our time when noone else seems to care so that's y it's hard to let go. Bot cuz of love but thru comfort. Ik we will never have an healthy relationship. Hes all F'D up due to childhood expo. N his immature views on things. But. Hes gonna miss a good friend. I gotta let go of 2 ppl. 1 family member who DISHONERD me n 2. Wont let go. Those to put me in a bad emotional state.
Its the lack of self love and self worth, women must love their self and learn to be alone, been though this and now I am single and putting all my faith and trust in God. Amen
Lord have mercy. Smh. I thank my Alpha Omega for delivering me from a previous relationship. If it didn’t kill me I would have killed myself! It was the most disruptive experience of my entire life and it took me almost 2 years to release. You don’t know how good it feels to have my liberty back. Now, he’s begging me to come back. AINT NO WAY! I worked so hard to get where I am. My Lord and Savior broke that chain and made it easy to resist and feel no desire for this man. I refuse to allow him or any other to kill my spirit and assassinate my soul. I was presented with a Gift during this whole ordeal... beauty for my ashes. I became closer to God and received the spirit of tongues. It was for my good and I learned so much about The Body of Christ. Those of you out there who are grieving failed relationships and enduring the torture will be made whole again. The battle is in your mind! But you will get through it if you faint NOT!
ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW...I FEEL SOMETIMES IF I KILL MYSELF ITS THE ONLY WAY TO RELIEVE MYSELF FROM THE PAIN I FEEL EVERY DAY BEING MARRIED TO THIS EXTREMELY NEGLECTFUL BOY MAN.IM A HUMAN THAT NEED LOVE AND HUMAN TOUCH...HOW DO I SURVIVE ANOTHER DAY?
@@theythinkidontknow1975 I pray for you dearest .Listen Pray and seek God and get Councelling. This is so sad .I Know despite the many theories on marriage .I know God is a loving father who will not want anyone of his children being tortured by abuse .God is just not like that .I am praying for you . Love you sister.
Bev Gayle oo i agree. ...i think that is idolatry...is very crucial cause when you are doing good to please God...knowing Father is a jealous God you should be able let go of anything He is not pleased with...all ppl need Father's love and if it isn't sexual be that sis in Christ..and just love....thank you for this vevo..
I was in a relationship prison for almost 7 years. I thank God everyday for delivering me out of that awful bondage! It was definitely idolatry for me. 🏃 behind a soul tie. I thought, I would never get over him. Satan had a ballgame in my life during those almost 7 years!
@kayeC 53 mine lasted 15 years of prison! On and off and off and on and emotional roller coasters. All bc i really thought it was going to work out. I just kept hoping in the impossible. Geez....i really did wonder about myself for a very long time!
It is a trauma bond that they have created with you, almost like the Stockholm syndrome where you fall in love with your captors. I just started therapy for narcissistic personality disorder abuse and although I don't think I learned as much there as I do from you I'm hoping that it will help get me over this man. God bless you and thank you for everything that you do in my life. You touched the lives of millions and I thank God for you.
I am so happy the Lord led me to you!! I was literally praying just last night for the pain within me to stop and I even said out loud that if it's something I've done to deserve what I've been through in my relationships make me aware so I can ask forgiveness and do better. And boom you popped up on my home page as a suggestion about 20 mins later.. God is sooooo good!!! Bless you sir, I appreciate you speaking out. You are most definitely reaching people!!
Praise God I found this video tonight, this word is mighty, breaking soul ties is real, the perversion was a strong hold, I pray for the Holy Spirit to break all ties! ❤
He will sister...it's a very hard road and takes time...but our God is faithful and He will answer that prayer. Keep drawing close to Him and be in His Word. You will feel His peace and love. You are the cherished daughter of a King and a victory is ours in Jesus Christ. Cover your mind and heart with His blood.
I am not a Christian but for the last year I've been watching your videos and it has made ready in the name of God to let go of my soul tie. I have cut off blocked and isolated and its hard as he but there's no turning back. Thank you brother
even tho I love him that doesn't mean Im staying with him I understand Thats part of the break up stage I really don't need some one else's man or husband
I need this my spiritual dad. I thank you amd love you. Watching u has healed so many areas of my life and opened my eyes. One i didn't expect is feeling the love of a father. I truly appreciate you for making us feel so cared for and loved like daughter's. God bless you.
