Tamar Braxton finally explains why she's divorcing Vince (Cheating, abuse, loveless marriage, etc.)

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  • Tamar Braxton bared her feelings out in a long message on social media, stating why she actually divorced her husband, Vince Herbert, after almost 9 years of marriage. Tamar alluded to that Vince had several girlfriends and also revealed that she can no longer fake being happy in her marriage. She said when Vince threatened to pushed her out of their home, she was officially done with the marriage.
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ความคิดเห็น • 767

  • @mikaally8111
    @mikaally8111 7 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    lol i made the too close home comment and now im feeling myself😂😘. But I honestly never really liked tamar til her recent breakfast club interview. I feel like she is just now being herself.

    • @nope.4254
      @nope.4254 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I believe she dealt with a lot of insecurities that lead to her relationship with Vince and in turn he kind of maybe started feeling himself. I think Christina Aguilera spoke about something similar in her relationship to her ex husband who she worked close with. She has a song called "Stronger Than Ever" about it which kinda detailed her husband coming into her life and then making her feel like she wasn't always good enough and how she lost herself. Her song "You Lost Me" is also about their relationship.
      So, sometimes you go through these relationships and when they're over you're allowed to become yourself. Tamar does seem like a handful but again, Vince seems like he started feeling himself a bit and she started pretty much giving up everything to be with him. Almost as if he wanted to be the PROVIDER and in charge and she pretty much said "OH WELL YOU LEAD THE WAY" and shit fell apart.
      Anywho, I hope she returns to music. She's so talented. Demi Lovato has a song called Cry Baby that IMO sounds so much like something Tamar Braxton would've sang and passed on for her new album. Good luck to her.

    • @shirleygarner3724
      @shirleygarner3724 7 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @limaalex5330 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @onacorona2323
      @onacorona2323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why didn't her Mother do something like call 911 if all this beat downs were going on, also when he got sued and lost......it really looks like she is try to make sure she doesn't lose her money. She does have a lot of mouth, and I couldn't stand some of the stuff she yanked about.
      I love her to death but sometimes every thing a person says is just not the full truth, there are two sides and the truth is some where in the middle. I hope they both find happiness, and always do what is correct for Logan.

    • @kimsims9293
      @kimsims9293 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah thats what i was tryin to say!

  • @22972nono
    @22972nono 7 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    That's why I tell my friends:Don't put celebrity couples on a pedestal. You never know what's going on behind closed doors.

    • @shaquana12hyatt
      @shaquana12hyatt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      nono facts

    • @meriani777
      @meriani777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought of Will & Jada reading this.

    • @LovettbalngoodsLLC
      @LovettbalngoodsLLC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nono doesn't mean we can't love a celebrity and favor them.

    • @manouchkad6688
      @manouchkad6688 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nono Exactly!!

    • @MakebyJen
      @MakebyJen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @DistressedAndImpressed
    @DistressedAndImpressed 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1295

    It's unfortunate that people don't believe Tamar. People assume that Vince is all innocent cause he's more reserved, but abusers are sometimes like that in public. I remember when she gave birth and he took the baby inside and left her in the car with all of the bags and stuff...😒 Always telling her to "watch her mouth." Always seeming annoyed when she's joking around trying to make him laugh. I remember a scene where she flinched when he touched her. Tamar has been abused in the past where she ended up with a broken nose. Abusers try to silence people like Tamar behind closed doors. Why do you think she's always doing the most? She's finding her voice. Vince knows no one will believe her cause she's "loud, ratchet, petty" etc. That doesn't mean she's not being abused. And let's not forget about how he bit her finger last year. And that new video of her mom speaking out. She ADORED Vince, treated her as her own (cause his parents are deceased). I feel bad. No wonder she was crying so hard about her mom no longer living with them. No wonder they called each other 'Ike and Tina'...☕

    • @aprilshowers3331
      @aprilshowers3331 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Anaiah Z yes seems like the classic narcissistic and empath relationship, Vince has fed on her energy long enough #BoyBye

    • @sweetpea06112
      @sweetpea06112 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Anaiah Z That episode when Vince did that with the baby really made me angry.This woman just had your child and you treat her so harsh because you don't want the blanket off the baby. Come on Vince you are not a celebrity like that for you to have went off on Tamar over some picture of the baby getting out.

    • @thedaileybeatbybrittneyd.423
      @thedaileybeatbybrittneyd.423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Everything you stated makes so much sense.. I never even thought about it how excited she was for her mom to be living with them/her.

