How to CHANGE Your Relationship with a Specific Person

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  • @ShellyBullard
    @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

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  • @satua7979
    @satua7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Self love, self love, self love, self acceptance, self acceptance, self acceptance, trusting yourself, trusting yourself, trusting yourself... :)

  • @laurafrances1286
    @laurafrances1286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    When I decided to accept the words “I love you” as true from a man I had thought put me as a last priority for 20 years.... and I felt appreciated and loved ... he suddenly shifted into a completely different person who sent me gifts and called and expressed that he wants me in his life forever. He had never done any of that because I was making him put me last by expecting it. Seriously amazing.

    • @laurafrances1286
      @laurafrances1286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Also I shifted first. Consciously deciding to just go ahead and believe I was loved and feel loved with no looking for proof or needing proof. And of course the proof started pouring in as soon as I was living in that state.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing ✨

    • @hanahana-qv3dq
      @hanahana-qv3dq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do u feel loved and appreciated

  • @Knight-9q
    @Knight-9q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    As soon as I said to myself "They're starting to think about me more" I felt a warm sensation in my chest and a smile shot across my face. Feels very nice XD Thank you Shelly

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love it!

    • @harpremjeetkaur4956
      @harpremjeetkaur4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true! I make the same experience. It feels so comfortable natural and cosy to feel our SP here with us....the heart feels full...we feel happy

  • @geanniesanders4571
    @geanniesanders4571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thoughts without feeling do manifest but I feel the feeling makes the experience more vivid

  • @athomewithhollie
    @athomewithhollie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This just worked instantly for me... I fell into a codependent rut for a few days but when you said it I started thinking "He's starting to think about me" and he texted me...

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing!

    • @athomewithhollie
      @athomewithhollie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShellyBullard definitely.. more text messages and calls today...

  • @celticsoul2850
    @celticsoul2850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for your wisdom. I got my sp. There was a third person. I manifested a better fourth person for the third person. My sp and the third person were not a good match. I could have backed away and respected that if they were good for each other. Within two weeks of manifesting the better situation for the third person, that person decided to move away without my sp. My sp got a better job and is moving away. My SP asked me to be in a relationship with them, and move away with them. My task is remaining positive and manifesting our way of being together going forward until everything is finalized. Nothing changed until I got into the feeling state, offered a better outcome for someone else, and really practiced living in the end. I’m also putting most of my energy into myself and the things I need to do and improve on. There is hope if you do all of these things. It really works. Thank you ever so much Shelly. With your skills I know you’ll get everything you CHOOSE (not want) in life. Btw, I am eliminating the word want from my vocabulary. I actively use the word choose now. I don’t want anything, I choose it. I don’t want my specific person, I choose them. It’s a power statement to say choose instead of a lack statement saying want.

  • @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama
    @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Everything works out when you just relax and not force it. Thank you hun, great video as always.

  • @sabrinatoglia4729
    @sabrinatoglia4729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Shelley.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so much welcome!💖❤️💖