Dear friend it's a important topic! And it's a mix of codependency addiction and hope. When a woman love she don't switch off her love the very first year of trouble. She try to find solution. And it takes time for a woman to see the toxic bonding she is in.she don't let go fast.she is hoping and that is a big part why woman have difficulties for leaving..maybe the same for men...but I can only speak on the behalf of wimen❤
Nina i so agree only bc i found myself believing in HIS future. I wanted to be a "help meet" in his life. We had so much in common. He has so much talent in the entertainment world but he kept sabotaging himself over and over again. He never had any "fruit" , no "results" from all the things he was investing his time in. I was walking a dark path when we met so that didn't help matters. He hung in there with me through my living hell and so i wanted to show my appreciation for every time he was there for me being the "good guy". What i didn't know that it was all a sham a smoking mirror if you will. I hung in there as long as i could but when he turned to other woman ( bc i wouldn't have sex with him) or left the state too many times either for himself or someone else....i knew i had to start focusing on Myself.
Low/No Self Worth as well as Soul Ties/ Strong Holds play a Major Role. Im Speaking from my Past TRUTH. When I had an EPIPHANY and got Closer to GOD he enabled me to Realize and Understand the Root to my Issues. I Woke up and began to Self Love and Delete nit only No Good Guys but People period🙏
I like how your chats are very personalised and I feel like you reach out to me and talk to me real and blunt. You don’t get that from family and friends sometimes. It’s like getting advice and someone jolting your mind to wake up! Thankyou I appreciate your videos x
That's the era we are in now where we settle for a relationship which is based on purely physical connection. There are no soul ties. No emotional connection at all. And one may get misled to believe that sex equal love and emotion but reality is that sex is just it. Nothing else.
So easy to get caught up in an unhealthy relationship these days simply because there is a demonic spirit that is going after the sick in heart and mind! Someone shared with me once that ending a sexual relationship is like wripping the skin from your flesh! That painfu! It can happen to anyone because the devil roams around looking for who he can devour!! Pastor Blake's you are annointed and empowered by God at this appointed time because the need is so great! I continue to share your videos! Thank you so much for answering the call! We appreciate and love you in Christ, so very much. God bless you 🙏💝😇
Wow and was i ever "sick in the heart and mind" ! He smelled it a mile away and jumped on the change to cash in. I am so glad i got the help i needed and no longer am needy for His help! Although he still comes into my mind and grabs hold of my emotions every now and then.....I Now know i am First best, that I matter and that I am important AND i really am a "Queen"
This is my first time hearing Pastor Blake and what a Powerful word spoken at such a time as this women if you have been broken, broke down, beat up, and abandon this is old powerful word that you need to hear it will change your life.
Thank you Pastor. I think of you as a dad that I never had. I wept from the first time I heard you speak, but I then realized how blessed I am, so I wipe my tears away and I listen up INTENSELY. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
This is serious stuff. No joke. You may find yourself in a toxic relationship, then when you get the realization that this is enough abuse and you need to extricate yourself from the situation you can run into problems. Kids might not want you to leave. Spouse might threaten to kill you and himself if you leave and tell all his friends and family how wicked you are when it is he that has wronged you. It is hell to loosen oneself from a destructive soul tie.
Interestingly I used the same knot tie analogy when writing Tues Aug 22. Powerful & Relevant Message. First repent. Have no other Gods (additions/obsessions) before me. Isolation is key! Be set free. Thank you again & again
Sweet Chocolate 17 sweet chocolate,i was just going through the same thing God will deliver you God sent pastor blakes with a word to help us,praying for you sister
Wow powerful thought Darnell! It's So true....he just goes around in circles and always wants to come back to me. I have released him to God's Highest Good!
We are allowed to hurt which takes time heal, but through that healing process it gives us time to reflect on the pass and go forward to not go through that hurt again. Be strong 💪🏿
What happens Pastor is that the man likes the woman because she brings to him something nobody else does. Then he manipulates her into relationship, then manipulates her to feel helpless without him so she stays with him and then he does not take care for her.. that is what happened to me. It takes major conscious effort to get detached from him now
@Maya my heart and prayers go out to you bc i had the exact thing happen to me. When we are manipulated to such a drastic point they then go ahead and do what ever THEY want knowing we would take them back. It just disgusts me when i think how hooked i really was. So much so that... i would Literally throw up from crying and being so infected with his poison. Just like a drug addict. I am so grateful i was inspired to get the help i so desperately needed. When he witnessed my new found strength and Faith and took the keys away from Fear being in the driver's seat.... and ...was no longer in "victim" mode ....he Now has continued on and looks for other victims.
