I was married for 20yrs, he left + hooked up immediately with a work colleague who he has been with over 18mths. I have a love hate feeling for him. He has deserted family life and has been on multiple holidays with the new gf, we are getting divorced, we have two teenagers and we don’t communicate at all. I am struggling with understanding how he threw away the family for money and this woman.
I've been in a long-term relationship (38 yrs). I'm tired of always changing when the dumper has never made the effort to change herself. No consulting, no working on physical things, etc. I've been there and done that. I'm tired, and I don't believe at 62, I need to change especially if I'm the only one doing so. It's getting to a point where I want nothing to do with her! I've been in no contact for 40 days thinking maybe this is what it takes to get her back. Those 40 days have also shown me the energy I've spent does equal the reward. I don't care if I ever see, or hear from her again!!!
How about a video for when a man is breaking up with the rebound, and BOTH women are wanting to get him back. Who has the biggest chance? If your relationship was longer than theirs, etc. And they seemed to be a rebound. But their rebound relationship lasted longer than usual, but with a lot of drama and issues.
I lost my income when covid struck. I became a burden & was cut off financially & abandoned. The issue is; we were married, together for 13y & we have a preschooler. I am now studying paramedicine & working on myself. I take care of my daughter full time. We didn't have relationship problems until I had our daughter.
Im going through a break up from a 8.5 year relationship, 12 years age difference we met when she was 18 and i was 30, she feels like she hasnt been in the world by herself as i have been her first real relationship, neither of us have done anything wrong and we still love each other but she feels like she needs to do her own thing for a while, she just finished uni and we where going to move together to the place where she has her new job coming up, first she wanted to move first and live by herself for a while but said she said it would be unfair on me and didnt want me to wait, im happy to wait because our relationship is strong but she communicated she needs to do this on her own, i understand but shiiiit, my world is upside down and inside out
2yrs relationship ended 3mo ..we tried to back together not so successful....I still want to be with him but hasn't contacted me...dnt know what to do iam still broken hearted but trying to move forward in a positive way ...you tube family just pray for me !!!
Hey Ebony Stewart, there's nothing you can do at the moment directly. The best you can do is prepare yourself to show him that you just didn't stand still after the breakup. You kept moving forward and weren't waiting around for him to change his mind. We're here to support you! - Adrian th-cam.com/video/zgt1UVW4VjY/w-d-xo.html
Me and my ex broke up after six years almost two months ago, I did 28 days of no contact and after that I saw her in campus. A few times. On new years Eve we were in a party and she tried to tease me, I told her it's not cool, few days later I asked for my stuff from her, she said shell bring it, it didn't happend so I gave her roommate her stuff with an hand written letter. After that she said she want us to meet but went into radio silence, so yesterday I took my stuff from her roommate and saw her on the street, she didn't reply to the letter all she had to say is it's not cool that I put her stuff inside her room and not in the living room. (the stuff were sex toys and some personal items) after that I was in shock and devistated how can she do this to me ? What should I do next. I'm not going to contact her again anytime soon
I never considered this perspective. This is not my issue at all. I am in a great relationship with an amazing woman who has never stopped loving me. But for some weird reason I feel like I need space to find myself again. Like I’m molding myself to much into what she wants. Leaving me no space to be who I truly am. Or forgetting who I truly am.
Ive found the best way to get over my ex is by watching these videos and playing a drinking game where you take a shot every time he says "coaching sessions". Just kidding, great advice as usual.
What if the divorce was caused by sexual betrayal? It’s been two years and I feel like she can never forgive what I did even though I am a different, better person now…
Its been a year. His parents love me and support me despite the fact they played the role in his break up decision. Especially his mom loves me, says I'm And amazing woman, beautiful, a model, mature and who's her sh*t together And he's a little boy who needs to grow up, a boy who can't handle a grown woman but only a little girl. They see my change. He's currently been rebounding his 4 years older sister's friend who he have always despised because she's boring, can't make her own decisions And He would have gone crazy.. I know he's not mature Now but He still holds a place in my heart despite acting like an immature moron. He was So different with me. Mature, happy, loving. I'm kinda stucked, want to move more forward but still want him by my side though he has not grown.... Thank you!
