I think bisexual white/Latin men are more prevalent and accepted but for some reason it’s scrutinized in black men. People constantly police black mens behavior. David Bowie was married to Iman for years And it was never a huge topic. So many other rock stars as well but let and R&b singer or rapper say he is bisexual and watch the fall out. Black men are fetishized with such hyper masculinity and sexuality that any degree of “softness” to that image is seen as a threat or distasteful. And that extends right down the spectrum you have to be all the way fem or completely hetero. So a bisexual male resting in the middle or towards the hetero Side causes major disruption in the phycology of others.
All that shit goes back to the history of slavery and how the bodies of black man were reduces down to problematic ideas coming from the white psyche. Black men were dehumanized in a way that many of us can't even begin to imagine. I've started to believe that what happened during chattel slavery its that the Black male body was placed into the same position that White people's proto-indo European ancestors once placed bovine's/horses.........Black men were to be either a Beast of Burden that's used to work the soil to produce crops & the physical embodiment of raw sexual masculine energy; a living phallic symbol.
i never knew...the way he dumbs himself down for TS Madison...i would have never known how articulate this man is...definitely motivational speaker vibes
In all honesty as a feminine gay man I prefer bisexual man. In my experience they were less critical of my femininity. In fact many of them really enjoyed that side of me
Exactly. I'm a bisexual woman with a masculine presenting lesbian girlfriend and I really enjoy her androgyny. And she prefers bisexual women for that reason.
I can agree with that. My boyfriend is bisexual and he loves both my masculine and feminine side. I've pretty much dated bisexual guys... It's like I naturally attract them. They say I give the best of both worlds. I was like oh ok lol
This guy was very intelligent and very articulate about his bisexuality. I loved it. As a gay man who has, for a very long time been sceptical of bisexual people, especially men, I am starting to appreciate these conversations so I can better understand bisexual people in general. 👌
Listen!!! I'm east coast. Real Sex was every Thursday at 11pm on HBO. And I loved MTV'S Undressed. Taxicab Confessions and Hookers at The Point! What a time to grow up in!
@@thoughtsandwords3029 lol i remember hookers on point lol that was when reality tv was real. There was no clout in being on the show it was just real people telling real Stories
There are a lot of us Women who are absolutely attracted to bisexual Men. And [at least amongst my girlfriends] we go hard for y’all in social settings and conversations. Trust.
Cannot tell you how many times I've had to defend black men's bisexuality. There are women who just want a good man that treats us right and has emotional intellect. His sexual orientation is the last thing on our minds lol
What David said at the end is so important for self-realization. Come out to yourself and accept yourself and fully love yourself. Once you get to that point, you wouldn't really be coming out to anyone else. It would be more like inviting others in to see who you are. It may take a while to get through that introspective phase, but everything becomes a lot more clear once you do.
A HETEROSEXUAL WOMAN WHO LIKES BISEXUAL MEN. I love that. I think she finds herself attracted to a kind of man who would be the kind of man who lives in a kindness and a kind of skin that would live his life bisexually. THIS IS AN EXQUISITE CONVERSATION. Evolution ALL AROUND!
For the ignorant people in the comments, being bisexual for a man is no different than a women being bisexual, just like a women can have sex and experiment with women then go fall in love with a man and have a loyal relationship family and life or vice versa, a man can do the same too, there's no need to say make sure you're honest about your "lifestyle" , it's not a life style, it's simply something that turns you on or you are open to if you are NOT already in love and in a happy relationship ... And let's be clear, ANY and everybody can cheat, cheating is not only secluded towards one gender or one class of people. And there's nothing to be confused about, it's simple, if you are bisexual you have the ability and the natural hormonal make up to be sexually turned on by BOTH genders, why do people make it so much more complicated when it's on the topic of men being bi-sexual, they just start making up and assuming sh*t, and it's annoying AF, it's like their trying to play stupid and force double standards.
I hear what you are saying. In my experience men who say they are bisexual want to date both the girl & I at the same time. ALL the time. I am yet to meet a guy, in real life, who does what you are describing.
@@sizakunene3056 I hear you too But in MY experience that wasn't always the case, there are plenty faithful men who can openly admit they find both genders attractive, finding something attractive doesn't automatically equal to cheating, and doesn't mean the women has to compete with other men either, cause there is no competition or thought in mind to compare the two, it's two different worlds of attractiveness and if you are truly committed and loyal to a person regardless, you are not gonna cheat, no matter what your sexuality is..... and when I originally made my comment I was mainly focused on letting ignorant people in the comments know that there "is" a such thing as men being sexually attracted to women and men BOTH and they should be called properly by what they are which is bisexual and some are even pansexual, meaning they are just attracted to people in general...... and also men are notorious for cheating regardless, but NOT every man is like that, just like not every women is faithful, there are plenty lustful women too who will sleep with other women, other men and other people's man!😄 Even if they are already in a relationship, I've seen it toooo many times, this is a big world, we have to look at it as a whole and not just what we see in our narrowly scoped lives... The TRUTH is the entire picture and ALLL the details of it..... Also both bisexual men and women have been around since forever, it's proven in history, and there are bisexual and gay animals in the animal kingdom, so I feel like whatever naturally occurs without effort is NORMAL to me and people should see that as common sense, and of course being straight is normal as well and important for creating life, (cause I know people will bring that up too)😄, ANY sexuality on the spectrum is normal.... it's just double standards, religion and dogmatic people in society try really hard to convince people otherwise ... And I don't condone cheating❌, if you love someone, be with them and only them and both parties should be able to be real about what they find attractive without the double standards, and my mind will NEVER change on that...... I know I mentioned things that you personally did not say, but I just wanted to address EVERYTHING allll in one to make it CLEAR how I feel about it ALLL.
@@realn.w.a554 I hear everything that you are saying. You are very fortunate to have met such bisexual men & women in real life. I wish I could. I would literally move to that country. 😄 Where I live, generally, & I am grossly over generalizing here, most people are promiscuous. Interestingly, I don't necessarily believe in imposing monogamy. I understand that monogamy doesn't come naturally to everyone either. I strongly believe in 'live and let live', but be honest & upfront about it. I like the idea of 1 person loving me & me loving that 1 person back, but what are we to do when people want to love more than 1 person at the same time. 🤷♂️ But I wouldn't say that monogamy is how things 'should' be, as you have said, but I understand that this is just your personal belief & you are not saying that's how it must be for everyone.
