I committed fornication(Zina) and I'm so ashamed of myself

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  • @Kiinell
    @Kiinell 11 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    I'm not Muslim, nor do I have any religious faith, but what I like about this interview is the message of hope for the sinning woman who wrote in and the many other sinners who will take something positive from this message that you can be forgiven. We see too much extreme behaviour such as people being hanged or stoned to death in the name of religion, people are scared of Muslims and Islam. I want to see more messages like this in the mainstream media so people get a better understanding.

  • @sw33n3ybill
    @sw33n3ybill 11 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I've fornicated before, but now I have met the one, the one I love with absolute sincerity, I am so ashamed :'( I truly wish that I could change that, I wish I could go back in time and save myself for her, so that She would be the only person I have ever made love with
    I love her so much I cannot explain it in words
    and I hope this comment can help prevent others from making the same mistakes and having the same regrets
    Know Yourself and love sincerely
    Assalamu Alaikum
    Peace be upon You

  • @kledmohd4230
    @kledmohd4230 10 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Noman Ali is amazing, i think amongst all the scholars and speakers i heard, he's got most respect for the non muslims and their beliefs, and is the most well informed of our generation and gives the best insight and how to tackle it, he's brought forth some issues in other videos like ego which has never been dealt before in a major way.i pray for his longevity and may Allah give him more humility.Ameen

  • @vitathaisis9407
    @vitathaisis9407 10 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Thank you. I'm a woman from Finland. Arabic is so beautiful I want to learn it.

  • @peopleofknowledge1
    @peopleofknowledge1 13 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Biggest and most widespread sin, and the people these days dont even realise it. IT has gotten to the point where they made up this term "Virgin" as an embarassing term for those who avoid fornication. Regardless Allah is the most forgiving, and he loves to forgive.

  • @shan00r
    @shan00r 12 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Hamdulillah Brother Eddie & Sheikh Nouman for talking on this Topic.
    After 3 days of temptations going on in my Mind...I was about to commit the "Worst Kind of Zina"...& after I watched this Video I am filled with Fear & Regret. All my sexual thought just went away...hamdulillah.
    I request Muslims who read this comment to pray for me that Allah gives me the Strength to protect myself from destruction....I am Single & am prone to temptation.
    May Allah Protect me & all who are in this Phase.

  • @matrixneo6539
    @matrixneo6539 11 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    99% people of the committing sin , o my Almighty please save me from committing any small and big sin

  • @rahulsrivastav3684
    @rahulsrivastav3684 11 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is one of the best speeches that I have ever heard. I request all to watch, understand and follow the preeching. And I pray may allah protect us from addictions and guide us righteous life. Subhanallah beautiful speech.

  • @cooldesertknight
    @cooldesertknight 11 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Correction : @ 6:01 the meaning of "ebbadi" ( عبادي ) is "my worshipers" not "my slaves".
    Salaam.

  • @mohammadzafar
    @mohammadzafar 15 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    May Allah protect our brother and sisters from Zina...and allow them to marry righteous partners

  • @cooldesertknight
    @cooldesertknight 11 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The "recorded laughter" isn't really funny. Your show can still be successful without that silliness.
    Salaam to you all.

  • @perveen10
    @perveen10 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It just shows you that you don't have to kill people because of one mistake they made, if you want to repend whole heartedly then there's always a way out of it

  • @salmanhafeez1990
    @salmanhafeez1990 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the best videos I've seen in a long long time.

  • @bishcade9982
    @bishcade9982 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    a real eye opener for me.Alhamdulilah have gained a lot. I like how nouman Ali khan speeches n they way he tackles questions.

  • @svoorg1772
    @svoorg1772 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Oh Allah forgive my all my sins big and small. Bro's please pray for my I have done 1 horrible sin over and over again i'm one person being destroyed 1 desire Please pray Allah for me

  • @sohype6827
    @sohype6827 11 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm very weak… And i don't have (not many) muslim friends.

  • @hiddenharmonies12
    @hiddenharmonies12 11 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    May Allah SWT forgive us for all of our sins! Ameen! I know ive done some horrible acts as well, but i pray Allah forgives me, i shall never ever do them again! Inshaallah! Ya rabii!

  • @SyedAhmadShah92
    @SyedAhmadShah92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    may ALLAH FORGIVE MY SINS AND ALL OTHER PEOPLE SINS AMEEN...

  • @mohammedabubaker810
    @mohammedabubaker810 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i am grateful and thank Allah for being a muslim. Lets pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness, Inshallah, Allah will make our lives easier. This is dunya, nd everything in it is temporary. Lets work towards pleasing Allah, i pray for all muslim brothers and sisters in islam who are going through hardships. Stay strong brothers nd sisters of islam, nothing ever comes easy. To get jannah one has to endure challenges, we living a temporary life, so use your time wisely.