Married 13 years with kids going on 3 months separated and I miss her! But I'm the one who initiated the divorce,giving her,her grounds for the divorce! I regret it but its my fault.Neglected her emotionally.Then committed infidelity because I was convinced I was done and was convinced she was done too.Now I know I really do love her & am still in love with her and want her back but I believe it may be too late now.Though she said she wants a divorce and that we will NEVER get back together again.I still hold out hope that we will but we will see.I'm just trying to give her her space now.We only really talk when it comes to the kids.We get along & still laugh at times,maybe some small flirting but I know she's still very angry & hurt with me for what I did.What advice would you give me as I try to work on myself now?
19 years and I don’t understand why now he treats me like I don’t exist after 5 months separated. We’ve now not had any contact for 6 weeks . He’s with someone else but every time I’ve asked he says he’s not seeing anyone why keep lying He went from the most caring to the most insensitive disrespectful man I know
I had a 14 year relationship with my wife and she said that she left me because I had messaged another woman 7 years ago. We have two kids and still live together it’s been 2 months since she left me. She won’t talk to me and I was very emotional when she left. Is there anything I can do when no contact isn’t possible when we live together
Hey guys, just broke up with bf a few hrs ago 293 days , that's 9 months and 15 days, it's like we were starstruck lovers then, he decides he doesn't feel romance for me anymore...... I used to think it would hurt so bad, but it didn't, I got over it within a hour......Wow, I bet it would hurt if he knew that though, after he says I'm the perfect one..... Highschool has his ups and downs I guess it took the coronavirus as a sign we didn't need to be together, all the signs I ignored for him. Great video btw, and everyone you're amazing ;^
Had a relationship 3 years and 6 months and it's been 7 months he had broken up with me as I was too desparate and I had tried no contact but he messaged me to inform about the timings as we are in the same institute ....after sometimes when I saw that we can talk as a friend I messaged him to become a good friend but he now refuses to talk about other things and says that we can only talk about the timings or details we share in common .......what I should do now ..plsssss help me
I was with my ex for 18 yrs i had a stroke was in wheel chair sometimes in 2011 he was great until 2017 when broke my hip things changed he told me he didn't love me he cared but needed sex2017 so i went back in hospital when I was there he left me 2 days moved another girl in our house I still love him and miss him it was my fault i couldn't give what he wanted how can i get him back i cry for him i dont if he his for got me i miss him
After my ex of 3 years wanted a break, I initiated NC for about a month and he reached out saying he missed me. We hung out, it went well, and plan on meeting again soon. We talk daily but I’m currently dealing with communication issues probably due to resentment of our past. He’s hot/cold. Should I give him space with NC or continue things as they’ve been? It hurts not having a response for hours but being told “I love you”. I need to focus on myself and reflect through this recovery process so it only makes sense.
Not sure if you are still answering the messages here, but out of a decade long relationship. Broke up with me out of the blue and i became severely depressed and suicidal. I didn't tell him, but someone sent him my messages to them telling them. I assume that means there is no chance left?
My ex girfriend dumped me and because of no reason & never want to see my face again but her best friend was mine best friend too .. she was so kind to me & was supporting for my bkup .. we were like best buddies but one day she also finds my mistake to dump me and now she had blocked me from all social media i just want her back 🙁🙁🙁
Hey Gagan Hayer, who do you want back? Your ex, or your former best friend? It sounds like you dated them both! - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
My wife of about a year who I dated for 6 years prior to marriage today she said she wants to be alone. We never fought, had a great relationship, just didn't get to see each other there last month. She doesn't even want to try to work it out. What do I do??
Love your vids so much ! I would love to see a video about my exes new gf keeps adding me on everything social media but why ? I haven’t found a video about this so would be amazing if you could !
Did no contact for 1.5 months, reached out to her but she wasn't trying to continue the conversation and replying with 2 words everytie, what should I do? Contact her again or give her more time?
Hi coach Adrian, me and my ex went through a long distance break up seven months ago, and I saw from my alt instergram account that she recently had her instagram set from private to public again, could she possibly be letting her guard down?
My girlfriend and I had a conversation. I told her that i understood why we broke up and thanked her for the breake up. Because it allowed me to enjoy other things. But than I asked her out and she said yes. But when she comes back from vacation. She is leaving in 2 months. And going away for 3. She said that she still loves me but not like before. Because she met the real me. The one that took her for granted. Is no contact good ?
