Difficult people don’t deserve our patience but we don’t deserve God’s patience and he gave it to us, so likewise we extend it to others because he loved us first
We absolutely DO deserve God's love and patience. ❤ This is a limiting belief that keeps you stuck in not being able to receive even MORE of his love, guidance and protection for you. Be open to receive blessings my friend. ❤ patience IS still a virtue. It is a direct reflection of your Devotion and your FAITH 🙏🏼
I am struggling with this right now. Every morning I thank the lord for his unconditional love and ask him to help me find this in me. I can't have that for people who don't for me. But I need to change that mentality.
5 Ways to respond conflict and/or arguments: 1) Avoid the argument ( 2 Timothy 2:23 ) 2) Be patient (Roman’s 12:12) 3) Be compassionate towards people ( Eph 4:32 ) 4) Pray that GOD convict them 5) Gently teach the truth ( Proverbs 15:1 ) Have a blessed day🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️‼️
Today, a scammer tried to trick me to Zelle him money. I was trying to send my brother. My bank rejected the request. He explained to me that he was homeless. I felt it was an attack from the enemy. My niece's daughter died in a car crash, and I was sending a bereavement gift to my brother. I warned the man that it was not an offense that he would want added to his plate. It grieved my heart to admonish him. In my heart, I'd wanted to help him but I warned him instead about being a thief 😢.
Cassie I just wanna say Jesus is truly working in you. I was in a situation and yesterday I got out of character I came across your video this morning and instantly got conviction. I NEEDED THIS!!! HE KNEW AND USED YOU. WORD FOR WORD GIRL. YOU ARE TRULY BLESSED AND HE IS WORKING ❤ I love you Sister in Christ ❤
I just want to encourage anyone that has dealt with a narcissist. These wise points will not always work with them because narcissism requires the taking down of specific strongholds. No matter how gentle and articulate you make your response and no matter how much you try to de-escalate a situation or even remain silent the spirit within them is set in devaluating you and devastating your peace and spirit. And they are relentless in doing so. I use to think there was always a way through understanding to dissect any argument and disarm it. I lived my life like that until recently and the after effects of investing in someone like that will change you for the worse.
@@jennicuervo8265 Sometimes, Not all the time. There is nothing impossible for God. He can change the most stubborn heart but He does hate a proud look, a lying tongue, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil and those who sow discord among brethren. Characteristics of narcissist. Sometimes the arguments are evidence that their heart is too proud and you need to leave them and let them fall into the hands of the living God and have him deal with their issue.
God's timing is so perfect, 2 days ago I had an arguement with a friend because they do not believe in Christ and say a bunch of cuss words. I was kind and compassionate, I prayed to God about the situation I was going through. I pray for people and myself that they can get better, we all need to have love and have compassion to others even if they treat us horribly... God bless ✝️❤️
Yes definitely be compassionate about the curse words bc some of us, especially with the f word, come from a generation when we were young and it was used profusely in every day speech (lol can’t think of the correct term for that right now). Anyways I’m so happy and proud that I broke my (***D) habit 🥳 bc that was literally damning God every day in my speech and I was so young and careless I didn’t even realize it nor care tbh!! Once I seen how much God took care of me, I just immediately stopped and even shudder when I hear others now but I try not to condemn them bc I also said it at one time. Now the F word is used only when I am emotional and passionate. I used to think “oh it’s just words”, but as the Bible says there is power of life or death in our words so I am also working on that aspect of myself bc I want His love and Amazing Grace to shine out of me so I can be a beaming light to others to show what God can do!!
@@vodkavuitton I had to block her sadly, I never cussed at her at all. I recommend to not talk to worldly people and only talk to people who are with Christ. God bless. ❤️✝️
@AIS-kz1yy so did I last Friday @ age 44! The last time I was in a real fight was when I was super young but I’ve never been in a fight where I started. If anything, I’m always trying to help or help defend someone! I’m in a super FIGHT, FLIGHT Or FREEZE response! I need this time ALONE to heal from allowing someone to let me go that far with them! Even tho they came at me… We will get thru this & come out on top! That’s for sure! Remain strong & allow God to control the situation from this point forward! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹
Me too, there was some teen demons holding up the convenience store, cussing and threatening the clerk, I yelled back at them, then they ambushed me, but I keep my cool and say you’re on camera right now and it is assault if you throw any punches, they started to shove me then i claimed assault but then they said that I assaulted them first. Instantly I take out my phone and dial the police and they all scattered. Clerks should have called police. It’s a really aggressive bad time right now.
@@justintran3265 Wowww... Now that's a story😳🙏🏾... Yeaaa sometimes It be like dat. That's why it's best to keep ourselves Clinging to CHRIST JESUS In every situation... So that we know the proper thing to do. Of you wasn't on camera, It's their word against yours, BUT If the court or whoever Is the authority you are around Is Wise and Smart enough then they'll see the Right person to Believe, even they take you both In. Which Is gonna happen If it's A strong thing hat happen or deep or whateva....
@@justintran3265 that's So funny BroBro, you Got the same name as my Baby Brother✊🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️ GOD Bless you bro, and Keep Walking the Faith In HIS SPIRIT Mayne YaknahImsayin Bloddayy✊🏾💯❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Keep yo Enegery and dat Strong desire for justice, you Never know where GOD Will take you with It....
@@livinglikekkso I’m confused because I get why we should capitalize He and You and so on when talking about God, but in the Bible they never do it…so… idk
This was on time, someone was trying to start arguments all day. And as soon as I played this.. the person came up and complained about me watching this video. So , I knew this was for me. Thank you. I needed this video. ♥
CASSIE why did I get into it w 2 of the people I’m close to!!! I cannot rn 😭 thank you for letting the holy spirit use you bc I’m over myself and them!! I just wanna remain in peace! I literally be telling him during and after the argument! I cannot do this no more 😭 thank you Jesus is all I got to say!!
