I remember a woman saying to me that you should only ever be delusional about yourself and your abilities. Believe that YOU are the best at what you do. Believe that YOU will achieve great things. But don’t ever be delusional about other people. Especially men.
I love that so much! It's so true. Being delusional about someone else, even if it's with good intentions (ex. wanting them to kick an addiction), doesn't work. They're on their own journey and will only change when/if they want to. Pouring your energy into yourself is best. ✨️
Honestly, when women do this kind of thing it's often not respected by men or women. Look at the Selena and Francia situation. Miss girl got her kidney and then alledgedly went on drinking and drug benders. Please gatekeep your body. You do not owe it to anyone. Man or woman.
I think Francia was cornered into donating. They called her while filming Selena’s documentary (or something) and that doesn’t sit well with me. If they’d published that scene and she hadn’t donated, can you imagine how many death threats she would have received? I’m not sure why people forgot that Selena is extremely privileged. She’s been on TV her entire life and famous people, kids included are rarely told no. She did that girl dirty.
It’s like he resented Anne for essentially making his career and saving his life! I think George has unresolved issues with his mother and would have treated anyone woman he was married to like the way he did Anne. Anne did not deserve what he did to her!
I agree! It seemed like the more she did for him, the more he hated her. She seems like such a sweet woman and deserves so much better. ❤️ I'm glad she finally left.
I love how you tell these women's stories; you honor and flesh out their histories with respect so we see the best in them and also can put ourselves in their shoes and understand them. It's a cautionary tale but it still humanizes them so we don't see anyone as a statistic or victim ❤. Love this channel, and your story telling 💯
Thank you for the lessons and reminders to focus on ourselves. It's not in a selfish way, but looking out for yourself first and not letting yourself be taken advantage of or misused by others. I appreciate what you are sharing on this platform!
I love your videos. You are really sharing a wealth of information. One thing that always stands out to me is that you really tell the full story of these women. So often they are just so-and-so's partner or ex, but you see them in their entirety and I really respect that. Plus, the clips you edit in can be so funny! Thank you 💗
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! I'm glad you enjoy the videos 🥰. And yes, they are so much more than their former partners. I hope that telling their full stories helps women understand and relate to them.
It’s really hard for me to watch this video because I too gave a man the best of me when in my prime (due to my low self esteem and self worth) and my quality of life has decreased ever since. I love your channel so much because I use these videos as a way to think about my mistakes and work through them so I don’t repeat.
Nothing prepared me for the kidney donation and the cheating afterwards. Speechless 😢 Ann could have made it herself had she moved heaven and earth for herself like she did for him. she gave up too soon. How do you go from winner with flying colours Monyetta in pageantry, education, and entrepreneurship to be a twice baby mama, to a man who wouldn't even let you heal to impregnate you for the second time?😢 "lack of self love" is the only thing that can make women self destruct for men's approval, comfort and satisfaction. I'm glad atleast these women eventually chose themselves and had a happy ending ❤
So true 😭. I can only imagine how different things would have been had she invested all of that energy and expertise into her own brand. At least she still got paid in the end. Thankfully, she finally left and started her healing journey. And yes, I'm glad Monyetta got her happy ending, too. ❤️ Self-love is vital!
facts... we're proactive and go-getters, it's natural for us to help people we love. I struggle with this too and I keep having to remind myself that I'm not responsible for other people's problems
@@mid0rina are you? i know one sag and she is 31, has numerous failed educations behind her and recieves government money bc she has decided she cant work. (that just means astrology isnt real. bc im sure u are a gogetter. but no one GROUP is this and that)
Chokoladka, you're the only youtuber that I watch where I won't skip the ads! Keep educating us, I'm learning so much. Btw you look beautiful with the new hair and outfit.
Such great life-changing advice 💜 So many people get into relationships for all the wrong reasons & before even knowing who they are. It's so important people take a look at what’s going on within them - rather than what’s going on around them. You look absolutely Beautiful, sis 🤩💓
Wow George’s ex wife is beautiful! Also, poor Aubrey Plaza losing her husband to suicide. I remember it took him 10 years to propose to her and she was the one who suggested it on their 10 year dating anniversary by suggesting they do something big for their 10 anniversary like getting married. I wonder if he remembered it was their anniversary. RIP to her husband Jeff Let’s hope George’s daughter Mayan doesn’t stand for cheating and chooses a partner who treats her better than her dad treated her mom.
I so appreciate your honesty about the selena gomes part. That whole situation was appalling to me but people are up selenas behind, they never discuss it honestly or downplay it. Or worse, excuse her behavior or the situation
I'm glad you saw the situation for what it was, too. I had to choose my words carefully. It seems like Francia downplays it too, but when you read between the lines and even just look at her expressions as she tells the story, the truth is so clear. 😟
My mom and my dads mom were the same way. Loved everyone else and went above and beyond but when it came to me I got no help EVER. So glad I went no contact.
