Calling Our Mothers on the Podcast | Chunkz & Filly Show | Episode 21
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 พ.ค. 2024
- This was a real one...we called our Mum's.
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Timecodes 🕰️
0:00 🎤 Freestyle Intro
0:32 ⌚️ Gratitude
2:17 😳What is the scariest thing you would do?
14:30 🐶 Update on Pinpon...
16:58 💔 Profound questions: Forgiveness
34:02 🫂 What makes a best friend?
38:57 👰 Your wife is your best friend?
39:37 📝 Order these: Wife, kid, Mum.
45:27 📱 Phoning Our Mums
58:12 👯♂️ Should your bestie sit in the front with you?
58:59 🎞️ Movie Rating Game
01:06:37 🏆 Winnerrrr!
01:06:53 👋 Goodbye now!
The whole pin pon section got me crying 😭 , when he said did she want the world to have a final look at him , whatttt🤣🤣
that lawrence guy needs to stop talking he talks too much it’s not his pod
@@a-dplays4394 nahh you need to stop talking bro we love Lawrence
@@a-dplays4394 nooo I think he fits in perfectly
@@a-dplays4394 lawrence is very experienced on pods bro, you aint on one so shushhhh
@@a-dplays4394we love him like that
I love when Lawrence interjects at times, it elevates the conversation at times
At times. He just pipes in every 5 minutes
At first it was cute, other times I just wished that he'd keep quiet and just let them talk. 😭
She said “YEAH! SAY NO MORE” 😂😂😂😂 🙌🏽 Fillys mum is on another level 👸🏽
U have no idea when it comes to Latina moms and their sons …. 😂😂 Latin moms are gangsta 😂
are you a Somalia 🇸🇴
she sounds like a legend. and shes right too. any good parent puts their kids first, and anyone who disagrees does not truely love their kids. they went and gave birth, raised it and still like their partner more lol. brazy. if every family ran like that the world would be over, kids would know they are 2nd or last in the house which would be terrible.
@@tasniimismail1246she’s full melanin lol
As a married woman for almost 7 years and very very close to my parents and I love my 2 boys so much but its husband, kids, parents. One day my boys will leave me and get married God willing, and i pray they put their wife first. Before getting married i never would think anyone could come before my parents. Chunkz and Filly I feel like once you two get married your perspective will change 🙏🏾
Kids go first. Your own flesh and blood.
@@kaidiya2403I would put kids and partner on the same level, one like you said is flesh and blood and the other is the person that will be with you till your last breath so you can’t put them lower than anybody else
@@kaidiya2403 You created those children with your true partner though.
Lawrence is such an unexpected integral part of the pod, when he was first added I was happy cuz I like Lawrence but didn’t know if he would be a good fit, but he actually adds a lot
nah he talks way too much. it’s chunkz and filly pod not lawrence
for realll low-key watch because of him
shut up lawrence is hard@@a-dplays4394
@@a-dplays4394 he adds so much to the conversation, the convo about forgiveness wouldn’t be as good as it was without Lawrence
he adds the hint of maturity which balances it all out, its great
Lawrence needs his own camera frame. Like he is just as much part of this podcast as Chunkz and Filly at this point.
Blessings to all you though. ✨🙏🏼
No
@@sac7454 ur defo dry in real life
u spoke my mind litterly
I’m really trying to petition for Lawerence’s face cam .. cause what he said at 15:21 has me rolling 😂😂😭
How awkward Chunkz gets when pinpon is brought up is hilarious 😂
Filly's mom had me gassed with that, "Say no more". He need to bring her on the pod, I swear loool
Need a lawrence cam seeing the banter and back and forth of you three having a deep convo was real nice. It was nice just having the trio and no guest after a while the deep convos always nice too
Facts
Idk it's nice having a third voice only person sometimes but I like Lawrence
He might be my favourite on the pod
Chunkz is probably the most genuine and intelligent person in the entertainment industry
He certainly doing his research. He’s been going to places 😂
As a married person, i agree with Laurence (wife, kid, parents).
Your parent's understand that and they have the same order. Some factors may result in changes, for example cultures and religion.