@@sizakunene3056 You still don't get it😄, one of the few things that gave it away was you saying it's "my" belief at the end of your comment, rather than looking at the factual & practical things I laid out verbosely in detail lol....but what we CAN agree on is we allll have our own experience and everybody is unique in the way we grasp the truth and how sexuality works, nobody's wrong, because we can only understand what we can, or sometimes only what we want to understand, thanks for commenting your perspective, I enjoy these kinds of topics💯
One of my favorite videos I've seen this entire year. Such an important conversation, and I really, really, really hope it can reach the youth in the Black community - gay or straight - man or woman or any other gender. Thanks Obio.
I'm Bisexual - and I had to hide it around my gay friends. I would get bash, or someone would try to convince me that I was Gay. You would hear words like your Gay, just admit it ex. I felt boxed-in my early 20s. I remember this one moment when someone Identified me as a trade or DL - which wasn’t the case, it was funny how they did that. I also remember someone saying to me that I thought I was lying to myself, and to add on to it - Since I don't use gay langos, this guy had a problem with it - he said I was gay, and it's part of the culture, stop trying not to fit. I had to laugh and when I told him I was BI he started to act different. This was years ago - I'm in my 30s now, hopefully things have change. It's almost like the LBT+ acronyms doesn't matter - but the G. That's why I never really did cared about identifying myself growing up - and I am grateful I did not, because if I did Lord knows my mental state would of killed me.
@Philly5641 I completely sympathize with you brother. Now, i have no problem identifying myself as a man who is sexually attracted to and who sex with men. "Gay" if that is what you want to call it. But as a slightly older brother, i really really am finding it difficult to identify with and support TODAY'S whole LgbTQ movement. It just seems like they are so into extremes and indentity politics and pronouns. But when you actually get around them and the cameras and phones are off, the connectedness and intimacy is absent. I don't care how much so called freedom and opennes there is now, i felt more connected to the community back in the 90s and early 2000s. We were more social and you felt the connectedness.
Respectful sir, your sexual preference is your business and yours alone. Those "friends" that made you feel like you had to hide whatever you identity as aren't your true friends. Kudos to you for being proud of who you are, and if others cannot understand where you are coming from. That's thier lose not yours. Be safe, and stay strong.✌🏿
@@dabigd1860 At times, what we older people see as political correctness is just respect. We were used to accepting how others chose to identify us and often just being disrespected without speaking up for ourselves. There absolutely was more of a community in the past, when you were forced to rely on each other. Same with the Black community as a whole.
I truly appreciated hearing and watching this informative exchange presented by these two very educated, erudite and gorgeous BROTHERS. I hope many young Black males... and other males as well...who are in pursuit of understanding their sexual orientation and desire, WATCH THIS VIDEO. PLEASE!
I can’t thank you enough for the vid, I just barely see any talks about bisexuality and it was so nice and refreshing to hear from another persons experience😭. I feel the constant pull of two agendas but this video has helped me realise that it’s all about being you and not having to abide by other peoples expectations. Again,Thanks for the vid❤️
This was very very good. As a bisexual 38 year old male who recently came out openly with my sexuality i totally agree with what was said. I have had relationships with both men and women and being honest is the best policy. I don't double dip if im dating one i wont mess around with the other. I tell people that im just a natural lover of people. I like what i like and thats it.
I totally agree what you are saying I also a bisexual man I also went with men and women and am farther I come out at seventeen to my family at first they take it so well but my family come to turn with it They told me will always love for who I am I know it was hard for you to come Tj but your family still love ❤️ you 😚❤️💋
I wish all bisexuals were like you, cause as I’ve said in another reply above, bisexuals can be so confusing, I think they should take it upon themselves to clear up our minds, more especially to their partners! But for me personally, I really doubt that I would be in a serious relationship with a bisexual guy, I don’t think that I’m well informed about bisexuality yet, hence I prefer not to try anything with them!
This video gets a 10/10! 👍👍Not only are these beautiful chocolate men a treat to look at, but more importantly they are intelligent too. This was a great, enlightening conversation!! 👏🏽👏🏽
As a Bi man coming more into my bisexuality in my 30's, I appreciate and resonate with this perspective so heavy! I came out as gay in my early 20's and later realized I just accepted a program of others' perspective of me and internalized it, feeling trapped before realizing this spectrum of our sexuality that allows me the freedom to be less defined and limited. I also feel heavy pressure around that topic of dealing with Women who may harbor some biphobia or resentments. So it's been a challenge connecting with alot of women at this time.
Thanks for sharing. As a hetero woman I've been attracted to men I "perceived" as bisexual but never even considered acting upon it. I don't think for me it's tied to resentment as much as it is already overwhelming being a black woman with restrictive beauty standards. I never liked dating because feeling compared to other women, or being objectified, led to feelings of inadequacy. Thus in my mind dealing with a bisexual man would bring double the pressure
I love bisexual men, but it's hard to find them for some strange reason. Most bi men on the down low and even if they know you accept it they still want to pretend to be straight around women. It's frustrating because I don't like straight men I really just want a bi man to date. I live In Atlanta, I dont think I want these bi men here anyway.
@@Spider7xx The ones I have met meet certain requirements I look for in a man, neat clean cut, smell good, like the metrosexuals. I am a certain way and I expect my man to be a certain way as well, but many straight men don't be caring and like to look rough...a lot of women like that rough look but not me I find myself to be more sexually compatible with them. I feel sexually free without feeling like a weirdo. I have an ass fetish...can't really have an ass fetish with a straight man. I like the dual nature. I love a masculine man that's in touch with his feminine side. I find it soooo sexy, and I am able to connect with them more. I love gay porn ....I prefer it. I am like a bisexual man in a woman's body 🤷🏽♀️
Very intelligent conversation. Beauty and Brains. They looked so damn good WTF. Always have loved David. Great job Obio. QUESTION: Could you introduce your guest or at least put their names or profile name somewhere. I typically watch on my smart TV so I don't usually see the description. Thanks!
I'm a bisexual brown guy. I'm Indian-American so I'm glad to be able to watch something like this. I'm often worried about how I any women I date or hook up with woul react to me telling me them that I'm bi even though I most women are accepting of that & given that many women are also bisexual nowadays
For me the trepidation is tied to beauty standards and constantly feeling compared to other women, so adding another gender in my mind would contribute to those pressures
This was an amazing conversation. I could even see some similarities in how the gay community views verse men like how people view bisexual men when it’s comes to dating history. Maybe that could be a conversation to be explored on the show? Can’t wait to see what we get next week.
he's very articulate about it. I've known many bi guys & it takes them along time to feel OK with it. There is always this understandable secrecy around their sexuality because people want to put you in a box. On top of it, he's a super hot man, surely both men & women approach him in droves He's an incredible guy. More power to you
Damn he brought the church into it to get himself to ultimately feel more comfortable even telling her just to lighten up the load. God said nope that’s not what I was telling you to do. The open and upfront a guy is the more I’m attracted to him. Don’t tell me stuff just ‘cause you think it’s what I want to hear NO what do I NEED to know about you to so we’re not building off a lie.