3 year relationship. She ended it with me 9 weeks ago. Initially begged and pleaded. Said she needed space but on our last call she admitted to getting with a married guy from work. Went into no contact 59 days ago. But nothing. Can't switch off my feelings. Wish she would reach out but don't know if it is still not long enough for her to miss me. I am struggling so much
we been together for 3 years LDR she comes back to see me twice a year, now she say she has no feeling with me i am her first love, we had a bad breakup i beg i plead i cried, she blocked my messenger, she hates me now, when i did NC for a month, one month after i broke up when i came out she unfriended me unfollow me on every social media, on her birthday i sent her a incouraging comment on instagram on her birthday she liked it for half a day and unliked it, now shes ignorings me on instagram, its been, she is genuinely happy at work everyday, its been 3 months she stills hate and ignores me and shes dating someone new. we never ague or fight we really love each other
U have to relax I know it's hard but begging and pleading is the ultimate no no..it gives you zero percent chance to get her back work on yourself and she might return
we was live a real love ..somthing we cant describe .. but before 2 month somthing happend and he want us to be just good friends ! he never want me to go and he want me in his life but just a friend ? his eyes when we meet cant stop looking at me ? but his words is hid his feelings 😑, every time i want to go he dont want to ? i love hin and i know he do the same .. he ask for meet and we did yesterday in park in his car but he find excuses to touch my hands and my skin he was so close like i feel his breath near to my neck but his heart fight with his heart and prevent him to be more closer .. before i leave we hug and its seem he was sad to let me go .. he said bye babe ? but did firend call his friend babe .. i leave then less than 1 hour he call me from a no id caller i know its him .. i ask him if he need anything he said its not him then i said ok bye then he said talk to me dont go ... ?.. can i ask the males here why he do all of that ? because males understand the male thinking more than us
i Coaches, I am Aman. I am suffering from long distance relationship breakup that happens 3 months ago over the phone. I really love her and want her back in my life. We was together for 2 years. When she move to her country i didn't give her enough attention and we start having fights on this issue. Then, she call for break up. After that, I keep trying to contact her, convince her that i am changed. But, nothing happens and she blocked me from everywhere. Now, its been a month i haven't try to contact her any ways. What should i do coache ? I truly love her
I am going through divorce but still love my husband of 22 years. He is in affair with another married woman for 10 years and I found out 3 years back. I am separated from him but I can’t forget him. We have two kids together but I don’t see any remorse and he told me I have issues and other woman is better than me. It really hurts but I am fighting for my self respect but I still miss him not sure why after what he has done and miss my family as I see my girls half time only. At times I just want to fix my marriage but I just can’t do it alone.
Thank you for reaching out, Ritka. I understand what you're going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so the we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Adrian
I need guidance coach Adrian! Ive been living with my girlfriend for over 10yrs! Im her first everything if that means anything. Weve been broken up since the pandemic hit. We still live each other at the moment. I feel like my situation is very unique and i need help!
Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago we were together 6 years and she got into a relationship with a so called friend of ours straight away, we had complications which meant we had to stay in contact, we talk regularly and everything and we both have admitted we still care a lot about each other but I am moving away now as I can’t deal with the new relationship and making my depression worse but we haven’t done no contact and I don’t know if I should do it once moved as I guess we’ve been talking for months still and I feel like she will never get the feeling that I am gone now and that was her decision? What do I do? Still talk to her once I’ve left or no contact even for few weeks?
Me and my ex were together for 17 years. We both raised her daughter together. The last 9 months of our relationship she was seening another guy behind my back. The last 3 years of our relationship she was injured from work and stayed at home while I worked a lot of hours to make ends meet. A couple months after the break up she contacted me and we hung out secretly for a couple weeks while she still was with this other man. Within them weeks she told me that she wasn't over me yet Said she loved me and all kinds of stuff, kissing but nothing sexual. Shortly after that I notified him and told him what she was doing behind his back. She got pissed and tried to file a restraining order against me which obviously failed. Since then it's been 4 months of 0 contact. I'm having a very hard time getting over the situation considering it was a long 17 years together and how it all ended. I still love this woman with all my heart. I have definitely been working on myself my physical appearance as well as my financial status. Im not waiting around for her but I would like to know your opinion if you believe she is gonna reach out to me at some point in time? Thanks!
My wife says she wants out. She says she never loved loved me and she will never love me like that. We've been together 7 years and she is pansexual. She's not even out of the house and is already on dating websites. She wants to stay friends and the only boundary is no sex. Even after she moved out. We have 5 kids. Should I give up?
Someone used for picture in Facebook names Cloud Demon and he is attacking female members in Mindful Attraction 2.0’s group. Ive seem some report about him. One of our members, Princess was right, The user must be female she knew The pictures were fake, maybe Princess knows you ahead already, but she dint mentioned your name tho so either she can read people or knows you, but what ever, someones using your pictures on Facebook, it might destroy your reputation.
