Fake LIfe & Fake Friends in Lagos FT Lydia Balogun | Surviving Lagos Podcast S1E3

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  • Experience living in one of the busiest cities in africa, through the eyes of teen star actor and influencer Susan pwajok and her hosts, in this feel good bubbly podcast.
    #survivinglagos #geng #TheGeng #glitchafrica #susanpwajok
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  • @SusanPwajok
    @SusanPwajok ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Also “Surviving Lagos” isn’t an interview !
    It’s just me talking to people about topics & also sharing my side too, in real time & real life, but with cameras.

    • @patrickrumbu2902
      @patrickrumbu2902 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think you interrupted unnecessarily, won't call it interruptions sef but interjections. .you doing well..do not let a few observations true or not dim you
      Bleh Bleh Johnson! 😁

    • @sose9601
      @sose9601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a very defensive comment.
      CEO's have a board of directors,to help them see through different lenses, likewise small and medium Scale business owners ask their trusted mentors.
      You in a public space and many voices are coming through
      Filter,go back to the drawing board and self improve.
      We are all a work in progress.

  • @livingasayo
    @livingasayo ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lydia's voice is so satisfying... Arrghhh

  • @Unwashadow
    @Unwashadow ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Was so happy to watch this episode.
    We just need to be careful out there, Lagos is a jungle in fact everywhere.

  • @iretioluwacraig2939
    @iretioluwacraig2939 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Saw Lydia and clicked, she always speaks intelligently

  • @emmanuelororho7455
    @emmanuelororho7455 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Surely there's tons of room for improvement, but still I can't help but love the podcast. Susan is such a sweetheart. Lydia is also super amazing. Loved it !!

  • @Ese_oy
    @Ese_oy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great show!❤️
    Anticipating episode 4😍

  • @stephiniedatubo2651
    @stephiniedatubo2651 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First time watching and I have to say Lydia seems like that big sister everyone needs,I just love how calculated and articulate she is before she speaks. Bless her,Susan should do well and have her back on the podcast.

  • @fatimahshd7012
    @fatimahshd7012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t wait.... Here for Lydia❤️

  • @onlysamuel1
    @onlysamuel1 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Lydia obviously is an intelligent young woman and that's a fact or at least drawing conclusions from this episode. However I felt like the experiences she mentioned has a lot of holes making it difficult for the average person to understand. I get that she wants to be low-key and she doesn't want unnecessary drama but I feel like she could've presented her experiences in a more engaging manner. Overall, this episode was Amazing. A job well done to Susan as always!!👍👍

  • @ogenglishchat9502
    @ogenglishchat9502 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wasn't sure I was gonna enjoy this, but I did. Nice one!🙌🏿

  • @maboduke
    @maboduke ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loving this podcast so much!

  • @omtiam
    @omtiam ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I completely agree with being an only child thing! I'm an only child and definitely think I clung to friendships I shouldn't have because I wanted to feel close to others in a "sisterly" way. Also agree with Lydia that alottt of people don't know how to communicate. You would think because you're friends they would but nope....they don't. #FAKE

  • @arat5388
    @arat5388 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this was sm fun to watch, Susan abeg keep it up it wasn't an interview, it's okay for you to talk your talk.. yess you'll get feedback from us and that's what will contribute to your growth! so just keep doing you! Lydia is an interesting personality 😂 this was so fun 😭

  • @ruthchindo8360
    @ruthchindo8360 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You’re so beautiful Susan, not trying to sound judgmental or something but this is a podcast, as the host or rather presenter please dress classy but decent! And when i say decent you don’t necessarily need to cover your entire body but your cleavages, it doesn’t need to be the center of attraction It’s going to cost nothing, this isn’t you influencing this is more of reality show. Plus Lydia killed it I’ve always liked her she sounds really mature, intelligent and reserved. My girl😊

  • @victoriasilvanus7013
    @victoriasilvanus7013 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This conversation was definitely interesting. Having a fake life and a fake friend would only keep you in circles and growth is such an important factor for living. Nice one on the show❤

  • @Badge-34
    @Badge-34 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Lydia has grown over time. Growth is good on you 👍

  • @productgirl
    @productgirl ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I understand gen z is wild n all, but the host needs to literally take a chill pill and collect her thoughts, the conversations feel very all over the place. side note: i see this podcast evolving to actually provide people with tips on how to "survive lagos" in different aspects other than just vibes. goodluck susan!