I love you Pastor RC Blake’s, and I thank God for you. I hear the voice of Jesus in your message, and I am experiencing everything you spoke of in this video. All my brothers and sisters in Christ… please pray for me. My heart and soul are broken from a demonic soul tie 😢
I needed to hear this it’s been 2 months amen man of god I love you how you explain this I’m breaking it now in Jesus Name I’m ready it’s not easy cause I’m pregnant but thank god he’s holding my hand An guiding my steps
Perfectionist Withhair I have been in your shoes but I made it through and you can too. My baby girl is now 6 years old. We are more than surviving. We are thriving. It took some time but I can assure you that there is life after seemingly death. My prayer is that you have a very blessed life filled with much love, healing, joy and peace. Keep fighting the good fight!🤗
Sharon Marie awwww thanx I Am 4 months in an doing great by the grace of god I’m 7 months now An my mane concern is a healthy baby thank you so much An continue too stay blessed
So good to hear! I'm glad. You are in a very unique situation and folks won't always understand. I really want you to stay encouraged and that baby will very healthy and will be more than a blessing to you!
I wish more pastors would talk about this. This is such an important part of life and most of the times it deviates us from God then the hardships begins because lack of communication. It’s a HELL to get out of this demonic hold.
I thiink GOD for Blessing you to bless us with your powerful messages..we as women need this ..just wish there were a lot of men out there that have the knowledge you have about relationships and women..
I have taken responsibility for stirring up my own" bowl of poison" and "tying my own knots" I was in a dark place and the guy knew it. it's called being taken advantage of when all your loose ends are exposed. He came in like the Knight In Shining Armour,, i opened the door and let him in and was in need of deeper faith in my LORD! The state of mind where weakness resides is so awful, so dark so self sabotaging that had i not reached out for help i would be dead and buried by now. I tell myself how sorry i am, to please forgive me, that i do love myself and then thank myself. This man is charming and always on the look out for the needy. He can smell you miles away. I got the help i needed and am so proud of myself and thankful to God (Jesus Christ my LORD) for the people who supported me when i just couldn't stand on my own. I have prayed over an over that this man get the help he needs as their is a huge hole in his heart that he tries to fill with trying so hard to be rich and famous. I pray he won't have the chance to do what he has done to so many unsuspecting vulnerable woman any more. That GOD would shield them from his advances . This message is so powerful. Thank you.♥
This sounds like me a widow for 4 yr he know all the right things to say and look for in a lonely person trying to let go but keep going back or letting him back in this has to stop praying every night to take the want away from me 🙏 need all the prayers I can get
I was able to let go and I had to discovered who I was. So I traveled, got away. I only opened up to God the moment I was about to do the same mistake with someone else again. Sometimes we dont see the clues the first time. He really saved me from foolishness and hell. I pray for everyone that's going through the same pain.
This may sound crazy but a devil worshipper told me my search for love will lead me into some dark places. True Godly love wouldn't do that! After years of being in a terrible relationship, I realized the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy and sexual soul ties are his specialty because the flesh is so weak. I AM thanking God universe every moment because despite what I went through. he was ALWAYS with me.
Definitely hitting home to my current situation. I am breaking chains. Your videos are very helpful and i am having truth revealed to me that i have been praying about. Thank you
Wowww, I had no idea this was one year ago. Because it was just designed and ordained with me in mind. God must've already knew I would need this message fur such a time as this. Pastor you slapped me all up side the head with this one. I confess in Jesus name that I alone opened up these demonic doors of physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse myself. Because I gave my husband more of me than I gave the Lord. And now I'm having the hardest of time getting out of this Horrible divorce because he refuses to sign the papers. But in Jesus Name, I have mentally Divorced myself out of this relationship. Pls pray for me on this trying journey!!!
I'm a physically abusive relationship, financially abusive, verbally abusive and emotionally abusive relationship. I want to leave so bad. He's trashed and ruined our home. The lease is up in twenty four days and I just want to get out. I know I'm probably going to get sued because of the house but at this point I'll face the music later. I just want to get out. I've had irons pressed against my face( turned off), nude videos leaked, my car has been wrecked and stolen. My inner lip has been busted, my contacts have been knocked out. Because of the financial abuse my credit is horrible when just a year and a half ago I had a 710. His manipulation a d narcissism he always tells me I'm all he has which is why I'm so stagnant. Keep thinking oh if I leave he won't have a place to stay etc. Everybody and anybody please pray for me. Please pray I find the courage and finances to leave. I'm just tired.
RC. Just seeing your face blesses my soul. I see Christ through and through in you and that alone comforts me. God bless you and your family more and more.
