You Never Have to Chase Women Again | Brent Smith | Full Length HD
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Brent Smith breaks down how to stop competing with other men for women. He lays out a new perspective that encourages men to break out of the scarcity mentality, and become comfortable with women chasing them.
In the full length edition, you will learn:
- Why guys feel like they need to have some amazing story of seducing the girl.
- How to become a guy who is chase-able, instead of having to chase.
- A critical mindset shift that will help you get more women with less effort.
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Brent Smith is a dating & lifestyle expert who believes in the disruptive approach to how men traditionally meet women.
He was an early inspiration for David DeAngelo’s “Double Your Dating” series and has gone on to teach thousands of men around the world his counter-intuitive approach to attracting hotter women the lazy man’s way, in the direct, no-nonsense style’s known for.
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Its kind of sad that guys need this guys of training 🤣😂 too much video games.
So,if every man in the world watches this then it’s back to square 1 i suppose
Ggh
This is hilarious! A lonely beta male simp advising 20 other lonely beta male simps on how to get women. (I possibly overestimated the crowd size.)
herpies 1 and 2 is what that would get you.
freakin hell! lets confirm everyone is clean and then i'll waste my time seeing if the girl is worth possibly my time.
A woman was chasing me on friday night! She was not giving up either! Officer nichols was her name.
😂😂 nice
Good one!😂
Lmfaooooo
😂😂😂
Did she put you on the handcuff of love ?
"Not fearing loss", the truth is she's never yours anyway. Always know that they can be done with you at any moment, and this applies even if you are married to them. It's just far cheaper if you're not.
Mgtow monk.
The only way.
Pro 4th way feminism laws have made it all way to dangerous.
Ain't that the truth..
And knowing you also have options & can walk away
Lol
She is never yours. Is just your turn.
Chasing women puts you into a vulnerable position. They get to choose.
Just make the best of yourself.... fitness, grooming, career, social life, friends, pastimes. Be happy with your life. Make yourself the prize. Let them come to you. Never stalk, drool, show off, act the fool. Just be a cool, friendly guy. If you are a prize and a challenge then they come to you.
There are millions of women. Every one isn't THE ONE.
This is 100% correct!!
@@YourePrivateDj If the woman likes you, then she will chase you to the ends of the Earth. July 3, 2024. USA
@@YourePrivateDj Yes you are right.
The bird (the woman) that lands on your window (in your life) is the one for you pretty much. August 8, 2024
A simple way to test some form of interest is to approach a woman and shake her hand and say: "Hi, what's your name?" Let her respond. Do not give your name away, instead, let her ask what your name is. The reason for this is because people that are intrigued by someone even a tiny bit will want to find out more about someone and their name is always a good start. A woman who is not interested doesn't want to know who you are or doesn't care what your name is.
That's really the best dating advise I've ever heard. I'm content to keep that in mind when I need it and quit stressing about it. Thank you 🙏 for real
Noted Sir
That's not always true. Sometimes girls don't think to ask names or even expect you'll reach out. My girl never remembered my name but she said she was attracted to me immediately. It's different for everyone.
@@noname-nu6oo of course there are exceptions to the rule but generally speaking for the majority of cases, this is true.
Yeah best to use something to see if they will invest in an Interaction, once they are invested it's far easier to continue in a smooth manner as you know shes interested from this simple point. No investment no point continuing.
DON'T BE A SIMP!!!
by Albert Einstein
Or a cupcake snowflake 😂😂😂
I love the comment section. It saves me time
same
Second
@@coiledsteel8344 you're freaking me out man i just had a load of those slinkys last week
Marcus kimono You are not alone.
Nah bro, you just aren’t ready for the message. As a former gyallis these things just came natural for me. Going to college and surveying the scene, most men do not do this, and this is why my approach similar to this video has always been effective. For example, Phone calls 5-10 mins, text “hey, how are you, let’s meet up”. Anything further than that is a waste of time, they are either not interested or will back burner you because they can get your attention for free without doing anything because you are always available. He gives the what but not the why.
I'm 40 and I've never chased women before, and I've been in plenty of relationships. My personality is very indifferent to women in general, regardless of how pretty they are. You would think that I would not get any attention or chances with women because of it, but it was always the complete opposite. They always showed interest in me first because of my general attitude towards them and well, I'm not such a bad looking dude. For example, if I worked in an office with like 7 guys and two girls, all 6 of them would give the girls constant attention, but I was always that one dude who really didn't care. Guess who got the most attention from the girls. Behaving counter-intuitive to your man-thirst will always bring you the best results.
glad it worked for you.....maybe it works for some guys...but they generally
end up with women they don't really want...the chaff that hangs around...then again, you never get who you really want. I want a fucking bikini model...what are my chances? none
Same...men dont realize how Hard they try....girls always want the quiet confident one
@@sunyata1016 I always think those guys are gay
@@martharodriguez5958 whats wrong with gays...im not gay but have nothing against them. Stop judging...you aint perfect sweetie
@@sunyata1016 I dont have anything against gay people where did You get that idea? ....why don't You learn how to read....sweetie
“A strange game. The only winning move is not to play ...” Joshua Wargames
How will you approach her in the first place
Not playing the game is NOT an option
he is on the money. "
the one who cares the least wins"
Yea not care an really not care like you don't care but meaningfully 👍🏽
I stopped chasing ten years ago at 35 I've never been more at peace
You have saved some serious corn. LBard
Dont you get lonely? any plans for marriage?
