I'm off-grid and I'm not crazy | Esther Emery | TEDxBoise
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- Esther Emery had just made the switch from workplace high achiever to stay at home mom when she decided to go for a year without the Internet. For 365 days she lived without Wikipedia, social media or electronic communication of any kind, only to realize that the true challenge had never been digital. Five years later, Esther reflects on the whim that changed her life, and the shape of a personal transformation she never expected.
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As someone who was raised in the 50's with no indoor toilet, growing 99% of our own food and supplementing with wild game (mom would cook anything we brought home) I want to say I'm proud of you. You are an example of embracing a lot of what being "free" is actually about.
There I am!!! Thank you so much for all your support, folks. Cheers to the crazy and the not-so-crazy and especially the real. Much love, Esther
+Fouch-o-matic Off Grid This is partly what i was talking about starting a blog or not C: I'm really glad that I'm not too excited about having done it, and having to maintain it :), in fact i did it just because someone told me i should. It functions more of a semi-"webshop" or a place where i upload products and can send them to farther away places that's still in sane range, so it is good for that :).
good talk:) totally validating :o) joking, really it was good :)
+Fouch-o-matic Off Grid - so much wisdom in this... excellent work Esther
I am leaving to walk across north america in a week.
I am crazy though, so I'm not sure if I qualify for the inspiration you provide :(
Well done!
This is so cool. I follow your channel but if you talked about doing this I must have missed it over there. So surprised and thrilled to see this talk from you! I love TED talks and I love your channel. Congrats on doing this....and well done!
Possibly the best TED talk I've seen. When someone speaks from the heart, from their actual experience, it moves us.
What a great speech Esther! I'm not off the grid yet, but 4 years ago I gave up TV. I found I could see the news if I wanted to online. The only show I watched was Heartland [great family show] and since I'm in Canada I could watch it on the website. I only pay cash for things, I own no credit card, no cell phone and I gave up makeup for almost 2 years. [I now wear a little just mascara] Since this time, I went back to school and became a non registered Nutritionist, my Spirituality grew leaps and bounds, I became an artisan baker [I use natural yeast] I also do some canning, make my own butter [when i can] I read,
I never realized it was "freedom" i just knew it as a new "life".
I could listen to Esther Emery all day!!
The Fundamental Home I could too, she’s great!
Excellent. Last year I quit FB because I was tired of all the anger and fighting over politics. I went back on for a couple hours this past January 2017, realized it was all still the same and went off FB again and haven't been back on since. I was seeking validation from people that don't really have any connection to my daily life. I wasn't concentrating on what I think, feel, believe and want for my life.
I need the internet for my career, and it is how I found this talk. What I can do, however, is limit the amount of time I spend online just as I limited my contact with people through FB.
Her videos on the Fouch-O-Matic channel are addictive. I watched one and found myself binge watching the rest of them over a three-day period. I don't even have a desire to live off the grid - I just love the story of this beautiful family that was brave enough to go for their dream. Love them! You will too check them out
me too!
addict here! truly inspiring family
watching them bring me a peace
Brittni Borchard
So true! I have been watching them over the last few days but have plenty more left. I was very surprised to see she has done a ted talks. Because ted talks are one of my favorites on YT.
I follow her channel, fouch o matic off grid. Her and her husband are SO interesting and are a great inspiration.
Esther, I watched every second of your TEDx talk, and it was tremendous! You are a very gifted communicator. Thanks for sharing your story!
Dude, I realized that I needed that validation too. That's why I quit FB.
Join the dark side.
Quitting facebook was one of the best decisions I made in the last 5 years. I have freedom, facebook was intentional self inflicted bondage
An excellent presentation. Not only was it time well spent, it reaffirmed in my mind that less time online is far more productive and healthy for me.
Agree, and here I am binge watching youtube off grid folks and sustainability folks.. lol
SERIOUSLY THO LMAO
Sweet irony!!
Hey Esther! it's 2018, I'm 54 years old... I went without the internet for about 36 years... from my birth year of 1964 until about the year 2000... There was life before we were all wired in....