@@carlinthurston4473 thank you for asking. I feel a fountain of joy, it’s endless and never ending even when my flesh would like to lead my spirit feels so much power. Even in my flesh and the actions I make from it I feel humbled during or right after. I feel like I don’t care how anyone responds or acts, I just want to remain on the solid ground he has placed me on (psalms 31) just feel so urged to worship and praise and the power flowing from my father, All praise and glory and honor to God Almighty that sits on the throne, thank you JESUS!!!! I just want to demonstrate when he tells me to go, he’s my boldness my confidence and my peace 🕊️
I am so glad this popped up on because the way I have been struggling with this over a year has been a lot and this helped me remember to constant reminder that God will always be with us no matter. Thank you lord for using Cassie as a vessel amen ♥️
I needed this. Especially as a former people pleaser who made it a point to never allow myself to feel disrespected by others again. I have been struggling with finding a Christ like way to handle conflict ! Great video
Cassie, I’m a follower of Christ I’ve been for a long time. I am so grateful that I saw your video. I was up at 4 o’clock in the morning looking at this video. The Lord is so awesome he know just what to do. I’ve been going through a little something with people at times on my job. I work in the hospital been in medical field for 30 years or more. I’m 59 years old and it’s never too late to learn. It seems like every time I go on A fast the enemy comes at me. So I begin to get a little discouraged from fasting when I’m working. But then I came upon your video , And God, the most high God encourage me through you. He reminds me, we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but spiritual wickedness in high places. And so I realize it’s not the person is the enemy working behind the person. I begin to pray that the Lord will work it out and he did just that, so thank you so much for encouraging us. God bless you and bless your ministry. Thank you so much beautiful job you have a very gentle spirit. Thank you.❤
Somehow this pops up on my feed. I walked away from a confrontation where the other party were trying to get me to react. Thank you for this timely message. God bless you 🙏
God's perfect timing! There's been some arguing going on in a Christian server I'm a part of that has gone on for DAYS and I was getting tired of watching it all unfold. This is a great reminder to not put our peace on the line for the sake of argument. Thank you!
The number one requirement for following these principles, is self-discipline. Yes, indeed, patience is a virtue! Thank you for giving me the inspiration to remind myself of these virtues BEFORE reacting to foolish nonsense.
Thank you so much, this message is just what I wanted and I thank God who lead me here. Thank you Jesus and thank you my sister for allowing God to use you to help us. Be blessed!!
It's nothing short of God that I came across this video🙌🏾. I've never heard of this young lady and I don't even know her name or the channel. What I do know is that. It's 1:11pm. I literally just had an ugly argument with my daughters🤦🏾♀️. And after months and months of trying and working on myself, fighting thru depression and homelessness, I had found MY PEACE. and I allowed nothing to bother me. Then this happens and I allowed myself to get angry and speak out of character. Then I come outside (right now) and start to talk with God. I get on TH-cam and this was the 3rd thing I saw. I so needed this😊. God is using you 🙏🏾Now I can finish the video🙌🏾🤗💜
This was good and on time for me. This gave me confirmation on things I literally was dealing with last week. God is working on me and this lets me know im growing its uncomfortable but worth it in the end 🙏🏽
Bless you darling girl from Scotland 🏴🙏 Needed to hear this today. You are an excellent speaker and I pray the blood of Jesus over your mission. Keep going , your grace is infectious
Great teaching, woman of God. You're so thorough and can explain the Word of God and apply it to today where it is easy to understand. Thank you for obeying God.
Amen. Jesus you can change my situation. Jesus you are my King, I need a miracle today please come and rescue me. As a single mother, raising not one but two children on the spectrum I am overwhelmed and I’m constantly struggling to pay bills. Struggling to buy groceries, struggling to do it all. But I won’t give up. I have the faith to believe and receive a blessing from you today Lord Jesus.💕
Girl may the Holy Spirit forever cover you, protect you and give you peace! May the Holy Spirit write your name permanently in the Lamb's Book of Life! I needed this message...exactly this message in my current issue. ❤❤❤
Thank you for your time and inspiring messages. I had gained a close relationship with our Lord and in my own folly I turned away for worldly things. The pain and suffering I went through afterwards is undescribable. I lost jobs, friends, my faith, I fell into an extreme depression, started drinking and using drugs again. I honestly never thought I would be worthy of being close to God again. But that's what sin does, it separated me with my Savior. I let the devil in and he took over, but that is not God's plan for me. In the middle of my defeat I cried out for help. And again Jesus has saved me, I'm terrified I will fail again, so I pray and surround myself with scriptures and testimonies and preaching. I pray my focus stays on God always. Thank you for being one of those I can turn to for spiritual help ,and wisdom. You are blessed and a blessing!!!
Stay strong. Stay with God because He never leaves you. Look up, "Footprints in the sand." It's beautiful and true. God Bless you on your journey with Christ 🙏
I had an argument today...with a so-called friend, who's not supporting me wanting to have my marriage restored. And initially, I've been avoiding having any confrontation with him to "keep my peace," and I know he's a very prideful man, and I'm trying not to let pride get in the way, but it's hard sometimes.
@@JesusLover3412 unfortunately its time to let this friend go. To many red flags. You honestly shouldn't be entertaining this person as a friend. Why are you holding on to him? We entertain things God wants us to walk away from.
