"Masculinity" Has Gone Too Far
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Sooo what I’ve learned today is that everything is gay, no one is straight, and everyone except the rock is weak.
Um no u can be straight and not toxic
@@souldemon5491 he's being sarcastic
@@lucidfangirl1030 ohhhh thanks for telling me
@@souldemon5491 thank you for not being toxic 💜
@@ifeoluwaa.4039 Um Yw and im confused
as a male i couldn’t agree more with all of the stuff you mentioned, i hate masculine societal norms and the constant pressure to never appear feminine or gay, what if i am, what’s the problem with that, why is it so horrendous if seen in such a way. i could go on and on about why i wish being a male sometimes wasn’t so hard, however, PLEASE note i am not at all trying to degrade how bad women have it. why can’t we all just use our minds.
Okay always be a loser. We don't CARE
I’m so happy to see you today
"A grown man craving crab legs is gay"
Maryland men: Allow us to introduce ourselves
Doesn’t-like Maryland have the highest rate of homosexuality in America…
Hold on. Maybe he’s onto something 💀 /J
Me a transgender male who has to deal with a lotta toxic masculinity:
Ah, yes. Finally some quality content
You have my full support!
fuck me, I heard BMS i think BDSM at 9:00 and thought waaaaaait a second, that does not lay in context!
I almost choked to death laughing at the dude saying, “Time for a smoke.”
at the end of the one around 2:00 in. Oh…my guy, I’m sure no woman wants to share your giant lonely bed. Don’t fall off the balcony! 😂
we need to call hilary duff to solve this homophobia
My dad will eat salads.
Clearly he’s a Russian spy.
I love how when emily said you can be gay and masculine I immediately said or you can be feminine
The nature documentary impression was actually so good tho what
Off topic but love those twice & blackpink posters at the back
"Imagine being a full grown man and being excited by cooking"
*Cuts to Gordon Ramsay hiring a hitman*
I was so confused by that one. Like dude, do you just not like good food???
@@timoh2248 He just eats cold hot dogs with ketchup all day.
M a tomboy and a laid back girl but like....do you guys not enjoy cooking some noodles for yourself on a Saturday evening? It's not even related
@@timoh2248 he eats W A R A N D C O N Q U E S T
Bold of you to assume that Gordon Ramsay wouldn't kill them himself
My brother in law is a contractor. He uses pink tools to keep the other guys from steeling from him. I laughed so hard the first time he told me that.
Haha using toxic masculinity to his advantage 🤣
That's genius
Genius!!
Your brother sounds like such a cool and funny guy!
and when the world needed her most, she returned.
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@@reyflp what 😭😭😭
@@squeenlet1236 its a quote from avatar the last airbender
i ruined your 555 likes
100 years passed and my brother and i discovered the new channel a youtuber named emily
this isnt even toxic masculinity its literally radioactive
lol
Lmao 💀
LMFAOOO
Yeah
LMAO
The creator of the whole “alpha-beta-omega” concept is a biologist, he wrote a book about it in the 70s. Then in the 90s he took back everything he said, because he had continued to study wolves and discovered that this theory was far too binary to categorise wolves, let alone humans.
Haha yeah turns out the “alpha” was just a father and the “betas” were the kids…..
@@SpiceIntolerance and alpha is also mothers.
isn't the omega part a porn thing? I'm pretty sure the original alpha beta wolf thing didn't have omega or i might be talking out of my ass
@@amberhide04 not specifically porn but yeah it's the omegaverse it's a fandom thing
@@enderthebattery4812 yeah sorry for the mistake, I'm not really too knowledgeable about it, just heard about it here and there
i hate how everything associated with women or femininity is ridiculed. Emotions, makeup, flamboyance
EXACTLY! Literally everything that we associate with boys and girls was pretty much the opposite long ago. It's just stupid they categorize all these things that shouldn't be, makeup, cooking, clothing, furniture and even freaking deodorant. Just be whoever you want! Who cares!? It's not important.
deadass
I like that word “flamboyance”
Yeah and even nowadays we tend to value women who are more masculine and we don't want our daughters to be "girly"
@@rsarin18 well if I ever have a family and I have a daughter I don't want her to be a girly "ew it's a mouse" and "hunting is bad" snowflake
And the fact that women are deemed as “more emotional”, but really, men are just ridiculed for showing emotion, its really sad.
Dang that’s true 😧
@@terifilona1 yeah it is, but it doesn’t mean men need to be cold stone statues
@@terifilona1 😂🤣no its not, men are just brought up in a way so that they don't express emotions. These scientific surveys just mean gathering people and observing so obiviously they will show such results. Humans r emotional beings there is not gender bias 😑😶
@@capricorn5428 I don’t think it’s from a survey. women are naturally nurturing and emotional. However men are mocked for showing emotions so it’s deemed that they aren’t emotional and women are the only emotional ones.