It’s weird how his daughter low key looks like his tv daughter Carmen in the face. That used to be one of my favorite shows growing up, the George Lopez show. Back then it wasn’t hella Latino representation that actually represented Latin family that wasn’t super white passing like how it is with actual Latin American shows. Usually the ones who look as tan as George playing the poor people smh😂
Lmaoo my boyfriend and I got each other’s initials tatted on our wrists for our anniversary😭 if it ends I’ll just get another tattoo over it. As long as I’m not giving him a baby chile
Ann Lopez makes more sense than Menyatta. From what I’ve seen on reality tv shows, she seems very nice and a great parent BUT why would she do an irreversible procedure when they are 1UDs and many other options. And of course he never got a vasectomy.
I remember a woman saying to me that you should only ever be delusional about yourself and your abilities.
Believe that YOU are the best at what you do. Believe that YOU will achieve great things.
But don’t ever be delusional about other people. Especially men.
Love this perspective!
great advice thank you!
I love that so much! It's so true.
Being delusional about someone else, even if it's with good intentions (ex. wanting them to kick an addiction), doesn't work. They're on their own journey and will only change when/if they want to.
Pouring your energy into yourself is best. ✨️
Honestly, when women do this kind of thing it's often not respected by men or women. Look at the Selena and Francia situation. Miss girl got her kidney and then alledgedly went on drinking and drug benders. Please gatekeep your body. You do not owe it to anyone. Man or woman.
That is so true. Gatekeep all the way! I'm baffled that drinking after getting a new kidney seems to be a recurring theme 😭😭
Ho, when you are in that manipulative and abusive relationships (pretty sure they both were), you don’t think straight
That’s Kenneka Jenkins’ kidney, that’s why.
I think Francia was cornered into donating. They called her while filming Selena’s documentary (or something) and that doesn’t sit well with me. If they’d published that scene and she hadn’t donated, can you imagine how many death threats she would have received? I’m not sure why people forgot that Selena is extremely privileged. She’s been on TV her entire life and famous people, kids included are rarely told no. She did that girl dirty.
It’s like he resented Anne for essentially making his career and saving his life! I think George has unresolved issues with his mother and would have treated anyone woman he was married to like the way he did Anne. Anne did not deserve what he did to her!
I agree! It seemed like the more she did for him, the more he hated her. She seems like such a sweet woman and deserves so much better. ❤️ I'm glad she finally left.
@@ChokoladkaLLCa lot of men have this mentality. They resent the women who do everything for them. They always cheat on them.
As someone with low self - esteem, this channel is a gem.
Aww, I'm glad you enjoy the channel! ❤️
NEY-YO IS A WHOLE MESS 😭😭 A NIGHTMARE
A nightmare indeed! I'm not sure which guy in today's video is worse. It might be a tie. 😭
I love how you tell these women's stories; you honor and flesh out their histories with respect so we see the best in them and also can put ourselves in their shoes and understand them. It's a cautionary tale but it still humanizes them so we don't see anyone as a statistic or victim ❤. Love this channel, and your story telling 💯
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! ❤️
I remember George Lopez got that kidney and went on a drinking rampage 😂
The least he could do is take care of it 😫😭
Omgoodness it’s like he couldn’t wait to damage another one
Just like Selena
Lord Ann is a sweet woman.
So sweet and generous
Oh god! These men dont even feel ashamed having so many babymama‘s. Glad Both women flipped the Situation and have a good life 😊
Yes, I'm glad they moved on to have more peaceful and joyful lives. It was long overdue for them! ❤️
Thank you for the lessons and reminders to focus on ourselves. It's not in a selfish way, but looking out for yourself first and not letting yourself be taken advantage of or misused by others. I appreciate what you are sharing on this platform!
You're so welcome, and thank you for your support! Everyone else is putting themselves first, so we should too! ❤
I love your videos. You are really sharing a wealth of information. One thing that always stands out to me is that you really tell the full story of these women. So often they are just so-and-so's partner or ex, but you see them in their entirety and I really respect that. Plus, the clips you edit in can be so funny! Thank you 💗
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! I'm glad you enjoy the videos 🥰. And yes, they are so much more than their former partners. I hope that telling their full stories helps women understand and relate to them.
Chokoladka is utterly gorgeous and she has such a lovely voice
It’s really hard for me to watch this video because I too gave a man the best of me when in my prime (due to my low self esteem and self worth) and my quality of life has decreased ever since.
I love your channel so much because I use these videos as a way to think about my mistakes and work through them so I don’t repeat.
I will never listen to Neyo's songs anymore. His infedility has turned me off.
I know what you mean 😕. I can't enjoy them anymore either.
I always cringe when I listen to songs like Because of you.
Right with you on that boat 😭 can’t really enjoy them anymore
Nothing prepared me for the kidney donation and the cheating afterwards. Speechless 😢
Ann could have made it herself had she moved heaven and earth for herself like she did for him. she gave up too soon.
How do you go from winner with flying colours Monyetta in pageantry, education, and entrepreneurship to be a twice baby mama, to a man who wouldn't even let you heal to impregnate you for the second time?😢
"lack of self love" is the only thing that can make women self destruct for men's approval, comfort and satisfaction.