@@ARTDEVGRU247 doesn't work, unless you have a very busy life and lot of big things going on, you ll start feeling empty and without purpose.
@@youxanyou even then, you'd probably get lonely after a while.
Only way to play this game is to not play at all.
Watching this cured my athlete's foot.
Lol how?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I lol’d
Lol
@@JihadBunnydick May the woman pursue one (the man). July 3, 2024, USA
The more you tell them the more you repel them-- GOLD!
@AC fanatic Why?
@@beatweezl Love is all about chemistry. She picks you if she has chemistry with you. You will know in 3 minutes if the woman likes you a lot. July 3, 2024. USA.
absolute cope, if you're attractive you will not repel them, but thats not the case for you
The highest form of love begins with self love. The deepest betrayal is betrayal of oneself.
I took this guy's advice and haven't approached a single woman for years. Hasn't worked that well.
lol..
+Jay Skrine Sounds like you've got it right.
+Jay Skrine - Wrong. Chasing is when you're continuously pursuing. For example, you approach a woman. She talks for 2 mins, goes to the ladies toilets, but doesn't return to you. Instead, she goes and stands somewhere else. Then you approach her again, and again. Or you text a woman, she doesn't reply, but you keep texting. Or you ask her out, she says no, but you keep asking. This is all chasing. Approaching a woman is masculine, and shows confidence. Men are supposed to fearlessly go for what they want. If you're attracted to a woman, go and see what she is about, but if she doesn't seem interested, tell her to enjoy the rest of her night and walk away. Really simple.
+Cheese Face spoken like a true boss
hehe
You’ll always lose money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money 🎤🔥
Straight fire
She'll complain that u dont spend enough time with her. Women always want to be your number 1 focus. They grave validation and are desperate for it
Except escorts
This is so true. Women either like you or they don't. Detached indifference is far more effective than chasing.
"Telling is repelling!"...........best advice in the whole talk.........
Yeah like bragging it makes u look like the weakest one in the group
Overtaling is repelling
Have watched for 22 minutes, still waiting for him to say something.
Stephen.....press the play button
Stephen Lacher these idiots paid for this??.. Poor bastards
exactly , I am listening for 30min(from half)and I still didnt learn anything new
I think the only thing he's getting is beat up and penis
Stephen Lacher ikr
This guy is a master of talking without saying anything. Save your time and skip this BS talk.
Fr I really wanted him to be great too
Thank you for the comment. Saved me 40 mins of pickup artist junk.
Went through the whole thing. You were right.
Vin Di Carlo's Pandora's Box had at least scientific stuff.
Dam , I thought It was just Me...
This presentation helped me fall asleep..Thank you...
george janston 🤣
Now , That's Funny ... !
😂
Damn so true after I have literally awaken from a nap and it's still playing lol
LMFAO Glad I'm not the only one. I'm adding this to my favorites so I can come back to it when I need a quick nap.
After watching this, I'm actually looking forward to the end of the human race.
Mom's Basement 😂😂😭
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lmfao 😂😂
Lol!
Probably the wine but this comment made me laugh out loud tremendously 🤣🤣🤣
I've never fully loved the women who have chased me because I felt in my heart that I never really earned their love. I'm trying to learn how to not be afraid of showing my feelings to a particular woman that I really care for. I'm a chasing her? yes. Does she give me her time? yes. Does she give me signs thats she's interested? yes. Am I cautious that my chase doesn't seem desperate? you bet your ass.
But if your a smart individual you know when your chase has reached its limit and its time to stop chasing because you no longer have any value in her eyes. I think the trick is to find a balance. I have been both the Provider that women gloss over and see as a sucker and the guy girls text and wonder what I'm doing 24/7, I text them once 2 hours later and they respond like in 2 secs or less with an essay on how their day went.
I have dated the girl chaser and after less than a month of getting freaky in the sheets I was on to the next girl. I've realized its easy to get a girl to chase you. Its harder to be a man and show the woman who you love that you are the one she should be with because you know she is the one. Ask yourself this, do you want to be in a relationship with someone who you manipulated to being in a relationship with you. Or be with a woman who you fought for since the beginning and in return will fight for you as well?
Yes, that's cause we just don't like things we can easily get, the harder to get something the more we appreciate it, like you train half your life to get an stupid olympic medal, you will appreciate it a thousand times more, than if you bought it on ebay. We al want things we hardly can get.
It can also accur you have been chasing a girl for half a year, and she doesn't want, suddenly you decide to move on and then she realises she hasn't your attention anymore she'll miss it and probably chase you.
i'D appreciate learning from you
do you have a blog where you share your mind out
Dubstepper Jay I enjoyed reading your response .
The best way to ensure that an American girl will never speak to you again is to write her a sonnet, show her you love her, etc., before she has indicated that she loves you.
fuck them who chase you as a whore 2 or 3 times and then brutally throw them in garbage and you will earn their eternal love... the end.
33:10 "if you want women to chase you, you'll have to stop chasing them." There, see if you 45 minutes. Having said that, this guy doesn't have a clue on how to get laid.
Lmao
Many of these "gurus" offer such dumb generic advice. Yeah, if you delete all social media and go live off the grid no woman will be chasing after you. This advice works for people who are already social and good looking.