@@terifilona1 yea sorry for that but I don't think science has proven women to be more emotional either, its more of like a norm that we created and one that needs change
if a man’s diet isn’t nothing but raw meat from animals he killed with his bare hands i don’t want him 🙄🤚
Remember ladies, if he eats a vegetable hes gay 😳
Don't forget, he's got to smell like rotting meat and sweat. And scowl all the time.
Oh girl..ur standards are way too low...if he ain't hunting down the animal whose raw meat he's gonna eat by himself....ughhh it's a no for me
Do rats count?
Girlllll, set ur standards
I'll only date someone who can take down a dinosaur all by himself on one foot
Oh and how you get called "girly" or simply a girl when you're not as toxic as the other guys around you. Like being a girl is bad thing wtf! Girls are heckin cool
Because guys who are attracted to women think being a woman is a bad thing.
my brother got called a girl for cleaning up his room💀
Proof a: me, I'm cool
(I can literally hear my friends shaking their heads booing lol)
@@akashkhan4655 because girls clean their room? Lol, maybe they'll call me a guy when they see my room.
Wait no, according to them, I guess cooking and pink clothes is feminine. So when i do those, they'll call me a girl.
Make it make sense.
@@haterscankindlygochoke9185 yea im afab and used to have a bit messy room and they always said shit like "i'd understand if u were a guy but girls are supposed to like cleaning their rooms" or some bs lmao
“and some feminine people like women” ✌️
Love the pfp
@@zeo334 thanks!
she speaks the truth.
😉✌
its true ;)
"A man who fears being seen as feminine- is a man who fears being treated the way he treats women."
-Farida D.
edit: i posted this when i was 15. some mistakes were made. this quote touches on only some aspects of men being feminine and completely ignores that society, in general, sucks. it ridicules men for wanted feminine things beyond what makes sense. this quote focuses only on the "girlish things are inferior thus if i do them, im inferior" people. i was completely unaware of a lot of aspects of, well, life. i came out of the closet a while back and soon realized so much more about people trying to be themselves. i apologize if this hurt someone, thank you to everyone who rebuttled me and called me dumb and on drugs in the replies. im a better person thanks to you now.
In other words, he thinks he's a teen runaway prostitute in a maximum-security prison!
I definitely agree with this but I treat the women around me with the utmost respect I value my mom sister and girlfriend so much. Yet I still fear being myself Bc I’m too feminine and people don’t treat me so nice sometimes. So I guess there’s exceptions.
@@fernandopineda5503 See, what you're saying is not being accepted as feminine. This talks about guys who are like "nailpaint, ew no, im not a girl" or even "salad? such a girly thing to order" This is about the men who degrade femininity, say that its bad. The reason why you aren't able to express yourself is I think acceptance, which, these men have set a standard that men can't do certain things.
@فهيم يوشأ well not really. i identify as a woman and im very attracted to feminine men.
Yeah, it couldn't be that he'll be mocked by women and beat up by men, any man who doesn't want to be seen as girly is CLEARLY a misogynist.
Ah, yes, my menstruation cramp is now gone. All hail, not even emily!
Omg same lol we suffer
Yeah! No one has period cramps now! Not even emily!
Yo be happy that you still get your period I haven't gotten my in 2 months and I'm kinda worried ngl
Her powers are endless🙏✨💅✌️
Ah gosh mine is still here rip
The best insult I've ever heard "I just know he hasn't washed his sheets in months"
Thats me...
@@alexterieur8813 wash ur fucking sheets (and pillow cases)
@@mariafausti3128 pillow cases im good its just i hate to ge the sheets on and off 😅
@a moron well, your sheets can slowly accrue dead skin cells, bacteria, dirt, and sweat. Plus if you drool, some of that will stick around. Even though nothing seems to actively stink, there are a lot of things can be in your sheets that you don’t want to be rolling in for 7-8 hours.
A lot of men are absent-minded about that. It's hard to remember details like when you last changed your sheets!
“A man who isn’t dangerous is just another form of a female.” Excuse me bestie. Have you never heard about female serial killers?
Tell that to MLK and Gandhi! Both were players with mustaches!
This guy obviously hasn’t heard of “Gone Girl”
He doesn't know that girls can level with him... by having a gun.
There are femaIe kiIIers
And the sky is bIue
That shouIdn’t even be debatabIe!
Honestly, confidence is more attractive than masculinity. (Not saying that masculinity isn't attractive, but IMO there's nothing more cool than someone who knows what they like and owns that)
I wish people would realize the chest beating *DOES NOT EQUAL* masculine alpha.
I swear my phone hates me.
So true being outside of the norm just makes you seem really confident and sure of yourself. Many people find that to be attractive.
agreed.
what even is masculinity
@@eleonora1 When you try to be as far away from being like a woman because you look down on women so much that you even dislike men who are feminine. Truly sad. If people (men) stopped seeing everything feminine as bad we would probably have a lot less sexism and homophobia.
The way you winked and made a peace sign when you said "you can be feminine and still liked women" I just love it
My lesbian heart exploded right there.
Damn.I’m you’re 101th like
@@FalscheHoffnungen Ditto.
