Everyone is complaining about the interruptions from the audience, but the interaction between the teacher and the learners is really important in the process of learning. It made the video difficult for us at home to watch, because we couldnt join in, but for those in the room and for the teacher, it makes the experience relevant to them and holds their attention. The teacher would have welcomed the interruptions because it shows him his audience is paying attention and his teaching feeds off their participation.
True. But I cannot understand why they laughed at some of the points or remarks. These were not jokes or meant to be funny; it was information he was communicating. In those cases, I found it annoying.
I got the impression some of them just wanted to talk, they didn't seem to be taking the information in. You could see the teacher was anxious to be able to move on to the other 2/3 of his talk, that we all missed. Should do Q&A afterward.
+David Snyder If I believe I'm a sociopath and I'm willing to say that I believe I'm a sociopath - am I negating the possibility of myself being a sociopath simply because socipaths don't tell the truth - especially when asked if they are sociopaths?
Leave it to the narcissist to go out of her way and study how to be a better liar. Imagine actually caring what other people do when it doesn’t even involve you.
4:04 Personal story, fear response 5:47 Patterns tend to repeat 7:55 People don't believe lies cuz they have to, they do so cuz they want to 9:42 Types of lies (lies of omission, misdirection, influence/perception); omission and influence are most common LoInf move u off target 11:05 Presenting problem is always a lie cuz this is the symptom not the root cause 12:11 Triune brain Reptile brain (survival, reproduction, social needs, food) 12:35 Three questions or lose interest at first time interactions (is it a threat? can I mate with it? do I eat it?) 14:01 Sizing up, reptilian brain status appraisal As a social being, society protects high status members even in modern culture which is why we're driven to earn approval or appraisal of money, status, more beauty, physical resources, more power (status markers) used by reptilian brain status appraisal to assess (sizing up) We lie to satisfy primal drives survival-based social needs cuz ostracization from group = death, extinction 16:08 Women and the pesky mechanic 17:54 Activate primal drive = 20 min of attention 18:43 3 Is (identity, intelligence, influence) Most powerful indicator of results u produce in life is foundation of identity, yours and who u interact with. Are u the leader or the follower? The outcast? The herd leader or follower 19:39 When primal drive need is satisfied, reptilian brain generates emotion ie positive or negative stress; when that stress hits, everything you pay attention to, think is important, changes 20:10 micro-expressions, (dis)appear in 1/25th of a second; usually not controllable by average person 21:07 Emotional refractory period. People wanna believe lies for the emotional payoff Neocortex 22:44 drive (reptilian, unconscious) creates emotions (emotional) and u generate a story (pfc) to rationalize it to yourself, to God, to society u live in. The story, rationalizations, have nothing to do with the real issue, but they sound good eg losing weight (presenting problem, cortex) has to do with gaining weight to be not attractive (real problem, unconscious mind, drive) Accessing unconscious mind by altering state of consciousness 24:25 Rational Brain is linear thinker, controls most of internal voices 24:52 Reptilian Brain doesn't lie. Most of the time emotional Brain doesn't, tho it tries Lying is when we manipulate the process that helps escape the consequences of our actions, when we try to consciously control the process of modulation of drives. Looking for lies is to look for stress response (body signals away from equilibrium) 27:35 Pearl formation as metaphor (a pearl is made when smth irritating is in an oyster like a grain of sand. by the end, it's covered by a substance created by oyster till it becomes a pearl. so u have primal drive, wants to satisfy need, wrap emotion after emotion and rationalization and rationalization till the thing u defend (ur story) has nothing to do with the real drive or thing (grain of sand) 30:12 Enlightenment (not to look for something outside of u, but to be more aware to reality, removing illusions, clearing the perceptual filters) 32:37 Act of controlling emotional response to lying allows it to be detected using rational brain We conceal info, distort it, generalize it preconsciously to communicate 34:49 Find out normal mode of behavior or baseline (nonverbal cues deviation from their normal) Interrogation vs interview = more stress, the faster u lose control of body, face, hand, words, (conscious mind). All lies incur some stress 36:11 Self-soothing behavior to alleviate stress psychologically or physically distance from it. Depends on time to prepare, consequence of being caught lying, emotional involvement in issue, whether good at lying or not, wanna lie or not 36:43 Cluster rule (no single cue by itself means anything) Clusters of cues' interpretation depends on ur perceptual filters, what u attribute to the person ur observing, depending on ur emotional state too 37:40 U don't get a signal before an emotional state change. U realise 10-15 secs within it, but then it's too late so u then try to control the emotion using shoulding (conscious mind control) and ur body gives it away! The body doesn't lie 38:33 To detect lies, start from feet up (not words, face) 39:51 Clue 1: sudden obvious emotional response, can be Unconscious (childhood, memory). Per emotional refractory period, this new emotional state will change what u focus on, so triggers
Thank you for this outline, it's helping me take in this information, hence learn it. I never learned how to take notes well or outline in my youth. I find this lecture interesting and your outline is beneficial in helping me learn it, again thank you...
5 years has passed... have you transcended your victim hood? Do you now realize, that there was never anything to forgive? That you're parent did the best they could with what they knew and the spiritual level they were at? ( or lack thereof of course)
Everyone who is complaining about the audience input: David clearly opens up and invites people to ask questions and calls on people to answer them as well. He knows how boring a lecture where someone just talks at you is. The fact that there is so much interaction shows how good he is at making a whole audience of people feel comfortable. He is not bothered by people participating with him at all, in fact he initiates it. If you find this interaction distracting then I think you might be missing some secret knowledge in the video, which is about understanding the mechanics of people in general, not just about "spotting a liar". People would have walked away from this talk feeling energised and more inclined to open up discussion with each other. This is proper teaching IMO.
There's a difference though between interacting and co-opting the presentation. When someone starts talking about 'their practice; wanting to give examples and lessons from "their practice" we have moved from someone desiring an answer, to someone desiring the floor.
Don’t mind the people getting mad over the audience, they are just narcissists getting mad people aren’t acting the way they want them to. Psychology and learning new skills to play tricks on the mind is something that fascinates the narc, so you’ll see many of them congregating on videos like this.
@@rugfixrI don’t see how someone sharing their experience in the field is a bad thing… if they came out and said “my practice- dah goofster MD out of Ohio address blah blah street phone number blah blah” then it becomes more of shameless self plug.
Wow!!! Where to start? Every word is PACKED with voluminous information. You included all the summarized background (from lots of great insight by a lot of predecessors) and parameters for each logical step. And you spoke slowly at each of the really deep and important sentences to make sure we got every word. (I'm only on minute 41.) I'm working in a "political" arena, and deeply trying to understand the "narcissistic abuse(r)" I left 8 months ago. Thank you very much for sharing!! I am deeply grateful [another emotional spike!]!
Thank you Dr. Snyder for making your trainings available to the public. Also, "Lie to me" is a great show! So great you value humor so much. Thanks again.
WTF? OK HAVE I GOT YOUR ATTENTION? I'm 26:00 minutes in and I started reading comments cuz I was less distracted than watching all the children who could not control themselves wiggle around and I have to say Have we really become this SELFISH and critical? This man is an 8th Degree blackbelt! Hello! I'm surprised he is still on the ground. That's hardcore. I'm a psychiatric R.N. specializing in Forensics. This is VALUABLE information! Believe me. I work in a maximum security Facility for the criminally insane. The most interesting piece of information I'll share is, The patients aren't as dangerous as some of my coworkers are. Truth.
Lionheart Unconvicted criminals patrolling the convicted?!! Oh how human this reality is... The insanity of Humanity is endless and Human Behavior endlessly fascinating...!!!
The fact that you guys put all this information online I will forever be thankful.. and David I will forever be thankful from a distance until I am rich enough to travel to where ever you are to attend your training's.
Does culture play into this ?Police tend to think native americans are lying when they do not look into thier eyes when speaking to them.Traditionaly it is a sign of respect to elders to not make eye contact .How is this universal ,when cultures have completely different body language in regards to communication.
In the study of body language it's said the only thing that is set is the micro expressions for the 7 core emotions, and everything after that is cultural.
Gayle Carter culture does for sure, but The police are not trained specialized in the different culture and their priority is not to accommodate different cultures. What you mentioned is racial profiling, which is a form of discrimination.
@@HealthcareHeart drivel, being culturally sensitive is diametrically opposite to racial profiling and is exactly the sort of thing a good police officer should be looking encompass !!
I wax married to a narcissist. I wish I had known this stuff then. Good video. I’m on a constant watch ever since I found out the type of monster I was dealing with.
It's because they don't teach this stuff in high school. And why should they? Schools already are guilt tripping their students into believe in climate change, systematic racism, and socialism. Maybe that is why narcissism is endemic today.
Me too !!! Could’ve used this with my narcissistic mom as well !!! I think it should be fine in schools in an early age beware beware beware of narcissists !!! With the red flags 🚩 & some of this !!!
Looking at the tardy one might think that they are using their whole body and it's lateness to send a message other then they forgot it was daylight savings. Maybe they didn't want to come with a significant other because they are consummate liars and this lecture would blow the whistle on them? So they dragged their heels and had to be dragged in late?
