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True but it gets complicated now days because of online haram stuff that can be watched when nobody is looking. Men have stopped looking a real women in front of them because they have seen everything online, so that real women don’t spark any interest in them anymore only fantasy women interest them. This must be the first in history this has ever happened, we do g know how this going to effect the society long term, but it doesn’t look good.
Fantasies come from books too, where there is nothing to see except words on a page. In deed, I don't even look at other humans. I remain home a lot but my house is a library, with all the books of every genre at my fingertips. Luckily my fantasies are about book characters and being in love with them, so it's not so bad
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 well, it's a catch 22. I stay home a lot in order to protect my modesty. And as a result, I spend my time reading. Books have become my companion in the absence of human interaction. My books are like my friends and that's not going to change anytime soon
@bruh easier said than done. Though I personally dont think what I read is bad, it can get addicting because real life sucks and I'm happier in my fantasies. And I think there lies the problem. People prefer fantasy because real life is stressful and people want to get away from their family, spouses, ect.
This video was too much😮I only watched it just find out what it was about. Maybe there should be age warning for the very young and elders, in case people watching with speakers etc. But all our brother Gabriel said was true. I suppose someone has to talk about all this type of uncomfortable stuff. But even going to Muslim councillors / therapists is sometimes a problem. I wouldn’t want anyone knowing all my business and there is no way I would go to a male therapist with these type of issues. So what do Muslim married couples do? Who can they go to? It’s difficult, so maybe just having this kind of info out there on this platform isn’t a bad thing.
Subhanallah brother what you said is the Truth and nothing else. May Allah protect us all from falling into this Fitnah and may Allah protect us the whispers of Shaytan. Ameen ya rabbal alameen
It is novelty that creates the sexual thrill. If anal sex was considered normal and normal sex a taboo , people would fantasize more about normal sex. People, stop watching romantic, erotic, pornographic movies and reading material of similar nature.
Subhanallah, alhamdulillah for your advice. May we all not give up to repair our situations, to seek Allahs guidance, to have rahma towards our spouses and work together, Allahumma amin! jazakAllahu khayran again, Brother Gabriel. Always shedding so much truth on REAL issues! 🤲🏿🌱
I used to live there in Sharjah and drive to Ajman for university, I hated driving in UAE in the day time, cars would tailgate me and I would be driving at 100 km/h. Its like they were stuck to the back of my car
Please add an age limit or something. I know its a sensitive topic and people need to know about this kind of stuff but not everyone needs to know right
As soon as a child hits puberty, they are going to be having these thoughts and desires. It's exactly the young teens who are the victims of this so they're the ones who need videos like this the most. If I saw this at 13, it could've saved me from a lot of sin, and that's a fact
@@sweettea1193 Definitely agree SubhanAllah. It is better to hear the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it makes us, than to live ignorantly and by default fall into sin. May Allah forgive us.
Sorry but I completely disagree with you.. should there be an age limit for reading Quran too? Theres all these topics regarding marriage and intimacy in Quran too! Has any scholar preceded you in saying that the ayat related to physical intimacy should only be read by certain age groups?
I couldn’t quite get the jist of this topic in the video. What kind of fantasies are we talking about? Human brain is very complex and is capable of fantasizing as to making about the situations, stories, narratives scenes etc never seen before. Where ever there is a new innovation, it came about a fantasy that was fantasized by a human at some point which he implemented in real life. I don’t think so we necessarily have to watch or read or hear etc to fantasize about something. Tbh, porn only limits and constricts your brains strength to fantasize on its own. Porn addicts really have to rely on the videos to get their brain to fantasize about getting sexually aroused.
@Saif look it’s Chad Hurley the founder of TH-cam 😂 My mistake it’s a sad, spotty little troll trying to police something he has no business policing. I pay for my own internet unlike you, are you stealing WiFi somewhere.
This is happening in the ummah, how are we supposed to fix these issues if nobody is aware of them? If you don't have these problems say alhamdulilah and move on with your life, doesn't mean othr people don't have them. Talking about these problems can save current and future marriages
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The major solution is for both men and women to lower our gaze.
True but it gets complicated now days because of online haram stuff that can be watched when nobody is looking. Men have stopped looking a real women in front of them because they have seen everything online, so that real women don’t spark any interest in them anymore only fantasy women interest them. This must be the first in history this has ever happened, we do g know how this going to effect the society long term, but it doesn’t look good.
Fantasies come from books too, where there is nothing to see except words on a page. In deed, I don't even look at other humans. I remain home a lot but my house is a library, with all the books of every genre at my fingertips. Luckily my fantasies are about book characters and being in love with them, so it's not so bad
@@sweettea1193 that's arguably worse as books leave greater room for our imagination.
@@onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 well, it's a catch 22. I stay home a lot in order to protect my modesty. And as a result, I spend my time reading. Books have become my companion in the absence of human interaction. My books are like my friends and that's not going to change anytime soon
@bruh easier said than done. Though I personally dont think what I read is bad, it can get addicting because real life sucks and I'm happier in my fantasies. And I think there lies the problem. People prefer fantasy because real life is stressful and people want to get away from their family, spouses, ect.