    • @ladeja8
      @ladeja8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Exactly!! I think in the media she's going to take the brunt of fault. Because she is loud and outspoken!! I believe Tamar.

    • @Rio_Monique
      @Rio_Monique 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      This! This! THIS! I wish this comment was pinned!

  • @naturallysharon749
    @naturallysharon749 7 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    I'm glad she chose her happiness over people's expectations

    • @ritap7458
      @ritap7458 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sharon Phiri Agreed. I think it's a wicked awesome example for a woman to set. Shit happens, and when a woman is ready to leave she will. Good for her!

    • @renewedgyrl
      @renewedgyrl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sharon Phiri THIS.

    • @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907
      @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sharon Phiri Right. Too many people stay in situations that are draining all for the bragging rights.

  • @MsCarter8719
    @MsCarter8719 7 ปีที่แล้ว +682

    I see why she wanted her mom to live with her so bad, and why Ms. Evenlyn didn't want to.

    • @Blonde50
      @Blonde50 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Ms. Carter exactly, and if anybody paid attention on how Evelyn was upset about Tamar and Vince trying to have a baby, you can see it in her eyes and her expression and that's why Tamar didn't tell no one about her miscarriage or that she was even trying to have another baby.

    • @socaqueen8186
      @socaqueen8186 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ms. Carter It's crazy you say that cause I thought the same thing!

    • @GinaJonesStillettoQueen
      @GinaJonesStillettoQueen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ms. Carter I said the same thing on another post. Yup

    • @cicicollins9835
      @cicicollins9835 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Toy Smith i j

    • @ra6094
      @ra6094 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fg

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 7 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    It takes the upmost strength and courage to walk away from a toxic relationship, stay strong Tamar!👸🏽

    • @taylorstern4797
      @taylorstern4797 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You said it! So true & wise words.

  • @nette3800
    @nette3800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Her sisters never seems to be a fan of Vince, said he had bad energy etc etc and even her mom and dad said something was off between the couple when she told them about her miscarriage.

    • @TimahR
      @TimahR 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nette Not to mention Tamar is always calling Vince Ike Turner!

    • @Southerngirl0828
      @Southerngirl0828 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Breahna Davis
      yep...that's why she always worn blonde hair...now i see she stepped out with Red hair in a recent photo. damn shame..if he wanted a fucking Becky with the piss colored hair then he should've chosen that in the beginning...Oh..but he didn't because them cave beasts wasn't checking for his unknown flabby ass back in the day...he ain't always had money.

    • @sirbey9608
      @sirbey9608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nette the sisters and mom was riding off Vince and Tamar when the coins were up and Poppin

    • @shitbag21
      @shitbag21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sir Bey, How so?

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nette
      Didn't Toni, Vince's former client, introduce them?

  • @jaytaylor5420
    @jaytaylor5420 7 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Is that why Tamar always called Vince "Ike Turner"? Cause he was abusive

    • @FrozenAuroras
      @FrozenAuroras 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Jay Taylor Yess she said it many times on the show!

    • @AlesiaDillard
      @AlesiaDillard 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Jay Taylor makes so much sense now

    • @lhuff1069
      @lhuff1069 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      she does that to make you think she is abused cause he called her a name back after she picked on his weight , marriage fights dont count cause people do all kinds of abuse in a marriage fight so if you ging by that your wrong, she wanted people to think he hit her long before she said he did , setting it up like her moma taught her , she smart and street the gays taught her how to set it up . and she did sehe probably paid ms evelyn to say vince hit her , now you know vince aint gonna have that woman mother see him hit her ? even if he did lord they can lie

    • @chelapettyjohn4198
      @chelapettyjohn4198 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay Taylor right now that u said something it definitely make sense now lol

    • @sugarandspice2136
      @sugarandspice2136 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I noticed he called Tamar "Anna Mae" in one of the earlier seasons of BFV. I caught that immediately 😒

  • @ambermarie8027
    @ambermarie8027 7 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    I believe it. You have to watch the ones who you can't imagine it coming from. Vince seems super sweet and charming and they're usually the ones who abuse their family (emotionally and physically) behind close doors. The ones who are usually loud and outspoken are the ones who are most sensitive and innocent (in part).

  • @jodynanci
    @jodynanci 7 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    When u tired, u tired

    • @Rio_Monique
      @Rio_Monique 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jojobeeh ok!

    • @bunnielove29
      @bunnielove29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jojobeeh yessssss u right

  • @Rio_Monique
    @Rio_Monique 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "When a woman's fed up/There ain't nothing you can do about it/it's like running out of love/then it's too late to talk about it" ✌🏾🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Puppylove890
    @Puppylove890 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I knew they weren't really happy for a long time. It showed. She was just hanging on to hang on.