  • @bigv3192
    @bigv3192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Even though I'm christian I did listen and I mentally replaced Allah with the name of my god, very good counsel

  • @sanamo86
    @sanamo86 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    fantastic answer & explanation by Nouman Ali, Request to The Deen Show, you have such quality guests & lectures, please avoid doing a dramatic repeat of the question in the beginning & also the recorded laughter, although its not your intention it cheapens the show

  • @MardinUzeri
    @MardinUzeri 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MashaAllah Brother Nouman is such a genius!
    I love how he addresses the Islam's Youth.

  • @romanoor2477
    @romanoor2477 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    soooo amazing.... subhan Allah
    the thing NAK said about salah is super awsome. soooooo true

  • @y-stopmotion1477
    @y-stopmotion1477 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what a nice speech, i respect his knowledge of Quran, just wonderful

  • @dinaaa107
    @dinaaa107 11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We all make mistakes. It's not the end of the world. You can still turn this around and you should for God and your brother. I have siblings, and I know look up to me so be careful. Start praying and even fast (I know Ramadan is over, but do what the Prophet pbuh did, fast every Monday and Thursday, read the quran, give charity, and it will make your heart feel better. Don't necessarily forget what you did, but learn from it. You're still a good person, or else you wouldn't feel this way.

  • @FajriahRamadhanIsmail
    @FajriahRamadhanIsmail 11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Repent, revive your faith, do good deeds.. got it...

  • @Faharnouman
    @Faharnouman 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazakAllah brother Noman, Eddie and khalifah
    SubhanAllah what the knowledge bro Noman have. The peace he founds inside reflects, a prove that what Allah (S.W.T.) promised and he do nothing without a purpose.
    On the other hand, we the listeners also bring here with the purpose. Allah (S.W.T) loves us and he don't want us to be failed in the eternal life. We cannot escape saying that we don't gets the knowledge. Have to give up the sins, there is no way out ppl except the way to Allah (S.W.T).

  • @hadomahmed7197
    @hadomahmed7197 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    o Allah please save me from committing any small and big sins

  • @janson1055
    @janson1055 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Speechless . Thank you for such nice interview and guidance.

  • @Yyourself
    @Yyourself 15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BEST VIDEO EVER!
    I can show this to 100 people and they all can benefit from it. especially muslim kids in universities and colleges

  • @PrimroseGamingPro
    @PrimroseGamingPro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    O !!!Allah protect USTAD Noman who z in constant struggle and bringing us closer to you

  • @nabuumamariam6922
    @nabuumamariam6922 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MashaAllah this was great.Jazakha Allah.

  • @umebugaje6806
    @umebugaje6806 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Good video as a reminder, as the world is now turning perverted.

  • @zeeman11
    @zeeman11 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah Khair brother, you delivered an excellent comprehensive , heartfelt and a very practical talk Mash'Allah, keep up the good work Ameen.

  • @mosofi23
    @mosofi23 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah! Very well said once again. The way you interpret ayat Allah is amazing mashallah.You remind me of a young Ahmed Deedat rahimahou Allah. Allah ma3ak brother.

  • @aburg10s
    @aburg10s 11 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great advice, but a huge problem is that Muslim parents' make it insanely difficult for their sons and daughters to get married. He's gotta have a six figure income, she's gotta be from this family, which is impossible in today's economy.

  • @drsarfarazjaved6814
    @drsarfarazjaved6814 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah...Great speech, delivered crystal clear message of Allah (SWT).Allah bless you brother Noman .

  • @mysteriouslyf
    @mysteriouslyf 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What if someone is married and his/her spouse is living in another country or far away from them. To avoid adultery or some other sin, Is masturbation allowed at that time?

  • @k0329212
    @k0329212 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just started listening to norman and are amazed at his knowledge to the human mentality and upto date with the problems of society. which is a rare quality in the muslim scholars and imams.

  • @SAm_Sung123LOrD
    @SAm_Sung123LOrD 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhanallah. This video is timely and should be a reminder to us all.

  • @syedmmahdawy6282
    @syedmmahdawy6282 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great job brother may give you more taufeeq to do good deed.

  • @NadeemAhmed-nl3jd
    @NadeemAhmed-nl3jd 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully explained the nature of human desires. May Allah protect us from all sorts of evil deeds.