  • @richalfernandes7726
    @richalfernandes7726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    How Changing Your Self Will Change Your Relationship With Your Specific Person.
    - How do you change yourself so you can transform your relationship with your sp.
    - Is it possible to soely change yourself and change that relationship.?
    Answer is YES...!!
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    * Focusing on changing yourself should be your primary thing to do when trying to manifest a new relationship. With sp.
    * The way you feel is manifesting your relatiy.
    - Your dominant inner state.
    - Your dominant beliefs.
    - your state of being.
    * Is what creates what happens out there for you.
    * Inside of you, you have a set of summarys, thoughts and beliefs, feelings essentially you assume are true about your self and life.
    * this inner state is entriely responsible in creating your life.
    * To change yourself you got to change your
    Beliefs
    Thoughts
    Associations
    Expectations
    Assumptions.
    - about yourself Firstly.
    * This is primary because who you feel you are is going to be reflected from the outer reality or world.
    * Often when people try to manifest sp they are in classic dynamic where the sp is not yet come or back to you yet.
    *Because your predominately in a state of LACK.
    - They are not here.
    - They dont love me .
    - They are not coming in.
    * It could be anything variety of beliefs essential it will be they are not here with me.
    * When you feel into this its like
    - Alone
    - Left
    - Lacking
    - Panic
    - Rejected.
    * its all connected to the beliefs they are not here.
    * If you move in your life and you feel the same you continously impress got sub concious mind with the same
    * and it evokes a state inside of you that they are not here.
    * Only you can change these beliefs.
    -------------------------------------------
    * To do so you must start practicing a new story which is going to evoke a new feeling state.
    * Doing just a thought without feeling it wont change the outer reality.
    * So if you keep on telling yourself they are here and you don't feel within yourself then you may not get proper results.
    * You must actually have your
    Whole System-
    Thoughts, feelings, your state of being completly with you.
    A new story that will create a new reality.
    -------------------------------------------
    HOW TO DO THIS.
    * You must locate a little points of new story like bullet points that will lead you to your desire/ new story.
    * Example you want the result that your sp in into you. And you cant really get into the feelings cause of your difference in your outer reality.
    * Its okay start with baby steps like
    + They are starting to think about me more.
    + They are randomnly being drawn to me.
    + Life is creating a reality where they are just randomnly drawn to me.
    *Start with these little story line.
    * When you start with these new story tune in with it. It will evoke a feeling state that is very different from they left me, they dont want me, they are ignoring me.
    * This is very important your feeling state is manifesting your reality.
    * Move from the negative feeling state to much more positive in your inner reality..
    * Surely your story can inculde them but most importantly focus on your feelings.
    * Idealy your moving from negative to positive.
    * From baby steps to all the way to
    + They are into me.
    + They cant get enough of me.
    + They are in love with me.
    + We love being together.
    + Its amazing for us being together.
    * In this feeling state you feel entirely different even though differnt story You will evoke much more beautiful feelings. And ulimately change your state of being.
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    * You have to change you.
    * You have to change how you feel.
    * It has very little to do with them.
    * People can wrong while manifesting by entirely focusing on the other person. But its okay.
    * You can come to yourself and become a new person.
    This person is -
    Not left
    Is not rejected
    Is not abandoned.
    * IN FACT THIS PERSON IS
    - loved.
    - Desired.
    - Cared.
    - Wanted.
    * This who you are.when you become this you create this.
    * Just learn to take power in your inner world, thoughts, beliefs.
    * Practice you will get it easily. Dont worry❤
    eventually the state of being becomes natural😍
    THANK YOU SHELLY❤

    • @asolah
      @asolah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I thank you for your efforts ❤❤❤

    • @richalfernandes7726
      @richalfernandes7726 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aso Lah you’re welcome 😃

    • @lauramendez6080
      @lauramendez6080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You aré amazing, thanks for writting the video , my english isnt good, but I can understand in this form. Thanks

    • @namrata9277
      @namrata9277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wowwwww I appreciate your efforts 🌻👏

    • @richalfernandes7726
      @richalfernandes7726 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laura Mendez you’re welcome 😍

  • @arielharp1026
    @arielharp1026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love when she says solely thinking about it and not feeling it won’t bring them back and that’s very true. When I first got into this 3 years ago, I was such in a lack state and all I did was think about him and even saying me and him are in a relationship together but I felt so sad because I felt I didn’t have him. I did it every second of the day for a long time and still saw no results. I was misinformed that thinking was the only step I needed to take and I’m glad more videos are coming out about this because the information is able to be more clear and from different perspectives saying the same thing. Don’t give up and live your best life!! ❤️ thanks again Shelly!

  • @jennifermiller467
    @jennifermiller467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Manifested the exact situation I wanted and am in awe. Now have to work on maintaining the relationship. Hopefully adjusting my feelings away from the lack will be my new practice!