  • @blessingmeeveryday3962
    @blessingmeeveryday3962 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I will never understand why some females continue to stay in a relationship that them themselves know is toxic. Tamar needed to move on after the first sign of physical abuse or cheating. Respect yourself and other's will respect you.

  • @CandieP
    @CandieP 7 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    Jesus Christ. Social media is truly the devil. We have celebrities and even regular folk writing bibliographies, thesis statements and SYNOPSIS on social media to complete strangers. To ppl who’s waiting to beat you down and not build you up, to ppl who don’t have your best interest at hand, to ppl who have limited thinking skills, are immature, inarticulate, no analytical skills and are self absorbed. Why must ppl have to prove anything to their fans or followers??? Is their lives that incomplete? I’m from the old school so when things like divorce and trauma is happening in my life I️ turn to my family, my pastor or my therapist. F*ck letting the world know because all they will do is pick apart every word you said and exaggerate it. This over sharing on social media has got to stop. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @deannanyacole1393
      @deannanyacole1393 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Candie P yep. glad you said it!!!

    • @brionmoyd1259
      @brionmoyd1259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I want to know everything. I hope they continue to overshare. Nothing better then seeing a celebrity going through things we deal with everyday. Its sort of a reminder that they are human too. Its easy to forget

    • @LovenLight34
      @LovenLight34 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

    • @LovettbalngoodsLLC
      @LovettbalngoodsLLC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Candie P you mean like the way you was sharing on social media as others DID? it's called a difference of opinion.

    • @Amanda-be7eq
      @Amanda-be7eq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe it's her way of venting

  • @destinystarr3837
    @destinystarr3837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I feel so bad she's going through this 😞 she's such a beautiful person inside and out. I hope she finds her peace. #Tamartian4Lyfe

    • @destinystarr3837
      @destinystarr3837 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      janes amazon A HELL OF A STORM You wrote all of this to say nothing. Lol you don't know shit. You're just assuming all of this because you're bitter and you want to jump a bandwagon because other people hate her. People like you annoy me! How do you know she only married him for his money? SHE HAD MONEY AND A WHOLE CAREER BEFORE SHE MET HIM! How do you know her family is greedy???? Bitch gtfoh. You don't know shit! How about you actually watch her TV shows and listen to her music before you want to dissect someone's life. And you call me a stupid bitch???? Ho learn how to spell and form correct sentences before you call someone else stupid. You misspelled alot of words and your Grammer is pathetic. Learn how to write before you address me next time.

    • @heatherking8689
      @heatherking8689 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dee Xscapes Tracey still married to same man for 18 yrs so not sure where she gets they all lost their husbands. She had her own money (maybe not his kinda money. But her own money and someone would've picked her as an artist) she really can sing (even though her extras gets on my nerves) one can not say she cannot sing, cause all them, Braxtons even brother Michael can sing! Why should anyone including celebrities stay in a marriage/relationship that their not happy with or they want to be with someone else etc... They shouldn't, and why ppl start running ppls name through the muds bc they choose the right thing for them is to go instead of staying and cheating or running around on each other etc... Its so awful what ppl have to hear and go through when their marriage ends. Its hard enough wo all that extra-ness. Then ppl wanna bring up the kid/kids, she won't get sole custody, so what? Just bc your marriage doesn't work doesn't mean everyone wants to keep the kids from the other, that don't make one or the other a bad parent. Its called joint custody bc the kid deserves and needs both parents and ppl wanna start with that keeping the kid as a way to get back at the other and tries to keep them from one another and it has nothing to do with the kid and the kid is the only one that suffers and gets hurt. I so agree with you... I don't see why ppl think when someone is going through divorce they wanna say whatever and mean and hurtful untrue things.. Like its hard enough wo all that you know! Im glad there's still ppl that's not blind to the truth still out there and ppl that has sense about them! (Sorry for shitty grammer, my brain goes faster than my fingers sometimes!) lol! #tonifan4life #tamarkeepondoingyou

    • @eugenecoxjr.791
      @eugenecoxjr.791 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Play

  • @Mrs__G
    @Mrs__G 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I loved her message she made so much sense. Society encourages us to live a lie and continue to endure the pain and cheating just to say we made it 🤷🏽‍♀️.