  • @a55kika18
    @a55kika18 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very educational.God bless you both

  • @murtuza47
    @murtuza47 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allahumdulilah..It is really so imp.JazakAllah brother Nouman,brother eddy,ThedeenShow,n all those who r related to this lecture .It raises our Imaan,strengthens our soul.May Allah subhan o taala bestow Mercy and peace upon Our beloved Prophet Sallahu Alaihi wa Salaam and his true followers.JazakAllah Brother Nouman fr ur work .May Allah grant Mercy upon you and all people related to you .Insha'Allah Aameen.

  • @Dawn.nm19
    @Dawn.nm19 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best video I've seen since I joined TH-cam. Amazing video, profound advise. Thank you so much!

  • @poisonedchalice
    @poisonedchalice 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother Nouman is such an incredible speaker mashaAllah. May Allah reward him.

  • @iplaycrick
    @iplaycrick 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is amazing

  • @dedenhasanudin9397
    @dedenhasanudin9397 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful... may Allah protect us

  • @zakirabegum137
    @zakirabegum137 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Assalamualaikum warahmathullah wabarkatuh,brother Eddie jazakumullahu khair

  • @rosenjake716
    @rosenjake716 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So how exctly do you do tawbah ? Do you just say sorry or do you pray 2 rakkahs and say sorry ?

  • @maliawafa3490
    @maliawafa3490 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    MASHALLAH this is great

  • @bika808
    @bika808 15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1-al tawba(redemption)
    2-Al eymaan(reviving your faith)
    3-amel el salah(doing good deeds)
    Jazakum allahu kharien ,I comitted sin of zina during ramadan with a gurl that had a bet with her 30 year old zinna buddy that married to make me sleep with her,I know how you feel and its the hardest feeling in the world but i am not innocent we must accept our pain and try our best to stay away from zina.We live in a society of fetaans and allah isa will forgive us

  • @moeabuosba8927
    @moeabuosba8927 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zina is a big problem for young Muslims. Some people do it for pleasure, some for popularity, and some for just feeling loved if it is for popularity, move to a place such as Saudia Arabia or Jordan. If it is for pleasure u have permission to masturbate in order to prevent Zina. If it for feeling loved remember what these two brothers said about what men do. Have friends and family to love you. Not some guy to play with you. Be stronger than that. This was a very good video keep it up!

  • @olyak3977
    @olyak3977 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    great interview!

  • @Born2ownRS
    @Born2ownRS 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Around 8:00 he says that at the time of fornication, or drinking, that person has lost is imaan. So... how about the time of missing a prayer without a legit reason (was too tired, did not feel like it, etc.) and that person has died before repenting for it. Also what is the punishment for losing Imaan.

  • @beautifulpak
    @beautifulpak 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @Hateeeem I am 29 and single. Its so hard for me to quit Zina. I am a Muslim and I hate what i do but i cant control myself. My parents dont want me to get married. I dont know what is the best solution to stay away from zina.

  • @adad-ec6ht
    @adad-ec6ht 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In my case, I am scared to marry because my own uncle found out his wife cheating on him, ( adultery). How do we men know that the woman is not cheating on me?

  • @FeelTheMotivation
    @FeelTheMotivation 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fantastic advice, mashaAllah!

  • @hayahbellatrix4735
    @hayahbellatrix4735 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamualaikum brother Nouman! It fills me with awe by what simplicity and expertise you explain such sensitive issues. May Allah reward you amply for your efforts and shower upon you more knowledge of the kind which will benefit you and the mankind as a whole; Ameen!

  • @ashisonline100
    @ashisonline100 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah!!! This nouman ali khan is totally rated, may allah bless them both!

  • @JaefarSABNW
    @JaefarSABNW 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aleister Crowley referred to extramarital sex, drug use, and blasphemy as the process of killing the heart. He called all to commit these things even if they repulse them until they are used to them.

  • @abutafawa
    @abutafawa 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah Very nice Reminder.May Allah bless you always Ameen.May Allah bless the Deen show Ameen!

  • @khairuleven
    @khairuleven 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    the strength of iman be upon all of you

  • @RocketMansLadyCygnus
    @RocketMansLadyCygnus 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is very good advice for everyone who needs to understand that their is only "ONE" God in our world who loves all innocent children and families.

  • @souljaruman1
    @souljaruman1 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhan'Allah...may Allah give us the ability to safeguard our chastity and imaan, and control our desires. Ameen.

  • @songokuify
    @songokuify 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah Kharun....love the deen show and i love nouman ali khan ....

  • @mengfieyap6736
    @mengfieyap6736 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing the link dear khalifah

  • @hawhaya
    @hawhaya 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was just amazing Jazakallah khair...

  • @sulaimankhan8033
    @sulaimankhan8033 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    may Allah forgive our sins.....