  • @RachelAnnie
    @RachelAnnie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Curiously my dominant feeling right now is taking care of myself, a calm neutrality. I almost don’t want to think about him specifically anymore. My primary concern is feeling love for myself since I awakened to realizing I wasn’t fully taking care of myself, that I was still prioritizing him (chasing). It has been eye opening. Perhaps that will bring him in but my state of being right now is all about me. ❤️

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing ✨

    • @katekate4390
      @katekate4390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is how i feel too! Plus i feel that everything will be alright, that he will come back...but the feeling you described is the dominant feeling i have as well

    • @EadsB7002
      @EadsB7002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i love this!! I am working on getting there!

    • @loveisreaal
      @loveisreaal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rachel Anne this is the key. Expect all the best ❣️

  • @Hdeep87
    @Hdeep87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Love it, the feeling state is very different...it feels like ease, joy, and peaceful.

  • @ra1475
    @ra1475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your videos have been fantastic this week😍

  • @astrid5039
    @astrid5039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please make more videos on healing a relationship :)

  • @theessentialsarah8871
    @theessentialsarah8871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "What you become, you create"...💖😊

  • @Gowrivation
    @Gowrivation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the outer world is a slave to the inner world

  • @arbanikh
    @arbanikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My SP is thinking about me all the time. Hehe ☺️ that’s so great. So in the end feeling is the key for everything. What you feel is what you get ❤️

  • @MadeleineTayloranne
    @MadeleineTayloranne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    YAY! I really want to be in a fully committed, monogamous relationship with my SP🥺, I hope this video will help me to clear out whatever is preventing me from having that. Thank you Shelly!

  • @tacobelle69
    @tacobelle69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I manifested him back and things have been great until I stopped feeling love for myself and doubting his intentions. Now he’s pulling away again. I need this video. Thank you

  • @jennatoth3903
    @jennatoth3903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The minute I started repeating some of the statements with feeling my SP started texting me !

  • @juditmonoki5216
    @juditmonoki5216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I manifested this video :) Thank you Shelly :)

  • @michellecrocco2588
    @michellecrocco2588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks for the reminder that I have the power!
    “A new personality = a new personal reality” - Dr Joe Dispenza 😊

  • @ramanchawla369
    @ramanchawla369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When u say "the way you feel" three times... U shake the soul👍❤️🧡💛

  • @relaxationpositivevibes2435
    @relaxationpositivevibes2435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another bomb blast... so much needed💃💃💃💃

  • @michaelmurray1716
    @michaelmurray1716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have opened up my inner self and have begun to embrace a positive feeling state as never experienced before with no effort..

  • @christinebrooks5258
    @christinebrooks5258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    could listen to you all day long

  • @harpremjeetkaur4956
    @harpremjeetkaur4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ohhh Shelly! This is so incredibly exiting... That means that life is easy!! If we shine, we project our light on others... That are actually only seemingly others.
    If I see myself as love and loved, there is no other possibility than to be loved.
    This is extremely touching and beautiful to me.
    This understanding is making our lives beautiful and leads to the end of our spiritual path. It is the direct path to what we truly are. Thank you sweetheart!!!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you enjoyed it 💙

  • @presentfuture7563
    @presentfuture7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So ready for this. I keep manifesting a cycle that goes something like:
    He: *spends time with me*
    We: *are happy and obviously still in love with each other*
    He: *sp.exe has crashed, end program*

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oy!

    • @CP-uv3yc
      @CP-uv3yc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am in a similar cycle too. Hot and cold. Spends time and and is loving. Program Crashed. And repeat.

    • @presentfuture7563
      @presentfuture7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thing is, like she says I KNOW I'M DOING THIS

    • @presentfuture7563
      @presentfuture7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Matter of fact my inner world has been in a state of resistance and opposition all week, just letting unwanted things happen left and right in various areas of life, like work...I've lost all sight of creating what happens, and it's affecting us.