I really needed to see this today! I just had a conversation with a friend about how I identify and it’s changing but I’m still navigating what that means and this video really helped!!✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽 Always great and helpful content!!
Honesty is most important, responsible and respectful in terms of dealing with blk women. Give them the opportunity to walk away given the high risk factor within blk community. Too many cases and statistics are harmed and increased by hiding your attraction.
Another BANGER! Great job, Bro! I identify with the topic a great deal - even knowing what "Real Sex" is...LOL. Keep them coming. Your impact is making waves!
I hate when bein bisexual people think we just wanna b wit just anybody....I'm just attracted to anybody tht is beautiful in the inside n out....I'm attracted to Beyonce n aj Rodriguez from pose but if I dated one of em I'm loyal to tht specific person especially choosing the one tht treat me right ...idk how thts so confusin...
I just came across ur page and immediately I gave a one minute listening ear to it I liked it, I’m from west Africa Nigeria precisely and fancy when y’all are out spoken about stuffs like this cause damn down here u better not try it cause it’s illegal so basically living under a shell is just so hard but watching and seeing videos like this kinda gives a high hope to the future and what it holds for us here, so yea thank you. And u just got a new subscriber 🔥🔥🌈🌈
I'm very proud of David for clearing the air about his true identity as a bisexual man. What a great episode. As a proud gay man, it's time for all of us to be truthful about our truths of our sexualities and own it. Great job fellas. David is a cool guy.
Not done but already this is a great episode and conversation! Edit: After finishing there were so many gems in this episode. Thanks for having him on!
Glad you both came out of the closet. Being bi-sexual is your choice as long as you tell your female partner you are and not engage in secret undercover activities so she can make an informed decision. Some men are having both vagina and anal sex and spreading monkey pox and other diseases and the woman doesn't have a clue how she got it. Many woman who have sexual relationships with bi-sexual men and don't know it are putting themselves at unnecessary risks. Do your thing but act responsibly to protect yourself and others.
There's a man that I started dating but recently stopped. We became good friends but I know for a fact he is bisexual. I want to create a safe place for him to be able to talk to me about it. Should I say anything to him to open the door of conversation or should I just keep quiet?
Identifying as bisexual for some (not all), is a step towards accepting one's same sex attraction. Because of this some people have attacked anyone who identifies as bisexual. I say attacking someone who is not attacking you is more a commentary of one's own insecurity and on the low key a need to control and define someone else. I'm too busy defining, refining and re-finding myself to try and limit others. Love this conversation! This should be a mandatory watch for being HUMAN 101.
Hey Obio,this is my 1st introduction to ur channel & I actually enjoyed the structure of the conversation & how u allow the guests 2 really get their thoughts out while still asking the questions that I want answers to..This man is very articulate & honest man & I appreciated this interview.I am not a curious about my sexuality but I do want to learn about these topics in general to understand people from different perspectives..Peace & blessings to u & ur platforms & I am now a new subscriber ❤️👏🏾💯✌🏾
I don't understand why so many people especially people who are bi-sexual or gay turn to the church for so called healing. It really means you have a low opinion of yourself in the first place and are convinced that your feeling are wrong and you want someone to take them away. NO wonder you relationship with the woman did not work, you had not learned to love yourself. Chrisitanity in the black community is so hypcritical as are many religions. If you cannot see that you were very short sighted and not a very intelligent person. I am sorry. it just irks me to constanly hearing about people like yourself turning to an institution that in many ways has not learned to accept you as a human being. What is that all about.
I was brought up in the church and to it’s defense .. as a gay man you have to know the difference in worshipping God and His reality and the institution. Arguments can be in full affect when it comes to the existence of God etc. I’m over that.. I know He’s real. The issue is the hateful sermons and misinterpreted passages of scriptures to demonize LGBTQ people. Gay people who are now non practicing also join in. There are lgbtq people who are serious about their faith. The church sings their songs and they are busy building up the congregants. They love themselves , but had to learn that your faith is personal journey and not based off of what someone else says. I don’t have to be accepted. I don’t go to worship for that. I go because I’m convinced that the God I worship is worth it and more
I knew this was gonna be great but it honestly exceeded my expectations.😮💨 I got a positive perspective shift on bisexuality & about owning my authentic self unapologetically...im beyond satisfied!! 😇
I love bisexual/pansexual men because they’re more open minded and adventurous. I am also pansexual. It’s more about the persons energy than what they have between their legs. I love masculine energy in men/women trans folxs. I love feminine energy but I love dominant feminine energy. Meow 😻
I appreciate this converation, as a 32M who just recently came to terms with his bisexuality and how I must be honest about it if I am ever going to have a long lasting healthy relationship, I feed off this energy. I am currently trying to find the self love within myself and not hold myself to any standards set upon me by external forces. Unfortunately I lost a good woman during my awakening but I pray that is all makes sense in the end. About a year into this self-love journey and things are starting to turn around for the better. Thank you for holding this space for us who are currently at the beginning of our journies.
he is really well spoken. im a bisexual woman and he’s clearly stated some points that I’ve struggled to communicate. i also think its interesting to see a bisexual male’s pov as opposed to bisexual women, especially feminine presenting bi women
This is my first time listening to these guys they are very cute and on 🔥😘😘 I wish I could have met the first guy in the red shirt he is so cute and on 🔥 They really know what they are talking about a Lot of those what they were talking about happen to me because am bisexual man so I will be looking for more videos about them 😘💋💞🥰👨❤️👨
Uh uh. I know exactly what Real Sex is. Lol. And I believe Obio and I are the same age. Maybe he’s a year younger. Welp! I was grown as hell and I was super interested in sex from young.
Both gentlemen are very intelligent. I always believed there was no such thing as a bisexual man. I thought people claiming this just wanted a more comfortable life, without dealing with the fact they are gay. So, you guys did teach me different. Now, I am a total gay man but will respect someone who says they are bi.
In my country South Africa 🇿🇦 Bisexuals are very much of a confusion. Being bisexual is not a bad thing, however when u fall in love with either man/woman, just set the record straight and make your potential partner understand how u’ll live your life while you’re in a relationship with him/her. Be mature about it and don’t waste no ones time!
P, your statement is very generalizing. Also... regardless of sexuality, one should disclose what kind of relationship they want or how they'll behave upfront. I'm SAn too by the way 😉
@@nonzengluphoni9289 that’s exactly what I’m all about, generalizing! As a strictly gay guy, bisexuality leaves me with a lot of questions and uncertainty, also I’m not well informed about it, hence I’m saying that, bisexual ppl need to make themselves clear to their potential partners who don’t understand bisexuality like me, and educate them about how they’re going to live their lives and behave while they’re involved with u.