May God continue to abundantly bless you Bishop Robert Blakes. I believe this message you've spoken to reach every broken and misguided individual, God places in your mouth. Today I am free and have receive revelation from the Holy spirit. Thank you Almighty God!!!
Relationship two people in agreement to be together ! Not forcing yourself on someone who doesn't love you . Stop following them on social network ! Move on ! What it's for me can't be good for you!
Amen! I Thank God for Blessing me to get out a bad marriage. What has kept me from going back.I remind myself of what God told Lots Wife. NOT TO LOOK BACK.
"Is easy to get into, but is hell to get out of"
Say that, again!
I agree, pure hell
So, so true!!!
Amen pastor. Amen times a billion
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It's called childhood abandonment trauma. Which has a tremendous impact upon a child psyche. So when you get into a relationship this behaviour comes out. The inner child is searching for that adult parent to take care of those needs you didn't get as a child. There's a lot of people in this world that deal with this. You have to go back to your childhood in order to heal from this. Your past is the root cause of this attachment trauma. People please read about this. This is what I went through and now I'm healing from it.
Keysha Jeffrey In dealing with this as well, didn't know it at first but did my research..I will be headed to.counseling so I can be free
Point on....yes abandonment issues goes back to childhood.
Thank you
Keysha Jeffrey I’m dealing with this as well I wasn’t always attach to people some how with my ex boyfriend became like this.
I've been married for 18 years and have lots of anger inside of me. I asked God to help me to forgive my husband from cheating on me with many women ; however when I see him again, I am very overwhelmed, frustrated, and angry. When he is not home, I am at peace. What should I do? He is in the process of moving out.
So disgusting how that takes over you. You don’t even REALLY like them yet you can’t let go. 🤦🏻♀️ Thank you JESUS for saving me!
Please pray for me 😞😞
You are so right. I dont like him. But we have fun when things are good I seen the red flags early. That's is y hes upset that I dont wanna be in a RELATIONSHIP the way he want. I rejected almostc3yrs now. But he wont go anywhere. And begin that I'm a loner. He seems to be the only one who tries to enjoy our time when noone else seems to care so that's y it's hard to let go. Bot cuz of love but thru comfort. Ik we will never have an healthy relationship. Hes all F'D up due to childhood expo. N his immature views on things. But. Hes gonna miss a good friend. I gotta let go of 2 ppl. 1 family member who DISHONERD me n 2. Wont let go. Those to put me in a bad emotional state.
Definitely been here, smh.
Yes. Its demonic.
@@bklynqueen5928
You are not alone.
See how many views this video has? :)
Its the lack of self love and self worth, women must love their self and learn to be alone, been though this and now I am single and putting all my faith and trust in God. Amen
Agreed!
Amen
Lord have mercy. Smh. I thank my Alpha Omega for delivering me from a previous relationship. If it didn’t kill me I would have killed myself! It was the most disruptive experience of my entire life and it took me almost 2 years to release. You don’t know how good it feels to have my liberty back. Now, he’s begging me to come back. AINT NO WAY! I worked so hard to get where I am. My Lord and Savior broke that chain and made it easy to resist and feel no desire for this man. I refuse to allow him or any other to kill my spirit and assassinate my soul. I was presented with a Gift during this whole ordeal... beauty for my ashes. I became closer to God and received the spirit of tongues. It was for my good and I learned so much about The Body of Christ. Those of you out there who are grieving failed relationships and enduring the torture will be made whole again. The battle is in your mind! But you will get through it if you faint NOT!
Pray for me. I am in this 2 yr relationship.
Bless you sis happy you are free, God will make a way I could get as in the same boat
You spoke to be on levels that I didn’t even know I needed! Thank you Jesus. You spoke
life into me ❤️ God Bless you for staying the course
ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW...I FEEL SOMETIMES IF I KILL MYSELF ITS THE ONLY WAY TO RELIEVE MYSELF FROM THE PAIN I FEEL EVERY DAY BEING MARRIED TO THIS EXTREMELY NEGLECTFUL BOY MAN.IM A HUMAN THAT NEED LOVE AND HUMAN TOUCH...HOW DO I SURVIVE ANOTHER DAY?
@@theythinkidontknow1975 I pray for you dearest .Listen Pray and seek God and get Councelling. This is so sad .I Know despite the many theories on marriage .I know God is a loving father who will not want anyone of his children being tortured by abuse .God is just not like that .I am praying for you . Love you sister.
Powerful message. Let go of whoever you are not suppose to be with and connect to God's Will concerning your life.