@@Vladimyrful and even for good looking guys like me who are social and successful, the only women who chase me are the less attractive ones who know if they don't make the moves on men, men will never go for them. Women who are hot and know they have options always want a man to make the first move to some degree.
@@Lonstermash Yeah, exactly. So anyone promissing that "women will chase you!" is peddling something.
His girlfriend is a single mom with 3 kids. She's 10 years older than him and weighs 300 lbs.
With six tattoos.
Uh..ew wtf
@DMark1 Do you have a camera with a wide angle lens and mean really wide?
And shes african american.
@@thegroove2000 fishing for comments i see
For those of you guys who do not get it - both what he is saying, and vagina. Work on YOU. Become a better man or transform yourself from a male into a man. Again, work on YOU. Expand your interests; books, travel, taking care of yourself - improve your personality, your hand shake, straighten your posture, articulate with confidence, SMILE (fix your teeth if needed), drive the car YOU want (not a car you THINK will attract females) - HAVE FUN when dating and/or approaching females - and MOST IMPORTANT - DO NOT be married to the outcome (aka, do not be afraid of walking away - which works well in both business and relationships). When you improve yourself and live your dreams or at least be passionate about things in your life - women come out of the woodwork to be with you. Carry on !
rayce banon brilliant mate
Are you Coach Corey Wayne in disguise lol
Be social. Be funny. Be cool. Just don't chase. It's not just about ignoring women. To those that said they ignored women for months and got nowhere
Im 48 have been with thousands of girls ( lots of guys have even more then me) this guy knows what he is talking about
It's interesting that so many men are in the comments criticizing this man, when Morgan Freeman actually gave men the same exact advice. And this was in response to someone asking him how he was able to be so successful with women.
indifference makes the difference...leave them wondering about where they stand so girls end up reaching out first ( do the chasing)
This is brilliant game changing shit. Thanks Brent! I have been married twice. With both women, I pursued them hard. I feel like I worked so hard to try and convince them to be with me and they spent so much money trying to impress them. I was a major chaser. It ultimately made me me feel as if they were only with me because I was a good salesman. Not because they truly wanted to be there.
so you chased some useless women, spent a lot of money, and still not getting it?
Pfirtzer. No dude. I chased alot of women, spent allot of money and won’t do that again. That was my point.
You sound like you're growing up...getting wise. Put God first. Join the Church Jesus started and live the commandments. Ask God if he wants marriage for you. And love everyone. Open your eyes and see all the people who need your love. But do not go against what is good and true. God has a purpose for your life. Stop wasting your time chasing things that do not matter.
@@davidarbelaez4395 me too
Very true
It’s nice to be at a point in life where it just doesn’t matter anymore. I’m 51, divorced twice, have an 8 and 7 year old daughter who mean the entire world to me and I just do what I enjoy on any given night after work. I’m going to martial arts tonight and Wednesday night . Going to meet some friends Tuesday after work, having dinner with friends on Thursday and driving to Las Vegas on Friday to visit my brother. Couldn’t do any of that when I was married or in a relationship. I enjoy the freedom when I don’t have my daughters. The week I’m with them I love and care for them. The week I’m without them I do what I enjoy. It’s a good life for which I am grateful.
Women always complain how they wanna be a man main focus, but she loses respect when that actually happens... W. Kollie
The fact that he is constantly looking at the computer makes me think he really doesn't know what he is talking about. If he did, he wouldn't really need to read anything.
Not really, it keeps him on track. I have ADHD, and it looks like he has it. We get off track very easily.
@@real_talk1180 lmao 🤣 you are simp because you listen to this garbage, desperate looking for a girl.
To quote the late great Biggie Smalls "I don't chase 'em, I replace 'em"...
+irish1209 love it!
godspeed biggie. One of the ages greatest philosophers.
To quote the late great Tupac "the underground just dont stop for hoes"
@@anthonygill4795 Facts!
"Biggie" or Christopher, is a good example of a worthless life. He bought in to the culture of death and what is worse is than he lead other young men to also lead a worthless life. He was a puke of a human being. If you want to waste your life, follow the rapper example. There is more to life than your dick and getting high. Time to become men.
Funny enough I tried this technique for the first time (giving my number and not asking for hers, trusting she will make the move) and the girl was so keen for the number she was willing to have the number written on her arm, I gave it on a piece of paper though 😂. She sent me multiple texts the next day to go out for coffee. She came out dressed to kill. Pity I ruined the good game by terrible game at the meetup, but lesson learned.
It is amazing how when you stop chasing/pleasing a woman she starts chasing pleasing you!
Alan Watts explained this back in the 1960s and called it the Inverse Law, and ancient Daoists taught the same, BUT the modern sexualTheRedPill'ers are correct that you should workout your body, focus on you and on your self-care and on being your authentic self and focusing on your strengths and monetizing off of your strenghts, and finally that you should become Rambo at least in terms of endurance and no-fucks-given if you can't get that level of body muscles and martial arts warrior training... 🙄
last weekend at the party i was just standing watching which woman is showing the most interest in me and i ended up that night with a woman in bed. i dont even bother with women that dont show any interest, it works
Kool
cool shades bro
that's the way forward. Don't be a pursuer!