David I would love to see this talk in a TedTalk format, so that the information is streamlined and easier to see how things interact with other things. It's hard to follow and see the whole package with so many interruptions.
TED talks are the worst, so awkward, cheesy, and irritating. I do everything I can to eliminate them from my feed but occasionally I realize a TED talk squeezed through.
But of course! I'm sure you would, John. By the way, John, exactly how much did you pay to get the all the free information you did get from the video? Asking for the friend who wrote the book he got it from that you are also not going to buy.
Of course what was gleaned is appreciated; thanks to those supplying it. However, it was laborious to extract implementable tools with the numerous, confusing distractions.
THESE ARE REAL CLASSES YOUR LOOKING AT !! FOR ANY MONEY .. IT'S NOT WORTH IT !! AS EVERYONE ELSE AGREES , IT'S REDICULOUS TO SIT IN ANY SETTING LIKE THIS , WITH THIS MUCH B S GOING ON , AND SO LITTLE INFORMATION BEING PASSED ON !! I WOULD GET REALLY ANGRY , IF I PAID FOR THIS CRAP !! I DON'T LIKE HIS JUVENILE STYLE OF " TEACHING " , THE FOUL LAUNGUAGE IS TOTALLY REDICULOUS !! HE RUNS HIS MOUTH ABOUT NOTHING SO OFTEN , THAT HE CAN'T TEACH MUCH , SO WHEN YOU COMBINE ALL THE NONSENSE TOGETHER, WHAT A USELESS WAIST OF MONEY , AND TIME . I THINK I WOULD FIND A REAL TEACHER , WHO DOESN'T FEEL THE NEED TO CRACK JOKES USE FOUL LAUNGUAGE , HAVE THE ' CLASS ROOM' BEHAVE IN SUCH AN UNRULY MANNER ..THEN GET LOST IN THIER PERSONAL STORIES !! WHAT A MESS ! HE REALLY LOVES TO TALK ABOUT HOW GREAT HE IS !! AND HE JUST KNOWS SO MUCH ABOUT THIS THAT AND THE OTHER. .!? I DON'T BELIEVE HALF OF IT !! WHAT A IDIOT !!?
@@lilypowell1123 : You didn't need to watch this .... did someone hold a gun to your head ? Guess you are WAY smarter than the rest of us who enjoyed and learned from this video . I say , " Good on you ! "
David I just want to say these videos are great! You present the material in a clear and practical way that is easy to apply even for a novice. You also present the material in a way that keeps me (and I'm sure many others) keenly interested. I hope you continue posting new material. The topics you cover are fascinating particularly when you see first hand the changes that occur upon application of the techniques you teach. Great job!
All the people yapping their jaws on here saying “Get to the point” “make shorter videos” do not deserve the free knowledge and wisdom this man studied many years to acquire. Thank you for your time sensei !
Alexander Grahm .....They prove they prefer the easy way of learning. That's why tv commercials work on them. I am both insulted and also laughing at most commercials. They prove how simple minded and naive people are. Easily over 90% of commercials exploit peoples inability to think objectively.
genie ......Good observation. People attracted to this high volume media outlet prove the real agenda of what youtube is catering to. They are catering to the biggest market. That equals...profits! I'm 29 minutes into this video and can easily relate to what he's saying.He is so right. Compare(perspective) this 29 minutes to the last 2000 minutes of useless "news" I observe on every last local news channel in my city. I learned more verification of my well earned studies of 30 years in 29 minutes while seeing the "news" reporting nothing to teach me useful information in a minimum of 2000 minutes. That's a 69 to 1 ratio if I divide 2000 minutes by 29 minutes of "real news". Yet look at all the people complaining about "distractions". Too sad they can't figure out that virtually every local news station is really just "reporting" versus teaching. It's just distraction news! How ironic that these same people are so easily "distracted" by less than 15 seconds of "distraction" in 29 minutes!!! I know all about the psychology and that's why I'm here! What's the medical term for being so easily distracted? It's ADHD.
@@jusayenso8186 AHH,... NO ! I WOULDN'T " PAY GOOD MONEY" , TO TAKE A CLASS WERE MOST OF THE TIME IS SPENT ON B S COMMENTS FROM THE "PEANUT GALLERY "!!!I WOULD RATHER HEAR " "TEACHING"...ON THE SUBJECT , NOT SOME IDIOTS STUPID QUESTIONS , OR PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS !! A CLASS IS FOR "TEACHING", NOT COMEDY , OR MINDLESS CHATTER !!! THINK HOW MUCH MORE "IMPORTANT" THINGS THAT COULD BE COVERED , INSTEAD , THE GREATER PART OF THE TIME IS PURE B S COMMENTS !! AND PEOPLE ACTUALLY " PAY MONEY" FOR THAT !??
I enjoyed your presentation so much I reviewed it 3 times. I really wish some members of the audience would of allowed David to speak without the constant interruptions.
Hello David.may I make a suggestion? Your talk was interesting but disjointed because of so many interuptions of questions and comments from audience members. May I suggest you ask audience members to wait untill the end of your presentation and THEN discuss and ask their questions.... I found all the questions and comments frustrating because I wanted to hear your presentation..thanks..
Thank you, for sharing this knowledge. Because this series of seminars are available free of charge, what follows should not be interpreted as ingratitude. It is frustration. Within the first minute, it is obvious Mr. Snyder is an exceptionally well versed professional. The constant questions that interrupt his train of thought are extremely distracting. In the future, perhaps questions should be presented at the close of the seminar, with attendees jotting down their thoughts to remind them of their queries. I found the interruptions extremely disrespectful and the Professor's willingness to engage these individuals an exercise in patience and tolerance.
Ahhh you're all to sensitive, besides David is the trainer if it was a problem for him he would say so. Just tell yourself you can focus, or multi task. Besides you're just sucking up to the alpha male.
I loved the video, thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. The audience, however, was way too distracting and the questions detracted so much. I hope your future videos save the questions for the end. It was that damaging to an otherwise excellent class.
To all the people complaining about the audience speaking - this was presented as an interactive course not a lecture. Unlike us watching on TH-cam these people probably paid for the course - so they could ask questions
This was fascinating. In the world of social media, online dating, I wonder how this all relates to only hearing a voice on the phone, texting, or seeing written words from someone. Hmmmmmmm
I cannot thank you enough, David! I wish I would have known this information years ago! So grateful I've found this to share with my family, especially my daughter!
Ive been a mechanic professionally for over 3 decades and interacting with many walks of life about their vehicle needs has been a natural thing for me as I win people over by exampling the truth of what was found or diagnosed yet in that arena so many times Ive found the stripped down truth that you cant make any drink the water your offering due to a multitude of things be it inability to comprehend the mechanical failure or the absence of initial trust from being told lies prior or cheated out of extra money in a maliscious fashion by dishonest ethics practiced to gain from greed, and several other factors, like their own knowledge where mistrained or poorly understood even partially knowledged thinking where applying a repair or action excecuted could lead to further or instant damaged products now being the "why" they are before your services needed. Where one thinks they know a possible conflict could easily rise and lead two to disagreeing and both lose an opportunity to help each other in a cordisl integral manner. Some even deny their mistakes and beleive in no wrong done as well as lies told to me the mechanic they sought out skilled help from. It is seen prominently and mechanics often take the brunt of the common thought of being one of dishonesty. The way to recognize the truth is certainly by recognizing also the patterns that humans or creatures of habit will express. One word strikes home more than any other and that is in my mind "observation" Seeing patterns is indeed the truth of your now reality where engaging in and with others, groups create a different setting and younger persons will often opinion why this or why not that or ask as if entitled the price is too high or how do we know this fixes their problem. First of all we are not them or your party or you and I will fix the issue based upon my training efforted to learn troubleshooting and problem solving skills and awareness. Proper diagnostics do solve issues when you put effort in doing so. The family teenagers will not fix the issue but they will influence stress and interfere with dear old dads mindset as he didnt want to drive to the dealer shop in the first place and he figures alot and wants to leave and shove ice cream in his young broods faces so they can return and think with me again how we find a useful solution to his dilemma and now were getting closer to helping each other. Pattern recognition is an awesome tool I highly commend its awareness by observing simply listening and having stoic patience and remarking only enough to apply a solution that increases trust and potential retained business. I hope the awareness increases in those who need it most, thank you Dr. Snyder your videos are wonderful ingormative skills that helped me increase all of these skills, your appreciated sir.
I also thought it would flow better and be less distracting if David structured the lecture more keeping questions to the end. But it felt to me that he deliberately allowed the students to decide for themselves what they wanted. More info or for him to address questions.
Extremely insightful, loved your touching on enlightenment, especially when it came to the outside versus the inside, and removing the filters around us. It is where I find my "thin places" and have experienced true forgiveness for those who have harmed me. So freeing...thank you David Snyder. I'm one of your newest fans. Namaste.
Holy crap out of the videos I've watched of his so far this is the most immature, rudest audience. These people just cannot handle the information. I've never been to or watched a workshop where people have interrupted the speaker so much. Do these adults realize how rude that is! Damn.