1: Is the Marriage Worth It? Is Broman The Right one, Is he good to you? 2: Does yo friend like you as a Friend? Orrrr... As a Friend and a little more than a friend?🤔😉 Ahhhh? 3: The MOST Important One.... What Does JESUS Say🤔🤷🏾♂️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 *What GOD Says, matters most.* So what GOD Put on yo Heart?❤️💖
😤 I'm sorry, I thought you was a Female🤦🏽♂️. ANYWAYYYS.... Now that I Know the TRUTH, ND The TRUTH Has set me Free... Brother, welp..... I don't have the answers besides what I said... Except the whole yo Boy wants you type of thing, MY BAD
Your video popped up and I decided to watch. This has to be nothing but God speaking to me through you because this is exactly what I needed to hear and reaffirm after an emotional breakdown today. Thank you Father for directing me here! Thank you as well and God bless you
This video found me for a reason. Ive developed a hardened heart over my lifetime and have kittle trust or faith in people. Any minor transgression i take harshly and respond just as harshly and cut them off. Its so hard for me to be gentle with people when all your life gas been nothing but betrayal the moment you open up EVERY time. Brothers and sisters, please keep me in prayer because i just had sone conviction about this last night and was wondering why i have no peace
I’m happy to have seen this video. I fell off a bike and am recuperating because of a deep scrape below one of my knees. My father who’s pretty shallow spiritually somehow misconstrued my recuperation for not wanting to talk to him. He never entered the room or approached me to at least ask. But that is one of the problems with a narcissist. If it affects only them, they can care less about your reasons or problems/challenges. He refuses to even see me and is purposely staying out of the house by coming back real late. It’s ridiculous how a simple misunderstanding based on selfish motivations can affect you and others. I realize this is probably a demonic attack because I’ve been reading the Bible a lot more carefully and with joy. This supposed bad situation with my health, which is temporary, has allowed me the ability to read His Word without distractions. I’m actually very interested in reading the Bible not for the sake of reading it but to absorb as much as I can by the Holy Spirit’s direction. And boy have I learned and seen a lot of supposed coincidences when I’m reading His Word at times.
The only person I've been arguing with lately is myself! The struggle is real😂. A bigger struggle for me is to keep my upsets to myself. I want to NOT be the person who "vents" about someone who has made ugly accusations. It doesn't feel good to "vent". My sister shared your video with me just now...and I'm glad she did! ❤ Great video...thank you!
Cassie, my girl, I CANNOT stress how much this was on time. I had a dream last night and I knew exactly what it meant. Some times I can get to the point where I’m responding with anger and I know I cannot be like that. I prayed over the dream and you gave me the scriptures I need to pray and meditate over. Thank you Yah for this message and for this vessel you used. Whew thank you so much.
Good morning, baby you have no idea how this message blessed me! I came across your video as I was scrolling for something else. It had to be the Holy Spirit that made me tune in to hear this much needed word. Listen, as I was watching the video, someone approached me and wanted to be confrontational as I’m watching the video! Omg! Talk about perfect timing! God is an on time God! Had I not watched your video several times, the outcome of that situation could’ve gone all wrong! I thank God for giving you wisdom to share words of wisdom to your audience! Thank you and God bless and continue to give you wisdom to share HIS word.❤❤❤
I see myself it seems as if continually my back is up against the wall, and l'm under attack! I do find myself acting out of emotion instead of responding, this is good sound wisdom from God, thank you.🙏
My name is Cassie too 🥹 I definitely needed this video. I smiled when you said “the old Cassie would’ve done …. But new Cassie is supposed to reflect Christ.” Thank you for your message! ✝️ subscribing! 💟
Matthew 6:8 “Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.” Peace and Blessings! HALLELUJAH!!!
Thank you!!! Prayer needed for my daughter and her teenage son. Praying for conviction on both of them praying for softening hearts in love, praying for communication in love In Jesus Name AMEN!
I am a 52 year old mother, grandmother, sister and daughter and young lady I needed to hear this today. I have to say that the Lord has convicted me through your words. Thank you for bringing me back to where i belong and may God bless you ❤
Praise to the most high 🙌 GOD 🙌 cast all your cares and all your worries to the Lord for he cares for you 💙🚶 the Lord wants us to be loving and kind to one another 🙏📖🙏 The Battle belongs to the Lord 👑💪👑 so be strong and leave it all in the Lord's hands 🙌💙🙌 and if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all 🌷🚶 trust in the Lord Jesus because he has our back 👍🌷Amen🌷
I just got into an argument and I was slighted because someone who is my family switched up and decided that the past hurt was more important than present healing. I felt betrayed and snapped and rebuked him and his entire family. I then prayed for forgiveness soon after. I honestly failed at keeping my peace but I don't regret saying the things I did and having pride for the forgiveness I gave and the people I reconnected with. Soon after, I prayed to God to forgiveness and I did not mince my words. at the end of my prayer I asked for forgiveness, blessings for those I love and keep close, swore to make amends with my cousin and I adopted His love for his creations despite my pride. I rose my hands and said to God "I give it all to you" and gave all my doubts and fears about my future over to Him.
Love this so much. The only thing I would say is that I just listened to a sermon that shared in the Bible how God explicitly says he does not test us. It’s literally just enemy. I’m learning how huge that difference of understanding can be and it brings comfort to know our God truly brings the best to us if we continue to turn to him. Thank you so much for these tips though. So helpful.
We definitely need more people like you, as with everything going on today…Satan is working hard to take our peace and be stressed and struggle with anxiety! Great message.🙏👍
When l was very very toxic l was causing a lot of strife the devil really wants me to give up and go back to my old ways and not dwell on past mistakes it's so easy to like ldk trying to press on and move forward in life isn't easy cause people like to be in people business
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” Isaiah 41:10
My goal is on the prize, This world is not my home, I’m just passing through. Be kind and patient. We might not know why people are acting the way they do and pray for them. Let the world see Jesus in me. In disputes pray for truth. Choose life and peace. Thank you for sharing.
Thank u I needed to hear this. I'm going thru some stuff mentally n physically read my Bible cried n turned on TH-cam n boom here u pop up with your messages n really need to hear this today.. Lord Almighty is speaking to me.. thank u keep doing this❤❤❤
I asked god for this! I was in a situation where I have fallen back into sin and the world, and have been burnt.... I was desperate to confront the individual and to get revenge. I prayed on it several times over the past 2 days and found this at the top of my feed.... Thank you, and Thank God. His peace is priceless.
