How can we study when there is domestic abuse happening in family? I'm losing concentration and feel demotivated about my exam after every time my books are torn and thrown away by my mom.
N then our parents come to discuss their own personal issues with us n waste our time!!m also sick of that... N then I had to shout on them to pls leave me alone
I am giving a suggestion purely on basis on what I beleive and what i'll do , Are your parents abusive towards each other or just towards you , if former is the case , I would start by eliminating myself completely from their life, little by little like not talking for 2 to 3 days straight , not even for most small things, then a week and so on ( no conversations , nothing together ) , the cut here might not be physical but will be dominant to make its impact, when you act as total stranger to them , two things can happen either they ignore you ( which is good for you in case you want to work ) as now they won't have someone that they can easily involve in their chaos , this would be emotionally very difficult for you if you have any emotional connection with your parents, but sometimes such things are important , second thing that can happen is your parents now may be forced to reflect or feel regretful , in that case you have to communicate to them on how best they can deal with the problems so that frustration does not destroys them .( Basically communicate what they need to do for themselves and let them know what boundaries you won't allow a violation of ) , point is when people face challenge that can impact them , they in general feel smaller against it and this way have to give up their superiority or ego atleast few moments )
The only solution is isolation, don't show any emotions towards them, close the door forcefully and let them know. Use this as your motivation, study hard and get rid of this situation asap. Do a job, rent a room. Use soft music while studying, such as theme songs, instrumental etc. Remember you can do this and it's your life. So take full control of it.
Are bhai par ye cheez english jaise subject me kaam nhi kregi .... Maths ya reasoning aise wale subject me chal jata h kaaam..... But focus wale subjects me nhi chal paya h
I faces this problem everyday and frustrated everytime that there is no place where me and my studies are alone and even this frustration becomes reason for another frustration . So it became an endles deadlock for me . But one day I decided to sit in front of everyone and study I forced my self to my limits and did it for 3 days and frankly speaking that thought of someone around is more frustrating then someone is actually around ... And now I am habitual and even when I sit and study infront of my friends they ask me how u study when everyone is speaking and disturbing . I just say earlier it was my emotion of weakness now my greatest strength . Basically "Besharam" ban jaoo and let "duniya jae bhaad mai " I don't care
Can relate so hard yaar. Upar se mere pas to khudka room bhi nahi hai. Hall me sota hu. Raat ko late padhunga to hall me hu isliye 4-5 ghante baad hi utha dete hai. My sleep is so fucked yaar.
They are annoying..... someone play music.....and then work from home....and in my situation my relatives got stuck because of covid situation....and it's driving me crazy.
Ohhh god i can't believe this is my situation right now .😅😅.my younger brother shouts a lot and m trapped here at home coz of covid😞..uh are lit everytime 🔥😊
There is always a way out The way:Low rank in exam I feel that until and unless u r in uncomfortable surroundings ur brain will give less productivity plus when there is no fixed routine(which is impossible at home) u have only two frns then stress and more stress.... Lucky are those who get to do full fledged prep at home
Bhaiya ...as you said we need to explain our parents that we are preparing. But after failure in some exam these same parents start taunting us. Personal experience by the way. So bhaiya please give some solution for handling such mental issues.
these close relatives, guests come to our house every now and then, I have to go and meet them everytime that's why I also get socially awkward and bcoz of this I get distracted and it becomes hard to focus on studies and my parents say me that I dont study hard.😭
5: 04 everytime i try to explain my family that i need to focused .....its like beginning of another mahabharat tu kaam nhi krti tu aalsi hai and i just give up haha its never easy to explain family members another fact that younger siblings are way immature to understand issues of elder sibling one things that is really an amazing and motivating is your words that there is always a solution
I try all these things before seeing the vedio😂. But still I didn't get rid of those.Iam talking to my parents that I need some private place for studies.but they are not ready to do for me.😵
My mom and grandparents are worst .. they won't even reduce the volume if that person is preparing for IAS also .. they get offended if I say that there is noise at home .. highly judgemental and selfish people
A question please : how to focus on studies when I'm continuously abused and manipulated by my parents ? Like whenever I sit to study , they barge into my room and start throwing tantrums on me for any little thing , say my room is not so clean , so they start beating the shit out of me for that , for any petty reason , they basically never let me do what I want to and keep manipulating me . Alright even after all of this time waste due to being physically and mentally abused by them , I still sit to study and try my best to focus , when they're not around especially at night , but then those thoughts and feelings come into my mind on how I'm being recklessly tortured yet I'm unable to do anything , I'm 17 but totally under parental control , not even allowed to step out of the house , so my helplessness basically tortures me too in my mind itself ... How do I be mentally strong after all this and still be able to focus on studies ?
I can relate so much to your situation. Well, I am younger than you, however I would like to leave a small advice for you. For being mentally strong it takes years of efforts. It is not like-today you slept and then the next day you woke up being mentally strong. You will have to keep patience. Normally we do not consider the noise or household problems. But, I totally agree that being at home and studying in an environment which is totally unacceptable is challenging. I can relate how much bad one could feel after experiencing such problems at home. It is hard to focus on studies though. We cannot stop our parents. True! However, we could at least cut off the noise by plucking on eardopes or earpodes which cancels outside noise. Not having the access to go outside is yet another big problem. I agree. Try to spare more time at school. Try studying as much as you could at school itself. Simply sleep at night early and wake up early morning when everyone is asleep. Try studying that time as the brain is usually fresh around 3-5 a.m. Hence that time would be more productive for you. Try to engage yourself in the school environment so as to be mentally healthy. Having such problems is extremely excruciating and depressing but being with your freinds can somehow help you to have a different environment. Sending you comfort.