You just described the first 40 years of my life. The google maps is funny. I delivered mail for the post office in the 70's before UPS and computers. I went to work everyday ..on my bike, no phone, and my map was a necessity. Cell phones have really made many things easier . I remember having car issues and hoping I could flag down someone who could help me out. I guess I am lucky that my generation still do not care about Facebook or twitter for confirmation of our self-worth.
Learned dependency. Remember that folks.
i like to think of it as unaware insecurity
Learned helplessness
“I like quiet, I like small and I like real.”
Well put; works for me as well.
An obscure rural setting - North Texas
I am a subscriber to both Fouchamatic off grid and Esther's channel. I find her and her family not only a joy to watch but a wealth of information and inspiration. This was great!
well spoken...just so proud to hear you speak of the life you have chosen...my professor once told me "it takes a lot of grace to say a little in few words..." ...my dear, Esther ,you nailed it!
We need more real people talking about being off grid!! Excellent talk!
In this digital era, here I am watching this. While I am on my work from home setup, I still find the way to stay out of the online world. I slowly tried cutting of my social media usage and less screen time. I've been doing this for 4, 5 months? But I can say that it helped my clarity and productivity. I'm now dependent on myself, rather than the people around me. The fomo feels no longer exists in me.
I am not hundred percent well mentally, but I can assure you that it gets better.
This is fabulous. Thanks for doing this talk!
Been tuning in to Esther's and Fouchomatic off grid channel for a while and I love them!! Learning so much. There is a lot wrong with the world and their way seems so right. The kids aren't attached to phones and electronics. Def how I would like to raise my family when it is time.
😭😍thank you for sharing this. I'm going thru a true self revelation in my life. I need to "unplug" to discover who I truly am. I was born a decade before you and I find your stories a true inspiration to me! Thank you. 😘
Great job expressing an abstract, unique point of view. I am so pleased you did this TEDx talk!
Awesome lady, awesome family. When she speaks, everyone needs to listen to what she has to say.
GREAT TALK!! You are a natural teacher and parent. And that is the highest compliment I can bestow upon someone. We all learn from others. Family, neighbors, teachers, mentors all have given me the ability to work and live in the world. Your children will be much richer for the adventure you have undertaken.
I like how you found a balance in technology and got away from the addiction of internet but still use it to your benefit! And how you have simplified your life. What a great message you have shared with us all!
Excellent!! And if you didn’t get a standing ovation, you definitely should have. Esther, you rock. Great job. ⭐️
You are such a great speaker/teacher/communicator Esther!!! So glad I found you and your family! One of the best features of being on the web! :)
JUST WONDERFUL...AND I AM 75 YEARS YOUNG AND I STARTED MY INTERNET VOYAGE IN 1978...IT HAS BEEN A GREAT TRIP SO FAR......
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this!!!!! I follow you on your channel and I'm so proud of you!!!!! Your amazing!
Congrats, Esther! Home run! You knocked it out of the park!!
You & your family are so grounded and I appreciate all the great advice you've given so freely. Yes, you are very down to earth in your approach to life and have proven that we can all do this. Thanks for sharing this positive, real life story!
"I choose quiet and I choose small, because its Real" .. awesome!
It's interesting for me to see how younger people can have to make an effort to live without the internet. I lived without it for 50 years, in 2013 I got wifi and learnt how to use it. Now, in the little bit of life I've got left, I don't want to miss out on it! I think when you're old enough to have your life split into those two parts you also easily understand the difference between internet and reality. It is a tool, not life. I use the iPhone to find places but of course I still find them without it, too. But I simply enjoy how it makes life easier. I used to visit reference libraries for hours to find information; now I get more information in seconds without getting out of bed. Why would I want to live without that sensible tool?
Klaus Geltl Live long Klaus and keep sharing your wisdom my friend. We see things as we age and others become slaves to technology rather than selecting technology as our slaves to make life simpler. My wife has used the internet and youtube to bring healing to the many aspects of her life. I have used the internet and youtube to fix problems in my life and on my property. TH-cam has a global community that cares to help one another and not request any money in return. Take care. Art
Art Konstantino Well said that’s exactly the way we use the internet great comment.
So proud to have you in our community! Well done
Outstanding. Live your life, as simply as possible. Your life is about you and not about those who just stumbled on your Ted Talk today as I did.