Happy wife happy life is the most true and evident statement. When you prioritise your wife, she will in result be happy and in result the kid will benefit. Because your wife and kid are now happy, you have time to visit your parents. It's a order that makes sense.
Exactly mom's whom say they're first is selfish jealous women trying to ruin their son's relationship
I think its different for men than it is for women.
Women would most likey have their moms and their kids first while men would most likely have their wives first. Hence Filly's mom snd Chunkz's mom answers.
This was told to me by one of my uncles, the only person you have is your spouse. your parents grow old and your kids have their own life and as a parent, their responsibility is to educate them and teach them how to live. so people should choose wisely as to whom they should spend the rest of their lives with because it’s the most important decision they will make.
@@Willpower1213exaccttlyyy nothing worse than mums who see their son as their husband 😭
Chunkz and filly are black men w/ kids or partners so...
Filly is actually such a good actor. Like you can see the emotions in his acting.
YES!
I am married. Have been with my husband for 7 years. It’s definitely spouse, kids, and mom. As a christian, (which I am) when you get married, you become one with your spouse so in a sense, its like, how can you put someone else above another part of yourself?? I think you have to secure your home first and make your home as happy as possible. You never want your spouse to subconsciously feel inadequate. At the same time, for me, my mom and spouse both understand the order and love and respect each other to the point that there are never force me to choose one over another-they always tell me to pick the other person out of respect. Hope that makes sense. Love the pod!
But in reality your kids are actually a part of you while your spouse is not. Kids should be number one.
I used to prioritize my kids until I realized that the head of the family unit is me and my husband. If we're not good, then that seeps down to the kids, and the whole family unit gets impacted by it. The thing is, it's easy to prioritize your children. It actually comes really natural as a parent (especially as a mom). But if your actions go unchecked, you can end up becoming nit picky and micro aggressive towards your spouse, who is the only person that actually understands what you're going through. Raising children is a blessing but it's not an easy task, but what's important is that you guys are in it together. Then one day your kids will eventually grow up, move out and have families of their own. If you spent the last 30 years prioritizing them instead of your spouse, what happens when they leave? You're left with a stale marriage and essentially a roommate. I decided that's not what I wanted for my marriage so I started prioritizing him first.
Not reading that mate, love tho
@@sembot2.013 lazy much
@@sembot2.013 yet you felt the need to comment? loool
I am married for about 6 months and got a 8year old daughter.
The correct order is Wife>Kids>Parents.. the reason behind it is.. after you leave your parents house you are supposed to live with the wife and live with her and raise kids together.. and after your kids grow, they will also leave to their partners.. the only one that will stick by you till the end will be your wife.. hence why the order is that way!
Love love
💯
Been married for 27 years and have two sons (25 and 21). My opinion has always been Wife, Kids, then Mom. The moment you marry your wife is first and foremost in your life. It is you and your wife against the world. It doesn't mean you don't love your Mom, but but your inner circle changes when you marry. Just my opinion.
Wife over kids? Is that normal?
@@NiceIndeedi think its wild but everybodys saying it
Especially from a religion standpoint it is mostly said wife over kids in union
@@greenside_ymsworld
Fr same. I’ve been hearing bare parents talk about it and it’s always the same: “I’d kill my spouse for my kid”. And I’d agree with that probably. Spouse is all nice and well, but my kid?
@@NiceIndeedcan always have another kid tho
It’s Wife, Kids then Mum. People don’t understand how important marriage is, it’s literally two people making a promise to God that you will be with this person for the rest of your life. You become a partnership, and as a Man it’s our duty to protect our new family & honour the marriage. One day your wife will be the only person there when you’re sick/old.
Edited: I feel like people don’t actually understand how important and holy Marriage is. Society has damaged the way people look at Marriage. (Western World mainly)
Exactly!
God says paradise is under the feet of mothers.
a good wife will be there when your sick but a normal mother will be there whenever let alone a good mother. Whatever you do in life, you can’t pay back your mother.
Key word " good wife "...
What if i don't believe in god? Is my marriage still a promise to god?