No. Not unless he's a gentleman. Rather have a janitor gentleman than some rich azzhole think he can get in any woman cookie jar. No way!!! Very leary on wealthy men and I know if they approaching me or looking they doing it with other women too. Most women go thru junk all the time. No. More money a man has show his true colors which usually no good. Think he all that and we no $$ = power and with big $$ those men can get us killed easy. Be a gentleman. Kiss my hand only and I will curtsy. Nice, very attentive, kind, soothing. No $$ can buy that! And furthermore look in any Holy book. The man's role is to protect and provide. The woman's role is to nurture and care for the man and home. Can't buy love. Gotta be in love and don't believe you if you say it. You must prove it. Takes a long time. But if you love her you wait and respect and appreciate her you will get the same back. But this dumb vid isn't about luv it's about getting the drawers. We already know how y'all try and play us. Don't need you like that. Electricity: outlet is female, plug is male. That male plug can't do a dang thang until it need the female outlet that hold all that good hot electricity. But go up to it and poke your finger in it, that's right. Get shocked. No male plug will function without the female outlet. Y'all need us. You don't show attention, we gone. Finished. Done. Don't care who you are.
"But go up to it and poke your finger in it, that's right. Get shocked. No male plug will function without the female outlet. Y'all need us. You don't show attention, we gone. Finished. Done."
-Lolli Lafayette
Words of wisdom, just two more miracles and you've got sainthood
This is actually true I used to chase women do with everything for them dress well, look after myself get muscle all for women all to get rejected in the end nothing worked but when I stopped chasing them & Just lived my own life doing things got myself I started to get attention from women I don't know but it's weird I just stopped giving a fuck about women all together & when that happened I did things for MYSELF & i got more attention from women
Go for GREENS lights
Attention or sex?
@@robertl.7657 what does that mean?
Attention from women, should be divided into, real interest in you!!green light!!!,versus her external validation !! Probably men traits will trigger real interest! !,going to the gym with the INTENTION OF, DO YOU LIKE ME ???IT'S Looking for validation! !! Got the picture
@@robertl.7657 Got that
WOW!! Great advice for when I was a 17 year old. What amazes me is that there are grown adult men that pay for this. These guys must be really desperate.
Bruh lmaoooo
Your comment is actually stupid
And we spotted one in the replays thanks to that comment
Lmao 🤣 Fuck true bois. They just need to learn become a normal human being.
@@figomacboy4779 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Morgan Freeman said, Don’t chase women, they’ll chase you.
1)Glasses come on and off a million times.
2)Drink 10 gallons of water.
3)Check facebook status on laptop every 2 minutes.
4)Sloppy handwriting on board for obvious info.
5)Discuss successful stories about the goodlooking.
6)Gather all the lonely cavemen and surround them around the firepit of knowledge, charge them a price.
7)Red lobster commercials.
Become rich sauve caveman to spend money with beautiful young woman on tropical island.
tony sparks you should be a comedian you really hit the nail squarely on the head.
Conor Fields 👄
while I do agree that chasing women is an utter waste of time and since I have stopped, I have more money, time and have experienced an overall improvement of quality of life, women continue to ignore me. life is better for me, but no one seems to care anyway. i live a more disciplined life - workout more, eat better, have more success at work, etc. but not a whisper of interest from women.
Show an interest in the woman. I don't think you understand there are a lot of men trying to get a woman's attention but most men will never try to make a move at all, as in ask for a date or tell the woman what they are looking for. Get the woman's attention then tell her what you are looking for- tell her what you want. if you want a relationship say it. get to know her. If you want sex, just say it...in a non creepy way.
Victoria lee How do you say you just want sex in a non creepy way?
My man. Type in Black Phillip 1 and enjoy all 13 episodes. All you gotta do with a woman is catch her in some bullshit, show her the flawed logic and make sure she knows your better then her. And tell her that her breath probably stinks, especially if shes very attractive. 👊 fuck em to sleep my man.
@@b.boheme445 that's good advice..asking for sex thgh..it depends on how much you like her!! Because if a guy really likes a female,its not that easy.yes i have done that wth my current girlfriend,and it work's..if you are just dating its not that easy unless there loose.I'm not judging.I' took dating off the table for 3 years on purpose..women are sexual creative creatures,give them respect and they will reword you.it's a fact in my experience...
@@TW-fx2jx Something to the effect of being lonely and offer that if she feels the same perhaps you could be of assistance to each other. Rework the words to your situation IF/after she opens up about being unhappily single for any length of time especially long, or general loneliness. Not exactly direct, but closer. Meet in public places first to avoid misinterpretations that lead to rape. In that public place say you going to bed and ask if she'd like to join. If she changes locations you're practically in the clear. Again, not intensely direct, but closer.
In the wise words of Bill Burr, "Women are overrated". Sorry, but as Metallica would say, Sad But True.
I'm a single woman and we are being given the same advice - don't chase men, don't be needy, be confident and shine your feminine light. But I have to agree with the advice here. There'a no bigger turn-off for a woman than a needy man. At the end of the day, I am looking for a confident man who isn't trying to rescue me or control me, but just walks alongside me; is chilled, funny, intelligent and a great lover. Having money helps, but I would rather take the interesting poor guy than the wining, dining, expensive gift giver who chases, smothers and treats me like a breakable object. You don't have to have the biggest muscles or be the best looking. I like the sense of style this speaker is wearing, his hair, jeans, shirt - he looks very good. Being clean, taking care of yourself and dressing cool are all turn ons for women. Women are just people, human beings. So real friendship and respect are the foundations for anything long-term and fulfilling.