I accidentally sent something to my Ex on whatsapp after being two weeks in NC. It was a random picture I wanted to send someone else. I deleted it. But on whatsapp the other person can see that a message was deleted so I wrote her sorry I wanted to send this to someone else and clicked on your name by mistake. Is No Contact ruined now?
My girlfriend and I of 3 years we broke recently because I caught her cheating on me with another guy and what hurts me is that I left friends and family behind for her and we’re still living together but she brings her new boyfriend to the house everyday while I’m present and it breaks my hearts that she does that right in front of me
Edwin Hernandez either kick her ass out of the house or pack your stuff and leave. I wouldn’t tolerate that kind of behavior. She has no shame! I so hate cheating bastards, and it doesn’t matter to me if it was the guy who cheated or the opposite sex. 😡
Will he come back to me if this time i left him and divorced him ...he would always leave me and come back when he wanted to...2 kids im 10 yrs older hes 29 ..will he come back
Hi coach, my ex if 3an half yr and I broke up 6 months ago because of cheating but we were in contact but last week I blocked him and dint respond his call and message.after this he blocked me .what is he doing??
Hey maile di, he is simply retaliating for you blocking him. We don't encourage anyone to block anyone. It doesn't really help your cause and all it does is increase the negative tension - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity doesn't increase nothing .. if you see bullshit a mile than keep things moving forward with your life.. no negatively energy positive . Blocking is necessary ..
Mark, my husband and I have been married for 35yrs. He moved out of the country. It's been 1yr. 2mos since break-up. He is finally starting to email me again. Just keep your cool with her. Be in no contact for a while and then make contact slowly and try to make her laugh at an old memory or two. Fingers crossed.
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Do same sex relationships last longer than normal people do? Are women more faithful or loyal than men? I see how men are promiscuous wether they are gay or straight. But i think women are better in keeping relationships.
Say Adrain, can you post your email in this comment? I really need some advice, I just had a horrible break up this past monday with the man i care and love for five and a half almost six years please help me
I have a situation that my husband left the house 2 months 1/2 ago. I have been texting him everyday very minimal but he only reads the text with no response unless I ask him to respond. My texts are not nagging, begging or fighting they are usually uplifting or asking him about his day or our finances. When I need a response about our finances I call him and he responds but it’s not a lot of communication. Recently I started the no contact rule I’m on 5th day but on the 3rd he reached out to to me to thank me of my help of creating a resume and looking for a job that he previously got. He starts it on the 18th and I was thinking about sending him an uplifting text for his first day that he will do a good job. I dk if I should do this? And I don’t know how to read his previous text messages . I don’t know if it’s too late for my marriage or the no rule please help and advise me on what to do???
Hi coach Adrian, My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me. I found him chatting with someone..so as I know it was an online relationship of few months. He has loved me so much... He still says he does. He confessed he's cheating after I assured him that I will forgive them..bcz I just wanted to know the truth. He is very guilty now and requesting me to take him back... He gave me plea and reasons behind cheating. That I have an anxiety disorder ( it's true) and I was becoming unable to give him the love that he needed so he went somewhere else to seek love and happiness. He has told me a thousands of lies only to hide his online relationship. He has been a caring and genuine partner in the past. I never cheated him.. we were even serious about marriage. He still says he only wants me. I m really hurt and confused.. should I forgive him? Please help coach.
I was married for 20yrs, he left + hooked up immediately with a work colleague who he has been with over 18mths. I have a love hate feeling for him. He has deserted family life and has been on multiple holidays with the new gf, we are getting divorced, we have two teenagers and we don’t communicate at all. I am struggling with understanding how he threw away the family for money and this woman.
I've been in a long-term relationship (38 yrs). I'm tired of always changing when the dumper has never made the effort to change herself. No consulting, no working on physical things, etc. I've been there and done that. I'm tired, and I don't believe at 62, I need to change especially if I'm the only one doing so. It's getting to a point where I want nothing to do with her! I've been in no contact for 40 days thinking maybe this is what it takes to get her back. Those 40 days have also shown me the energy I've spent does equal the reward. I don't care if I ever see, or hear from her again!!!
How about a video for when a man is breaking up with the rebound, and BOTH women are wanting to get him back. Who has the biggest chance? If your relationship was longer than theirs, etc. And they seemed to be a rebound. But their rebound relationship lasted longer than usual, but with a lot of drama and issues.