Whenever I see it’s no guest episode, I would sometimes go ‘is it worth watching?’ Then when I play it in the background, I’m suddenly tuned in and listening to every word, they speak so maturely and on a deep level, proud of you guys.
I'm the opposite, can't watch no guest episodes because Lawrence talks way too much and loudly while being hidden, I'm not a fan
@@MysticGohan01you raise a good point, I believe he adds some extra stuff to their conversation. You mean he should be sounding more like he’s actually in the background rather than having a mic next to himself.
@@ZahinIndustries that is indeed what I mean. I have no problem with the background dude speaking, but usually it's when they're spoken to or when it's necessary to add context, like Jamie on JRE. Lawrence adds good topic points but it's when he randomly enters into the conversation when Chunkz and Filly are talking to each other. And it would be okay if it was rare but it's not, it's way too often. I appreciate his additions though, when he's spoken to lmao
@@MysticGohan01you’re just replying to everyone with this nonsense pipe down
Filly goes into character so naturally, I feel like he could potentially b a great actor
This is such a good question. In the Bible order, the spouse comes first before kids and parents. Matthew 19:5: And Jesus said, “‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’
Like Chunkz said diesnt mean you are disrespecting anyone, but if there is an order, in Christianity, that will be it. Spouse, Kids, Parents
@@NaomiUsman
Spouse over kids?
@@NiceIndeed Yeah, because now, your wife and you are the same person.
@@NaomiUsman but i wouldnt put myself over my children
@@YesIlikebananasSo Fair enough. I'd kill for my kids and my parents, no disrespect to anyone, but I'd still pick my husband over my kids. My kids will leave me one day and start their own family, my parents have their own family, My husband is my family.
"... and the rest, init" 😭 gotta love women like Filly's Mum 50:28 ❤
When yall were talking about if u cutting a friend constitutes as forgiveness, in my opinion forgiveness doesn't always mean reconciliation or maintaining a close relationship with the person who hurt you. Sometimes, it means acknowledging the harm done, letting go of negative emotions, and making choices that are in your best interest, even if that means distancing yourself from the person who caused you pain. GREAT POD THO, Lawrence has been a dope part of the podcast!!!
the sly mention of filly sitting in the back cause he doesn’t have his license anymore is TOO FUNNY
Honestly the only thing I look forward to on a Thursday. Keep it up with the podcast.
The guest are cool but I love it when it’s just the two of y’all
I truly love your guys energy man. Such interesting convos as well. Feeling like one gets to know you through a screen
Hands down my favorite episode thus far!!!…. The topics were top tier, the perspective were so interesting, honesty and very much understandable. I loved when the fellas called their moms such a dope moment and you can hear the passion behind their answers. Keep up the amazing epi’s
Love you getting the mumzies involved, and love hearing you both talk in your different languages a side we dont always see of u both. Love the podcast i wait all week for it to come! Xxx
"theres one in hoxton" killed me man
faxx 🤣
Nah man Lawrence is funny af too, he makes this podcast even more entertaining imo
You guys are the best! A podcast that has a combination of everything really! To the deep belly laughs to the important and informative conversations! I enjoyed watching this episode a lot❤️
If Chunkz and Filly can get their mums and PinPon on the Pod, that will be the episode of the year! 🙏
ILL NEVER GET TIRED OF THESE PODCAST HONESTLY HIGHLIGHT OF MY WEEK!
Love this podcast fr, supporting from new zealand and wake up at 5 am every Friday to listen to this podcast. This ep was too good I didn’t want it to end, and big up Lawrence. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
50:27 “and the rest init”
I’m absolutely finished 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think this conversation is super important and very timely especially the forgiveness part it was very wise from both parts. 👏🏽👏🏽
I honestly love the episodes with just these two the most. Their friendship, their stories, their banter is perfect on its own. They truly don’t need guests, but as long as they enjoy having people on they should keep doing it. I’m just saying they are magic together just them two✨👏🏻 And Lawrence is amazing as well to be honest. He is actually a great addition, but I don’t count him as a guest😆🫶🏻
Fillys mum sounds the best. I lost my mum 14 years ago love the relationships you man have with your mum.. keep them close ❤💙
This deep conversation like the forgiveness bit is so good to watch like I love how real you guys kept it.