Bev Gayle oo i agree. ...i think that is idolatry...is very crucial cause when you are doing good to please God...knowing Father is a jealous God you should be able let go of anything He is not pleased with...all ppl need Father's love and if it isn't sexual be that sis in Christ..and just love....thank you for this vevo..
I was in a relationship prison for almost 7 years. I thank God everyday for delivering me out of that awful bondage! It was definitely idolatry for me. 🏃 behind a soul tie. I thought, I would never get over him. Satan had a ballgame in my life during those almost 7 years!
@kayeC 53 mine lasted 15 years of prison! On and off and off and on and emotional roller coasters. All bc i really thought it was going to work out. I just kept hoping in the impossible. Geez....i really did wonder about myself for a very long time!
Trisha Taylor same here. So glad it’s over and I am free. Thank God
It is a trauma bond that they have created with you, almost like the Stockholm syndrome where you fall in love with your captors. I just started therapy for narcissistic personality disorder abuse and although I don't think I learned as much there as I do from you I'm hoping that it will help get me over this man. God bless you and thank you for everything that you do in my life. You touched the lives of millions and I thank God for you.
No loose ends in 2018 in Jesus name
Antonitte Clark AMEN!
Amen 🙏
I am so happy the Lord led me to you!! I was literally praying just last night for the pain within me to stop and I even said out loud that if it's something I've done to deserve what I've been through in my relationships make me aware so I can ask forgiveness and do better. And boom you popped up on my home page as a suggestion about 20 mins later.. God is sooooo good!!! Bless you sir, I appreciate you speaking out. You are most definitely reaching people!!
Praise God I found this video tonight, this word is mighty, breaking soul ties is real, the perversion was a strong hold, I pray for the Holy Spirit to break all ties! ❤
It’s simple why I can’t let go! I was lonely and needed to use him to get my energy up. I was essentially stealing his energy.
Soul ties are created where there are loose ends🤯
Please release me Jesus from these soul ties!!! 😫
Jesus says you're released.
He will sister...it's a very hard road and takes time...but our God is faithful and He will answer that prayer. Keep drawing close to Him and be in His Word. You will feel His peace and love. You are the cherished daughter of a King and a victory is ours in Jesus Christ.
Cover your mind and heart with His blood.
This needs more likes and more views.
Thank you Jesus for this much needed word.💯💯💯💯💯
I'm guilty of this and boy did I learn the hard way!! Thank God for evolution!
I have finally been delivered thank you Jesus ! these videos are saving lives! Thank you Pastor all the way from London!
I am not a Christian but for the last year I've been watching your videos and it has made ready in the name of God to let go of my soul tie. I have cut off blocked and isolated and its hard as he but there's no turning back. Thank you brother
even tho I love him that doesn't mean Im staying with him I understand Thats part of the break up stage I really don't need some one else's man or husband
I've watched at least 10 of your videos so far, and all of them are powerful. I've learned so much. Thank you!
Stephanie Curry DITTO! Amen!
good luck to you 😊
Me too!! 💞
Me too ☺
Woke up this morning to exactly what i needed to hear. Amen. Powerful!!
I need this my spiritual dad. I thank you amd love you. Watching u has healed so many areas of my life and opened my eyes. One i didn't expect is feeling the love of a father. I truly appreciate you for making us feel so cared for and loved like daughter's. God bless you.
Dear friend it's a important topic! And it's a mix of codependency addiction and hope. When a woman love she don't switch off her love the very first year of trouble. She try to find solution. And it takes time for a woman to see the toxic bonding she is in.she don't let go fast.she is hoping and that is a big part why woman have difficulties for leaving..maybe the same for men...but I can only speak on the behalf of wimen❤
Nina i so agree only bc i found myself believing in HIS future. I wanted to be a "help meet" in his life. We had so much in common. He has so much talent in the entertainment world but he kept sabotaging himself over and over again. He never had any "fruit" , no "results" from all the things he was investing his time in. I was walking a dark path when we met so that didn't help matters. He hung in there with me through my living hell and so i wanted to show my appreciation for every time he was there for me being the "good guy". What i didn't know that it was all a sham a smoking mirror if you will. I hung in there as long as i could but when he turned to other woman ( bc i wouldn't have sex with him) or left the state too many times either for himself or someone else....i knew i had to start focusing on Myself.
