The Controlling Wife || How to STOP Being Controlling

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  • @leslieFY3333
    @leslieFY3333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    This video is a wow moment for me. I recently became aware of my controlling spirit and how it’s a result of my childhood trauma growing up . My opinion, words and thoughts were always shut down by my father. God is working on me being a controlling wife and mom and I’m listening 🙏🏾 Thank you for this video and your tips.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I know the Lord will do a great work in you. I pray for your healing. Thank you for sharing 💕✨✨

    • @leslieFY3333
      @leslieFY3333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@drmichelledaf 💕

  • @daion1247
    @daion1247 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I'm learning that, especially a married woman, if a woman that is controlling in any relationship is because she does not feel safe.
    I'm learning that my safety does not come from the outside but from the inside by having a personal relationship with God.
    Ponder prayerfully.

    • @lacy4035
      @lacy4035 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If a man is controlling in a relationship what does it mean ...he doesn’t feel safe ???

    • @daion1247
      @daion1247 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @lacy4035 I would say yes.
      There are a lot of marriages like this. It goes both ways, but we are not taught this in the home or, sadly, the church that glorifies marriage. Marriage is a prop by the church to make two unsaved people (those who don't have their own security, validation self-worth in themselves through God), so they are "schemed" into a marriage that is not as holy as we think because two insecure people idolize the image of marriage to make themselves "feel" like they are worth something. "Iz married now!"
      This type of marriage is not holy. It's a co- dependency of two broken, unhealed people trying to make a whole.
      We like the idea of marriage but don't really understand what the Creator of marriage intentions truly because we never ask Him, we just go along with what "society and church" says this is what marriage is.
      I could go on. However, I hope this helps.
      Ponder prayerfully.

  • @REALtalkRenataTV
    @REALtalkRenataTV 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am struggling with control!!! I feel so convicted by this video! Lord have mercy and renew my mind!! Deliver me from ALL wounds and trauma in the name of Jesus! I plead the blood on me and any woman struggling with control! Knowing is half the battle ! I thank God for you and all the knowledge you share with us!!! To God be the Glory!!! ✝️✝️✝️💛💛💛

  • @daion1247
    @daion1247 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I hate this trend that is going around now on social media.
    " You gotta be his peace,"😂
    I'm learning if they ain't got their own peace, how you expect me to be that for you.
    Being in a relationship with you thinking you gotta be his peace instead of adding to his peace ( and vice versa ladies), then YOU ARE UNEQUALLY YOKED!!!!!!
    But they ain't gonna say this cause they don't know this.
    Ponder prayerfully.

  • @ur870
    @ur870 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Oooo- saw this right when I was about to go off. Going to take myself for a walk and listen- thank you!

  • @Ariel-te1iu
    @Ariel-te1iu 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    The joy when I see you have uploaded a new video🥰💖Thank you so much Dr. Michelle💕

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥰🥰 you're so welcome sweetheart! ✨

  • @Stephan__ox.
    @Stephan__ox. 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really do believe that controlling women (me) DEFINITELY are tired of being in the drivers seat all the time! I understand the older you get, the harder it can become. one of the factors (for me) of needing control is at work. They have purposely reduced staff/ongoing recruitment freeze - keeping up to keep my well being but I know control is overrated sometimes, nowadays I always think 'get somebody else to do it!'

  • @Maggs3
    @Maggs3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm taking notes Dr.Daf

  • @angelmarshall2076
    @angelmarshall2076 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Michelle you look absolutely stunning as always.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you sweetie 🤍

  • @REALtalkRenataTV
    @REALtalkRenataTV 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know I NEED this just by the title!!! Thank you for this video!

  • @fernandahuaman6480
    @fernandahuaman6480 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was longing for your video of the week!!!!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awww 🥰🥰😘 Finally here. Thank you for watching honey 💕

  • @k.v.i8664
    @k.v.i8664 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video. It was so needed. ❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're welcome honey 💕

  • @nursingstudentkee2707
    @nursingstudentkee2707 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you sister … I needed this

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're so welcome my dear 🤍😘✨

  • @thequietstorm12
    @thequietstorm12 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dr. Michelle what was the book you recommended in one of your videos? I think it was called something like the soul detox or rest? It was green.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yes! The 40 Day Soul Fast by Cindy Trimm. An excellent transformational book 💕

    • @thequietstorm12
      @thequietstorm12 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@drmichelledaf Yes! I was searching all over trying to remember! Thank you for responding. 💕

  • @FlourishingElla
    @FlourishingElla 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You look absolutely gorgeous Dr. Michelle 💕…

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good morning ... this is me !
    Not a wife but having a problem relinquishing control 😭

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well you can begin the change today babe 💋

    • @make_emfall_inlovee
      @make_emfall_inlovee 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I took extensive notes and was actually the next conversation I was going to have with my therapist.. thank you for your great content . The journey begins today👏🏾👏🏾

  • @likhonancate3366
    @likhonancate3366 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Timing ❤❤

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    GREAT Video!!!!!!!!!!!! Deep work!!! Thank-you!!! xoxox

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much my love!🩷

  • @Thatgeekedchick
    @Thatgeekedchick 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You look gorgeous Dr Daf

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much honey

  • @Briegarcia
    @Briegarcia 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can you do a video on manipulating MIL?

  • @GracefullyMe82
    @GracefullyMe82 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my my, thank you soo soo much

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome love

  • @savon5499
    @savon5499 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's time ❤

  • @hotgurlie213
    @hotgurlie213 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi michelle!!!!!

  • @daniellalyngdoh6211
    @daniellalyngdoh6211 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr Daf why do I find slow speakers irritating? Can you please do an explanation on that .

  • @missladybug73
    @missladybug73 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Goooood morning, Gorgeous 😍 💕 ✨️

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @Terlyn78
    @Terlyn78 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Second!