AWESOME JOB GIRL! YOU'RE AN INSPIRATION TO MANY!
beautiful, I just started with deactivating my facebook in 2014, I recently deactivated my instagram which is insane as I'm a photographer, but I really feel better off, thank you for sharing such inspiring speech :)
That was awesome! Also, I've been watching her videos for months.
Fouch-O-Matic subscriber here!
GREAT channel with super informative videos!
Thank you Esther & Nick!
I must say you choose the right path! You are a wonderful woman and just shine so bright. I mean this not in a sexual way, but in spirit. You beam when you walk into a room and your life is good for you and it shows. All the best to you....
Esther You guys have been so much a blessing to me and mine. We follow all your videos. This came at a good time as I been sick in bed all day. This right here is why I love my youtube fam. Thanks for this. God Bless Sis.
+yankey4 Thank you so much. Thank you for showing yourself and hanging out with us.
+Fouch-o-matic Off Grid U rock girl
Much love to Esther! Keeping it real always. Great talk, beautiful poise. Nice Job and the heartfelt message was much appreciated. Thanks.
Beautiful words from a beautiful lady.
Brilliant, Esther! This was a great speech. I'm more in the "How" camp than the "Why" camp thanks to you. I think you're an excellent example of someone who knows true freedom.
Great talk. Very fresh, original and inspiring. Thanks for sharing your story with us Esther!
"It's technology. And if we don't know that, I'm afraid we can't be using it responsibly."
That sent chills down my spine.
Thank you so much for your talk, Esther!
Been following the Fouch-o-matic channel for a while now. Already knew you have good storytelling capability and you have taken it one level up with this talk. Faced your fears and did not let the silence of the watching crowd get to you. Impressed.
Great talk, Esther...thanks for it! Inspiring. I recently went on vacation for 3 weeks and went almost 100% offline...what an incredible break. I was able to make several adjustments to my personal habits for the better when I realized how much more time and space I really had! :) "I choose real...beautiful!"
Just awesome Esther, you are one super talented Gem! Thanks for touching my soul with your gift of words.
I was 14 (a lifetime ago) when our family home got dial up sponsored via my mom's work. She would not let us teens use it for fear we could chat to strangers in chat rooms. We lived 5 miles out of a small town of 8000. My days were extremely lonely as a kid growing up, and I spent most of my time in the woods, or down by the ocean. I spent hours alone on hikes or bike rides in the forest. Spending time in nature gives a lot to the soul. I had a relationship with the spirit in the land, it was rich and nourishing, yet at times left a feeling of desolation. A part of me is drawn towards that lifestyle, but I am a single person, and worry to feel alone doing that. Sure not finding a mate on tinder any time soon though!
I am 67 and been alone for 20 years now. I am ok with it.
So well stated!!! Thanks for the inspiration
Esther - more power to you and your family! Quiet = good; Simple = good; Real = good....and , the line "...technology masquerading as reality..." is a keeper!.
This woman has a long journey ahead of her
Esther, you are a fabulous speaker. I kind of knew that already, but even though you said the stage wasn't your element, I really think it is. Great job.
Ester what was great! Thank you for sharing your story.
thank you Esther great ted talk i am also a faithful u tube watcher you and your family are a breath of fresh air i can't wait to see how your house turns out .
Way to go Ester. You did a great job. Love your vlogs.
I just love this lady and family's youtube channel. :) You did great through the nerves, mama!
Thank you so much about your lecture . I'm thinking about off grig living last 10-11 months.i know that soon or later I'll go for that.thank you for putting one more stone for us to build better life
loved it... but I knew I would. your blog and youtube are very inspiring to me... I already live offgrid so I enjoy community with you.