@Nina so on point agree with what you said👌🏽
Low/No Self Worth as well as Soul Ties/ Strong Holds play a Major Role. Im Speaking from my Past TRUTH. When I had an EPIPHANY and got Closer to GOD he enabled me to Realize and Understand the Root to my Issues. I Woke up and began to Self Love and Delete nit only No Good Guys but People period🙏
"The reason you are clinging to someone else is because you've not discovered your own individuality"
I like how your chats are very personalised and I feel like you reach out to me and talk to me real and blunt. You don’t get that from family and friends sometimes. It’s like getting advice and someone jolting your mind to wake up! Thankyou I appreciate your videos x
That's the era we are in now where we settle for a relationship which is based on purely physical connection. There are no soul ties. No emotional connection at all. And one may get misled to believe that sex equal love and emotion but reality is that sex is just it. Nothing else.
So easy to get caught up in an unhealthy relationship these days simply because there is a demonic spirit that is going after the sick in heart and mind! Someone shared with me once that ending a sexual relationship is like wripping the skin from your flesh! That painfu! It can happen to anyone because the devil roams around looking for who he can devour!! Pastor Blake's you are annointed and empowered by God at this appointed time because the need is so great! I continue to share your videos! Thank you so much for answering the call! We appreciate and love you in Christ, so very much. God bless you 🙏💝😇
Elizabeth Cameron
Youre ABSOLUTELY Right!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow and was i ever "sick in the heart and mind" ! He smelled it a mile away and jumped on the change to cash in. I am so glad i got the help i needed and no longer am needy for His help! Although he still comes into my mind and grabs hold of my emotions every now and then.....I Now know i am First best, that I matter and that I am important AND i really am a "Queen"
This is my first time hearing Pastor Blake and what a Powerful word spoken at such a time as this women if you have been broken, broke down, beat up, and abandon this is old powerful word that you need to hear it will change your life.
Thank you Pastor. I think of you as a dad that I never had. I wept from the first time I heard you speak, but I then realized how blessed I am, so I wipe my tears away and I listen up INTENSELY. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
My girlfriend was raped by a very dangerous and heartless person.I hate to think he spiritually attached himself to my girl.
This is serious stuff. No joke. You may find yourself in a toxic relationship, then when you get the realization that this is enough abuse and you need to extricate yourself from the situation you can run into problems. Kids might not want you to leave. Spouse might threaten to kill you and himself if you leave and tell all his friends and family how wicked you are when it is he that has wronged you. It is hell to loosen oneself from a destructive soul tie.
But it can be done
Excuse: history, kids, love. Reality: failure to recognize the toxicity and wrong of the situation.
Galina Ioffe So true.
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Yasssss!!! Beautifully said! Amen
"Isolate yourself from the poison!" #nocontact 🙏🏾❤
I’m back for a refresher. You are my spiritual father and I thank you for blessing us! 🙏🏽
This message was so timely! Thank you Pastor!
Interestingly I used the same knot tie analogy when writing Tues Aug 22.
Powerful & Relevant Message. First repent. Have no other Gods (additions/obsessions) before me. Isolation is key! Be set free.
Thank you again & again
You walking heavy sir…I love ❤️ it…thanks you!!💯⛪️👑
Amen Pastor!!! This message has TRULY hit home for me. I needed this badly. Thank you & God bless you with love!
Generation curse y I could not let go.of.no.good.manscouldnt let cause that strong hold Pastor keep giving us your 😘 that's what God wants
This is for me I have to let go but it's still not easy n I know he has moved on y am I holding on to nothing. I need strength
Thank u sir I need this video cause u are right there's one major soul tie I need to break this guy has moved on and I'm the one that's hurting .
Sweet Chocolate 17 sweet chocolate,i was just going through the same thing God will deliver you God sent pastor blakes with a word to help us,praying for you sister
Sweet Chocolate 17 same here
Wow powerful thought Darnell! It's So true....he just goes around in circles and always wants to come back to me. I have released him to God's Highest Good!
We are allowed to hurt which takes time heal, but through that healing process it gives us time to reflect on the pass and go forward to not go through that hurt again. Be strong 💪🏿
"It is 2nd nature for man to be whole and complete with himself and God." That's a Word, Man of God!
What happens Pastor is that the man likes the woman because she brings to him something nobody else does. Then he manipulates her into relationship, then manipulates her to feel helpless without him so she stays with him and then he does not take care for her.. that is what happened to me. It takes major conscious effort to get detached from him now
@Maya my heart and prayers go out to you bc i had the exact thing happen to me. When we are manipulated to such a drastic point they then go ahead and do what ever THEY want knowing we would take them back. It just disgusts me when i think how hooked i really was. So much so that... i would Literally throw up from crying and being so infected with his poison. Just like a drug addict. I am so grateful i was inspired to get the help i so desperately needed. When he witnessed my new found strength and Faith and took the keys away from Fear being in the driver's seat.... and ...was no longer in "victim" mode ....he Now has continued on and looks for other victims.
