It was between 2017 and 2019 when I saw one of yalls videos for the first time. Im 22 now... Really big thanks to this channel for jumpstarting my self-actualization journey. The content still holds up to this day.
Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing .. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH* ⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️ 🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT* *ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:* *ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME* *IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE* *IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME* *MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU) *THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR* *KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME* *DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME* *DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS* *I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME* *I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME* *YOU ARE MY SLAVE* *FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME* *I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)* *IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU* *THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*
I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you. Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.
Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!
@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that... You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... ! Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested" 👳 Why you aren't interested? 🕵Because its a waste of time for me. 👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you? What will I reply.... Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life. Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.
@@WynneL Also another thing...... How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Also sometimes they say this sentence.. *"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"* How to respond to these mean statements from them?
5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽♂️
I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.
I got recommended a video from this channel today after a long time. OG CoC had some good tips on conversations but it looks like it devolved into a manipulation channel. Charlie did always have a dead expression on him. Happy to see its been 9 months since an upload.
My key takeaways: - Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?". - You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life? - Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term. - You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself. - Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about. - Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself. - Use the best friend friend trick. - "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".
Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.
@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.
This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing
Andrew tate is narcist who beats women, at the beginning you explicitly say "without becoming a narcist" then use a guy who uses abusive, manipulative, and disingenuous langage and justifies it with "the matrix". the opposite of the point of the lesson, and andrews obsession with money is directly derived from his desire to be admired by everyone, the flaunts expnesive things all the time to say "hey look at me". his entire power structure is built on lying, and using major figures like petersons talking points for his advantage.
'Extreme confidence' is in Andrew Tate's case more like 'misplaced confidence by being a misogynistic macho criminal'. Do you admire him in some way? Do you think it's healthy to want to have 'extreme confidence' like he has?
Just came to your most recent video to say that you guys should take a look at Action Bronson, not like you should do a video on him or anything like that, but I think he is extremely good at meshing with all sorts of people. When I think of a charismatic person he's the first person that comes to mind for me.
The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value. Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.
@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Help me... Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me? since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent. any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?
@ThePowerMoves When they did the Charlie & Ben podcast I was on their patreon so I got some extra updates and Charlie has since taken it over with his brother Henry - and gave a tiny update last week in one of the videos.
The keys steps to elite confidence are: 1. Find your Fire. 2. Create your inner circle. 3. Determine your core values 4. Leave the validation casino 5. Self-Acceptance In short, taking these actionable steps can build an unshakable confidence!
What exactly is the purpose of them and this channel? I'm confused. Does it mean to make characters like Tommy Shelby and... as role models or just learn from them and add to our best version?!
Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.
Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.
I just feel like there could have been a better example than Andrew Tate because he does care about what people think which is why he goes after interviewers. He also is a scam artist so he actually takes advantage of young men's emotions.
Thank you! I feel like after Charlie has left this other guy to take control of the channel, it has taken more conservative stance, and definitely not in a charismatic way.
Totally agree, except there's nothing "conservative" about the current right wing. They are hardcore radicals. I know they call themselves that because it sounds better than what they really are.
Some of these videos are honestly good and a great help to people. But really man, with the Andrew Tate stuff? Presenting people like him or Jordan Peterson as role models is just weird and it’s contradicting the good you’re doing.
Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!
😂Andrew Tate is such a controversial figure to use as an example now...... Didn't you read or watch the investigation on his course teaching men how to control women for financial gains? *touching nose*
Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.
I love this channel and paid for charisma university, but dont include andrew in a thumbnail. Its just bad optics and gives off a vibe you dont want associated with you. Unless you do a deepdive into why people like him similar to the OF video. Because there is a lot to learn regarding him.
Your point about surrounding yourself with an inner circle really resonated with me, and it touches on the ingroup bias. We often give too much weight to the opinions of those close to us, sometimes limiting our growth. I watched someone close to me go through this, holding themselves back for fear of disappointing their small group. This video is a fantastic reminder that even trusted voices shouldn't hold you back from personal evolution
*I'm always curious, what do people get out of posting a comment that says or reveals absolutely nothing but what we saw in the video?* @StevieCrypto? _What are you getting out of reposting the chapter headings?_
I don't think Andrew Tate is a good example. I don't think his opinions are genuine. There's many negative things I could say about him but I can't be arsed.