Wow I literally was in a battle with sin trying to get me to do things I thought god was trying to keep me away from. I asked god and Holy Spirit to please let me know whether or not I can do this activity or not because I didn’t want to go back to my old self. I then literally scrolled down and you title of your video said the Holy Spirit is saying do not engage. I laughed and said ok god I hear you and clicked on your video. Thank you for allowing god to work through you to make this video. Keep preaching cause you through Christ are literally saving lives because you are pointing people back to Jesus so he can inspire heal and lead us to eternal happiness and life with h. God bless you Cassie blanko. Keep doing your thing it makes more of a difference than you know sister. I love you have a good one.
Hi Casie, Thank you for the message. The Lord tested me a month ago with my sister, and I failed him. I let an argument with my sister, who is an unbeliever, go too far. I hurt her with my words, and she did with me. Of course, I regretted after but I didn't want to apologize. It took us a few weeks to talk. I prayed and apologized last week to her. It is a struggle to talk to someone who is difficult. I know the Lord will teach me and give me the patience to talk with my sister.
Responding vs. Reacting is the mark of an adult. Also, since the Word says we are mist/vspor. So, whats the point? Loll. Its ultimately pointless. This message is so, so good and necessary Cassie!❤❤❤
Super good video, thank you for making it. I needed to hear this. Reactions often come from childhood abuse and it is a stronghold! I envy the people that have a gentle and quiet spirit.
Amen, thani you, this came at the right moment, God is so good ❤ hearing you saying that God gets so happy when it depends on him and him wanting to be there for me comforts me.
You can always trust in God. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Man will betray you, but God never will. He is faithful, loyal and always loving. He does not change. Malachi 3:6, “I am the Lord, and I do not change. That is why you descendants of Jacob are not already destroyed". I will pray for you, so that God may heal you of any pain or trauma you may be experiencing. I was once in a similar situation and God saved me and delivered me from those situations. I know that He can do the same for you 🙏🏻
Excellent video and message young sister and thanks for sharing these wisdom principles. Something I learned over the years is that when we are tested it’s a test to better us, and to show us ourselves where we are at bcuz as we know God is omniscient (all knowing) He knows the beginning from the end. Amen?! I appreciate your gentle quiet spirit and so does the Lord 😇💞👼🏽 Peace n Luv
Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear that. God bless, I want to Love like Jesus ❤ if it wasn't for God my Savior Jesus I would still be a lost soul. I owe my God my Life.
Well this is on time. I have been silent and trying not to engage in conflict with my tenant. They struggle to pay rent yet I’ve prayed with them and for them multiple times and worked with them and had to put money in to get the rent paid to help them. Now it’s coming to an end, I’ve asked God yo help, but then I got so frustrated today I couldn’t take it. It has taken dats time away from me I could be resting but I’m so exhausted, angry and tired. But hearing this, thank you sister, tell wrongs don’t make a right. I knew it was a test because I’ve been waiting for a promotion and I know God is working my patience. So this was a great reminder I found this video right after I sent my last email.
Yes, the DEVIL will use the closest people around you! Learn to be always in control of you! I was guilty by responding or being pulled out of CHARACTER! I am PRAYING to always demonstrate self-control! There will always be someone that will do anything to provoke you out of character!
This was timely. Thank you. I have a small group on a social media platform. One of the members went off on me unjustly I wanted to defend myself but didn’t. It’s not worth it. She left the group.
Difficult people don’t deserve our patience but we don’t deserve God’s patience and he gave it to us, so likewise we extend it to others because he loved us first
We absolutely DO deserve God's love and patience. ❤ This is a limiting belief that keeps you stuck in not being able to receive even MORE of his love, guidance and protection for you. Be open to receive blessings my friend. ❤ patience IS still a virtue. It is a direct reflection of your Devotion and your FAITH 🙏🏼
Amen
If we don’t forgive others, God won’t forgive us
@@aliciaaltom6652
I am struggling with this right now. Every morning I thank the lord for his unconditional love and ask him to help me find this in me. I can't have that for people who don't for me. But I need to change that mentality.
5 Ways to respond conflict and/or arguments:
1) Avoid the argument ( 2 Timothy 2:23 )
2) Be patient (Roman’s 12:12)
3) Be compassionate towards people ( Eph 4:32 )
4) Pray that GOD convict them
5) Gently teach the truth ( Proverbs 15:1 )
Have a blessed day🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️‼️
Thank you may God Bless you❤
Thank you.
Leave vengeance to God. People reap what they sow.
Appreciate 🙏
Today, a scammer tried to trick me to Zelle him money. I was trying to send my brother. My bank rejected the request. He explained to me that he was homeless. I felt it was an attack from the enemy. My niece's daughter died in a car crash, and I was sending a bereavement gift to my brother. I warned the man that it was not an offense that he would want added to his plate. It grieved my heart to admonish him. In my heart, I'd wanted to help him but I warned him instead about being a thief 😢.
"God knew you were going to be in that situation, before you got in it." That's true!! He knows ALL THINGS! Amen!
Indeed❤
Cassie I just wanna say Jesus is truly working in you. I was in a situation and yesterday I got out of character I came across your video this morning and instantly got conviction. I NEEDED THIS!!! HE KNEW AND USED YOU. WORD FOR WORD GIRL. YOU ARE TRULY BLESSED AND HE IS WORKING ❤ I love you Sister in Christ ❤
Same situation for me today! I NEEDED this video and Cassie provided ❤thanks Sister!
If the devil can’t get to you he’ll come through the people around you. SO TRUE.
I just want to encourage anyone that has dealt with a narcissist. These wise points will not always work with them because narcissism requires the taking down of specific strongholds. No matter how gentle and articulate you make your response and no matter how much you try to de-escalate a situation or even remain silent the spirit within them is set in devaluating you and devastating your peace and spirit. And they are relentless in doing so. I use to think there was always a way through understanding to dissect any argument and disarm it. I lived my life like that until recently and the after effects of investing in someone like that will change you for the worse.