#metoo 👋
I love you Pastor RC Blake’s, and I thank God for you. I hear the voice of Jesus in your message, and I am experiencing everything you spoke of in this video. All my brothers and sisters in Christ… please pray for me. My heart and soul are broken from a demonic soul tie 😢
I needed to hear this it’s been 2 months amen man of god I love you how you explain this I’m breaking it now in Jesus Name I’m ready it’s not easy cause I’m pregnant but thank god he’s holding my hand An guiding my steps
Hang in there sister
Perfectionist Withhair I have been in your shoes but I made it through and you can too. My baby girl is now 6 years old. We are more than surviving. We are thriving. It took some time but I can assure you that there is life after seemingly death. My prayer is that you have a very blessed life filled with much love, healing, joy and peace. Keep fighting the good fight!🤗
Sharon Marie awwww thanx I Am 4 months in an doing great by the grace of god I’m 7 months now An my mane concern is a healthy baby thank you so much An continue too stay blessed
So good to hear! I'm glad. You are in a very unique situation and folks won't always understand. I really want you to stay encouraged and that baby will very healthy and will be more than a blessing to you!
Pastor Blakes, you're like the brother I never had.
I do have a brother, but he's never spoken the truth to me like you do. Thank you.
I wish more pastors would talk about this. This is such an important part of life and most of the times it deviates us from God then the hardships begins because lack of communication. It’s a HELL to get out of this demonic hold.
This is such a good message! Thanks Pastor, so many need to hear this.
This spoke to my situation
Not sure why...but these are messages are popping up for a reason. Thank You and bless God. xxoo
So well spoken that one should get healing
These videos are saving my sanity. I have a soul tie that i need to get rid of. Repent. Confess. Renew my mind with the word. Pray.
AMEN..MY GOD! 3 years of leaving and going back ,when i want to leave..when he say im sorry ..i am so done..thank GOD
It's easy looking in but when you are in it you gotta wake up and move on
Thank you for caring and sharing and how much you inspire me and you don’t even know my story! Thank you my brother in Christ!
What a blessing this was to me tonight. From Toronto Ontario. Your changing my outlook. God Bless You.
No more loose ends! 😌🔥👊
I thiink GOD for Blessing you to bless us with your powerful messages..we as women need this ..just wish there were a lot of men out there that have the knowledge you have about relationships and women..
Powerful message sir. Lose ends whoa. Thank you.
what if there's children involved? how u can break that soul tie with that person...
I have taken responsibility for stirring up my own" bowl of poison" and "tying my own knots" I was in a dark place and the guy knew it. it's called being taken advantage of when all your loose ends are exposed. He came in like the Knight In Shining Armour,, i opened the door and let him in and was in need of deeper faith in my LORD! The state of mind where weakness resides is so awful, so dark so self sabotaging that had i not reached out for help i would be dead and buried by now. I tell myself how sorry i am, to please forgive me, that i do love myself and then thank myself. This man is charming and always on the look out for the needy. He can smell you miles away. I got the help i needed and am so proud of myself and thankful to God (Jesus Christ my LORD) for the people who supported me when i just couldn't stand on my own. I have prayed over an over that this man get the help he needs as their is a huge hole in his heart that he tries to fill with trying so hard to be rich and famous. I pray he won't have the chance to do what he has done to so many unsuspecting vulnerable woman any more. That GOD would shield them from his advances . This message is so powerful. Thank you.♥
This sounds like me a widow for 4 yr he know all the right things to say and look for in a lonely person trying to let go but keep going back or letting him back in this has to stop praying every night to take the want away from me 🙏 need all the prayers I can get
Amen! No loose ends in 2018! Hallelujah! Thx you again Pastor Blake! Bless you& yours!🙏💕
I needed to hear this word. Thank you Pastor! Thank you for being a blessing to so many.🙏
I pray someday I can join you guys for Sunday service 🙏🏾 for now So thankful for your word through TH-cam
U speaking to me going thru it right with my husband
Jessica Ellis same
This was right on time
It's toxic, depressing, poisonous, and it's spiritual bacteria.
I was able to let go and I had to discovered who I was. So I traveled, got away. I only opened up to God the moment I was about to do the same mistake with someone else again. Sometimes we dont see the clues the first time. He really saved me from foolishness and hell. I pray for everyone that's going through the same pain.