How is it possible that these 2 black men are sooo...beautiful and scrumptious 😋?? I wish I could have met them back in my younger days. I am involved with a Latino/white, handsome and a great man, now. We've been together for over 5 years. He's my everything. He worships me and I him. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The part that I don’t understand is you cutting your gay friends off to ““ start a new life that’s really cruel and cold blooded these are the people that have probably been there with you from the beginning from the start they know all your secrets but yet you still cut them off that part I don’t understand you know I don’t judge anybody how they live their lives DL bisexual whatever that’s your business that’s something that you have to deal with but to actually cut your friends off whether they’re gay or straight I just don’t get the cutting the friendship part
My understanding is that this was in the earlier stages of his life.... trying to navigate what his orientation was under the lens of what the world expected him to be as a straight-presenting man. He just thought it was best for him at the time. We really can't be too harsh to judge one when we really can't fathom the options they were given at the time to choose from. I know that is certainly not the case now because of his now radical acceptance.
269th...somehow I found this vid.....appeciated it...I learned a few things myself ..tho im older and have been out since 81' at 21 .....these 2 gentleman are not only handsome ..they seem to be Good People / with empathy and critcal thinking skills....thanks for sharin'...Peace
So first off, 🤣🤣 2:34 You're rude cause, not the praise break music. 0:59 I feel like that's where it starts. To be outted in school. Its hard to come out when you are dealing with the weight of a religious family that is ONLY RELIGIOUS when it comes to certain things. You spend your entirely life bottling up these feelings because you hearing the family and friends taking jabs at the LGBTQ+ community for no reason and comments like "If my child was....", hit like a brick and terrify you. NOW you have to deal with asshole peers, who feels like its their business to know what your sexuality is. I never understood why it mattered and how they didn't see it as bullying; how they didn't see the harm in a whole class of 20 people coming at you at one time trying to make you spill your guts. The worst part of it was.......The individuals I thought would defend and protect me, gay men and woman the like, were helping do the damage, in addition to being gaslit when I expressed how I was uncomfortable with the conversation or didn't fuck with the people bullying me so they should stop. Already feeling trapped and afraid at home, now I had to be exhausted of people at school and in public. Only now have I come out recently to friends and coworkers. My family still proven that they cannot handle the truth
I really enjoyed this video one thing though it is easy when you are beautiful and handsome and good looking at both you young men. If you are not as attractive that could be a little bit more difficult or you don't fit in with the normal looks of society whether that's your a little overweight or you suffer from some physical conditions is a little bit more difficult to navigate through such a way. I think I mentioned before that I have a genetic condition called NF1, where I have moles on my chest back and part of my jawline. Being comfortable with oneself is one thing but being with someone who comfortable with themselves so they can be comfortable with you is a totally different thing. I've dated women and I've dated men but staying you comfortable with one thing and then later on finding out that you can't it's really difficult.
You know what so funny and even a lil cute is l've be watching your videos for a while now and l can always tell when you are "genuinely " attracted to one of your guest , there havent been many but.........some one defintely had some blood flow at the end of this session LOL!!!!
I’m a gay guy and I prefer dating and sleeping with bi men. Bi guys are more open minded and honestly better in bed too. I’m also willing to share them with women. Bi guys, I love you. You have my support!
I think bisexual white/Latin men are more prevalent and accepted but for some reason it’s scrutinized in black men. People constantly police black mens behavior.
David Bowie was married to Iman for years
And it was never a huge topic. So many other rock stars as well but let and R&b singer or rapper say he is bisexual and watch the fall out.
Black men are fetishized with such hyper masculinity and sexuality that any degree of “softness” to that image is seen as a threat or distasteful. And that extends right down the spectrum you have to be all the way fem or completely hetero. So a bisexual male resting in the middle or towards the hetero Side causes major disruption in the phycology of others.
All that shit goes back to the history of slavery and how the bodies of black man were reduces down to problematic ideas coming from the white psyche. Black men were dehumanized in a way that many of us can't even begin to imagine. I've started to believe that what happened during chattel slavery its that the Black male body was placed into the same position that White people's proto-indo European ancestors once placed bovine's/horses.........Black men were to be either a Beast of Burden that's used to work the soil to produce crops & the physical embodiment of raw sexual masculine energy; a living phallic symbol.
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I thinks it's harder to TRULY identify as Bi, because I think you don't have the community of support as the other "letters". Just my opinion.
Very good points
Yea and that is entirely sad and close minded of the black community
the church music is so foul 💀
Not your video being notified to me right under this one 😭😂
I thought I was the only one 💀💀💀💀💀
What a handsome but overall well spoken man. The way he expressed himself is so clear and powerful.
i never knew...the way he dumbs himself down for TS Madison...i would have never known how articulate this man is...definitely motivational speaker vibes
Ditto! I am mesmerized on how clearly expressive this man is❤
In all honesty as a feminine gay man I prefer bisexual man. In my experience they were less critical of my femininity. In fact many of them really enjoyed that side of me
Whew 🫶🏾 this right here
Exactly. I'm a bisexual woman with a masculine presenting lesbian girlfriend and I really enjoy her androgyny. And she prefers bisexual women for that reason.
Fr i love attracting bisexuals
I can agree with that. My boyfriend is bisexual and he loves both my masculine and feminine side. I've pretty much dated bisexual guys... It's like I naturally attract them. They say I give the best of both worlds. I was like oh ok lol
I know what you mean and you're absolutely right lol I didn't even peep that Brazen lol
This guy was very intelligent and very articulate about his bisexuality. I loved it. As a gay man who has, for a very long time been sceptical of bisexual people, especially men, I am starting to appreciate these conversations so I can better understand bisexual people in general. 👌
This 👆🏿
Everytime that shout music played I laughed.
and i hollered
I saw this comment before starting the video so I was forewarned and it is still TAKING ME OUT, you hear me?!?!?!?!? Lol
I cackled so bad
Listen when I tell you I have laughed at this on today!
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"Real Sex" shout out to the kids who snuck and watched it and MTV's Undressed. If you know...you know. And don't forget Taxicab confessions!
Listen!!! I'm east coast. Real Sex was every Thursday at 11pm on HBO. And I loved MTV'S Undressed. Taxicab Confessions and Hookers at The Point!
What a time to grow up in!
what shows are yall talking about? lol. Never heard of them.
Listen, those shows taught me so much about sex and sexuality. Just honest about sex.
@@cincereqoutes8844 you're on TH-cam look them up. May not interest you because they are dated but during that time it was needed.