Same issue. It's like u can't stay focused well due to household works during day time So u choose to stay up at night to study ..Nd den again u will end up getting scolded for staying up late at night as it's ruining my health.🙁😑 Insaan kare toh Kare Kya... I m unable to give my maximum efficiency due to this issue since months now.Cant complain either.. As Ashish Sir said"There's always a solution".
It's a natural thing for Indian student u have to do that otherwise u like " nikamma " But we should do it's our small responsibility towards parents...
Thanks Bhaiya. You have achieved so much and still so humble and down to earth. I learn from your videos not just academic aspects, but behavioral aspects also. Take care.
I had started night studying but everyone also started to ignore sleep in night .Then I started explaining and they started not sleeping at more time, then I started going to the terrace and they started coming there also. Then I get the idea of visiting library and due to covid no one is allowing to visit.
I am at my home, my online classes are from 8:30 am to 4 pm. What should be my time table to study, as if I study in night , then I can't be active in online classes. Also Project work and Assignments from college r there.
I handle a 4year old, a 9 month old, full-time job, part-time freelancing work, AND study for a certificate course. So nothing's impossible. Great video.
The best method is answering their questions with yes or no. Thats it. Any more reasoning will waste your time and energy and make you frustrated. Thats the method i use. If they ask me if i am alive, then yes, if they ask me to do something, in order to avoid chaos, do it as fast as possible and come back to study, if they ask you to come out, say NO. No other reasoning required. Your time and energy are much more valuable
Im in great trouble I live I joint family.can't study in night ...thought of studying at night .but the thing is I can't switch on the light at night...even my house is not too big..I can't study in day as well as in night....plss help me
We are 7 members and having 6 rooms and 2 very big halls & 3 gardens . Still I get no place to study . They have closed 3 rooms just Because of my over possessive dad and uncles and they filled these rooms with their 25years old things which have no use in today's life , we are(my mom, me and my siblings) are even not allowed to sit in gardens or in terrace . Also in hall because it's for guest and remaining 3 rooms have taken ....by 1 room - for my uncle 1 room - my dad Last 1 room - my mom , sister , my brother and me .... Now it's impossible to study 😣😣😭😫 Actually I think my dad and uncles are mentally ill and my mom stuck with these mentally disorder persons . And they make our life miserable 😔💔 Sorry for my grammatical mistakes .
thankyou so much for this video ❤ , often we know some of the things but our brain tricks us " kaise hoga sbkuch " due to fear and anxiety but listening from someone who have been through similar situation is so much of relief. ❤
Still after explaining the situation, my mature-enough brother is currently distracting me by interapting my studies with useless talk. Through this I came here.:-|
5:07 no matter how many times i explain my younger brothers about my situation that i need to study and i have Neet next year and all....after few hours the start doing the same stuff and i get annoyed and the cycle continues.....I don't know what to do coz arguing with them is also of no use i just don't know what to do.....😢😖
Worst thing is when I'm trying to get rid of my accent and trying to record my voice, it's nearly impossible to actually record only my voice lol, but when it comes to studying in disturbance, I'm doing fine it's still annoying though, but you have to control yourself! One more tip from me is to meditate, learn how to be focused on anything you want first and you don't need to make some weird kinda pose while meditating.
I have a two year old and six month old. Most of the times they are with me only while studying. 😅 They want to see their mom all the time. What can I do 🤷 Let me see how much I would score in the coming gate exam. I see your videos for motivation and strategies.
@@sarthakbondre2005 ninth class? If you focus properly, it shouldn't take you more than 3-4 hrs a day at max 10 cgpa holder here. Personally, I studied only before my exams until my class 10th
No bhaiya, white noise is a sound which contains waves that go in a random pattern but we feel as if it is pretty static. We generally perceive them as hi-freq sounds. Many people call it the static noise. Dekho mai scientist ko sikha raha hun😅😂😂
sir I m fully focused when I learn new concepts but I lack concentration when I revise my class notes or previously learnt concepts pls tell how I concentrate on that becz after study I feel ,I wasted my time
My mom watch tv with full volume and i am unable to concentrate on a single line and i have told many times to reduce tv volume but she doesn't care now what should i do??
Actually I have major noises form my neighborhood, In covid times also, our neighbours used to play cricket just in front of my building rode and talking loudly, shouting, etc What should I do, can anyone give me suggestions.
Yes, great ideas, though my family is really supportive but I recommend to study early morning or late night as my exams are going on I follow the same formula... And for competetive exam bhaiya told correct steps..:))
Bro i am preaparing for jee advanced our home is very small just 2 rooms 400 sq ft😅 in which there are 5 members What should i do i always get frustrated due to my parents or others disturbing me 😭😭😭😭 How will i prepare for my exams 😭😭
7 hours~ sleep 6 hours ~ school online classes 2hours~breakfast, lunch, dinner 40mins. ~ other work 2 hrs.~coaching 2hrs.~coaching ke notes rough se fair me likhne ka time or notes banane ka time. So bhaiyaa only 5 or 6 hours are enough for self study. HAMEIN to yeh bataya gya tha ki 8 or 9 hrs. Self study krni hoti hai. My question~ HOW TO MANAGE TIME FOR SELF STUDY ??????????????