For me personally.. kids wife mom... No love is stronger than what you have for your kids.. Your wife gave you your kids and is there for you and your kids. Your mom has lived her life and now understands the situation.
Wife, kids, mum
Mum, kids, wife
Another one 🙌🏿 had to call in sick to work today this is the perfect thing to watch while recovering
i think this is a perfect representation that two things can be true at once - no one person is “right” - this teaches people integrated intelligence - disagreements shows so much about the people and their point of views that there really isn’t a “right or wrong” way of thinking , it’s just the way people think due to their own life experiences
I've watched each and every pod you've done, cause you guys are probably my favorite TH-cam duo. And this has to be the best pod you've done.
Nothing wrong with forgiving and then keeping your distance.Great pod guys🔥
ah gents. ALL ROUND great episode. HUGE shout to loz and what he brings to the show.
keep it coming. big love from south africa🇿🇦✊🏽♥️
Everyone needs a friend like Chunkz bro!! God bless his heart
honestly this the only podcast that ive been able to watch and finish and even watch all the other episodes, and it even mmade me watcgh almost all the beta videos and chunkz's videos, filly's videos as well as harry pineros, love these guys so much
I really like you guys' take on forgiveness. Honestly have been on and off questioning myself if cutting someone off is a way of forgiveness.
Cutting people off just means your values no longer align with theirs. It’s more of a “letting go” than forgiveness
You can still be upset but forgive them, so cutting off and forgiving is more sincere
I looooooooove the deep conversations guys keep it up❤❤
You guys made me want to get on a podcast. Your questions are always really good and deep. I am a deep thinker. Therefore, i like these sort of questions. Forgiving someone is not easy, but it can be done and you never forget it cause at points in your life you just reflect on it and you either to choose to forgive again no matter how it makes you feel and use it as life experience where you grow from it. We choose to trust people yet the choice of being up for their trust falls on their shoulders. Forgiving is always an option but forgetting comes by time and how far you have moved from the specific issue in your life. Love your guy's work keep doing it brothers y'all are amazing proud of you both.
Absolutely love them both, such a nice podcast to watch. Well done guys, congrats 🥳 xx
Chunkz and Filly the duo always🔥🔥🔥
Chunkz and Filly mum's are awesome. Big ups to all the mums in world❤️
Love how both these guys speak their native language fr , i swesr we need at least 1 person each from you guys family to come on the podcast ❤
Best pod ever! Love you lot so relatable! Perfect balance between jokes and being serious! 🎉🎉
I really love these types of podcasts where its just chunckz and fill chattin
I like how you guys include the guy behind the cam aswell, always fun
This is already my favourite podcast😂❤ the banter and the brotherhood 👏🏾
I really really enjoyed this podcast. I have only recently started watching you guys and I really really enjoy listening
An hour before iftar with nothing to do Chunkz and Filly show comes in clutch respect
Love this podcast ❤
Absolutely love this show. My mom pass away on on 31st Dec, 2021 and as a female it was especially heartbreaking, our bond was super deep. Loved hearing the guys interact with their mothers, what love and respect. Low key I know Filly's mom wanted to say mom 1st, the kids 2nd and wife 3rd.😀😀😀. 100% support her logic.
18:39 WOW, thank you Chunkz. I never really understood that saying "forgive & forget" forgive yes, but how can I forget? But you put it into proper perspective and understanding. Thank you for your wisdom 💛
Best way to spend your afternoons.
Easily the best podcast right now, 1 hour is criminal though! I need at least 2! 💯
Sometimes less is more man, better to keep you wanting more rather than you lose interest!
@@tyroneevelynvery true tbf
Not a chance on this earth am I watching #21 of this pod already👀 keep em coming man, shxts n gigs along with chip gotta be best 2 eps
great episode, so much here for a young person to learn. this is what a man to man podcast should look like!!! 👏🏾
15:21 has just made me burst out laughing, so unintentionally cold from Lawrence and Filly's face, "what do you mean by that?"
love when they upload actually makes my day.