  • @robinbaldwin8835
    @robinbaldwin8835 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A few months ago i went back and watched all the old seasons of Tamar and Vince on Hulu. I’ve been in emotional and mentally abusive relationships. The things that he did in the show reminded me so much of the things that person used to do to me. He broke my spirit so much that when we were out to eat i only looked at my food and him. I literally put my head down on the table once when a guy i knew walked in, so the guy wouldn’t come over and speak. I wish Tamar the best. Being in that type of situation is literally hell.

  • @beautifulblackness3225
    @beautifulblackness3225 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    If it's broken , don't try to fix it.

    • @EmmanuelLewis2
      @EmmanuelLewis2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Black Beauty Speaks Dumbest thing I've heard in a while... Which is the reason we have such a high divorce rate.

  • @justbeingveetv3423
    @justbeingveetv3423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    *We all can learn from this!! Always live in your truth*
    *Now she can begin to heal*

  • @lulamanjuza
    @lulamanjuza 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wendy’s husband is friends with Vince and that’s why she didn’t want Tamar on her show. Her husband is the one who probably said no

  • @bellaxoxo5271
    @bellaxoxo5271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Tamar is real as ish for this!

    • @90sbaby4lyfe7
      @90sbaby4lyfe7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah she spoke right thru me going thru the same shit trying to get out its hard but I know it has to be done

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Hannah Johnson you will get through it and as more time pass you will be kicking yourself like "damn I should have been left". one day at a time sis

    • @90sbaby4lyfe7
      @90sbaby4lyfe7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words . God bless you!

    • @sophiawilliams70
      @sophiawilliams70 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who cares. She only was with him for his money. She was married twice now devoce twice.. If u marry for the wrong thing it will never last. So now she was abused in both marriage, hope she learn this time

  • @LovesofJBNeet
    @LovesofJBNeet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I understand100% I'm leaving my husband for these reasons. I cannot anymore. I'm tired of being the secret wife only good enough to take care of our home and children. I started to love myself and care for me more and he hates that. I'm so much happier. I remember thinking I would never get over him until I learned to love myself

  • @mbm9907
    @mbm9907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Klump lost that weight and turned into Buddy Love.

  • @amakalorraine6213
    @amakalorraine6213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    So Wendy can speak on someone's life but won't let them speak . Well she better not speak on them then

    • @nickinick5219
      @nickinick5219 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shasmeen Muhammad you really thing she gonna speak on it when her husband is standing in the audience? He gonna beat the shit out of her when they get home 😔

    • @MrMonaebrown
      @MrMonaebrown 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I find it interesting that she brings it up on her show but refuses to let Tamar come on and speak.

  • @kayjewels1488
    @kayjewels1488 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I remember dating someone that was a horrible person/boyfriend. However when females try to call him out about it they would get attacked because he was the popular one in the relationship. Popularity wins every time which is sad. It's sad that people think if someone is dramatic or act a certain way they can never be the innocent person.

  • @NiecyMajor
    @NiecyMajor 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Sad to say Tamar we already knew that business transaction I mean marriage was a lie stop it😒

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right. When he $ got funny sis said *NO MORE PRETENDING*

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE. IF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE GETTING COUNSELING AND ACTUALLY WORKING ON YOUR UNION. GIVE IT TIME AND. PRAYER ..IF THAT DOESN'T WORK YOU MUST SAVE YOUR SELF..LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!.

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m praying for both Wendy and Tamar as they make their different decisions. 🙏🏾

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Be strong, Tamar!♥️

  • @fire_rasss
    @fire_rasss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I️ thought it was really messed up that Wendy didn’t let her talk on the show about this. What type of friend is Wendy?

    • @22972nono
      @22972nono 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Shanell Hughes Maybe she's just too close to the situation and doesn't want to choose sides

    • @fire_rasss
      @fire_rasss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      nono honestly, I️ think it’s because Wendy wants to stay with her raggedy ass husband so her husband don’t want her getting ideas from Tamar.. You ALWAYS side with your home girl.

    • @skinnylegend2082
      @skinnylegend2082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She's on the verge of getting divorced herself. She needs to keep her -psychopathic cheating husband- *cough* man.

    • @22972nono
      @22972nono 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Q W E E N Exactly. If she has Tamar on her show, people will give her the side eye like ok you're supporting your friend who's divorcing her *alleged* cheating husband but your husband is cheating as well and you're not leaving him.

    • @deirdrasj1
      @deirdrasj1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Crazy part is when the news first came out Wendy said she was waiting on Tamar to call in on the air so she could talk about it

  • @lenorapeoples4543
    @lenorapeoples4543 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok, In my first marriage my ex-husband said to me to get out of his house. I guess he was surprised when he went home one night and found me and everything in the house gone. A man should never tell his wife to get out of his house. That boiled my blood. Tamar was fed up with BS. Period.