@@FalscheHoffnungen same.
Let's go lesbians let's go
apparently being manly means being miserable and alone and unhygienic and not even able to enjoy your own bday. and you have to gorge yourself at restaurants and lift weights constantly
this is just sad
True but finishing your plate is good manners
@@apollo5063 takeout boxes
@@apollo5063depends on your culture. In some cultures it’s polite to leave some
@tiawykes7312
I'm not saying no, but what cultures? I'm genuinely curious, I'm not sure I've heard of cultures leaving food to be polite?
I know my mom told me about a Japanese thing with chopsticks that when you stick them up in your food it's "food for the dead" or something? Been many years since she said that. I don't know if she made it up 😅
@@JunieBug china for sure. I’m not sure what others
I've noticed a really weird thing sometimes: Just simply treating women as if they were intelligent human beings seems to be most effective in making female friends. I know it seems odd. But maybe if more guys would experiment with this, we could see if it works as a general rule or if it's just an aberration.
Wow this is quite interesting i will have to test this out myself I will obviously do this under scientific observation and follow the correct experimental conditions to keep this fair. Thank you I will be back with my findings soon..
@luh.breezyyy Stop typing deadman
L M A O
Are you stupid? You have to treat someone respectfully in order to make friends..
@@animationsforfun0 Don't worry 😂 pretty sure it was a sarcastic statement, something like "wow you can actually BEFRIEND women if you treat them like ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS! 😱"
what's weird to me is that some people say all gay men are feminine, but then in a stereotypical mlm relationship one of the guys is always masculine
so like, huh?
I think that's because those stereotypical mlm relationship are always just a carbon copy of straight relationship with sexist dynamics, like one acts like a stereotypical woman (short, feminine, weak, always submissive) and the other one like a stereotypical man (tall, strong, dominant). Those stereotypes are also always perpetuated by straight women that fetishize gay relationships
@@latex_suit3805 yes ik, but it's so contradicting
Yeah, people are correlating attraction to men to womanhood, but they also try to make every relationship straight so "one of them is the man in the relationship". It has confused me since I was little, it makes NO sense.
Exactly
@@m_milos OMG yes! I remember one time when I was a kid my mom asked a gay couple "so, who's the man and who's the woman?" and I was so confused (so was the couple lol). I was like "Mom... they're both men." but she asked again!! Several years later I found out she was really asking who was top and who was bottom, which is so gross to ask someone and was literally none of her business.
People who complain about "cooks being nerds" are the same people who will throw a temper tantrum over the extra grain of salt on their manly burger
As a guy who has been bullied all my life by other guys abt “being gay” or “doing gay stuff” I really don’t understand why other guys have this mindset like I’m just trying to live here lol
Honestly, as a girl I always tend to like more men who are said to be “”gay””, than the ones who claim to be so fucking masculine, to be exact, I like “feminine” man…
That really sucks, I hope you're doing better.
@@twiggledowntown3564 ty ❤️
Especially when these guys have all kinds of wrong ideas about gay guys, lol! They're like other guys, except for screwing, dating, and marrying other guys, lol!
@@westonpaskewich7 I was going to ask, was most of this during junior high or high school. I can definitely relate to not wanting to be draw to much attention to myself, because of how guys would react.
“Not even Emily tweeting about k pop girls” has gone way too far
you may have a point there 😔
@@notevenemily IT’S NEVER TOO FAR
honestly, I am so attracted to men who actually take care of themselves well and dress really nice. why are people putting them down wth
yessssss im gay thoughhh and cleannnn
The losers putting down men who actually take care of themselves are insecure and jealous/envious.
FRRRR
truee
that's always been why it's toxic masculinity. insecure people putting down others to feed their alpha male big dog andrew tate dickrider ego
Toxic masculinity is also why many men suffering from mental health issues and suicides. Men are discouraged from asking for helps because it is deemed "weak".
It's also a huge problem that men don't get taken seriously - there was a news article lately that 70-80% of male suicide victims actually did seek profession help beforehand.
Male r*pe is untreated because both men and women generally don’t believe intangible coercion can exist.
@@Diego-gg1rc you didn't hit puberty yet. chances are that you are going to have that voice when you are 16 as well, HA HA HA 😂 but seriously, calm down. you are 13, a literal kid. puberty hits 14-15. even if mentally you feel like a teen and you started to look at girls, your actual body will start around 14-15. that's when you will get to be disgusting.
anyway. a good way to speed up the process, is to think about girls, and play some sports. i suggest you start playing badminton, just to spite your father, ha ha ha. it's a nice social sport and it's actually a sport that makes you develop a beautiful harmonious body.
and REJOICE ! it means you'll actually live longer. and what ever you do, don't let this influence you into becoming a scumbag. one of those people who are frustrated and get mad about everything. just... chill dude, chill. and study Jesus too, like... see what He did and what He said and all that. it's a pretty cool thing to read on the side.
also, you just need to suck it up and be a man, this is life. what!? do you expect everyone to be nice to you just because ? learn to have some dam patience will you? things will come, just... stop being such a crybaby about it.