I feel like these comments posted are a little rough. I didnt think the audience was too bad. The trainer was including and encouraging the engagement of the audience. If he didnt want the questions until the end he would've implied that dont ya think? I also think that he feeds off the audience questions and it helps to explain his theories, like the woman who crosses her arms for example.
@ TheBob19d ... Yes, In a manner of speaking you are "pacing" but you are doing it from their perspective, NLP would call it "mind reading" liars are looking for allies and rationales that get them off the hook by justifying their actions or placing the blame on someone else. when an interrogator/interviewer is "befriending/pacing" the subject He is offering the liar an illusion of alliance and handing them a series of plausible justifications that liar can latch on too. What the liar often doesn't realize is that "any" admission of guilt, or re-framing of their story tells the interviewer a lot more than the subject realizes. The interviewer if he can't get a confession will start to look for bargaining behaviors, and other "tell tale signs" the subject is being deceptive.
Dear David, LOVED your presentation. Part 2 next to watch! :) :) If you ever have the time to reply, please answer this: How can you tell (or have a pretty close idea about) if someone is lying (someone who is close to you - who therefore feels free enough to express his/her emotions at will with you) if whenever you ask a question within a conversation that he/she could potentially feel "threatened" would give away the truth he/she may be concealing, he/she reacts emotional? But their story - what they will hold, that is - is that they could "see what this question was REALLY asking", and this therefore makes them feel "insulted" by the way my question questions his/her veracity/loyalty/correctness? I mean if I PRETEND to get "offended" by a question, or actually DO get offended by it, then both these 2 scenarios would "explain"/"excuse" my heightened emotional reaction to the questioning wouldn't it?... I'm asking this because as far back as I can remember, in 9 of 10 situations where I asked a question (direct or indirect) when something felt "out of place", that's the reaction I ALWAYS got. So in my experience, that's - by far - the most common reaction. So if all the "indicators" ARE there (jittering, putting objects between us, other body language etc etc), but this could be EITHER because someone is actually lying, OR this someone is NOT lying (but just gets "insulted" by the questioning), then nothing can be ascertained by any of these reactions, right?
Such a great topic, too many interruptions from the audience though. It's a shame they rob from the take away points. Thank you for sharing your lecture.
kevcomcreations Some people have to prove how smart they are or they are kiss ups. The lady who wanted free therapy about her body language was also just manipulating time. The rest are just resenting yet another meeting. They’re kind of an awful bunch.
Katherine Margeson Honestly, if that is what ruined it for you, ON THE INTERNET... then it’s your problem.. I’m sorry, but learn to dissociate.. just a little hon. You can’t take every option on the planet to heart sweetheart... you just can’t. 💕 ✌🏻
Great class. I love the examples where you do not just explain an example but also act it out. I can see your martial arts background when doing that. Many times in martial arts, that is how it is taught. It may not be done so much in a large martial arts class, but when someone is use to teaching martial arts one on one. Then that teaching method can evolve to more than one, and to larger and larger groups.
GOD I wish the people would stop interrupting this guy .YOU ARE NOT THE EXPERTS! Let the expert SPEAK! I can't hear a word you're saying so his answers mean nothing to me. All this talking by the class completely throws off the ability for me to follow/understand the seminar. In a way, they're arguing with him and asking about their own personal situations/relationships, LET THE MAN DO HIS PRESENTATION! PLEASE ASK THE CLASS TO STOP GOING OFF ON ADJACENT TOPICS AND LIMIT THE ABILITY OF THE CLASS TO INTERRUPT. Don't say, "I love your questions!" I can't hear them, they're really just these people's opinions and I want to hear. YOUR opinion, not the specific crap from the class. I don't care what they think. I care what HE THINKS! Arg.
Hey, my name is Yuval and I'm from Israel I try to find the right words to describe how you made me curious and interested in the subject I started to watch obsessively on your videos and I do not regret it! In a month I'm leaving the house hoping that I will be able to apply your techniques in real life
Thank You for posting this video. I found the information to be interesting and useful. It would be more helpful if the questions by the students were held until the end of the class.
I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. So you have covered #1 and #2 but not my third part, which is "nothing but the truth" (something other than the truth). Then you stated denial, but it's not just lying to yourself. If you said to me, "You 're cheating on me" My response: "I am NOT!" that is denial too. Denying the accusation. Another one is gaslighting: You're crazy, or what you think is not true, or that's not reality.
Omg the non stop questions in the audience....why does everybody have a feeling they need to share their stuff..?? Awesome video! Thank you for upload.
WTF is so hard about being on time to a presentation, or any event that you were obviously interested enough in in the first place to even sign up to go? This is a sign of our times, and it stinks. It's inconsiderate to the instructor, the people who HAVE shown up on time, and the guy trying to film it. This poor guy's flow of topic was interrupted over and over by these idiots, who everyone is smiling at and talking to, which breaks their concentration as well.
Perhaps because his presentation is pseudo-science at best; and preys upon the desperate!!! He even manages to demonstrate these "techniques" on the audience which are sad enough to pay $$ and spend their precious time to sit at his feet!!!
Very good first time i have ever taken nots all the way through any video , so intriguing YOU ARE VERY SKILLED {from my perspective] looking forward to part two!!!!THANKYOU
Your'e such a wonderful presenter. I actually stumbled across this video by accident. Im now subscribed and will be watching any other of your videos i can find. Very engaging, loved it. Thank you.
I've lived long enough to have come into contact with some really professional liars. Some con artists are so good that they fool even the most savvy of us. My con artist was "Per" from Norway. He told me he arrived in this country with $10 in his pocket and now had four companies, a couple of houses, etc. He drove an expensive car and was exceptionally good looking and charming, which is why I got taken in. I was in Mexico City some years ago, and there was a woman with four small children asking for money. I gave her some. The following day, I saw the same woman on a different corner with four different children. I learned the hard way never to trust anybody. Sad commentary on human nature.
So many people lack a sacramental life that they fill their inner void with distortion. Seeker of truth, connect with the Maker of truth, Truth Himself. He will set you free from deception.
Seeker of Truth have you ever thought of bi monthly confession and daily communion and or daily rosary. Confession to call yourself out on your own self deception, which we all do intentionally or unintentionally have, then daily healing from the Eucharist and humility in prayer as request from Our Lady.
Without disrespect to Denise and her post..but I'd rather learn from David than go through that SHIT all over again.. Thankyou for all you do David..extremely greatful to you..and the effort you go to..to educate and help people..🙏
I totally agree !! They should have marked their questions down and let David speak !! This was horribly interruptive both in people incessantly coming in late and incessantly INTERRUPTING !!
He needs to create a rule where no questions. They need to write them down. Most of their questions weren't clarifying or furthered the lecture. A lot of them were challenging him or the questions were essentially him just repeating the information he just gave.
SE Todd That’s correct. The blame is with the presenter, not the presentation. I’m still not sure what the problem is with most on these threads, the good Doctor obviously wants participation because he may not want to give a boring lecture, or the appearance of one. This is his style of lecturing. I’m at the 1:04:35 mark, so I don’t mind it, and if I did, I would’ve left at the 10 min mark.
You are a very good speaker (and good improv too) I liked to see how at first the audience was quiet and reserved but you slowly opened them up and they started laughing more and participating and telling stories and even getting bold enough to cut you off mid-sentence to introduce a bit of humorous wit.
Knightley Makzemilyian Humor, *the GREAT enhancer to what Life throws at you. Were it not for Humor and a couple of udder thangs I'd not have made it it to my retirement years.*
YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T LISTEN TO MANY LECTURES !! IF I WANTED TO LEARN SOMETHING ! AND PEOPLE KEPT INTERUPTING THE TEACHER TO MAKE STUPID COMMENTS OR ASK STUPID QUESTIONS , I WOULD GET UP AND LEAVE!! ALSO GET MY MONEY BACK !!! IT TAKES AWAY FROM THE ACTUAL " "TEACHING" OF "FACTS " WHAT IS GOOD ABOUT THAT !?? NOTHING !! MORE PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT THE VERY SAME THING !! THAT IN ITSELF SHOWS THAT IT DETRACTS FROM THE LEARNING OF THE SUBJECT !! OR MAYBE YOUR TO IGNORANT YOURSELF TO CARE ABOUT ACTUALLY LEARNING ANYTHING !! YOUR JUST LOOKING TO BE "ENTERTAINED" !!
So interesting. As a HSP with Bipolar my thought process is different. I can feel inauthentic people. I can pick out Borderline or Narcissistic people in seconds. My defenses come up to protect myself from evil people. I love how your lecture explains this. It’s not a super power, it’s a little genetics, experience and interest in these things on my part. Or a little research and hard work.
Your style of teaching is excellent. So bummed you're not in Australia. I have attended numerous Hypnosis, Conversational Hypnosis and each time walk away thinking, "I've done my money again"
David, would love 2 hear u give a lecture on narcissist & narcissistic behavior. What R the differences & how 2 recognize if some1 or even urself is a Narc. Love ur info & presentation! Thanks 4 sharing
I think this is one of the best videos you have done. I do like it. It is packed with tidbits of information. A lot of hidden goodies in there also. Good, and thank you.
@@theCatbalou What does that have to do with the fact that they're not letting him talk...? I've been a student - and a teacher - if this is how a class was run, I'd never have learned a thing!