  • @alisharobertson4260
    @alisharobertson4260 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aside to all the drama you always see the softer side of things and you always consider everyone whose involved when you to do your Vlogs I just want say to you sister keep doing what your doing as you are one of the only ones if there's anymore on TH-cam I've yet to see anyone else have so much compassion for others be blessed I'm a new subscriber 🙂

  • @mzreneem
    @mzreneem 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Unfortunately any kind of abuse IS abuse. Mental, emotional, physical, verbal, spiritual, psychological, financial ......that was NEVER one-sided. Watching ALL the shows, confessionals, dinners, trips, and etc Tamar ain't innocent. (towards Vince or her sisters or employees) She's an abuser TOO! PERIOD!
    I'm NOT saying what Vince did or did not do, but I SAW Tamar with everybody and her words & attitude towards others.....she's guilty TOO!

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She made the right decision and to the naysayers, y'all would never have the ability to share your insecurities like that and that's why you hate it and want to bash her for having the courage you never will. Go check your facades and see if the world would still like you and what they see without it. I still like Tamar. Good luck, Taytay.

  • @omphilemoerane2569
    @omphilemoerane2569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    When I saw the pic of Sharina I was like "yo is she pregnant" and the you said "allegely, she is pregnant" Lol there is nothing alleged about that belly.

    • @sugarbear9118
      @sugarbear9118 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omphile Moerane Ever heard of a fat belly?

  • @janiceorr1872
    @janiceorr1872 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    When she said last time was the last time is a quote from r Kelly's song you deserve better
    Hmmm

    • @janiceorr1872
      @janiceorr1872 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beinglively FUCKYOU!

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel so conflicted when listening to r. kelly

    • @janiceorr1872
      @janiceorr1872 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beinglively not that it's your business I support his music. And what he does or anyone else does on their private life is not for us to judge. Too much judging going on in the world by humans. Good day

    • @alexisfeliciano2905
      @alexisfeliciano2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janiceorr1872 EVERYBODY NEEDS TO STOP ATTACKING TAMAR AND THE OTHER SISTERS INCLUDING THEIR BROTHER MICHAEL AND LOGAN AND VINCENT

  • @kay-caycewilliams4516
    @kay-caycewilliams4516 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I was waiting on you to come threw!

    • @sophiasabrina3865
      @sophiasabrina3865 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kay -Cayce Williams But instead she came THROUGH!

  • @rayan9194
    @rayan9194 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    That is so true the one that sitting there pretending to be quiet and innocent does normally be the abuser, I see that with my own sister her boyfriend beats, punch and bit on her, and people will never believe cause he so quiet..

  • @mariaducksworth2140
    @mariaducksworth2140 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm happy for Tamar... Tamar was in a abusive relationship before Vince.I'm so PROUD that she had enough courage to get out of this abusive marriage. She probably was hiding it from her family and the public because she didn't want to be a victim of domestic violence again. She probably didn't wanna hear I told you so or what's wrong with you WHY you keep choosing these type of men.Also people saying girl you must like to be abused.I believe Tamar and her siblings will write a tell all book about their LIFE and they probably will tell us more about their parents divorce. I believe it's more to it because they all have been through or going through a divorce.

  • @tatianaragland4007
    @tatianaragland4007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her grammar errors and her writing in third person had me confused! It was so hard for me to even read her reasons. So this video definitely helped me out alot.

    • @marcellamiller7808
      @marcellamiller7808 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tatiana Ragland yea me too I was like “what?”

  • @lexiaaforever437
    @lexiaaforever437 7 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I wish people would let them handle they issues in private . Even if they a celeb couple let them handle it alone. the same don’t need too many public opinions . Plus a child is involved

    • @earthangel6858
      @earthangel6858 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Lexiaa Forever She's on social media writing a damn near book...she's making it our business

    • @tamekiawilliams5216
      @tamekiawilliams5216 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I understand what you are saying, but its hard to let them handle their business in private when Tamar is putting out posts like the ones in this video.

    • @christiepolke1893
      @christiepolke1893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lexiaa Forever she put it out there and that's what her next season of Tamar and Vince is supposed to show. She did thus knowing people would talk and she wants them to.

    • @AfrykaUnyque
      @AfrykaUnyque 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But she is venting publicly. Now Wendy yes!