Two things that will never go away if you want quality women: you need to be the one taking action and you will face competition from other men. There's no way around it. Get used to it. This man's advice is like the advice promising a slim athletic body without the hardwork, diet, pain and years it takes. Nobody wants to hear that. People wants the easy way.
+SuperMerlot Yours is the most intelligent comment on here. Ignore a girl and she'll chase you. Ignore a woman, she'll replace you.
+CougarChannel LOL. You are right, cougar. Too much sh1t from society in your head. Ignorant girls have fun, women are miserable wondering why they are going downhill as they age. Not only you loose your sexual value as you age, you screen men far more than a girl. It's funny, you are sabotaging yourself and you have no clue you are doing it.
Real men(the ones that make your p4ssy wet) take action up to a point. From then on if you make it difficult for them they'll ignore you. All you get with your "woman" attitude are some boring beta males(that give you all the attention and provide for you) that make you want to shoot yourself over time.
+DTalesMatter Well said
Agree, a woman in cougarhood is not in a position where she can be demanding and expect males to fight over her. First, no cougar is competition for a 20 yr old girl; even if she is a celebrity (ask Demi Moore or Cameron Diaz). Second, once a man realizes young women are within his reach if he works his butt off there is just no going back. Third, when you meet cougars with an entitled attitude derived from seeing the so called "dating coaches" for old women then the transitiion becomes almost an act of self-preservation.
The ratio of men interested in dating cougars and the number of cougars which exist is about 9 to 1, so, they actually ARE in a position to be, as you put it "demanding". You can see for yourself on our Instagram @thecougarclub
Be you, nothing else. Took 7 seconds to type.
what if the you now sucks?
@@antoinecappelleri185 Then get to work on yourself and don't date until you get yourself in order first, otherwise you are going to pick the wrong woman....I promise..
You actually should of taught this course hahahahaha
The "you now" doesn't suck.
3 in 1 what you said is the only thing a man needs to know concerning women and dating. Work on you and raise your value and attract the women who are on your level and curb the gold diggers and nut jobs. Simple.
Watching this video really cleared up so many uncertainties in my mind. For phrases like " basically you have to act like you don't care " something so easy write, easy to say but I never really understood it.. what Brent is saying ( I think) is all the effort to some degree is in her court.. the mystery to a woman is like a love novel and she wants to read it till the end. And then read it over and over again! Lol
I really got more from this video than any others I've watched of the year! Yes that's right a YEAR! I finally understand!!
"you never have to chase women again"
yup, mgtow LOL
How to stop chase? Deny red pill and be blue pill for years... Until you are disgusted by them... Worked for me 😆
@@matijabo anyone who goes against their natural design will cause u to become unstable mentally over time.
@@gargoyliangaming6556 what is natural design in this instance?
How did I end up here from Sandman? Fucking autoplay...
@@rapier1 It's annoying as hell
work on yourself, become a better person,become a man and the women will come automatically
yup
+Capt. that is also true
"The company you applied for will automatically contact you and offer you and interview." This is not true.
***** too dumb for words
dothedeed the footbal team will hear about u and your talent and seek u out and recruit u ;)
30 seconds of information painfully drug-put for 45 minutes.
Would you be kind enough to share the other 29 seconds?
Exactly
Girl's don't call guys they just met. Even if they were really atracted. They are too afraid of rejection! As you interact, you can play "cool", as Bret recomends, AND ask her phone. If she don't give it to you (or another way to contact her), it's a waste of time.
you gotta be willing to loose in order to win.
yes Joe. it applies to everything in life.
Nobody should be chasing anybody. Nobody should be forcing anything. You meet someone unexpectedly and you either have chemistry or you don't. You either have admiration and respect for each other or you don't. If you are not meshing on every level it's never going to work.
Well said.
Never listen to female advice. It's irrelevant. Listen only to successful guys. They know how it works
Anne Boleyn you're right to a point. What needs to be added is that a Man may not be the Womans type but show her how her type isnt always ideal and how you would be a good look.
I think show interest to a woman but don't be needy. Just have a fun casual conversation and see where it goes. I don't think of myself as alpha, just a regular guy. Why pretend to be something you're not? I'm still learning. BTW, does anyone know if its worth going to a 12 Convention? I haven't seen any reviews on it and can't figure out why to go if you can listen to videos on TH-cam.
Close, except there's always work to be put in.
Oh boy, that guy is so dehydrated
You guys know he read these comments' lol right,
when i watch someone drink drink drink drink and then drink some more.....it gets agitating pretty fast~~~
Or...thirsty if you will
Don’t chase anything not money not women nothing superficial be a person of value and things will pursue u
Let me make it simple. Women like confidence, PERIOD. So, learn what that is and how to project it. It's just that simple. (Hitting the gym and putting on some muscle doesn't hurt either)
Dan Letts This
And being tall...which you have zero control over
the majority of women want a guy 6 foot or taller.... i've heard some girls that were no taller than 5 foot saying the same shit.
Dan Letts 0
You like confidence. You like muscle on your body. Put God first. Everything falls into place. Take care .