    • @presentfuture7563
      @presentfuture7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Samara Why? Creating what happens is the real truth, isn't it...forgetting it is what leads to trouble. But if you mean I should drop telling even the resistance story then yes

  • @daniangel64
    @daniangel64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you, the hard part has been focusing on MY feelings, it's very true, I realized I was getting exhausted putting so much energy to change the outer (him) instead of focusing on my peace of mind and internal state.

  • @lovelylife4233
    @lovelylife4233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree ! “Feeling is the secret “. I believe that’s a Neville Goddard quote 🤔

  • @rainbowrach5994
    @rainbowrach5994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My specific person thinks about me all the time, he regrets how he handled the situation and how he took me for granted. This situation is good because now he is in love with me, more than ever before! He is missing me so much and cant get me off his mind ! ;)

  • @nurvit7216
    @nurvit7216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Liked the video even before watching it...That's the power of Shelly's video♥️✨

  • @jainikacheema9443
    @jainikacheema9443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I found you out on TH-cam day before yesterday and since then I have almost seen 30-40 videos of yours. I feel so great and I think after seeing those videos I am sure of how to create that inner world and even live with it. Sending you positive vibes!!!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you liked them💙💙

    • @nativeceltbirdog1527
      @nativeceltbirdog1527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did the same thing!!!

    • @jainikacheema9443
      @jainikacheema9443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nativeceltbirdog1527 I never felt so powerful and energetic before 😍 we as humans are capable of so much 😍

  • @serena0997
    @serena0997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've felt calm for the longest time I've ever done previously. I used to fluctuate every 2 weeks I have now held strong for nearly 4 weeks now and never felt better. I feel calm I know he's coming I can feel it stronger each day. I don't know if I have any morebeliefs holding it. I'm changing what I came up with so far. I'll update shortly!😇🤗😉❤

  • @maeganfernandez6689
    @maeganfernandez6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay!!! I just purchased 4 Course Bundle + How to be Claimed, Cherished, Wanted & Adored!!!! Looking forward to dig in!!!

  • @cherrylmao2234
    @cherrylmao2234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Create a new story with feeling state of my guy is soooooo into me and with me all the time. Thank you, this is wonderful, Shelly♥️♥️

  • @TheVikasas
    @TheVikasas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes. Yes. Yes. This is what I was looking for, Shelly. Attracting and changing the relationship with a specific person. Today's video is gonna be a blast and gonna be very informative. Relationship with that cute and lovely sp of ours is a given. Thank you,Shelly

  • @ruthcarlisle2663
    @ruthcarlisle2663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is what I am concentrating on now.
    I'm in a good place with my thoughts about my sp, I want to get to this state so that I'm so ready for everything and don't do what I did last time. Its kind of comforting knowing that I don't want to change my sp ( no hes not perfect, but he has not put any unwanted thoughts into my head)
    Let's all get the amazing relationships we are worthy of.
    Thank you @Shelly Bullard ❤❤❤❤

  • @davidmenefee9134
    @davidmenefee9134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It actually did feel different!! Thank you so much

  • @Lu.J16
    @Lu.J16 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazed by this video and amazed by your eyes. If you are wearing green they look green. But if you are wearing blue, they look blue!

  • @aretee3208
    @aretee3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely lol.. I feel a sense of peace & calm when I affirm "he's coming towards me", he cant get me off his mind, he's coming, he's here, he's only got eyes for me💕

  • @nancydrew7172
    @nancydrew7172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shelly Bullard ...... You are looking way too adorable in this green top of yours n eyes r appearing Emerald green ....love u Shelly .....May God bless you❤️❤️

  • @jaskanwarsingh7813
    @jaskanwarsingh7813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just amazed how you are able to produce so much beautiful content each day... Thankyou 🌸

  • @nikkipoo4906
    @nikkipoo4906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This feeling state is SO important! I have moments where I pop out of it, but then I just say one of your affirmations, and I pop right back in! As always, thank you for all that you do!