Can anyone guide me please Hall - occupied by my father . 2 Rooms are there in my appartment 1st room - My brother , me and my mom we all sleep there 2nd room - My sister doing work from home job ( 5pm-3am) her timings, so it's not possible to study in that room. Kitchen - mom usually work there Bathroom - only place left for me 😑... Seriously now how i can study . What should I do ..my 12th is going on and can't concentrate on my studies..
Sir DO ANSWER !! How can we create a habit of studying at night and sleeping during the day because after taking 6 hrs of sleep during day I m still feeling sleep!!
Sir, i am thinking a lot aboutmy failure(in a competitive exam) for which I had given everything and I think this is reuning my next opportunities. i am facing this difficulty for a long period of time and I think this is a huge burden on me. Please suggest something.
Parents are not understanding. Lots of distrubance because of joint family. Also my job is of night shift so it ends at 3:30 AM. What can I do. Also I get 2 days week off but is of no use. Also my parents not allowed me to go to library or PG for study. Please can you guide me for this
When we r studying something conceptual or anything where 100% concentration is Must,then it's really difficult to tolerate sounds or blaberring of other people.....it's really annoying...i need to read same concept again and again due to chaos..It waste my time like anything 🤧😓😓
Library visiting is just a temporary solution moreover they earn money and you may go of not go sometimes. Home is the base of our lives , jaha bhi aakhir ghar hi ana padta hai fir chahe woh kaisa bhi kyu na ho you can't spend your whole life in library right what about lunch you can't eat out everyday and if its far it is more difficult best thing to do is to study at night til 5 pm in morning when all are sleeping because during the day time someone will call , television noise , if you got any sibling then he will make pubg game noise , plus your bad house lifestyle if you stay in cities like Mumbai will affect you a lot . please study at night
What to do if someone is not a night person ..i get only distracted by noise and no work pressure ..no one in my room ..but the noise is a problem ..can you suggest way to block noise ..the living room is just near to my room and thus noise is not blocked even when the door is closed ..plz suggest something for noise blockage
How to study for long hours with focus ? I study for a while ( usually 90 mins in one go ) and then I take a break of 5 mins and after that I don't feel like studying at all and end up wasting most of my day .
Please make a video and tips on effective revision in a very short period of time especially physics and chemistry..You videos are very helpful.Thanks you🙏🙏
Same thing happens me daily guys, I live alone away from home, I am doing job and alongside I want to study more to grow in my career but my father is so toxic that he created everyday drama at home with my mom and my younger brother and also with relatives and neighbours, my mom weeps daily, she is not able to smile from so long, he drinks and talks random shit about my mom to random people, my mom tells all these things to ne bcoz I am very close to her, but on listening all these things I get frustrated and sometimes I even want that my father just vanish from our life, he is just creating problems daily for us and don't take any responsibility of his actions that he do when he is drunk, he damages things, life has become hell from last few days, I am trying to study after office but these things don't allow me to concentrate on work at office and also on study at home, I feel so helpless , I just pray to god that either my father stops doing all these things or he just get away from our life......., f*ck such father's who don't understand how much their children and wife is suffering and just do what they want to......, f*ck him........
Please give some tips if parents are strict and not letting to study at night they are like sleep itni rat Tak ku jag rhi suba padhai nahi hota ratt ko hi they don't understand
U are amazing u bring all those videos and answers which an aspirant can wish or they wanted you to share. This are really very helpful always Thanks a lot sir
When I studies my mother came and say I want to sleep and turn off all lights...now please tell me how can I study....they all says ( mom,dada my younger sibling) If you want to study go in store room n study there...but it's too hot and not much lights here in store room😭 my condition is really miserable.... they're so toxic
My parents sleep around 2-3 AM and my mom wakes up again at 5 idk how she does it but she wakes up, she sleeps in the afternoon for sometime but i feel lazy in the afternoon i don't understand what should i do when its noisy
Thank you so much I am dealing with with Narrsatitic manipulative MOM ne promblemtic dad I have exam this exam I was not able to study and concerating on studies becoz I have a fight with my mom and grugment with dad for me my exam are very important , I need to prepare for exam . I am not focusing on my parents negative talks I am not taking part in any off the conversation with them bcoz they nag me down and then I will get upset and I am a sensitive person and I don’t want to get into all this crap dram bcoz I don’t have time for proving my point bcoz they don’t listen and acknowledge so I don’t agrgue or talk with them I am only forcing on my mental peace and my exam .
My parents fight every now and then.... Not towards me, but towards each other they're abusive and my sibling is just 2 years old 😔 I can make neither of them understand anything ! They say 'just ignore the arguments' and then expect me to comfort them and take either one's side in the argument.... Demand me to spend time in the household, play with my sibling, do chores... Idk what to do because as a school going student, I cannot even stay up late at night.. im having exams in the next two days 😔 and they say I'm dramatic, am I ?