@@thoughtsandwords3029 lol i remember hookers on point lol that was when reality tv was real. There was no clout in being on the show it was just real people telling real
Stories
There are a lot of us Women who are absolutely attracted to bisexual Men. And [at least amongst my girlfriends] we go hard for y’all in social settings and conversations. Trust.
Gay men are diffrent lol there gay for a reason bi is for women and a men
@@mJ-sm4ss so she ain't got the right to choose?
@@mJ-sm4ss shut up! Bisexual ppl are not in competition with gay men and women. Miss us with your jealous bs.
@@davyhoward7642 people on the internet are bored lol with no life
Cannot tell you how many times I've had to defend black men's bisexuality. There are women who just want a good man that treats us right and has emotional intellect. His sexual orientation is the last thing on our minds lol
When you knew they were fine… then, they turned out to be smart, too 😍😍😍
What David said at the end is so important for self-realization. Come out to yourself and accept yourself and fully love yourself. Once you get to that point, you wouldn't really be coming out to anyone else. It would be more like inviting others in to see who you are.
It may take a while to get through that introspective phase, but everything becomes a lot more clear once you do.
A HETEROSEXUAL WOMAN WHO LIKES BISEXUAL MEN. I love that. I think she finds herself attracted to a kind of man who would be the kind of man who lives in a kindness and a kind of skin that would live his life bisexually. THIS IS AN EXQUISITE CONVERSATION. Evolution ALL AROUND!
For the ignorant people in the comments, being bisexual for a man is no different than a women being bisexual, just like a women can have sex and experiment with women then go fall in love with a man and have a loyal relationship family and life or vice versa, a man can do the same too, there's no need to say make sure you're honest about your "lifestyle" , it's not a life style, it's simply something that turns you on or you are open to if you are NOT already in love and in a happy relationship ... And let's be clear, ANY and everybody can cheat, cheating is not only secluded towards one gender or one class of people. And there's nothing to be confused about, it's simple, if you are bisexual you have the ability and the natural hormonal make up to be sexually turned on by BOTH genders, why do people make it so much more complicated when it's on the topic of men being bi-sexual, they just start making up and assuming sh*t, and it's annoying AF, it's like their trying to play stupid and force double standards.
I hear what you are saying. In my experience men who say they are bisexual want to date both the girl & I at the same time. ALL the time. I am yet to meet a guy, in real life, who does what you are describing.
@@sizakunene3056 I hear you too But in MY experience that wasn't always the case, there are plenty faithful men who can openly admit they find both genders attractive, finding something attractive doesn't automatically equal to cheating, and doesn't mean the women has to compete with other men either, cause there is no competition or thought in mind to compare the two, it's two different worlds of attractiveness and if you are truly committed and loyal to a person regardless, you are not gonna cheat, no matter what your sexuality is..... and when I originally made my comment I was mainly focused on letting ignorant people in the comments know that there "is" a such thing as men being sexually attracted to women and men BOTH and they should be called properly by what they are which is bisexual and some are even pansexual, meaning they are just attracted to people in general...... and also men are notorious for cheating regardless, but NOT every man is like that, just like not every women is faithful, there are plenty lustful women too who will sleep with other women, other men and other people's man!😄 Even if they are already in a relationship, I've seen it toooo many times, this is a big world, we have to look at it as a whole and not just what we see in our narrowly scoped lives... The TRUTH is the entire picture and ALLL the details of it..... Also both bisexual men and women have been around since forever, it's proven in history, and there are bisexual and gay animals in the animal kingdom, so I feel like whatever naturally occurs without effort is NORMAL to me and people should see that as common sense, and of course being straight is normal as well and important for creating life, (cause I know people will bring that up too)😄, ANY sexuality on the spectrum is normal.... it's just double standards, religion and dogmatic people in society try really hard to convince people otherwise ... And I don't condone cheating❌, if you love someone, be with them and only them and both parties should be able to be real about what they find attractive without the double standards, and my mind will NEVER change on that...... I know I mentioned things that you personally did not say, but I just wanted to address EVERYTHING allll in one to make it CLEAR how I feel about it ALLL.
@@realn.w.a554 I hear everything that you are saying. You are very fortunate to have met such bisexual men & women in real life. I wish I could. I would literally move to that country. 😄 Where I live, generally, & I am grossly over generalizing here, most people are promiscuous. Interestingly, I don't necessarily believe in imposing monogamy. I understand that monogamy doesn't come naturally to everyone either. I strongly believe in 'live and let live', but be honest & upfront about it. I like the idea of 1 person loving me & me loving that 1 person back, but what are we to do when people want to love more than 1 person at the same time. 🤷♂️ But I wouldn't say that monogamy is how things 'should' be, as you have said, but I understand that this is just your personal belief & you are not saying that's how it must be for everyone.
@@sizakunene3056 You still don't get it😄, one of the few things that gave it away was you saying it's "my" belief at the end of your comment, rather than looking at the factual & practical things I laid out verbosely in detail lol....but what we CAN agree on is we allll have our own experience and everybody is unique in the way we grasp the truth and how sexuality works, nobody's wrong, because we can only understand what we can, or sometimes only what we want to understand, thanks for commenting your perspective, I enjoy these kinds of topics💯
@@realn.w.a554 what don't I get? I agree with everything you've said. 🙃
One of my favorite videos I've seen this entire year. Such an important conversation, and I really, really, really hope it can reach the youth in the Black community - gay or straight - man or woman or any other gender. Thanks Obio.
I'm Bisexual - and I had to hide it around my gay friends. I would get bash, or someone would try to convince me that I was Gay. You would hear words like your Gay, just admit it ex. I felt boxed-in my early 20s. I remember this one moment when someone Identified me as a trade or DL - which wasn’t the case, it was funny how they did that. I also remember someone saying to me that I thought I was lying to myself, and to add on to it - Since I don't use gay langos, this guy had a problem with it - he said I was gay, and it's part of the culture, stop trying not to fit. I had to laugh and when I told him I was BI he started to act different. This was years ago - I'm in my 30s now, hopefully things have change. It's almost like the LBT+ acronyms doesn't matter - but the G. That's why I never really did cared about identifying myself growing up - and I am grateful I did not, because if I did Lord knows my mental state would of killed me.
@Philly5641 I completely sympathize with you brother. Now, i have no problem identifying myself as a man who is sexually attracted to and who sex with men. "Gay" if that is what you want to call it. But as a slightly older brother, i really really am finding it difficult to identify with and support TODAY'S whole LgbTQ movement. It just seems like they are so into extremes and indentity politics and pronouns. But when you actually get around them and the cameras and phones are off, the connectedness and intimacy is absent. I don't care how much so called freedom and opennes there is now, i felt more connected to the community back in the 90s and early 2000s. We were more social and you felt the connectedness.