People in positions of power, become very vindictive when they are exposed as liers and hyoercrite. They attack your credibility. Your integrity and they demean you by telling their friend lies.. Good lecture, thank you..
There is no audio...really wanted to hear your presentation. I see below you stated the audio wasn't working and you would try to reload it...guessing that didn't work. I hope you can fix that soon! Thanks.
Dear Dr. Snyder... I just wanted to let you know that I have watched you're video on lying and found it extremely informative. I've already knew most of the material from other videos of ex-CiA agents. You're videos, however, go much more in depth about the brain and how it works. You're a great teacher also. There's nothing worse than trying to learn something from a turnip. Anyway, thanks again and keep up the good work! ....d.
This is so horrible how people just continually keep coming in !!! Very ANNOYING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I loved your video on how to catch a liar. It was very insightful and enlightening. I wish that I would have seen it 2 or 3 years ago before my husband was arrested and sentenced to federal prison for so long. Now we can only communicate through email or phone calls as he is in a federal prison that's a little more than 5 hours away from me and I am disabled so I can't visit him very often and talk to him face to face. I am going to wait for him to get out and I will be here for him through the whole bit and he is going to come home to me when he gets out, but I don't think we are going to be worried about anything else but being together again and focusing on our future and our relationship with God.
I am so glad to have found your videos. I, like you am completely fascinated by this stuff. Psychology and neuroscience, brain development and just piecing together the things that make me understand why people do what. It is just... fascinating in the best kind of way. I also LOVE the way you present yourself to your students. Your logic is very similar to my own which makes the info very easy to process. For me that is great because I am very easily distracted if I can't see the logic in what a person is telling me. Like... I can't tell you how many times I've used any word I could find on a classroom wall to play my own games of text twist just to pass the time. You on the other hand Maintained my attention through the entire lecture. You're very funny which I find to be one of the best ways to make others relate and feel comfortable in your presence. You do a fine job engaging the interest of your viewer and I am already looking forward to watching more of your videos. Thank you for sharing such great insight. Subscribed btw... I so wanted to come in tell your students "hey.. psst. Here is what we do with jokes. 👉😬👈 laugh at the funny."
I sense you’d be very nourished by Symbolic Modelling, clean language, and Emergent knowledge. I think you’ll find the life and work of David Grove fascinating. All the best with your exploration of such fascinating and useful stuff.
Great presentation learned a lot. The information was delivered in entertaining fashion and I give him 2 thumbs up ... I would just ask for the next presentation that they give the people asking questions a microphone
Happy New Year! Yes, and I have just discovered David Snyder. How many people here (like me), and below in the comments are INTJ's? Pattern Recognition?
josoverthehill I don’t think it’s his place to do that, because he may lose his job. How dare he criticize the President whom I voted in 2016 and will vote for him again in 2020, says his immediate supervisor or Chancellor, I’ll show him.
You should have your audience wait till after your class is done before asking questions !! You lose your place and it waist your time you can't finish the thought . And it causes some to want to stop listening , besides it's annoying , agrevating !!
He's saying "nod" but I think he is actually referring to both nods and shakes. My understanding is that a nod is when the head moves up and down, in the affirmative, while a shake is when the head moves side to side, a negation. A head shake or a head nod should align with the feeling behind the words or else it is a tell. So if you are saying "I do not want to go to the dentist", you will shake your head (not nod it) when you are telling the truth. The reverse is true for head nods.
A person isnt lying because they say, "I'm 50 pounds overweight and would like help losing weight." That could be 100% true. Just because the weight is a symptom of something doesn't mean they are lying! The words themselves are not lies either. Just because they may be ignorant of the deeper issues, doesn't make the words into lies. Yes they need to go to the source of why they are over their desired weight.
Sometimes I can honestly say "I do" because it's better than coming to acceptance that you have been betrayed or whatever else the truth entails. Humans beings are awful creatures and when you have high morals and values, it's hard to find others that are in that boat. At least out here in Southern California (that's for sure) and coming from a old fashioned German family, I feel alone in my values and I'm always being lied too and backstabbed. But at least, I have the reputation for being the honest one. And my word is gold. No questions asked. I'm just always getting hurt when I let my guard down.
A lot of this is Q & A and it's difficult making out the questions. And of course it's the same people asking them. You know the type that like to hear themselves speak.
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Everyone is complaining about the interruptions from the audience, but the interaction between the teacher and the learners is really important in the process of learning. It made the video difficult for us at home to watch, because we couldnt join in, but for those in the room and for the teacher, it makes the experience relevant to them and holds their attention. The teacher would have welcomed the interruptions because it shows him his audience is paying attention and his teaching feeds off their participation.
True. But I cannot understand why they laughed at some of the points or remarks. These were not jokes or meant to be funny; it was information he was communicating.
In those cases, I found it annoying.
@@julir3754everyone comprehends differently
I got the impression some of them just wanted to talk, they didn't seem to be taking the information in. You could see the teacher was anxious to be able to move on to the other 2/3 of his talk, that we all missed. Should do Q&A afterward.
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If I believe I'm a sociopath and I'm willing to say that I believe I'm a sociopath - am I negating the possibility of myself being a sociopath simply because socipaths don't tell the truth - especially when asked if they are sociopaths?
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Those people paid a lot of money not to pay attention... I got this video for free and I paid with my attention...
This!!!!
Not everyone cares maybe they were forced to go in order to get a career credit
Beautifull Luna
Leave it to the narcissist to go out of her way and study how to be a better liar.
Imagine actually caring what other people do when it doesn’t even involve you.
Hope your better now
4:04 Personal story, fear response
5:47 Patterns tend to repeat
7:55 People don't believe lies cuz they have to, they do so cuz they want to
9:42 Types of lies (lies of omission, misdirection, influence/perception); omission and influence are most common
LoInf move u off target
11:05 Presenting problem is always a lie cuz this is the symptom not the root cause
12:11 Triune brain
Reptile brain (survival, reproduction, social needs, food)
12:35 Three questions or lose interest at first time interactions (is it a threat? can I mate with it? do I eat it?)
14:01 Sizing up, reptilian brain status appraisal
As a social being, society protects high status members even in modern culture which is why we're driven to earn approval or appraisal of money, status, more beauty, physical resources, more power (status markers) used by reptilian brain status appraisal to assess (sizing up)
We lie to satisfy primal drives survival-based social needs cuz ostracization from group = death, extinction
16:08 Women and the pesky mechanic
17:54 Activate primal drive = 20 min of attention
18:43 3 Is (identity, intelligence, influence)
Most powerful indicator of results u produce in life is foundation of identity, yours and who u interact with. Are u the leader or the follower? The outcast? The herd leader or follower
19:39 When primal drive need is satisfied, reptilian brain generates emotion ie positive or negative stress; when that stress hits, everything you pay attention to, think is important, changes
20:10 micro-expressions, (dis)appear in 1/25th of a second; usually not controllable by average person
21:07 Emotional refractory period.
People wanna believe lies for the emotional payoff
Neocortex
22:44 drive (reptilian, unconscious) creates emotions (emotional) and u generate a story (pfc) to rationalize it to yourself, to God, to society u live in.
The story, rationalizations, have nothing to do with the real issue, but they sound good eg losing weight (presenting problem, cortex) has to do with gaining weight to be not attractive (real problem, unconscious mind, drive)
Accessing unconscious mind by altering state of consciousness
24:25 Rational Brain is linear thinker, controls most of internal voices
24:52 Reptilian Brain doesn't lie. Most of the time emotional Brain doesn't, tho it tries
Lying is when we manipulate the process that helps escape the consequences of our actions, when we try to consciously control the process of modulation of drives. Looking for lies is to look for stress response (body signals away from equilibrium)
27:35 Pearl formation as metaphor (a pearl is made when smth irritating is in an oyster like a grain of sand. by the end, it's covered by a substance created by oyster till it becomes a pearl. so u have primal drive, wants to satisfy need, wrap emotion after emotion and rationalization and rationalization till the thing u defend (ur story) has nothing to do with the real drive or thing (grain of sand)
30:12 Enlightenment (not to look for something outside of u, but to be more aware to reality, removing illusions, clearing the perceptual filters)
32:37 Act of controlling emotional response to lying allows it to be detected using rational brain
We conceal info, distort it, generalize it preconsciously to communicate
34:49 Find out normal mode of behavior or baseline (nonverbal cues deviation from their normal)
Interrogation vs interview = more stress, the faster u lose control of body, face, hand, words, (conscious mind). All lies incur some stress
36:11 Self-soothing behavior to alleviate stress psychologically or physically distance from it. Depends on time to prepare, consequence of being caught lying, emotional involvement in issue, whether good at lying or not, wanna lie or not
36:43 Cluster rule (no single cue by itself means anything)
Clusters of cues' interpretation depends on ur perceptual filters, what u attribute to the person ur observing, depending on ur emotional state too
37:40 U don't get a signal before an emotional state change. U realise 10-15 secs within it, but then it's too late so u then try to control the emotion using shoulding (conscious mind control) and ur body gives it away! The body doesn't lie
38:33 To detect lies, start from feet up (not words, face)
39:51 Clue 1: sudden obvious emotional response, can be Unconscious (childhood, memory). Per emotional refractory period, this new emotional state will change what u focus on, so triggers
Nice
Thank you for this
That's an intense outline!