How to manage gate preparation with cllg semester . I'm actually not following my semester .I'm not able to write notes for sem plz make a video to handle both..
What to do my father is telling study for24 hours i can't do anything when i am telling father i will read myself nicely but my father will tell sut up do your work its my vacation time also please help me from nepal 🇳🇵😰😰😭😭😥
my roomate is a sycco , she dont likes me studying , she keeps huge sound whenever i am reading , i am crying every day because of her she dont like light also , she want to switch of light always
Nowadays I am not in my home ..I am in my relatives house due to which my whole study timetable has damaged ..like I used to study at evening in home but here I have to study in afternoon which is difficult for me ..similarly my study area and everything has changed
Bhiya I am currently in class 12th. This year I have my board exam . I plan daily to study till 8-10 hours but I end at 4-5 hours . Please help me.....
How can we study when there is domestic abuse happening in family? I'm losing concentration and feel demotivated about my exam after every time my books are torn and thrown away by my mom.
N then our parents come to discuss their own personal issues with us n waste our time!!m also sick of that...
N then I had to shout on them to pls leave me alone
I am giving a suggestion purely on basis on what I beleive and what i'll do , Are your parents abusive towards each other or just towards you , if former is the case , I would start by eliminating myself completely from their life, little by little like not talking for 2 to 3 days straight , not even for most small things, then a week and so on ( no conversations , nothing together ) , the cut here might not be physical but will be dominant to make its impact, when you act as total stranger to them , two things can happen either they ignore you ( which is good for you in case you want to work ) as now they won't have someone that they can easily involve in their chaos , this would be emotionally very difficult for you if you have any emotional connection with your parents, but sometimes such things are important , second thing that can happen is your parents now may be forced to reflect or feel regretful , in that case you have to communicate to them on how best they can deal with the problems so that frustration does not destroys them .( Basically communicate what they need to do for themselves and let them know what boundaries you won't allow a violation of ) , point is when people face challenge that can impact them , they in general feel smaller against it and this way have to give up their superiority or ego atleast few moments )
Dial 1098
@@soosoo599 lol
Have your personal room😄
Actually the fact of ignoring family members is literally impossible........even god can't fix this
Bro , tell me if you live in Delhi. Let's take room together.
@@Naveenkumar-qy5wy hahahaha
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@@Naveenkumar-qy5wy sry bro.....I am from telangana state
@@Naveenkumar-qy5wy
I'm rdy, i live in Delhi what about u?
The only solution is isolation, don't show any emotions towards them, close the door forcefully and let them know. Use this as your motivation, study hard and get rid of this situation asap. Do a job, rent a room. Use soft music while studying, such as theme songs, instrumental etc. Remember you can do this and it's your life. So take full control of it.
Respect
Are bhai par ye cheez english jaise subject me kaam nhi kregi
.... Maths ya reasoning aise wale subject me chal jata h kaaam..... But focus wale subjects me nhi chal paya h
@@btk870 use whitenoise and start pomodoro... it'll work
agree
Adding to this girls are predominantly expected to help in the house chores😂😂 which evolved to be a dominant distraction
Tell your family about team works😅
My cousin did too.. she abled to score 94%
Yesssss👍
@@GOD-pc4pn otherwise she would have scored much better!!
Yes you are right!
I faces this problem everyday and frustrated everytime that there is no place where me and my studies are alone and even this frustration becomes reason for another frustration .
So it became an endles deadlock for me .
But one day I decided to sit in front of everyone and study I forced my self to my limits and did it for 3 days and frankly speaking that thought of someone around is more frustrating then someone is actually around ...
And now I am habitual and even when I sit and study infront of my friends they ask me how u study when everyone is speaking and disturbing .
I just say earlier it was my emotion of weakness now my greatest strength .
Basically "Besharam" ban jaoo and let "duniya jae bhaad mai " I don't care
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Can't you join a library
man hats off to you for building up that attitude.
🥰🥰
Gr8 bro
At night!!
My family members are like owls.
They sleep 2 or 3 a.m 😌
The fact is u can't even study without your luck 😬
Can relate so hard yaar.
Upar se mere pas to khudka room bhi nahi hai. Hall me sota hu.
Raat ko late padhunga to hall me hu isliye 4-5 ghante baad hi utha dete hai. My sleep is so fucked yaar.
@@funnynotfunny1646 ohhhho!! I completely understand!! 😥 but just keep on trying one day u will be in hostel completely away from all these toxicity
same here
I recommend you sis if they are sleeping at so start study from 2 to 3 till when they àre awake
@@divyapandey5417 same reminded for you sis
Family members makes u feel unsetlled and confused. So by being cut off and distancing is only the way
Seriously yr but is covid scenario me to kahin ja v nhi skte
They are annoying..... someone play music.....and then work from home....and in my situation my relatives got stuck because of covid situation....and it's driving me crazy.