@@TehKaiser no, male roape is not real. unless it's done by another male. you can't just have intercourse with a woman, and come, and then claim it was rrrrr. that is just stupid.
but yes, males are sexually abused by other males, that is correct. for ex : in south america, male on male rroaape is co common, that's it's just a given fact. it's... gruesome.
@@Diego-gg1rc dude firstly u are 13 n the friends u will have now are rarely gonna be ur friends in afew years so try to make "friends" that actually care about u
dont care about having more friends cause as of my experience less friends is better a lotttt
u dont wanna speak to boys or girls or anyone its ok! its ur choice dont be pressurized to talk to someone u are free in this world to be how u are! but yes if u feel u need to talk go n just talk to someone or some friend u feel good to talk to or join some groups over social media where they dont shame u over who u are (this helps way more than u can imagine )
n about voice dont worry theirs no where written if u are a boy have a sweet voice is sin . im a girl n my voice is pretty masculine n i dont care anymore cause its how my body is! accept urself for how u are n be proud of u ok!!
lots of love n support to u ! have a nice time ahead!
When you said that men are capable of having complex thought, the only thing my monkey brain could think of was "not all men" and I can''t stop laughing at that
So true
💀💀
Why do I relate to you so much, lol
I read this in a valley girl accent and it made it SO MUCH better.
You aren't wrong
“No. I won’t help raise my child, I’m too masculine.”
That's basically how my dad thinks (with certain tasks, anyway). Once I told him that I never wanted to ever change a baby's diaper, so I hope I never have kids. And he said that would be my (future) wife's job and that I would still never have to change any diapers. Lol, as if I could ever find a woman who would agree to that! Apparently he never changed my diaper when I was a baby, and let my mom and older brother (who is only 10 years older than me) change all of my diapers instead.
@@MatthewTheWanderer so masculine of him to just leave all the work to a litteral ten yro
@@slimesp1der Lol, I know, right!
I hate that these people are "oh a guy does x that's not a guy that's a girl." but when an actual like trans girl is doing her best to pass and be accepted they call it "just a guy in a skirt." fucking pick a battle???
also dont be transphobic thats gross
fr like if a cis guy wears a skirt he's suddenly a girl so they admit that gender is a matter of expression but as soon as they apply that to someone who is transfem its back to biOLogY and ChROMoSoMeS and shit. like stfu clothes dont even have gender 😩
@@mariafausti3128 "born a male always a male" until if a biological cismale wears a dress, he's no longer a man... he's "a woman"...what is this logic?
omg ikr... i showed my dad a video and it had a guy in it who was wearing a pink hoodie and had shoulder length hair and every single time they showed him in the video, my dad would say "that's a girl", it was so annoying. i stopped showing him stuff after that, he always does this when he sees men who aren't "manly" enough for him. but of course he's a transphobe because "wearing pink or a skirt or having long hair can't change your gender" 🙄
@@suzumutsu ugh same here with my dad
Pls my dad literally criticized a male singer for singing a high note because it was "too girly" and "men shouldn't sing like that"💀 Toxic masculinity at its finest😭
FELLAS IS IT GAY TO SING???? 😭😭
Plss😭😭😭😭
Guys with natural high singing voices: 🧍♀️
Damn, don’t let him hear Alec Benjamin (is it gay to sing??)
That's not even toxic anymore it's straight up radioactive
to every male: please. shower. smell nice. (no, axe deodorant doesn't count it smells like a radioactive swamp) dress how you like. smelling nasty and looking bad isn't manly, its gross.
Don't just dress for comfort either. Wear what you think looks GOOD on you. Comfort and fashion aren't enemies, men.
I wish I could tell my classmates this 😭
The secondary 2 at my school STINKS, I bumped into one of them once and almost threw up...
What are you all going to do when society collapses and soap is a rarity, showers are not an every day thing? I'll be just fine. I practice good hygiene but if I have to be gross and dirty that's ok with me I was in the military.
Butt axe deodorant smells nice
Ngl I like the smell xD
As a masculine bi guy who prefers guys, I hate that stupid trope where non-straight men can only act in super feminine flamboyancy or else they aren't gay. It makes me so irrationally angry.
Also I saw a tweet where a girl said that the guy she went out with is gay because he ate HUMMUS... HUMMUS. Like what? lmao. I guess all my male family members are gay then since we eat hummus in our culture.
T that's dumb
I love cactus juice
Now you know where you got your attraction towards men from, it runs in the family. (sorry 😭)
@@nakamotorskrskrvroom8038 This is pretty funny haha
I ate hummus once guess that's why I'm into guys.
To be honest, I find my masculinity in Femininity, I don’t care about being masculine, I wear Eyeliner because it helps me express myself, and I’m bisexual, middle finger to Society 🥸✌🏼
More power to you
Emily trying to conceal her laughter talking about hiking up Brokeback Mountain
I would have given that movie a "happy ending" in every sense of the word, lol!