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Thank you for this outline, it's helping me take in this information, hence learn it. I never learned how to take notes well or outline in my youth. I find this lecture interesting and your outline is beneficial in helping me learn it, again thank you...
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"There are only two ways to be decieved. One is to believe a lie. The other is to refuse to believe the truth."
AKA trump
I've heard that quote somewhere, actually I read it, I forget who said it! Maybe Albert Einstein! I love it though💜👍
@Chris cute.
This is kinda interesting~
“There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn't true; the other is to refuse to believe what is true.”
-Kierkegaard
Being raised by a narcissist taught me very early life long lessons in bullshit detection
I can relate!😬🤒😖
You can read a room of complete strangers I'll bet...
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Ok. Now imagine being raised by two.
5 years has passed... have you transcended your victim hood? Do you now realize, that there was never anything to forgive? That you're parent did the best they could with what they knew and the spiritual level they were at? ( or lack thereof of course)
Everyone who is complaining about the audience input: David clearly opens up and invites people to ask questions and calls on people to answer them as well. He knows how boring a lecture where someone just talks at you is. The fact that there is so much interaction shows how good he is at making a whole audience of people feel comfortable. He is not bothered by people participating with him at all, in fact he initiates it. If you find this interaction distracting then I think you might be missing some secret knowledge in the video, which is about understanding the mechanics of people in general, not just about "spotting a liar". People would have walked away from this talk feeling energised and more inclined to open up discussion with each other. This is proper teaching IMO.
There's a difference though between interacting and co-opting the presentation. When someone starts talking about 'their practice; wanting to give examples and lessons from "their practice" we have moved from someone desiring an answer, to someone desiring the floor.
Don’t mind the people getting mad over the audience, they are just narcissists getting mad people aren’t acting the way they want them to. Psychology and learning new skills to play tricks on the mind is something that fascinates the narc, so you’ll see many of them congregating on videos like this.
@@rugfixrI don’t see how someone sharing their experience in the field is a bad thing… if they came out and said “my practice- dah goofster MD out of Ohio address blah blah street phone number blah blah” then it becomes more of shameless self plug.
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Wow!!! Where to start? Every word is PACKED with voluminous information. You included all the summarized background (from lots of great insight by a lot of predecessors) and parameters for each logical step. And you spoke slowly at each of the really deep and important sentences to make sure we got every word. (I'm only on minute 41.)
I'm working in a "political" arena, and deeply trying to understand the "narcissistic abuse(r)" I left 8 months ago.
Thank you very much for sharing!! I am deeply grateful [another emotional spike!]!
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Thank you Dr. Snyder for making your trainings available to the public. Also, "Lie to me" is a great show! So great you value humor so much. Thanks again.
WTF? OK HAVE I GOT YOUR ATTENTION? I'm 26:00 minutes in and I started reading comments cuz I was less distracted than watching all the children who could not control themselves wiggle around and I have to say Have we really become this SELFISH and critical? This man is an 8th Degree blackbelt! Hello! I'm surprised he is still on the ground. That's hardcore. I'm a psychiatric R.N. specializing in Forensics. This is VALUABLE information! Believe me. I work in a maximum security Facility for the criminally insane. The most interesting piece of information I'll share is, The patients aren't as dangerous as some of my coworkers are. Truth.
Ditto
@@sagebrooks6907 Same here. Any closed institution has a hierarchy in its staff.
Ain’t that the very core of Truth
Lionheart Unconvicted criminals patrolling the convicted?!! Oh how human this reality is... The insanity of Humanity is endless and Human Behavior endlessly fascinating...!!!
Your opinion may be the truth but its unlikely
The fact that you guys put all this information online I will forever be thankful.. and David I will forever be thankful from a distance until I am rich enough to travel to where ever you are to attend your training's.
Does culture play into this ?Police tend to think native americans are lying when they do not look into thier eyes when speaking to them.Traditionaly it is a sign of respect to elders to not make eye contact .How is this universal ,when cultures have completely different body language in regards to communication.
In the study of body language it's said the only thing that is set is the micro expressions for the 7 core emotions, and everything after that is cultural.
It’s exactly why policemen should study psychology instead of eating donuts at crispy kreme 😅😂
Gayle Carter culture does for sure, but The police are not trained specialized in the different culture and their priority is not to accommodate different cultures. What you mentioned is racial profiling, which is a form of discrimination.
@@HealthcareHeart drivel, being culturally sensitive is diametrically opposite to racial profiling and is exactly the sort of thing a good police officer should be looking encompass !!
@@fraggle23
Yes!
I would love to hear this with no interruptions...amazing talk...thanks
Then you probably need to go listen to someone who agrees with you.
I wax married to a narcissist. I wish I had known this stuff then. Good video. I’m on a constant watch ever since I found out the type of monster I was dealing with.
Wide Awake I wish that I had also
It's because they don't teach this stuff in high school. And why should they? Schools already are guilt tripping their students into believe in climate change, systematic racism, and socialism. Maybe that is why narcissism is endemic today.
@@stevelenores5637 ah so true
Me too !!! Could’ve used this with my narcissistic mom as well !!! I think it should be fine in schools in an early age beware beware beware of narcissists !!! With the red flags 🚩 & some of this !!!
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I'm surprised at the number of people arriving late and disrupting the audience and speaker. Totally rude, man.
Linda I can hardly watch this with all the STUPID and CONSTANT interruptions!
Millennials, man.
They should not have been allowed in. Can't stand tardy people.
Looking at the tardy one might think that they are using their whole body and it's lateness to send a message other then they forgot it was daylight savings.
Maybe they didn't want to come with a significant other because they are consummate liars and this lecture would blow the whistle on them? So they dragged their heels and had to be dragged in late?
It's a seminar, not a TED talk. They're told to jump in with questions any time.
David I would love to see this talk in a TedTalk format, so that the information is streamlined and easier to see how things interact with other things. It's hard to follow and see the whole package with so many interruptions.
John Theiss How to spot a liar
TED talks are the worst, so awkward, cheesy, and irritating. I do everything I can to eliminate them from my feed but occasionally I realize a TED talk squeezed through.
But of course! I'm sure you would, John.
By the way, John, exactly how much did you pay to get the all the free information you did get from the video?
Asking for the friend who wrote the book he got it from that you are also not going to buy.
Of course what was gleaned is appreciated; thanks to those supplying it. However, it was laborious to extract implementable tools with the numerous, confusing distractions.
Wrycking Baul b
"Just remember: it's not a lie... if you believe it..." - George Castanza
haha
That is actually a good legal defense
@@cchgn lmaooo try it in court I want to see how it goes
for those complaining about quality. It's free. If you want high quality then go to David's website and buy the premium stuff LOL
I WOULD WANT MY MONEY BACK !! WHAT LEARNING ?? HIS GROUP DOESN'T ALLOW ANY TEACHING !! THEY JUST WANT TO HEAR THIER OWN MOUTHS !!!
THESE ARE REAL CLASSES YOUR LOOKING AT !! FOR ANY MONEY .. IT'S NOT WORTH IT !! AS EVERYONE ELSE AGREES , IT'S REDICULOUS TO SIT IN ANY SETTING LIKE THIS , WITH THIS MUCH B S GOING
ON , AND SO LITTLE
INFORMATION BEING
PASSED ON !! I WOULD GET REALLY ANGRY , IF I PAID FOR THIS CRAP !! I DON'T LIKE HIS JUVENILE STYLE OF " TEACHING " , THE FOUL LAUNGUAGE IS TOTALLY REDICULOUS !!
HE RUNS HIS MOUTH ABOUT NOTHING SO OFTEN , THAT HE CAN'T
TEACH MUCH , SO WHEN YOU COMBINE ALL THE NONSENSE TOGETHER,
WHAT A USELESS WAIST OF MONEY , AND TIME .
I THINK I WOULD FIND A REAL TEACHER , WHO DOESN'T FEEL THE NEED TO CRACK JOKES USE FOUL LAUNGUAGE , HAVE
THE ' CLASS ROOM' BEHAVE IN SUCH AN UNRULY MANNER ..THEN GET LOST IN THIER PERSONAL STORIES !!
WHAT A MESS ! HE REALLY LOVES TO TALK ABOUT HOW GREAT HE IS !! AND HE JUST KNOWS SO MUCH ABOUT THIS THAT AND THE OTHER. .!? I DON'T BELIEVE HALF OF IT !! WHAT A IDIOT !!?
@@lilypowell1123 : You didn't need to watch this .... did someone hold a gun to your head ?
Guess you are WAY smarter than the rest of us who enjoyed and learned from this video .
I say , " Good on you ! "
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David I just want to say these videos are great! You present the material in a clear and practical way that is easy to apply even for a novice. You also present the material in a way that keeps me (and I'm sure many others) keenly interested. I hope you continue posting new material. The topics you cover are fascinating particularly when you see first hand the changes that occur upon application of the techniques you teach. Great job!