I'm glad atleast these women eventually chose themselves and had a happy ending ❤
So true 😭. I can only imagine how different things would have been had she invested all of that energy and expertise into her own brand. At least she still got paid in the end. Thankfully, she finally left and started her healing journey.
And yes, I'm glad Monyetta got her happy ending, too. ❤️
Self-love is vital!
Damn Sagittarius women love building men
♐️😭😭
We are healing 🥺🥲
facts... we're proactive and go-getters, it's natural for us to help people we love. I struggle with this too and I keep having to remind myself that I'm not responsible for other people's problems
@@mid0rina are you? i know one sag and she is 31, has numerous failed educations behind her and recieves government money bc she has decided she cant work. (that just means astrology isnt real. bc im sure u are a gogetter. but no one GROUP is this and that)
She should have left waiting 3 years for a man and to ask him to marry you. Red flags from the beginning 🚨🛑
So many 🚩🚩🚩😭
Chokoladka, you're the only youtuber that I watch where I won't skip the ads! Keep educating us, I'm learning so much. Btw you look beautiful with the new hair and outfit.
You’re so sweet! Thank you for your kind words and support! ❤️ I’m glad you enjoy the content.🥰
You're welcome ❤❤@@ChokoladkaLLC
Such great life-changing advice 💜
So many people get into relationships for all the wrong reasons & before even knowing who they are.
It's so important people take a look at what’s going on within them - rather than what’s going on around them.
You look absolutely Beautiful, sis 🤩💓
Hey, Queen! Thank you so much! ❤️ Yes, it is so crucial to find peace and balance in oneself before joining with someone else. 💜
@Rekikiye Talk about a revelation.. Best comment on here!!
I had no idea neyo was this sick. Omg
You look soo pretty in red ❤️❤️ like a Christmas queen
Hey, Queen! Thank you so much!❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for making these videos
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19:41 never take back an ex
Wow George’s ex wife is beautiful! Also, poor Aubrey Plaza losing her husband to suicide. I remember it took him 10 years to propose to her and she was the one who suggested it on their 10 year dating anniversary by suggesting they do something big for their 10 anniversary like getting married. I wonder if he remembered it was their anniversary. RIP to her husband Jeff
Let’s hope George’s daughter Mayan doesn’t stand for cheating and chooses a partner who treats her better than her dad treated her mom.
Oh wow, I didn't know their back story. She must be devastated. 😟
I hope Mayan breaks that cycle, too!
@@ChokoladkaLLCYeah Aubrey really stuck around… I don’t want to say anything negative
Luckily Neto’s ex wife is married to a better man who accepted and provided for her other children she shared with neyo
This video was excellent!
You are so gorgeous omg 😭
I hope to be more like these women each day. And I hope men like this NEVER enter my life. Rather be alone
I so appreciate your honesty about the selena gomes part. That whole situation was appalling to me but people are up selenas behind, they never discuss it honestly or downplay it. Or worse, excuse her behavior or the situation
I'm glad you saw the situation for what it was, too. I had to choose my words carefully. It seems like Francia downplays it too, but when you read between the lines and even just look at her expressions as she tells the story, the truth is so clear. 😟
Monyetta is a goddess!
Happy 2025 to you! Wow what an awesome warning tale. Lmao “ended for a predictable reason, he cheated” I can’t believe Neyo has 7 kids and counting!
Happy New Year! 💖✨️ 7 is a lot 😭!
You forgot to mention in the Francia story they lived together and after she got the kidney she told her it was time to move on.
My mom and my dads mom were the same way. Loved everyone else and went above and beyond but when it came to me I got no help EVER. So glad I went no contact.
Wow, you are very pretty and you have lovely voice. Many blessings in 2025.
Thank you for your kind words! Many blessings to you, too ✨️
Neyo looked flaming even back then. Idk what Moneytta was seeing
16:08 😮😮😮
The mental gymnastics 😭😭😭
Blossom 🌺 Beauty 🌹... 🐜 Cuidado Lovelys ✨
🌺 Hola Bonita! 💖✨️
It’s weird how his daughter low key looks like his tv daughter Carmen in the face. That used to be one of my favorite shows growing up, the George Lopez show. Back then it wasn’t hella Latino representation that actually represented Latin family that wasn’t super white passing like how it is with actual Latin American shows. Usually the ones who look as tan as George playing the poor people smh😂
Lmaoo my boyfriend and I got each other’s initials tatted on our wrists for our anniversary😭 if it ends I’ll just get another tattoo over it. As long as I’m not giving him a baby chile
Ann Lopez makes more sense than Menyatta. From what I’ve seen on reality tv shows, she seems very nice and a great parent BUT why would she do an irreversible procedure when they are 1UDs and many other options. And of course he never got a vasectomy.
Any woman giving a man flowers should be ashamed of herself. Imsorry Monetta but giving him flowers while he play around is crazy!!.
Men deserve flowers too 🌹🌷❤
Heath (white chocolate) is fine!!
I feel so bad for Sagittarius women, as a Sagittarius woman_ when we love someone, we make sure. It honestly sucks
Neyo is disgusting
Why is it always a sag woman 😭
I love your content so much!