Brother Gabriel. I'm a revert who lived both with muslims in the east and in the west and I must say. ALL TRUE.
Be patient brothers and sisters
This video was too much😮I only watched it just find out what it was about. Maybe there should be age warning for the very young and elders, in case people watching with speakers etc. But all our brother Gabriel said was true. I suppose someone has to talk about all this type of uncomfortable stuff. But even going to Muslim councillors / therapists is sometimes a problem. I wouldn’t want anyone knowing all my business and there is no way I would go to a male therapist with these type of issues. So what do Muslim married couples do? Who can they go to? It’s difficult, so maybe just having this kind of info out there on this platform isn’t a bad thing.
I mean, the title is already self explanatory..
Good advice from 6:00 onwards. I can see the purpose of the video from that point onward.
Subhanallah brother what you said is the Truth and nothing else. May Allah protect us all from falling into this Fitnah and may Allah protect us the whispers of Shaytan. Ameen ya rabbal alameen
🌷جزاك الله خيرا
It is novelty that creates the sexual thrill. If anal sex was considered normal and normal sex a taboo , people would fantasize more about normal sex. People, stop watching romantic, erotic, pornographic movies and reading material of similar nature.
Subhanallah, alhamdulillah for your advice. May we all not give up to repair our situations, to seek Allahs guidance, to have rahma towards our spouses and work together, Allahumma amin! jazakAllahu khayran again, Brother Gabriel. Always shedding so much truth on REAL issues! 🤲🏿🌱
جزاك الله خيرا
What a great talk brother. Keep it up and be courageous in what you are doing, May ALLAH S.W.T help you.❣❣❣
Jazak Allah Khairun
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Lol typical traffic in Sharjah UAE
I used to live there in Sharjah and drive to Ajman for university, I hated driving in UAE in the day time, cars would tailgate me and I would be driving at 100 km/h. Its like they were stuck to the back of my car
Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Bro are you driving by majaz waterfront in sharjah?? this road seems very familiar to me.
@Imran A nah im sure its sharjah. I taxi cab passed by in the video. Thats a sharjah taxi.
@@A-Pro100 Yes you are right, I lived there and I knew it looked familiar. Good eye
Please add an age limit or something. I know its a sensitive topic and people need to know about this kind of stuff but not everyone needs to know right
As soon as a child hits puberty, they are going to be having these thoughts and desires. It's exactly the young teens who are the victims of this so they're the ones who need videos like this the most. If I saw this at 13, it could've saved me from a lot of sin, and that's a fact
@@sweettea1193 Definitely agree SubhanAllah. It is better to hear the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it makes us, than to live ignorantly and by default fall into sin. May Allah forgive us.
There's nothing explicit mentioned.
Sorry but I completely disagree with you.. should there be an age limit for reading Quran too? Theres all these topics regarding marriage and intimacy in Quran too! Has any scholar preceded you in saying that the ayat related to physical intimacy should only be read by certain age groups?
@@thatpakiguy3445 you don't have to be sorry. I disagreed with my remark too. See the replies
What's going on 😂😂😂 oh dear I'm uncomfortable. This is like craaaazy😂
Then leave…?
@@kslsllaoaos4372 so you think Allah doesn't know when you sin, And don't tell me what to do! I'm aloud to have a healthy opinion
I couldn’t quite get the jist of this topic in the video.
What kind of fantasies are we talking about?
Human brain is very complex and is capable of fantasizing as to making about the situations, stories, narratives scenes etc never seen before.
Where ever there is a new innovation, it came about a fantasy that was fantasized by a human at some point which he implemented in real life.
I don’t think so we necessarily have to watch or read or hear etc to fantasize about something.
Tbh, porn only limits and constricts your brains strength to fantasize on its own. Porn addicts really have to rely on the videos to get their brain to fantasize about getting sexually aroused.
Nice intro
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Brother can you talk about the issues of HFO?
What's that
Having Full Overies
Aztaghfirullah, these kind of fantasies unbelievable I am shocked.
Sorry can't see the full video too much weirdness to handle may Allah protect my children
@@arshiabasheer75 Ameen wallah these are hard time to love
Is mental fantasies haram.No visual.
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How is having a fantasize in your own mind that you do not speak out loud or communicate haram?
@Saif look it’s Chad Hurley the founder of TH-cam 😂
My mistake it’s a sad, spotty little troll trying to police something he has no business policing.
I pay for my own internet unlike you, are you stealing WiFi somewhere.
@Saif are you and your brothers always online gossiping like little hens. FYI Women are not attracted to feminine behaviour.
@Saif stop @ me and find something to do you weirdo
There's Ikhtilaf. Just respect that and move on.
@@sarahosman9030 it doesn't matter if you pay for your Internet. The husband has the right to ban it.
my brother take refuge in Allah 😓
This is happening in the ummah, how are we supposed to fix these issues if nobody is aware of them? If you don't have these problems say alhamdulilah and move on with your life, doesn't mean othr people don't have them. Talking about these problems can save current and future marriages
🤢😱
جزاك الله خيرا