All the people yapping their jaws on here saying “Get to the point” “make shorter videos” do not deserve the free knowledge and wisdom this man studied many years to acquire. Thank you for your time sensei !
Alexander Grahm .....They prove they prefer the easy way of learning. That's why tv commercials work on them. I am both insulted and also laughing at most commercials. They prove how simple minded and naive people are. Easily over 90% of commercials exploit peoples inability to think objectively.
People are griping at the disruptive audience because they can see that the content is so good. If the content was bad, they wouldn't care.
genie ......Good observation. People attracted to this high volume media outlet prove the real agenda of what youtube is catering to. They are catering to the biggest market. That equals...profits! I'm 29 minutes into this video and can easily relate to what he's saying.He is so right. Compare(perspective) this 29 minutes to the last 2000 minutes of useless "news" I observe on every last local news channel in my city. I learned more verification of my well earned studies of 30 years in 29 minutes while seeing the "news" reporting nothing to teach me useful information in a minimum of 2000 minutes. That's a 69 to 1 ratio if I divide 2000 minutes by 29 minutes of "real news". Yet look at all the people complaining about "distractions". Too sad they can't figure out that virtually every local news station is really just "reporting" versus teaching. It's just distraction news! How ironic that these same people are so easily "distracted" by less than 15 seconds of "distraction" in 29 minutes!!! I know all about the psychology and that's why I'm here! What's the medical term for being so easily distracted? It's ADHD.
@@jusayenso8186 AHH,... NO !
I WOULDN'T " PAY GOOD MONEY" , TO TAKE A CLASS WERE MOST OF THE TIME IS SPENT ON B S COMMENTS FROM THE "PEANUT GALLERY "!!!I WOULD RATHER HEAR " "TEACHING"...ON THE SUBJECT , NOT SOME IDIOTS STUPID QUESTIONS , OR PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS !! A CLASS IS FOR "TEACHING", NOT COMEDY , OR MINDLESS CHATTER !!! THINK HOW MUCH MORE "IMPORTANT" THINGS THAT COULD BE COVERED , INSTEAD , THE GREATER PART OF THE TIME IS PURE B S COMMENTS !! AND PEOPLE ACTUALLY " PAY MONEY"
FOR THAT !??
I enjoyed your presentation so much I reviewed it 3 times. I really wish some members of the audience would of allowed David to speak without the constant interruptions.
Too many people interrupting with personal questions. It’s very disruptive to the flow of information in this presentation.
It’s live sadly
Agree
Hello David.may I make a suggestion? Your talk was interesting but disjointed because of so many interuptions of questions and comments from audience members. May I suggest you ask audience members to wait untill the end of your presentation and THEN discuss and ask their questions.... I found all the questions and comments frustrating because I wanted to hear your presentation..thanks..
sooo true
Scattered lecture, for sure.
Thank you, for sharing this knowledge. Because this series of seminars are available free of charge, what follows should not be interpreted as ingratitude. It is frustration. Within the first minute, it is obvious Mr. Snyder is an exceptionally well versed professional. The constant questions that interrupt his train of thought are extremely distracting. In the future, perhaps questions should be presented at the close of the seminar, with attendees jotting down their thoughts to remind them of their queries. I found the interruptions extremely disrespectful and the Professor's willingness to engage these individuals an exercise in patience and tolerance.
IDRATHERBREADINGMYDX ...Agree with every single thing you said. (Even though it was three years ago) 👍
Preach it!
Ahhh you're all to sensitive, besides David is the trainer if it was a problem for him he would say so. Just tell yourself you can focus, or multi task. Besides you're just sucking up to the alpha male.
This is pretty nice for him to let attendees to ask questions. I like it!
Ann Kim . Exactly. He kept urging them to loosen up and interact. It's not their fault.
I'm impressed. His mind-bending hypnotic technique was so good that my vision was distorting and wobbling right from the start...
Yeah, what's up with that? I had to look elsewhere for most of the video to keep from getting seasick.
Lol. Mind too.
I loved Quincey as a kid. Other children thought I was a weirdo.
This is a great talk , im glad I found you.
I loved the video, thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. The audience, however, was way too distracting and the questions detracted so much. I hope your future videos save the questions for the end. It was that damaging to an otherwise excellent class.
I have to watch this again, it's very good.
please do, enjoy!
To all the people complaining about the audience speaking - this was presented as an interactive course not a lecture. Unlike us watching on TH-cam these people probably paid for the course - so they could ask questions
This was fascinating. In the world of social media, online dating, I wonder how this all relates to only hearing a voice on the phone, texting, or seeing written words from someone. Hmmmmmmm
You can't tell BS from someone's voice? I sure can.
This video is a perfect example of BS
I cannot thank you enough, David! I wish I would have known this information years ago! So grateful I've found this to share with my family, especially my daughter!
Ive been a mechanic professionally for over 3 decades and interacting with many walks of life about their vehicle needs has been a natural thing for me as I win people over by exampling the truth of what was found or diagnosed yet in that arena so many times Ive found the stripped down truth that you cant make any drink the water your offering due to a multitude of things be it inability to comprehend the mechanical failure or the absence of initial trust from being told lies prior or cheated out of extra money in a maliscious fashion by dishonest ethics practiced to gain from greed, and several other factors, like their own knowledge where mistrained or poorly understood even partially knowledged thinking where applying a repair or action excecuted could lead to further or instant damaged products now being the "why" they are before your services needed.
Where one thinks they know a possible conflict could easily rise and lead two to disagreeing and both lose an opportunity to help each other in a cordisl integral manner. Some even deny their mistakes and beleive in no wrong done as well as lies told to me the mechanic they sought out skilled help from. It is seen prominently and mechanics often take the brunt of the common thought of being one of dishonesty. The way to recognize the truth is certainly by recognizing also the patterns that humans or creatures of habit will express. One word strikes home more than any other and that is in my mind "observation"
Seeing patterns is indeed the truth of your now reality where engaging in and with others, groups create a different setting and younger persons will often opinion why this or why not that or ask as if entitled the price is too high or how do we know this fixes their problem.
First of all we are not them or your party or you and I will fix the issue based upon my training efforted to learn troubleshooting and problem solving skills and awareness.
Proper diagnostics do solve issues when you put effort in doing so. The family teenagers will not fix the issue but they will influence stress and interfere with dear old dads mindset as he didnt want to drive to the dealer shop in the first place and he figures alot and wants to leave and shove ice cream in his young broods faces so they can return and think with me again how we find a useful solution to his dilemma and now were getting closer to helping each other. Pattern recognition is an awesome tool I highly commend its awareness by observing simply listening and having stoic patience and remarking only enough to apply a solution that increases trust and potential retained business.
I hope the awareness increases in those who need it most, thank you Dr. Snyder your videos are wonderful ingormative skills that helped me increase all of these skills, your appreciated sir.
My right ear did not learn any thing!
thanks for helping me figure out which of my speakers should be the right one, haha
tuyinc Lol! Why is that!
😂😂😂
I did a sound check on another video!! lol
Haha I thought my right AirPod was broken for awhile
Greg Walker9 months ago
"my god let david talk... iam so angry at the audience ... stfu and listen"
Roger that!
Kenneth Adams amen!
Godfrey Jemand please elucidate on “narrow minded” and how it is being displayed, thanking you
David chose to allow those interruptions, unfortunately. HE set the tone for that.
This is a discussion , not a lecture. duh
Seems to be a common theme among viewer's
I really like this guy but he really needs to stick to his presentation more and save questions to the end.
YES!!!
I agree, unless it's a direct question about something he's just covered, the scenario discussions are tedious.
Terry Scalia agreed. It's hard to follow the info with constant interruption.
he's doing interaction in the training, get over yourself.
I also thought it would flow better and be less distracting if David structured the lecture more keeping questions to the end. But it felt to me that he deliberately allowed the students to decide for themselves what they wanted. More info or for him to address questions.
Extremely insightful, loved your touching on enlightenment, especially when it came to the outside versus the inside, and removing the filters around us. It is where I find my "thin places" and have experienced true forgiveness for those who have harmed me. So freeing...thank you David Snyder. I'm one of your newest fans. Namaste.
Holy crap out of the videos I've watched of his so far this is the most immature, rudest audience. These people just cannot handle the information. I've never been to or watched a workshop where people have interrupted the speaker so much. Do these adults realize how rude that is! Damn.
I feel like these comments posted are a little rough. I didnt think the audience was too bad. The trainer was including and encouraging the engagement of the audience. If he didnt want the questions until the end he would've implied that dont ya think? I also think that he feeds off the audience questions and it helps to explain his theories, like the woman who crosses her arms for example.
They are not only rude, they are fu..... stupid. I just would lock the door as soon as the show started. This way they would learn to respect others.
I love this, thank you very much for sharing this.. consider making some alone videos, without these people interrupting you...👏👏👏👏
@ TheBob19d ... Yes, In a manner of speaking you are "pacing" but you are doing it from their perspective, NLP would call it "mind reading" liars are looking for allies and rationales that get them off the hook by justifying their actions or placing the blame on someone else. when an interrogator/interviewer is "befriending/pacing" the subject He is offering the liar an illusion of alliance and handing them a series of plausible justifications that liar can latch on too. What the liar often doesn't realize is that "any" admission of guilt, or re-framing of their story tells the interviewer a lot more than the subject realizes.