@@darlalathan6143 happy ending? You mean gay ending perhaps?
As the Greeks said, ‘nothing is manlier than two men in a relationship!’
The ancient ones. Most of today's Greek men are INCREDIBLY homophobic 😪
And they were right
😂The men of Aurelius’ generation.
I took my man out for a birthday lunch. Was I inadvertently asserting my dominance as the alpha in the relationship or was I just showing my appreciation for my man..the world may never know..
ayo, if a woman dosent like you, she can stop the whole family tree
oop-
yeah it’s not like my brother is getting married so like i could easily end your bloodline in a second
@@daylight137 he don’t need to get married to have a child 👶
Well she is not the only women in the world so
@@JIN-fn9gi i know but im just saying lol
I think "masculinity is a prison" is true in the same way being forced to be any one way is a prison. Finding the right balance between the other energies, "modes of being", expressions is where it's at!
Exactly!! Masculinity is a prison because 'true masculinity' forced you into not being able to be anything but masculine.
Yeah, masculinity isn’t inherently bad, but being considered weak if you don’t adhere to strict social rules is. You shouldn’t have to ‘prove’ you’re a man if that is how you identify.
Femininity can definitely be a prison as well, depending on the culture you're living in.
11:29
I find it funny that this person is calling guys who wear masks and harass others are cowards as they sit behind a computer screen and harass them as if that isn't the most cowardly thing to do.
Lmao- i want to use this logic to them but they'll probably just gonna troll me instead
How do the straight men know what's "gay" and what's not? Kinda fruity to me-
Bcuz it’s shit we wouldn’t do
@@juanzavala9023 sus
@@juanzavala9023 sure jan
@@juanzavala9023 sure, sure sussy
It's sus when their pp goes hard.
If I ever meet a man like this, I'm running for the hills.
Why do you have an alpha male as a pfp
@@poffydaisy5134 the only alpha I’ll accept 😔🤚
Honestly same
@@poffydaisy5134
Clever one, Daisy
I'm running for a wine Vinyard in Greece with my future partner
Word of advice, i had that problem where i felt that im not fully a man, i doubted myself for a long time. And i probably had it way harder because I'm from a third world arab country, so excessive masculinity is a must here. That's why everywhere i went i kept seeing men acting strong, using strong language, treating women like objects because it somehow makes you manlier i think... i can never understand them but anyways. There was no escape, at some point i had to feel like garbage and i ended hating myself and seeing myself less and less of a man. But guess what, two years ago in the beach where everyone loves to show off how masculine they are, a girl drowned, and every "man" kept watching. I didn't hesitate one bit and went instantly to help her (I'm not bragging or anything) it all worked out and after i brought her back to the shore lifeguards came and took care of her. The problem is that i drank too much water trying to help her because she basically kept trying to climb on me since she was in extreme panic, so right after i brought her back to safety i started throwing up and shortly after i passed out. And then something great happened, i kept hearing stuff in the ambulance, it was the medic telling to hang tight and that I'm a real man. Ofc i didn't care at that time but i kept thinking about it afterwards... i am definitely a real man and i don't care what these people think of me. These people are so insecure and they can't stop hiding behind their masculinity, i got nothing to hide from and if anyone has a problem with it they can come and tell me everything in my face... you are who you are, be true to yourself even if it's a hard thing to do. It's better than pretending to be someone else forever.
That sounds pretty gay, bro.
Just kidding. Good job saving that girl from drowning. It must seem fucked to be surrounded with all these "manly men" only to realize that none of them have any courage when shit hits the fan. The façade crumbles and all you see are a pack of helpless boys.
good on you dude!! you're 10 times the man these people she's talking about in the video are
@@koiifsh Thanks for your kindness 🙏
Emily always introduces me to corners of the internet I didn't know existed, haha.
Personally I am a straight male that apparently gives off some quite feminine vibes and people I am or get close with often ask me whether I am gay. To be honest I don't really care and it doesn't bother me at all, all I know is that I am way happier with my life and myself since I started living who I really am and not worrying about the image that others get of me. Thank you as always for the content. I could find myself in a lot of things you talked about this time!
I am straight too, but I like lots of things like puppies and rabbits and it is okay to show emotions and have empathy.
Go for it!! We need more people like you!!
@@johnmckenna5782 Who could resist animals 🤧💗
"feminine vibes"
yes, i too sometimes save part of a meal.
I know a few guys like that, myself! They're all Goth vampire kings, lol!
The second post seems like a guy that uses excuse that he's too good for a lower being (woman) to be beside him when someone asks him why he doesn't have a girlfriend
Exactly when he know he can't pull nobody
that's not masculinity(like the video claims) that's sexism, there is a big difference between being a man and being a dumb ass.
sounds like my boy Hardrocknick
@@kenzahcarstairs5417 he was the first person that I thought of lol
@@kachca you must be a Danny/Drew fan then!