It does work
@@jennicuervo8265 Sometimes, Not all the time. There is nothing impossible for God. He can change the most stubborn heart but He does hate a proud look, a lying tongue, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil and those who sow discord among brethren. Characteristics of narcissist. Sometimes the arguments are evidence that their heart is too proud and you need to leave them and let them fall into the hands of the living God and have him deal with their issue.
@TheJXP5 "gray rock method " is almost the same as what this video talks about, so yeah, it should work.
@@jennicuervo8265what is the “gray rock” method?
@@TheJXP5. Ameeeeen
God's timing is so perfect, 2 days ago I had an arguement with a friend because they do not believe in Christ and say a bunch of cuss words. I was kind and compassionate, I prayed to God about the situation I was going through. I pray for people and myself that they can get better, we all need to have love and have compassion to others even if they treat us horribly...
God bless ✝️❤️
Yes definitely be compassionate about the curse words bc some of us, especially with the f word, come from a generation when we were young and it was used profusely in every day speech (lol can’t think of the correct term for that right now). Anyways I’m so happy and proud that I broke my (***D) habit 🥳 bc that was literally damning God every day in my speech and I was so young and careless I didn’t even realize it nor care tbh!! Once I seen how much God took care of me, I just immediately stopped and even shudder when I hear others now but I try not to condemn them bc I also said it at one time. Now the F word is used only when I am emotional and passionate. I used to think “oh it’s just words”, but as the Bible says there is power of life or death in our words so I am also working on that aspect of myself bc I want His love and Amazing Grace to shine out of me so I can be a beaming light to others to show what God can do!!
So you never cussed? a real question
Oh yea not believing & Christ & saying cuss words really did some damage to your life 😂😂
@@vodkavuitton I had to block her sadly, I never cussed at her at all. I recommend to not talk to worldly people and only talk to people who are with Christ. God bless. ❤️✝️
got in a fight today and thought how i shoulda turned the other cheek. just prayed for God's help before seeing this too!
Wowww that Is so humble... GOD Sees you and GOD Loves you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾......
Let Go and Let GOD Brotha🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️💕
@AIS-kz1yy so did I last Friday @ age 44! The last time I was in a real fight was when I was super young but I’ve never been in a fight where I started. If anything, I’m always trying to help or help defend someone! I’m in a super FIGHT, FLIGHT Or FREEZE response!
I need this time ALONE to heal from allowing someone to let me go that far with them! Even tho they came at me…
We will get thru this & come out on top! That’s for sure! Remain strong & allow God to control the situation from this point forward! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹
Me too, there was some teen demons holding up the convenience store, cussing and threatening the clerk, I yelled back at them, then they ambushed me, but I keep my cool and say you’re on camera right now and it is assault if you throw any punches, they started to shove me then i claimed assault but then they said that I assaulted them first. Instantly I take out my phone and dial the police and they all scattered. Clerks should have called police. It’s a really aggressive bad time right now.
@@justintran3265 Wowww... Now that's a story😳🙏🏾... Yeaaa sometimes It be like dat. That's why it's best to keep ourselves Clinging to CHRIST JESUS In every situation... So that we know the proper thing to do. Of you wasn't on camera, It's their word against yours, BUT If the court or whoever Is the authority you are around Is Wise and Smart enough then they'll see the Right person to Believe, even they take you both In. Which Is gonna happen If it's A strong thing hat happen or deep or whateva....
@@justintran3265 that's So funny BroBro, you Got the same name as my Baby Brother✊🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️ GOD Bless you bro, and Keep Walking the Faith In HIS SPIRIT Mayne YaknahImsayin Bloddayy✊🏾💯❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Keep yo Enegery and dat Strong desire for justice, you Never know where GOD Will take you with It....
Girl he just speaks to me through you!! I needed this 👉🏽👈🏽✨
Same here.
Your not alone😤😞
*He ✝️🤍🕊️
@@livinglikekkso I’m confused because I get why we should capitalize He and You and so on when talking about God, but in the Bible they never do it…so… idk
Frl😂😂😂
Literally saw this video after a prayer for guidance 🥹🫶🏾
This was on time, someone was trying to start arguments all day. And as soon as I played this.. the person came up and complained about me watching this video. So , I knew this was for me. Thank you. I needed this video. ♥
@tashayrushing4253 sounds like the devil's demons were irritated like disturbing a wasp nest. The person you're referring definitely has many.
CASSIE why did I get into it w 2 of the people I’m close to!!! I cannot rn 😭 thank you for letting the holy spirit use you bc I’m over myself and them!! I just wanna remain in peace! I literally be telling him during and after the argument! I cannot do this no more 😭 thank you Jesus is all I got to say!!
❤❤❤ “I’m over MYSELF and them” change starts from accountability I love it!!!!!
@@bonchettathevoice amen that’s one thing I always do is wanna ask him where am I wrong and do I need to step out my way or his?!
How are you feeling from two weeks ago, good person? I hope you're in the peace of God and happy😊
@@carlinthurston4473 thank you for asking. I feel a fountain of joy, it’s endless and never ending even when my flesh would like to lead my spirit feels so much power. Even in my flesh and the actions I make from it I feel humbled during or right after. I feel like I don’t care how anyone responds or acts, I just want to remain on the solid ground he has placed me on (psalms 31) just feel so urged to worship and praise and the power flowing from my father, All praise and glory and honor to God Almighty that sits on the throne, thank you JESUS!!!! I just want to demonstrate when he tells me to go, he’s my boldness my confidence and my peace 🕊️
I am so glad this popped up on because the way I have been struggling with this over a year has been a lot and this helped me remember to constant reminder that God will always be with us no matter. Thank you lord for using Cassie as a vessel amen ♥️
Your wisdom is profound for someone so young. I am having lots of people disrespecting me by lying to me. I have a zero tolerance for this behaviour
I needed this. Especially as a former people pleaser who made it a point to never allow myself to feel disrespected by others again. I have been struggling with finding a Christ like way to handle conflict ! Great video
Cassie, I’m a follower of Christ I’ve been for a long time. I am so grateful that I saw your video. I was up at 4 o’clock in the morning looking at this video. The Lord is so awesome he know just what to do. I’ve been going through a little something with people at times on my job. I work in the hospital been in medical field for 30 years or more. I’m 59 years old and it’s never too late to learn. It seems like every time I go on A fast the enemy comes at me. So I begin to get a little discouraged from fasting when I’m working. But then I came upon your video , And God, the most high God encourage me through you. He reminds me, we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but spiritual wickedness in high places. And so I realize it’s not the person is the enemy working behind the person. I begin to pray that the Lord will work it out and he did just that, so thank you so much for encouraging us. God bless you and bless your ministry. Thank you so much beautiful job you have a very gentle spirit. Thank you.❤
Somehow this pops up on my feed.