The interviewer if he can't get a confession will start to look for bargaining behaviors, and other "tell tale signs" the subject is being deceptive.
Dear David, LOVED your presentation. Part 2 next to watch! :) :) If you ever have the time to reply, please answer this: How can you tell (or have a pretty close idea about) if someone is lying (someone who is close to you - who therefore feels free enough to express his/her emotions at will with you) if whenever you ask a question within a conversation that he/she could potentially feel "threatened" would give away the truth he/she may be concealing, he/she reacts emotional? But their story - what they will hold, that is - is that they could "see what this question was REALLY asking", and this therefore makes them feel "insulted" by the way my question questions his/her veracity/loyalty/correctness? I mean if I PRETEND to get "offended" by a question, or actually DO get offended by it, then both these 2 scenarios would "explain"/"excuse" my heightened emotional reaction to the questioning wouldn't it?...
I'm asking this because as far back as I can remember, in 9 of 10 situations where I asked a question (direct or indirect) when something felt "out of place", that's the reaction I ALWAYS got. So in my experience, that's - by far - the most common reaction. So if all the "indicators" ARE there (jittering, putting objects between us, other body language etc etc), but this could be EITHER because someone is actually lying, OR this someone is NOT lying (but just gets "insulted" by the questioning), then nothing can be ascertained by any of these reactions, right?
It would nice if the people would listen and quit interrupting him.
exactly thank you that was my point
MrTeotwawki he's full of him self!
Everybody thinks they're funny. It's so corny.
Suck it in. No-one cares what makes you feel "nice."
*MrTreotwawki:* Yes, but sometimes you learn from other peoples' questions....
Such a great topic, too many interruptions from the audience though. It's a shame they rob from the take away points. Thank you for sharing your lecture.
a lecture is wat it is.
kevcomcreations Some people have to prove how smart they are or they are kiss ups. The lady who wanted free therapy about her body language was also just manipulating time. The rest are just resenting yet another meeting. They’re kind of an awful bunch.
Katherine Margeson Honestly, if that is what ruined it for you, ON THE INTERNET... then it’s your problem.. I’m sorry, but learn to dissociate.. just a little hon. You can’t take every option on the planet to heart sweetheart... you just can’t. 💕 ✌🏻
Agree as well
He's teaching a class and students ask questions. So sorrrrrrrry to inconvenience your listening pleasure. Ffs.
Man, you are good... now I can see how I come to the realization on the result of what's going on in my personal "situation". Thanks.
Great class. I love the examples where you do not just explain an example but also act it out. I can see your martial arts background when doing that. Many times in martial arts, that is how it is taught. It may not be done so much in a large martial arts class, but when someone is use to teaching martial arts one on one. Then that teaching method can evolve to more than one, and to larger and larger groups.
Good job, but you allowed way too many questions during the presentation. The would have been more appropriate if asked at the end.
This is great!!! I am a survivor of a Narcissistic sociopath. I totally understand you.
GOD I wish the people would stop interrupting this guy .YOU ARE NOT THE EXPERTS! Let the expert SPEAK! I can't hear a word you're saying so his answers mean nothing to me. All this talking by the class completely throws off the ability for me to follow/understand the seminar. In a way, they're arguing with him and asking about their own personal situations/relationships, LET THE MAN DO HIS PRESENTATION! PLEASE ASK THE CLASS TO STOP GOING OFF ON ADJACENT TOPICS AND LIMIT THE ABILITY OF THE CLASS TO INTERRUPT. Don't say, "I love your questions!" I can't hear them, they're really just these people's opinions and I want to hear. YOUR opinion, not the specific crap from the class. I don't care what they think. I care what HE THINKS! Arg.
This is the very first video I watched that I didn't shut off after 20 minutes! Excellent, thank you!
After around an hour you realised you had psychopaths in your audience. (More than 4%)
How Interesting. Well played.
When exactly? Can you give a timestamp?
I used to look for a friend like you my entire life...cool stuff, amazing helpfully
Rock on!
Hold on with the side comments, I'm still listening to the teacher still.
Go see another teacher.
He is a very good public speaker and teacher... I love his humour... Pretty intelligent guy... Yes, we do believe what we want to be believe...
Thank you David for your presentation , I love how you brought humor to it . I hope to see you on a TED TALK soon, you are a wonderful facilitator.
@@charlieholiday374 that’s what I said! Lol
Hey, my name is Yuval and I'm from Israel
I try to find the right words to describe how you made me curious and interested in the subject
I started to watch obsessively on your videos and I do not regret it!
In a month I'm leaving the house hoping that I will be able to apply your techniques in real life
Palestine
Thank You for posting this video. I found the information to be interesting and useful. It would be more helpful if the questions by the students were held until the end of the class.
For anyone who only gets audio in the left ear, unplug your earphones/earbuds slightly until the sound in both ears starts working.
Prince Andrew's interview with Emily Maitlis brought me here 🤔
HELLO!From Australia my first video VERY EXCITED to listen in today
Thank you.
I have the hyper acuity also.
I’m learning to take what feels like a burden into a super power.
In my humble opinion Mr Snyder is exceptionally prepared, competent and entertaining.
I thought the 3 ways to lie were:
1. Blatantly lying
2. Lying by omission
3. Denial (lying to yourself)
I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. So you have covered #1 and #2 but not my third part, which is "nothing but the truth" (something other than the truth). Then you stated denial, but it's not just lying to yourself. If you said to me, "You 're cheating on me" My response: "I am NOT!" that is denial too. Denying the accusation. Another one is gaslighting: You're crazy, or what you think is not true, or that's not reality.
Omg the non stop questions in the audience....why does everybody have a feeling they need to share their stuff..?? Awesome video! Thank you for upload.
I quite like the interaction but I agree it was a bit annoying and I think it disrupted his flow a little bit.
WTF is so hard about being on time to a presentation, or any event that you were obviously interested enough in in the first place to even sign up to go? This is a sign of our times, and it stinks. It's inconsiderate to the instructor, the people who HAVE shown up on time, and the guy trying to film it. This poor guy's flow of topic was interrupted over and over by these idiots, who everyone is smiling at and talking to, which breaks their concentration as well.
k asdfg Say that without crying
Perhaps because his presentation is pseudo-science at best; and preys upon the desperate!!! He even manages to demonstrate these "techniques" on the audience which are sad enough to pay $$ and spend their precious time to sit at his feet!!!
BTW: He is NOT a certified "therapist"! Be careful, folks!
I think everybody needs to stop and realize we are all narcissistic and living out our reptilian impulses
Some far worse than others and not necessarily their fault
Very good first time i have ever taken nots all the way through any video , so intriguing YOU ARE VERY SKILLED {from my perspective] looking forward to part two!!!!THANKYOU
Definitely need to have people hold their questions until the end. The people spoke more than the guy did!
Cracker Jax I agree. I wish they would shut up. He is a smart guy.
Your'e such a wonderful presenter. I actually stumbled across this video by accident. Im now subscribed and will be watching any other of your videos i can find. Very engaging, loved it. Thank you.
I've lived long enough to have come into contact with some really professional liars. Some con artists are so good that they fool even the most savvy of us. My con artist was "Per" from Norway. He told me he arrived in this country with $10 in his pocket and now had four companies, a couple of houses, etc. He drove an expensive car and was exceptionally good looking and charming, which is why I got taken in. I was in Mexico City some years ago, and there was a woman with four small children asking for money. I gave her some. The following day, I saw the same woman on a different corner with four different children. I learned the hard way never to trust anybody. Sad commentary on human nature.
Yes... what a world we live in... it has become mind blowing. Love your " seeker of Truth" title. :)
So many people lack a sacramental life that they fill their inner void with distortion. Seeker of truth, connect with the Maker of truth, Truth Himself. He will set you free from deception.
@@markhamer1628 Don't know what you are talking about. Enlighten me.
Seeker of Truth have you ever thought of bi monthly confession and daily communion and or daily rosary. Confession to call yourself out on your own self deception, which we all do intentionally or unintentionally have, then daily healing from the Eucharist and humility in prayer as request from Our Lady.
Mark Hamer Nothing is filled with more lies than the Catholic Church. And we won’t even talk about the priests.
Without disrespect to Denise and her post..but I'd rather learn from David than go through that SHIT all over again..
Thankyou for all you do David..extremely greatful to you..and the effort you go to..to educate and help people..🙏
I think the room was too intimate, audience too close to David, they felt freer to interrupt constantly. Great info though.
I totally agree !! They should have marked their questions down and let David speak !! This was horribly interruptive both in people incessantly coming in late and incessantly INTERRUPTING !!
He needs to create a rule where no questions. They need to write them down. Most of their questions weren't clarifying or furthered the lecture. A lot of them were challenging him or the questions were essentially him just repeating the information he just gave.
SE Todd That’s correct. The blame is with the presenter, not the presentation. I’m still not sure what the problem is with most on these threads, the good Doctor obviously wants participation because he may not want to give a boring lecture, or the appearance of one. This is his style of lecturing. I’m at the 1:04:35 mark, so I don’t mind it, and if I did, I would’ve left at the 10 min mark.