As a man, I have to agree, there's so many immature men out there thinking they are "alpha". It's funny and sad at the same time.
some people just don't understand that the whole "dominant/dominance" and "submissive/submition" thing only counts only for sex, not every moment you spend with that person?
it's so weird when people base their whole personality and relationship over that
Yess that would be so toxic for the submissive person I believe.
Lol and do you really think that does not dictate how things work, in relationships? Nature teaches, every time. You can escape as much as you want, eventually it'll catch you
@@Eliras24 It can't catch us if we can escape as much as we want :D
@@Cecil... exactly LOL
@@Eliras24 Alphas do not exist in humans. There are no dominant or submissive people, just normal humans that react to different situations in different ways. Dont act like its based in science or nature when its not.
Emily is the only channel where I don't skip the sponsorships lol
SAME SHES LIKE THE ONLY TH-camR WHO ACTUALLY MAKES THE SPONSORSHIPS ENTERTAINING
Unpopular opinion but I'm too lazy to skip sponsorship anywhere lol
Nah I wished I could skip
Same but I still don't understand why I do that
N the fact that she makes em so smooth
"Are you saying that women can't be dangerous? I will hit you with my car right now" is such a good line
Society's view of 'masculinity' is the absolute worst, I'm so sad that a lot of men get pressured for their taste, style, job, hobbies, body and even hair length and hygiene! Like what?!-
As a Man i am just constantly cringing at people of my own gender
Me too lmao! I really cringe when I see straight guys being called gay for extremely mundane things like wearing the color pink. Like, seriously??? The only thing that makes a man gay is if he's attracted to other men, trust me I'd know 😉
Same
@@timoh2248 😳😳😳
As a woman, I cringe at my gender too sometimes 😔😂
It'll get better don't worry
same tbh
As a guy I give off gay vibes because I have a lot of friends that are girls. Like ik I'm 100% straight, so why is that so hard to grasp for others lmao?💀
Maybe people are mad because you, unlike them, are closer to the girls. So you got more chances of getting one or more.
Real there’s always at least one straight guy in the pack of girls. My friend group is basically lesbians and that one straight boy who actually gives us hope for the male gender as a whole.
I see this alot in the anime community as well. If I hear one more person complain about deku crying I'm gonna lose my mind.
😭 i love deku…
They used to do the same shit to Shinji from Evangelion a lot too.
I think it's because sometimes it gets really annoying , I don't mind deku crying , it's just that he does it so much that it makes my ears hurt, like how shoujo charaters always have the clumsy crybaby main character (nothing really wrong with that) but they overdue it, to the point of it becoming annoying . There are sometimes I actually enjoy this type of character ,But this is probably just me
@@Eeok considering the shit Deku has gone through and is still going through, he has a REALLY good reason for it tbh
PLS I LOVE HIM SM HE'S SO PRECIOUSSS😭😭
I don't even understand why labels like "Masculine" and "Feminine" exist.
Mmm
I don't think the problem is with the label. I think it's the stereotypes attached to them
But then again, if we agreed in it we wouldn't need those labels anyway
whoever created those labels need to get their ass staked
No honestly its not the probelm of the word but the way its used and the things idiotic people associate with it. idk if you get me, like its a important defining word for idk like studies or history and all that all that. But as a label, it should be buried.
Exactly. How is doing something or liking something or behaving/talking in a certain way associated with your reproductive organs? That's the most pointless human made concept ever. This shit is one of the reasons why I want Kim Jong Un to act on his words and nuke the world.
I prefer thinking of masculine and feminine as ways to compare and conceptualize different ways of being within a particular personal and cultural construct that anyone can do regardless of gender and sexuality. Like anyone can have both masculine and feminine qualities or prefer one type of expression more than another, but also I don't think any of it is inherent, I think it's mostly based in how people relate to their cultural upbringing and personal experiences and relationships even if there's often some overlap between people. and I think the labels should be viewed as neutral things. Like I tend to prefer more "feminine" clothing and expression, but also I think it's important for me to understand that the concept of feminine isn't actually real or inherent, even if I personally take some empowerment in it as a woman. It's affirming to me, but since it isn't inherent, there isn't any point expecting other people to relate to femininity the same way I do. Cuz that just isn't reality. I think labels are fine, even good, as long as people can recognize that they'll be affirming for some people and not for others and everyone is going to engage with them different because humans are really complex.
When i was a child, i used to hang out with 2 girls and one day my mother called one neighbour boy (who was just arrived as guest) and told him to talk to me about how being a boy and spending less time with boys is bad and how i should stop spending time with those girls and to start playing cricket instead..and be a man.
are you... perhaps indian??
@@user-ri7wz7rveus4r yes i am...!
@@unknownperson-mk1ei knew it
I hope these men realize that it’s okay to be vulnerable and have insecurities. We are human not perfect.
speak for yourself, the only imperfection I have is that my skin isn't the same strength as steel. Which we shall one day hope to fix with a steel-skin replacement
@@christopherreichle6670 you have changed my way of thinking, thank you random internet person ❤️ I wish and hope the best for you in this life
Respect is what most men value above all else, showing weakness is not a good way to gain respect.