True 🙄😞
@@devilshk3196 oh so sad yrr...😭😭😰😰
Ohhh god i can't believe this is my situation right now .😅😅.my younger brother shouts a lot and m trapped here at home coz of covid😞..uh are lit everytime 🔥😊
Mine too
Same as me 😂, my younger brother also shouts and run here and there all day🤯😤🤬
Same here😭😭
I'm the younger brother for my bhaiyaa and cousin didi
You are right
Also When I am watching this video still the disturbance is on.....😂😂
Here also...😆😆😀😀
yeah man🤣🤣🤣
Same pinch
Here also😂
Same here
There is always a way out
The way:Low rank in exam
I feel that until and unless u r in uncomfortable surroundings ur brain will give less productivity plus when there is no fixed routine(which is impossible at home) u have only two frns then stress and more stress....
Lucky are those who get to do full fledged prep at home
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i feel you 😭😭 how are u now?
Bhaiya ...as you said we need to explain our parents that we are preparing. But after failure in some exam these same parents start taunting us. Personal experience by the way. So bhaiya please give some solution for handling such mental issues.
That we all have to learn to ignore
@@ashishtorq okay😂
these close relatives, guests come to our house every now and then, I have to go and meet them everytime that's why I also get socially awkward and bcoz of this I get distracted and it becomes hard to focus on studies and my parents say me that I dont study hard.😭
Absolute right
😭same😭
Same 😒😬😬
Mai toh jaata hi Nahi koi BHI aata jaata rahe😏
same for me, well I do ignore them but they think I disrespect them so I can't concentrate
5: 04 everytime i try to explain my family that i need to focused .....its like beginning of another mahabharat tu kaam nhi krti tu aalsi hai and i just give up haha its never easy to explain family members another fact that younger siblings are way immature to understand issues of elder sibling
one things that is really an amazing and motivating is your words that there is always a solution
True 😞
Your words are true
Same thing happens with me
True
Same🙂
I try all these things before seeing the vedio😂. But still I didn't get rid of those.Iam talking to my parents that I need some private place for studies.but they are not ready to do for me.😵
😅😅
same here buddy😔
can't help
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night
Midnight
My family is too noisy
I just want to live alone now
It will be very good for me to study
Same condition here 😒😪
My mom and grandparents are worst .. they won't even reduce the volume if that person is preparing for IAS also .. they get offended if I say that there is noise at home .. highly judgemental and selfish people
So sad
Same😭🤬🤬🤬
Same but I m disturbed by my siblings
You have Exactly uploaded the video
What I was needing right now.
Thank you.
Your most welcome😊
A question please : how to focus on studies when I'm continuously abused and manipulated by my parents ? Like whenever I sit to study , they barge into my room and start throwing tantrums on me for any little thing , say my room is not so clean , so they start beating the shit out of me for that , for any petty reason , they basically never let me do what I want to and keep manipulating me . Alright even after all of this time waste due to being physically and mentally abused by them , I still sit to study and try my best to focus , when they're not around especially at night , but then those thoughts and feelings come into my mind on how I'm being recklessly tortured yet I'm unable to do anything , I'm 17 but totally under parental control , not even allowed to step out of the house , so my helplessness basically tortures me too in my mind itself ... How do I be mentally strong after all this and still be able to focus on studies ?
Bro its common problem for all.
same here🙂
I can relate so much to your situation. Well, I am younger than you, however I would like to leave a small advice for you. For being mentally strong it takes years of efforts. It is not like-today you slept and then the next day you woke up being mentally strong. You will have to keep patience. Normally we do not consider the noise or household problems.
But, I totally agree that being at home and studying in an environment which is totally unacceptable is challenging. I can relate how much bad one could feel after experiencing such problems at home. It is hard to focus on studies though.
We cannot stop our parents. True! However, we could at least cut off the noise by plucking on eardopes or earpodes which cancels outside noise. Not having the access to go outside is yet another big problem. I agree. Try to spare more time at school. Try studying as much as you could at school itself. Simply sleep at night early and wake up early morning when everyone is asleep. Try studying that time as the brain is usually fresh around 3-5 a.m. Hence that time would be more productive for you.
Try to engage yourself in the school environment so as to be mentally healthy. Having such problems is extremely excruciating and depressing but being with your freinds can somehow help you to have a different environment.
Sending you comfort.
@@myweirdamericanaccent Thank you so much😊
Hi how are you doing now😊
Tq bro 😊
Why Can't u suggest tips to do early morning study........ Many of our parents aren't allowing late night study as it is unhealthy...
Same issue.
It's like u can't stay focused well due to household works during day time So u choose to stay up at night to study ..Nd den again u will end up getting scolded for staying up late at night as it's ruining my health.🙁😑
Insaan kare toh Kare Kya...
I m unable to give my maximum efficiency due to this issue since months now.Cant complain either..
As Ashish Sir said"There's always a solution".
Same issue.
Exactly
Explain them scientifically and confuse them. Definitely i promise they won't ask you again. This is same happening here.
@@kwondo_22_mars solid bro 😂
Oh damn.....just needed it since am at home,........thank you so much
Thanks a lot 😊
I prepare in home only
My family members never disturb me they don't watch TV also
Lucky
You are so lucky👍
@@shwetachaturvedi6649 I suppose most of the parents are like this only
@@inspiregrow2336 hm
U r really lucky,my big bro disturb me😓
How someone will study when u have to cook food and do other household works?
Seriously..yeah leke aoo woh leke ooo...dimag ka dahi ho jata hai
Me too..have that responsibility...😦😦😦😐😐
It's a natural thing for Indian student u have to do that otherwise u like " nikamma "
But we should do it's our small responsibility towards parents...