I walked away from a confrontation where the other party were trying to get me to react.
Thank you for this timely message.
God bless you
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God's perfect timing! There's been some arguing going on in a Christian server I'm a part of that has gone on for DAYS and I was getting tired of watching it all unfold. This is a great reminder to not put our peace on the line for the sake of argument. Thank you!
The number one requirement for following these principles, is self-discipline. Yes, indeed, patience is a virtue! Thank you for giving me the inspiration to remind myself of these virtues BEFORE reacting to foolish nonsense.
Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you so much, this message is just what I wanted and I thank God who lead me here. Thank you Jesus and thank you my sister for allowing God to use you to help us. Be blessed!!
It's nothing short of God that I came across this video🙌🏾. I've never heard of this young lady and I don't even know her name or the channel. What I do know is that. It's 1:11pm. I literally just had an ugly argument with my daughters🤦🏾♀️. And after months and months of trying and working on myself, fighting thru depression and homelessness, I had found MY PEACE. and I allowed nothing to bother me. Then this happens and I allowed myself to get angry and speak out of character. Then I come outside (right now) and start to talk with God. I get on TH-cam and this was the 3rd thing I saw. I so needed this😊. God is using you 🙏🏾Now I can finish the video🙌🏾🤗💜
Thank you for being a vessel Lil' Sister. Encouragement from The Holy Spirit is living water for a thirsty soul. ❤
This was good and on time for me. This gave me confirmation on things I literally was dealing with last week. God is working on me and this lets me know im growing its uncomfortable but worth it in the end 🙏🏽
This one is a really hard one for me. I have been praying and working on it. Little by little the arguing and proving myself is getting less and less.
God blessed everybody out there and Amen
Bless you darling girl from Scotland 🏴🙏 Needed to hear this today. You are an excellent speaker and I pray the blood of Jesus over your mission. Keep going , your grace is infectious
Thank you Thank you for this word... God will remind us of his word and how it's food to the soul and wisdom for us all✝️
Another woman on a dream video said those Exact words today “DO NOT ENGAGE”’ crazy! I’m a Security Officer and at times I NEED to engage! 👮👮
Yes your job is difficult.. and it does require so much tact and patience….. ..
I love you so much my sister in Christ ❤❤❤
You have no idea how much this message you shared brought me confirmation. ❤❤❤
Amen! I stay in my lane. I chose comfort & being content. Nothing to show or prove. I am blessed with what God has given me! Love the page . ✝️❤️☯️
Great teaching, woman of God. You're so thorough and can explain the Word of God and apply it to today where it is easy to understand. Thank you for obeying God.
Amen. Jesus you can change my situation. Jesus you are my King, I need a miracle today please come and rescue me. As a single mother, raising not one but two children on the spectrum I am overwhelmed and I’m constantly struggling to pay bills. Struggling to buy groceries, struggling to do it all. But I won’t give up. I have the faith to believe and receive a blessing from you today Lord Jesus.💕
The timing of this is so uncanny. Message received ♥️
Girl may the Holy Spirit forever cover you, protect you and give you peace! May the Holy Spirit write your name permanently in the Lamb's Book of Life! I needed this message...exactly this message in my current issue. ❤❤❤
I put my faith in God, and I put my faith in your reading.👏 Amen 👏
In Jesus name amen. 🙏🏻 I love you Jesus thank you for everything
Thank you for your time and inspiring messages. I had gained a close relationship with our Lord and in my own folly I turned away for worldly things. The pain and suffering I went through afterwards is undescribable. I lost jobs, friends, my faith, I fell into an extreme depression, started drinking and using drugs again. I honestly never thought I would be worthy of being close to God again. But that's what sin does, it separated me with my Savior. I let the devil in and he took over, but that is not God's plan for me. In the middle of my defeat I cried out for help. And again Jesus has saved me, I'm terrified I will fail again, so I pray and surround myself with scriptures and testimonies and preaching. I pray my focus stays on God always. Thank you for being one of those I can turn to for spiritual help ,and wisdom. You are blessed and a blessing!!!
Stay strong. Stay with God because He never leaves you.
Look up, "Footprints in the sand." It's beautiful and true.
God Bless you on your journey with Christ 🙏
Thank you for letting God use you as a vessel. I am so inspired by your videos. May you continue to be a vessel for God’s glory. God bless you always.
Thank you LORD JESUS. I adore You and I praised You because by your Holy Cross You have redeemed the World .
I had an argument today...with a so-called friend, who's not supporting me wanting to have my marriage restored. And initially, I've been avoiding having any confrontation with him to "keep my peace," and I know he's a very prideful man, and I'm trying not to let pride get in the way, but it's hard sometimes.
Have you thought he wants you for himself
@@HunkyMan777 Actually, he's in love with my wife. That's why he's a so-called friend. But do you discern something else too?
@@JesusLover3412 unfortunately its time to let this friend go. To many red flags. You honestly shouldn't be entertaining this person as a friend. Why are you holding on to him? We entertain things God wants us to walk away from.
1: Is the Marriage Worth It?
Is Broman The Right one, Is he good to you?
2: Does yo friend like you as a Friend? Orrrr... As a Friend and a little more than a friend?🤔😉
Ahhhh?