I lost my income when covid struck. I became a burden & was cut off financially & abandoned. The issue is; we were married, together for 13y & we have a preschooler. I am now studying paramedicine & working on myself. I take care of my daughter full time. We didn't have relationship problems until I had our daughter.
Ouch man. How long ago was that?
20yrs. relationship. shattered
Im going through a break up from a 8.5 year relationship, 12 years age difference we met when she was 18 and i was 30, she feels like she hasnt been in the world by herself as i have been her first real relationship, neither of us have done anything wrong and we still love each other but she feels like she needs to do her own thing for a while, she just finished uni and we where going to move together to the place where she has her new job coming up, first she wanted to move first and live by herself for a while but said she said it would be unfair on me and didnt want me to wait, im happy to wait because our relationship is strong but she communicated she needs to do this on her own, i understand but shiiiit, my world is upside down and inside out
2yrs relationship ended 3mo ..we tried to back together not so successful....I still want to be with him but hasn't contacted me...dnt know what to do iam still broken hearted but trying to move forward in a positive way ...you tube family just pray for me !!!
Ebony Stewart u ain’t alone fam goin thru the exact same thing fam 2years ended 3months ago wit my ex girl
Hey Ebony Stewart, there's nothing you can do at the moment directly. The best you can do is prepare yourself to show him that you just didn't stand still after the breakup. You kept moving forward and weren't waiting around for him to change his mind. We're here to support you! - Adrian th-cam.com/video/zgt1UVW4VjY/w-d-xo.html
I feel you, I’m going through the same right now. :(
Me and my ex broke up after six years almost two months ago, I did 28 days of no contact and after that I saw her in campus. A few times. On new years Eve we were in a party and she tried to tease me, I told her it's not cool, few days later I asked for my stuff from her, she said shell bring it, it didn't happend so I gave her roommate her stuff with an hand written letter. After that she said she want us to meet but went into radio silence, so yesterday I took my stuff from her roommate and saw her on the street, she didn't reply to the letter all she had to say is it's not cool that I put her stuff inside her room and not in the living room.
(the stuff were sex toys and some personal items) after that I was in shock and devistated how can she do this to me ? What should I do next. I'm not going to contact her again anytime soon
I never considered this perspective. This is not my issue at all. I am in a great relationship with an amazing woman who has never stopped loving me. But for some weird reason I feel like I need space to find myself again. Like I’m molding myself to much into what she wants. Leaving me no space to be who I truly am. Or forgetting who I truly am.
Ive found the best way to get over my ex is by watching these videos and playing a drinking game where you take a shot every time he says "coaching sessions". Just kidding, great advice as usual.
Can you please do a video on a long distance rebound relationship!!!
lupita gonzalez same situation haha
What if the divorce was caused by sexual betrayal? It’s been two years and I feel like she can never forgive what I did even though I am a different, better person now…
Its been a year. His parents love me and support me despite the fact they played the role in his break up decision. Especially his mom loves me, says I'm And amazing woman, beautiful, a model, mature and who's her sh*t together And he's a little boy who needs to grow up, a boy who can't handle a grown woman but only a little girl. They see my change.
He's currently been rebounding his 4 years older sister's friend who he have always despised because she's boring, can't make her own decisions And He would have gone crazy..
I know he's not mature Now but He still holds a place in my heart despite acting like an immature moron. He was So different with me. Mature, happy, loving.
I'm kinda stucked, want to move more forward but still want him by my side though he has not grown....
Thank you!
Married 13 years with kids going on 3 months separated and I miss her! But I'm the one who initiated the divorce,giving her,her grounds for the divorce! I regret it but its my fault.Neglected her emotionally.Then committed infidelity because I was convinced I was done and was convinced she was done too.Now I know I really do love her & am still in love with her and want her back but I believe it may be too late now.Though she said she wants a divorce and that we will NEVER get back together again.I still hold out hope that we will but we will see.I'm just trying to give her her space now.We only really talk when it comes to the kids.We get along & still laugh at times,maybe some small flirting but I know she's still very angry & hurt with me for what I did.What advice would you give me as I try to work on myself now?
19 years and I don’t understand why now he treats me like I don’t exist after 5 months separated. We’ve now not had any contact for 6 weeks . He’s with someone else but every time I’ve asked he says he’s not seeing anyone why keep lying
He went from the most caring to the most insensitive disrespectful man I know
I had a 14 year relationship with my wife and she said that she left me because I had messaged another woman 7 years ago.
We have two kids and still live together it’s been 2 months since she left me.
She won’t talk to me and I was very emotional when she left.