@@ganeshkumargupta3898 dahi bhi leke aao😂😂
Sahi bola
my mom used to disturb me a lot. It increased after my dad and grandma died. And now I am here for a solution. thank you so much sir!
Thanks Bhaiya. You have achieved so much and still so humble and down to earth. I learn from your videos not just academic aspects, but behavioral aspects also. Take care.
I had started night studying but everyone also started to ignore sleep in night .Then I started explaining and they started not sleeping at more time, then I started going to the terrace and they started coming there also. Then I get the idea of visiting library and due to covid no one is allowing to visit.
🙁🙁
@Study Worm haa yrr pta ni kya prblm h...😤😤😤🤕
Haa ye bhi bahut bada prblm hai
Same problem for me
Same here 😩.
Thank you so much for making this video.I am being so disturbed by my siblings and can't be able to focus on study.
Your most welcome😊
Its so frustrating if you wanna study but can't with all the disturbance. 🥺
I am at my home, my online classes are from 8:30 am to 4 pm. What should be my time table to study, as if I study in night , then I can't be active in online classes. Also Project work and Assignments from college r there.
Same case bro🙄
deal with it
U r a boy . So I'm assuming u can go to a library..?
These types of videos I always wait for! Video for EVERY student!
I handle a 4year old, a 9 month old, full-time job, part-time freelancing work, AND study for a certificate course. So nothing's impossible. Great video.
How…🤔😯😲
How ? Please share your experiences with us.
The best method is answering their questions with yes or no. Thats it. Any more reasoning will waste your time and energy and make you frustrated. Thats the method i use. If they ask me if i am alive, then yes, if they ask me to do something, in order to avoid chaos, do it as fast as possible and come back to study, if they ask you to come out, say NO. No other reasoning required. Your time and energy are much more valuable
Im in great trouble I live I joint family.can't study in night ...thought of studying at night .but the thing is I can't switch on the light at night...even my house is not too big..I can't study in day as well as in night....plss help me
We are 7 members and having 6 rooms and 2 very big halls & 3 gardens . Still I get no place to study . They have closed 3 rooms just Because of my over possessive dad and uncles and they filled these rooms with their 25years old things which have no use in today's life , we are(my mom, me and my siblings) are even not allowed to sit in gardens or in terrace . Also in hall because it's for guest and remaining 3 rooms have taken ....by
1 room - for my uncle
1 room - my dad
Last 1 room - my mom , sister , my brother and me ....
Now it's impossible to study 😣😣😭😫
Actually I think my dad and uncles are mentally ill and my mom stuck with these mentally disorder persons . And they make our life miserable 😔💔
Sorry for my grammatical mistakes .
thankyou so much for this video ❤ , often we know some of the things but our brain tricks us " kaise hoga sbkuch " due to fear and anxiety but listening from someone who have been through similar situation is so much of relief. ❤
Good thing about him is he find problem as a challenges and try to find the solution.
Still after explaining the situation, my mature-enough brother is currently distracting me by interapting my studies with useless talk. Through this I came here.:-|
5:07 no matter how many times i explain my younger brothers about my situation that i need to study and i have Neet next year and all....after few hours the start doing the same stuff and i get annoyed and the cycle continues.....I don't know what to do coz arguing with them is also of no use i just don't know what to do.....😢😖
I can understand
Worst thing is when I'm trying to get rid of my accent and trying to record my voice, it's nearly impossible to actually record only my voice lol, but when it comes to studying in disturbance, I'm doing fine it's still annoying though, but you have to control yourself! One more tip from me is to meditate, learn how to be focused on anything you want first and you don't need to make some weird kinda pose while meditating.
You shouldn’t try to get rid of it
@@ashishtorq what?! lol I know I should and I will. Lmao
I have a two year old and six month old. Most of the times they are with me only while studying. 😅 They want to see their mom all the time. What can I do 🤷 Let me see how much I would score in the coming gate exam. I see your videos for motivation and strategies.
Yes big bro i slept at 12 o'clock yesterday
@@sarthakbondre2005 Wait till your 12th 😂😂😂😂 You will get to know the syllabus and then after of Higher Studies.
@@sarthakbondre2005 bruhhh 😂😂
I just used to study during tests and exams..
Still I got 9.7
@@sarthakbondre2005 study ke sath whatsapp aur TH-cam chlega to yhi hoga 😅
@@sarthakbondre2005 ninth class? If you focus properly, it shouldn't take you more than 3-4 hrs a day at max
10 cgpa holder here. Personally, I studied only before my exams until my class 10th
@@eternalks6872 lol
No bhaiya, white noise is a sound which contains waves that go in a random pattern but we feel as if it is pretty static.
We generally perceive them as hi-freq sounds.
Many people call it the static noise.
Dekho mai scientist ko sikha raha hun😅😂😂
@INCENTIVE search drone music. Any sort of music which is repetitive. Thats why people listen to lofi
For the third point, why don't the family members understand this themselves
I don't ask those questions
I HAVE 1 ROOM AND MY SIBLINGS FAIMILY AND BEDS OR MANY MORE THINGS 🥀
Thanks for the video brother~I have been thinking about it today morning and you uploaded it now!🖤
Your most welcome😊
sir I m fully focused when I learn new concepts but I lack concentration when I revise my class notes or previously learnt concepts
pls tell how I concentrate on that becz after study I feel ,I wasted my time
Revise only important points
My mom watch tv with full volume and i am unable to concentrate on a single line and i have told many times to reduce tv volume but she doesn't care now what should i do??