  • @blessingokwuosa
    @blessingokwuosa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving this convo 😅
    It’s giving no stress ❤

  • @m_chykar
    @m_chykar ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my second time watching this particular video
    I really need more......

  • @AyandeleEmmanuel
    @AyandeleEmmanuel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can't wait for it to drop

  • @and1play5
    @and1play5 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time finding this podcast, its goood, keep it going!

  • @iremiposiajayi122
    @iremiposiajayi122 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    To be honest, I think we are all social climbers but to different degrees. Whether you are in the entertainment industry or in the corporate world, everyone is looking for the next promotion and the person that can take them there. Can't say you won't make strategic friendships and connections but at the same time, don't expect to use people and then dump them.

  • @mercykike
    @mercykike ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Linda glasses for me 😍😍. So real and so raw nice

  • @Dee1l33
    @Dee1l33 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Honestly didn’t think I’d like this podcast at first but now I’m convinced

  • @ninacal-akpuogwu4358
    @ninacal-akpuogwu4358 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay new episode ❤

  • @divinenwaokolo1219
    @divinenwaokolo1219 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ah ahnnn, Big Susannnn. Going to restaurants without checking the prices. I want to be like you when I grow up👉🏻👈🏻

  • @jayliza26
    @jayliza26 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lydia is so pretty 😭♥️

  • @chidimma_ej
    @chidimma_ej ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lydia is so pretty and smart!!

  • @favourdimowo9837
    @favourdimowo9837 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love it🥰🥰❤️

  • @TRU_NEXT
    @TRU_NEXT ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Allow her to talk, she is the guest, you keep interrupting her.

  • @miragbeke
    @miragbeke ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love love Susan🌹This podcast was super great!

  • @berryminion277
    @berryminion277 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Pls could u have Diana eneje on your show 🦄💗

  • @okonkwoonyinye2792
    @okonkwoonyinye2792 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love dis episodeeeee❤

  • @miray8939
    @miray8939 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We need this podcast in apple podcast pleaseeeeee

  • @nnedinsochukwurah720
    @nnedinsochukwurah720 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's Lydia's cute laughter for me 🥺😂

  • @sharonmbaegbu6169
    @sharonmbaegbu6169 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your show!!!!! 💕❤

  • @syndy3710
    @syndy3710 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lydia is so pretty🥰

  • @leepeters732
    @leepeters732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this👍👍👍👍👍

  • @priyetam-george5662
    @priyetam-george5662 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it, 😊

  • @abundanceozoemena812
    @abundanceozoemena812 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting, interesting 😂

  • @uzomahelen2388
    @uzomahelen2388 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Suzy I think in your next podcast with another guest, try not to interrupt them allow them speak completely please Lydia got tired at some point but was just pretending to be cool 😎

  • @topcattc76
    @topcattc76 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one!

  • @michaelohen4225
    @michaelohen4225 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love thissss😂❤

  • @kelechijohnson6936
    @kelechijohnson6936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please we need this in the audio format 🙏

  • @thatgirlcalledama
    @thatgirlcalledama ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Feedback: it was really interesting to watch in the beginning but it was hard to continue with the interruptions, maybe you should allow your guests to finish speaking

  • @Enginerosemusic
    @Enginerosemusic ปีที่แล้ว

    The conversations in the interview is very personal

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lydia is a grown-ass woman and I like the way she talks and expresses herself, she is speaking out of her experience and I love that about her and she is in control of her words.