I disagree. Tate’s opinions are definitely somewhat true, perhaps exaggerated for shock-value and notoriety, but there’s no way you spew the crap he does without believing at least most of it yourself. End of the day, he’s a self-professed master manipulator.
Andrew Tate his immoral and a gaslighter that lacks accountability. I really dislike how Charisma on Command (Ben Altman in this particular video) don't take under consideration values and morals, but solely the technical side of things.
@@genghisgalahad8465his numbers alone show he’s a master manipulator. Personally I think he holds the same value as the bits of poo that stain the toilet bowl but he’s dangerously effective.
It was between 2017 and 2019 when I saw one of yalls videos for the first time. Im 22 now...
Really big thanks to this channel for jumpstarting my self-actualization journey. The content still holds up to this day.
A wise man once said “it’s none of my business what other people think of me”
... "As long as it doesn't Physically affect my Life or the Life of my Child" a Wise Man added.
Definitely a good way to look at it.
Amen
Marcus Aurelius
@@nevermindmyname9153 your addition was irrelevant. what does it have to do with the original message? I agree with the originall message completely
When the world needed him most he vanished
he'll be back
Who
What happened why aren't they uploading?
he's not the hero we deserve but the hero we need
@@chaitanyavasamsetti8177he*
"if you live by people's praise, you'll die by their criticism" - Bill Johnson
Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing ..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
This is so trueee
@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH*
⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️
🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT*
*ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:*
*ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME*
*IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE*
*IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME*
*MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU)
*THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR*
*KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME*
*DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME*
*DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS*
*I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME*
*I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME*
*YOU ARE MY SLAVE*
*FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME*
*I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)*
*IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU*
*THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*
I just realized that by the beginning of the video
@@_EGM_ Yes. Its true.
I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you.
Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
What happened to this channel? Charlie we need more! Thanks for everything.
Same. I still recommend it to people.
I think it's just Ben now. Him and Charlie had a falling out of sorts and Charlie left the channel in Ben's hands, I believe
@@ArchIVEDCinema then the channel is left to perish in the wastes of the internet archives. Who knows what's to come of these marvelous machinations.
The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.
@@sebastianP46433oof
Did you guys kill the channel?
He uploads on his second channel.
@@Ricin311 Charisma-related videos? And if so, which one is the second channel?
Why did Charisma on Command stop making videos??
1. Find your fire
2. Create an inner circle
3. Decide your core values
4. Leave the validation casino
5. Self-acceptance
Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!
@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that...
You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... !
Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested"
👳 Why you aren't interested?
🕵Because its a waste of time for me.
👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you?
What will I reply....
Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life.
Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.
@@WynneL Also another thing......
How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Also sometimes they say this sentence..
*"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"*
How to respond to these mean statements from them?
Where did bro go?
I think as long as the people you like, like you, you're doing something right, but true about the tip of not letting that necessarily limit you.
5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽♂️
Any new videos coming up? Miss watching your content man...
For real it’s the best motivatio
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
@@abrilcb5749 whats the podçcasts name?
These guys not posting anymore or smth?
I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.
I.. have had these thoughts before
I got recommended a video from this channel today after a long time. OG CoC had some good tips on conversations but it looks like it devolved into a manipulation channel. Charlie did always have a dead expression on him. Happy to see its been 9 months since an upload.
just noticed you guys stopped uploading. Where y'all at?
Baby come back, you can blame it all on me.....
What😮
Did they run out of charisma?
Looks like he's said everything he needed to say, thank you for your service
My key takeaways:
- Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?".
- You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life?
- Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term.
- You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself.
- Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about.
- Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself.
- Use the best friend friend trick.
- "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".
nice
OK: How to put your self-opinion above all other opinions.
Better: How to Become Dominant
"What other people think of you I none of your business. "
Video uses Andrew Tate as an example, one of the biggest narcissists on the planet, of course that grifter cares what his sheep think about him 😂
The self-flagellation certainly makes every step 100x harder. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙏🏼
💯♥
"Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one." Clint Eastwood as Harry Callahan
TH-cam algorithm 🛐
When people think bad about you or say bad things about you is, for the most part, is a reflection of how they feel about themselves
Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.