3: The MOST Important One.... What Does JESUS Say🤔🤷🏾♂️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
*What GOD Says, matters most.*
So what GOD Put on yo Heart?❤️💖
😤 I'm sorry, I thought you was a Female🤦🏽♂️.
ANYWAYYYS.... Now that I Know the TRUTH, ND The TRUTH Has set me Free... Brother, welp..... I don't have the answers besides what I said... Except the whole yo Boy wants you type of thing, MY BAD
Your video popped up and I decided to watch. This has to be nothing but God speaking to me through you because this is exactly what I needed to hear and reaffirm after an emotional breakdown today. Thank you Father for directing me here! Thank you as well and God bless you
This video found me for a reason. Ive developed a hardened heart over my lifetime and have kittle trust or faith in people. Any minor transgression i take harshly and respond just as harshly and cut them off. Its so hard for me to be gentle with people when all your life gas been nothing but betrayal the moment you open up EVERY time. Brothers and sisters, please keep me in prayer because i just had sone conviction about this last night and was wondering why i have no peace
I feel The Spirit all over this. Thank you so much! God bless!
I’m happy to have seen this video. I fell off a bike and am recuperating because of a deep scrape below one of my knees. My father who’s pretty shallow spiritually somehow misconstrued my recuperation for not wanting to talk to him. He never entered the room or approached me to at least ask. But that is one of the problems with a narcissist. If it affects only them, they can care less about your reasons or problems/challenges. He refuses to even see me and is purposely staying out of the house by coming back real late. It’s ridiculous how a simple misunderstanding based on selfish motivations can affect you and others. I realize this is probably a demonic attack because I’ve been reading the Bible a lot more carefully and with joy. This supposed bad situation with my health, which is temporary, has allowed me the ability to read His Word without distractions. I’m actually very interested in reading the Bible not for the sake of reading it but to absorb as much as I can by the Holy Spirit’s direction. And boy have I learned and seen a lot of supposed coincidences when I’m reading His Word at times.
The only person I've been arguing with lately is myself! The struggle is real😂. A bigger struggle for me is to keep my upsets to myself. I want to NOT be the person who "vents" about someone who has made ugly accusations. It doesn't feel good to "vent". My sister shared your video with me just now...and I'm glad she did! ❤
Great video...thank you!
Needed to hear this , thank you Lord for using this woman of God
Cassie, my girl, I CANNOT stress how much this was on time. I had a dream last night and I knew exactly what it meant. Some times I can get to the point where I’m responding with anger and I know I cannot be like that. I prayed over the dream and you gave me the scriptures I need to pray and meditate over.
Thank you Yah for this message and for this vessel you used. Whew thank you so much.
Keep you full armor of God on everyday before leaving the house. It's heavy these days. Stand 💪
Wow. This came up on my feed…right after someone left the nastiest comment on my channel. Thank you.
Glory to God. This came at the perfect timing. God bless you sister.
Good morning, baby you have no idea how this message blessed me! I came across your video as I was scrolling for something else. It had to be the Holy Spirit that made me tune in to hear this much needed word. Listen, as I was watching the video, someone approached me and wanted to be confrontational as I’m watching the video! Omg! Talk about perfect timing! God is an on time God! Had I not watched your video several times, the outcome of that situation could’ve gone all wrong! I thank God for giving you wisdom to share words of wisdom to your audience! Thank you and God bless and continue to give you wisdom to share HIS word.❤❤❤
I hear you out on speaking life. That's so important for everyone.
Speaking life. That's an important reminder for myself and many people.
Thank you Jesus for this video saving me from making a mistake in my relationship.
I see myself it seems as if continually my back is up against the wall, and l'm under attack! I do find myself acting out of emotion instead of responding, this is good sound wisdom from God, thank you.🙏
Thank you! I needed this! Thank you for letting our Father guide you to share this with us. I love you with the love of Jesus!
Thank You my Sister Cassie for your Wise Godly Words! May thee good LORD always Bless You!!!🙏❤️✝️
Praise the Lord. Glory be to our true God.
My name is Cassie too 🥹 I definitely needed this video. I smiled when you said “the old Cassie would’ve done …. But new Cassie is supposed to reflect Christ.” Thank you for your message! ✝️ subscribing! 💟
Thank you! God is so good all the time. Praise Jesus for you teaching us the word of God❤
God’s most perfect timing with this message.
Matthew 6:8 “Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.” Peace and Blessings! HALLELUJAH!!!
I need deliverce from this today lord
Thank you!!! Prayer needed for my daughter and her teenage son. Praying for conviction on both of them praying for softening hearts in love, praying for communication in love In Jesus Name AMEN!
I am a 52 year old mother, grandmother, sister and daughter and young lady I needed to hear this today. I have to say that the Lord has convicted me through your words. Thank you for bringing me back to where i belong and may God bless you ❤
Amen Jesus Thank You Jesus
God has healed me and I’m so grateful he is almighty and powerful and I thank you for making this video.
Oh, I need prayers for this. Some people make me loose my cool.
Praise to the most high 🙌 GOD 🙌 cast all your cares and all your worries to the Lord for he cares for you 💙🚶 the Lord wants us to be loving and kind to one another 🙏📖🙏 The Battle belongs to the Lord 👑💪👑 so be strong and leave it all in the Lord's hands 🙌💙🙌 and if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all 🌷🚶 trust in the Lord Jesus because he has our back 👍🌷Amen🌷
Knowing that God will test me is why I RARELY get discouraged, some things you’re supposed to go through to build your patience, perseverance, faith.
I just got into an argument and I was slighted because someone who is my family switched up and decided that the past hurt was more important than present healing. I felt betrayed and snapped and rebuked him and his entire family. I then prayed for forgiveness soon after. I honestly failed at keeping my peace but I don't regret saying the things I did and having pride for the forgiveness I gave and the people I reconnected with.