The humour I appreciate along with the value of information.
Thank you, I try to make things as fun as possible, the learning sticks better.
You are a very good speaker (and good improv too) I liked to see how at first the audience was quiet and reserved but you slowly opened them up and they started laughing more and participating and telling stories and even getting bold enough to cut you off mid-sentence to introduce a bit of humorous wit.
Knightley Makzemilyian Humor, *the GREAT enhancer to what Life throws at you. Were it not for Humor and a couple of udder thangs I'd not have made it it to my retirement years.*
I have a half sister that is that way
I'm glad your udders have helped you Howard ??!!??
YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T LISTEN TO MANY LECTURES !! IF I WANTED TO LEARN SOMETHING !
AND PEOPLE KEPT INTERUPTING THE TEACHER TO MAKE STUPID COMMENTS OR ASK STUPID QUESTIONS , I WOULD GET UP AND LEAVE!! ALSO GET MY MONEY BACK !!! IT TAKES AWAY FROM THE ACTUAL " "TEACHING" OF "FACTS "
WHAT IS GOOD ABOUT THAT !?? NOTHING !! MORE PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT THE VERY SAME THING !!
THAT IN ITSELF SHOWS THAT IT DETRACTS FROM THE LEARNING OF THE SUBJECT !! OR MAYBE YOUR TO IGNORANT YOURSELF TO CARE ABOUT ACTUALLY LEARNING ANYTHING !! YOUR JUST LOOKING TO BE "ENTERTAINED" !!
So interesting. As a HSP with Bipolar my thought process is different. I can feel inauthentic people. I can pick out Borderline or Narcissistic people in seconds. My defenses come up to protect myself from evil people. I love how your lecture explains this. It’s not a super power, it’s a little genetics, experience and interest in these things on my part. Or a little research and hard work.
I could have low latent inhibition
THIS INFORMATION IS ABSOLUTE GOLD.
Oppo OP
Your style of teaching is excellent. So bummed you're not in Australia. I have attended numerous Hypnosis, Conversational Hypnosis and each time walk away thinking, "I've done my money again"
David, would love 2 hear u give a lecture on narcissist & narcissistic behavior. What R the differences & how 2 recognize if some1 or even urself is a Narc. Love ur info & presentation! Thanks 4 sharing
Mee too
Narcissists you can find out about by watching the audience members who can't shut up and let the man give the lesson.
Ur is not a word, for goodness sake
maths in karen 🤣
I think this is one of the best videos you have done. I do like it. It is packed with tidbits of information. A lot of hidden goodies in there also. Good, and thank you.
omg the audience needs to chill and let him talk!!!
Especially that one Oriental lady! Jesus Christ..
😂😂😂
@@theCatbalou What does that have to do with the fact that they're not letting him talk...? I've been a student - and a teacher - if this is how a class was run, I'd never have learned a thing!
The coughing and moving of audience is ridiculous
@@gettingphinenowcc xcvccc
People in positions of power, become very vindictive when they are exposed as liers and hyoercrite. They attack your credibility. Your integrity and they demean you by telling their friend lies.. Good lecture, thank you..
are you referring to our president?
There is no audio...really wanted to hear your presentation. I see below you stated the audio wasn't working and you would try to reload it...guessing that didn't work. I hope you can fix that soon! Thanks.
Dear Dr. Snyder... I just wanted to let you know that I have watched you're video on lying and found it extremely informative. I've already knew most of the material from other videos of ex-CiA agents. You're videos, however, go much more in depth about the brain and how it works. You're a great teacher also. There's nothing worse than trying to learn something from a turnip. Anyway, thanks again and keep up the good work! ....d.
Glad it was helpful!
Do these newcomers know what a camera looks like, what it does, they are not Saran wrap?
Lol, was wondering if he was taping the lecture with a hidden camera maybe!
This is so horrible how people just continually keep coming in !!! Very ANNOYING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I loved your video on how to catch a liar. It was very insightful and enlightening. I wish that I would have seen it 2 or 3 years ago before my husband was arrested and sentenced to federal prison for so long. Now we can only communicate through email or phone calls as he is in a federal prison that's a little more than 5 hours away from me and I am disabled so I can't visit him very often and talk to him face to face. I am going to wait for him to get out and I will be here for him through the whole bit and he is going to come home to me when he gets out, but I don't think we are going to be worried about anything else but being together again and focusing on our future and our relationship with God.
I am so glad to have found your videos. I, like you am completely fascinated by this stuff. Psychology and neuroscience, brain development and just piecing together the things that make me understand why people do what. It is just... fascinating in the best kind of way. I also LOVE the way you present yourself to your students. Your logic is very similar to my own which makes the info very easy to process. For me that is great because I am very easily distracted if I can't see the logic in what a person is telling me. Like... I can't tell you how many times I've used any word I could find on a classroom wall to play my own games of text twist just to pass the time. You on the other hand Maintained my attention through the entire lecture. You're very funny which I find to be one of the best ways to make others relate and feel comfortable in your presence. You do a fine job engaging the interest of your viewer and I am already looking forward to watching more of your videos. Thank you for sharing such great insight. Subscribed btw... I so wanted to come in tell your students "hey.. psst. Here is what we do with jokes. 👉😬👈 laugh at the funny."
I sense you’d be very nourished by Symbolic Modelling, clean language, and Emergent knowledge. I think you’ll find the life and work of David Grove fascinating. All the best with your exploration of such fascinating and useful stuff.
@@brucesekulic5443 will check it out. Thank you for the recommendation.
Great presentation learned a lot. The information was delivered in entertaining fashion and I give him 2 thumbs up ... I would just ask for the next presentation that they give the people asking questions a microphone
I love Mr. David classes but today people wont let he give the lecture they all asking peronnal questions
@John Truth AND YOUR OBVIOUSLY AN IDIOT !! THIS MAN DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO CONDUCT A " CLASS " !! "VERY LITTLE" IS ACTUALLY "TAUGHT" !!!
Tessy Caldwell Yes! It’s like they either wanted to show off or get free therapy.
Happy New Year! Yes, and I have just discovered David Snyder. How many people here (like me), and below in the comments are INTJ's?
Pattern Recognition?
I'm not even three minutes into this vid and I would LOVE to hear his take on Donald Trump, professional OR personal opinion.
josoverthehill I don’t think it’s his place to do that, because he may lose his job. How dare he criticize the President whom I voted in 2016 and will vote for him again in 2020, says his immediate supervisor or Chancellor, I’ll show him.
How about his take on the entire staff at CNN MSPMS or whatever they’re called and all the other FAKE NEWS people out there.
This guy edits doing it's completely on point cuz I have personally used it throughout my life to survive
You should have your audience wait till after your class is done before asking questions !! You lose your place and it waist your time you can't finish the thought .
And it causes some to want to stop listening , besides it's annoying , agrevating !!
The same woman babbling over and over.
Aggravating.......... but moving on . If your interested in a subject you lose no interest.
@SYNERGISTIC123 HAAAA! Damn , you caught that before me lol, sorry I didn't see your comment before typing my own.
Lily Powell b
Lily, 100% agree...jumps back and forth...follow a pattern...
He's saying "nod" but I think he is actually referring to both nods and shakes. My understanding is that a nod is when the head moves up and down, in the affirmative, while a shake is when the head moves side to side, a negation. A head shake or a head nod should align with the feeling behind the words or else it is a tell. So if you are saying "I do not want to go to the dentist", you will shake your head (not nod it) when you are telling the truth. The reverse is true for head nods.
Thank you David, for sharing so much of your awareness. I enjoyed your class!
Always, great to listen to this again. Thank you for sharing, Dr. David Snyder.
Thanks for listening
A person isnt lying because they say, "I'm 50 pounds overweight and would like help losing weight." That could be 100% true. Just because the weight is a symptom of something doesn't mean they are lying! The words themselves are not lies either. Just because they may be ignorant of the deeper issues, doesn't make the words into lies. Yes they need to go to the source of why they are over their desired weight.
A R Overweight ppl can also have medical issues such as metabolic disorders beyond their control.
Love the S.ecret H.idden I.nfluence T.echnicque protocol analysis
"People want to believe the lies" That sounds like the average voter.
Thanks for the access to good reading post
Trump voters.
I didn't believe any of them that won the primaries. Not saying I believed the losers either but figured not all as bad.
OMG!!!! 💯% TRU babii.....lolz
But I must just say this......
💥TRUMP'S💥no#1
Wake up u dummies
Sometimes I can honestly say "I do" because it's better than coming to acceptance that you have been betrayed or whatever else the truth entails. Humans beings are awful creatures and when you have high morals and values, it's hard to find others that are in that boat. At least out here in Southern California (that's for sure) and coming from a old fashioned German family, I feel alone in my values and I'm always being lied too and backstabbed. But at least, I have the reputation for being the honest one. And my word is gold. No questions asked. I'm just always getting hurt when I let my guard down.
Oh boy, this presentation is driving me crazy!!!! These people need to Listen to the guy.
A lot of this is Q & A and it's difficult making out the questions. And of course it's the same people asking them. You know the type that like to hear themselves speak.
Chris Pelttt