@@laststand6420 lol
@@laststand6420 It's always the ones with the templar pfps 🤓
Meanwhile, I'd love to find a guy who is mindful of the earth, can cook, doesn't live in the gym, likes women and animals (even rabbits), doesn't start fights wherever he goes, and doesn't make a habit of pooping his pants.
“(even rabbits)” Yeah there is definitely a story we don’t know about.
@@seanadultperson4337 I just mention rabbits because one of the guys she quoted claimed that liking rabbits makes a guy gay. Ridiculous.
Sounds like my ideal man ❤
Sounds like the man of my dreams.
And this is when we notice the bar for men is so low it is underground
13:11 when they realized boobs werent considered sexy a couple centuries ago then what
"RABBITS ARE GAY ANIMALS" i cant 😂
-voiced by morgan freeman
@@ashleyredsheep 😆
They're not all like Bugs Bunny, lol!
No but it's true tho. In China, it's used as a symbol for homosexuality.
Not Even Emily invented equality
She also co-wrote Harry Potter with Hatsune Miku
And invented the internet with her colleague Beyonce
Its so ironic that some people (mostly men from my experience) bring out men's mental health and abuse faced by men ONLY when a women is talking about women's issues but those same people will call other men weak or "a women" if they show any emotions and even go to the extent of saying stuff like they enjoyed the harrasment because they are men.
"u can be feminine and still like women" *poses at the camera*
Y was that so humorous
“Big alpha male” *gets flashbacks to Wattpad fanfics*
Damn right there!
I WAS THINKING THAT EXCEPT QUOTEV
*flashbacks to 2018 gacha videos*
EW I used to be sooo creeped out by those. just disgusting & cringe.
I now want to hear Emily narrate a wildlife documentary in her Australian narrator voice. 😂
She does a sexy Australian accent, lol!
Men really be out here talking down on women as if they ain't on this earth BEACAUSE OF A WOMAN!!
Like do they just be forgetting they got a mom or sum?
RIIGHTT😭😭 what would their mothers think of this behavior like😭 show some respect my god
Why is there some stereotype that men can't be emotional and that they have to be 'strong' and 'dominant'? Everyone is different, and everyone should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way they wish (as long as they're not harming others, duh). its annoying that these outdated opinions still exist.
Yeah, that's the whole concept of toxic masculinity. It's not just a group of people having the same opinion, it's a whole social construct
Exactly if a man doesn't wanna have sex he shouldn't be considered a "pussy" if a man can't or don't want to fight he should be considered"weak'' because people can be strong in many different ways besides physically
Because they look down on women so much that they even dislike guys who do feminine stuff.
Because it’s an Anglo construct regarding value on the attractiveness tier. In a Latin country, the emotionless man would be dumped.
@@molly702 not just that but how society treats men when they show vulnerability and tell them to grow up.
This reminds me of that time I saw a meme saying "girly therapy 😒😒😒 manly endurance 😎😎😎" or something like that I hope it was satire
Pretty sure it's satire from the emoji spam, but who knows?
Oh and fellas, is it gay to get help?
@@vins_69 there weren't any emojis it was just for me to set the mood
@@chikujoyt4506 Ok then yeah it's likely serious :,,)
Shit like that is exactly why so many men struggling with their mental health decide to stay silent and end their own lives. It's so disgusting that society has decided that men can't get help or talk about these issues without being seen as lesser or weak. Whoever made the original post is gross af.
This shit is why men kill themselves like twice as often as women do, really sad
The quotes that you have read definitely takes masculinity way too far. I must be gay af because I love crab legs, and I celebrate my birthday with a celebration dinner every year, and I love rabbits! I also try to express myself in every video you post. I hope you are doing well, Emily.
We need more people like you John
Keep living your life, king! Wishing you the best, and sending you good vibes!! 👑
👑👑👑
King
I like Rabbits too. you are fuzzy
"Chefs are worms"
Clearly they have not seen Remy in Ratatouille
"As a grown man, laying on your stomach is extremely homosexual"
Well that explains a lot about me, then...
As a transgender man I couldn't agree more with that title
You know you’ve been reading fanfics too much when the words alpha and beta immediately goes to omegaverse in your mind
oop 😶😳
same
Why can't people just be the good old fashioned kind of traditionally masculine, the gentlemanly, kind, and helpful one? I mean, that's how I was raised, as a man myself. There's a difference between being masculine and feminine and straight up misogyny/misandry people!
I completely agree. Additionally, I think people often forget that traditional men often wore flamboyant clothing with lots of makeup too
REAL!
9:36 if you see a guy eating a salad, he's a Russian spy.
I do want a manly guy but not one who is overly proud and sensitive in their masculinity and doesn't think pink is gay.
Yaaayy we can be friends
If u want
@@souldemon5491 sure mate.
@@Shades781 yaay got any form of social media if u don't mind me asking
@@souldemon5491 no, unless you got dotpict
if someone thinks a colour is "gay" then they are just stupid or a child.