@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.
agreed
This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing
@@hollynelson2626 Exactly like how sad do you have to be to talk bad about other people for no reason
Really miss your videos one of the few channels on TH-cam I actually looked forward to seeing new posts!
Why has this Chanel stopped posting? This video was uploaded 4 months ago.
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
When I'm worrying about others opinions it can make me take comments with negative intent. So I gotta snap myself outta that.
Andrew tate is narcist who beats women, at the beginning you explicitly say "without becoming a narcist" then use a guy who uses abusive, manipulative, and disingenuous langage and justifies it with "the matrix". the opposite of the point of the lesson, and andrews obsession with money is directly derived from his desire to be admired by everyone, the flaunts expnesive things all the time to say "hey look at me". his entire power structure is built on lying, and using major figures like petersons talking points for his advantage.
He doesnt think about you at all
You guys put together some amazing videos. I hope you're still doing it and put out more...
Just wanted to thank you for your role in my personal development.❤
Bro please come back I’m becoming more insane by the day
Really missing your new videos ❤
isn't it a contradiction to say "stop caring what other people think" and then say "I hope you enjoyed this video"? Who cares if we enjoyed it?!
😂
@daleholmgren6078
He doesn’t care for himself, he just hopes that the video was beneficial to us. So no, it’s not a contradiction.
Why did you stopped uploading?
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
'Extreme confidence' is in Andrew Tate's case more like 'misplaced confidence by being a misogynistic macho criminal'. Do you admire him in some way? Do you think it's healthy to want to have 'extreme confidence' like he has?
Yes
Just came to your most recent video to say that you guys should take a look at Action Bronson, not like you should do a video on him or anything like that, but I think he is extremely good at meshing with all sorts of people. When I think of a charismatic person he's the first person that comes to mind for me.
Is the channel dead?
I was thinking the same thing 😭
The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value.
Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.
100% - if you have a passion for career or such and see success in it, all else kinda falls short of what matters to it.
@@f4llenstarr exactly. Most people have barely any confidence because they are living inauthentically - the dreams of society, not theirs
Spot on ❤
@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies..
How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Help me... Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me?
since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent.
any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?
Visualizing is powerful my friends ❤
We really gonna use Tate as an example of someone who isnt affected by what people think ? Really
Hyper radicalized version of the point he’s communicating
@@HardestEli being wrong and inflammatory to make a point ? I guess that is the status quo now
is he affected by wat people think? why hasnt he become a simpin feminist if hes so affected?
Even with this channel, zoomers can’t manage to be liked.
Did the channel die? No new content without any announcement?
@ThePowerMoves where did you see that?
Where'd you go???
He moved to Florida & now has a kid who is almost 1 years old so I think hes focused on his kid
@ThePowerMoves When they did the Charlie & Ben podcast I was on their patreon so I got some extra updates and Charlie has since taken it over with his brother Henry - and gave a tiny update last week in one of the videos.
@ThePowerMoves Ben! He moved to Florida a year ago and he a kid there with his now wife. I think when they got engaged he dropped the podcast
The keys steps to elite confidence are:
1. Find your Fire.
2. Create your inner circle.
3. Determine your core values
4. Leave the validation casino
5. Self-Acceptance
In short, taking these actionable steps can build an unshakable confidence!
What happened to this channel?
It doesn't pay the bills
What exactly is the purpose of them and this channel? I'm confused. Does it mean to make characters like Tommy Shelby and... as role models or just learn from them and add to our best version?!
Plz come back
Read "The subtle art of not giving a Fu** " by Mark Manson. One of the best books
This video change my totally mindset
Care only what God the Holy Trinity thinks.
This is the most important part of true faith.
Andrew Tate's confidence is an act. Otherwise, great video!
everything everyone does is an act
Thank you command on charisma ❤❤❤
Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.
Thanks for this video.
Bro just vanished. Hope he’s doing well
Damn that last point hit home. My therapist has been telling me about self acceptance because I haven’t accepted my anxiety/perfectionist self 😅
Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.
I just feel like there could have been a better example than Andrew Tate because he does care about what people think which is why he goes after interviewers. He also is a scam artist so he actually takes advantage of young men's emotions.
i hope to never see his face again
Thank you! I feel like after Charlie has left this other guy to take control of the channel, it has taken more conservative stance, and definitely not in a charismatic way.