  • @iNahidkhan
    @iNahidkhan 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inshallah you will fight on.. please don't give up hope. This is a problem for both of us, please for your own sake try your best..

  • @Deaxon1
    @Deaxon1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Allahuma innee audhubika min fitnatin-nar Wa'athabin-nar, wa min sharril-ghina wal faqr. Oh Allah, I seek refuge in you from the trials and the torment of hellfire and from the evils of wealth and poverty

  • @DeathAngleZoe
    @DeathAngleZoe 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Society is just Shaitan.
    Forget about it, brother. Look at what losers everyone else is.
    They WANT you to be as pathetic as them.

  • @Muslimah-z2e
    @Muslimah-z2e 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sub han Allah may Allah SWT rewards you higher place in Jannah... And protect the ummah

  • @cakrabuanaselaras5655
    @cakrabuanaselaras5655 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah..., tx brother. Great advice.., may Allah give us strength to resist the dunya temptations. Amin.

  • @MrRuggedboy27
    @MrRuggedboy27 14 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @Hateeeem a good idea would be to get married when a bunch of young boys where giggling talking bout women, the prophet when he heard them he didnt tell them to give up that, he said "whoever of u have the means to get married, should get married "

  • @afgdreamgurl
    @afgdreamgurl 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashAllah wonderful video juzz luvv itttt ..thanxx for sharing itt..May Allah blesss Nouman Ali khan

  • @nasima7861
    @nasima7861 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    assalam alaikum
    alhamdulillah dis has helped me alot goin through the same situation
    allah bless u people and keep his mercy upon u

  • @aminah67
    @aminah67 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    allah mujehy bacha k rahay.. aur seedhi rah dikhaye ameen..

  • @nafsullawwama
    @nafsullawwama 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God forgives all sins as long as you are sincere in repentance....falling back into a sin doesnt nullify your previous repentance. you have to repent again. the prophet pbuh said the one who repents is like the one who never sinned. in a hadith Qudsi Allah swt says if people didnt commit sins and repent thereafter, he would replace us with a creation that did sin but repented afterwards so He can forgive them. however, u have to try change ur situation after repentin so u dont go back to the sin

  • @eidaziz
    @eidaziz 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    salam alaik.. could you plz quote which surah is the ayat at min 06:01 from> the ayah of hope thank you

  • @onlinehijabstore
    @onlinehijabstore 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love this show so much

  • @DrakyGordon
    @DrakyGordon 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakullahu khair..i shall search the article myself and save u the trouble...wasalam..

  • @ishfaque10
    @ishfaque10 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    really awesome advice...jazakallah khair!!

  • @thaniauddin3229
    @thaniauddin3229 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah. This video has opened my eyes to a lot, I adore Nouman Ali Khan so much! His knowledge is immense just wow

  • @andreahanagawa
    @andreahanagawa 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    a very good advice at the end. :D

  • @Tahiya16
    @Tahiya16 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for this! Jazakallah!!

  • @Maryammmm
    @Maryammmm 15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May Allah forgive us. It is so easy to fall into these things nowadays.

  • @abdella007
    @abdella007 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    brother i committed zina and i regret it why i did it , brother please help me .

  • @syedali3930
    @syedali3930 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if we dont want to get the punishment of zina?? Wha to do?? Omg

  • @xblinkz1
    @xblinkz1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this show!!

  • @deskomafia
    @deskomafia 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT IS THAT NASHEED STARTING FROM 3:06 NAME ANYONE PLEASE

  • @SipahiWarrior
    @SipahiWarrior 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashAllah, Nouman Ali Khan is a powerful speaker, may Allah bless him.

  • @fjprincess
    @fjprincess 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am looking into islam and have seen quite a few of these videos, in a previous video while questioning christianity, it was said that if jesus died for everyones sins, then it doesn't matter if you sin, is there not a similar concept then in islam if you say that Allah will forgive your sins anyway?

  • @nmuhyiddin
    @nmuhyiddin 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    sinful slave by no beats necessary .. one of my favourite nasheed :)

  • @carkemish
    @carkemish 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do the "youth" listen?

  • @JayKhwaja
    @JayKhwaja 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well said, Mashalla

  • @HonorGuard117
    @HonorGuard117 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both Christianity and Islam are very similar. The points this guy makes is similar to what I have been taught about in the Christian belief...

  • @FakirsCA
    @FakirsCA 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is your perspective on militant jihadism?

  • @luvztc5
    @luvztc5 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    and don't forget to do what you have to do (pay zakat, pray, hajj, obey your parents etc)

  • @KOOL2011
    @KOOL2011 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone know what tune he played at the start?