  • @ngozichukwukere3219
    @ngozichukwukere3219 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve always loved Lydia

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I understand what she said when she said fought with the police, one time I was in school I was in the bathroom washing and a policeman just entered my house without even knocking, came out and saw him inside my room and was like who are you he said can't you see my uniform was so angry and told him to shoot when he treated to shoot was shouting while talking to him none of my neighbors came out they all locked their gate and stayed inside the other policemen can inside and was beginning me and apologize and left, thank God he no shoots ohh an so person da die for nth. Since then I learn to stay on my own and I don't have friends I have just one friend and we hardly even see.

  • @ochukoawaritefe7924
    @ochukoawaritefe7924 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m just here for her voice tbh

  • @Dettyskin
    @Dettyskin ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The girls didn’t hate you they wanted to be you.. they want to proof to themselves that they can get who likes you 😂

  • @preshous1143
    @preshous1143 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think the guests should be prepared before coming,they should know the kind of questions dey are expecting and remove the ones dey can't answer......Lydia clearly is not the oversharing type and it's fine cos some people can be very secretive,as if Susan was forcing her to talk (this is not why we are here pls)

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee ปีที่แล้ว

      We're here to have some fun😂

  • @Dammiosh
    @Dammiosh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lydia is so intelligent

  • @kehindeakinlabi1650
    @kehindeakinlabi1650 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so interesting ❤ more of this truth plsss

  • @o_lee_0133
    @o_lee_0133 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lydia speaks so well 👌🏽

  • @chinaemeremelizabeth8240
    @chinaemeremelizabeth8240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loveeee

  • @isaidwhatisaid4933
    @isaidwhatisaid4933 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    9ja story no dey complete if you nor hear “I HAVE A FRIEND THAT….”

  • @onyekaangel2060
    @onyekaangel2060 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t find this on podcast app

  • @Ade_Oyin
    @Ade_Oyin ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel Lydia wasn’t ready for this type of topic because she is trying to be low key about herself generally. Susan is constantly trying to make bring her back to the main topic while she is talking about random things that doesn’t really relate.
    I wish Francis was talking on this topic, it would have been fun actually. Susan you did great actually, I just feel Lydia was just hiding and shying from the topic, probably because of backlash or something I guess.

  • @emilysmith1062
    @emilysmith1062 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Susan say she still dey suffer lol 😂
    If I slap you eh 😂😂 you wey fresh

  • @mrs_minarh
    @mrs_minarh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like Lydia

  • @achikefaith620
    @achikefaith620 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is a good podcast. But I think the host- should try to let her guests actually talk before adding hers or commenting on their stories

    • @amakaokeyy
      @amakaokeyy ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing i was saying

  • @udemeabasisilas4160
    @udemeabasisilas4160 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Lydia♥️

  • @Hinieeee
    @Hinieeee ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lydia needs to start posting on her TH-cam channel 😭😭😭

  • @Id_thasha
    @Id_thasha ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 2mins into the video and I'm already hooked😩❤

  • @levischolastica5024
    @levischolastica5024 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let's be realistic life in lagos is just soooo different

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee ปีที่แล้ว

      It's insaneee

  • @ivyli7299
    @ivyli7299 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lydia has an attention problem 😂😂😂, she’s sooo cute still

  • @beebarhsworld
    @beebarhsworld ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pricilla Ojo pls 😭😭

  • @favz22
    @favz22 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was really nice, also feel like Lydia was being shady at some points 😂

  • @IjayLuvsYou
    @IjayLuvsYou ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God Loves you. He loves you so much that He came on earth as the person of Jesus Christ to die for your sins - the perfect sacrifice - and give you eternal life. Give your life to Him today + experience a flood of LOVE + LIGHT + PEACE in your Spirit. Say these words out loud: “O Lord God, I come to You in the Name of Jesus Christ. I believe with all my heart in Jesus Christ, Son of the living God. I believe He died for me, and God raised Him from the dead. I believe He’s alive today. I confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is the Lord of my life from this day. Through Him and in His Name, I have eternal life; I’m born again. Thank you Lord, for saving my soul! I’m now a child of God. Halleluiah!”