15:18 this literally perpetuates that men SHOULD be aggressive to be considered "manly"🤨😐
It's sad we don't really know who men are, when they're just themselves and not trying to prove their masculinity. There are so many activities men avoid, and things men don't say outloud, because they don't want to lose their "man card".
Thats the truth. I must hide myself. I like my true self. But no1 will. I doubt its sexy to women my age. And if im in any male space they will view me as less than. And thus. I dont say some things. I feel ashamed to like to play music at times. I feel bad for liking certain things. And its really gotten me into a dark time. Ive been trying to get out of it. But i dont see an end
Its in that sometimes i wish i was a woman. Free to express what i want. Do masculine and feminine things. I know the downsides of veing a woman. But i feel like i would be less ignored and free to be authentic. Now im not trans as i do like my gender but i hate the burden that comes with it. If i was a woman for just a. Month. I feel like i would be a bit more happier.
Real men do what they want - as long as it doesn't harm people - and they'll kill anyone who has a problem with that (because now the harm is warranted.)
@@sungod1384 I hope you’re doing well. If you ever want someone to chat I am here. I definitely relate to every single word you just said and it’s definitely depressing.
"I like smelling fruity. Did you hear me?"
Taps camera
"I'm gay is what i'm trying to say."
3:50
As a man I have to say that men need to stop comparing themselves to women in sports. They are just as hardworking and skillful it’s dumb to downplay their talent and then blame it on biology. Have a respect man. Most of the issues in our world started because of men
Those alpha males on the internet need to touch some grass
They need to lie on their stomachs on the grass
Especially guys who aren’t cops but think brandishing a gun makes them a “real man” when actually the opposite is true
Exactly. A basic rule of gun safety is “never draw your gun unless you intend to shoot.” My grandpa always added, “Assume that shot will be fatal and think again.”
@@a.m.keller3241 There's this basic rule in Switzerland: always keep your gun unloaded, you'll avoid hurting people or yourself like a dumbass by just keeping your ammo in your bag/pockets
the real problem is I can't carry an axe around wherever I want. Or a knife.
I find it funny that the guys who subscribe to the "alpha-beta-omega-sigma" system are highly against homosexuality when there's a whole genre of gay erotica built around it.
8:11 dude i totally agree with Emily. As a woman, i think smelling good is one of the most attractive features a guy can have
It is soo frustrating as a straight man to be called gay and actually doubt your own sexuality just because you took more care of yourself in high school and were better dressed than the average boy while maybe acting a bit more feminine and being in touch with your emotions;-(
08:15 haha, yeah. Stupid guys who call you gay (as an insult) for the most stupid reasons. When I was in middle school I was often called gay for spending too much time with my female friends and being too friendly in general. Like wtf. But even our local lesbians thought I was gay xDDD
@The DisaStarWars it was kinda everyone xD like obviously the party-pooper-bad -guys but also some of my friends who thought I was gay without me knowing about it xD I knew most of them didn’t mean any harm but it got reaaaally tiresome.
When spending time with the opposite gender is gay.
6:42 did he just say he’ll take 5 guys..? 😳
😏😏😏😏😏 😐🛋(him)
As a man I'm honestly offended how many of these guys equate masculinity with being an absolute meathead.
Ima say it, but the reason men are ridiculed for being emotional, is because its "girly" to show emotions. Lets say that showing emotions is "girly" why would it be bad? Emotions have no sex or gender, but for some reason, its seen as girly?
This all stems from people who are dumb enough to think that women are always more emotional. That's why it's called girly, kinda sucks tbh
@@vins_69 For sure. It's kind of just saying "being a woman is bad". Being emotional isnt bad, and i wish people understood that its not bad to be "girly" either. I can only hope society keeps growing
@@coffeflavoured2445 Ditto, this stuff has been an ongoing problem for so long it ain't even funny at this point
because t0x1c masculinity.
Ngl it definitely comes down to peer pressure from friends, and ofc the bad dad role model growing upm even worse if you have no dather figure. Also cos it can feel awkward having serious convos with our close friends. Being 14, it sucks
@@dubiousdecline8286 😂
I dont think having no father figure has anything to do with it. Kids dont need that to be a well adjusted adult, they just need a stable household. Sometimes a father figure causes more problems being present than if they werent there at all, same goes for any parent.
It comes down to misogyny.
@@cadebowman4582 when people say "father figure" generally they mean a male role model. Children do need to see people of different backgrounds to know how to adjust their expectations of how these people should behave. If a little girl who grows up to be attracted to men has no basis on what a normal good man is it's harder to figure out on your own, and if she only sees negative examples she'll expect that as normal. The father figure doesn't have to be a member of your household, just someone you know and can look up to. They can be an uncle, family friend, teacher etc.
13:30 odd for him to say that when he also would probably say “women can’t be president they can’t lead” or something misogynistic when he himself just said men can’t think of anything but boobs and hips
If laying on your stomach makes you gay, that means you’d have to always be the bottom, so maybe this is secret feminism?
@The DisaStarWars *Disney channel theme*