Is there anything I can do when no contact isn’t possible when we live together
Hey guys, just broke up with bf a few hrs ago 293 days , that's 9 months and 15 days, it's like we were starstruck lovers then, he decides he doesn't feel romance for me anymore...... I used to think it would hurt so bad, but it didn't, I got over it within a hour......Wow, I bet it would hurt if he knew that though, after he says I'm the perfect one..... Highschool has his ups and downs I guess it took the coronavirus as a sign we didn't need to be together, all the signs I ignored for him. Great video btw, and everyone you're amazing ;^
I wish I could give you a call. This was so helpful
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Had a relationship 3 years and 6 months and it's been 7 months he had broken up with me as I was too desparate and I had tried no contact but he messaged me to inform about the timings as we are in the same institute ....after sometimes when I saw that we can talk as a friend I messaged him to become a good friend but he now refuses to talk about other things and says that we can only talk about the timings or details we share in common .......what I should do now ..plsssss help me
10yrs since we we’re 18
my girlfriend for 2 years broke up with me yesterday and she is already kissing another dude
I was with my ex for 18 yrs i had a stroke was in wheel chair sometimes in 2011 he was great until 2017 when broke my hip things changed he told me he didn't love me he cared but needed sex2017 so i went back in hospital when I was there he left me 2 days moved another girl in our house I still love him and miss him it was my fault i couldn't give what he wanted how can i get him back i cry for him i dont if he his for got me i miss him
Hi coach can you tell me how i can do a phone coach with you if possible im goung throw a break up at the moment
How do you build a communication platform if you are not communicating now and are blocked from everything ?
Sam here
After my ex of 3 years wanted a break, I initiated NC for about a month and he reached out saying he missed me. We hung out, it went well, and plan on meeting again soon. We talk daily but I’m currently dealing with communication issues probably due to resentment of our past. He’s hot/cold. Should I give him space with NC or continue things as they’ve been? It hurts not having a response for hours but being told “I love you”. I need to focus on myself and reflect through this recovery process so it only makes sense.
Is there anyway I can get in contact with you and start sessions?
Not sure if you are still answering the messages here, but out of a decade long relationship. Broke up with me out of the blue and i became severely depressed and suicidal. I didn't tell him, but someone sent him my messages to them telling them. I assume that means there is no chance left?
My ex girfriend dumped me and because of no reason & never want to see my face again but her best friend was mine best friend too .. she was so kind to me & was supporting for my bkup .. we were like best buddies but one day she also finds my mistake to dump me and now she had blocked me from all social media i just want her back 🙁🙁🙁
Hey Gagan Hayer, who do you want back? Your ex, or your former best friend? It sounds like you dated them both! - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Am so sorry dear ...
My wife of about a year who I dated for 6 years prior to marriage today she said she wants to be alone. We never fought, had a great relationship, just didn't get to see each other there last month. She doesn't even want to try to work it out. What do I do??
Love your vids so much ! I would love to see a video about my exes new gf keeps adding me on everything social media but why ? I haven’t found a video about this so would be amazing if you could !
Did no contact for 1.5 months, reached out to her but she wasn't trying to continue the conversation and replying with 2 words everytie, what should I do? Contact her again or give her more time?
Hey Stef_Supertramp, you definitely need to give her more time. Why did you two breakup? - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Hi coach Adrian, me and my ex went through a long distance break up seven months ago, and I saw from my alt instergram account that she recently had her instagram set from private to public again, could she possibly be letting her guard down?
How can I have a coaching session with you to tell you about my situation and receive advice
Thank you for reaching out, Brandon. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ to book a 1:1 session!
Coach Adrian
thanks for blaming the breakup on me.
My girlfriend and I had a conversation. I told her that i understood why we broke up and thanked her for the breake up. Because it allowed me to enjoy other things. But than I asked her out and she said yes. But when she comes back from vacation. She is leaving in 2 months. And going away for 3. She said that she still loves me but not like before. Because she met the real me. The one that took her for granted. Is no contact good ?