    • @DCpuddles
      @DCpuddles 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lexiaa Forever they are the ones who put their business out there for the public Tamar wrote a whole 3 paragraphs telling the public what's going on so how are we invading their privacy????

  • @mandeelaw8410
    @mandeelaw8410 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So in other words...
    She got tired of faking it...

  • @NiniBonita
    @NiniBonita 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing Tamar all the best on these hard times🙏🏽 🌹

  • @Mehrunissah93
    @Mehrunissah93 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's crazy I woke up to her post about an hour ago. I'm glad she's spoken out.

  • @WW-ox9dp
    @WW-ox9dp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Do you know honestly I just can't believe that Wendy is going through this and the fact that she's acting like it's not going on is more shocking I love watching her show and always feel like she speaks the truth but on this matter she is not saying anything and I think that's the worst

  • @rhondanewson4495
    @rhondanewson4495 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad Tamar is sharing her hurt within her marriage, women in that light have to smile thru the hurt for the Glam Life, House, cars etc, to keep that Reputation of Perfection, but in all this will make her stronger, humbled and closer to GOD.

  • @taj010405
    @taj010405 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oop, Ms. Empressive were you talkin about the message I sent on your last video? 😁😁😁 Thanks Boo

  • @stephk1466
    @stephk1466 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They didn't look right together when I first saw them years ago.

  • @daniellez.2462
    @daniellez.2462 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do believe her but it doesn't excuse all the BS she herself has done and the way she acted toward others, trying to make her family and her relationship seem perfect while putting her sisters' on blast.

  • @reneemitchell3829
    @reneemitchell3829 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When it's time, it's time. A real woman always knows.

  • @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907
    @illcelebrateyoursuccess8907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tay Tay, I hope you get your Complete Life in the future with a New Man that puts your heart, mind and Spirit on cloud nine. Hope you get therapy first to get to uncover the best you to avoid another abusive coward.You represent strength to so many, but I love how even your moment of "weakness" transparency, admitting it was a lie reflects strength. It takes courage to draw a line and leave. Thanks to you, so many others I believe will leave as well.

  • @thisworldiscomingtoanend6630
    @thisworldiscomingtoanend6630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Excellent move Tamar !!!. Whatever happened to the strong confident independent woman ? Ladies, men will never respect a weak woman whose to afraid to leave. Strengthen up that back bone and instilled some self respect. Stop being so thirsty.

  • @LadyMusse
    @LadyMusse 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so glad Tamar is living her truth, life is way too short to spend it unhappily. I wish her the best and while i don’t know her personally I pray that she finds the strength to keep going forward with this. I never felt comfortable with the way Vince would speak to her he is a complete ass to her and i hope she moves on and finds true love, if not with another with herself . She is raising a son and has to be her best for herself and for him. I am so proud of her she is so brave and courageous for this and she will be a better person for it. She will also be helping A LOT of people who may be in her shoes
    #allTheBestTamar

  • @DollarTree259
    @DollarTree259 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She didn't have to share nothing idk y she did that is personal even though she is a celebrity her personal life should b off limits..

    • @DollarTree259
      @DollarTree259 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      K T I understand and u r so rite I just feel that if she is willing to tell this what isn't private. I would have said Vince and I grew apart and left it at that she was angry when her sisters were all up in her business but from this statement she left nothing to the imagination ..

  • @princessgigiking
    @princessgigiking 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know Tamar was getting tired of his shit.

  • @glentaylor864
    @glentaylor864 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your kindness,honesty,not cursing as many do.God bless you.

  • @mallyworld4.013
    @mallyworld4.013 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    U been dropping all the tea

  • @angellg25
    @angellg25 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video...I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!!!!! keep up the good work!!!💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Aliasss
    @Aliasss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How was that shade to Wendy ? I don't get it ..
    Anyway, although I don't feel social media is the best way to "air out" personal business, I get why she would feel the need to share HER truth somewhere because it has become so public and everyone has spoken out BUT her .. I appreciate her sharing her testimony. People don't have to like her, but she's not perfect and that's the reality of being a human. 🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @ebonywhite1388
    @ebonywhite1388 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I never liked Vince

  • @ItsaPaytonThing
    @ItsaPaytonThing 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wishing them the best!!

  • @blueyson
    @blueyson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your voice not boring not monotone but soft and assertive what ever that means !!! You should be a talk show host !!!

  • @MzVan21
    @MzVan21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That why need to stop with this relationship goals b.s you never know what be going on in peoples lives

  • @ashleybradley7657
    @ashleybradley7657 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow that's insanely deep.