Stop trying to have sex with women. Who cares. You'll have more fun in life if you don't have sex. So ignore women for the next year and focus on how great it is to have no pressure and time for every other joy in life. Compare results next year. Put it to the test.
Oh hell no!
+Timothy Bradford lol
That is so primitive. Look at the sex toys for men on a site like Adult Video Universe...
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+Dexter Haven Beautifully said, Dex of no sex. :D
What is life without pussy brah
For those that don't know this stuff, take notes. I was lucky enough to be raised by women I had 5 sisters. Lots of what he's saying came naturally to me
What do you mean by “raised by women”?
The guy is just wandering around.
many many years of approaching, success and failures. NON OF THIS WORKS UNLESS YOU LOOK GOOD AND THE GIRL THINK YOU LOOK GOOD. IF THE GIRL THINKS YOUR NOT ATTRACTIVE IN THEIR EYES, THEY WILL EITHER SAY, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND," OR SORRY I DONT BLAH BLAH TO STRANGERS" IF THEY THINK YOURE SLIGHTLY ATTRACTIVE THEN YOU HAVE A CHANCE WITH THEM. PERIOD.
Wrong.
thenewcoming preach!
Very true. It's best not to take the conversation towards boyfriends anyway. Don't even set yourself up for rejection in the first place.
Lose the caps noob
thenewcoming guide me
Unfortunately, a lot of these guys will use the exact line of "shoot me a text" because they have no idea how to be original and after a while of women hearing it often enough it will be an immediate turn off as they will begin to realize these men are following some kind of script. Please, guys, be original in your approach.
Nearly every time I have used the "technique" that Brent espouses, I have been successful. Sometimes within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone. Be casual, be confident, keep everything to a minimum, ignore other "competing" men's actions, and remove jealousy completely from your list of personality traits. In fact, try to remove any negative traits from your personality. Remember that you are only in competition with yourself to be a better person. It's all about personal marketing. No one wants to invest in a "product" that lacks quality. Be a genuine, positive, quality person and support other genuine, positive, quality people and others will want to be around you because it makes them feel good.
'Nuff said.
Rick Gates thanks for actually listing your experience with the technoque
Genuine advice spoken with confidence.
Fuck all the negative comments spoken with " confidence ". Lol
Rick Gates loool
Vibes attract yo tribe.
You cant just be the most neutral great guy whos great to everybody all the time. That will get you the girl but not keep her. Youre not accounting for all the bullshit women say. You need a strategy for that other than nodding, saying "yes honey" and shutting up. Guys need to take ur advice and add this. Every time ur woman says something stupid u gotta let her know the lack in her logic and school her up. If you do that u will have a loyal woman that knows two things.
1. This man isnt trying to be an asshole when he calls me out on my bullshit has trying to help me.
2. No other woman will be able to fuck with this guy... Cause I can't. Which is very attractive.
I remember this guy from David DeAngelo's seminar, and I do recommend watching him in that context as well. I used Brett's advice about the "accelerated dating program" on my second date with a fantastic sharp woman, and years later we're married.
im so sorry to hear it
Hopefully you're still married
So many men chase chase chase .. ignoring them to the point women are forced to chase u
brent's point is women want men who just do not give a fuck. i think he just likes to really go in depth on it and get to these guys who are still chasing and focusing on ONE FREAKING GIRL! (and yes, i have done that a few times, always a mistake!) if you focus on just one girl who doesnt think you can get other girls, she wont give you an ounce of value until you show otherwise. then it is back on. focus on ten, play them against each other, make it fun. its all just a communication of your value that you dont give a fuck. you feel freaking amazing, which is the result of success, high social value, and strong body language (strong body language actually releases testosterone - proven fact), etc. etc. you have options, so you are then non needy and feel good. girls spot this IMMEDIATELY, I mean IMMEDIATELY. they are all just playing dumb until a guy like this shows up to bring them to life. it is just a game that we are wired for. some just have higher perceived value based on looks, behavior etc., some have lower value and are irrelevant and ignored. all attractive women do the same thing on some unconscious level even though most refuse to admit it. personally, i find it hilarious once you know how it all works and see it play out in every situation and can use it to your advantage. brent presents this in a more mature, less explicit manner than i have. that is just where he is at in life, and good for him! very smart, tempered guy.
gREAT BRO ..... YOU HAVE SAID THE TRANSPARENT TRUTH
Who the hell wants to have ten chicks blowing up his phone wanting to chat?....lol Fuck that shit. If you have no life or career I suppose you would have the time to deal with that...maybe? If you need confirmation from women that you have value, then you are insecure to begin with.
BeardAxeMcAxeBeard female here. There's the game level sure but under that thin facade women like men want to find someone they really click with and can love ❤️ lol if that's she really hopes he does not have other women
Good to see someone who can read between the words
YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CODE.
I have never heard about a woman chasing a guy without any money!!
Know why? Because the women you want to be with are the ones who are happy, independant, and confident. Confident women aren't jealous if you're a trustworthy person, they can look after themselves just fine, so they don't have any reason to do anything other than enjoy being in a relationship. You never hear about these women, because they're normal people, they usually end up finding someone perfectly average, and there's no issue. Isn't it obvious that if you HAVE money, and use it to entice women, you're only going to get women wanting the money!
Maybe in the west. But where i live women outnumber men by large numbers and some even speak how nobody marries them right in your presence.