3 year relationship. She ended it with me 9 weeks ago. Initially begged and pleaded. Said she needed space but on our last call she admitted to getting with a married guy from work. Went into no contact 59 days ago. But nothing. Can't switch off my feelings. Wish she would reach out but don't know if it is still not long enough for her to miss me. I am struggling so much
we been together for 3 years LDR she comes back to see me twice a year, now she say she has no feeling with me i am her first love, we had a bad breakup i beg i plead i cried, she blocked my messenger, she hates me now, when i did NC for a month, one month after i broke up when i came out she unfriended me unfollow me on every social media, on her birthday i sent her a incouraging comment on instagram on her birthday she liked it for half a day and unliked it, now shes ignorings me on instagram, its been, she is genuinely happy at work everyday, its been 3 months she stills hate and ignores me and shes dating someone new. we never ague or fight we really love each other
U have to relax I know it's hard but begging and pleading is the ultimate no no..it gives you zero percent chance to get her back work on yourself and she might return
20yrs. my partner. said he fall out. of love. 50yrs. old what. will i do.
we was live a real love ..somthing we cant describe .. but before 2 month somthing happend and he want us to be just good friends ! he never want me to go and he want me in his life but just a friend ? his eyes when we meet cant stop looking at me ? but his words is hid his feelings 😑, every time i want to go he dont want to ? i love hin and i know he do the same .. he ask for meet and we did yesterday in park in his car but he find excuses to touch my hands and my skin he was so close like i feel his breath near to my neck but his heart fight with his heart and prevent him to be more closer .. before i leave we hug and its seem he was sad to let me go .. he said bye babe ? but did firend call his friend babe .. i leave then less than 1 hour he call me from a no id caller i know its him .. i ask him if he need anything he said its not him then i said ok bye then he said talk to me dont go ... ?.. can i ask the males here why he do all of that ? because males understand the male thinking more than us
i Coaches,
I am Aman. I am suffering from long distance relationship breakup that happens 3 months ago over the phone. I really love her and want her back in my life. We was together for 2 years. When she move to her country i didn't give her enough attention and we start having fights on this issue. Then, she call for break up. After that, I keep trying to contact her, convince her that i am changed. But, nothing happens and she blocked me from everywhere. Now, its been a month i haven't try to contact her any ways. What should i do coache ? I truly love her
I am going through divorce but still love my husband of 22 years. He is in affair with another married woman for 10 years and I found out 3 years back. I am separated from him but I can’t forget him. We have two kids together but I don’t see any remorse and he told me I have issues and other woman is better than me. It really hurts but I am fighting for my self respect but I still miss him not sure why after what he has done and miss my family as I see my girls half time only. At times I just want to fix my marriage but I just can’t do it alone.
Thank you for reaching out, Ritka. I understand what you're going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so the we can help you more on a personal level.
Coach Adrian
I need guidance coach Adrian! Ive been living with my girlfriend for over 10yrs! Im her first everything if that means anything. Weve been broken up since the pandemic hit. We still live each other at the moment. I feel like my situation is very unique and i need help!
Hey! How are you doing now? Did you guys get back together?
What about if your ex has bipolar disorder. Will no contact work?
i got married 5 month ago, and now my husband wanted divorce, i dont know wat to do help please
Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago we were together 6 years and she got into a relationship with a so called friend of ours straight away, we had complications which meant we had to stay in contact, we talk regularly and everything and we both have admitted we still care a lot about each other but I am moving away now as I can’t deal with the new relationship and making my depression worse but we haven’t done no contact and I don’t know if I should do it once moved as I guess we’ve been talking for months still and I feel like she will never get the feeling that I am gone now and that was her decision? What do I do? Still talk to her once I’ve left or no contact even for few weeks?
Me and my ex were together for 17 years. We both raised her daughter together. The last 9 months of our relationship she was seening another guy behind my back.
The last 3 years of our relationship she was injured from work and stayed at home while I worked a lot of hours to make ends meet.
A couple months after the break up she contacted me and we hung out secretly for a couple weeks while she still was with this other man. Within them weeks she told me that she wasn't over me yet Said she loved me and all kinds of stuff, kissing but nothing sexual. Shortly after that I notified him and told him what she was doing behind his back. She got pissed and tried to file a restraining order against me which obviously failed. Since then it's been 4 months of 0 contact. I'm having a very hard time getting over the situation considering it was a long 17 years together and how it all ended.
I still love this woman with all my heart. I have definitely been working on myself my physical appearance as well as my financial status. Im not waiting around for her but I would like to know your opinion if you believe she is gonna reach out to me at some point in time?
Thanks!
Hey I just brokeup with my girlfriend and I need her back plz help me to get her back
Tell her you're sorry and want to talk to her about what happened. You are the person that will solve your problem.
How long should no contact be for a 9yr relationship ive been on no contact for 2 months now i sent an accountability letter and she respond
My wife says she wants out. She says she never loved loved me and she will never love me like that. We've been together 7 years and she is pansexual. She's not even out of the house and is already on dating websites. She wants to stay friends and the only boundary is no sex. Even after she moved out. We have 5 kids. Should I give up?