  • @novitadebbinasantoso7495
    @novitadebbinasantoso7495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Although u’ve made a bunch of videos with the same conclusion (which is inner work or inner being first),but i always love watching it over and over again as my daily reminder! Love you! 😘😘😘

  • @herolast1699
    @herolast1699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I definitely feel the difference between the lack and the wish fulfilled. Honestly I love this new feeling cause I already know she’s making her way back!!! Really needed this Shelly you’re amazing!!!

  • @nainjotkaur1042
    @nainjotkaur1042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video and I have myself experienced it how Changing myself has changed behavior of other person. Thanks Shelly for making this video

  • @pavelkokm
    @pavelkokm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely starts with us! We are loved, we are cherished, we are worth good things and treatment and for someone to love us unconditionally! Never ever ever alone! 💕🙏😊

  • @universegivemefaithintheun2574
    @universegivemefaithintheun2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FIRST thank you Shelly 💜🙏. I'll start with for me on my manifesting journey atm part of it it's my own self worth, not feeling good enough, not being ready in my financial state that is causing me to block him manifesting fully, it's ONE OF my triggers, amoung others that you mention in your video, that I'm working on changing the story about my self concept. It all comes down to my self concept 🤯. I'm in a friends apartment due to Coronavirus money circumstances and have felt not good enough for love because I'm not financially stable ATM. BUT I'm on my way back to work, getting my own place and getting back to my self. Still while doing my inner work that is triggering I'm not good enough to I AM good enough etc and it's manifesting all things and situations that help me feel good enough. BECAUSE I AM GOOD ENOUGH. So he'll come when I'm ready internally 🙂. ALSO SIDE NOTE! 😁 I'm ordering your self love and manifest money packages Shelly! CANT WAIT! So point is...I'm working on ALL my trigger points that make me feel not good enough and exactly what they are. I didn't even know what some of them WERE until I did this internal work so I can rewrite the story. Inner work of self concept on ME and THEN....it will just naturally happen that he will come to me when I change my own self concept, it's soon. I'm on a scale of 1 to 10 on a good 7.5 in realizing everything on the awakening journey as you call it. I've been on your style of manifesting journey for about 3 months and it's the best thing I've ever done. I will tell you something though. I 100 PERCENT manifested the dissapearing of someone's cancer just ....going away in the last 2 months. That person is my SP btw. The doctors gave him 5 years to live 2 years ago w an inoperable tumor and I said NO. At the time I found out of course I was devastated and believed the reality the doctors gave him. So fast foward I came across your channel 2 months ago..... I did the work of living in the end of picturing him healthy, doing all the fun things he loves to do and seeing him grow old on a consistent basis. I BELIEVED it that he was going to be ok when no one did because I CHOOSE my own reality. What I believe is real is happening IS happening OUT THERE in REALITY. So I chose to see him live a healthy long life and I pictured him coming to me in excitement with " I don't have cancer" and the feeling and the scene like a movie in my reality, the ultimate imagine act w feeling it and KNOWING that it's true that's he's ok. . 2 months of living in the end ( after almost 2 years of his diagnosis) his cancer tumor is just....gone. Doctors can't explain of course but I know the truth🙂. If I can manifest cancer out of someone's existence.....holy hell I can MANIFEST ... ANYTHING 🤯. Im damn amazing! Lol. THANK YOU SHELLY. YOUR CHANNEL QUITE LITERALLY SAVED SOMEONES LIFE. AND I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO THANK YOU EXCEPT TO SAY THAT YOU ARE TRULY LOVED BY ME. THANK YOU.

  • @jessicabarclay8237
    @jessicabarclay8237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I look forward to your videos everyday. They really keep me going at the moment 💫

  • @loveisfreedom777
    @loveisfreedom777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just bought you "Programm you Subconcious mind to manifest SP" course :))))
    I am soooo curious and have the feeling it is exactly what I need to work with. Thank you, Shelly. You are amazing.