I applauded her supreme efforts and fearless spirit, yet also felt the experiment didn’t really get at the guts of the problem as I see it (and perhaps I’m entirely wrong). I felt a sense that, despite changing her life, the need for feedback from others never lessened. It felt like THAT was the true problem. Perhaps the internet was only the vehicle. But she took a first step that most will never attempt and that is remarkable and speaks to a unique and brave spirit. So many lack the inner security of simply being and lives lives fueled by a terminal uniqueness that requires approval from others. I hear a shout out (mostly among millennials) that says, “See how original I am? See what a trailblazer I am? Pay attention to me!” There is a general societal insecurity (particularly in America) where so many deeply feel that they don’t MATTER without another’s feedback. It’s an “other-centric” approach to life that is always in the hands of others rather that an “inner-centric” approach which can truly lead to a satisfying life. We all fall victim to that at times and I’m no different. A deep insecurity, alleviated only by external forces is not a life. But learning to be one person among a community, with no need to rise to the top, no particular need to be provided with feedback about who they are, no need to be important, no need to base their sense of self esteem upon others opinions? THAT is admirable. That is a life worth living, in my opinion. The internet is not the problem. It’s our motivations for using it (for approval or fame vs. for information or learning, for example). And yes, I’ve spent a lot of time off grid without electricity, plumbing, internet, a phone signal and many other luxuries. That is how I get centered and how I gain perspective in my life. But it is, by far, not the only way.
Fantastic listening experience. Thanks.
+Fouch-o-matic Off Grid Love love this!
Couldn't have said it any better. I grew up always having these technological mediums and realized also that i crave a lot of validation. I have a lot of soul searching to do, but just wanted to say thank you; this means a lot and was very helpful. Also huge fan of Fouch-o-matic!! keep on living!
Excellent! Thank you :) Love the ending "I choose quiet...I choose real".
That was really well done. Thank you.
Flipping awesome!! Nuff said!
Love this! So many good points
I thought I recognized you. Fouch O Matic! Your family inspired me a couple of years ago with Yurt living. It's so nice that you share your experiences for those of us who have plans. Thank you for sharing
Well said!....like so many things...less is truly more!
Well done! 10/10 success!
51 Year old,living in the UK,brought close to tears by Your spirituality and genuineness.Travelling a road few understand,or who indeed,WANT to understand.....Regards,Starman.
Very impressive and heart warming Esther. Glad to have seen your talk. Hope you can educate on how to get off the grid.
WOW!!! I am so impressed to see you made it to TED. But, then again I am not really surprised. You and Nick are people to look up too.
I'm a subscriber at your channel but only just got to watch this. Great job!! It was such a good talk!
Excellent job.
Thank you for sharing your story. I love this so much, it is truly inspiring to live off the Internet and discover more about yourself and have quality time with your love ones. It brings a different perspective and meaning in life. Something that I will start to do.
You are very impressive! I didn't know a person could live off grid. I'm 58
Love you Esther
Wow Esther, you are an awesome speaker. Glad I saw this. Janice
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You did it! Loved the TedTalk Esther.
Wow, great talk, Esther! (from one of your youtube fans)
Thank You For sharing, Esther, Your passion for simple, Intentional life style, Is what I am also looking for. The1000 year flood hit or home in August and took everything we ever owned,46 years of everything. We are finally back in our home, And now I don't want anything except exactly what we need. I feel where you are coming from, Esther. We almost lost our lives and now all I want is simple living and time with my Hubby and family . I enjoy ,so much listening to you ,You truly inspire me. We must be kindred souls of sorts. Please keep the videos coming. They are for a reason.
One of the best Tedx talks I have seen X
Thank you for such a profound and interesting talk
Wonderfully done, Esther. Loved every second. Peace
Thank you Esther for this. I have been realizing lately that I have been spending so much time on the internet, since I plugged into it, that I wasn't spending enough time doing things that I love. So its time to unplug but allow myself some time, in the evening to catch up with internet things. I have let it overtake my life. Its now time to get my life back. 😃
I just spoke to this lady and her husband on their channel. These are real people living real lives.
I've been watching her videos for months.
Excellent thoughts!
exquisitely done perfect
The Fouch Family channel on youtube is awesome. It's very inspiring to me. To me, they epitomize freedom, love, and self-reliance. It's such a blessing to see folks living off the grid lifestyles, as I believe we as humans were meant to live; simply and in tune with nature.
Bravo Esther. Does technology serve us, or are we serving it. And then there's that beat of a different drummer. Thanks for sharing.
Like so many things in life, less is truly more!
Love it! I wish EVERYONE would Wake-UP and appreciate their time, life, and family more.
Good job, public speaking and getting to the point! you got skill Ester!
beautifully said
Thank you for sharing your experience. That was very well put, thought proviking and touching. I don't think your crazy I think what you've accomplished is brilliant and very real!
You are an inspiration m'am