Actually I have major noises form my neighborhood, In covid times also, our neighbours used to play cricket just in front of my building rode and talking loudly, shouting, etc
What should I do, can anyone give me suggestions.
Oh same prblm I m suffering nowadays. 🙌🏻 how do u even came to knw abt that. U are genius. 😃
Thanks a lot 😊
There's always a way out💯💯 Thank you Sir😊😊
Thanks a lot 😊
Yes, great ideas, though my family is really supportive but I recommend to study early morning or late night as my exams are going on I follow the same formula...
And for competetive exam bhaiya told correct steps..:))
Thanks for sharing!!
Bro i am preaparing for jee advanced our home is very small just 2 rooms 400 sq ft😅 in which there are 5 members
What should i do i always get frustrated due to my parents or others disturbing me 😭😭😭😭
How will i prepare for my exams 😭😭
Brother ur situation is like me..
@@neetfighter.4875 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ya situation is bad try study hall .
Same situation 😭
I'm a neet aspirant and my situation is same I feel like crying....
7 hours~ sleep
6 hours ~ school online classes
2hours~breakfast, lunch, dinner
40mins. ~ other work
2 hrs.~coaching
2hrs.~coaching ke notes rough se fair me likhne ka time or notes banane ka time.
So bhaiyaa only 5 or 6 hours are enough for self study.
HAMEIN to yeh bataya gya tha ki 8 or 9 hrs. Self study krni hoti hai.
My question~ HOW TO MANAGE TIME FOR SELF STUDY ??????????????
same problem bhaiy a
sleep less like Ashish Bhaiya (not 2hrs ) but atleast 4 hrs and take 15 min power naps .
@@bhavyabansal5523 yes big bro but I'm 15.5 years old, my parents says that takes at least 7 hrs. Of sleep
@@piyush1856 yes big bro I'm in 10
Can anyone guide me please
Hall - occupied by my father .
2 Rooms are there in my appartment
1st room - My brother , me and my mom we all sleep there
2nd room - My sister doing work from home job ( 5pm-3am) her timings, so it's not possible to study in that room.
Kitchen - mom usually work there
Bathroom - only place left for me 😑...
Seriously now how i can study .
What should I do ..my 12th is going on and can't concentrate on my studies..
Join a library
Privilege that people don't appreciate normally having their own space and going to school/college while only focusing their studies🙂
😊
Use your anger against your toxic family as motivation
I like that
Should I sleep in the morning and study at night ??😏😏
Sir DO ANSWER !!
How can we create a habit of studying at night and sleeping during the day because after taking 6 hrs of sleep during day I m still feeling sleep!!
Sir, i am thinking a lot aboutmy failure(in a competitive exam) for which I had given everything and I think this is reuning my next opportunities. i am facing this difficulty for a long period of time and I think this is a huge burden on me. Please suggest something.
While watching these video also my family is disturbing me
😂😂
i am going to leave my home after my neet exam never going to return back
All the best
Where are you now ? I also feel the same still stuck between family and neet😖
Parents are not understanding. Lots of distrubance because of joint family. Also my job is of night shift so it ends at 3:30 AM. What can I do. Also I get 2 days week off but is of no use. Also my parents not allowed me to go to library or PG for study. Please can you guide me for this
Study before the work starts
@@ashishtorq Distrubance
Bhi sahi mei tune life change kr di yarr😊😊😊👍👍👍
Thanks a lot 😊
When we r studying something conceptual or anything where 100% concentration is Must,then it's really difficult to tolerate sounds or blaberring of other people.....it's really annoying...i need to read same concept again and again due to chaos..It waste my time like anything 🤧😓😓
Bhai for God sake I am just sitting upset and now I am seeing this.
I hope you remember me love you bro
Library visiting is just a temporary solution moreover they earn money and you may go of not go sometimes.
Home is the base of our lives , jaha bhi aakhir ghar hi ana padta hai fir chahe woh kaisa bhi kyu na ho you can't spend your whole life in library right what about lunch you can't eat out everyday and if its far it is more difficult best thing to do is to study at night til 5 pm in morning when all are sleeping because during the day time someone will call , television noise , if you got any sibling then he will make pubg game noise , plus your bad house lifestyle if you stay in cities like Mumbai will affect you a lot . please study at night
You look like you are 11
Are you sure you got it right?