  • @iang3lz
    @iang3lz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love this!! self concept is the key!! 💕

  • @sharonthomas865
    @sharonthomas865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hi Shelly, I know this Video is going to be great, Perfect Timing, Have a Very Lovely and Peaceful Afternoon, Thank You Shelly 🌹❤👋😊👍👍

  • @julzradiance
    @julzradiance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I agree but it can be challenging to stay in the feeling state of they're into me... But I like that you add the they are getting ready to... That is helpful. Thanks!

  • @jennyfferggonzalez8712
    @jennyfferggonzalez8712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shelly thanks for this video.
    I know that my specific person is into my life. I'm so happy because he is mine.

  • @thegeneralrock86547
    @thegeneralrock86547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    *sigh* oh Shelly, you are spoiling us. 😄 💜

  • @AlphaRed28
    @AlphaRed28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing. I already knew the power of feeling, but I love the way you’ve explained it.

  • @riyabatra8012
    @riyabatra8012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    watching your videos always makes me so happy!!! 😊

  • @girlLives___
    @girlLives___ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another fabulous video 🌈🥀

  • @DianeD
    @DianeD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You bring up so many great points here. It makes perfect sense. Here's what I don't understand -- why would you focus on a specific SP -- after all, a person showing up in a certain way is, in a way, a past manifestation (not to say that it's not malleable -- because yes, you could change your concept of and belief about the other). So rather than focus on changing that, why not simply manifest a new person? I might just be projecting here, because that's what I've been doing. Rather than focus on changing the man I was with/changing my concept of him, I focused on how I wanted to feel in relationship and how I wanted to feel about the man and our relationship. That just didn't feel in alignment with the reality of the guy I was with. For me, it seemed like I was forcing a round peg into a square hole when I could just create a whole new square peg that fit perfectly. Does that make sense? Am I missing something?

    • @DianeD
      @DianeD 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Xxryztal Totally agree! We can create whoever we want -- no limits. Why settle?

  • @kelz726s9
    @kelz726s9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been working on loving my self and developing myself spiritually

  • @tasmistry2809
    @tasmistry2809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Shelly I watch your videos everyday as it helps me so much ❤️ thank you xx

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing, so glad they help!💙

  • @tombates7755
    @tombates7755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Shelly! I ❤️ learning through your videos. Happy to see you every single time.

  • @alfarisegail4323
    @alfarisegail4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Self image is the key to powerful manifestation.
    I like your talk and your approach.
    Thanks a lot, my mentor.
    💝💝💝

  • @artisticmadness8717
    @artisticmadness8717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This calmed me today. Great video :)

  • @IpoPharrMusic
    @IpoPharrMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fleeting thoughts manifest all the time and they do not require a feeling state. I find it’s about your resistance and your beliefs. You can program your subconscious mind to believe anything you think, if you think about it enough so a mental diet does create belief and can help you to manifest just as well as a feeling state. This is what I’ve come to find while testing manifesting for myself.

  • @growinbliss9549
    @growinbliss9549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Shelly. I love your every videos. They have helped me understand we attract what we are.

  • @atrayeighosh4
    @atrayeighosh4 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly, this makes soo much sense! Change your mentality about yourself and you will get all that you desire.

  • @deepikabali9199
    @deepikabali9199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I totally agree more with you Shelly, recently I started looking for good things with my SP and I used to get a sixth sense intuition kind of feeling whenever he would think about me, and trust me I now get the same vibes, I think he's soon gonna propose me again this year in monsoons.❤️❤️🙈🙈

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing!

    • @deepikabali9199
      @deepikabali9199 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShellyBullard its all because of the belief you gave through your positive vibes in videos. thanks to you tooooooooo

  • @ardiluna1
    @ardiluna1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE YOUR VIDEOS YOU'RE AMAZING! 🤞 I'm a WINNER! I manifested your 3 ebooks! I am in a loving and amazing relationship!

  • @Th3Tripl3Godd3ss
    @Th3Tripl3Godd3ss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has been the challenge for me. I realized that if I do umbrella beliefs instead of directly on my man, is easier for me to shift.
    Because I feel resistance still when recreating or redirecting my perception of him, but as I continue to install the umbrella belief with the feeling within, the resistance on my specific person fades.
    Much love to each one of you, big hug and may all create the relationship that they wish in their hearts ❤️
    Thank you lovely Shelly🌷

  • @Amy-mb5vj
    @Amy-mb5vj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is everything right here. Thank you.