@@Corvid How do you hear about them if no one hears about them?
@@matthewbaumann630 Because I look around at the happy, stable couples in the world around me. You can't seriously be out there in the world without seeing that most couples (more than enough to prove the point) are genuinely happy. Not all are, but you do have to fail a few times to find someone, very few people get lucky first time, and will cling to poor relationships feeling like it's better than being single.
You don't hear about these women because why would you? You're walking past them in the street, they're everywhere, leading normal lives, be they single or not. They don't know that they're a normal woman, they don't feel somehow different, they just are a normal, balanced human being. If you piss them off with an annoying pickup game, or fail to realise rapidly that you can't ever be attractive to every woman on earth, most women will very quickly turn nasty, like any self respecting person does when some idiot won't get the friendly hint. Would you react like a saint if some horrible woman wouldn't take no for an answer? Doesn't make her anything other than a normal women who got annoyed.
@@Corvid Where do you live and why are women outnumbering men by such a large degree? If it's so hard for these women to find a mate, why are they so picky? A lot of men are staying away from relationships in general because women are naturally hypergamous and family courts favour women.
Just read the title, there is nothing else to see or hear.
*Here
@@JulioMo He was correct in his spelling. You read it wrong.
He said, "There's nothing to see or 👂 HEAR."
I made the same mistake. We expected him to say; "There's nothing to see HERE."
@@skibootdier9488 I stand corrected! Thank you.
@@JulioMo ☺
Hero of the comment section
Cant trust him, too nervous. Plus he uses a lot of material from "De Angelo"
He was one of DeAngelo's teachers.
I agree with what this guy is saying..
Stop chasing women like everybody else. Make the women choose... But you have to be hip to their signs..
Yes sir
Fuck all dat negative redirection.
problem is good looking women have 100 other options other than you in this social media age.
yeh basically
I'm hip. I'm with it. Taka taka taka taka taka taka ahhhhhh
tubenachos haha Dr, Evil
I'm a woman and I can say that this works, however I find that some man do this incompletely. Often, after I show interest, somehow they find a way to reject me. I think it might be the fact that they are accustomed to always chase and chase
Im a guy and I think that men are a bit dumb with those subtle signs. I think most men dont even know you have shown interest when its not done very obvious. Maybe it is just different types of communication between men and women
Perceiving incompleteness is a good insight on your behalf.
Keep shining.
100% right here my friend.
- give out your phone number
- end conversation first
- don't overcommunicate, just get together
- stop chasing. get chased.
- end up alone
- end up alone
Brent is 47 years old I think. I'm sure a guy with his experience probably has some good points. Hot women are always being pursued. Being the guy that does NOT pursue, sets you apart from the other guys. Thats the general message here
+Denny Sensation It can be a life time commitment/knowledge/experience gaining/seeking experience. General goal though should be to make her feel good.
I think if the majority of your life is in order Money and Health, then the rest is about having free time on your hands. That's what it really takes, not being to worried about the other parts of your life then persueing dating like a hobby.
I know people that took up dating in their 40s after their finances were in order.
Exactly taking to one single person and in front of people can be totally different.
What he says is extremely logical too
I've heard from a lot of older men that you actually want to pursue the most beautiful women because those are the ones no one has confidence or attempts to talk too.
Denny Sensation how do you get noticed if you don’t Chase?
yah a guy who has it all that doesnt chase. lol
Do we have to hear the water-drinking?
Yeah.
You noticed that also.lol!
For those who keep complaining he didn't say anything or would rather have the cliff notes:
Over communication - Don't do it
End convo first
"Shoot me a text" and see how they respond instead of asking for number
Take easy path not hard path
Talk TO her not AT her
"I'm enough" mentality
Detach from outcomes
2 people can't both chase at the same time
No fluff talk via text
"So, I suppose you want to get together?" -Say something like this to cut through the BS
The hard part for many guys is getting over a "try hard" mindset. Once you defeat that, you are on the way. Learn to flirt, have no expectations, be carefree, there are tons of women out there. The older you get, the easier it gets as well. Keep polishing your character, refine yourself. Have a few rough edges, be a bit mysterious. Don't use lines and bullshit, learn to flirt properly. Once you master this stuff, it won't matter if the hot one got away because there will be another one right beside her.
good advice. but it gets harder when you get older so you want to find the right one when you are young.
by the time you get older, you only have a choice between all the disasters no other man wanted and would probably have to raise someone elses kids therefore giving up your own legacy. All the good women will be married, and the ones without kids will be too young. fuck that.
the important message here is " let it all go " 37:00
He had me at stop chasing women.
It’s honestly jarring to me how many people are hating on this guy and his presentation. Most of y’all seem to be just reading the comments and not actually watching the video for yourselves. I thought this was spot on and an amazing idea that I am excited to try out for myself.
I quit chasing when I realized how beta and simp I was after a traumatic break up. In my mind, I wasn't even chasing them till I found shelter in the so called manosphere and I understood that my problems were my fault, and I was responsible for my acts. Then, the rage phase disappears, when you understand all that. I am not saying that women are wonderful and I was the worst, I am saying that other men taught me to abandon the victim mentality and to spot all my issues and mistakes. This society tells you that a man has to be in a certain way, but is all lies.
I quit chasing, quit social media, quit dating apps, and I am in a much better place now. What I see out there, the female landscape, is beyond depressing.