@@ashishtorq ahh thats my siblings picture
Seriously my family is such a havoc ...it's always fights that this. I am so pissed
So glad someone is talking about this
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What to do if someone is not a night person ..i get only distracted by noise and no work pressure ..no one in my room ..but the noise is a problem ..can you suggest way to block noise ..the living room is just near to my room and thus noise is not blocked even when the door is closed ..plz suggest something for noise blockage
How to study for long hours with focus ? I study for a while ( usually 90 mins in one go ) and then I take a break of 5 mins and after that I don't feel like studying at all and end up wasting most of my day .
here: th-cam.com/video/0WG2OEDRZWc/w-d-xo.html
What a timing I just came to terrace because of the family thing. And then your video 🔥
Please make a video and tips on effective revision in a very short period of time especially physics and chemistry..You videos are very helpful.Thanks you🙏🙏
I will try my best
Same thing happens me daily guys, I live alone away from home, I am doing job and alongside I want to study more to grow in my career but my father is so toxic that he created everyday drama at home with my mom and my younger brother and also with relatives and neighbours, my mom weeps daily, she is not able to smile from so long, he drinks and talks random shit about my mom to random people, my mom tells all these things to ne bcoz I am very close to her, but on listening all these things I get frustrated and sometimes I even want that my father just vanish from our life, he is just creating problems daily for us and don't take any responsibility of his actions that he do when he is drunk, he damages things, life has become hell from last few days, I am trying to study after office but these things don't allow me to concentrate on work at office and also on study at home, I feel so helpless , I just pray to god that either my father stops doing all these things or he just get away from our life......., f*ck such father's who don't understand how much their children and wife is suffering and just do what they want to......, f*ck him........
I got disturbed by my family, they are playing tv with the loud sounds and their hard sounde and hard laughing sounds
Sorry for my bad english
Your speech motivated me a lot bro.I was in need of this guidance.THANK YOU SO MUCH BROTHER
Please give some tips if parents are strict and not letting to study at night they are like sleep itni rat Tak ku jag rhi suba padhai nahi hota ratt ko hi they don't understand
Very good tips ! Thank you for your advice. Currently studying for my first exams in EE uni.
You addressed my problem as well. Thanks Ashish sir..😊😊
Most welcome 😊
U are amazing u bring all those videos and answers which an aspirant can wish or they wanted you to share.
This are really very helpful always
Thanks a lot sir
It's my pleasure
Bhai please teach jee because you are a good teacher and there are many students waiting for u
My father is an alcoholic and he abuse everytime and that's why I am not able to concentrate on studies 😫😫😫
Yr ye library khulwao,😭😭😭😭
Very important topic and mostly with children
When I studies my mother came and say I want to sleep and turn off all lights...now please tell me how can I study....they all says ( mom,dada my younger sibling)
If you want to study go in store room n study there...but it's too hot and not much lights here in store room😭 my condition is really miserable.... they're so toxic
Your communication skill is too amazing... How could you achieve this fluency please tell so that we can also have fluency like this
Explained here: th-cam.com/video/eyaVMx_e3Kk/w-d-xo.html
i'm 16 and still do not have my own room :)
you're not alone
I left software domain and preparing for gate/es now watching your videos bro.. love from NITP❤️
All the best
My parents sleep around 2-3 AM and my mom wakes up again at 5 idk how she does it but she wakes up, she sleeps in the afternoon for sometime but i feel lazy in the afternoon i don't understand what should i do when its noisy
Thank you so much I am dealing with with Narrsatitic manipulative MOM ne promblemtic dad I have exam this exam I was not able to study and concerating on studies becoz I have a fight with my mom and grugment with dad for me my exam are very important , I need to prepare for exam . I am not focusing on my parents negative talks I am not taking part in any off the conversation with them bcoz they nag me down and then I will get upset and I am a sensitive person and I don’t want to get into all this crap dram bcoz I don’t have time for proving my point bcoz they don’t listen and acknowledge so I don’t agrgue or talk with them I am only forcing on my mental peace and my exam .
i don't have seprate room also even headphones did not work. i am a night owl but i have school in morning
You need to change
My parents fight every now and then.... Not towards me, but towards each other they're abusive and my sibling is just 2 years old 😔 I can make neither of them understand anything ! They say 'just ignore the arguments' and then expect me to comfort them and take either one's side in the argument.... Demand me to spend time in the household, play with my sibling, do chores... Idk what to do because as a school going student, I cannot even stay up late at night.. im having exams in the next two days 😔 and they say I'm dramatic, am I ?
How to manage gate preparation with cllg semester .
I'm actually not following my semester .I'm not able to write notes for sem plz make a video to handle both..
What to do my father is telling study for24 hours i can't do anything when i am telling father i will read myself nicely but my father will tell sut up do your work its my vacation time also please help me from nepal 🇳🇵😰😰😭😭😥
my roomate is a sycco , she dont likes me studying , she keeps huge sound whenever i am reading , i am crying every day because of her she dont like light also , she want to switch of light always
Sound like every other roommate
*Psycho
Thank you so much for sharing your ideas with us. I will definitely study at night.
Ohh ur that guy who passed that ISRO test..... U were there on the Chamomile talk......great video.
I was, thanks
Thnx for replying
Yes . I agreed parents can be ignored but when one of them is facing health issue so it's unethical to ignore . So what should be the way ?
Nowadays I am not in my home ..I am in my relatives house due to which my whole study timetable has damaged ..like I used to study at evening in home but here I have to study in afternoon which is difficult for me ..similarly my study area and everything has changed
Hope this video helped
Bhiya I am currently in class 12th. This year I have my board exam .
I plan daily to study till 8-10 hours but I end at 4-5 hours . Please help me.....
4-5 hours is a lot
Much needed ❤️🤗 Thanks!
Your most welcome😊