  • @roter13
    @roter13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tamar's breakfast club interview made me realize that she was ready for the marriage to end. She used to be like "no girl better even look at my man" and then in that interview she was fine with him having another girlfriend

  • @diamond4360
    @diamond4360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    He told Tamar to get out the house on there show Tamar and Vince and I was so shock to hear him say that while the cameras was on

  • @Iluv2bblk
    @Iluv2bblk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never Never share your marriage problems on social media .. go to your marriage counselor and pastor

  • @gwendolynlipsey577
    @gwendolynlipsey577 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamar be blessed and just breath , how does it feel not to walk on egg shells. STAY focused and #still standing

  • @truqueeniam1831
    @truqueeniam1831 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Tamar fell in love with Vince's money , then him, any blind person saw that,,,wise person knows it, Real Talk!!

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Queeniam*LiveLoveLearn*AKA*MSC* MSC
      Stevie Wonder saw it!

    • @tancymilligan
      @tancymilligan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought about that too because I heard he is having financial issues and then I was thinking how ironic that now is the time she wants to divorce him.

    • @diamond4360
      @diamond4360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Um no she was generally in love with this man like you can honestly see that she was in love with this man. He treated her so bad so she had to leave so at situation so bad

  • @miamiller7585
    @miamiller7585 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Blue Bird title mean sad bird and she is going to fly away. It did not mean that story she expkained at her album release party. Vince should of figured that out then because i did. I knew there marriage was in trouble when Vince took the baby in the house and left Tamar in the car when Logan was born. Now he wants to beg her back. Run for the hills Tamar you deserve better that that and you are to cute for Vince any way.

    • @therealeastchick2778
      @therealeastchick2778 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mia Miller lmfao no it doesn't, bluebird is the bird of happiness and always has been, there's a famous book about it and play called *bluebird* its always been a symbol of happiness, even in ancient China. 😕
      Idk why people just type shit like its facts without researching.

    • @miamiller7585
      @miamiller7585 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheRealeast Chick What ever it's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

  • @tcamille82
    @tcamille82 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whoo that tea was served steaming hot baby....prayers for Tamar and Wendy. I'm sure these issues are very stressful.

  • @larryy3133
    @larryy3133 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think all your observations are spot on.

  • @staceycollins4366
    @staceycollins4366 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds about right. I can see Tamar getting lost in conversation and turning to Wendy for validation . That would be pretty awkward but that's how girlfriends dish.

  • @mya632
    @mya632 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Most people get married due to societal pressures.

    • @karaokecatlady
      @karaokecatlady 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mya Jones
      So true; & so sad. Also, many have unwanted kids for those same reasons.

  • @95741980
    @95741980 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s getting HER LIFE! More power to them. I hope they can CO-parent as they go through this and start to heal.

  • @skinnylegend2082
    @skinnylegend2082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    5:20 YOU are shady for those pics.

    • @Empressive
      @Empressive  7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I promise I wasn't being shady lol. Daily Mail took those pics. I just used them in this video to point out the fact that Wendy is going through it

    • @skinnylegend2082
      @skinnylegend2082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Empressive One thing's for sure though, judging from those pics. She ain't going WELL through it lmao

    • @candacematthews1987
      @candacematthews1987 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol.. that's what I said

    • @shariscott9538
      @shariscott9538 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Q W E E N 🤣🤣🤣

  • @imcharmed4evr
    @imcharmed4evr 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ur videos!!!! I don't usually hit the notification button, but.....ding.

  • @koolaid4315
    @koolaid4315 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your commentary was excellent presented. Thank you

  • @majormediaproductions
    @majormediaproductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Live your truth and shine in your light Tamar. Love you 💓

  • @TeeKnottyWigs
    @TeeKnottyWigs 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I️ can understand why she is leaving. Being married and my husband is the Primary breadwinner and try to keep me in his shadow. His friends is HIS friends and my friends are OUR friends. I feel Tay Tay 💯! She finally can walk please let her do what’s best for her and her son! That last 🤛🏾 PUNCH LINE “the last time WAS the last time!” Damn! Read between the lines! 💜💜 no one should have to go through the bs bc a “man” feels the need to CONTROL his Wife. 🙌🏾 Prayers for Tamar and Lil Logan!

  • @acmitchell89
    @acmitchell89 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with everything you said...hopefully these ladies will come out of the dark and into the light, find and live their truth and have true happiness...we all deserve it per God!