Are you in heaven??? 🙃
Guys, you don't need to spend money on a date. The best one I ever went on was a picnic at the beach in the early evening, with fish and chips and a bottle of wine. He bought the fish and chips, I bought the wine. We hit it off and it was the nicest date I've ever experienced.
Wanna get dates? Become an alpha male. Work out, dress well, smell good, be confidant in yourself and your body and listen to them, women tell you the most about them thru just conversation, listening to what they have to say.
VQ35likeDhalsim no man should give a fuck about anything a woman has to say.
sorry you are either n alpha or not -a beta and omega can't become an alpha -you are what you are-no magical transformation LOL
You lie bro! Women just don't want me ! I've work out, confident, speaking and smell good! BUT IM NOT COOL! Does't matter how much you got , alpha male just need to be cool! And I someone is not cool, no matter how good he is, women don't want them.
VQ35likeDhalsim you don’t need the business type, dress well smell good lol we need some more cowboys lol.. women,we need masculine energy! A man who truly authentically loves women!
You'll always lose money chasing women
You'll never lose women chasing money
Lol...Nooot trueee
Ok Nas!!
Bingo
@Jay Skrine: Why wouldn't you approach?
Hit up "Unbreakable Confidence com"...
It's not about your looks or your money.
I met the girl I'll probably end up marrying after applying what's taught in those books!
This was fascinating. I've been doing a lot of these changes consciously but now I realize there's a lot more for me to do
Life is governed by natural order!
These ideas might work for a while but...
end results will guarantee a disaster.
What do you mean
Learn bs
The thing is to stop chasing external things and pleasures as something that's gonna fulfill you. Women are just one of the example. When you stop doing it, you become self-sufficient. When you become self-sufficient you are fully yourself. And being yourself is what is so attractive to women. Women are just a feedback of how successful we are in being ourselves. Every interaction shows our flaws where we are needy enough to sacrifice being ourselves for the sake of pleasure or peak experience.
I have been living this way my whole life. Never felt the need to chase women. If you have to ask a woman out she wasn't into you in the first place or her attraction to you was not high enough to motivate her to go after you. The only reason women still say "yes" to you asking her out is to get a free meal, free entertainment, free drinks and free validation. Regular men have to ask women out, high status men, or a particular man a woman is interested in don't.
If a woman really likes you or you're a high status man like the lead band member or star quarterback they will just come to you. In that situation girls become aggressive and bold especially if they feel they can get the man that has money. But even then, when you're on top, don't forget the women only like you for what you have to offer but all but few could care less who you are as a person.
This is if you want to meet a woman to have sex who may or may not like the sex, may or may not want to be with you afterwards, and may or may not return for another go. If you want to meet a woman who likes you for you, it's no secret, be you. (says a married man of 11 years - 30 years old)
After watching this video. I've been trying the stuff Brent talks about and it's so liberating. So Brent thank you.
Did you get laid?
Proverbs 31:3: "Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
It really is easy - just make a conscious decision not to chase women and be content with whatever the outcome is.
It's hard to accept when someone tells the truth like Brent does. What's he's saying is 100% true.
Most negative comments are coming from negative people creating their own version of what he's saying.
omg u rekt them
+Paul Klasson They are naïve (like I was when I first saw brent)They cant accept how simple it is.
Classic
Time isn't on their side.
U are right
Simple but hard to fathom when a guy lives in mainstream BS traditional. This is Jedi level shit...and most guys will probably believe in aliens more than how what Brent is saying works like a charm. Sad.
I would say that both sexes have become passive..
He said it, do the internal work. Let her be comfortable. What looks more confident than really not giving a shit.
He is basically saying that guys should act like women and play hard to get. That rarely works. Most women want to be chased, unless she really really likes the guy for his looks or his money.
Not being obese and not fugly would be a good start for your theory.
+Hei C ahahahha true dat
I was told that women don't care about looks and men are the ones that are more visual?
It's a lie
if they are 90 and blind then it's true
I read the video title, "You Never Have to Chase Women Again" and my first thought was, "Yeah! Tasers! That's what I'm talkin' about!"
Does that make me a bad person?
I watched 30 minutes and all I learned so far is "don't chase woman, give your number instead of asking for it", wow, life transformation
As a woman I just want to say to be aware that dating coaches for women are also saying "Don't chase men!!", which I personally agree. Showing interest in a man or making a first move is different.
If a guy doesn't make SOME kind of consistent effort, especially in the beginning, I would assume he's not interested. Yet I agree that over chasing is a BIG turnoff.
I recently met a guy I would have gone out with if he didn't over chase and give me the stalker vibe! He didn't even give me half a day to answer his first text before he tried calling twice and acting like he had to talk to me RIGHT now. (It was during the day after the night we met, I was at WORK!)
On the other hand, if a guy gave me his number and expected me to take over from there or invited me to "come over" for a first "date", I would assume he's cocky or a player who only wants sex.
sooo,what should we do? doing Casual Dates and Split the bills? if im interested in that Kind of meetup sure but what if im Not into that? reaching the point of "so..sex and fun?" early on is easier,faster and better for me and the Girl compared to weeks of Time end effort and "it doesnt Work out with us since we want different things"
I watched this years ago, and am now REWATCHING because I soaked it in and applied it. Now I want to master it even further. Beautiful. Life changing concept and is effective!