Soon after, I prayed to God to forgiveness and I did not mince my words. at the end of my prayer I asked for forgiveness, blessings for those I love and keep close, swore to make amends with my cousin and I adopted His love for his creations despite my pride. I rose my hands and said to God "I give it all to you" and gave all my doubts and fears about my future over to Him.
So practical and God is always on time with His wisdom! Thanks Cassie!!
Your glowing with Christ's Light God Bless you Sister!
Love this so much. The only thing I would say is that I just listened to a sermon that shared in the Bible how God explicitly says he does not test us. It’s literally just enemy. I’m learning how huge that difference of understanding can be and it brings comfort to know our God truly brings the best to us if we continue to turn to him. Thank you so much for these tips though. So helpful.
God put this on my feed and he told me to sit down. 🙏🏽😭
So glad this came up on my feed. I have been struggling in this area especially on my job lately. Thank you!
We definitely need more people like you, as with everything going on today…Satan is working hard to take our peace and be stressed and struggle with anxiety! Great message.🙏👍
When l was very very toxic l was causing a lot of strife the devil really wants me to give up and go back to my old ways and not dwell on past mistakes it's so easy to like ldk trying to press on and move forward in life isn't easy cause people like to be in people business
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” Isaiah 41:10
My goal is on the prize, This world is not my home, I’m just passing through. Be kind and patient. We might not know why people are acting the way they do and pray for them. Let the world see Jesus in me. In disputes pray for truth. Choose life and peace. Thank you for sharing.
Thank u I needed to hear this. I'm going thru some stuff mentally n physically read my Bible cried n turned on TH-cam n boom here u pop up with your messages n really need to hear this today.. Lord Almighty is speaking to me.. thank u keep doing this❤❤❤
I asked god for this! I was in a situation where I have fallen back into sin and the world, and have been burnt.... I was desperate to confront the individual and to get revenge. I prayed on it several times over the past 2 days and found this at the top of my feed.... Thank you, and Thank God. His peace is priceless.
Wow I literally was in a battle with sin trying to get me to do things I thought god was trying to keep me away from. I asked god and Holy Spirit to please let me know whether or not I can do this activity or not because I didn’t want to go back to my old self. I then literally scrolled down and you title of your video said the Holy Spirit is saying do not engage. I laughed and said ok god I hear you and clicked on your video. Thank you for allowing god to work through you to make this video. Keep preaching cause you through Christ are literally saving lives because you are pointing people back to Jesus so he can inspire heal and lead us to eternal happiness and life with h. God bless you Cassie blanko. Keep doing your thing it makes more of a difference than you know sister. I love you have a good one.
Hi Casie, Thank you for the message. The Lord tested me a month ago with my sister, and I failed him. I let an argument with my sister, who is an unbeliever, go too far. I hurt her with my words, and she did with me. Of course, I regretted after but I didn't want to apologize. It took us a few weeks to talk. I prayed and apologized last week to her. It is a struggle to talk to someone who is difficult. I know the Lord will teach me and give me the patience to talk with my sister.
Thanks Cassie, I needed this, I've been attacked by the enemy this past week on every level ! God Bless You!
Responding vs. Reacting is the mark of an adult. Also, since the Word says we are mist/vspor. So, whats the point? Loll. Its ultimately pointless. This message is so, so good and necessary Cassie!❤❤❤
Super good video, thank you for making it. I needed to hear this. Reactions often come from childhood abuse and it is a stronghold! I envy the people that have a gentle and quiet spirit.
Thanks much Cassie! I am so loving these principles. Let God be praise!
Amen, thani you, this came at the right moment, God is so good ❤ hearing you saying that God gets so happy when it depends on him and him wanting to be there for me comforts me.
I keep all my problems inside haven't told anyone yet cause I don't know who to trust
Talk with him
God is the best person to talk to and trust❤
You can always trust in God. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Man will betray you, but God never will.
He is faithful, loyal and always loving. He does not change. Malachi 3:6, “I am the Lord, and I do not change. That is why you descendants of Jacob are not already destroyed".
I will pray for you, so that God may heal you of any pain or trauma you may be experiencing. I was once in a similar situation and God saved me and delivered me from those situations. I know that He can do the same for you 🙏🏻
@@danielfoley89 Thx that just hit me where it hurts right in gut
Thanks Lord for the word I asked for❤
13:46 I like to pray “Convict me of my sins and convince me of my righteousness”
Excellent video and message young sister and thanks for sharing these wisdom principles. Something I learned over the years is that when we are tested it’s a test to better us, and to show us ourselves where we are at bcuz as we know God is omniscient (all knowing) He knows the beginning from the end. Amen?! I appreciate your gentle quiet spirit and so does the Lord 😇💞👼🏽 Peace n Luv
Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear that. God bless, I want to Love like Jesus ❤ if it wasn't for God my Savior Jesus I would still be a lost soul. I owe my God my Life.
Cassie, God knew I needed this message, he is an on time God ❤
Well this is on time.
I have been silent and trying not to engage in conflict with my tenant. They struggle to pay rent yet I’ve prayed with them and for them multiple times and worked with them and had to put money in to get the rent paid to help them. Now it’s coming to an end, I’ve asked God yo help, but then I got so frustrated today I couldn’t take it.
It has taken dats time away from me I could be resting but I’m so exhausted, angry and tired. But hearing this, thank you sister, tell wrongs don’t make a right. I knew it was a test because I’ve been waiting for a promotion and I know God is working my patience. So this was a great reminder I found this video right after I sent my last email.
Yes, the DEVIL will use the closest people around you! Learn to be always in control of you! I was guilty by responding or being pulled out of CHARACTER! I am PRAYING to always demonstrate self-control! There will always be someone that will do anything to provoke you out of character!
This was timely. Thank you. I have a small group on a social media platform. One of the members went off on me unjustly I wanted to defend myself but didn’t. It’s not worth it. She left the group.
Amen 🕊
Wow. This video fell on my TL as soon as I opened this app. This was the Holy Spirit! ❤
AMEN THANK YOU LORD