You get my full support baby. You’re hot too btw. Xoxo
Respectful sir, your sexual preference is your business and yours alone. Those "friends" that made you feel like you had to hide whatever you identity as aren't your true friends. Kudos to you for being proud of who you are, and if others cannot understand where you are coming from. That's thier lose not yours. Be safe, and stay strong.✌🏿
@@dabigd1860 At times, what we older people see as political correctness is just respect. We were used to accepting how others chose to identify us and often just being disrespected without speaking up for ourselves. There absolutely was more of a community in the past, when you were forced to rely on each other. Same with the Black community as a whole.
Bi is a mind set / mix up/ get correct you have the sprit of satan /
I truly appreciated hearing and watching this informative exchange presented by these two very educated, erudite and gorgeous BROTHERS. I hope many young Black males... and other males as well...who are in pursuit of understanding their sexual orientation and desire, WATCH THIS VIDEO. PLEASE!
I can’t thank you enough for the vid, I just barely see any talks about bisexuality and it was so nice and refreshing to hear from another persons experience😭. I feel the constant pull of two agendas but this video has helped me realise that it’s all about being you and not having to abide by other peoples expectations. Again,Thanks for the vid❤️
This was very very good. As a bisexual 38 year old male who recently came out openly with my sexuality i totally agree with what was said. I have had relationships with both men and women and being honest is the best policy. I don't double dip if im dating one i wont mess around with the other. I tell people that im just a natural lover of people. I like what i like and thats it.
I totally agree what you are saying I also a bisexual man I also went with men and women and am farther I come out at seventeen to my family at first they take it so well but my family come to turn with it They told me will always love for who I am I know it was hard for you to come Tj but your family still love ❤️ you 😚❤️💋
I wish all bisexuals were like you, cause as I’ve said in another reply above, bisexuals can be so confusing, I think they should take it upon themselves to clear up our minds, more especially to their partners! But for me personally, I really doubt that I would be in a serious relationship with a bisexual guy, I don’t think that I’m well informed about bisexuality yet, hence I prefer not to try anything with them!
I love this conversation. So nice to see black men intelligent and experienced discussing sexual issues....
This video gets a 10/10! 👍👍Not only are these beautiful chocolate men a treat to look at, but more importantly they are intelligent too. This was a great, enlightening conversation!! 👏🏽👏🏽
I haven’t watched this yet but thank you for providing a space for black bisexual men like myself 💗💜💙, as well as other bi+ folx
As a Bi man coming more into my bisexuality in my 30's, I appreciate and resonate with this perspective so heavy! I came out as gay in my early 20's and later realized I just accepted a program of others' perspective of me and internalized it, feeling trapped before realizing this spectrum of our sexuality that allows me the freedom to be less defined and limited.
I also feel heavy pressure around that topic of dealing with Women who may harbor some biphobia or resentments. So it's been a challenge connecting with alot of women at this time.
Bi men like you perpetuate conversion rhetoric and directly harm gay men
Thanks for sharing. As a hetero woman I've been attracted to men I "perceived" as bisexual but never even considered acting upon it. I don't think for me it's tied to resentment as much as it is already overwhelming being a black woman with restrictive beauty standards. I never liked dating because feeling compared to other women, or being objectified, led to feelings of inadequacy. Thus in my mind dealing with a bisexual man would bring double the pressure
I love bisexual men, but it's hard to find them for some strange reason. Most bi men on the down low and even if they know you accept it they still want to pretend to be straight around women. It's frustrating because I don't like straight men I really just want a bi man to date. I live In Atlanta, I dont think I want these bi men here anyway.
What is it about bi men you like ?
I'm bi but I'm in Miami lol
@@Spider7xx The ones I have met meet certain requirements I look for in a man, neat clean cut, smell good, like the metrosexuals. I am a certain way and I expect my man to be a certain way as well, but many straight men don't be caring and like to look rough...a lot of women like that rough look but not me
I find myself to be more sexually compatible with them. I feel sexually free without feeling like a weirdo.
I have an ass fetish...can't really have an ass fetish with a straight man.
I like the dual nature. I love a masculine man that's in touch with his feminine side. I find it soooo sexy, and I am able to connect with them more.
I love gay porn ....I prefer it. I am like a bisexual man in a woman's body 🤷🏽♀️
@@NileshR12 one state away lol
Im a bisexual woman, and i PREFER bisexual men, i think
Society needs more of these talks with black men! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 so healthy and liberating
Loved this conversation. "Authenticity is going to bring you the outcome."
Wow!!! I'd love to interview this man!! I'm starting a series interviewing bisexual black men 🌈🌞
where can we watch it? And thank you for the representation 💖💜💙
Not even into 4 minutes of watching this video and laughing so hard every time David says "church".
@aria mason to bad for your god, my God is laughing along with me. Blessings ✌
Very intelligent conversation. Beauty and Brains. They looked so damn good WTF. Always have loved David. Great job Obio. QUESTION: Could you introduce your guest or at least put their names or profile name somewhere. I typically watch on my smart TV so I don't usually see the description. Thanks!
Great question because loved the conversation and wanted to see more from both individuals but there was no description
Banger video and I can’t be the only one feeling a bit of chemistry 👀
I'm a bisexual brown guy. I'm Indian-American so I'm glad to be able to watch something like this. I'm often worried about how I any women I date or hook up with woul react to me telling me them that I'm bi even though I most women are accepting of that & given that many women are also bisexual nowadays
For me the trepidation is tied to beauty standards and constantly feeling compared to other women, so adding another gender in my mind would contribute to those pressures
This was an amazing conversation. I could even see some similarities in how the gay community views verse men like how people view bisexual men when it’s comes to dating history. Maybe that could be a conversation to be explored on the show? Can’t wait to see what we get next week.
he's very articulate about it. I've known many bi guys & it takes them along time to feel OK with it. There is always this understandable secrecy around their sexuality because people want to put you in a box. On top of it, he's a super hot man, surely both men & women approach him in droves He's an incredible guy. More power to you
Appreciate folks being able to live their truths. Can I just mention how fine both of these brothers are???
The church part though 😂😂😂
That praise break pause has me weak.
Damn he brought the church into it to get himself to ultimately feel more comfortable even telling her just to lighten up the load. God said nope that’s not what I was telling you to do. The open and upfront a guy is the more I’m attracted to him. Don’t tell me stuff just ‘cause you think it’s what I want to hear NO what do I NEED to know about you to so we’re not building off a lie.
I really needed to see this today! I just had a conversation with a friend about how I identify and it’s changing but I’m still navigating what that means and this video really helped!!✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽 Always great and helpful content!!
I am shook... Obio got kvngdavid to come through! Really great conversation, I enjoyed this.