  • @yvonnewade8641
    @yvonnewade8641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I sort of figured that when the show was on. He is to much in her space, telling her what to do when to, yea that is not cool at all and very disrespectful. He would have been beat down along time ago. Tamar hat God has for you is for you. He bought you this far he I'll not leave you ever. I knew by her actions she was angry, her sister's should have been there as well as her dad, to assure her she had support. That's what family do. Drop that zero he is all about himself, you are a beautiful young lady, I love you Tamar. Walk with God sweetie.

  • @smartypantsify
    @smartypantsify 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for truth about this situation...

  • @deejay3690
    @deejay3690 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m super proud of Tamar! Happiness is yours and she is claiming it. Many more of us women need to take heed. God bless and good luck Tamar

  • @mhnbysheterrambeauty7784
    @mhnbysheterrambeauty7784 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm glad she's speaking her truth... She's a strong woman thank God, she found her worth... #teamtamar mm I'm convinced he's the reason behind her getting fired ...

  • @juliandstewart5660
    @juliandstewart5660 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's her truth. People saying she just needed to say "I don't want to be married anymore". It's not your decision it's hers. For a long time I viewed Tamar and Vince. I saw beyond her exterior. I'm good she got out. Wish them both the best.

  • @CandyTre1
    @CandyTre1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m very proud of Tamar. I wish her the fullest happiness in life.

  • @tajadavis
    @tajadavis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If she was to get out of his house 🏡 she'd still be making that coin 😇❤️ "Vince" needs to realize that he created an complete icon in the making that could make it on her own music wise.

  • @JJ-hn9lf
    @JJ-hn9lf 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Tamar, i truly know where you're coming from. I'm going through the same things and it's time to let him go. And set my self free from all his cheating, abuse and putting me out of my house. I'm done! Thank you Tamar, wishing you nothing but the Best. You deserve to be Happy. God Bless you and Your Handsome son. J.J Love 4 U Tamar!

  • @myss_understood
    @myss_understood 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @tamarbraxton...good for you Tamar. We only have this one life to live. Live it Loudly...and Boldly...and certainly Proudly! I understand exactly what you mean. I was married happily for 10.5 yrs. I learned that just bc you are happy doesn't mean that the other person is too. Also, you can live with your spouse for yrs & yrs and still not completely know them. At the end of the day the only thing that we can do is to try to make good choices and put God first. The rest will wrk its self out one way or another. I'm a fan for life. May God bless you & your family🙏👑💚

  • @gracepirationmotivations8233
    @gracepirationmotivations8233 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so sad and I feel bad for her, no woman should had to go thru this I'm just glad she got away. I'm glad is finally free and that's who she will be talking about on the album I definitely believe her

  • @imalover4011
    @imalover4011 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone who expects to be "loved" is only being" tolerate". The attachment is a feasible emotion. Selfishness, egos, insecurity, pride ruins any acceptance.

  • @moriahaddison
    @moriahaddison 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I believe it. I don't think any of this is for publicity.

  • @ispy368
    @ispy368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She called him Ike Turner for a reason on the show...no women do that for nothing....Vince fit the profile of an abuser.....Something was off with Vince... he was too jealous if Tamar.... Nobody is doing this for TV ratings...nooo we saw this coming for awhile now....it took longer than l thought!

  • @milanimama
    @milanimama 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first thought when you said Wendy didn’t want Tamar coming on to her showwas def “it’s because it hits home for her”. I believe that. Sad, but I’m happy Tamar is finally living in her truth.

  • @kimberlynatasha7
    @kimberlynatasha7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kiddos to Tamar for taking a chance to speak her truth.

  • @FancyAlly
    @FancyAlly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm disappointed Wendy didn't let Tamar go on her show. I hope Wendy speaks the truth on her own marriage soon.

  • @LovettbalngoodsLLC
    @LovettbalngoodsLLC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But that's a part of THE PASSION in the Relationship. To build on and continue to build on a healthy relationship,is to WORK THROUGH THINGS... & This doesn't have nothing to do with Wendy!!! This is about Tamar and Vince.

  • @TheNaturallyComplex
    @TheNaturallyComplex 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marriage is a lot of work, and I can only imagine how it feels when you feel like you're the only one putting in that work. Recently her vibe has been very sad to me, so I hope that this will bring some happiness back into her life as she gets to know herself again. It can be so easy to lose yourself in your marriage, so I hope she finds the happiness she deserves.

  • @GhEtToBaRbIe45888
    @GhEtToBaRbIe45888 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Tarmar is also talking about Lonnie Love from The Real as being one of Vince "girlfriends". Lonnie would always says something flirtatious and Tamar would check her all the time. As a married woman I don't play about my man either...