@@jukkahamalainen2454 Conservative = proper
@@TheSultan1470 to each their own.
Totally agree, except there's nothing "conservative" about the current right wing. They are hardcore radicals. I know they call themselves that because it sounds better than what they really are.
Where is Charlie??? No videos or anything in forever!
2 months and no new video. You guys alright?
5 months now
@@Goldenretriever2025 Yup 😐
Wya?
Where are you?
So @charismaoncommand what is the 10/10 rule? It was in the thumbnail, but not in the video??
Where is the new content!
Yo mamas azz
Hey miss these videos.
Hope you are doing well mate
And hope to hearing something form you or your team
Waiting and cheering you all on
Does this channel still make videos
Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast
@@abrilcb5749 thank you!!
When will you be uploading next?
Some of these videos are honestly good and a great help to people. But really man, with the Andrew Tate stuff? Presenting people like him or Jordan Peterson as role models is just weird and it’s contradicting the good you’re doing.
True
I Support This.
Charlie we need more videos!!!
Why'd you stop posting videos? I love your content! Come back into the charisma game!
Having Andrew Tate in the thumbnail might not have been a great idea.
Lol no
Why?
yeah only if youre a feminist liberal
@parlyramyar
You have no brain.
Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!
some hot internet tea being spilled here
Thank you for helping autistic people worldwide lmao
What happened to him? When is he coming back?
😂Andrew Tate is such a controversial figure to use as an example now...... Didn't you read or watch the investigation on his course teaching men how to control women for financial gains? *touching nose*
Nice one with good text presentations🎉
Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.
its really insane how something we are already introduced to can be something completely new to others.
I love this channel and paid for charisma university, but dont include andrew in a thumbnail. Its just bad optics and gives off a vibe you dont want associated with you. Unless you do a deepdive into why people like him similar to the OF video. Because there is a lot to learn regarding him.
Thank you.
Your point about surrounding yourself with an inner circle really resonated with me, and it touches on the ingroup bias. We often give too much weight to the opinions of those close to us, sometimes limiting our growth. I watched someone close to me go through this, holding themselves back for fear of disappointing their small group. This video is a fantastic reminder that even trusted voices shouldn't hold you back from personal evolution
Thank you alot brother, you are a blessing to not only mine, but millions of people. May God bless you ❤✝️
Hey everything alright? It's been awhile since your last video
Hey man no videos long time
Who needs personality when you got youtube videos to watch on your own... in the cold and dark...
😂😂
Please let's hope they are cooking in the background
*I'm always curious, what do people get out of posting a comment that says or reveals absolutely nothing but what we saw in the video?* @StevieCrypto? _What are you getting out of reposting the chapter headings?_
Where did they go?!
The clip in the elevator from "Mad Men" says it all.
Michael Ginsberg: "I feel bad for you."
Don Draper: " I don't think about you at all."
Can you do a video on Travis Kelce? Very charismatic guy!
Andrew Tate as an example?? Really?? Dude is a sociopath at minimum.
always loving your work, your contents are a game changer for anyone who looks for growth in personality❤
Not completely related to this topic. But how could a person like Steven Seagal succeed in Hollywood? Did this guy have charisma or not?
Please do not include from Tate in videos.
Yeah, of course a dark triad disordered man doesn't care what others think. Smh
We need a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar, the most charismatic character of all time
I don't think Andrew Tate is a good example. I don't think his opinions are genuine. There's many negative things I could say about him but I can't be arsed.
I disagree. Tate’s opinions are definitely somewhat true, perhaps exaggerated for shock-value and notoriety, but there’s no way you spew the crap he does without believing at least most of it yourself.
End of the day, he’s a self-professed master manipulator.
@iDrumGod no master 😅. Find another idol.
Andrew Tate his immoral and a gaslighter that lacks accountability. I really dislike how Charisma on Command (Ben Altman in this particular video) don't take under consideration values and morals, but solely the technical side of things.
@@genghisgalahad8465his numbers alone show he’s a master manipulator. Personally I think he holds the same value as the bits of poo that stain the toilet bowl but he’s dangerously effective.
Well u respect your view but sometimes it is better to be yourself and be judged by someone
why don't you answer my several emails? ☹😠😡
Thank you so much for your videos, they are life changing!❤
who is the man at 3:33