Too much fineness in this video whoaaaa!!! 🍫
I just subscribed , I haven't felt so comfortable like this watching men like me , talk about topics I wish were talked about more
Honesty is most important, responsible and respectful in terms of dealing with blk women. Give them the opportunity to walk away given the high risk factor within blk community. Too many cases and statistics are harmed and increased by hiding your attraction.
hetero people have more hiv than bi and gay people
OMG.. That's David! I love him. He's on one of my favorite web series show triangle.
I love Triangle too!!!
Me too .i love him and the guy who played clint saunders
I love triangle. Is the show still going on
I used to watch year's ago.
@@wavveytae4181 the creator of the show is sick at the moment so they not filming right now
The dramatic church instrumentals took me out. 😂😂😂
Completely lol
the church music LMAOOO
That guy is hot as hell
Happy Pride Month 🌈🌈🌈 I’m a bi woman and I feel seen. I would love to get with a bisexual man.
bi 4 bi all the way
As me im à bisexuali man and im looking for à bixexual woman
@@OumarSidibe-pw7px are u on IG?
Man the Eyecandy on this screen!!! 🤭
Child!!!
Get in line, Dionne
I'm bisexual, most totally gay guys have always gave me the blues over this....
Another BANGER! Great job, Bro! I identify with the topic a great deal - even knowing what "Real Sex" is...LOL. Keep them coming. Your impact is making waves!
The church music outta nowhere is annoyinggg
I hate when bein bisexual people think we just wanna b wit just anybody....I'm just attracted to anybody tht is beautiful in the inside n out....I'm attracted to Beyonce n aj Rodriguez from pose but if I dated one of em I'm loyal to tht specific person especially choosing the one tht treat me right ...idk how thts so confusin...
its not. sorry for gays bi erasing. i dont know 1 bi friend thats not a beautiful human being.
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥🩷🩷🩷Bisexual men are very attractive
I can’t even focus y’all lol
It's the dilemma of "who do I look at first"? 😮💨
I think I seen him cooking with Madison. The church break had me rollin. 😹
I just came across ur page and immediately I gave a one minute listening ear to it I liked it, I’m from west Africa Nigeria precisely and fancy when y’all are out spoken about stuffs like this cause damn down here u better not try it cause it’s illegal so basically living under a shell is just so hard but watching and seeing videos like this kinda gives a high hope to the future and what it holds for us here, so yea thank you. And u just got a new subscriber 🔥🔥🌈🌈
this whole video jus indulged me on a lot, and it’s so awakening to finally see some examples & answers that someone like me needed🫶🏻🙌🏼
I'm very proud of David for clearing the air about his true identity as a bisexual man. What a great episode. As a proud gay man, it's time for all of us to be truthful about our truths of our sexualities and own it. Great job fellas. David is a cool guy.
Such an amazing perspective. Very well, spoken. Had I had those words 30 years ago, I would have saved a whole lot of time on my “bisexual” journey.
You look so fine to be in your fifties Andre! ❤️
Not done but already this is a great episode and conversation! Edit: After finishing there were so many gems in this episode. Thanks for having him on!
Glad you both came out of the closet. Being bi-sexual is your choice as long as you tell your female partner you are and not engage in secret undercover activities so she can make an informed decision. Some men are having both vagina and anal sex and spreading monkey pox and other diseases and the woman doesn't have a clue how she got it. Many woman who have sexual relationships with bi-sexual men and don't know it are putting themselves at unnecessary risks. Do your thing but act responsibly to protect yourself and others.
There's a man that I started dating but recently stopped. We became good friends but I know for a fact he is bisexual. I want to create a safe place for him to be able to talk to me about it. Should I say anything to him to open the door of conversation or should I just keep quiet?
Identifying as bisexual for some (not all), is a step towards accepting one's same sex attraction. Because of this some people have attacked anyone who identifies as bisexual. I say attacking someone who is not attacking you is more a commentary of one's own insecurity and on the low key a need to control and define someone else. I'm too busy defining, refining and re-finding myself to try and limit others. Love this conversation! This should be a mandatory watch for being HUMAN 101.
Hey Obio,this is my 1st introduction to ur channel & I actually enjoyed the structure of the conversation & how u allow the guests 2 really get their thoughts out while still asking the questions that I want answers to..This man is very articulate & honest man & I appreciated this interview.I am not a curious about my sexuality but I do want to learn about these topics in general to understand people from different perspectives..Peace & blessings to u & ur platforms & I am now a new subscriber ❤️👏🏾💯✌🏾
Come through matching colors. Y'all were definitely in the spirit.😂
this one hit home for me, thank you Obio for making these videos. You have no idea how much people they touch
I don't understand why so many people especially people who are bi-sexual or gay turn to the church for so called healing. It really means you have a low opinion of yourself in the first place and are convinced that your feeling are wrong and you want someone to take them away. NO wonder you relationship with the woman did not work, you had not learned to love yourself. Chrisitanity in the black community is so hypcritical as are many religions. If you cannot see that you were very short sighted and not a very intelligent person. I am sorry. it just irks me to constanly hearing about people like yourself turning to an institution that in many ways has not learned to accept you as a human being. What is that all about.
I was brought up in the church and to it’s defense .. as a gay man you have to know the difference in worshipping God and His reality and the institution. Arguments can be in full affect when it comes to the existence of God etc. I’m over that.. I know He’s real. The issue is the hateful sermons and misinterpreted passages of scriptures to demonize LGBTQ people. Gay people who are now non practicing also join in. There are lgbtq people who are serious about their faith. The church sings their songs and they are busy building up the congregants. They love themselves , but had to learn that your faith is personal journey and not based off of what someone else says. I don’t have to be accepted. I don’t go to worship for that. I go because I’m convinced that the God I worship is worth it and more
This was such an incredible and needed convo. David’s perspective resonated deeply. #bipride #bivisibility
This is beautiful. I'm semi- openly bisexual
He is soooo cute😍😍😍
Yesss👍🤣🤣🤣
I knew this was gonna be great but it honestly exceeded my expectations.😮💨 I got a positive perspective shift on bisexuality & about owning my authentic self unapologetically...im beyond satisfied!! 😇
I love bisexual/pansexual men because they’re more open minded and adventurous. I am also pansexual. It’s more about the persons energy than what they have between their legs. I love masculine energy in men/women trans folxs. I love feminine energy but I love dominant feminine energy. Meow 😻
I appreciate this converation, as a 32M who just recently came to terms with his bisexuality and how I must be honest about it if I am ever going to have a long lasting healthy relationship, I feed off this energy. I am currently trying to find the self love within myself and not hold myself to any standards set upon me by external forces. Unfortunately I lost a good woman during my awakening but I pray that is all makes sense in the end. About a year into this self-love journey and things are starting to turn around for the better. Thank you for holding this space for us who are currently at the beginning of our journies.
cute story ❤. i hope it turns out rewarding.