  • @HomesbyAnna
    @HomesbyAnna ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice talk..but i feel Lydia isnt relaxed in frnt of d camera😌

  • @luvjene7652
    @luvjene7652 ปีที่แล้ว

    The interviewer is such a cute girl, great vibes

  • @livingwithbums
    @livingwithbums ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aesthetic friends lmaooo

  • @iPaschal_
    @iPaschal_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Guess who I have"
    Sis, she's literally on your thumbnail

  • @okorogwendolyn8872
    @okorogwendolyn8872 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Am I the only one not understanding what they are saying 😢

  • @Missangelbabyy
    @Missangelbabyy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lydia was really shying away from the topic maybe to avoid being talked about on Twitter or dragged. I wish she was more open honestly. She was holding so much back

  • @ruthharry7663
    @ruthharry7663 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lydia just give names abeg😅

  • @encyclopaedia641
    @encyclopaedia641 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pls bring Aji Anje on the show pls 😊

  • @Enginerosemusic
    @Enginerosemusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You both make depression disappear in seconds

  • @diogoobidiaso
    @diogoobidiaso ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lydia is giving us harlequin vibesss 😂😂😂

  • @kwameosi6672
    @kwameosi6672 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rada rada😂

  • @bigdaniel5684
    @bigdaniel5684 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys should say one thing na
    Who na just da jump here and there ahh😡😞
    I nr understand this who na drama here oh

  • @ocheegbe4896
    @ocheegbe4896 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lydia is so fineeeeee

  • @juliabee8459
    @juliabee8459 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lydiaaaaaaaa

  • @nwochachioma7638
    @nwochachioma7638 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Lydia and Susan are 2 different types of persons... Lol, they kinda find it hard to flow in their conversations

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol yhh Lydia has so much depth to her and she sees things on a deeper level/ from all perspectives. It's a little bit different for Susan.

    • @sharonisaac476
      @sharonisaac476 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am thinking because Susan is still really young and hasn’t really grasped the concept of life, everything is a bit superficial for her at this level, give her time.

  • @lonawilson4775
    @lonawilson4775 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm now thinking everyone in Lagos is fake 😂
    I'm hating Lagos from a distance 😂

  • @Iamkinggracious
    @Iamkinggracious ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Queen_Ming
    @Queen_Ming ปีที่แล้ว

    Lydia😍

  • @Te3jry
    @Te3jry ปีที่แล้ว

  • @victoriajeremiah1011
    @victoriajeremiah1011 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the only L moneyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!

  • @chiomanwokoye8880
    @chiomanwokoye8880 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whyyyyyy are you interrupting her ??????

  • @gabriellaaustine4660
    @gabriellaaustine4660 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Human beings oo, this is a podcast not an interview as per gist

  • @stephanieokonkwo8467
    @stephanieokonkwo8467 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How do you make friends in Lagos? I have that problem

    • @divineokoro4142
      @divineokoro4142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just speak to people and be honest and wise about what you speak about, because if you no wise for lagos you no go fit wise anywhere ohhh.

    • @Hinieeee
      @Hinieeee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Start online and work your way to actually hanging out once you find someone you know you can vibe with

  • @tummyrumble9035
    @tummyrumble9035 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @tundeoluakerele3349
    @tundeoluakerele3349 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alot of y'all are mean sha 😂, talk your truth without being harsh na. Clearly Susan is just trying to be supportive to the discussion, it's not an interview but a podcast. I get she's not the guest but it's a podcast o

  • @dextro5422
    @dextro5422 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think one the problem in Lagos is the generalization problem, putting a notion of people in lagos, they all this and that forget we are dealing with humans and we all differ, the air we breathe in Lagos is same everywhere else. No be Lagos bad pass sef

  • @udemeabasisilas4160
    @udemeabasisilas4160 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lydia is smart

  • @susanobeya
    @susanobeya ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interesting but susan let your guests talk you always interrupt

  • @wildmuffins3953
    @wildmuffins3953 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my goodness ??? Not 1 but 2 friends????? Wtf

  • @fregeneobemofe2327
    @fregeneobemofe2327 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only influencers am following on Instagram, just make you think out of the box and very differently, am not saying other influencers are bad but I personally like her so don't come for me.