  • @mydogmarleyandme.4325
    @mydogmarleyandme.4325 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whatever you think about yourself, others and life. You are right! Mindset matters.

  • @Agiri2811
    @Agiri2811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Immediately starts to feel amazing after watching your videos Shelly! ♥️

  • @irislove962
    @irislove962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love everything about you. You inspire me 🧡 Thank you for these life changing videos

  • @julinesb-t8208
    @julinesb-t8208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are fantastic, Shelly 💕🙏

  • @blessingalways92
    @blessingalways92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessss. I can feel the change. Hypothetically. But yes. Kind of amazing feeling in my own universe 😇

  • @GigiColette
    @GigiColette 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a fascinating idea!

  • @DFP79
    @DFP79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh, I'm so excited for this. I was searching for info on this exact topic this morning!!😊 Thank you!!

  • @jennyquezada9644
    @jennyquezada9644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the way your channel is going...new content.

  • @fahimehmoslehi5332
    @fahimehmoslehi5332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Shell you are chang me as person. I feel more powerful and confident with my specific person or without him. I am more really and more happy. Thank you for all those video👏👏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤

  • @coolpriyanka1667
    @coolpriyanka1667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think firstly we need to focus and work on our own beliefs and expectations.What we think and feel will reflect back to us.Feeling good about specific person is the secret to change relationship.Outside world never affect us but it's our own inner world that affects.So it's important to work on us first.Thoughts without feeling is nothing.feel feel n feel good about anything that you want.Thats it.Everthing is taken care of.😊😊.Thank you Shelly 💙

  • @shakirafilmsbabati3032
    @shakirafilmsbabati3032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another perfect content I felt like I was moving forward in those past few days I took a few steps back

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m glad you liked it🌸✨

  • @lilibeth8500
    @lilibeth8500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Our beliefs are manifesting our reality through our feelings. Behind a feeling there is a thought - belief. Whenever i see something from a different perspective, meaning i am telling another story, my feelings about the situation change. Different feelings match with a different state of being and different reality.
    Thank you Shelly, always a pleasure to watch your videos!🍀💟

  • @littlestarblue
    @littlestarblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this! ⭐️🙌🏻

  • @BomChelle0617
    @BomChelle0617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes i do feel a difference when i say he is starting to think about me more. thank you!

  • @natalieahadji7839
    @natalieahadji7839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so much needed to hear this thanks Shelly :)

  • @dedemomo4193
    @dedemomo4193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Practice to become natural state of being, love ya Shelly 💚😽

  • @Grace-lm8hx
    @Grace-lm8hx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    changing the concept of self is so so important!! totally agree

  • @gregbond8030
    @gregbond8030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another tremendous video,really resonates with me... thank you for your time and your wisdom x

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it resonated with you✨

  • @Jade-bh1eh
    @Jade-bh1eh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another great video! Thank you!

    • @joonbhuyan563
      @joonbhuyan563 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw 1111 in your name..woww❤

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome ✨

  • @latinaskinpro
    @latinaskinpro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for all your great knowledge love your energy!🥰

  • @joycecerrone8361
    @joycecerrone8361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Each day be a better version of yourself!

  • @juhiyadav920
    @juhiyadav920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love...just love your content!!! 😘😘❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jazlunaxo
    @Jazlunaxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always post the best videos!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoy them✨🌸

  • @emic8666
    @emic8666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Shelly! This is my topic! 🥰🥰🥰 I am so grateful

  • @HappyMindAffirmations
    @HappyMindAffirmations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What are great video! Gives me so much hope! Thank you ❤

  • @erikareidingerova5755
    @erikareidingerova5755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You Shelly for another amazing video. You are a true inspiration for me 😃😘