Added this is a shared account. My name is Brad.
12 years and it's over.
Someone used for picture in Facebook names Cloud Demon and he is attacking female members in Mindful Attraction 2.0’s group. Ive seem some report about him. One of our members, Princess was right, The user must be female she knew The pictures were fake, maybe Princess knows you ahead already, but she dint mentioned your name tho so either she can read people or knows you, but what ever, someones using your pictures on Facebook, it might destroy your reputation.
I accidentally sent something to my Ex on whatsapp after being two weeks in NC. It was a random picture I wanted to send someone else. I deleted it. But on whatsapp the other person can see that a message was deleted so I wrote her sorry I wanted to send this to someone else and clicked on your name by mistake. Is No Contact ruined now?
My girlfriend and I of 3 years we broke recently because I caught her cheating on me with another guy and what hurts me is that I left friends and family behind for her and we’re still living together but she brings her new boyfriend to the house everyday while I’m present and it breaks my hearts that she does that right in front of me
Edwin Hernandez either kick her ass out of the house or pack your stuff and leave. I wouldn’t tolerate that kind of behavior. She has no shame! I so hate cheating bastards, and it doesn’t matter to me if it was the guy who cheated or the opposite sex. 😡
Will he come back to me if this time i left him and divorced him ...he would always leave me and come back when he wanted to...2 kids im 10 yrs older hes 29 ..will he come back
Hi coach, my ex if 3an half yr and I broke up 6 months ago because of cheating but we were in contact but last week I blocked him and dint respond his call and message.after this he blocked me .what is he doing??
Hey maile di, he is simply retaliating for you blocking him. We don't encourage anyone to block anyone. It doesn't really help your cause and all it does is increase the negative tension - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity what if I blocked him because I keep checking him on socialmedia..he has a new gf
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity doesn't increase nothing .. if you see bullshit a mile than keep things moving forward with your life.. no negatively energy positive . Blocking is necessary ..
Will she come back to me if she really love someone truly???
My wife and I have been separated for two years , we have been married for 20 years , is there any hope ?
Mark, my husband and I have been married for 35yrs. He moved out of the country. It's been 1yr. 2mos since break-up. He is finally starting to email me again. Just keep your cool with her. Be in no contact for a while and then make contact slowly and try to make her laugh at an old memory or two. Fingers crossed.
How can you be my coach?
Thank you for reaching out, Andrew.
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Coach Adrian
Are you guys still answering comments even though thisnvideo was a year ago?
Yes, we are. Thank you for watching, Vivian!
Coach Adrian
Do same sex relationships last longer than normal people do? Are women more faithful or loyal than men? I see how men are promiscuous wether they are gay or straight. But i think women are better in keeping relationships.
Say Adrain, can you post your email in this comment? I really need some advice, I just had a horrible break up this past monday with the man i care and love for five and a half almost six years please help me
I have a situation that my husband left the house 2 months 1/2 ago. I have been texting him everyday very minimal but he only reads the text with no response unless I ask him to respond. My texts are not nagging, begging or fighting they are usually uplifting or asking him about his day or our finances. When I need a response about our finances I call him and he responds but it’s not a lot of communication. Recently I started the no contact rule I’m on 5th day but on the 3rd he reached out to to me to thank me of my help of creating a resume and looking for a job that he previously got. He starts it on the 18th and I was thinking about sending him an uplifting text for his first day that he will do a good job. I dk if I should do this? And I don’t know how to read his previous text messages . I don’t know if it’s too late for my marriage or the no rule please help and advise me on what to do???
Hi coach Adrian, My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me. I found him chatting with someone..so as I know it was an online relationship of few months. He has loved me so much... He still says he does. He confessed he's cheating after I assured him that I will forgive them..bcz I just wanted to know the truth. He is very guilty now and requesting me to take him back... He gave me plea and reasons behind cheating. That I have an anxiety disorder ( it's true) and I was becoming unable to give him the love that he needed so he went somewhere else to seek love and happiness. He has told me a thousands of lies only to hide his online relationship. He has been a caring and genuine partner in the past. I never cheated him.. we were even serious about marriage. He still says he only wants me. I m really hurt and confused.. should I forgive him? Please help coach.
8 years ended 8/20/2020, she got married to another guy 10/17/2020
That’s weird. Was it an arranged marriage?
How about 10yrs
Plssss reply n help in my situation ...
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