Thank you for sharing your gift!!! Blessings
Wow I wish I saw this when I decided to go back to my abusive ex for the 4th time!!!!! Dammm! Better late than never !
This may sound crazy but a devil worshipper told me my search for love will lead me into some dark places. True Godly love wouldn't do that! After years of being in a terrible relationship, I realized the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy and sexual soul ties are his specialty because the flesh is so weak. I AM thanking God universe every moment because despite what I went through. he was ALWAYS with me.
Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight.
The way you said " You got issues" 😅 I love it..
Reconnecting with God and the power of prayer. These videos Saved Me.. 🙌🙌💪💪
Your words are speaking to me Pastor Blakes, I have been in this situation for 15 years, God help me.
Mr. Blakes, THANK YOU!!! I've listened to quite a few TH-cam messagers of peace from the Love of God. God is speaking through you.
Great word Pastor thank you.💜
I just discovered your channel..and I really appreciate this word from God..Thank you
Definitely hitting home to my current situation. I am breaking chains. Your videos are very helpful and i am having truth revealed to me that i have been praying about. Thank you
Mannnn no wonder I'm so F up!! #Jesussavemysoul 🙏
Ruffian Mathieu He will just mean it from ur heart ! God will come thru fa u ! Its a promise !
Ruffian Mathieu We ALL fall short. Don't just lay down in it! Get up, dust yourself off and try again! #HESAVES
Psychotic and demonic is RIGHT. Leave and pray to God to never return. Amen.
Wowww, I had no idea this was one year ago. Because it was just designed and ordained with me in mind. God must've already knew I would need this message fur such a time as this. Pastor you slapped me all up side the head with this one. I confess in Jesus name that I alone opened up these demonic doors of physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse myself. Because I gave my husband more of me than I gave the Lord. And now I'm having the hardest of time getting out of this Horrible divorce because he refuses to sign the papers. But in Jesus Name, I have mentally Divorced myself out of this relationship. Pls pray for me on this trying journey!!!
I'm a physically abusive relationship, financially abusive, verbally abusive and emotionally abusive relationship. I want to leave so bad. He's trashed and ruined our home. The lease is up in twenty four days and I just want to get out. I know I'm probably going to get sued because of the house but at this point I'll face the music later. I just want to get out. I've had irons pressed against my face( turned off), nude videos leaked, my car has been wrecked and stolen. My inner lip has been busted, my contacts have been knocked out. Because of the financial abuse my credit is horrible when just a year and a half ago I had a 710. His manipulation a d narcissism he always tells me I'm all he has which is why I'm so stagnant. Keep thinking oh if I leave he won't have a place to stay etc. Everybody and anybody please pray for me. Please pray I find the courage and finances to leave. I'm just tired.
Brittney Berry sending you strength and prayers.
God bless you and thank you for talking about this and helping so many women get free!
Spoken with truth and power!
Amen Daddy Blakes...I receive it..When you can love and accept God whole heartily you can love others correctly...
RC. Just seeing your face blesses my soul. I see Christ through and through in you and that alone comforts me. God bless you and your family more and more.
Very well stated. Perfect metaphor with the shoelace and knots. 👏🏿
May God continue to abundantly bless you Bishop Robert Blakes. I believe this message you've spoken to reach every broken and misguided individual, God places in your mouth. Today I am free and have receive revelation from the Holy spirit. Thank you Almighty God!!!
Great Word! I really needed to hear that. Thank you 💛
Caught this video at the perfect timing in my life. So strong, powerful and true. It hit home and was much needed. Thank you so much. Jah bless.
Thank you pastor for speaking according to the will of our Father. You are a blessing I thank God for leading me to your videos.
Relationship two people in agreement to be together ! Not forcing yourself on someone who doesn't love you . Stop following them on social network ! Move on ! What it's for me can't be good for you!
Beautiful analogy with regard to the knots
Stephanie Pinkelton Bows vs. Knots...I love it!
Thank You Sir. God's richest blessing continually be yours.
Another powerful message! Thank you for being obedient and sharing knowledge we all need! God Bless You and your ministry!
Sir I continue to follow you and have learned. So much. Bless you my brother and your wife.
This was so to the point and excellent!!!
Soul ties this is a powerful word !!!!
Amen! I Thank God for Blessing me to get out a bad marriage. What has kept me from going back.I remind myself of what God told Lots Wife. NOT TO LOOK BACK.