Filly’s laugh is contagious 🤣💀 !
Thank you guys for this amazing episode
God bless both of you ❤️!
Loveeeeeeeee this episode ❤. I wished I was there I had a lot of thoughts to share. Keep it up 👍🏽
No!!! Witch and the scarecrow has me dying!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️ loved this episode!🙏🏽🙏🏽🤣❤️
Chunks mom is so funny she really said “iiday ha ii waalinee waad ii waa li nee saa” meaning basically stop stressing me out 😂😂😂😂😂
gotta love our Somali moms
my favourite ep really enjoyed this one man
Chunkz singing at the start of a pod is the best thing ever.
As a married man the order is:
Wife
Kids
Parents
Guys/girls that aren’t married think of it like this!
When your parents pass & your kids leave home who is still there for you? YOUR WIFE
Biblically it says in the Bible “a husband & wife become one flesh” so your wife needs to be no.1
Awww
I think part of the forgiveness convo is mixing forgiveness with trust in a person. Someone stealing, lying can show you that they can’t be trusted. So ending the relationship is wise. Forgiving is a heart posture, so I’m not holding a fire in my mind when your name is brought up lol
We need more deep convos like this! Lawrence is the MVP on this!!!
Loved this episode! The part where they called their mums was so wholesome 🥺
Naaaah, Filly’s mom is A REAL ONE. God bless her always and Que Dios la cuide siempre. SAY NO MORE! ❤
Love how much these 2 love their mums 🥹
Honestly my favourite podcast rn 👏🏾
I love this episode it’s actually amazing I also love the part where they called they’re moms❤
Tbh it’s kids, spouse, and then mom. In a situation where I have all 3 by Gods grace, my children will always be first in my family hierarchy
CHUNKZ X FILLY = BEST DUO EVER ❤❤ LOVE UR POD GUYSSSSS
Ayyyye 🎉 I'm loving Lawrence voice over Yes man 😂 Love this show so much n through topics raised..
Thanku Chunkz n Filly 4 never disappointing with the subjects raised ca they're needed in this day n age!! BIG UUP YOURSELVES 🆙️🆙️🆙️🙌🏾💫🫶🏾❤️😁🎉🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Looking 4ward 2 More Content
Honestly best podcast's are always with you two alone, you got such a good chemistry
Pin pon story’s always gets me!🤣 love ya Cabron pin pon🤞🏾❤️
Filly’s laughter makes-me-LAUGH! 🤣🤣🤣
Always man ❤
This was defo one of the best eps so far
Ayo guys, this was the best pod ive listened to of you guys. Just me thinking bout how much I appreciate my best friend and my parents❤❤
Just from the way Filly said episode, Yall should get PK Humble involved 😂😂😂😂😂😂
1. Kids
2. Wife
3. Mom
4. Dad
My mom sacrificed a lot but she also made sure to make us know how much she resents her sacrifices every step along the way. She pit us against each other and alienated us siblings from each other. I forgive her , I love her, and I will never be able to repay her sacrifices but for my own sake I have had to sideline her in my own life. She relentlessly pushes her own agenda, and she's tried to drive a wedge between me and wifey just so she can fulfill her vision of me having the kind of bride she'd envisioned for me.
Dad was just watching TV in silence my entire life, we're basically strangers to one another so he comes in last ngl
I’m a married person and idk how to answer that question. I feel like they are all #1 to me because family is everything. I feel like I put them all above myself. If one person needs their needs met first for whatever reason, the others should understand that I’ll be there for them as soon as possible. And they’ll be there for me for the most part (with the exception of my child because he’s a toddler lol). I feel like we can help eachother work together as a system that takes care of each other when needed
I love these singing intros from chunkz they’re just too wholesome
''I just wanna link God'' had me😂😂
Can’t wait for “Harry Potter The Witch and The Scarecrow” featuring Chunkz & Filly
I feel like a best friend is someone you Can do everything with and go to with everything
Watching Chunkz n Filly is slowly becoming my therapy!😄 got a question for you "Do we really desire things in life or we actually seek access to those things so that we don't want them anymore?" love from Poland ❤