"Our authenticity has no place" in this world today. That part is real
he is really well spoken. im a bisexual woman and he’s clearly stated some points that I’ve struggled to communicate. i also think its interesting to see a bisexual male’s pov as opposed to bisexual women, especially feminine presenting bi women
This is my first time listening to these guys they are very cute and on 🔥😘😘 I wish I could have met the first guy in the red shirt he is so cute and on 🔥 They really know what they are talking about a Lot of those what they were talking about happen to me because am bisexual man so I will be looking for more videos about them 😘💋💞🥰👨❤️👨
I've always thought that bisexual is a safety zone for men and women who are unsure or uncomfortable with coming out.
Im bi female. I do like women more, but i am bj because i can be with a man also.
Dayuuuuum that is David his fine ass.....I love his persona and demeanor. He's definitely someone I would date
Uh uh. I know exactly what Real Sex is. Lol. And I believe Obio and I are the same age. Maybe he’s a year younger. Welp! I was grown as hell and I was super interested in sex from young.
Both gentlemen are very intelligent. I always believed there was no such thing as a bisexual man. I thought people claiming this just wanted a more comfortable life, without dealing with the fact they are gay. So, you guys did teach me different. Now, I am a total gay man but will respect someone who says they are bi.
SSHHEEESSSHHH!!! He didn’t have to drop that 💎 like that!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
In my country South Africa 🇿🇦
Bisexuals are very much of a confusion. Being bisexual is not a bad thing, however when u fall in love with either man/woman, just set the record straight and make your potential partner understand how u’ll live your life while you’re in a relationship with him/her. Be mature about it and don’t waste no ones time!
P, your statement is very generalizing. Also... regardless of sexuality, one should disclose what kind of relationship they want or how they'll behave upfront. I'm SAn too by the way 😉
@@nonzengluphoni9289 Exactly he sounds ignorant AF lol.... What he said, literally had no correlation with the topic
@@nonzengluphoni9289 that’s exactly what I’m all about, generalizing! As a strictly gay guy, bisexuality leaves me with a lot of questions and uncertainty, also I’m not well informed about it, hence I’m saying that, bisexual ppl need to make themselves clear to their potential partners who don’t understand bisexuality like me, and educate them about how they’re going to live their lives and behave while they’re involved with u.
biphobia ain't sexy.
Okay how have I never been in this space as a black gay man , this is wonderful that you’ve created this space 👌🏾
How is it possible that these 2 black men are sooo...beautiful and scrumptious 😋??
I wish I could have met them back in my younger days. I am involved with a Latino/white, handsome and a great man, now. We've been together for over 5 years. He's my everything. He worships me and I him. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The part that I don’t understand is you cutting your gay friends off to ““ start a new life that’s really cruel and cold blooded these are the people that have probably been there with you from the beginning from the start they know all your secrets but yet you still cut them off that part I don’t understand you know I don’t judge anybody how they live their lives DL bisexual whatever that’s your business that’s something that you have to deal with but to actually cut your friends off whether they’re gay or straight I just don’t get the cutting the friendship part
My understanding is that this was in the earlier stages of his life.... trying to navigate what his orientation was under the lens of what the world expected him to be as a straight-presenting man. He just thought it was best for him at the time. We really can't be too harsh to judge one when we really can't fathom the options they were given at the time to choose from. I know that is certainly not the case now because of his now radical acceptance.
THATS MY NEPHEW I TAUGHT HIM. LOL
This is too much beauty in one place. I can only watch one of y’all at a time. I can’t focus.
269th...somehow I found this vid.....appeciated it...I learned a few things myself ..tho im older and have been out since 81' at 21 .....these 2 gentleman are not only handsome ..they seem to be Good People / with empathy and critcal thinking skills....thanks for sharin'...Peace
Great conversation and most can't handle his honesty and truth.
And these FINE black men really keeping my attention on the videon
Bluh Bluh Bluh (wasted interview).....I bunch of LIES!!! David has NEVER been AUTHENTIC 😕
@KvngDavid remains my all time fav I’m obsessed 😍 just look at how fluent he is
So first off, 🤣🤣 2:34 You're rude cause, not the praise break music.
0:59 I feel like that's where it starts. To be outted in school. Its hard to come out when you are dealing with the weight of a religious family that is ONLY RELIGIOUS when it comes to certain things. You spend your entirely life bottling up these feelings because you hearing the family and friends taking jabs at the LGBTQ+ community for no reason and comments like "If my child was....", hit like a brick and terrify you. NOW you have to deal with asshole peers, who feels like its their business to know what your sexuality is. I never understood why it mattered and how they didn't see it as bullying; how they didn't see the harm in a whole class of 20 people coming at you at one time trying to make you spill your guts. The worst part of it was.......The individuals I thought would defend and protect me, gay men and woman the like, were helping do the damage, in addition to being gaslit when I expressed how I was uncomfortable with the conversation or didn't fuck with the people bullying me so they should stop. Already feeling trapped and afraid at home, now I had to be exhausted of people at school and in public.
Only now have I come out recently to friends and coworkers. My family still proven that they cannot handle the truth
Damn he's fine
You looking good babe
I’ve always admired him ❤️ he’s always been very special and passionate 🙏🏾
I like bein bi
I really enjoyed this video one thing though it is easy when you are beautiful and handsome and good looking at both you young men. If you are not as attractive that could be a little bit more difficult or you don't fit in with the normal looks of society whether that's your a little overweight or you suffer from some physical conditions is a little bit more difficult to navigate through such a way. I think I mentioned before that I have a genetic condition called NF1, where I have moles on my chest back and part of my jawline. Being comfortable with oneself is one thing but being with someone who comfortable with themselves so they can be comfortable with you is a totally different thing. I've dated women and I've dated men but staying you comfortable with one thing and then later on finding out that you can't it's really difficult.
You know what so funny and even a lil cute is l've be watching your videos for a while now and l can always tell when you are "genuinely " attracted to one of your guest , there havent been many but.........some one defintely had some blood flow at the end of this session LOL!!!!
I’m a gay guy and I prefer dating and sleeping with bi men. Bi guys are more open minded and honestly better in bed too. I’m also willing to share them with women. Bi guys, I love you. You have my support!
God call us to be with the opposite sex, not the same sex repent.
@@godhg9694 god isn’t real. Give up your Christian cult. It’s not only a false religion it’s also very evil.
@@godhg9694stop your colonialist bullshit
Those church music riffs had me on the floor! 🤣🤣
Its the church music for me🤣